Breaking Modern Loneliness: Dr. Vivek Murthy [Episode 2]

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  • Опубліковано 12 чер 2024
  • welcome to breaking modern loneliness, an episodic podcast where each episode is a new open forum discussion on all things human relationships, mental health, and technology. we start with a specific topic, but usually break into whatever space feels natural. hosted by me, ari leff, who is singer/songwriter/producer lauv, and joined by various guests, friends, and professionals. we hope you enjoy each conversation as much as we enjoyed having them :)
    this episode, i'm honored to be joined by Dr. Vivek Murthy. Dr. Vivek H. Murthy served as the 19th Surgeon General of the United States appointed by President Barack Obama. As the Vice Admiral of the US Public Health Service Commissioned Corps, he commanded a uniformed service of 6,600 public health officers globally. During his tenure, Dr. Murthy launched the TurnTheTide campaign, catalyzing a movement among health professionals to address the nation’s opioid crisis. He also issued the first Surgeon General’s Report on Alcohol, Drugs, and Health, calling for expanded access to prevention and treatment and for recognizing addiction as a chronic illness, not a character flaw. An internal medicine physician and entrepreneur. In 2017, Dr. Murthy focused his attention on chronic stress and isolation as prevalent problems that have profound implications for health, productivity, and happiness. He has co-founded a number of organizations: VISIONS, an HIV/AIDS education program in India; Swasthya, a community health partnership in rural India training women as health providers and educators; software company TrialNetworks; and Doctors for America.
    Dr. Murthy received his bachelor’s degree from Harvard and his M.D. and M.B.A. degrees from Yale. He completed his internal medicine residency at Brigham and Women’s Hospital in Boston and later joined Harvard Medical School as faculty in internal medicine. His research focused on vaccine development and later on the participation of women and minorities in clinical trials. Dr. Murthy resides in Washington, D.C. with his wife Dr. Alice Chen and their two young children. This spring Dr. Murthy’s first book “Together- The Healing Power of Social Connection in a Sometimes Lonely World” was published by HarperCollins and made the New York Times Best Seller list.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 83

  • @lauvsongs
    @lauvsongs  3 роки тому +11

    Watch more of Lauv’s music videos at lauv.lnk.to/OMVplaylist

  • @divyamishra9961
    @divyamishra9961 4 роки тому +91

    Modern loneliness is so relatable to i guess almost everyone in our generation

    • @piyushtandon5003
      @piyushtandon5003 4 роки тому +3

      Yes everyone goes through loneliness at some point in their life, but one should be actually concern about those people who are stuck in loneliness for long and can't express it to their closest people in life.

    • @parkm2394
      @parkm2394 4 роки тому +2

      You are not alone i am there here i am prathiksha from india .i am 17

    • @pratyushprakash1316
      @pratyushprakash1316 3 роки тому

      Yes

  • @notlizzymaebee
    @notlizzymaebee 4 роки тому +56

    Thank you lauv
    From someone who has dealt with the struggle of loneliness and anxiety, your work helps me feel less alone. Although I’m 22, I still encounter these emotions I’ve had growing up but I understand it a lot more and have learnt to be kinder and more empathetic towards others and there is still so much to learn...your music, your art and dedication to bringing awareness about modern loneliness makes this world a little less painful. So thank you.

    • @mansikoerala6329
      @mansikoerala6329 4 роки тому

      Growing up helps a bit right!!
      You'll be fine
      I believe in you

    • @parkm2394
      @parkm2394 4 роки тому

      Do not worry i am there here my name is prathiksha and i am 17

  • @QuLing126
    @QuLing126 4 роки тому +14

    “A friend is someone who reminds you who you are, even when you forget.” That one hit me like a ton a bricks.🥺THANK YOU for this content!!

  • @rizzlerboy
    @rizzlerboy 4 роки тому +40

    Lauv from India

  • @AnishVoraProductions
    @AnishVoraProductions 4 роки тому +13

    Dr. Murthy is a huge inspiration, this is awesome!

  • @InSaneT17
    @InSaneT17 4 роки тому +26

    I like this doctor...

    • @nickstl77
      @nickstl77 3 роки тому +4

      The way he talks is so calming

    • @mbords01
      @mbords01 3 місяці тому

      Indeed; I thought he was going to be full of theories blah, blah , blah…but he is human, wonderful, understanding, experienced Surgeon general with valuable advice. I will listen again.

  • @zhangvict1
    @zhangvict1 3 роки тому +6

    15:00 the way he squinches his eyes for the feels. Omg such an unusual combination of dude-bro very into thinking about emotions. We need more guys in the world to see Lauv who shows that you can be into this soft talk, expressing yourself in dyed hair and colorful clothes, and be 100% dude.

  • @jeannie1905
    @jeannie1905 4 роки тому +15

    I needed this content! 💪🏻🧡
    I really appreciate that Ari brought this modern loneliness up to the world by sharing this great conversation
    Thank you Ari & Dr.Murthy

  • @heliorex
    @heliorex 3 роки тому +1

    Dr. Vivek Murthy, that was so powerful and was authentic. My regard for you has exponential grown. Fills me with pride, those are my exact feelings and you said it so beautifully and graciously.

  • @twentypaphonies2407
    @twentypaphonies2407 4 роки тому +2

    Thank you Ari for teaching us all that mental health is nothing to be ashamed of. I have endless love and respect for you and everything that you´re doing.

  • @smokyking6680
    @smokyking6680 4 роки тому +38

    6:58 - 7:08 he literally cant contain his excitement 🥰

  • @smmusic7939
    @smmusic7939 4 роки тому +19

    I make music and i am inspired by lauv🔥🔥🔥❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @annamcdonnel
    @annamcdonnel 4 роки тому +2

    Thank you so much for having deep discussions!! I feel parched for people who want to discuss things on a deeper and more fully engaged level.
    As a behavior therapy technician working with children on the autism spectrum, one of the things we try to teach our kids is the concept of joint attention, which is common in neurotypical children but which is absent in some kids on the spectrum. Joint attention is basically the ability/desire to share your interest in something with another person, i.e. a kid holding a car up to his mom and saying "look mommy!" while making eye contact. Some of our kids have no natural internal motivation to "share experiences" like this, or at least do not know how to show that they want to share experiences. In my field, the concept of joint attention, that is, wanting to show somebody something, is a very important social skill that we spend time working on with our kids.
    It would be interesting to dive into the difference between healthy "joint attention" vs. "problematic attention-seeking behavior," like screaming to get attention, or being addicted to likes on social media.
    As someone who has done some stupid stuff and is now feeling the natural consequences of loneliness because I've offended people, I was encouraged by this video so much; it gives me hope to move forward, even tho my loneliness is my own fault.

  • @manjurabha152
    @manjurabha152 3 роки тому +2

    This was so much needed Lauv💕💕💕💕💕thank you very much.

  • @jiminjuststolemyjams5401
    @jiminjuststolemyjams5401 3 роки тому +2

    Lots of love from INDIA to lauv!!!!

  • @earljustinesantos1674
    @earljustinesantos1674 3 роки тому +1

    "a friend is somebody who reminds you of who you are even when you forget"

  • @arushisaxena168
    @arushisaxena168 4 роки тому +6

    Modern loneliness song is so real.. It's all whatever we feel... 💙

  • @mansikoerala6329
    @mansikoerala6329 4 роки тому +9

    A lot of children go through anxiety
    They are so little but still they go through it
    They just don't know what the hell is happening
    They go through it
    Me being one of them
    All of this anxiety disorder started when I was 10 or even before I vaguely remember
    Now I am 20 and my understanding has really improved which is helping me
    My point is
    We focus on ADULTS AND TEENAGERS which is very important
    But we can't figure out what's happening with a child and also the child can't explain what's really happening
    I think we should also focus on child mental health because it magnifies later on as it just become a part of you as a teenager and is even carried later on
    There's always a reason why our mental health deteriorates
    We really need to find the root of the problems
    Just stay healthy and kind
    We will get better 💜

  • @furioushulk3266
    @furioushulk3266 3 роки тому +1

    This is something I desperately needed and nobody could have gave me. thank you so much.

  • @meganstott266
    @meganstott266 4 роки тому +3

    This is amazing..... thank you for sharing. 🙏 ❤️

  • @faz4976
    @faz4976 4 роки тому +4

    thank you lauv! this podcast has helped me a lot

  • @InSaneT17
    @InSaneT17 4 роки тому +5

    go away ari's beauty n cuteness i wanna understand what the doctor is talking about

  • @beingdifferent4898
    @beingdifferent4898 3 роки тому +4

    🇮🇳Indian, love from India 💞💖

  • @ipshitapradhan6250
    @ipshitapradhan6250 4 роки тому +2

    Lauv is one of those artists I find genuine.. 💜

  • @floriankyn
    @floriankyn 4 роки тому +4

    Awsome video, really intresting !

  • @mansikoerala6329
    @mansikoerala6329 4 роки тому +2

    This is very educational and beautiful

  • @arushisaxena168
    @arushisaxena168 4 роки тому +3

    I loved this conversation..!

  • @adriana11280
    @adriana11280 4 роки тому +2

    I love expressing my love for people. I love everyone in my life and I’m afraid to express it but still do and in the end it feels good to just bask in the positive feelings that come from loving those around you and getting that love back

  • @28maitreyagupta21
    @28maitreyagupta21 4 роки тому +1

    Thabk you Lauv . As a twenty year old i completely how important it is.

  • @Paseosinperro
    @Paseosinperro 3 роки тому +1

    I just got the courage to reach to a friend, even when I was so anxius :) Thanks for inspiring me!

  • @anushasanmathis2100
    @anushasanmathis2100 4 роки тому +3

    Love this.

  • @Feibybaby
    @Feibybaby 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you Lauv 💜 I love this

  • @sudipsinha5657
    @sudipsinha5657 4 роки тому +6

    Lauv is great😍😍

  • @christinabowllan7146
    @christinabowllan7146 4 роки тому +1

    These are great! Very needed discussion during these times.

  • @tanveekaushik
    @tanveekaushik 4 роки тому +1

    Lauv, this is so refreshing

  • @shivvaniegopalakrishnan3032
    @shivvaniegopalakrishnan3032 4 роки тому +2

    Thank you

  • @shad6057
    @shad6057 Рік тому +1

    Amazing

  • @sakurachristineito6428
    @sakurachristineito6428 Рік тому

    This video receives milions of views!! Super helpful

  • @aa-ez7hl
    @aa-ez7hl 4 роки тому +4

    l love you from Japan!!💚

  • @rezaksy3747
    @rezaksy3747 4 роки тому +6

    The best way to do when your alone is do physical fitnesses

  • @nickstl77
    @nickstl77 3 роки тому +1

    This is an amazingly insightful conversation.

  • @InSaneT17
    @InSaneT17 4 роки тому +4

    actually social media n contacting people online keeps me happy but not really... idk but people are weird not like meeting them... idk how to say but i'm just sick of the whole internet and i want real relations with people... i wish i could have them but there are so distances between me n people i love...

  • @latterosey
    @latterosey 4 роки тому +2

    I love this!

  • @rishikeshsarang5593
    @rishikeshsarang5593 4 роки тому +1

    Thankyou so much

  • @onetwoflowerz660
    @onetwoflowerz660 4 роки тому +2

    Here before 500 views. Awesome lauv!

  • @shreyaambade6688
    @shreyaambade6688 4 роки тому +2

    You inspire me so much Lauv ❤️❤️❤️ Can't wait to cover so many of your songs ❤️

  • @faizfajarfitriyan2880
    @faizfajarfitriyan2880 4 роки тому +1

    Your talking is so beautiful ♥️💞

  • @EricMHowardII-yh1rn
    @EricMHowardII-yh1rn 3 місяці тому

    Loneliness is not about status . It is about connection of being enough.
    In terms of being enough: Pretty, good , smart

  • @Big9akazetch
    @Big9akazetch 3 роки тому

    This is amazing. Gosh I love this guy. I love you Ari. He is so real and relatable and this open and fuck off hat you think of me self is my very pill. I have found my healing. And ohh I Love how he speaks. Like shaking his head, spinning his eyes, and his eyebrrows❤️❤️❤️

  • @melwenaquiroy6498
    @melwenaquiroy6498 3 роки тому +1

    Good doctor ur country

  • @HelloHello-ln9nx
    @HelloHello-ln9nx 4 роки тому +4

    I LAUV you🖤✨

  • @kindofanmol
    @kindofanmol 4 роки тому +1

    *Indians rockin' everywhere.* 💙💙💙

  • @sankhadeepbanik
    @sankhadeepbanik 4 роки тому +1

    bro loving the podcas

  • @nasreenjahan8424
    @nasreenjahan8424 4 роки тому +2

    💙💚💛💜❤🖤 from bangladeah

  • @robertgreen7783
    @robertgreen7783 4 роки тому

    Quality over Quantity ✌🏽

  • @ohosielol
    @ohosielol 4 роки тому +14

    damn the piercing looks good on him💜

  • @leonhamilton4431
    @leonhamilton4431 4 роки тому +2

    Lauv you

  • @muybientaj6737
    @muybientaj6737 3 роки тому +1

    when I saw Dr. i thought this is going to be like a covid-19 conversation😓

  • @venkateshsana4415
    @venkateshsana4415 4 роки тому +1

    Dr. Vivek Murthy i think we are from the same place in india

  • @watermelonseavey5141
    @watermelonseavey5141 4 роки тому +2

    Hey Lauv !!!!! I just wanna say tht i love u alot like 1000% alot bc u make my life, passion , dream and inspiration tht u gave to me 🥰 i hope u are staying safe at home to stop the spread of this pendemic COVID-19 crisis
    🏡🚫🦠
    Łøvĕ ų from Mãľâýşîă ❤🇲🇾

    • @saiakon
      @saiakon 4 роки тому

      This like meditation , these words cleans your negatives thoughts ...you better listen to it , you will better
      Thank u

  • @rainglade
    @rainglade 4 роки тому +2

  • @ryanbhowmik3727
    @ryanbhowmik3727 4 роки тому +2

    :))

  • @maeellephs2177
    @maeellephs2177 4 роки тому +2

    please translation in french

  • @deeptiverma5780
    @deeptiverma5780 4 роки тому +1

    I Indians

  • @InSaneT17
    @InSaneT17 4 роки тому +9

    Is he Indian?

  • @yyuuiiii6747
    @yyuuiiii6747 3 роки тому +1

    modern loneliness is COVID-19