@@gina_borrman true. Ako nga, babae ako. At some point, nag r react din ako pag mga lalake nman inaagrabyado. Kasi walang batas for them. Unlike us na may VAWC. Not all the time eh tama tayo kasi eh. 😅
I have this girl whom I really love and I am enough happy to I see her doing well in life, Yup I always told myself someone like her don't deserve me but doesn't mean I did nothing and doesn't mean I don't want to make myself deserving of her, tbh I did everything to be deserving but u also need to understand and see things not only to urself but also to the one u love, love is not selfish, what about her ? there r things that just doesnt workout , maybe for u but for her it won't, not defending the guy in this video I'm explaining with my own experience, there r things in this life u will never get even how much u want , if it's not meant for u it will never be urs
Correct....wag na magbgay ng bs na excuses....kung gusto maraming paraan kung ayaw maraming dahilan...misconception daw na cheater pero one of the reason why the marriage failed is because he admits that he cheated.. 😏😏😏😏😏😏
For me ha, I feel like it's just an escape plan for them to break up with you.. "you're to good for me, i dont think i deserve you", excuse lang nila yun. If theyre too good for you, ganun na lang ba? Tatanggapin mo na lang hanggang ganun ka? Bakit hindi ka gumawa ng paraan para maipakita mong deserving ka for them..
I love it na pino-protektahan nya si kylie, no negativity. I saw him a few times sa resto bar nila. Napaka daddy's boys ng mga anak nya, i can say na he's so hands on and a loving father. super polite pa. Kudos💯
One thing we’ve learned when we got married is to always choose each other. Di naman tayo lovable everyday for the past 17 years. Di kami tumingin sa iba just because may kulang yung isa. We’ll be celebrating our 18yrs on the July 24th 😊
Uneasy c aljur ky ms.toni, he's holding back so much. What i see is a sad man, full of regrets. I pray one day, you'll genuinely encounter God. I want to see you truly happy mr.aljur..one day...❤
I appreciate the talent of toni, it's obvious that she cares for Kylie. She hates separation because she is living with a complete family, and I believe that toni and paul are responsible and mature enough for their family.
He didn't even make eye contact, coz he know he did something wrong to the mother of his child.. but it's a good thing that he provide and do his job as father to his children.
Mahal pa talaga nya si Kylie.. kitang kita sa mata nya 🥹 I pray for their healing and forgiveness in the right time para mabuo pa family nila. Kasi masakit na namunulat ang mga anak din na di buo ang pamilya. Love naman nila ang isat isa eh 🙏🥺
Halatang hirap si Aljur sumagot sa mga tanong ni Toni mukhang may tinatago parin but kudos to Toni she knows how to connect the questions in a Godlky words.
Remember, he broke up din with Kylie in 2014. Sabi nga ni Kylie after marriage breakup, ano pa ang time niyang manlalake eh stay-at-home mom siya tapos breastfeeding pa. Only SAHMs and BF moms will understand this. Ang hirap iwanan ng bata kahit 2hrs lang. And for her who has such strong personality, grabeng sacrifice yun ah, giving up her career for the time being to give birth sa 2 boys, then sa bahay lang siya letting Aljur to lead the family even if you can sense na she's a dominant, an alpha female. Sana alam ni Aljur na since strongheaded ang mga dominant personalities, he shouldn't have stopped courting and winning her back. Pero cheating with sex involved, jusko, Kylie, wag mo na ngang tanggapin. Glad Mariel and others were there while she was going through break up. She also did cover Aljur kay Robin, but for a father who witnessed his daughter going through that and being brave, masakit. Cheating is a choice. Di pa kasama roon yung body changes, hormones, postpartum et al. Tapos you're caring for your babies at sa bahay, and then money issues. Ang hirap pa is present nga ang asawa mo, di mo naman maramdaman presence niya. Tapos may gana pang mag-cheat? Nandoon na tayo sa malaki ang expectations kay Aljur, kaso boy, ikaw dapat ang magli-LEAD sa family mo. Natakot din yata ito sa FIL niya, sus. Magulo rin kausap itong si Aljur sa interview, ha. Ang daming segue, contradicting din. But the looks in his eyes, the guilt, regret, sadness... dasurv. Hopefuly he will truly mature na.
I agree. Sana ginawa tong interview kapag natuto na siya. Hindi talaga sincere eh. This was the only episode ni Toni na sinimulan ko pero hindi tinapos.
Halatain si Aljur, tama, ang dami po segue, minsan yung sagot sa tanong parang medyo malayo, or di masagot ng maayos, and di nga po halos makatingin sa camera though oo nga at si Ms. Toni naman ang kausap nga niya. 😌
magulo pa ang isipan ni aljur ateh toni pero salamat nagbigay siya ng saloobin niya at malaking tulong sa kanya.. be a good father aljur and seek what Gods will in your lives... Godbless you
No one is prepared for marriage until you are there.. you are two different individuals entering to oneness.. that is what you need to prepare for.. to stay committed to the marriage no matter what. It’s like no other relationship (friendship, gf-bf relationship or parent-child relationship) that you can just walk away when things aren’t working well. It’s in marriage that you learn how to be selfless, to love unconditionally.. if you’re not ready for that then don’t enter into it.
You seem you're contradicting what you said in your first sentence, "no one is prepared for marriage until you are there.." however, in your last sentence you stated, "if you're not ready for that then don't enter it" 🤔 ano ba talaga point mo?
@@jennys6260 I think Yung pini point Niya is if you'r not prepared sa MGA posibleng mngyre sa Buhay may Asawa ,to stay committed kahit Anong mngyre ..to always choose to stay at dahil MGA Bata Ang naapektuhan...kapagka nasira Ang binuo mong pamilya
its a choice to choose to work it out . ang marriage ay hindi lamang sa ligaya , itoy kahit di mo na mahal ang partner mo kelangan mo pa din panindigan ang pagharap mo sa altar kasama ang partner mo . 🥺 kelangan nating maglook back bakit sinimulan .at binihag ang puso ng nananahimik na puso ng isang babae .. choose wisely when it comes to a man na ihaharap sa altar... not just a boy ,it has to be Man of GOD.a Man who knows their responsibility to stand firm sa mga pinasok nyang next level of their life . . 🙏🙏
Kapag nagkamali tayo, marerealize natin na maging humble. Napakahirap ng mgabtanong mo Miss Toni para kay Aljur, pero nagpapakatotoo talaga ang tao na to. Lahat na ma man tayo, hahantong sa punto na magkakamali, ang importante, may natutunan tayo. The righteous fall 7 times and keeps geeting back up. Aljur, lumaban ka, be strong in the Lord, kasi kapag wala si God hindi natin kaya. Kilalanin mo whonis the way, the truth and the life, and your life will have meaning and deep purpose.
I love the fact that he knows that providing for his children financially is not only the basis of a good father there's also love...... and make time for them give them precious memories kase matalas ang memory ng mga bata sa dami man ng problema bbalik balikan nila yung magandang nangyari sainyo hanggang pag tanda nila.
8yrs to 6 months akong separated but kasi hindi ako nag hanap ng iba kasi inisip ko mahal ko pa rin ang asawa ko at dinadasal ko nag magkabalikan kami kahit anong ginagawa nya sa akin... Kaya we are back together at Sana forever nato!
same Tau matagal na din kami nag hiwalay Ng Asawa ko kahet Minsan Hindi ko maiisil na mag Asawa ...Kase Hanggang ngaun wish ko pa din ung mabuo ung family na ma feel sa mga anak ko...15years na kami hiwalay
Same din po ng situation....never ko din maisip n mghanap p ng iba..still praying and hoping n maging buo ulet ang family ko..God is doing his work s aking family...if God telling me to wait for my husband i will..8 long years of waiting...sana soon umuwe na rin ang asawa ko...in Gods perfect time..🙏
If you are wondering about how to fix a marriage or relationship, you need to take a step back, reflect, and consider what is truly wrong and then try out these ways on how to rekindle a marriage. Falling in love with another girl is not the answer, you're just creating another problem. 🥺
👍👍👍Yas! Louder at the back! Judgmental na kung judgmental pero nainis ako actually kay Aljur dito. Parang husband ko lang na napressure sa finances namin kaya naghanap ng iba..letche! Iniwan mo ang binuo mong pamilya tapos hanap ka ng panibago..bubuo ka ng bagong pamilya sa kabit mo?..parang kumuha ka lang ng dagdag na bato pinokmok mo sa ulo mo.. sa totoo lang, the design is very walang paninindigan
Marriage means choosing the same person every single day! It is not only love! We are created vulnerable, we just need to be strong enough to choose the same one, may it be high or low! Marriage is not always happy!
Dalawang magkaibigan na nagkwentuhan about life. Ganun yung feel. Galing ni Miss Toni. Kahit uncomfortable si Aljur sumagot sa ibang tanong but I can feel and see his honesty, sincerity and humbleness. Godbless!
it feels like ang hirap for aljur to answer questions and during interview he is getting tons of realization because everytime toni speaks, she speaks wisdom
Parang hirap si Aljur sumagot sa mga questions ni Toni. But, Toni was so brilliant talaga. She makes sure na hindi nagmumukhang tanga ang mga ini-interview nya. Kudos to Aljur for trying his best to answer all the questions kahit cringe pero sige lang sabi mo nga hindi ka perpekto. Nobody is perfect. Nice episode! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
I think kase ayaw na nyang iopen ulit yung topic ng hiwalayan nila and ayaw na din nyang iopen masiado yung relasyon na kung ano man ang meron sya. The good thing is he admit na sya yung nagcheat. I think masaya na silang dalawa sa kanya kanya nilang buhay haha sabi nga nya mas ok sila kung co parenting lang at di sila magkasama..
Meron mga bagay na ayaw nyang ilahad sa publiko. Meron syang karapatan kimkimin yon. Wala din naman maitutulong ang ibang tao kung ibulatlat nya lahat ng bagay na gusto nyang e KEEP para lang sa puso nya. KARAPATAN nya yon.
I noticed that Aljur was trying to answer all the questions from Toni, He was careful what the exact words to say, i saw Aljur that deep inside of him meron pang takot kaba and hindi niya ma explain exactly ung sagot niya kasi he knows it hurts pa rin but truth, i see also he is still hopeful to his marriage & his family kasi may nasabi sya his trying to work it out pero through sa mga bata. I saw him na parang meron parin kulang sa kanya He is still in bondage, but good to know because he is holding on to God, he is still hopeful, praying that He will receive a total healing from the past trauma, pain, hurts, brokenness, abandonment, emptiness, of what the enemy destroy him, his family & marriage, in Jesus Name! And receive His deliverance from our Lord Jesus. Thank you Toni kasi ikaw ung nag baback up for aljur, to put words na mahirap sa kanya i explain. 🙌🏻🙏🏻
After watching Kylie's recent interview with Boy Abunda, napunta ako dito to know Aljur's side kahit late na ako ng 7 mos 😅. He was caught off guard to all Toni's questions. I liked Toni's unconvinced eyebrows and "hmm" in between Aljur's answers 😆. My favorite part of the interview is when he admitted that he cheated 💯🎯
Hirap na hirap kang sumagot, why? Kasi dalawa lang yan... Kahit ano pang gawin mo Aljur, di na babalik si wifey mo. At isang salita mo lang na pwede makasakit kay Raval, parehas mawawala yan sayo. At sa totoo lang mapakaduwag mo, duwag in such away na nagpakaplaying safe ka. Pilitin mo ba naman yung babae na rason ng paghihiwalay niyo ng wifey mo para lang masabing di ka nag iisa. Kahit na for sure mas mahal mo si Kylie compared to her. Alam mo Beh, sana nagpaka stay single ka na lang muna. Sana you still choose to chase your wife until lumambot ang puso niya at makuha mo ulit ang tiwala niya. Mas hahangaan ka pa ng tao, ng mga anak mo lalo na ng asawa mo if you choose to stay kahit na I push ka Niya palayo. Kung mahal mo, MAHAL MO! Kaysa panindigan mo yung maLing ginawa mo at mafeel ng other woman mo na isa siyang pagkakamali na dumaan sa buhay mo.
best comment ❤❤❤bali balik Tarin man ang lahat pinatuloy niya parin mali niya ginagawa.yes no once perfect pero may utak at puso ka maging normal ang lahat puede hindi ipagpatuloy ang gawain na alam na mali.pero pinili talaga ni aljur ang alam na mali may tawag niyan.selfish
You can never dictate a person's way or perceptions in life. Diba sabi niya di na talaga? Both of them made their best, pero wala na nga. Hay naku! Admitted na nga nya may mali siya diba? Hayaan mo, that's his life.
Men tend to replace a woman kasi if they felt na mas strong personality ng babae, if they felt na they can't provide at natatamaan ang ego nila, they tend to do such thing inappropriate at panindigan ang desisyon nila kahit mali if they felt na wala ng pag asa sa relationship nila,, kasi they want to feel safe. Safe in such a way na cge panindigan ko itong babae na naging dahilan ng pagkasira namin ng real partner ko, kasi di ba aminin man ng mga lalaki or hindi takot silang maiwan. But I'm sure if they choose to stay on each other, babalik at babalik yan sa tunay niyang pamilya. Unluckily, napaka strong ng personality ni Kylie to stay away from this guy kaya kahit na mahal pa ni Aljur si wifey. Pinandigan na niya yung pagkakamali niya just to feel na di siya nag iisa kasi wala na siyang choice e.
Ang sad lang. Siguro may insecurity din talaga si Aljur within himself kasi kung secured siya sa sarili niya, kesyo strong and independent si Kylie susuportahan niya yan and will make himself a better version of himself for her. Pero idk baka di pa din talaga mature si aljur to handle commited relationships aka marriage.
I rather have bad times with you than good times with someone else, I rather be beside you in the storm than safe and warm by myself, I rather have bad times together than to have an easy apart. I rather have the one who holds my heart. This song is what marriage is all about.
Aljur, seek God first! And do what is right in the eyes of God, not your own decisions but God's plan. Tsaka ka lang magkakaroon ng katiwasayan sa isip at puso. Make your family back to you.
Ang pinaka tumatak dito sakin ay ung marriage dapat you are prepared physically, emotionally and mentally. Dahil totoo yan, akala ntin prepared na tayo pero hindi pala.
Even though nagkamali si Aljur at hindi sya perfect, thank you Ate Toni sa video na ito. Timely topic ito sa mga kabataan. Kasi natutukso at sugod ng sugod ang mga tao sa usapin ng kasalan, pero hindi pala handa. At kailangan madefine natin kung ano talaga ang true love.
Aljur hanga ako sayo protecting nanay ng mga anak mo Pero siyempre alam ng mga netizen kung ano ang totoo Proud of you being responsible father to your kids
I would say toni is really great when it comes to comminication. Hindi yung bata barang tanong. Yung question nya is based sa sa response din ni Aljur. Smooth conversationalist. He still protects his family. No bad mouth. I still wish na sana magkabalikan pa rin sila ni Kylie, not for the sake of kids, pero dahil nagheal sila from wounds ng past
Lesson learned to this episode "Matuto talaga tayong makontento sa partner natin in life " wag hanapin ang wala sa Partner natin alam naman natin di tayo perfect lahat.
Very true, yung iba kasi tawag ng laman lang nakikita..lahat tayo tatanda, ang ganda mawawala. Sa totoo lang marami akong nakita nagkasakit tapos bumalik sa legal wife, in the end hahanapin pa din ang pag alaga ng tunay na pamilya. Ano ba makukuha sa kapusukan at ng Ewan..wala🙁😔nakakalungkot lang na ang reason talga ng paghihiwalay dahil sa pagloloko ng isa.
Tama po iyan ,kasi walang perfect marriage at walang perpektong tao at higit sa lahat , ang marriage ay hindi puro saya ,kahit ako na 4years marriage this year ,dumating din sa point na prang nawala yung love 😢
If you are reading this right now , remember : BETTER DAYS ARE COMING. BE PATIENT. No regrets in Life , just lessons learned. YOU'RE GOING TO BE SUCCESSFUL! 🔥☝️💯
You can’t make a change until you can accept your mistakes. I salute you Aljur for accepting your mistakes on National tv. 💯 % God bless you and family! 🙏🙏💕💞
Parang ang sincere naman ni aljur tapos mukha syang nagsisisi, Makikitavmo sa kanya na broken ang pagkatao nya at kailngan nya ng pamilya na makakausap .
May mga bagay talaga na mas pinipili natin na hindi na lang sabihin hindi dahil natatakot o nahihiya tayo kundi dahil ayaw na natin balikan ang mga ito. Sa tingin ko naging 'safe' ang mga sagot ni Aljur, not for himself, but for his kids and for Kylie as well God bless you, Aljur. I know God will continue moving in your life. Thanks, Ms. Toni and the rest of the team. Keep inspiring people through shared stories. More Power. ♥️♥️♥️
I wish they both fought to save it. I am married 27 years now. The first 10 years is always a struggle. I thought I know my husband after being bf/gf after 9 years but not. But we survive !
Salute to this man, he accept his fault, he accept what is the concequence of what happen to his marriage, he become a better father to his kids, he become quiet because he feels that this is the better way to protect his kids and his ex-wife. He proves to be a better father for his kids despite of what happened. He support and provide his energy to his kids and to his important persons in his life.
Ang galing mo talaga Toni ,God bless u ,na amaze Ako sa sau ,at napaka talentid mo, the best c lord sa Buhay natin dahil pag anak ka ni Lord bigyan ka talaga nang wisdom.
It's not too late Aljur! Babaero ako. Paulit-ulit. Until such time, pinakita sa akin ng DIYOS ang dahilan. Nawalan ako ng contentment. Nawala ang pagmamahal ko sa asawa ko. I ask GOD na ibalik Niya ang pagmamahal ko sa asawa ko, and GOD answered my prayer. Bumalik ako sa asawa ko at sa mga anak ko at muli kaming nabuo. Nalayo ako sa kanila dahil kailangan ko mag trabaho for them. Aljur, you can't say you love GOD without doing what HIS WILL. PROVE THAT YOU LOVE GOD THROUGH OBEYING HIM. BALIKAN MO ANG ASAWA MO AT MULI MONG BUUIN ANG PAMILYA MO! IPANALANGIN MO NA IBALIK NG DIYOS ANG PAGMAMAHAL MO SA ASAWA MO. GOD WILL ANSWER YOUR PRAYER DAHIL GUSTO NG DIYOS ANG BUING PAMILYA! Si satanas ang author ng broken family. Sa inyo bilang tao, hindi na mag wo-work out, PERO KUNG ISASANGKAP N'YO ANG DIYOS SA INYONG MAG-ASAWA, MAG WO-WORK OUT! IPAKITA MO SA GAWW ANG PAGMAMAHAL MO SA DIYOS SA PAMAMAGITAN NG PAG BUBUO MO SA PAMILYA MO! LOVE YOUR WIFE! PINAG-ISA KAYO SA HARAPAN NG DIYOS! MAG PAKALALAKI ALJUR! KADUWAGAN ANG MANATILING WASAK ANG PAMILYA! SANA MAKARATING SA'YO ANG MENSAHENG ITO... MAY GOD SAVE YOUR SOUL ACCORDING TO GOD'S PURPOSE AND GLORY IN CHRIST JESUS!!!
Gusto ko po tlaga the way you asked Miss Tony Kung ano Po ang best thing to do...kc napaisip din po ako kung ano nga po ba ang the best things to do to save our marriage.
Eye to eye contact is very important in this kind of interviews. He is uncomfortable sa ibang question. Simple, if you will tell the truth, mabilis ang sagot at eye to eye contact sa interviewee.
Inuulit-ulit ni Aljur yung “makapagprovide” it means talagang nagstruggle siya in terms of providing for the family at dun na nagstart ang iba pang problems - CHEATING. Maybe on these moments where he is very worried/struggling about providing financially for his family, nahihiya siyang humarap sa pamilya niya esp sa wife niya kaya nagcheat siya, sa comfort nun other girl ang nahanap niya, w/c is inamin niya na narealize niya na mali siya. Lesson I got from this interview is, open communication talaga dapat sa marriage so you can work as a team.
dapat ikaw ang naging matatag sa inyo para manatiling buo ang pamily ninyo . napakasakit un sa mga anak mo na hindi kayo buo, nasabi ko yan base on my experience bibitaw lang kaming mga babae kung una kayo bibitaw kase mapagtiis kming mga babae
I think marriage is great, it is life. Its where two people are united as one. Yes it can be hard sometime, but that's part of the adventure and the journey both enjoy. A husband or wife when they overcome money and let love do all they work is such a treasure. Plenty of mercy and the willingness to never give up anyone should hold. Such relationship, you can not ask for anything else. And yes, having the Lord with you in your heart is important. The Attitude, maturity and behaviour is needed also in marriage, less about you and more about each other. Its wonderful when God is their, you experience life to the fullest, its a good story to hold in your heart, specially to the younger ones. Don't let others discourage you about marriage that has disappointed them, because yes when your in unity together and with Jesus. You got nothing to lose. Never give up.
Ganda ng flow ng interview at ang galing ng wordings para matumbok ang tanong ng lahat. Nicely done, Toni! 🤍 And ramdam mo ang sincerity ni Aljur dito kahit medyo hirap siyang i-express feelings niya in words.
@@angeldetoms1372 Ni-nerbyos lang. Di naman natin alam ang true personality niya. Inamin niya namang may mali siya. Kung ano man ang hindi niya na share, hayaan na natin. Baka protection na din yun sa kay Kylie and the kids.
sarap tlga kausap ni toni G. kasi yung hindi mo ma express nasasabe nya, nakaka relieve sa sarili yung ganun kausap kasi alam nya yung nararamdaman mo. 😊❤
Marriage SHOULD be for forever because love is not a feeling, it's a choice. You made a vow to be one with the other through the best and worst times. You always have a choice to stay, and never leave.
@@megenaman7030 don't marry or get married agad agad. Importante na kinikilala talaga ang isa't-isa muna. Di kasi na after marriage lang kikilalanin yung partner. Marriage is a promise.
@stanner the thing is may mga bagay na lumalabas lang kapag nagsama na kayo sa iisang bubong. Niloookdown kasi ang pag lilive in before marriage.. like mine, na super traditional and conservative family ko..and ending nagkahiwalayan kami ni husband..naghanap ng iba kasi hindi "daw" kami compatible.. letcheng yun. Anyway, now i highly suggest going thru living in first for atleast 2 years without having kids..to test kung compatible ba talaga
I choose to stay but my other half choose to leave... have some self respect nalang. U should know when to give up and when to fight.. respect the decision and move on🙂
Suportahan lang ang mga bata at ina kahit hiwalay na kayo at saka laban lang aljur hindi lang saiyo nangyari yan tom rodrìguez nga kakasal hiwalay agad positibo lang at tama ka huwag intindihin ang sinasabi ng iba kapit at tiwala sa diyos at the end maganda rin ang resulta ng nanguari sa buhay niyò,god bless
Sa lahat ng na interview ni toni, ito yung episode na nag connect ang puso ko... No one is perfect at admit our mistakes and bumawi ka sa mga pagkukulang mo.. ❤Kudos aljur!
@@gracedomingo658 hahahahxd he is not trying to change, he is asking for everyone's sympathy lol because he needs projects pra mbuhay si kabit...he is still with the girl who broke their family and u saying he changed? San Banda in lol konting iyak lng ptol nmn kayo
We don't know if he privately admits his fault to Kylie tho - the one na may malaki siyang kasalanan. But we don't know him for sure, so we can't judge.
I would agree with your statement if that is what he did from the beginning. To protect AJ he denied all allegations of him cheating, then he tried to blame Kylie as if she was the one that cheated “first” and AJ reposting that post, then his most recent interview before this, it was with an older lady he stated it was both their fault. Now, he’s finally accepting he is at fault and openly admitted he cheated to Toni. Yet from the beginning of this interview he tried to go around it again making it seem they were both fault. I think he has a better relationship with Toni then he did with the other people who he interviewed with he he probably cares about her opinion so he couldn’t lie. When she finally directly asked him and stated you cheated, he couldn’t deny it. He still hesitated a bit while answering her direct question of him cheating. Like his brain and mouth were not coordinating with each other.
atleast sya ngttry ng best mgsustento hnde tulad sa iba na may nkalaan na daw para sa mga anak sa pagdating ng panahon. kaya okay lang yan aljur kht nhirapan ka sumagot atleast honest ka pa dn 😊
In every mistake, you can have another chance to overcome it. Sa buhay natin, may mga pagkakataon na nagkakaroon tayo ng maling desisyon na akala natin magiging maganda yung outcome but then you will realize it was not. For now, we need to focus on our life, on how we can surpass the struggles, to enjoy and be happy at all cost. Don’t be bothered on what others will say.
Marriage is something about whatever you do, wherever you are, it will hunt you down. Sa marriage mo malalaman kung gaano ka katatag bilang isang tao. Im not saying na we all the same. But in my part, i experience more than i can ever imagine. Worst is Naexperience kong manloko at maloko. Kahit ano kapa dun sa dalawa parehas kayong talo. Especially kung may anak na. Dahil ung inakala mo at yung binuo mo unti unti mong nakikitang nasisira. Masisira buong pagkatao mo. Dadating sa punto na dimo na kilala sarili mo at wala kanang tiwala sa lahat. Andyan din yung problema nio financially. Major problem to. Punot dulo ng lahat ng problema. Kahit kagaano pa kadami pera mo poproblemahin mo at propoblemahin mo yan. But in the end , its still a choice. Kung choice mo ayusin o tuluyan ng sirain. Saludo ako sa mga taong nagchoice to stay. Kasi kahit ano pang nangyare you choose to forgive and trying to forget.
Toni Talks is part of my sundays best. Loving to hear a lot of testimony from diff. people it makes me more compassionate, open minded and understanding that each one of us has a different story to tell to inspire people.
This was my husband's situation mga six years ago.. he cheated with our family, pag kinakausap ko siya what went wrong Wala siya masagot parang may pinagdadaanan siya sa sarili Niya.. he chose his mistress over me and our three children and then I let him go. Two years later we got back together. Masasabi ko na he's more responsible now.. and mas open na kame nag aaway pa din kame pero mas na eexpress Niya na yung feelings Niya.. kelangan lang talaga minsan intindihin naten Ang mga mister naten, hindi yung si misis Ang laging tama😉
There is no marriage too broken God cannot restore. The devil is on the move breaking marriages, families & relationships but our God is Sovereign! Praying for them & broken families to be made whole in the mighty name of Jesus! ❤
Children will always yearn for a complete family not a “co-parenting” system. I hope Aljur will continue to guide His children according to the will of God. Be the Man you want your children to be 😊
My GOD! I can see he is so consumed by the guilt he is feeling. May God give light to your heart. And sana ikaw na nagkasala, ikaw dapat ang huwag bumitaw at gawan mo pa ng paraan magkabalikan kayo alang alang sa mga bata
Na feel ko sincerity ni Aljur. And bawat salita nya May “sa ngayon”, “nung time na yun” na ang interpretation ko is Hindi naman sya nag ko-close ng door para sa kanila ni Kylie pero sa tingin ko si Kylie na rin ang May ayaw. So sad lang para girl nya ngayon na Hindi sya maipagmalaki at maipangalandakan na kasama sya sa “mahal”, consequences ng pag mamahal sa May pamilyang tao.
Bat ganun ang sakit pakinggan ng mga sagot tapos ang ganda ng tanong,na parang pagkatapos ng interview. You dont need to do research kasi andito na lahat.. reason why,what happen to them. Masakit lang para sakin,kasi sayang sila.idol ko sila na kahit dati ang gusto kong loveteam ni Idol Aljur si Kris Bernal. Pero dahil si Kylie ay nakita ko ang pagmamahalan nila.grabe yun,nasundan ko yun,pero syempre hindi naman lahat malalaman ang personal life nila. There are things na hindi na dapat ihayag pa.Ang linaw na lahat. They both did mistake and they decide what is good for them and the kids. At syempre dahil fan at taga subaybay nila. I hope na in the future.,yung makikita mo sila na matanda ng dalawa. At magkahawak ang kamay.na sila pa din pala sa huli.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 Tuloy lang laban para sa mga supling natin,at time mahalaga talaga yun,lalo na kung bata pa sila.kasi di mo mamamalayan na malalaki na sila,at marerealize mo na bat ang bilis ng oras,bakit may hindi ka nagawa.Sa inyung Dalawa Kylie Padilla and Aljur Abrenica. GOD BLESS YOU MORE. at maging masagana kayu para sa inyung nga anak,at para sa future nila.
Halata yung sadness sa mga mata nya. Nakita namin sya last friday sa lang sa ptt sctex, parang driving lang naglilibang ganun.. thank you kuya aljur bumaba kapa ng sasakyan para makapag pa picture kame. Stay strong.
Ang nafifeel ko kay Aljur tingin nya sa sarili nya failure sya. Ang lungkot ng mga mata nya. For now ang dapat molang gawin be there for your kids and I can see that youre doing that and I salute you for that being a responsible Dad for them. About marriage is a lot of work and patience talaga at the same time hindi naman marriage ang magpapatibay sa isang relasyon. May mga couple kase na kahit hindi kasal nagtatagal sila kaya huwag ding mag judge sa mga hindi kasal hindi lahat ng kasal sapat na
Naisip ko baka ganito din ex husband ko..malungkot siya pero he cheated and continued parin parang confusing sa akin.. ganyan nakikita ko kay Aljur.. mahina siya.. gumiveup na siya sa family nya kasi he enjoyed the new woman na. Ganyan mga cheater eh..
@@exmrsnowwomanscorned8369 Cheating issues? Kung mas naging maagap lng kayo sa mga naging blind items news years ago, well hindi nyo masasabi nyan, since aljur wants to end the discussions he admits all the credits to blame for their failed relationship. Because she still care about her ex wife, as he said. Kylie is still the mother of his childrens. Mali lang ni aljur dito nauna syang nag flex🤣😅
The best thing a father can do to his children is to love their mother! - This is genuinely true!!
This is very precious but on his part after the marriage fell apart ds question is very much painful heart wrecking to answer...
Para siyang sinampal... Ouch!
It depends! What if the mother did something hurtful or offensive to the marriage, how can you still continue loving her! Just saying! IMAO
@@gina_borrman true. Ako nga, babae ako. At some point, nag r react din ako pag mga lalake nman inaagrabyado. Kasi walang batas for them. Unlike us na may VAWC. Not all the time eh tama tayo kasi eh. 😅
@@maritessvisaya7894 I can get it to you tomorrow morning mylab hahaha I love you too cm idk tqipkhpn Kyoto pick up
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"If he says he doesn't deserve you, it means he doesn't want to make himself deserving of you." - what I learned upon watching this.
I have this girl whom I really love and I am enough happy to I see her doing well in life,
Yup I always told myself someone like her don't deserve me but doesn't mean I did nothing and doesn't mean I don't want to make myself deserving of her, tbh I did everything to be deserving but u also need to understand and see things not only to urself but also to the one u love, love is not selfish, what about her ? there r things that just doesnt workout , maybe for u but for her it won't, not defending the guy in this video I'm explaining with my own experience, there r things in this life u will never get even how much u want , if it's not meant for u it will never be urs
Correct....wag na magbgay ng bs na excuses....kung gusto maraming paraan kung ayaw maraming dahilan...misconception daw na cheater pero one of the reason why the marriage failed is because he admits that he cheated.. 😏😏😏😏😏😏
For me ha, I feel like it's just an escape plan for them to break up with you.. "you're to good for me, i dont think i deserve you", excuse lang nila yun. If theyre too good for you, ganun na lang ba? Tatanggapin mo na lang hanggang ganun ka? Bakit hindi ka gumawa ng paraan para maipakita mong deserving ka for them..
I love it na pino-protektahan nya si kylie, no negativity.
I saw him a few times sa resto bar nila. Napaka daddy's boys ng mga anak nya, i can say na he's so hands on and a loving father. super polite pa. Kudos💯
One thing we’ve learned when we got married is to always choose each other. Di naman tayo lovable everyday for the past 17 years. Di kami tumingin sa iba just because may kulang yung isa. We’ll be celebrating our 18yrs on the July 24th 😊
Toni makes her guest feel comfortable when they talk about themselves. Yung guest Lang talaga yung ngpipigil sumagot as much as possible ❤
Pure intention♡♡♡
Purity..❤
Woman.. babaeng, kaya nyang buksan kung ano yung nasa saloobin mo. Kung ano yung tunay na nandyan.
#GodsChild❤
#bless❤
Uneasy c aljur ky ms.toni, he's holding back so much. What i see is a sad man, full of regrets. I pray one day, you'll genuinely encounter God. I want to see you truly happy mr.aljur..one day...❤
I appreciate the talent of toni, it's obvious that she cares for Kylie. She hates separation because she is living with a complete family, and I believe that toni and paul are responsible and mature enough for their family.
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He didn't even make eye contact, coz he know he did something wrong to the mother of his child.. but it's a good thing that he provide and do his job as father to his children.
Mahal pa talaga nya si Kylie.. kitang kita sa mata nya 🥹 I pray for their healing and forgiveness in the right time para mabuo pa family nila. Kasi masakit na namunulat ang mga anak din na di buo ang pamilya. Love naman nila ang isat isa eh 🙏🥺
Halatang hirap si Aljur sumagot sa mga tanong ni Toni mukhang may tinatago parin but kudos to Toni she knows how to connect the questions in a Godlky words.
Remember, he broke up din with Kylie in 2014.
Sabi nga ni Kylie after marriage breakup, ano pa ang time niyang manlalake eh stay-at-home mom siya tapos breastfeeding pa. Only SAHMs and BF moms will understand this. Ang hirap iwanan ng bata kahit 2hrs lang.
And for her who has such strong personality, grabeng sacrifice yun ah, giving up her career for the time being to give birth sa 2 boys, then sa bahay lang siya letting Aljur to lead the family even if you can sense na she's a dominant, an alpha female. Sana alam ni Aljur na since strongheaded ang mga dominant personalities, he shouldn't have stopped courting and winning her back. Pero cheating with sex involved, jusko, Kylie, wag mo na ngang tanggapin. Glad Mariel and others were there while she was going through break up. She also did cover Aljur kay Robin, but for a father who witnessed his daughter going through that and being brave, masakit. Cheating is a choice.
Di pa kasama roon yung body changes, hormones, postpartum et al. Tapos you're caring for your babies at sa bahay, and then money issues. Ang hirap pa is present nga ang asawa mo, di mo naman maramdaman presence niya. Tapos may gana pang mag-cheat?
Nandoon na tayo sa malaki ang expectations kay Aljur, kaso boy, ikaw dapat ang magli-LEAD sa family mo. Natakot din yata ito sa FIL niya, sus.
Magulo rin kausap itong si Aljur sa interview, ha. Ang daming segue, contradicting din. But the looks in his eyes, the guilt, regret, sadness... dasurv. Hopefuly he will truly mature na.
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I agree. Sana ginawa tong interview kapag natuto na siya. Hindi talaga sincere eh. This was the only episode ni Toni na sinimulan ko pero hindi tinapos.
Halatain si Aljur, tama, ang dami po segue, minsan yung sagot sa tanong parang medyo malayo, or di masagot ng maayos, and di nga po halos makatingin sa camera though oo nga at si Ms. Toni naman ang kausap nga niya. 😌
@@KyliePadilla 💕
Immature pa c aljur whew sakit nito
magulo pa ang isipan ni aljur ateh toni pero salamat nagbigay siya ng saloobin niya at malaking tulong sa kanya.. be a good father aljur and seek what Gods will in your lives... Godbless you
"kung anong ginawa mo sa kapwa mo may balik sayo." Toni G.
Kaya sana palagi natin piliin maging mabuting tao.
No one is prepared for marriage until you are there.. you are two different individuals entering to oneness.. that is what you need to prepare for.. to stay committed to the marriage no matter what. It’s like no other relationship (friendship, gf-bf relationship or parent-child relationship) that you can just walk away when things aren’t working well. It’s in marriage that you learn how to be selfless, to love unconditionally.. if you’re not ready for that then don’t enter into it.
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You seem you're contradicting what you said in your first sentence, "no one is prepared for marriage until you are there.." however, in your last sentence you stated, "if you're not ready for that then don't enter it" 🤔 ano ba talaga point mo?
No one is prepared with anything marriage, kids, career etc. but everything is bound on commitment to the challenges or it will fail.
@@jennys6260 I think Yung pini point Niya is if you'r not prepared sa MGA posibleng mngyre sa Buhay may Asawa ,to stay committed kahit Anong mngyre ..to always choose to stay at dahil MGA Bata Ang naapektuhan...kapagka nasira Ang binuo mong pamilya
So TRUE..
its a choice to choose to work it out . ang marriage ay hindi lamang sa ligaya , itoy kahit di mo na mahal ang partner mo kelangan mo pa din panindigan ang pagharap mo sa altar kasama ang partner mo . 🥺 kelangan nating maglook back bakit sinimulan .at binihag ang puso ng nananahimik na puso ng isang babae .. choose wisely when it comes to a man na ihaharap sa altar... not just a boy ,it has to be Man of GOD.a Man who knows their responsibility to stand firm sa mga pinasok nyang next level of their life . . 🙏🙏
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louder!!❤
Because aljur is selfish.
Agree ❤
@@maryrosecambel9200 easy to judge pag hindi mo narasan yong ganitong situation, para namang close mo Sila para mag judge ka.😂😂😂
Kapag nagkamali tayo, marerealize natin na maging humble.
Napakahirap ng mgabtanong mo Miss Toni para kay Aljur, pero nagpapakatotoo talaga ang tao na to.
Lahat na ma man tayo, hahantong sa punto na magkakamali, ang importante, may natutunan tayo.
The righteous fall 7 times and keeps geeting back up.
Aljur, lumaban ka, be strong in the Lord, kasi kapag wala si God hindi natin kaya.
Kilalanin mo whonis the way, the truth and the life, and your life will have meaning and deep purpose.
I love the fact that he knows that providing for his children financially is not only the basis of a good father there's also love...... and make time for them give them precious memories kase matalas ang memory ng mga bata sa dami man ng problema bbalik balikan nila yung magandang nangyari sainyo hanggang pag tanda nila.
8yrs to 6 months akong separated but kasi hindi ako nag hanap ng iba kasi inisip ko mahal ko pa rin ang asawa ko at dinadasal ko nag magkabalikan kami kahit anong ginagawa nya sa akin... Kaya we are back together at Sana forever nato!
same Tau matagal na din kami nag hiwalay Ng Asawa ko kahet Minsan Hindi ko maiisil na mag Asawa ...Kase Hanggang ngaun wish ko pa din ung mabuo ung family na ma feel sa mga anak ko...15years na kami hiwalay
Same din po ng situation....never ko din maisip n mghanap p ng iba..still praying and hoping n maging buo ulet ang family ko..God is doing his work s aking family...if God telling me to wait for my husband i will..8 long years of waiting...sana soon umuwe na rin ang asawa ko...in Gods perfect time..🙏
If you are wondering about how to fix a marriage or relationship, you need to take a step back, reflect, and consider what is truly wrong and then try out these ways on how to rekindle a marriage. Falling in love with another girl is not the answer, you're just creating another problem. 🥺
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👍👍👍Yas! Louder at the back!
Judgmental na kung judgmental pero nainis ako actually kay Aljur dito. Parang husband ko lang na napressure sa finances namin kaya naghanap ng iba..letche!
Iniwan mo ang binuo mong pamilya tapos hanap ka ng panibago..bubuo ka ng bagong pamilya sa kabit mo?..parang kumuha ka lang ng dagdag na bato pinokmok mo sa ulo mo.. sa totoo lang, the design is very walang paninindigan
@@exmrsnowwomanscorned8369 correct
Exactly
true...
Marriage means choosing the same person every single day! It is not only love! We are created vulnerable, we just need to be strong enough to choose the same one, may it be high or low! Marriage is not always happy!
Try din ni Kylie akitin mismong asawa nya para Malaman ni kabet Ang pagtaksilan ,
Amen, Sophie. ❤
Sana ganyan lahat ng mindset hindi yung nakaklimutan na may asawa syab😹
Dalawang magkaibigan na nagkwentuhan about life. Ganun yung feel. Galing ni Miss Toni. Kahit uncomfortable si Aljur sumagot sa ibang tanong but I can feel and see his honesty, sincerity and humbleness. Godbless!
it feels like ang hirap for aljur to answer questions and during interview he is getting tons of realization because everytime toni speaks, she speaks wisdom
Parang hirap si Aljur sumagot sa mga questions ni Toni. But, Toni was so brilliant talaga. She makes sure na hindi nagmumukhang tanga ang mga ini-interview nya. Kudos to Aljur for trying his best to answer all the questions kahit cringe pero sige lang sabi mo nga hindi ka perpekto. Nobody is perfect. Nice episode! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
I think kase ayaw na nyang iopen ulit yung topic ng hiwalayan nila and ayaw na din nyang iopen masiado yung relasyon na kung ano man ang meron sya. The good thing is he admit na sya yung nagcheat. I think masaya na silang dalawa sa kanya kanya nilang buhay haha sabi nga nya mas ok sila kung co parenting lang at di sila magkasama..
Meron mga bagay na ayaw nyang ilahad sa publiko. Meron syang karapatan kimkimin yon. Wala din naman maitutulong ang ibang tao kung ibulatlat nya lahat ng bagay na gusto nyang e KEEP para lang sa puso nya.
KARAPATAN nya yon.
The interview is a waste of time, why did he bother, he doesn't look like he's into it
true..i noticed it as well..
Yes. Una ko napansin ang hirap na hirap siya sagutin ang mga tanong. May mga instances na kinokontra niya mga una na niya sinagot...
Marriage is a commitment. You don’t just say I love you but you do things to make it work because love is an action word.
If he cannot be a good husband , at least he can be good father ❤
How can he be a good father if he broke Kylies heart. Kids dont forget the pain he has caused his family. Talking from experience
There is fear in him, but i feel like he is a sincere man trying his best. Wishing you strength, Aljur!
I noticed that Aljur was trying to answer all the questions from Toni, He was careful what the exact words to say, i saw Aljur that deep inside of him meron pang takot kaba and hindi niya ma explain exactly ung sagot niya kasi he knows it hurts pa rin but truth, i see also he is still hopeful to his marriage & his family kasi may nasabi sya his trying to work it out pero through sa mga bata. I saw him na parang meron parin kulang sa kanya He is still in bondage, but good to know because he is holding on to God, he is still hopeful, praying that He will receive a total healing from the past trauma, pain, hurts, brokenness, abandonment, emptiness, of what the enemy destroy him, his family & marriage, in Jesus Name! And receive His deliverance from our Lord Jesus.
Thank you Toni kasi ikaw ung nag baback up for aljur, to put words na mahirap sa kanya i explain. 🙌🏻🙏🏻
Thank you for this Ms Toni, we are reminded po about commitment to God, for family
After watching Kylie's recent interview with Boy Abunda, napunta ako dito to know Aljur's side kahit late na ako ng 7 mos 😅. He was caught off guard to all Toni's questions. I liked Toni's unconvinced eyebrows and "hmm" in between Aljur's answers 😆. My favorite part of the interview is when he admitted that he cheated 💯🎯
Hirap na hirap kang sumagot, why? Kasi dalawa lang yan...
Kahit ano pang gawin mo Aljur, di na babalik si wifey mo. At isang salita mo lang na pwede makasakit kay Raval, parehas mawawala yan sayo.
At sa totoo lang mapakaduwag mo, duwag in such away na nagpakaplaying safe ka. Pilitin mo ba naman yung babae na rason ng paghihiwalay niyo ng wifey mo para lang masabing di ka nag iisa. Kahit na for sure mas mahal mo si Kylie compared to her.
Alam mo Beh, sana nagpaka stay single ka na lang muna. Sana you still choose to chase your wife until lumambot ang puso niya at makuha mo ulit ang tiwala niya. Mas hahangaan ka pa ng tao, ng mga anak mo lalo na ng asawa mo if you choose to stay kahit na I push ka Niya palayo. Kung mahal mo, MAHAL MO!
Kaysa panindigan mo yung maLing ginawa mo at mafeel ng other woman mo na isa siyang pagkakamali na dumaan sa buhay mo.
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best comment ❤❤❤bali balik Tarin man ang lahat pinatuloy niya parin mali niya ginagawa.yes no once perfect pero may utak at puso ka maging normal ang lahat puede hindi ipagpatuloy ang gawain na alam na mali.pero pinili talaga ni aljur ang alam na mali may tawag niyan.selfish
Very true…the best comment..
You can never dictate a person's way or perceptions in life. Diba sabi niya di na talaga? Both of them made their best, pero wala na nga. Hay naku! Admitted na nga nya may mali siya diba? Hayaan mo, that's his life.
your right
Men tend to replace a woman kasi if they felt na mas strong personality ng babae, if they felt na they can't provide at natatamaan ang ego nila, they tend to do such thing inappropriate at panindigan ang desisyon nila kahit mali if they felt na wala ng pag asa sa relationship nila,, kasi they want to feel safe. Safe in such a way na cge panindigan ko itong babae na naging dahilan ng pagkasira namin ng real partner ko, kasi di ba aminin man ng mga lalaki or hindi takot silang maiwan. But I'm sure if they choose to stay on each other, babalik at babalik yan sa tunay niyang pamilya.
Unluckily, napaka strong ng personality ni Kylie to stay away from this guy kaya kahit na mahal pa ni Aljur si wifey. Pinandigan na niya yung pagkakamali niya just to feel na di siya nag iisa kasi wala na siyang choice e.
Men tend to replace their women with younger ones because young women are vulnerable, they cant see as much of the issues these men have.
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Up to this! 👍
@@YuliaEgoslavia sad but true. Less responsibility, no pressure,no hitted heart & ego
Ang sad lang. Siguro may insecurity din talaga si Aljur within himself kasi kung secured siya sa sarili niya, kesyo strong and independent si Kylie susuportahan niya yan and will make himself a better version of himself for her. Pero idk baka di pa din talaga mature si aljur to handle commited relationships aka marriage.
I rather have bad times with you than good times with someone else, I rather be beside you in the storm than safe and warm by myself, I rather have bad times together than to have an easy apart. I rather have the one who holds my heart. This song is what marriage is all about.
Aljur, seek God first! And do what is right in the eyes of God, not your own decisions but God's plan. Tsaka ka lang magkakaroon ng katiwasayan sa isip at puso. Make your family back to you.
Remember your marriage vow - to love your spouse for better or for worse, in sickness and in health until death separates you...
The most important thing in marriage is commitment. Kahit prepared ka kung hindi ka naman committed.🤔
I still.believe that aljur is so kind and loving husband...ayaw nyang masira ang image ng x wife nya....he is so gentleman....
Bakit naman masisira image ni Kylie? Eh hindi naman siya ung nanlolo
Nanloko*
I really like ToniTalks. I adore them so much. Maybe because Toni herself is an actress, and she allows us to see pespectives on the actor's side.
Ang pinaka tumatak dito sakin ay ung marriage dapat you are prepared physically, emotionally and mentally. Dahil totoo yan, akala ntin prepared na tayo pero hindi pala.
Tama
most especially spiritually
Even though nagkamali si Aljur at hindi sya perfect, thank you Ate Toni sa video na ito. Timely topic ito sa mga kabataan. Kasi natutukso at sugod ng sugod ang mga tao sa usapin ng kasalan, pero hindi pala handa.
At kailangan madefine natin kung ano talaga ang true love.
Aljur hanga ako sayo protecting nanay ng mga anak mo Pero siyempre alam ng mga netizen kung ano ang totoo Proud of you being responsible father to your kids
I would say toni is really great when it comes to comminication. Hindi yung bata barang tanong. Yung question nya is based sa sa response din ni Aljur. Smooth conversationalist. He still protects his family. No bad mouth. I still wish na sana magkabalikan pa rin sila ni Kylie, not for the sake of kids, pero dahil nagheal sila from wounds ng past
Lesson learned to this episode "Matuto talaga tayong makontento sa partner natin in life " wag hanapin ang wala sa Partner natin alam naman natin di tayo perfect lahat.
Very true, yung iba kasi tawag ng laman lang nakikita..lahat tayo tatanda, ang ganda mawawala. Sa totoo lang marami akong nakita nagkasakit tapos bumalik sa legal wife, in the end hahanapin pa din ang pag alaga ng tunay na pamilya. Ano ba makukuha sa kapusukan at ng Ewan..wala🙁😔nakakalungkot lang na ang reason talga ng paghihiwalay dahil sa pagloloko ng isa.
tama.
Tama po iyan ,kasi walang perfect marriage at walang perpektong tao at higit sa lahat , ang marriage ay hindi puro saya ,kahit ako na 4years marriage this year ,dumating din sa point na prang nawala yung love 😢
Knowing na hindi tayo perfect, then the fact na if may kulang punan mo as a partner.
Doon mag mag wowork yung samahan ng mag asawa.
Tell aljur out loud pls
If you are reading this right now , remember : BETTER DAYS ARE COMING. BE PATIENT. No regrets in Life , just lessons learned. YOU'RE GOING TO BE SUCCESSFUL! 🔥☝️💯
Amen!
Thank you. This is what I need to hear. Thank you.
tnx.i wish u the same.
In Jesus name Amen,🙏🙏
In Jesus Name, Amen!🙏
You can’t make a change until you can accept your mistakes. I salute you Aljur for accepting your mistakes on National tv. 💯 %
God bless you and family! 🙏🙏💕💞
Marriage is a commitment... We need the Lord to make it works❤
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This is so gentleman of Aljur.. he’s so careful of his answers but still being truthful to his emotions in answering the questions.
One of the most raw and truthful interview I've watched. God bless you Ma'am Toni and Sir Aljur. 🙏❤️
Watch mo rin po Ninong Ry with Bea Alonzo. ;)
@@abaidabzTV parang napanood ko na pero in passing lang po.
Parang ang sincere naman ni aljur tapos mukha syang nagsisisi,
Makikitavmo sa kanya na broken ang pagkatao nya at kailngan nya ng pamilya na makakausap .
Respect to Aljur & thank you for sharing your story. May God bless you, Kylie & your kids.
Grabi ang talino n Ms Tony mang interview...congratulations ms Tony😊❤
May mga bagay talaga na mas pinipili natin na hindi na lang sabihin hindi dahil natatakot o nahihiya tayo kundi dahil ayaw na natin balikan ang mga ito.
Sa tingin ko naging 'safe' ang mga sagot ni Aljur, not for himself, but for his kids and for Kylie as well
God bless you, Aljur.
I know God will continue moving in your life.
Thanks, Ms. Toni and the rest of the team. Keep inspiring people through shared stories. More Power. ♥️♥️♥️
I wish they both fought to save it. I am married 27 years now. The first 10 years is always a struggle. I thought I know my husband after being bf/gf after 9 years but not. But we survive !
Salute to this man, he accept his fault, he accept what is the concequence of what happen to his marriage, he become a better father to his kids, he become quiet because he feels that this is the better way to protect his kids and his ex-wife. He proves to be a better father for his kids despite of what happened. He support and provide his energy to his kids and to his important persons in his life.
Accept na nya ngayon kase alam na ng tao kamalian nya.. pero dati panay sya dinay
Atleast umamin na nagkamali..At hindi pinapabayaan ang mga anak..Proud ako sayo Aljur🙏🏻👏👏👏
lahat ng gusto kong itanong kay aljur.. tinanong na ni toni .. with respect ... salute ❤️
Ang galing mo talaga Toni ,God bless u ,na amaze Ako sa sau ,at napaka talentid mo, the best c lord sa Buhay natin dahil pag anak ka ni Lord bigyan ka talaga nang wisdom.
It's not too late Aljur! Babaero ako. Paulit-ulit. Until such time, pinakita sa akin ng DIYOS ang dahilan. Nawalan ako ng contentment. Nawala ang pagmamahal ko sa asawa ko. I ask GOD na ibalik Niya ang pagmamahal ko sa asawa ko, and GOD answered my prayer. Bumalik ako sa asawa ko at sa mga anak ko at muli kaming nabuo. Nalayo ako sa kanila dahil kailangan ko mag trabaho for them. Aljur, you can't say you love GOD without doing what HIS WILL. PROVE THAT YOU LOVE GOD THROUGH OBEYING HIM. BALIKAN MO ANG ASAWA MO AT MULI MONG BUUIN ANG PAMILYA MO! IPANALANGIN MO NA IBALIK NG DIYOS ANG PAGMAMAHAL MO SA ASAWA MO. GOD WILL ANSWER YOUR PRAYER DAHIL GUSTO NG DIYOS ANG BUING PAMILYA! Si satanas ang author ng broken family. Sa inyo bilang tao, hindi na mag wo-work out, PERO KUNG ISASANGKAP N'YO ANG DIYOS SA INYONG MAG-ASAWA, MAG WO-WORK OUT!
IPAKITA MO SA GAWW ANG PAGMAMAHAL MO SA DIYOS SA PAMAMAGITAN NG PAG BUBUO MO SA PAMILYA MO!
LOVE YOUR WIFE!
PINAG-ISA KAYO SA HARAPAN NG DIYOS!
MAG PAKALALAKI ALJUR!
KADUWAGAN ANG MANATILING WASAK ANG PAMILYA!
SANA MAKARATING SA'YO ANG MENSAHENG ITO...
MAY GOD SAVE YOUR SOUL ACCORDING TO GOD'S PURPOSE AND GLORY IN CHRIST JESUS!!!
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Gusto ko po tlaga the way you asked Miss Tony Kung ano Po ang best thing to do...kc napaisip din po ako kung ano nga po ba ang the best things to do to save our marriage.
Eye to eye contact is very important in this kind of interviews. He is uncomfortable sa ibang question. Simple, if you will tell the truth, mabilis ang sagot at eye to eye contact sa interviewee.
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May mga tao kasing ganyan.. Yaan nyo na.
I salute Toni for having the patience of dealing this man of front of him bc i don't even know from which question he is giving his answers to.
His candid reflection serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of open and honest communication in any relationship
Communication is the key in relationships
Totally agree! If we further explore and enhance ourselves, we will have positive growth. I saw same contents like this in your channel ATB.
Agree on this, in relationship to work an honest communication is the key. These topics are similar to your channel!
As for me, I dont want my family to separate, but somehow if its doesnt work then nothing can do about that.
Inuulit-ulit ni Aljur yung “makapagprovide” it means talagang nagstruggle siya in terms of providing for the family at dun na nagstart ang iba pang problems - CHEATING. Maybe on these moments where he is very worried/struggling about providing financially for his family, nahihiya siyang humarap sa pamilya niya esp sa wife niya kaya nagcheat siya, sa comfort nun other girl ang nahanap niya, w/c is inamin niya na narealize niya na mali siya.
Lesson I got from this interview is, open communication talaga dapat sa marriage so you can work as a team.
open communication talaga and never mag papa comfort sa iba. 🥺
@@lancealfonso3235 true
Struggle na nga sya sa financial dinagdagan nya pa nag cheat pa talaga. So double kana bro!
Kung ganon, baka hindi sya mahal ni Kylie. Kasi dapat sa marriage, kung naghihirap sa pagiging breadwinner ang asawa eh tulungan.
Kaya dapat wag magmadali SA pag aasawa pagisipan at planuhin wag libog pagbabasihan..
commitment and consistency are enough to make a marriage last
dapat ikaw ang naging matatag sa inyo para manatiling buo ang pamily ninyo . napakasakit un sa mga anak mo na hindi kayo buo, nasabi ko yan base on my experience bibitaw lang kaming mga babae kung una kayo bibitaw kase mapagtiis kming mga babae
I think marriage is great, it is life. Its where two people are united as one. Yes it can be hard sometime, but that's part of the adventure and the journey both enjoy. A husband or wife when they overcome money and let love do all they work is such a treasure. Plenty of mercy and the willingness to never give up anyone should hold. Such relationship, you can not ask for anything else. And yes, having the Lord with you in your heart is important. The Attitude, maturity and behaviour is needed also in marriage, less about you and more about each other. Its wonderful when God is their, you experience life to the fullest, its a good story to hold in your heart, specially to the younger ones.
Don't let others discourage you about marriage that has disappointed them, because yes when your in unity together and with Jesus. You got nothing to lose.
Never give up.
Ganda ng flow ng interview at ang galing ng wordings para matumbok ang tanong ng lahat. Nicely done, Toni! 🤍 And ramdam mo ang sincerity ni Aljur dito kahit medyo hirap siyang i-express feelings niya in words.
Di nga makatingin ng diretso , parang nagsisinungaling parin.
@@angeldetoms1372 Ni-nerbyos lang. Di naman natin alam ang true personality niya. Inamin niya namang may mali siya. Kung ano man ang hindi niya na share, hayaan na natin. Baka protection na din yun sa kay Kylie and the kids.
umamin tuloy ng di oras si aljur😂
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Mahiyain kasi si aljur from the very start kahit sa blog nung kapatid nya makikita mo lang sya sa corner
I want to hear more from Aljur. Nabitin ako sa mga testimonies nya.🥺
sarap tlga kausap ni toni G. kasi yung hindi mo ma express nasasabe nya, nakaka relieve sa sarili yung ganun kausap kasi alam nya yung nararamdaman mo. 😊❤
Hes so sincere sa mga sinasabi niya.
Waiting for Kylie's interview
Thanks Toni 😁
Yesss me tooo
Same here...
Up for this
Up
Same
Marriage SHOULD be for forever because love is not a feeling, it's a choice. You made a vow to be one with the other through the best and worst times. You always have a choice to stay, and never leave.
But what if the other person wants to leave? Takes two to tango
@@megenaman7030 don't marry or get married agad agad. Importante na kinikilala talaga ang isa't-isa muna. Di kasi na after marriage lang kikilalanin yung partner. Marriage is a promise.
@stanner the thing is may mga bagay na lumalabas lang kapag nagsama na kayo sa iisang bubong. Niloookdown kasi ang pag lilive in before marriage.. like mine, na super traditional and conservative family ko..and ending nagkahiwalayan kami ni husband..naghanap ng iba kasi hindi "daw" kami compatible.. letcheng yun. Anyway,
now i highly suggest going thru living in first for atleast 2 years without having kids..to test kung compatible ba talaga
I choose to stay but my other half choose to leave... have some self respect nalang. U should know when to give up and when to fight.. respect the decision and move on🙂
@@exmrsnowwomanscorned8369 live in, that's against what the bible is teaching us.
Pansin ko lang parang buntis si Ms. Toni. Congratulations po kung totoo man. hehheheh blooming yung magkakapatid😊
Suportahan lang ang mga bata at ina kahit hiwalay na kayo at saka laban lang aljur hindi lang saiyo nangyari yan tom rodrìguez nga kakasal hiwalay agad positibo lang at tama ka huwag intindihin ang sinasabi ng iba kapit at tiwala sa diyos at the end maganda rin ang resulta ng nanguari sa buhay niyò,god bless
Sa lahat ng na interview ni toni, ito yung episode na nag connect ang puso ko... No one is perfect at admit our mistakes and bumawi ka sa mga pagkukulang mo.. ❤Kudos aljur!
NO ONE IS PERFECT BUT YUNG IVA KUBG MAKAPANGHUSGA THEY FEEL SO CLEAN AND PERFECT🤣
What a man,humble to admit his sin...and moving forward to make himself a better person .Have faith
Ewww u also cheated ba kaya connect? Lol
@@gracedomingo658 hahahahxd he is not trying to change, he is asking for everyone's sympathy lol because he needs projects pra mbuhay si kabit...he is still with the girl who broke their family and u saying he changed? San Banda in lol konting iyak lng ptol nmn kayo
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For a man to accept his fault and mistake in public is a salute.
he wants people like you to sympathize. he is an actor, it's his job to pretend.
Their just normal people ... accepting that ur wrong proves that ur now a man!!
We don't know if he privately admits his fault to Kylie tho - the one na may malaki siyang kasalanan. But we don't know him for sure, so we can't judge.
but let us not forget the fact that he cheated and continously having an affair with that girl.
I would agree with your statement if that is what he did from the beginning. To protect AJ he denied all allegations of him cheating, then he tried to blame Kylie as if she was the one that cheated “first” and AJ reposting that post, then his most recent interview before this, it was with an older lady he stated it was both their fault. Now, he’s finally accepting he is at fault and openly admitted he cheated to Toni. Yet from the beginning of this interview he tried to go around it again making it seem they were both fault. I think he has a better relationship with Toni then he did with the other people who he interviewed with he he probably cares about her opinion so he couldn’t lie. When she finally directly asked him and stated you cheated, he couldn’t deny it. He still hesitated a bit while answering her direct question of him cheating. Like his brain and mouth were not coordinating with each other.
Ang sincere ng talks nila..❤❤❤
Go Aljur, Kylie, I will pray for the both of you, God can do the impossible.
Amen
atleast sya ngttry ng best mgsustento hnde tulad sa iba na may nkalaan na daw para sa mga anak sa pagdating ng panahon. kaya okay lang yan aljur kht nhirapan ka sumagot atleast honest ka pa dn 😊
In every mistake, you can have another chance to overcome it. Sa buhay natin, may mga pagkakataon na nagkakaroon tayo ng maling desisyon na akala natin magiging maganda yung outcome but then you will realize it was not. For now, we need to focus on our life, on how we can surpass the struggles, to enjoy and be happy at all cost. Don’t be bothered on what others will say.
I really like Toni the way she interview her guest!
Marriage is something about whatever you do, wherever you are, it will hunt you down. Sa marriage mo malalaman kung gaano ka katatag bilang isang tao. Im not saying na we all the same. But in my part, i experience more than i can ever imagine. Worst is Naexperience kong manloko at maloko. Kahit ano kapa dun sa dalawa parehas kayong talo. Especially kung may anak na. Dahil ung inakala mo at yung binuo mo unti unti mong nakikitang nasisira. Masisira buong pagkatao mo. Dadating sa punto na dimo na kilala sarili mo at wala kanang tiwala sa lahat. Andyan din yung problema nio financially. Major problem to. Punot dulo ng lahat ng problema. Kahit kagaano pa kadami pera mo poproblemahin mo at propoblemahin mo yan. But in the end , its still a choice. Kung choice mo ayusin o tuluyan ng sirain. Saludo ako sa mga taong nagchoice to stay. Kasi kahit ano pang nangyare you choose to forgive and trying to forget.
Hey 👍👍👍Nice Interview Ms. Toni
Totoong Tao,Ama,Asawa,Anak si Brother Aljur👍👍🙏😇
Toni Talks is part of my sundays best. Loving to hear a lot of testimony from diff. people it makes me more compassionate, open minded and understanding that each one of us has a different story to tell to inspire people.
Parang tumaba si toni
@@shazia7624 buntis
O kahit isa sia sumulong na mawalan ng trabaho libo libo ng pinoy sa abs. Na dti niyang naging tahanan, kung saam siya kumita ng malaki.
Lalo gumanda si Toni na tumaba siya, buntis si Toni ☺️
This was my husband's situation mga six years ago.. he cheated with our family, pag kinakausap ko siya what went wrong Wala siya masagot parang may pinagdadaanan siya sa sarili Niya.. he chose his mistress over me and our three children and then I let him go. Two years later we got back together. Masasabi ko na he's more responsible now.. and mas open na kame nag aaway pa din kame pero mas na eexpress Niya na yung feelings Niya.. kelangan lang talaga minsan intindihin naten Ang mga mister naten, hindi yung si misis Ang laging tama😉
There is no marriage too broken God cannot restore. The devil is on the move breaking marriages, families & relationships but our God is Sovereign! Praying for them & broken families to be made whole in the mighty name of Jesus! ❤
Aljur doesn’t know how to answer the questions, Toni is filling all gaps.
Toni questions are great, Hindi kailangan pang magbasa. Very smart woman and classy. Mararamdaman mo yung hindi nya pina uncomfortable yung guest nya.
Children will always yearn for a complete family not a “co-parenting” system. I hope Aljur will continue to guide His children according to the will of God. Be the Man you want your children to be 😊
My GOD! I can see he is so consumed by the guilt he is feeling. May God give light to your heart. And sana ikaw na nagkasala, ikaw dapat ang huwag bumitaw at gawan mo pa ng paraan magkabalikan kayo alang alang sa mga bata
Time heals..Praying na magkabalikan kayo..Nothing impossible to God..Win her back..!!Total forgiveness is the only key.
Sila ni na aj eh
Nice to hear aljur’s side
Kuya aljur pinakamabait na artista nakilala ko❤
I feel the pain ...aljur is so true ..naluluha ako sa sagot niya ..may mga pagsisi cya talaga
Na feel ko sincerity ni Aljur. And bawat salita nya May “sa ngayon”, “nung time na yun” na ang interpretation ko is Hindi naman sya nag ko-close ng door para sa kanila ni Kylie pero sa tingin ko si Kylie na rin ang May ayaw. So sad lang para girl nya ngayon na Hindi sya maipagmalaki at maipangalandakan na kasama sya sa “mahal”, consequences ng pag mamahal sa May pamilyang tao.
God bless aljur for me your the best father ❤
I felt so sure about this one. Kylie was the one who end it first, as Aljur said binuo pa nya but it ended up still broken.
Right on
Bat ganun ang sakit pakinggan ng mga sagot tapos ang ganda ng tanong,na parang pagkatapos ng interview. You dont need to do research kasi andito na lahat.. reason why,what happen to them.
Masakit lang para sakin,kasi sayang sila.idol ko sila na kahit dati ang gusto kong loveteam ni Idol Aljur si Kris Bernal.
Pero dahil si Kylie ay nakita ko ang pagmamahalan nila.grabe yun,nasundan ko yun,pero syempre hindi naman lahat malalaman ang personal life nila. There are things na hindi na dapat ihayag pa.Ang linaw na lahat.
They both did mistake and they decide what is good for them and the kids. At syempre dahil fan at taga subaybay nila. I hope na in the future.,yung makikita mo sila na matanda ng dalawa. At magkahawak ang kamay.na sila pa din pala sa huli.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Tuloy lang laban para sa mga supling natin,at time mahalaga talaga yun,lalo na kung bata pa sila.kasi di mo mamamalayan na malalaki na sila,at marerealize mo na bat ang bilis ng oras,bakit may hindi ka nagawa.Sa inyung Dalawa Kylie Padilla and Aljur Abrenica. GOD BLESS YOU MORE. at maging masagana kayu para sa inyung nga anak,at para sa future nila.
Halata yung sadness sa mga mata nya. Nakita namin sya last friday sa lang sa ptt sctex, parang driving lang naglilibang ganun.. thank you kuya aljur bumaba kapa ng sasakyan para makapag pa picture kame. Stay strong.
Ang nafifeel ko kay Aljur tingin nya sa sarili nya failure sya. Ang lungkot ng mga mata nya. For now ang dapat molang gawin be there for your kids and I can see that youre doing that and I salute you for that being a responsible Dad for them. About marriage is a lot of work and patience talaga at the same time hindi naman marriage ang magpapatibay sa isang relasyon. May mga couple kase na kahit hindi kasal nagtatagal sila kaya huwag ding mag judge sa mga hindi kasal hindi lahat ng kasal sapat na
Naisip ko baka ganito din ex husband ko..malungkot siya pero he cheated and continued parin parang confusing sa akin.. ganyan nakikita ko kay Aljur.. mahina siya.. gumiveup na siya sa family nya kasi he enjoyed the new woman na. Ganyan mga cheater eh..
True po Kami Hindi kasal Pero ngtagal pro hindi ko Rin alam Kong hanggang kailan ang ang relasyon namin
@@exmrsnowwomanscorned8369 Cheating issues? Kung mas naging maagap lng kayo sa mga naging blind items news years ago, well hindi nyo masasabi nyan, since aljur wants to end the discussions he admits all the credits to blame for their failed relationship. Because she still care about her ex wife, as he said. Kylie is still the mother of his childrens. Mali lang ni aljur dito nauna syang nag flex🤣😅
@@roshellmiguel5888 what do you mean? May keme si kylie?
@@roshellmiguel5888 True 😂😢
Good job Aljur, you’re protecting not only your kids but also Kylie.
Sa pagssbi mo ng katotohanan at pgtanggap mo sa iyong nagawang kasalan.. saludo aq sayo.. isa kang tunay na lalaki..