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The sister never intended to make the announcement. She just didn't want her pregnant sister to have attention before the wedding.
Exactly. It's so obvious that's what she was doing. How shallow and entitled. OP should have grabbed the mic and announced her pregnancy to everyone at her sister's wedding.
Yeah she definitely does not want anyone to upstage her big day
The parents in the first story did good by adding a curtain. If the two- the child and the parents- ever negotiate/if it becomes a problem with the boys barging into Maggie’s room without making sure she wasn’t changing or something, an alternative would be adding something that prevents the door from being slammed. There’s some doors I’ve seen that shut really slowly and cannot be physically slammed but that might be costly
I wonder if there are some felt strips that can be added, that still permit the door to be properly closed, but muffle the noise?
@@Kayenne54 yeah that was along the lines of what I was thinking. I’m in theater and we put tape on the door to keep it from slamming (to limit any loud noises during a performance).
I suggested the same thing on other channels that covered that story.
I had my door taken when I was younger, didn't get a curtain or anything, just had to change in the bathroom or my closet :/
It's not fun, even more so when you're parents never knocked b4 barging into your room
Yes, there are several devices to reduce/eliminate slamming doors. Additionally, a psychiatrist may be able to find the cause of the otherwise "good daughter" door slamming.
If I slammed doors like that little girl and didn't obey when told to stop my parents would not tolerate the disrespect. Honestly I'm always thankful to them for making sure I wasn't disobedient, it feels like way too many kids are these days. 😬
Personally, I think Maggie's attitude at the breaking point is a sign to take her to therapy. Her unapologetic behavior implies that she's disrupting the family on purpose, and no normal teenager would go that far.
Honestly, that doesn't have to be the case. Maggie is 14, and I remember it was only in the later half of my 14th year that I started to mature as a person. During the time before that, I used to relish in annoying and angering my brother. I don't know why, but I just liked seeing him angry, knowing that I could affect his mood like that. I still mess with him sometimes, but these days, I don't like it when he gets angry because, obviously, I like seeing the people I love be happy.
I can't give an exact reason why I enjoyed ruining his mood in the first place. It wasn't like I resented him. If anything, it was the opposite. I felt like I had to take care of him when things went wrong. And I never treated anyone else like this. Not my dad or my friends at school. Me and him just had this constant rivalry of sorts.
It's just a case of becoming emotionally mature. She might just like annoying her family because she knows that they'll tolerate it. She knows that no matter what she does, they'll still love her, so there's no reason to be cautious or respect them.
Obviously, she needs to learn that there are certain boundaries and that she DOES need to have a level of respect for her parents and siblings- just like I did- but I feel like a calm and open conversation where she doesn't just ignore her parents and actively explains herself might solve the whole thing way earlier.
I mean she's 14 what probably means she's just really hormonal rn because of puberty, or is just in her rebellious part of being a teen.
You'd be surprised that most teens are like this. No therapy needed for natural teen behavior.
@@KrillWhisperer but it's still good to get her a therapist so she can go through these hormonal changes in a healthy way that doesn't affect the rest of the household.
@@michaelaax therapist means "there's something wrong with you" and to a hormonal teen that's hella fucking insulting/damaging (since they already feel wrong about everything about themselves and making them go to a therapist would only engrave it deeper) and would make shit even worse mostly for the kid lmao
You simple gotta be understanding, a little bit more firm/easier with them depending on a given situation and just give them time and space they require till they feel better about the whole process.
The audacity to disrespect you parents. You maybe upset once in a while and slam the door out of frustration but every time ? That's an attitude.
2nd Story: My friend's wife not only was walked down the isle by her mother, but she also danced with her mother because she doesn't have a father. My other friend got walked down by her oldest son, then danced with all three sons at the wedding. You don't just get walked down by a man, you get walked down by the person that has been there for you and is now giving you away. The sister has been her parental role and has raised her and been there for her. Her sister absolutely has the right to walk her down. People bent on following tradition are just giving in to peer pressure from dead people.
The ‘giving away’ thing is so gross too. Like, you are your own person, not an object, you can’t be ‘given away’, and it’s especially gross when it’s men objectifying women
@@emilyrose3490 well, i see where you're coming from, but I don't think it's negative. Giving away doesn't mean you aren't your own person, but since it's usually the father or father figure handing off the daughter to the groom, it symbolizes her no longer being apart of his household. Now she's her own woman with her own family. In a way, it's honestly beautiful. The father is essentially saying, "She's no longer my princess, now she's your queen." It doesn't mean the woman isn't independent, that's the whole point. She's no longer under her father's jurisdiction (if she still lived at home, that is), now she's her husband's partner. You can be apart of something and be an individual. A unit is made up of separate people that come together, not one person.
@@emilyrose3490 same
@@winniethepooht5776 Yes. It is sooo not appropriate for the future FIL to "give away" something that was never "his" to begin with. Him doing that would only be for guests to see that it LOOKED like a traditional wedding, when in fact it wasn't to begin with. Whether her sister or her FIL walked her, it's already not traditional. These in-laws are so worried about appearance, I'd be taking a step back.
The tradition of "giving away" is extremely sexist in the first place. Women aren't some object to be handed over. Besides, it would be more romantic and beautiful if both the bride and the groom walk down the aisle hand in hand.
Story 3: the bride went back on her word and had the sister wait to tell the parents and when she did tell the parents she told them privately so if the bride didn’t know on her wedding day then they didn’t take any shine from her on her day so idk why she’s mad
Yeah it didn’t ruin the big day
One of my friends did that to their daughter’s door because she would get mad and would slam her door. So one day, my friend’s husband was tired of their daughter doing that so he took her door off.
Abusive and removing privacy? She was abusing the door and house and her parents even put up a curtain to replace it! Doors aren't sound proof typically so what's the difference?
Honestly a curtain to go in my door frame as well as my door sounds nice. That way I can keep my door open but still have a closed off room without blocking in the cold air (my vent doesn't work that well when the door's closed)
Somebody needs to hire a carpenter to cut off about 3/4 of an inch off the bottom of Every interior Door in that house to get better airflow for heat and air conditioning. Some home builders don't know anything about that. But it's a known fact amongst the professionals carpenters and HVAC personnel. It's all about maximum air flow with doors shut.
the difference is that she can't slam the door anymore lol
Difference is you cant lock a curtain lol
Apparently slamming doors in the middle of the night when everybody else is sleeping is a sign of narcissism.
Story 1. NTA I would have done the same.
Story 2. NTA I would dump him sorry not sorry.
For real, I can’t imagine marrying or staying with someone who thinks demanding that you have someone you probably barely know be by your side for one of your most precious life events because the person you actually want doesn’t fit their idea of “traditional”.
Story 3 the sister probably never intended to anounce her sisters pregnancy on her wedding, she just didn't want the attention leading towards the wedding drawn from her either. Otherwise she could've told her sister about her change of mind, and the pregnant sister could've gotten the support she needed during her first trimester.
It might be BOTH her special day AND his, but SHE is the one who is being walked down the aisle so SHE gets to choose who walks her down the aisle.
How in the world does it make sense for the father in law to walk her down the aisle?? If they are so traditional shouldn’t it be someone from her family giving her away… it makes no sense for the father to give her away
This literally goes to show exactly how people see themselves as sooo entitled. These are the ppl that make me sick and lose faith in this world.
They literally said they’ll put the door back once she agrees to stop slamming the door. So if she doesn’t have a door for a long time, that’s her fault
TLDR: Lack of consideration on many sides.
Story 1. OP's daughter was aware there were going to be consequences and gets upset when it's followed through. What I can't understand is why she thought the door slamming was something minor if everyone was complaining about it (like blowing up when OP confronted her in the night).
Story 2. It's understandable that she wants her only family member walking her down but not doing that doesn't diminish any of what they've gone through. I just hope they still have a great marriage afterward since it seems like a situation of OP needing to face her dream wedding in her head and her real wedding.
Story 3. I understand OP's sister suddenly not wanting what could be her happiest day ever being overshone by OP's pregnancy but that doesn't mean she's entitled to making OP postpone the announcement. Especially if she wasn't clear about it and that the announcement DOESN'T EVEN overshine her wedding.
Story 4. OP's side makes sense but it feels like there's a lot of questions about the sister. She doesn't contribute yeah but does she spend every minute of her free time studying that she wants no disruptions at all? Was her roommate issues because of her or her roommates? Or does she just feel like she doesn't want to work in any way, regardless if OP offered to pay her? It feels like there was a lot of build-up for OP to burst into anger...
I disagree with you on story 2. I think its the guy who needs to face his dream wedding and realise his dream doesn't fit his SO's reality.
For something as important emotionally as a wedding, it seems kinda cruel to change the person giving you away (something you usually give to your guardian/sibling), because the guardian/sibling isn't male.
And considering the limited amount of family the bride has, I think it's fairly sensible to combine the 2 roles, instead of giving it to someone she's significantly less close to.
@@aliceinwonderland8314 Oh definitely there are many compromises that can be made - like having two walk her down the aisle since that's not uncommon or something. At this point the bride and the groom need to just sit down and talk but I'm siding with OP since there's literally NOTHING wrong having your only family walk you down for your wedding.
The sister didn't want the pregnant sister to get any attention since her wedding was all about her. And I guess she wanted to get pregnant and anounce that first😛
Story 1.
When my daughter was 17 she went through an angry phase, she would scream, throw things etc. she slammed her bedroom door in my face once; I told her if she did it again I’ll take it off. Well a few days later she did it again. I said nothing. I went for Hubby’s tool kit and took the door off and left it off for a whole month. After her initial shock and anger she apologized. I accepted her apology but she had to learn about consequences (I always follow through with disciplining my children). When the month was up she actually thanked me for teaching her this ‘life lesson.’ She’s now 26 and is an amazing, calm person. We still laugh about it every now and then. 😆😂
sounds like you’re a bad parent. don’t take away your child’s privacy.
@@brianna058 you’re obviously not a parent so you don’t have a clue!
@@brianna058 you sound like someone who never had kids before. Sorry, but this isn't horrible parenting. Neglecting or abusing your child in any type of way is bad parenting.
@@brianna058 says a person who doesn't know what it's like to have kids. If your kid is gonna be a brat and be disrespectful, then they don't get nice privileges
@@cindypicadomolina7814
Except privacy isn't a 'nice privilege' it's a basic human right and arguably a vital need as well. A good parent doesn't take away their child rights because 'they're being disrespectful'.
Doesn't like, slamming doors cause a lot of damage to it? So if she kept it up, she'd lose the door anyways - just a lot longer cause the hinges or doorframe could be ruined, and it's expensive to fix as far as I know.
My sister in law was walked down the aisle by her mum, her dad passed some years ago. Her mum is a pastor. If she can do it the family in the second story can allow OP to be walked by her sister.
About the bride (second story) I am very much in favor of tradition and yes it is his wedding too, but she is the 'star' of the show and what the bride says goes. If he loves her forsaking all others he will support her in this
Story 1 That parents did warn the daughter many times. The daughter does have her privacy she just doesn't have a door.
First story should get soft close hinges so she can’t slam the door when/if they return the door to her.
"But traditionally it's done by a man" well the raising of the child is normally also done by a man so
1. NTA. Why Maggie slams her door too much? I don't think they're taking away Maggie privacy (which she was entitled to), they're just tired of her slamming her door.
2. NTA. I know it's the fiancé's wedding, but it's also OP's wedding. The sister is the one giving OP away since she doesn't have male relatives, and the male father doesn't want her. Also, what is with these traditional gender roles?
3. NTA. It was a private moment with the family, and the sister (aka the bride) was mad about it. It's not like OP's gonna take that attention away.
4. NTA. The sister is living rent-free, and is not willing to babysit. Can't see just compromise and bring her friends over to study?
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Growing up I never had an issue with slamming doors but I got yelled at and cussed out for locking my door. I ONLY locked my door when I was changing because nobody in my house but my father would knock. My mother and brother would barge in without asking and the amount of times I’ve been naked when my brother comes swinging in. It pissed me off badly. Like I can’t lock a fucking door to just change clothes!? It sucked even worse because I had a 2nd door in my room that was connected to a bathroom that was accessible to the rest of the house from the hallway. That door could be locked from inside the bathroom but not my room. So when my mother would try coming in my room while I’m changing, she’d cuss me out and yell then go into the bathroom and unlock that door and barge in my room. I don’t care if that’s my mother. That’s so disrespectful. Living with my parents was SO toxic. Glad I’m far away now…
I know for a fact that if I was living in a house where a teen was slamming the doors a LOT, it would drive me crazy lol. good on the parents for doing something about it AND making sure their daughter still has a right to privacy!! 😀
I love the quote that goes “When men step out, women step up” I think that definitely applies to the sister in the second story. If the fiancé’s family would rather put sexist traditions ahead of a family bond and honour, then they are not worth knowing. It makes you wonder what other things they will overlook down the line - oh only our sons can go to university, our daughters can either get factory/retail jobs or become SAHM’s - see what I mean? Whatever you allow will continue…
1:39 bro at least she gets a curtain when her door is taken away
The first story: Her parents were nice enough to give her a curtain so that no one can peek or barge in. The amount of disrespect baffles me.
Curtain ain’t gonna hold nobody back from barging in 😂
@@KagomeYasha023 I meant barging in as in walking in without a sign lol they still gonna make noise when they slide it open
HIS day??? They’re both getting married to each other, it’s THEIR day
Story 1 reminded me of when my oldest started slamming her door. She got warned twice and on the 3rd slam, there goes her door. Her little sister started doing it too, there went her door. When they had no door for a few days, never had a problem with door slamming again.
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I really need an update on the second story
I used to slam my bedroom door when I got mad so my family removed the door. This kid is lucky, all I got in replace was a box. The box was to keep the dog out because he kept coming in and taking off with my things. He was a golden retriever but was scared of the box even though he was slightly taller than it. I had to change in the bathroom. I'm a person who likes being closed off in one room and not having my door drove me nuts. It took me seven door removals before I finally learned to stop slamming my door.
Dammmnnnnnnn 7??? Omggg loll
#4 the sister seems like she’s never ever been held accountable has never had to contribute and has always been coddled and enabled and entitled
Story number 2 is the reason why I don’t want to get married in the future, at least, I don’t want to have a white/traditional wedding. Because after hearing these kinds of stories it’s become clear to me that people only care about everything being “perfect” and traditional on their wedding day. It’s not about the union between two people anymore. :/
First story reminds me of what happened with my older sis. We lived in a three bedroom place and her and I were too old to share a room so she got a 'room' in the basement next to our parent's. We have a rule as a family if you give someone a friend's cell number you need to ask that person for permission to before you do so..... well sis didn't (she had a tarp for a door plus the furnace in her room) so mom took the tarp away for a few months. By the time we moved she learned her lesson but she took the only room in the basement of our new place that had a door. Bro and I had rather flags or bedsheets for doors. (I got one for my 13th birthday as I hit womanhood then)
Maggie is lucky to even have a curtain, If I did that when I was her age my mom would've thrown my door into a wood chipper.
if you say "this is important to me and I really need you to support this" before your wedding and the in laws fuss, that's a sign that they don't respect your family. My wedding was completely canceled because of something like this, we eloped and are pretty happy, but i don't encourage our families to mingle with each other anymore
Does no one remember WHY someone "gives away" the bride during a wedding? It's symbolic of he former family giving her into the protection of her new husband. It is someone from the old family showing trust and respect to the new family that they will care for her, support her, and love her as much as the old family did. This job cannot be filled by the new family. It isn't just traditionally a man's role. It is the role of the former care giver. That has traditionally been a man, but it no longer is a male care-giver society. It's a care-giver any gender society. This bride has the right to have the person who raised her give her into the new family. It is slamming the face of the reason behind the tradition to have just anyone fill that role. The role belongs to the sister!
Even though I am a grad school student living at home my parents to save a bit of money they still barge into my rooms all the time, give me no privacy, and I still need their consent to go out or do anything. So I have NO Empathy for the first story’s girl.
Normally I'd agree taking the door off of a child's room is stripping them of bodily autonomy and is borderline abuse, but in this case that's just discipline, and they even gave her a privacy curtain. Nta.
Love these kinds of stories.
For the story that ended around 8:33
The sister in that story was being unreasonable, but only after calling back on her word. What is ridiculous to me is she's mad that she told her ONLY PARENTS at the wedding. I know it was supposed to be her day, but the person in the story needed support and only had two people who knew.
The person in the 3rd story needs to go because she's acting horribly. If I was living there, I'd give them access to my account to help with rent, and sometimes help with getting groceries and would always order special treats for everyone 😊
Sister lied; wanted to keep it from taking away from HER business. She didn't suffer, nor was her wedding disrupted, no one knew except the parents. She was just being snotty because now, her SISTER and her child are getting the attention. She's JEALOUS.
second one, im sorry but my ring would be out the window. either we are all cool calm and collective or my family over ANYONE!!!!!
The parents in the first story did a lot to accommodate their child out of respect and being great parents in that moment……more importantly, they need to look into why she is so angry and/or selfish. I could never have slammed a door in my dad’s house 😂. Story 2: The husband has nothing to do with which person the wife chooses from HER side of the family because they are giving HER away not him. She’s about to have a hard road with those people. Story 3: Don’t apologize. The wedding was already over and she didn’t tell the whole party 🙄-sounds like she’s jelly. Story 4: Throw her out on her arse. She’s selfish and not homeless. She can always go to one of those relative’s homes that side with her😂
For the second story it is also her wedding and the whole point of “giving her away” it’s the father giving his daughter away to her husband. It wouldn’t make since in a “traditional wedding” for her FIL to give her away bc she’s not his to begin with. She should 100% stick by what she wants bc at the end of the day SHES the one being walked down the isle
From the age of 7-10 I didn’t have a door 🤷🏼♀️ just a tension rod with some too long thin cat print fabric. It’s not that I wasn’t allowed to have a door, we were renting a house and my room just happened to not have a door. Plus I shared my room with my oldest (late teens/adult) brother and all my brothers friends that needed a place to crash. And my friends who needed a safe place to go because bad home life. I can’t tell you how many times I woke up to find a random friend/teenage boy sound asleep in my room. Not always just one. Some days there’s be two guys sharing the queen bed on the other side of the room and one of my friends asleep on the floor or in bed with me. We had an open door policy (still somewhat do) to whoever needed it and everyone was allowed to raid the fridge freely. Always locked the front door, but the backdoor was always unlocked unless mom had just mopped, then that was your cue to wake up my other brother and have him let you in through the front door since he was the only one with a ground floor bedroom.
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For the first story I was going to say I was on Maggie's side until the part about the curtain. Since her privacy is still there (assuming the curtain is thick enough) I would say removing the door is ok. However if Maggie is usually a good kid then there is probably a reason behind her slamming her door that the parents should really get to the bottom of.
Nah she's a spoiled brat
@@kimnamjooniemoni2221
Not according to the storyteller. Apparently she is usually a good (well good enough) kid which makes her slamming her bedroom door in the middle of the night a bit odd.
i live with someone who slams her door upon enter and exit, and she stomps up and down the stairs when she goes up or down, AND she's stomping in her room shaking the house at all hours of the night
With the door slam story, I think the parents should try to find out why Maggie was slamming the door. People don’t tend to slam doors unless they are upset, and her screaming about being left alone means there’s almost definitely something going on. Once they know why, maybe they can get to an agreement with Maggie.
With the final story, I think kicking her out is totally reasonable but only one week isn’t enough to find a new place, two weeks to a month is much more reasonable (not paying for like food and stuff tho of course).
2nd story...the in-laws have no right to give her away, she doesn't belong to their family..it should be a family member that gives the bride away, traditionally...
in the first story when she said if " If i slammed would have slammed the door as a teenager..." i instantly said youre dead.
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My parents took my door once they didn't even give me a curtain there was nothing there I had to change in the bathroom she's lucky
The door slamming kid has some serious stuff going on me thinks, her parents should find a way to talk to her
She didn't want her pregnant sister to outshine her during this time. It was only supposed to be about her and her wedding.
Story 1: Daughter is lucky she has a curtain! My parents did this to my brother. He was allowed to change in the bathroom. And I never had a door on my room as I lived in a flex room in the house. I had 3 full walls and one half wall. Thankfully I was on the second floor, but could hear everything from downstairs all the time. I was the only female child. No door. But here's the thing, the bathroom was always available. And bonus for us as the house had 3. I never even thought about complaining. I did ask why my room was that one and my parents said they thought I deserved the biggest room despite having less privacy. I had a huge closet and almost double the room size as my brothers. No one had to share a room. It worked. I also was probably the best sleeper too as I wasn't prone to being woken by small noises. I think it was that my parents trusted me to not abuse the privilege of the big room and having the personal responsibility of going to bed when I was supposed to and not staying awake because I could hear everything. I really miss that house and bedroom.
But when did kids become of the mindset that they are entitled to privacy, doors, and other adult-earned privileges? Maybe I am just of a different generation. Who knows...but I am not yet 40 and I can't relate. I know I wasn't always respectful, responsible, or trustworthy as a kid/teen...but this is a whole new level.
Not watching this yet because I'm busy rn, but i can't wait
NTA for all but the last story. While the OP’s actions were not technically “wrong”, kinda seems like an overreaction over one single instance, and some of her remarks suggest she resents her sister, even though she’s only gotten help with study materials and food. And the fact that the sister automatically assumed she would be babysitting not just this once, but for the foreseeable future, suggests the kind of person the OP is. If the OP wanted her sister to contribute to the household more, she could’ve just asked for that, but instead she took the opportunity to kick her out as soon as one presented itself while trying to maintain an image of being kind and generous because that’s all it seems to be: an image, not the reality. But that’s just my take given what’s written here
Her name "Kyutie" is so fitting.
Everyone in my house slams the door and it shakes the whole house and makes my backboard rattle so I wake up. I have a slide door that has a gap so sound comes in really loud.
The girl in the first story honestly sounds like something is wrong. I remember when I would act like that it was only when something was truly wrong with me mentally and I wasn't in a good state
Sometimes it can be that or she really could be going through one of the many jerk stages of growing up, I hope it’s the latter.
1 story, the grandmother needs to realize parents have to teach a brat about consequences. If she wants to have an angry flphase and be disrespectful, her parents have a right to take the door away. Besides, she has a curtain so she still has privacy
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Story 1: If I did that shit I would get beaten so bad by my parents.
Mom: Slam your door again and we'll take your door
Daughter: *repeatedly slams door out of spite*
Door: *is gone*
Daughter: *shocked Pikachu face*
1st story if i slammed a door my punishment would be to open and close the door nicely between 50 to 100 times it depended on how angry we where and what was said before
S1- She choose 2 ignore their rules n it's not her own house. She should b grateful th@ she is still get 2 live in the still house. She has every chance 2 learn lesson n get her door bk.
S2- Get a new fiancée n it's ur wedding 2. U have a right 2 a happy day.
S3 - The sister is actin more like a baby then the nephew. Grow up, it's her fault 4 backin out last min. She had done nothing wrong.
S4- I think she's is Bein fair n the family should b told the whole story. The sister is just bein lazy n ungrateful 4 everything they've done 4 her.
1st story, It would be the 1st and last time you would ever slam a door or yell...I Promise You!!
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Second!
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Emotionally abusive 💀💀💀 istg if my kid turns out like that
If the sister (bride) can change her mind so can the pregnant sister. It’s not like she ran up and grabbed the microphone and made an announcement or whatever, she quietly told her parents. The sister bride sounds like a narcissist control freak who is bitter about something 🙄
Lol I wrote that part about the microphone the moment you mentioned it 😂 that’s so funny 😂
Completely unrelated:
So i used to have a really close friend (used to be besties but we drifted apart). She was overweight and was constantly gaining weight. I personally loved her the way she was but her weight made me worry about her health. So I'd tell her to loose weight by exercising every once in a while. I made sure to say that i was saying this for her health and to loose weight in a healthy way.
I never put much thought into it.
Just now i suddenly remembered about this and i realised that i might have unintentionally made her feel insecure about her weight.
Like, from my perspective, i was saying it out of worry but to her it might have seemed as if i was fat shaming her.
Was i wrong for that? It's been a few years and i don't think i can even apologize to her now.
But do let me know what you guys think so that I can be more considerate of others in the future.
Sounds like you were giving unwanted unsolicited “advice” even if it was out of care it probably didn’t come off that way but who knows only your ol friend could tell you for sure
1:54 i also lost my door once this isn't an overreaction it's a good punishment helps you learn not to slam doors less ;)
The sister from the third story sounds like a flake. I’m a single mum and I study full time for my degree, so I’m not buying that 2 hours of watching a child that is her blood relative would have that much of an impact on her studies. She sounds like an immature brat and I can see why she had issues with her roommates initially. If someone was helping me out that much I would never complain and I would probably worship them. Especially in these tough times
Story one I wouldn't dare tried that with my mom growing up the slippers would have my ass..
1:18 first this person says they had to be up at 5am for work, then they say they had the day off that day 😑🤔
Different days. Pay attention
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The whole walking a bride down the isle is also symbolic of a man "giving away" the bride as though she is an object or possession to be handed off to another man. That's what I hate most about that story. Doesn't have to be seen that way in every wedding but in this specific story it seems clear to me the "values" of the in-laws. 🤢
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personally the last story I don't think the sister was wrong like there was no deal regarding taking care of THEIR kid to stay there like id understand if it were chores to take care of the house but again there was no deal regarding that kid so she should leave bc those parents too me are red flags especially calling her a bitch like that like wtf imagine not telling someone apart of the deal and then emotionally abusing them by being like "I've been so kind to you and this is how you repay me" like.... rude, parents need to learn that if someone doesn't want to babysit their kid then accept the god damn no and find someone else who wants to do it don't blackmail them by doing something good for them only to use it against them later when you need something, that's not kindness its manipulation, again id rather live somewhere else than become a servant to those parents for something that wasn't even agreed on
Pregnant couple, I understand your issue, you wanted to tell your parents, but you could have waited until the next day.. what's one more day? But...Bridezilla needs to chill...I'm sure she'll come to her senses eventually.
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I don't think anyone should have their door removed, especially for something like that. I'm gonna have to say that I'm on Maggie's side on this one. The attitude wasn't right but still :/
imo she deserved it. i mean I'm her age myself, but I'm horrified when i accidentally slam my door. not out of fear but respect. she's being so obnoxious for no reason, and loses it when confronted. imo the curtain was unnecessary as well.
@@user-hw6bi5uc1q I say this coming from a place of having no privacy. I had no door throughout my childhood and I can still remember how uncomfortable and unhappy it made me. Only difference was I didn't have a curtain
For the last story, I think OP was in the wrong. Of course, we don't know the full story, some things could have been left out in favor of either party. But for the same reason you don't ask your oldest child to look after the younger siblings, it's also a little unfair to ask the sister to look after the kid when she was never planning on doing so. If her schedule is filled with school, and those are the hours she uses for homework, then she's going to get behind on her classes. It also depends on how old the son is, but if he's really young and a babysitter is absolutely necessary, then yeah, maybe the sister should have agreed at least for the day and to get paid for it. But I think kicking her out for disagreeing is going too far.
The thing is:
1) the sister didn't have classes for a little while, so she did have time to babysit.
2) it was unexpected as the only babysitter that they had was sick.
3) the sister was basically living in that household for free with free food, she doesn't contribute to the household at all. She was basically a freeloader.
4) it wasn't going to be forever, just until they find a new babysitter. At most, it would have been a couple of days as they never intended her to babysit.
5) sister said, "I would have gone somewhere else if I knew that I was going to be a babysitter." OP just gave her sister what she wanted, to find a new place to live so she wouldn't be able to babysit.
6) both OP and her husband work, and they couldn't afford to have some time off for this. OP is staying home for a little while to short this out, but their paycheck is going to take a hit.
In some ways, it is better this way. With how the sister was an instant no with an inconvenient, how would she had been in an emergency situation? It is in the family's best interest not to have someone they cannot trust nor count on living in their household.
@@volcanicrose7158I completely agree with you.. 2 to 3 hours at most while they find some one if they use an company it would take a week at most sister has no compassion for someone living for free
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For the first story, I wonder if the girl does that out of fear of there being an intruder in the house? So she thinks it’s a good idea to do it so 1. She thinks it might scare the intruder or show them shes not scared 2. Have the whole house wake up in case sth happens and they can hear?
Wonder if the parents asked her and tried knowing why she does it, if it’s not that it could be a resentment due to sth, or I guess it could really be that she was just being a bratty teenager lol, but sth seems missing did they not ask her the reason and just asked her to not do it?
How are you doing sweetie? How are you feeling? In this very first story, Maggie is just going through her teenage phases. Why in the world does she keep on slamming her door though? Both of her brothers, her mother, and her father haven't done a single thing to her to be this angry. Since the mom's own mother called her ass for the way that she's treating her daughter, then it's only right that the child go spend some time at her Grandma's for a couple of days. Maggie is just so rude and very disrespectful why should the parents have to knock when it's their house. She is just 14 years old she doesn't have anything private going on in her life yet. My mom always told both me and my brother when we were growing up "if you don't like my rules then go live somewhere else" In the second story, special kudos goes out to the big sister for basically raising her little sister all by herself, and complete shame of the whole family of the big sister for not wanting to take in her little sister. The little sister's fiance is a straight dumb butt because he didn't even listen to a single word that she has been saying, her big sis is her everything. The little sister shouldn't go through with this marriage. In the third story, her sister straight up selfish for not wanting her to announce her pregnancy, and how could her sister even call her that word. For her information, she didn't tell anybody by mouth instead she just posted her exciting news on Facebook. I love you!! Stay safe!!