I feel this, even though i'm not a content creator or a figure of any sorts, i just can't feel that zing anymore, it's difficult for me to fall in love that it's got to point that i'm afraid i might not be able to find myself a partner, even if i were to find one i might not be able to return the love
I also, after a 6.5 year relationship, was afraid I'd never fall in love again. Well, in the several years since then I had one crush but they chose someone else so I was like fuck it. And one kinda tragic queer platonic relationship, where I honestly to this day don't know if I loved them or not but I probably was but just tried to deny it, so no "zing" really either. More like just domestic and then tragic lol. Anyway, for many years now I have kinda accepted I don't actually need that. It's not like my feelings changed and I think I will easily find someone or fall in love. It's more like, I don't need someone else. I am doing my thing, living my life, I can't even imagine someone beside me again. If it happens, ok. But I am content even if it never happens. I think that's the important point.
It will come eventually guys and it will come for Aniki as well, from experience even if you think that you're incapable of loving other person romantically that much, then that person will come to your life and you wouldnt even see her/him that way at all, just a friend, just an acquaintance, then before you know it you have known that person through so many ups and downs that you have developed mutual feelings. Aniki will not going to know his future partner while clubbing with that attitude, she will naturally appear in his life eventually, if not already.
I have this kind of problem too. Even if your not a content creator it's hard to fall in love for my case is i'm not looking for hookups but for someone who i would call my future wife.
I don't know if any of you also have the problem where people around you always seem to have some kind of relationship issues. People at work who bring up their issues, seeing strangers arguing in public, friend groups breaking apart b/c of one girl, a couple moving in together and end up not being able to afford it etc. Makes me paranoid and skeptical about anyone I meet.
my mindset is : if its out there it'll just arrive on its own, if its not then fuck it. I wont necessarily look for it but if it arrives i'd just do my damn best to never mess it up.
I only managed to catch the last half of that conversation so thank you for clipping it! Hearing Aniki talk about how difficult it is to make new friends, especially as an adults kind of scares me. Forget finding a date, how tf am I going to even make new close friends
Remember guys this is the same guy flayon said was walking rizz, the same guy who had the harem mc life in highschool, the same guy who had a cute stalker that sent him risque selfies, the same guy who is completely unaware of how lucky he has it
I was married for nearly 11 years to my high school sweetheart whom I was madly in love with until he eventually abruptly ended our marriage one night when I was in the worst pit of depression in my life due to a lot of unfortunate events plaguing my family at the time. That was 7 years ago. I have never felt love ever since. These days I'm too old and busy with work and my family to worry or care about having any kind of relationship. I might never fall in love again, but I've accepted that reality.
not even as a content creators, as a normal person i'm seriously in that situation too fking deep, i loved a girl too much that when we broke up it totally destroyed me, from outside to inside, it's been 3 years and i still cannot get over it, i even stop meeting my 2 close friends, i closed the heart door for too long that i afraid if i ever open it again, i will just lose everything again so for now i think i will die alone keeping my heart and soul from being hurt again, at least i got a new hobby as model kit building, i built lot of gundam and stuffs, it's really help me through the hard times for you guys who are in the situation like me, please don't be like me, be brave, everything eventually will be fine, that how's life works, it comes up and down, help yourself, reach out if you need help, don't close the door ... i read this line from a book and i will translate it to english: "it's not like you'll die without love, or just cannot live after a couple of heartbreak, but if you stop giving your heart a chance to see the light (again),then that is the end of a life"
I think it comes with like understanding relationships as we grow up. Like when I was in high school I was just like Axel and tried to chase it u’know having this exciting feeling of catching love. Like I believed oh if I don’t have this crazy butterfly feeling I don’t really love them. But that’s not true. I really made me reflect if I did end up with that person would we even get along? Now as an adult I’m not chasing just anyone. I’m trying to have a connection to people as friends and just getting to know someone. Even if I don’t feel like that love at first sight feeling I’m an adult trying to understand another person. And when you meet new people and just experience life that special person just kinda comes into it unexpectedly. At least that’s in my POV. Some of the best people in relationships were people who weren’t exactly looking for love they just happen to meet and get along and the rest was history for them. I hope everyone reading this also get to experience such a lovely thing as well❤
Kinda in a similar boat, had my first relationship during the quarantine(junior in hs at the time) that ended up in a mess, which in a way messed up the way I see love a bit, I decided to continue studying and entered college this year and everyone seems so reserved to themselves in the lectures I attend, I’ve found it hard to meet new people when it seems like everyone has a barrier up
I gave up on love years ago. It sucks at first being lonely, but after a while, you get used to it. Every year I see couples enjoy life and express it freely, and I just nod and move on with my day. People that tell me 'Well it will come to you'- Yeah no. You gotta put yourself out there and search for it. You can be waiting for decades until you're at death's door and you will see the love of your life...for just a day then pass away. It's a cruel reality that can get the most to people. So before you go and comfort me, don't. Because it's just another day for me to live.
So relatable it catalysed a doom spiral of an internal monologue lamenting the contradiction between my corrosive loneliness and my loss of the spark for romance.
Not a content creator myself but I feel this too. As I grew older my innocence around life and love just decreased. I’m not seeing romance and a relationship with rose tinted glasses anymore the same way I did as a teen who didn’t have any responsibilities or real world experience. In my mid 20s now I understand relationships takes more effort and work than I’m really inclined to put in at the moment. It’s not as easy as just seeing them at school anymore.
I have conteplated love for a very long time. I can confidently say that I know what love is and how to love. I also used to have school passions like Axel, we are the same age btw. Unfortunately, nothing went my way, and now my social circle is "girless". Despite that, I can still fall in love. Or a better way to describe it is that, I end up having a crush for a girl from time to time. But often times said girl is completely unapprochable, for various reasons, they might be too busy or even not live in the same country as I live... I have grown tired of searching and waiting, I want to find something true and pure that's why I'm not forcing the thing. There is no other way to describe it, if your situation is similar to mine then... We are just unlucky, brother... Regardless there is one truth that you should always keep close to your heart: To love it's nothing To be loved it's something To love and be loved it's everything Let's be patient, we will find it eventually. Golden hearts are always deserving of love. Wish you the best of luck, brother✌
If anything, working in entertainment presents more opportunities to meet people of the same wavelength through all the collaborations and meetups. Replace "content creator" with "office job" in Axel's life description and you'll get an even more isolated environment. Which is about 90% of the rest of us.
I can relate to this as well but that’s because the last 2 relationships I was in I got cheated on, so it’s kinda hard for me to get interested or even want to be in a relationship anymore thinking that it might happen again
There are vtubers that have a partner, they study and sometimes they even have a work apart from vtubing. Idk how they do it. I just study and a lot of times is a hell for me just doing that(ofc i help a little in the house)
Nearly middle aged and still single. I unfortunately was a loner and afraid to talk to girls back in high school as well lol. I'm better at talking to them now but the problem is meeting them without being a creep etc. It's tough.
I havent had a relationship but the fact that he think about "even if we want a relationship we dont have time" is so relatable lmaoo, i have my day full of family, work and my self everyday, where can i put my husband on the list? Thinking about looking for one already make me tired 😂
Umm... I'm pretty sure I've seen a LOT of girls come onto him until this point... Some indie girl was willing to talk dirty with him... Iida Pochi spontaneously joining him for a GunEvo collab...
Axel: "You guys are weird, bro"
Me, who is used to and loves being the third wheel to Roberu Nightmea date streams: "Don't test me, dingo"
I feel this, even though i'm not a content creator or a figure of any sorts, i just can't feel that zing anymore, it's difficult for me to fall in love that it's got to point that i'm afraid i might not be able to find myself a partner, even if i were to find one i might not be able to return the love
I also, after a 6.5 year relationship, was afraid I'd never fall in love again. Well, in the several years since then I had one crush but they chose someone else so I was like fuck it. And one kinda tragic queer platonic relationship, where I honestly to this day don't know if I loved them or not but I probably was but just tried to deny it, so no "zing" really either. More like just domestic and then tragic lol.
Anyway, for many years now I have kinda accepted I don't actually need that. It's not like my feelings changed and I think I will easily find someone or fall in love. It's more like, I don't need someone else. I am doing my thing, living my life, I can't even imagine someone beside me again. If it happens, ok. But I am content even if it never happens. I think that's the important point.
same bruh
It will come eventually guys and it will come for Aniki as well, from experience even if you think that you're incapable of loving other person romantically that much, then that person will come to your life and you wouldnt even see her/him that way at all, just a friend, just an acquaintance, then before you know it you have known that person through so many ups and downs that you have developed mutual feelings.
Aniki will not going to know his future partner while clubbing with that attitude, she will naturally appear in his life eventually, if not already.
🙏
agree , that is what happened with mine lol
I have this kind of problem too. Even if your not a content creator it's hard to fall in love for my case is i'm not looking for hookups but for someone who i would call my future wife.
yep basically, you're dating to marry. i grew up w that mindset though so i guess it also depends on your values
And my friend will say "Dating? In this economy?".
I don't know if any of you also have the problem where people around you always seem to have some kind of relationship issues. People at work who bring up their issues, seeing strangers arguing in public, friend groups breaking apart b/c of one girl, a couple moving in together and end up not being able to afford it etc. Makes me paranoid and skeptical about anyone I meet.
@@grimoireweiss3099 you've just summarised my 3 years experience in customer service industry.
@@grimoireweiss3099 agree
my mindset is : if its out there it'll just arrive on its own, if its not then fuck it. I wont necessarily look for it but if it arrives i'd just do my damn best to never mess it up.
I only managed to catch the last half of that conversation so thank you for clipping it! Hearing Aniki talk about how difficult it is to make new friends, especially as an adults kind of scares me. Forget finding a date, how tf am I going to even make new close friends
Remember guys this is the same guy flayon said was walking rizz, the same guy who had the harem mc life in highschool, the same guy who had a cute stalker that sent him risque selfies, the same guy who is completely unaware of how lucky he has it
I mean I wouldn't call having a stalker lucky, but I get what he means. You rarely meet those people who really make you fall in love
I was married for nearly 11 years to my high school sweetheart whom I was madly in love with until he eventually abruptly ended our marriage one night when I was in the worst pit of depression in my life due to a lot of unfortunate events plaguing my family at the time. That was 7 years ago. I have never felt love ever since. These days I'm too old and busy with work and my family to worry or care about having any kind of relationship. I might never fall in love again, but I've accepted that reality.
not even as a content creators, as a normal person i'm seriously in that situation too fking deep, i loved a girl too much that when we broke up it totally destroyed me, from outside to inside, it's been 3 years and i still cannot get over it, i even stop meeting my 2 close friends, i closed the heart door for too long that i afraid if i ever open it again, i will just lose everything again so for now i think i will die alone keeping my heart and soul from being hurt again, at least i got a new hobby as model kit building, i built lot of gundam and stuffs, it's really help me through the hard times
for you guys who are in the situation like me, please don't be like me, be brave, everything eventually will be fine, that how's life works, it comes up and down, help yourself, reach out if you need help, don't close the door ... i read this line from a book and i will translate it to english: "it's not like you'll die without love, or just cannot live after a couple of heartbreak, but if you stop giving your heart a chance to see the light (again),then that is the end of a life"
I think it comes with like understanding relationships as we grow up. Like when I was in high school I was just like Axel and tried to chase it u’know having this exciting feeling of catching love. Like I believed oh if I don’t have this crazy butterfly feeling I don’t really love them. But that’s not true. I really made me reflect if I did end up with that person would we even get along?
Now as an adult I’m not chasing just anyone. I’m trying to have a connection to people as friends and just getting to know someone. Even if I don’t feel like that love at first sight feeling I’m an adult trying to understand another person. And when you meet new people and just experience life that special person just kinda comes into it unexpectedly. At least that’s in my POV. Some of the best people in relationships were people who weren’t exactly looking for love they just happen to meet and get along and the rest was history for them. I hope everyone reading this also get to experience such a lovely thing as well❤
As a dude that works from home... CAN RELATE
Oh man, can relate to that. I don't think it's only about content creator path alone but rather about setup of whole society.
Kinda in a similar boat, had my first relationship during the quarantine(junior in hs at the time) that ended up in a mess, which in a way messed up the way I see love a bit, I decided to continue studying and entered college this year and everyone seems so reserved to themselves in the lectures I attend, I’ve found it hard to meet new people when it seems like everyone has a barrier up
Not the linus tech tips 😂😂😂 genius
I'm experiencing the same thing as him, just hadn't found another spark after the first one.
I gave up on love years ago. It sucks at first being lonely, but after a while, you get used to it. Every year I see couples enjoy life and express it freely, and I just nod and move on with my day. People that tell me 'Well it will come to you'- Yeah no. You gotta put yourself out there and search for it. You can be waiting for decades until you're at death's door and you will see the love of your life...for just a day then pass away. It's a cruel reality that can get the most to people. So before you go and comfort me, don't. Because it's just another day for me to live.
So relatable it catalysed a doom spiral of an internal monologue lamenting the contradiction between my corrosive loneliness and my loss of the spark for romance.
Not a content creator myself but I feel this too. As I grew older my innocence around life and love just decreased. I’m not seeing romance and a relationship with rose tinted glasses anymore the same way I did as a teen who didn’t have any responsibilities or real world experience. In my mid 20s now I understand relationships takes more effort and work than I’m really inclined to put in at the moment. It’s not as easy as just seeing them at school anymore.
I have conteplated love for a very long time. I can confidently say that I know what love is and how to love.
I also used to have school passions like Axel, we are the same age btw.
Unfortunately, nothing went my way, and now my social circle is "girless".
Despite that, I can still fall in love. Or a better way to describe it is that, I end up having a crush for a girl from time to time. But often times said girl is completely unapprochable, for various reasons, they might be too busy or even not live in the same country as I live...
I have grown tired of searching and waiting, I want to find something true and pure that's why I'm not forcing the thing.
There is no other way to describe it, if your situation is similar to mine then...
We are just unlucky, brother...
Regardless there is one truth that you should always keep close to your heart:
To love it's nothing
To be loved it's something
To love and be loved it's everything
Let's be patient, we will find it eventually.
Golden hearts are always deserving of love.
Wish you the best of luck, brother✌
If anything, working in entertainment presents more opportunities to meet people of the same wavelength through all the collaborations and meetups. Replace "content creator" with "office job" in Axel's life description and you'll get an even more isolated environment. Which is about 90% of the rest of us.
I can relate to this as well but that’s because the last 2 relationships I was in I got cheated on, so it’s kinda hard for me to get interested or even want to be in a relationship anymore thinking that it might happen again
There are vtubers that have a partner, they study and sometimes they even have a work apart from vtubing. Idk how they do it. I just study and a lot of times is a hell for me just doing that(ofc i help a little in the house)
I'm not even a content creator and is already impossible for me to fall in love
Nearly middle aged and still single. I unfortunately was a loner and afraid to talk to girls back in high school as well lol. I'm better at talking to them now but the problem is meeting them without being a creep etc. It's tough.
I havent had a relationship but the fact that he think about "even if we want a relationship we dont have time" is so relatable lmaoo, i have my day full of family, work and my self everyday, where can i put my husband on the list? Thinking about looking for one already make me tired 😂
When I do, the target has a boyfriend
I really feel this, but unfortunately I can't date before marriage.
Thats good actually, keep it simple and proper
That's the good stuff 👍
Nice
Too much work and inflation to even consider dating, bro.
Yku are not supposed to try
what does axel study in uni?
Biotech iirc
Umm... I'm pretty sure I've seen a LOT of girls come onto him until this point... Some indie girl was willing to talk dirty with him... Iida Pochi spontaneously joining him for a GunEvo collab...