This lady must get her life together... Once a man tells you ukuthi you don't have ambitions just know ukhathele. He says " ubheke mina for everything" 😭😭. She needs therapy and direction
Ufuna abheke bani u know the socio economic situation in this country secondly you're going to regret your words lose such a beautiful girl after dive years you'll be thinking about her every day you're not wise Mzwakhe you're not a man!!!!
Nonkosi is a proper wifey type. This is the type that men always claim to want koda nansi indoda ixakekile manje, ifuna indiphende wumani!! He wants to leave her for a woman with ambitions and a job?? You can just tell this man just doesn't want to share his money now that he has a job, he knew she was not ambitious why did he have kids with her? why didn't he leave her earlier? what about his kids, now who must raise them? Unyile!! He must stay with his woman and take care of his kids, this is his family!!
I love the women for wanting to raise her kids with both parents. i just think she is submissive and he is passive, so they are not a good match, a submissive person needs a leader, and this guy is not a leader, he needs an independent person
I don't understand why women would say she's desperate, clearly they met when there were young,there had their thing going on for 12years had children together Well sometimes life doesn't go as planned but it doesn't make her less of a women She's a real women who wants get to the bottom of the problem to confirm what she has been suspecting and find a way to save her relationship This thing of disregarding women because they are not working iyangidina I am working, I never look down on women who are house wife's
Housewives look down on single women all the time, telling single women they aren't good enough because they dont have husbands..let them rot in their fake happy homes and cry when those men that they call achievements cheat on them..noone cares
The things love make women do😢😢😢 hope she finds a leader that appreciates her.. cause this man is not the one.. don’t let anyone tell you they don’t want you more than once…
Nonkosi needs to have self love. 12 years means nothing if a man no longer loves you. Sindlulile nathi lapho and this man is allowed to be with the person amfunayo. Yes its sad and painful she will never be okay she needs to let go of the guy abe sharp
The main should learn not to be too dependent on someone. Give the guy some space instead of constantly guarding him.She's still young and should try have some goals in life. That's important in this relationship. Life doesn't end when you statt living with someone especially when you are still young.
I think even nonkosi was very smart they day she meet mzwakhe but now mzwakhe give her 2 Childrens and now he sow he finish to use her to give her 2 children's please guys respect the woman it's so painfully 💔💔
mzwakhe man up and be responsible for your family,u have a good woman there,a mother of your kids,and you tried cheating u didn't get far,the woman u wanted to cheat with isn't your type. Unomfazi omuhle,SHADA UYEKE UKUGCWALA ISTRADI NGOBA AKUKHO OZOKUZUZA NGAPHANDLE KOKUGULA BESE UPHENDUKA ISIGQILA SOTSHWALA. uthando alusatholakali eskhathini samanje kunzima baba,wena kungcono kukhona okulwelayo❤Khula mfana UYEKE ukuhamba ebusuku and spend time with your family. Maningi amadoda afisa ukuba nomndeni ofana nowakho nokuba nonkosikazi onjengowakho. Khula mfwethu,AND GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY❤
In future when you bring people together for a discussion, the proper way to do it is to make them sit around a table, across so as to have eye contact during discussion. Never, ever make one person sit on the bed and others behind her. In your questions, you made Mumcy to turn her head in an uncomfortable way. Go for training/watch videos around the world on how to correctly present a TV program/interviews
I saw that too, it was kind of not put together for a show And for the host to actually Burge in a conversation telling Nonkosi she shouldn't speak cause she's speaking I'm like come on🙄, main purpose of the show is to talk as much as you can, besides she's not a therapist or professionally trained Ofcourse emotions will be raised that's normal and expected at the given situation Has she watched "Maury's show" hahahaha 😆
Nonkosi is so controlling she like things to be done the way she like.she has to find the job and work for her future and stop focus on being a full house wife..Mzwake wants an independent woman,a helper a lover and a friend.While Nonkosi needs ubaba wase Khaya who will responsible in everything and she already submitted herself to him the way I see it she has already has the roots she is not thinking of anything except of seeing herself and Mzwake getting old together
Mza!!!!.... Uma uthi unheke mina kuphela ...Ufuna abheke bani u know the socio economic situation in this country secondly you're going to regret your words lose such a beautiful girl after dive years you'll be thinking about her every day you're not wise Mzwakhe you're not a man!!!!
Haaaibo nonkosi was with mzwakhe for 12 years as just a girlfriend nje🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔?????Mumcy feels like she's beyonce,she has this type of attitude,this women need to relax men are out there to play 🤞🤞
Mumcy is not allowing to be bullied which is good. Nawe you will be angry uthukwe for indoda that you are not even dating.. She did nothing wrong her attitude is of annoyance
@@hawardhlahla3752 Thank you 😊 best comment ever It's kind of comments by @Sthembelenj that give men leverage to use women as they please and discard them when no longer suit him That man has no respect at all for those both women
Nonkosi shud just forget abt dis guy he is not worth it 13yrs of dis it's amounting nothing Mzwakhe won't stop he is no remorseful he is just bored to be on tv
He was just watching mumsy the whole time when she walked away. I hope nonkosi grows and focuses on herself and her kids she’s beautiful and has a bright future
A bit delulu kodwa uNonkosi wethu. Tshini thiza. She needs the relationship to work at all cost. Nevermind what he does, as long as they still sort things out. She's good yena pethuna. Unyile shame. Relationships will be the end of one's sanity.
The main chick is desperate xeim and is forcing things with the guy. There will be never happyness to this relationship, she just needs to accept that akatandwa and move on. There is also I high hope the guy will cheat again
This lady she needs to love her kids and her self first. The guy won't Marry her 12 years it's been long. She doesn't have self confidence, her life revolve around this guy. Get a life girl
Nonkosi showing some desperation , Mumcy can be a good woman, i guess its just temper and a bit of embarrassment but she likes the guy. As for umjita, he is weak weak weak , most confused guy ever.Anyway maybe he was caught unaware
That man isnt even cheating to the level of falling out of love...he just doesn't love you anymore sis deal with it...your achievement is nolonger achieving 😂😂😂.You act so invisible when you have husbands but when they leave you want the whole world to feel iity for you.We dont care find anjob he said you're lazy
I dont see anything beautiful kuMumsy mna Dali Nonkosi move on and leave the trash behind you deserve something better you not working doesn't mean you have to be cheated on mxm its not all of us who woke up and got employed hai count your words bafazi I hate such things and people with attitude while their on the wrong 🤮 She will heal while in that bloody relationship and the day aphuma kuyo kuyobangathi umzwakhe ulele uyaphupha
Mumcy you cant say your name has been dragged through the mud,stop playing innocent why did you continue talking to the guy after you find out he has a girlfriend
This lady must get her life together... Once a man tells you ukuthi you don't have ambitions just know ukhathele. He says " ubheke mina for everything" 😭😭. She needs therapy and direction
I agree
That's is his excuse and shame on him
The guy saw that after giving her babies
Ufuna abheke bani u know the socio economic situation in this country secondly you're going to regret your words lose such a beautiful girl after dive years you'll be thinking about her every day you're not wise Mzwakhe you're not a man!!!!
I think she is a real woman..the guy should have guided her to be the way he wants since he is the head of his family.the guy is just mindless
Nonkosi is a proper wifey type. This is the type that men always claim to want koda nansi indoda ixakekile manje, ifuna indiphende wumani!! He wants to leave her for a woman with ambitions and a job?? You can just tell this man just doesn't want to share his money now that he has a job, he knew she was not ambitious why did he have kids with her? why didn't he leave her earlier? what about his kids, now who must raise them? Unyile!! He must stay with his woman and take care of his kids, this is his family!!
History has a way of repeating itself. Indlela owakhupha ngayo omunye is the way ozophuma ngayo
I was looking for this comment
Sorry true their foundation is very weak and if I was their social worker I was going to tell them to fix it.
Injalo nje sis
Yebo phela😂
Nonkosi is a very beautiful woman but I just don’t understand why you stay with a man for so many years without marriage.
No brains there
I love the women for wanting to raise her kids with both parents. i just think she is submissive and he is passive, so they are not a good match, a submissive person needs a leader, and this guy is not a leader, he needs an independent person
What u saying is very important
Man did i not crown you only for this reason?😖🙌
Yes
you have point bro🎉
Thank you, baba❤🎉
I don't understand why women would say she's desperate, clearly they met when there were young,there had their thing going on for 12years had children together
Well sometimes life doesn't go as planned but it doesn't make her less of a women She's a real women who wants get to the bottom of the problem to confirm what she has been suspecting and find a way to save her relationship
This thing of disregarding women because they are not working iyangidina
I am working, I never look down on women who are house wife's
Housewives look down on single women all the time, telling single women they aren't good enough because they dont have husbands..let them rot in their fake happy homes and cry when those men that they call achievements cheat on them..noone cares
We also don't understand why you look down on men without money... It's not like people are born with a bank 😂😂😂.
Nonkosi will be okay,i was once this delusional i left when he thought everything was fine because my heart was ready
Commitment at early age it's a problem sometimes...
This guy probably feels trapped and wanted to use Mumcy to escape his situation.
Abantu bayanyamezela ungahlala uyigirlfriend 12 years yonke oko ujola nje.
Kunganyiwa yesess
Ayi impilo inzima. I applaud Mumsy for saying she'll walk away. Nonkosi must walk away also and better herself as a person. Men are something else.
Nonkosi must her shit together, she can’t be depending on him for everything I mean a woman with no direction in life is not worth it simple as that
This girl must get a job and support her 2 children ai
Ladies no man is worth this heartache .
The things love make women do😢😢😢 hope she finds a leader that appreciates her.. cause this man is not the one.. don’t let anyone tell you they don’t want you more than once…
Big ups to Mumcy. Shes a queen
True, only God
Love is a pain no doctor can heal 🤞
True story🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞
Nonkosi needs to have self love. 12 years means nothing if a man no longer loves you. Sindlulile nathi lapho and this man is allowed to be with the person amfunayo. Yes its sad and painful she will never be okay she needs to let go of the guy abe sharp
Nonkosi must get her life together. This guy doesn't love her, she's just forcing things.
😂Yeses abantu abahle ngalendlela madoda. And the video quality is top notch.
Kodwa bakit Lelo Dada elumzwakhe abaliyeke
Nonkosi awuu catch I wake up gal 👏👏 nyakazisa umzimba cc awuzifine uzithole
Idada😂😂😂😂
Bhuti khathele funa kushawa moya
The main should learn not to be too dependent on someone. Give the guy some space instead of constantly guarding him.She's still young and should try have some goals in life. That's important in this relationship. Life doesn't end when you statt living with someone especially when you are still young.
Being in a relationship for 12 years it's a waste of time
Lol this lady is trying to cover for her man by saying he looks frightened bcoz the other lady is a bully 😂😂 girl bye!!
Mumcy and the guy they are too smart ,they know how to play their cards
I think even nonkosi was very smart they day she meet mzwakhe but now mzwakhe give her 2
Childrens and now he sow he finish to use her to give her 2 children's please guys respect the woman it's so painfully 💔💔
Muhle uMummsy...❤️
It was a mistake for you ukuthi ukipite naye
mzwakhe man up and be responsible for your family,u have a good woman there,a mother of your kids,and you tried cheating u didn't get far,the woman u wanted to cheat with isn't your type.
Unomfazi omuhle,SHADA UYEKE UKUGCWALA ISTRADI NGOBA AKUKHO OZOKUZUZA NGAPHANDLE KOKUGULA BESE UPHENDUKA ISIGQILA SOTSHWALA.
uthando alusatholakali eskhathini samanje kunzima baba,wena kungcono kukhona okulwelayo❤Khula mfana UYEKE ukuhamba ebusuku and spend time with your family.
Maningi amadoda afisa ukuba nomndeni ofana nowakho nokuba nonkosikazi onjengowakho.
Khula mfwethu,AND GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY❤
In future when you bring people together for a discussion, the proper way to do it is to make them sit around a table, across so as to have eye contact during discussion. Never, ever make one person sit on the bed and others behind her. In your questions, you made Mumcy to turn her head in an uncomfortable way. Go for training/watch videos around the world on how to correctly present a TV program/interviews
I saw that too, it was kind of not put together for a show
And for the host to actually Burge in a conversation telling Nonkosi she shouldn't speak cause she's speaking I'm like come on🙄, main purpose of the show is to talk as much as you can, besides she's not a therapist or professionally trained
Ofcourse emotions will be raised that's normal and expected at the given situation
Has she watched "Maury's show" hahahaha 😆
Mumcy uyababa😘
Never ever ever tell your woman she doesn't have ambition. You need to support her and its your job to take care of her
Shame Nonkosi is so desperate I feel so sorry for her on the other side Mumcy knows what she wants. If the man doesn't love to you just leave nje!
Mumcy has a Main man, Mzwakhe was just a fling. Hence that is why Mumcy kept on saying besichatter thats all😅
True that
Men will be the end of us🤦♀️🤦♀️👨🎓👨🎓
Nonkosi is so controlling she like things to be done the way she like.she has to find the job and work for her future and stop focus on being a full house wife..Mzwake wants an independent woman,a helper a lover and a friend.While Nonkosi needs ubaba wase Khaya who will responsible in everything and she already submitted herself to him the way I see it she has already has the roots she is not thinking of anything except of seeing herself and Mzwake getting old together
12 years emkipitweni wooow syakubongela girl
Mza!!!!.... Uma uthi unheke mina kuphela ...Ufuna abheke bani u know the socio economic situation in this country secondly you're going to regret your words lose such a beautiful girl after dive years you'll be thinking about her every day you're not wise Mzwakhe you're not a man!!!!
I have noticed that Side chicks are never beautiful than the Main. 😅
The side chick is beatiful whereas the main is a mooi van Fer shane
Even umuncy angababa for now once wazala naye kuphelile ngaye
Mumcy sorry girl we clearly saw that you were innocent and you stand by your words 😢 Askies hle .
Karma will always catch up. The same way he left his gfriend for her is the same way he will leave her for other women. 😮
But umumcy angabikho happy ngoba iff umzwakhe angohlukana nomama wengane zakhe aqhubeke naye umumcy once wazala uzalela lomfana nakuwe izophela itaiste sisi aqhubeke abone abanye futhi ungajabuli sisi amadoda ngama menemene
Haaaibo nonkosi was with mzwakhe for 12 years as just a girlfriend nje🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔?????Mumcy feels like she's beyonce,she has this type of attitude,this women need to relax men are out there to play 🤞🤞
Mumcy is not allowing to be bullied which is good. Nawe you will be angry uthukwe for indoda that you are not even dating.. She did nothing wrong her attitude is of annoyance
@@thandekandou4653 I hear you🙏🏼Thank you thandeka
Nice voice nonkhosi
I just love mumsie. She knows her worth
Worth yamasimba
Lol 😂😂😂
Muhle futhi
@@hawardhlahla3752 Thank you 😊 best comment ever
It's kind of comments by @Sthembelenj that give men leverage to use women as they please and discard them when no longer suit him
That man has no respect at all for those both women
Mumcy I'm proud of you gal❤
love this show i can understand with the english caption
I'm very sorry nonkosi but you have lent a lesson, easy come easy go!!
Guy has a good taste❤ the ladies almost look the same
Hlukanan no mama bezingane zethu zinja uma sesbanjiwe phuma phela phakat kwethu angeke ngehlukane nomama wengane yam ngilandele ihhundela
Is it me or the host looks a little like Dr Magudumana?
🤣🤣😂😂
Uthando ♥️ alusekho njengoba engasenzi njengasekuqaleni nisaqala ukuthandana ♥️, usethole uthando olusha. Uthando akuyona into yokudlala yenza sure ukuthi umuntu uyamthanda ngempela 🤞 noma seninezinkinga nikwazi ukuhlala phansi nizixazulule
😂😂Hai what in the desperation💔
Biggest mistake u dontbstay with someone bcoz nisuka ekudeni. U stay bcoz u still care n love them.
Great conclusion Mumsy. Other ladies will appear on big TV shows like Rea Tsotella for breaking up families 😅
Nooo wat goes around comes around...wathatha ndoda yomuntu naye sebamthathela akangakhali lo sisi
Nonkosi shud just forget abt dis guy he is not worth it 13yrs of dis it's amounting nothing Mzwakhe won't stop he is no remorseful he is just bored to be on tv
She is still with the same guy, maybe they fixed their issues.
The host has a vile mind😂😂😂
First wakhupha the first gal friend manje kukhala yena
Attitude ya-girl"NONKOSI" is too much and ngek imuse ndawo
Marriage and any intimate relationships must be banned....
He was just watching mumsy the whole time when she walked away. I hope nonkosi grows and focuses on herself and her kids she’s beautiful and has a bright future
12 years, no marriage ?!?
This is why your life should never be male centered as a woman 💔. I wish many girls were taught this from a young age in our country.
A bit delulu kodwa uNonkosi wethu. Tshini thiza. She needs the relationship to work at all cost. Nevermind what he does, as long as they still sort things out. She's good yena pethuna. Unyile shame. Relationships will be the end of one's sanity.
Wanenhliziyo embi bo no Phetheni indlela abemxoshe ngsyo no Sibongile
😩Ngicela inumber ka mziwakhe
So mamcy saying will never date a guy oku relationship 😅y umuntu kmele abeSingle kuze ajolwe
The main chick is desperate xeim and is forcing things with the guy. There will be never happyness to this relationship, she just needs to accept that akatandwa and move on. There is also I high hope the guy will cheat again
This lady she needs to love her kids and her self first. The guy won't Marry her 12 years it's been long. She doesn't have self confidence, her life revolve around this guy. Get a life girl
Umuntu uzophelelwa isimilo lana angene kuma non-commitment relationships
You so right wena....ha haha
Yoooh wazinikezela ke Nonkosi
😂😂😂😂 Mumsy
Nonkosi showing some desperation , Mumcy can be a good woman, i guess its just temper and a bit of embarrassment but she likes the guy. As for umjita, he is weak weak weak , most confused guy ever.Anyway maybe he was caught unaware
That man isnt even cheating to the level of falling out of love...he just doesn't love you anymore sis deal with it...your achievement is nolonger achieving 😂😂😂.You act so invisible when you have husbands but when they leave you want the whole world to feel iity for you.We dont care find anjob he said you're lazy
mzwakhe doesn't love nomkosi anymore he's forcing it and pretending he loves mamsi.
But nonkosi please girl go look for a job don't depend on him
Sis maan know your worth
Lomjita uyabasaba labo girl iyonanto engiyibonayo ngeke alunge kwisthembu
You are angry she swore at you yet you he told he had a girlfriend.
U deserved it hunnie.
Get a life nonkosi funa umsebenzi Nana ur life doesn't need to revolve around mzwakhe . I love u so much mumcy
😂😂This guy yamfuna Mamsi. Nhliziyo yasho kuth yaphunyuka inyoni, wasala ebambe amaqubu😂😂
I dont see anything beautiful kuMumsy mna
Dali Nonkosi move on and leave the trash behind you deserve something better you not working doesn't mean you have to be cheated on mxm its not all of us who woke up and got employed hai count your words bafazi
I hate such things and people with attitude while their on the wrong 🤮
She will heal while in that bloody relationship and the day aphuma kuyo kuyobangathi umzwakhe ulele uyaphupha
Uthando luzosibulala 😮
Mmmmmm, 🙆🙆🙆🙆
Karma le ntomboo 🤞🏽
Gal way too young
Sour
Mumcy you cant say your name has been dragged through the mud,stop playing innocent why did you continue talking to the guy after you find out he has a girlfriend
This nonkosi woman
Mzwakhe!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Inkinga labo girl bahle bobabili ♥️ kodwa akusho ukuthi cheater noma ubathathe bobabili you are a man you can take them make them your 2 wifes
Nonkosi has kids with this man so she’s just thinking where she’ll go from here🥲🥲🥲