Aoa sir. Great video. Sab ka focus how to raise kids pe hota hai. No one deals with issues of those parents who have unknowingly or Mistakenly wronged their kids in the past. I think you should upload more on this topic to help those parents who want to correct their mistakes. Thanks
Some of my teachers in my school were so harsh and they discriminate a lot between all the student…i never get even a slap from teacher but they way she treated the good students (who score good in exams )and ignore their other duties as student.and being very rude with other students and taunts them every day ..one can easily imagine that how can those students will show them progress if the not get appreciation…
Hello Sir... Thankz to share video...me aajkl buht ghusa aany lga hy...jb mera beta tang krta hy ya bat nahi sunta me marti ho.... I realised that its not Good
اسلام علیکم ۔ ماشاء اللہ بہترین کام کررہے ہیں۔ آپ امام سجاد علیہ السلام کی دعاوں کا مجموعه ( صحیفہ سجادیہ میں امام سجاد علیہ السلام نے بهترین دعا اور طریقہ بیان فرمایا ہے کہ کس طرح اولاد کیلئے دعا کرو اور انکی تربیت کرو ضرور مطالعہ فرمائیں جزاك الله
Yup They need treat depends upon their mistake In addition now a days kids become very smart watching cartoons. Making same acting of cartoons That time must need our jutiii😁
@@uniquejourney7847 Mai saza k to pe cartoon ya Mobil bnd krti hun aik hftay k lye mobile bnd hone ki dhmki Jan lewa type sabat hoti hai siday ho jay hain
Sir me ye krti hun ...jab bhi apne kisi bache ki pitai lagati hun Zada tu un se akely me unse sorry bhi krleti hun. ...kyun k mujhe khud guilty feel huta he 😢😢😢
Mera nahi khayal k har bacha khud bhi aksar parents ko hath uthanay par majboor karta.had se barha zulum to sahi hai hi nahi.namaz na parhay to ya study na karay to bachay ko tofee dain
NO physical abuse. Bachay ko jismani azeeat phunchana aur us ko maar ker humiliate kerna bachay ko zheni tore per tabha o barbaad ker daita hay. Wo bara ho ker kabhi confident insaan naheen banta
Aoa mai yeh samajhti k aaj ka bacha bohat badtameez or extraintellegent hain agar woh parents ki dant maar bhi bardasht karlay aapko nahi allah unko kia nawazayga or unkai darjast barha daiga.aap speaker hain.aapki bat ka aik ruk hai.pahlay to aisa nahi hota tha.bachay is tareeqay se out horahay
Sahaba karam r.a s zda intelligent mere bache nh ho skte, wh behtreen zamana tha(jiske gawahi khud rasool e pak s.a.w.w ne di k mera zamana behtreen zamana hai) Is k bawajood nabi kareem s.a.w.w ne kbi apne matehed logon se 'badla' , 'maar/kutai' hargiz na ki siwaye jihad k medan ke
Waah bachon ko is lye ziada mara jaye kiun k is se un ko ajarmily ga... wow. Ye baat ap apny oper bhi apply kren phir k ap logon se zaleel hon log ap per zulm kren ap ka haq maren ta k ap ko ajar mily.
Aoa.sir 7 saal tak buche ki personality bn jati ha . Agr is doran ap mar peet kr chuke hn boht bar it was my fault .but ab ruk gae hn. Tu isk ab jo after effects a rae hn inko kaise ab theak karain ... baby is now on screaming and fighting mood most of the time .
Assalamu alaikum aap ne jo pehle kiya us ka reflection hai k beti fighting krne lagi ..... ab aap unko sirf love & respect dijye ALLAH. ne chaha tu wo bhi sab k saath pyar aur izzat se pesh aaen gi .....unklye dua kasrat k saath kijye Jazak ALLAH khair.
@@jazibkhan1034 ap us ko piyar sy smjhy usko zyda time dy usko important rakhy kamo sy zyda choty bhai sy usy piyar karay or boly k daikho bhai ap sy kaisy piyar krta hai api is ki bari api ho ya bary bhaiya ho agar usko danto maro gy to or biger jay gi
Sir meri 3 saal ki bachi apne choty bhai se bht larti he bewaja or iski waja se mene ose slap lagai lakn fr b wo is bt ko nh smj rahi mujhe koi sola sa salution bate gusse wale bache ko cantrol kesy kia jae or bache k dil me jo hasd peda hota hai osko kesy khtm kre hm
Aap ki jo 3 saal ki bachi hai us ne apne maa baap jo 100% usk the unka time unki mohabbat ek dam share ki hai. it will b tough on her please usko apne beta pe tarjeeh den. chota sab bhol jaye gha uski memory abhi nahi hai lakin apki beti ki memory ab pakki ho rahi hai mera beta 2 saal ka tha jab humhara 2nd beta howa woh pehle se zyada roney laga. specially jab chota bacha rota tha toh woh us waqt zyada zid kerta tha k mujhe outhao toh mein apne bare beta ko hi outhati thi usko pyar kerti thi phir kehti thi k dekho chota baby roo raha hai. usko jaldi se chup kerwa k sula denghe phir hum khelte han. bachon ki psychology samjhen woh bas yeh chahte han k aap unko ehsaas dilayen k woh aap k liye 1st priority han beti ko beta se zyada pyar karen aur usko yeh baat bataye b aur bas Allah t'Allah se dua karen. Parenthood is easy its a learning journey everyday
@@videosonrandomtopics8920 ary yahan inequality ki bat ni horhi...bs zid ko piyar sy control krny ki bat ho rhi...mery khayal mai b zid ko isi trhn sy control kia ja skta hai
Parents k bhi huqoq Hain aulad k bhi.. mei aulad achi nhi hon mei nafarman nhi hona chahti par Meri chaht nhi Hy unki chahat mei.. lkn mei kiun nhi chahti isky pechy koi waja hogi yaqeenan parents kiun karty Hain aysa aulad k mayar bnaty hain... Jiska mayar Kam kardyty Hain wo aulad apni shaksiyat har jati Hy shaksiyat k liye larti Hy badtamiz bhi lagti Hy phr man bap ko... Maan ny 9 mhiny rakha itna bara Kiya bap saya bna raha hm uski Haq ada kar hi nhi sakty dunya mei bhi akhrat mei bhi pr man bap jb bachy build kr rahy hoty Hain wo bht bari zimmydari Hoti Hy.. har bachy mei itna hosla nhi hta k wo samny khary hoky kahy mujhy bypanah mhbt Hy ap dono sy... Aur hosakta Hy Jo bcha kah raha hota Hy wo mauqa parast ho wo apko ye bat kah k bywaqoof bna raha ho.. man bap ko sarbarah rahna chahiye Jo bcha kah raha Hy mhbt Hy usky agy hathiyar nhi dalny chahiye bcho kI individual shaksiyat ko deal Karna chahiye... Mujh jaisy bchy apni jaga chor dyty Hain pechy hat jaty Hain pr jaga chorny k bad Khala BN jati Hy wo Khala bht aziyat bcha chahty hoey bht kch nhi kah pata siwaey ghussa aur badtamizi k
Myry sath ghur walo ny jo kia bacpun ma...ma tu choti thi mar dant hur wqt ki lrai..ma chup rhna seekh lia same apki tra...kbi ni jtaya bohut muhbt ap logo se or jo btmzi krty aagy se zuban chkaty wo bachy osnd inko myry jaise hur kam p ji ji khny waly ko pocha b ni jata k zinda b hu ya mur gay..yhi hwa aik behun ki psnd ki shadi krxi or myri dafa krka khobsorut ni h..myri zindgi ka swal or ghur waly dra dmka k khi or krna chahty h...kia mjy spni zindgi jeeny ka koi huq ni..kuch b smj ni aata ab k khud ki suno ya ghur walo ki..sochti dosri behun ka b tu osnd ka kia myra b krdy...sirf aik lrka oyara na hony p use chor dena chahiy kya?
Ads should be removed in these videos. They create distraction and I think these are against the ideology of ERDC. Is this channel really administered by Sir Salman? Plz verify..
WESTERN FOLLOWERS... UN KA BACHA , BACHI JAWAN BHI NAHI HOTAY AUR ZINNAH MURTAQIB AUR WALDEN KO CHORE KE CHALLAY JATAY HAIN !!! AAJ JABHI KALA MOONH HOTA JA RAHA HAI .. BIWI AZAD, BACHAY AZAD JIS KO G CHAHE GUNNAH KAREY!!! HEN???
جی میں ہمیشہ اللہ تعلی سے والدین کی مغفرت کی دعا کرتی ہوں کیونکہ والد تربیت میں سختی کرتے رہے اور والدہ بہت شکایات لگا کر مار پڑواتی رہی والدہ کو معاف کرنا مشکل پیش اتی ہے مگر کر دیتی ہوں وہ ہمیشہ ناانصافی کرتی تھیں میرے ساتھ پر ماما ہیں حیات ہیں اج بھی کرتی ہیں 😢
میرے ڈر سے بچہ سے صحیح کام کرانا تربیت نہیں، اللہ کے ڈد سے بچہ سے صحیح کام کرانا تربیہ ہے۔۔ اللہ آپ کو جزائے خیر دے
Aoa sir. Great video. Sab ka focus how to raise kids pe hota hai. No one deals with issues of those parents who have unknowingly or Mistakenly wronged their kids in the past. I think you should upload more on this topic to help those parents who want to correct their mistakes. Thanks
Ya ALLAH har insan kamyab ho har insan ko sehat izat Dolat or hamesha khushion wali zindagi ata farma Ameen.
اللہ تعالیٰ بچوں کو نیک توفیق عطا کرے تاکہ بڑے گناہوں سے محفوظ رہیں شاید یہی حل رہ گیا ہے
Every parent needs to listen this
ALLAH reham farmaen aur tarbiyat e aulaad aasaan farmaen Aameen
Jazak ALLAH khair.
Very nice statement "Those who can't control their anger should not be in the Classroom" Agreed Sir Jazakallah khair
ALLAH ap ko bahut jazaye khair de ,kitne zaberdast nukte ki tarf ishara kya,dua ka waqai ye matlab ho sakta
Zabardass ,mashaallah sir g❤️❤️❤️
Ma shaa Allah
Jazak Allah khair
Jazak Allah khair
JazaKAllahu khairun kaseera for sharing it
Jazakhallh alkhair,Sir Bahoat alla . lecture
Bht acha, bht achi n mufassil
Good sir jazakallaha khair
Jazak Allah khair Respected Sir
Ma sha Allah great explanation sir
JazakAllah
M spechles...ur words r just I cnt dscrb..Allah apko ajar de.Ameen
You are a great person I really I really agree with you and you are a angel for me this time
Some of my teachers in my school were so harsh and they discriminate a lot between all the student…i never get even a slap from teacher but they way she treated the good students (who score good in exams )and ignore their other duties as student.and being very rude with other students and taunts them every day ..one can easily imagine that how can those students will show them progress if the not get appreciation…
MashaAllaah BarakAllaah
اللہ تعالی آپ کو سلامت رکھے ۔
Jazakallah khair sir
Masha Allah. Very nicely explained
It reminds me wisdoms of Luqman
Jazakalah
Absolutly right jzakallah
Bhut Zabardast
JzakAllah khaer
Great video.
Hello Sir...
Thankz to share video...me aajkl buht ghusa aany lga hy...jb mera beta tang krta hy ya bat nahi sunta me marti ho....
I realised that its not Good
اسلام علیکم ۔ ماشاء اللہ بہترین کام کررہے ہیں۔ آپ امام سجاد علیہ السلام کی دعاوں کا مجموعه ( صحیفہ سجادیہ میں امام سجاد علیہ السلام نے بهترین دعا اور طریقہ بیان فرمایا ہے کہ کس طرح اولاد کیلئے دعا کرو اور انکی تربیت کرو ضرور مطالعہ فرمائیں جزاك الله
Allah sb ko samjany kii toufeeq da
10 , 15 sal pahle jb hm schools main parthe the tu kaha jta tha ju teacher jitna Mary woh school Administration ka favorite huta tha..
Verrrry verrrry effective lesson for me inshallah aj k baat Mai btchun se kbi harshly behave ni krun gi very good explanation
Great apaa
But As a parent sometime our kid need petai.
@@uniquejourney7847 u r right but in very rare case kids being dheet when parents beet them ev ry mistak
Yup
They need treat depends upon their mistake
In addition now a days kids become very smart watching cartoons. Making same acting of cartoons
That time must need our jutiii😁
@@uniquejourney7847 Mai saza k to pe cartoon ya Mobil bnd krti hun aik hftay k lye mobile bnd hone ki dhmki Jan lewa type sabat hoti hai siday ho jay hain
@@hurainkibaat9828 very good
Very right
Plz give a like to this brilliant mantor
Very nice
Jazakallah.. having same problem with me being parents...
Great
Nice
Good
*Love from Gujerkhan*
Wao
Allah humari islah kare
Sir me ye krti hun ...jab bhi apne kisi bache ki pitai lagati hun Zada tu un se akely me unse sorry bhi krleti hun. ...kyun k mujhe khud guilty feel huta he 😢😢😢
Mera nahi khayal k har bacha khud bhi aksar parents ko hath uthanay par majboor karta.had se barha zulum to sahi hai hi nahi.namaz na parhay to ya study na karay to bachay ko tofee dain
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JAB WALDEN, USTAAD SAZAEEN DETAY THEY... WOH HAR DOUR BA ADAB RAHA.... !!! DUNIYAAN JAANTI HAI
Wo adab ni khof tha
jahalat ka dour tha
Ek bat btain agar bachy apny sath bht bura kr rhy hon to ham mana kren or wo bilkul na sune to kia kiya jaye kese roka jaye btain
یہاں بڑوں سے مراد والدین بزرگ اور اساتذہ ہیں
Bilkul
Goid
اللہ تعالیٰ اور بچے ہمیں معاف کریں ایسی غلطی سے کم ہی لوگ محفوظ ہونگے
😔😔😔😔
good i am so warried mera bacha kuch bhi nahi partha
Sir even in adult situations these things happen
How to order the book
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Mere khyal men ap dua wali ayat Ka ghalat mafhum le rhe hen.
السلام علیکم کنٹیکٹ نمبر مل سکتا ہے؟
Ager mera bacha sahi nahi padhraha Hai to kiya hum usko marsakte hain
NO physical abuse. Bachay ko jismani azeeat phunchana aur us ko maar ker humiliate kerna bachay ko zheni tore per tabha o barbaad ker daita hay. Wo bara ho ker kabhi confident insaan naheen banta
Nahi is dua ka matlab yeh nahi.allah ne dilon me mohabatdali waldain k dil me .yeh mai aap faisla karnay walay kon hotay
Allah ap ko ajer da
Bachy ki behtri k liye kia kren phir...bina skhti k tu sr pr charh jaengy...
Sitf pyar s samjay
Bachy pe skhti b tu uski behtri k liye hi ki jati hna...
Allah maaf kren
Bache ziddi Ho jae to kya kiya jae??
Ziddi Bachon Kay Saath Kaisa Rawiyya Ikhtiyar Kiya Jae?
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Agar Bacha Zid Karay Tho Kya Karna Chaheye?
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Admin.
Akhiraat mai pakaar ho gi.....
Aoa mai yeh samajhti k aaj ka bacha bohat badtameez or extraintellegent hain agar woh parents ki dant maar bhi bardasht karlay aapko nahi allah unko kia nawazayga or unkai darjast barha daiga.aap speaker hain.aapki bat ka aik ruk hai.pahlay to aisa nahi hota tha.bachay is tareeqay se out horahay
Sahaba karam r.a s zda intelligent mere bache nh ho skte, wh behtreen zamana tha(jiske gawahi khud rasool e pak s.a.w.w ne di k mera zamana behtreen zamana hai)
Is k bawajood nabi kareem s.a.w.w ne kbi apne matehed logon se 'badla' , 'maar/kutai' hargiz na ki siwaye jihad k medan ke
Waah bachon ko is lye ziada mara jaye kiun k is se un ko ajarmily ga... wow. Ye baat ap apny oper bhi apply kren phir k ap logon se zaleel hon log ap per zulm kren ap ka haq maren ta k ap ko ajar mily.
Aoa.sir 7 saal tak buche ki personality bn jati ha . Agr is doran ap mar peet kr chuke hn boht bar it was my fault .but ab ruk gae hn. Tu isk ab jo after effects a rae hn inko kaise ab theak karain ... baby is now on screaming and fighting mood most of the time .
Assalamu alaikum aap ne jo pehle kiya us ka reflection hai k beti fighting krne lagi ..... ab aap unko sirf love & respect dijye ALLAH. ne chaha tu wo bhi sab k saath pyar aur izzat se pesh aaen gi .....unklye dua kasrat k saath kijye
Jazak ALLAH khair.
My issue 2
Same isho bro but my little is 3 years old lekn os k dimag me jo gussa or apne chote bhai se hasd hai ye hme kuch smj nh arha h k mamla kesy thk kare
@@jazibkhan1034 ap us ko piyar sy smjhy usko zyda time dy usko important rakhy kamo sy zyda choty bhai sy usy piyar karay or boly k daikho bhai ap sy kaisy piyar krta hai api is ki bari api ho ya bary bhaiya ho agar usko danto maro gy to or biger jay gi
@@asadmughal8378 G Inshallah bro me pori koshish krnga
Sir meri 3 saal ki bachi apne choty bhai se bht larti he bewaja or iski waja se mene ose slap lagai lakn fr b wo is bt ko nh smj rahi mujhe koi sola sa salution bate gusse wale bache ko cantrol kesy kia jae or bache k dil me jo hasd peda hota hai osko kesy khtm kre hm
Aap ki jo 3 saal ki bachi hai us ne apne maa baap jo 100% usk the unka time unki mohabbat ek dam share ki hai. it will b tough on her please usko apne beta pe tarjeeh den. chota sab bhol jaye gha uski memory abhi nahi hai lakin apki beti ki memory ab pakki ho rahi hai
mera beta 2 saal ka tha jab humhara 2nd beta howa woh pehle se zyada roney laga. specially jab chota bacha rota tha toh woh us waqt zyada zid kerta tha k mujhe outhao toh mein apne bare beta ko hi outhati thi usko pyar kerti thi phir kehti thi k dekho chota baby roo raha hai. usko jaldi se chup kerwa k sula denghe phir hum khelte han.
bachon ki psychology samjhen woh bas yeh chahte han k aap unko ehsaas dilayen k woh aap k liye 1st priority han beti ko beta se zyada pyar karen aur usko yeh baat bataye b aur bas Allah t'Allah se dua karen. Parenthood is easy its a learning journey everyday
@@youtube.youtube.8754 G bilkul sis ap ki bt 100% right hai, i try it to manage this,
@@youtube.youtube.8754 Zaida pyar to ksi bachay sy nh krna chye. Equality rkhni chye
@@videosonrandomtopics8920 ary yahan inequality ki bat ni horhi...bs zid ko piyar sy control krny ki bat ho rhi...mery khayal mai b zid ko isi trhn sy control kia ja skta hai
Parents k bhi huqoq Hain aulad k bhi.. mei aulad achi nhi hon mei nafarman nhi hona chahti par Meri chaht nhi Hy unki chahat mei.. lkn mei kiun nhi chahti isky pechy koi waja hogi yaqeenan parents kiun karty Hain aysa aulad k mayar bnaty hain... Jiska mayar Kam kardyty Hain wo aulad apni shaksiyat har jati Hy shaksiyat k liye larti Hy badtamiz bhi lagti Hy phr man bap ko... Maan ny 9 mhiny rakha itna bara Kiya bap saya bna raha hm uski Haq ada kar hi nhi sakty dunya mei bhi akhrat mei bhi pr man bap jb bachy build kr rahy hoty Hain wo bht bari zimmydari Hoti Hy.. har bachy mei itna hosla nhi hta k wo samny khary hoky kahy mujhy bypanah mhbt Hy ap dono sy... Aur hosakta Hy Jo bcha kah raha hota Hy wo mauqa parast ho wo apko ye bat kah k bywaqoof bna raha ho.. man bap ko sarbarah rahna chahiye Jo bcha kah raha Hy mhbt Hy usky agy hathiyar nhi dalny chahiye bcho kI individual shaksiyat ko deal Karna chahiye... Mujh jaisy bchy apni jaga chor dyty Hain pechy hat jaty Hain pr jaga chorny k bad Khala BN jati Hy wo Khala bht aziyat bcha chahty hoey bht kch nhi kah pata siwaey ghussa aur badtamizi k
Myry sath ghur walo ny jo kia bacpun ma...ma tu choti thi mar dant hur wqt ki lrai..ma chup rhna seekh lia same apki tra...kbi ni jtaya bohut muhbt ap logo se or jo btmzi krty aagy se zuban chkaty wo bachy osnd inko myry jaise hur kam p ji ji khny waly ko pocha b ni jata k zinda b hu ya mur gay..yhi hwa aik behun ki psnd ki shadi krxi or myri dafa krka khobsorut ni h..myri zindgi ka swal or ghur waly dra dmka k khi or krna chahty h...kia mjy spni zindgi jeeny ka koi huq ni..kuch b smj ni aata ab k khud ki suno ya ghur walo ki..sochti dosri behun ka b tu osnd ka kia myra b krdy...sirf aik lrka oyara na hony p use chor dena chahiy kya?
Allah mja bhi maaf kra.
Ads should be removed in these videos. They create distraction and I think these are against the ideology of ERDC. Is this channel really administered by Sir Salman? Plz verify..
WESTERN FOLLOWERS... UN KA BACHA , BACHI JAWAN BHI NAHI HOTAY AUR ZINNAH MURTAQIB AUR WALDEN KO CHORE KE CHALLAY JATAY HAIN !!! AAJ JABHI KALA MOONH HOTA JA RAHA HAI .. BIWI AZAD, BACHAY AZAD JIS KO G CHAHE GUNNAH KAREY!!! HEN???
Asslam o alaikam
Very nice lecture...please tell me if we become strict just to train them is this act too is questionable?
جی میں ہمیشہ اللہ تعلی سے والدین کی مغفرت کی دعا کرتی ہوں کیونکہ والد تربیت میں سختی کرتے رہے اور والدہ بہت شکایات لگا کر مار پڑواتی رہی والدہ کو معاف کرنا مشکل پیش اتی ہے مگر کر دیتی ہوں وہ ہمیشہ ناانصافی کرتی تھیں میرے ساتھ پر ماما ہیں حیات ہیں اج بھی کرتی ہیں 😢
Masha Allah
Very right
Masha Allah