4 Surprising things I learnt being a First Time Mum

Поділитися
Вставка
  • Опубліковано 5 вер 2024
  • Hi guys, this will be my last MummyRochelle Vlog before the new baby arrives so I thought this would be a good opportunity to discuss some of the surprising things I didn't expect being a FTM. Below are some useful links if you want more info on the topics I talk about.
    1. Colostrum, baby's first milk & Building up your milk supply: www.nhs.uk/con...
    2. Nursing Aversion: www.breastfeed...
    3. What is Mum Guilt? www.marieclair...
    4. Young kids learning development: www.cdc.gov/nc...
    - Feel free to send me a comment, telling me what surprising things you learnt being a first-time parent.
    ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
    Business Enquiries: babyrochelleofficial@yahoo.com
    Social media & more info: In the 'About' section
    ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
    #firsttimemom #Momvlog #Breastfeedingaversion #firsttimemomtips #familyvlogs #momvlog #mumvloguk #nursingaversion #breastfeeding #momguilt #mummyguilt #relatable

КОМЕНТАРІ • 171

  • @MayaRochelleandFamily
    @MayaRochelleandFamily  5 років тому +2

    There's so many things I haven't covered in this vlog (The video would be too long lol).
    I'd be interested to hear from you guys - What surprising things did you learn being a first-time mum/parent? :)

    • @DanAnderson_TheMaddestShredder
      @DanAnderson_TheMaddestShredder 5 років тому

      BabyRochelle kids are just biting to get hooks. But it does take a long time to get it happenings god bless you sweetheart

  • @albusjim6823
    @albusjim6823 5 років тому

    Beautiful family.Love your videos!!!

  • @hazelove03
    @hazelove03 5 років тому +1

    I don't have any kids, but I do salute to all the moms there like you.

  • @ArjanvsTheWorld
    @ArjanvsTheWorld 5 років тому +1

    Your learning video is marvellous Rochelle.

  • @christinermns3747
    @christinermns3747 5 років тому +1

    the baby is so adorable. This was a cool live. So many bells going off at a time I hope to catch yours soon.

  • @heprovides5604
    @heprovides5604 5 років тому +1

    Our youngest is now 23. And the learning has never stopped.

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  5 років тому +1

      Indeed - everyday new things to learn. Thanks for joining our family!!!

  • @lasithrocks1246
    @lasithrocks1246 5 років тому

    Wow- interesting

  • @poonamskitchen5
    @poonamskitchen5 5 років тому +1

    Thanks for sharing..

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  5 років тому +1

      Hi Poonam, I hope everything is good with you. Thanks for your message xx

  • @DeaconsUniverse
    @DeaconsUniverse 5 років тому +1

    Hi :) Nice meeting you in NDSA's stream

  • @TokunboLatonaTV
    @TokunboLatonaTV 5 років тому +1

    Aww you're so beautiful... I'm clued to your channel. Xx

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  5 років тому +1

      Awww thanks Tokunbo Latona TV, you're so sweet! We have watched some of your vids - very good and professional looking. Keep up the good work! 😘

  • @Wonderfulkidsworld
    @Wonderfulkidsworld 5 років тому +1

    good to see guys your new friends here

  • @AnnetteTheEncourager
    @AnnetteTheEncourager 5 років тому +1

    There are many things to learn and experience for sure my friend. Your daughter so Beautiful. Have a wonderful Day

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  5 років тому +1

      Indeed> Everyday we learning new things and gaining lots of experience. Loving it!! Thanks for joining our family!!

  • @AS-bj9cn
    @AS-bj9cn 5 років тому +2

    Hi friend!! I agree breastfeeding is not easy!! So hard!! I did it with twins!! Not so easy, but a wonderful experience . Definitely recommend!!!

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  5 років тому +1

      Hi dear friend! Wow that's great and you breastfed twins!! BF really is the best for them and you have to be strong and committed to go the distance. Right now I'm trying to decide if I should/could co-nurse once the baby is born. I hope after the birth that my nursing aversion goes. Fingers crossed xx

  • @Samuelandhistoys786
    @Samuelandhistoys786 5 років тому +1

    Great informational video thanks for sharing this video my friend 👍 ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  5 років тому +1

      Thanks, I'm glad you enjoyed it. Being a parent is amazing but is very complex and a shock to the system when you become a parent first time. I'm letting parents know they are not alone xx

  • @ladyttv4275
    @ladyttv4275 5 років тому +1

    Wow love your Little Angle.

  • @Fridayss
    @Fridayss 5 років тому +1

    this was so interesting to watch, very well put together! Xx

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  5 років тому +1

      Thanks hun! I had some technical issues lol but where there's a will, there's a way 😄

  • @Pozeproductions1
    @Pozeproductions1 5 років тому +1

    Very nice video

  • @funthingswithjustin8972
    @funthingswithjustin8972 5 років тому +1

    Very informative! I wish I saw this before I had my 2 boys.. I thought the process was 1,2,3 and it became so frustrating for me I just resorted to pumping. Thanks for sharing your tips!! New sub here

  • @ASMRSouthernBell
    @ASMRSouthernBell 5 років тому +1

    Being a Mom is a hard job, but it looks like your a Great Mom!!! 💖💖💖

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  5 років тому +1

      Aww thanks hun!! Yeah being a mom is hard but it is a blessing even when you have your low moments 😘

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  5 років тому

      Was it a shock to the system when you had your first? xx

  • @SatisfyingASMR4u
    @SatisfyingASMR4u 5 років тому +1

    Congratulations!!

  • @MountainGirlFrenchAlps
    @MountainGirlFrenchAlps 5 років тому +1

    Interesting! Liked with full watch :)

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  5 років тому +1

      Aww, I'm glad you enjoyed this topic. There's so much I could talk about but I wanted to discuss nursing aversion and mum guilt in particular as it affects so much of us and is a bit of a taboo subject. At least mums/parents can know that they are not alone. xx

  • @ButterflyJewels
    @ButterflyJewels 5 років тому +1

    Beautiful baby.

  • @pintobean1
    @pintobean1 5 років тому +1

    Great video!!! Stopping by to show some love

  • @playwithtinu1198
    @playwithtinu1198 5 років тому +1

    Sweet ..

  • @mehzabinpinky
    @mehzabinpinky 5 років тому +1

    Been a mum is not easy hun I have 3 n I know all about it just subscribed thumbs up keep posting

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  5 років тому +1

      Thanks for leaving your comment Mehzabin. I'm mentally preparing for our fam of 3 to become fam of 4 lol. I'm glad you liked what I had to say... I think some of these topics are a bit taboo. Not many mums feel comfortable openly talking about these things but hopefully (through this vid) mums will know they are not alone. We will stop by sometime today and show our love. Take care hun and continue staying strong xx

  • @KINGDOMANIMATION4D
    @KINGDOMANIMATION4D 5 років тому +1

    Breastfeeding can be a struggle, but our hearts are in the right place. You do what you have to do in the beginning.

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  5 років тому +2

      Yeah, this is true. You naturally want to do all you can to make sure your bubs stays healthy. We're lucky in the UK we have a lot of Breastfeeding support. It'll be great if all countries could provide this support xx

  • @OmShaanti1111
    @OmShaanti1111 5 років тому +1

    Very interesting upload and definitely resonate with the breast-feeding, I thought it would be so natural and I struggled for a while (with a 10lb hungry baby) but we got there in the end! Thanks for great content 🌸🙏

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  5 років тому

      Hi, thanks we're happy that you enjoyed this video! Awwww, I'm glad you stayed strong and tried to do what was best for your baby. BF really isn't that easy and sometimes there can be pressure to supplement with formula if BF isn't going as well in the beginning. Have a lovely weekend hun 😘

  • @Pinkstonfamily123
    @Pinkstonfamily123 5 років тому

    Wow really beautiful baby girl thank you so much for sharing have a great day

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  5 років тому

      Thanks Jamaicagirl! We're glad you enjoyed our video, thanks for watching. We hope you have a lovely weekend!

  • @slaklay
    @slaklay 5 років тому +1

    Hello my friend 🌷🌷😊😊

  • @LegendsOfArt_production
    @LegendsOfArt_production 5 років тому +1

    I love your content 😍

  • @LifeWithMike85
    @LifeWithMike85 5 років тому

    Hello! Nice show!😊

  • @interestingstories4521
    @interestingstories4521 5 років тому

    nice video))

  • @citizenztv4667
    @citizenztv4667 5 років тому

    Yes the formula can be little time consuming but it subject sometimes can take longer friend for life

  • @precisionanglingYT
    @precisionanglingYT 5 років тому

    First time checking in. I learned a lot as a first time parent as well

  • @PakistanimominAmerica
    @PakistanimominAmerica 5 років тому +1

    Nice share dear sister

  • @itsyagirlsheena8494
    @itsyagirlsheena8494 5 років тому

    I wanna great feed my next child ❤️ congrats on 1k🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @kristinb7450
    @kristinb7450 5 років тому

    Great video showing you love and support ❤️❤️❤️

  • @NorthWestGhostAdventures
    @NorthWestGhostAdventures 5 років тому +1

    Love your channel

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  5 років тому +1

      Thanks SPIRIT ENCOUNTERS ITC! We appreciate it. We'll stop by and show some love some time today 😀

  • @JulietRobin
    @JulietRobin 5 років тому +1

    Awwwww....beautiful. Thanks for sharing. My girlfriend just had a baby so i'm gonna be her teacher. LOL!

  • @selinesrecipes
    @selinesrecipes 5 років тому

    Hi dear nice baby stay connected 👍 always 🤗

  • @ButterflyJewels
    @ButterflyJewels 5 років тому

    New here. Really enjoyed myself and I'm sticking around love. 🦋

  • @COJ.Island
    @COJ.Island 5 років тому +1

    Hi! Hru? Thanks for sharing your wonderful experience as FTM.👍💚👍

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  5 років тому +1

      Hi Cup o' Joe, I'm glad you enjoyed this topic. Much appreciated! 😃

  • @LyndasDiamonds
    @LyndasDiamonds 5 років тому

    What a great video. I relate even though I was a first time mom almost 23 years ago. I could not breast feed either one of my children. I just did not produce enough. I think a lot think it is just a natural easy thing. Congrats on your family! I'm excited to get to know you and your channel. What a beautiful baby.

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  5 років тому

      Hi Linda, thanks for your message. I'm glad this video could relate to you and your experience. Sorry to hear about your struggles with breastfeeding. We know we as mothers get a lot of pressure to breastfeed, when some mums have a hard time bf or choose not to. Thanks for the congrats hun! Much appreciated. All the best to you, your family and your channel. Goodnight and we will be sure to show you our support xx

  • @missyelle2749
    @missyelle2749 5 років тому +3

    Our children were spaced out, so no nursing aversion experienced

  • @ButterflyJewels
    @ButterflyJewels 5 років тому

    Oh my goodness. Thank you for giving me a name for it. Mommie Guilt. I do this sometimes.

  • @PaintingtheRosesRed
    @PaintingtheRosesRed 5 років тому +1

    Being a mom is a hard job!

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  5 років тому +1

      Yeah it is lol. You hear people say this so much but until you go through it personally, you won't truly understand. It's a blessing to be a parent and our babies are worth the hard work xx

    • @PaintingtheRosesRed
      @PaintingtheRosesRed 5 років тому +1

      @@MayaRochelleandFamily amen sister, you're absolutely right!

  • @missyelle2749
    @missyelle2749 5 років тому +2

    I breasted all 5 of our children and wouldn’t trade it for anything. I too had to learn how to get baby to latch on after delivery and learn how to make sure the baby latched on.

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  5 років тому +2

      That's great to hear, an achievement to breastfeed all your babies as breastfeeding can be challenging and you really have to be self-disciplined to go the distance. I hope this video helps many mums who struggle as well as pregnant/or first time mums who might not know how complex breastfeeding can be. I'm glad you didn't suffer nursing aversion. It's not pleasant. BabyRochelle is still attached to my boobs so I might try and co breastfeed when newborn gets here. Not sure yet - a bit conflicted. Thanks for your message. Blessings to you and your family xx

    • @missyelle2749
      @missyelle2749 5 років тому +1

      BabyRochelle I had a friend successfully co breastfeed and both babies are thriving. Glad to see other Moms talking about this subject it can be overwhelming at times.
      When you’ve got a few mins ,I’d love for you to my. Handel and check it out you

  • @NguoiRungDakLak
    @NguoiRungDakLak 5 років тому +2

    HÉLO VERY NICE VIDEO THANK YOU.. CHÚC BẠN VÀ GIA ĐÌNH NGÀY MỚI VUI VẺ VÀ HẠNH PHÚC

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  5 років тому

      Cảm ơn ý kiến của bạn. Chúc một ngày tốt lành! 😊

  • @thedailydee
    @thedailydee 5 років тому

    Met you on G-Mama's live and came over to check you out. I really like what I see. I will be here permanently.

  • @RollingwiththeReids
    @RollingwiththeReids 5 років тому

    hello new from Ndisa, beautiful family !

  • @marisolvillavicencio1491
    @marisolvillavicencio1491 5 років тому +1

    Hi hun New from the live stream let's stay connected 💕💕💕have a blessed day

  • @AbandonedCityCamoCrewExplorers
    @AbandonedCityCamoCrewExplorers 5 років тому +1

    Nice to meet you london? sounds like it hope your well .see you again soon

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  5 років тому +1

      Hi, how are you guys doing? Thanks for watching - it's nice that our male subscribers also watch and enjoy this video. Hope you have a good day :)

  • @DanAnderson_TheMaddestShredder
    @DanAnderson_TheMaddestShredder 5 років тому

    Hurts they say. not like that sweetheart!!! She’s sooo adorable god bless you sweetheart. Mad Respect. God bless you sweetheart

  • @gunz00
    @gunz00 5 років тому +2

    Almost at 1k 😊🔝💯

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  5 років тому +2

      Hi SUNDY, what's good? Thanks for watching - I can almost taste the 1k lol 😄

    • @gunz00
      @gunz00 5 років тому +1

      @@MayaRochelleandFamily no problem my freind all the best I'm good wbu?😊😊

  • @LeBainSoap
    @LeBainSoap 5 років тому

    What an awesome share, so informative for new moms! I never had to pump, thank God! I was always around and when in public, i just threw a blanket over myself lol. Things were different back in my day though. The teeth thing, lord lord, that could be painful, i remember! HahahA! Great big LIKE sweety! Have a blessed weekend!

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  5 років тому

      Hi Le Bain. I'm glad you enjoyed our video. Yeah the things we need to do as mums lol! Yeah, I used to carry around a nursing top to breastfeed since don't want public attention and it helps with milk let down cos I wasn't as self-conscious breastfeeding using it. I'm glad your breastfeeding journey wasn't too challenging. Yeah the teeth, so scary to try BF at first lol! I wish you the same too, have a blessed weekend hun! xx

  • @Th3Goodn3rdsFamily
    @Th3Goodn3rdsFamily 5 років тому +2

    Breast feeding is really really painful and its difficult for baby and mom if the baby don't latch. I remember those days. love you hun.

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  5 років тому +1

      Thnaks for your message... yeah it's really hard decision cos sometimes you feel uncomfortable/pain but at the same time you want your baby to have the nutrition they need. I bet you're glad those BF days are over lol. I can't drink for another 2 years 😄 but it's worth it xx

  • @playwithtinu1198
    @playwithtinu1198 5 років тому +1

    Lovely daughter....

  • @shaunsim6013
    @shaunsim6013 5 років тому

    great video

  • @missyelle2749
    @missyelle2749 5 років тому +1

    I had Mommy guilt with our last child because she was an emergency c-section and it was not something I thought I would ever experience

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  5 років тому +1

      Sorry to hear this, it wasn't your fault hun. I hope everything is going better for you xx

  • @MasonsFunDay
    @MasonsFunDay 5 років тому +2

    Hi first here 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻💚💚💚

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  5 років тому +2

      Hi Mason and fam. Thanks for watching xx

    • @MasonsFunDay
      @MasonsFunDay 5 років тому +1

      BabyRochelle hi my dear friend 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻💚💚💚💚

  • @liiamsromphouse1166
    @liiamsromphouse1166 5 років тому +1

    Stay connected new friend...cute little girl great video👏👍🙏❤

  • @NickyTheRealest
    @NickyTheRealest 5 років тому

    New friend here..came to support you ❤️

  • @ChrissySxo4
    @ChrissySxo4 5 років тому

    You're so gorgeous! 😍 & TFS i wanna become a mom some day! Thanks for your insight on this! Feeding sounds like fun but i agree that does sound complicated!

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  5 років тому

      Hi Chrissy, I'm glad you enjoyed the video. The aim of this video was to bring awareness to these (especially breastfeeding and mum guilt) so new parents don't get caught off guard... not many people talk about these, it's like taboo subject or something lol. That's lovely that you hope to become a mum some day, all the best to you. It is a blessing that should'nt be taken for granted and life isn't the same again after this. I hope you have a lovely weekend hun. 😘

  • @ButterflyJewels
    @ButterflyJewels 5 років тому

    Oh wow. I've never heard of nursing aversion.

  • @vinimalheirogamer3249
    @vinimalheirogamer3249 5 років тому +1

    Nice video :)

  • @twocutestthings6894
    @twocutestthings6894 5 років тому

    I have stay connected.. My friend...very cute baby.

  • @Ysai0813
    @Ysai0813 5 років тому +1

    its hard to breastfeed at firstimer mom,,, i also experienced breasfeeding my 3 kids

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  5 років тому +1

      Marisa Avila - Waiting for my 2nd baby next week then my life will be more interesting. Loving being a mum!! Thanks for joining to our family!!

  • @ToysAda
    @ToysAda 5 років тому +2

    Hi Mum 😍 awesome video , super like from new friend 🥰👍🏻👍🏻💜💚🧡💙🔔

  • @PositiveQueen
    @PositiveQueen 5 років тому +1

    Hiya Beautiful family love your accent good afternoon new friend here let's stay in touch Big 👍up Great video she is such a cutie pie

  • @BeingTanisha
    @BeingTanisha 5 років тому

    Hey girl!!! I don't have any kids so thatis is very helpful!!! I swear there are thigs they do't tell you before you have kids!!! Beautiful!!!

  • @ButterflyJewels
    @ButterflyJewels 5 років тому

    Breastfeeding got me too. Lol I thought it would be all rainbows and butterflies.

  • @mariannecanoofficial
    @mariannecanoofficial 5 років тому +1

    the napping time was different already.. changing of diapers and many more

  • @stuwilliams1130
    @stuwilliams1130 5 років тому

    New to channel. Found your channel at Ndisa's world.

  • @saybo95
    @saybo95 5 років тому

    New to the channel 🤗

  • @trueatsasmr
    @trueatsasmr 5 років тому

    Hey love new friend here, hit that bell as well, love your video hope to see more soon. Lets stay connected.

  • @jewelzofthasea
    @jewelzofthasea 5 років тому +1

    Heyy new friend thanks for sharing these things with us! Im happy to be apart of ur fam🎉 we are friends stay connected love🌸

  • @Filipinoreaction
    @Filipinoreaction 5 років тому

    rochelle my friend my clasmate whats up

  • @NicoleKayeB
    @NicoleKayeB 5 років тому

    Such a cool video, thanks for sharing:) here from a live to show some permanent love!!:)

  • @paperfreek7808
    @paperfreek7808 5 років тому +2

    Nice video!!!🔔👍*^^* I really enjoyed watching😊✨ !! Dear friend💕💕 !!!!! Like 81

  • @ImaaniBeauty
    @ImaaniBeauty 5 років тому

    Nice video enjoyed watching 👌 here to support hope to stay connected 💯

  • @laura.isabell
    @laura.isabell 5 років тому

    👍❤️

  • @aqillaghanniya6281
    @aqillaghanniya6281 5 років тому +1

    Hello my name is aqilla from Indonesian 😉

  • @ButterflyJewels
    @ButterflyJewels 5 років тому +1

    I learned I was wrong about my mom.

  • @sandrashauls5840
    @sandrashauls5840 5 років тому +1

    Great video I subscribed back to your channel enjoyed watching stay connected!!!👍👍

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  5 років тому +1

      Hi Sandra, we're glad you enjoyed the video! Thanks for returning the love. 😀👍

  • @SportsLiveInTheAtl
    @SportsLiveInTheAtl 5 років тому +1

    I wasn't breast fed. Nope.😀

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  5 років тому +1

      Lol! Breastfeeding isn't for everyone. Different strokes for different folks. Thank our lucky stars that in this day and age we have a lot more options (incl formula) to choose from :)

  •  5 років тому +1

    Xin chào 2 mẹ con

  • @ASMRR3N33
    @ASMRR3N33 5 років тому

    Got you from the live stream let's stay in touch I'm permanent

  • @LegendsOfArt_production
    @LegendsOfArt_production 5 років тому +1

    Hello I am new to your channel showing some love 😍😘...stay connected we grow together 🤗🔔🔔

  • @drewnationtv-vlogs1141
    @drewnationtv-vlogs1141 5 років тому

    Hey, Hey, discovered your channel in a stream. Nice to meet you. Cool video. All the misleading things we believe prior to becoming a parent quickly unfolds once our little ones come along. The experience is great though and just like anything else once you stick to it it gets better. I am happy you stuck with it. Thanks for sharing this awesome vid. Exploring your channel more. This was a well put together video. You are invited to stop by our house to say hi and become one of our family members! BELLS On! Made a friend for life here!

    • @MayaRochelleandFamily
      @MayaRochelleandFamily  5 років тому

      Hi Drew, thanks for your message. Yeah, I'm hoping this video will help new parents/soon to be parents so these things won't be a major shock to the system. It's weird that things like nursing aversion and mum guilt can be a bit of a taboo subject... like parents are uncomfortable talking about it but these things do happen to some of us. Thanks for your support! We're glad you enjoyed this video. We're happy to join your family and we hope to see you any new videos you upload in the future xx

    • @DrewsClues
      @DrewsClues 5 років тому

      @@MayaRochelleandFamily Hey there, I just realized today that my original comment came from our out account which does not have videos. I have responded today from the correct account. we have hit the button and bell from the correct account as well. Thanks

  • @ButterflyJewels
    @ButterflyJewels 5 років тому

    You're beautiful. 😍

  • @HashInfo
    @HashInfo 5 років тому

    hi there gorgeous how u doin

  • @MikesComputerTips
    @MikesComputerTips 5 років тому

    Great video I like your accent your channel is nice stay in touch I'm going to check out your videos check out mine