Server Explains How He Spots a bad Tipper
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- Опубліковано 26 вер 2024
- Dr. Phil talks with guests who have different opinions about tipping or giving gratuity for various services, such as a haircut, a manicure, or dinner at a restaurant. Walter admits he never tips and is completely against the entire tipping system. Jackson and Theresa, who have been working as servers, both say they believe in tipping others for a job well done. In fact, Jackson says he can even spot a bad tipper! Dr. Phil puts him to the test just to see how accurate his skills are. Then, meet Naam and Bryce who both say that modern tipping in this country has become way too aggressive. And, Etiquette Expert and Founder and CEO of Beverly Hills Manners Lisa Gashé gives Dr. Phil and his guests her views on tipping. (21057)
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Tips aren't the norm in my country, and the service is good. This is just allowing restaurants to underpay people.
( before i get jumped on, I definitely would tip in a country where I know tipping is required for the server to get fair pay, like the US, i will tip. )
@John Bohn You have some of the best conditions in the world, John, I'm not sure where you think people don't work for what they have. America is a wealthy country. Serving is a job, therefore people should be paid. Would you pay a teacher less for a bad day? You sound very angry and I'm sorry that you're in a position in life where a UA-cam comment causes you this much upset. Be well, God bless.
@@LucyWatchesYou your phantom country you won't even mention and keep obscure.? Obviously no where near North America while you watch from far away in your nameless country you reside in and mention in a comment. Big secret huh?🙄
Using the excuse that America is the richest country in the world doesn't mean that they treat the people that live within it fairly. In fact I'm almost 100% certain at this point that our government which is white, racist, incredibly wealthy, doesn't give a damn about the poor, and mostly christian, pretty much wants us dead. We can't afford to pay for medications that keep the elderly alive, and don't even get me started on the conditions that we have left our elderly in and the disgusting hospice and nurse care that they have. We can't afford to give a homeless person any sort of work and yet we want to berate them because they have to live on the street and use that same street as a public bathroom, teachers here don't get paid fairly and if anything happens to Little Johnny and he fails the class it's automatically the teachers fault. You should do a little more research before you decide to think that you know about a country that absolutely is one of the worst to live in aside from the religious freedoms, which they aren't even freedoms anymore because if you aren't one of the main ones that they decide you have to be, be prepared to be taken down for it. Oh and if you're gay? Good luck even living, also a female, because if you get raped you're having that child. You don't understand what it is like to live in this God forsaken country anymore.
@@LucyWatchesYou I think he's talking about how a lot of countries pay for health care and college plus most developed countries have affordable housing. That's the only conclusion I can draw from his comment about "we don't get everything handed to us like y'all." Then I read his follow up post and I have no words for his tirade.
Sports jersey = black.
And he isn’t racist. That was a hard earned reputation.
Occasionally you might see a Latino wearing a sport jersey as well.
Tipping is not a world norm. If employees dont get paid well, then it is a problem they need to fix with their employer.Nobody gives money for free.
I don’t care that a waiter thinks I’m a bad tipper. I don’t tip and this tacky, shameless practice needs to STOP.
"wearing a sports jersey" AKA "being black"
Or Mexican. Either way, you're looking at a poor tipper.
You said it, not me.
OMG 😮
There's a lot of white guys that wwar jersey. 😮.
Big facts. Nigerians dont tip. 25 year server
The American restaurant industry is a scam. They pass the payment of staff onto the benevolence of the customer, yet the cost savings of not having to pay servers is not reflected in the price of the meal.
Exactly right, and it's the main reason I won't patronize restaurants anymore.
Sounds like an excuse not to tip…Blame it on the corporations and the businesses that hire servers…So you’re willing to give 100% of the money you’re paying to the business, but not even a dollar or $2 back to the person who’s serving you and needs it most? And then you’ll blame the business afterwards for not paying their staff more?…Wow, you’re so righteous, way to stick it to the man! POS
Sounds like an excuse not to tip…Blame it on the corporations and the businesses that hire servers…So you’re willing to give 100% of the money you’re paying to the business, but not even a dollar or $2 back to the person who’s serving you and needs it most? And then you’ll blame the business afterwards for not paying their staff more?…Wow, you’re so righteous, way to stick it to the man! POS
Do you know how much money the restaurant makes?
@@joeydoherty368 I'm talking about all restaurants in general.
I've bartended over a decade. Last week I had initially rude and needy and abrasive women come up for appetizers and craft drinks. I made them laugh, changed their attitudes and smile. Accommodated every request with "OF COURSE! As you wish..." with a bow. 😂 I love my job. At the end, they complimented me beyond belief, wrote a 5 start review on the spot, and tipped 50% of their check in cash. They couldn't spot complementing me that I started tearing up at one point from the gratification of providing great service and making them smile. THAT... is what I live for. Giving smiles everyone needs. Viva Argentinian Steakhouse in Key West. Come find out. ❤
Imagine teachers asking for tip before they start a class.😅
Ive went to restaurants and tipped $0. I’ve also had a $50 bill at a bbq place and tipped $20. The thing about tips is that it’s optional. I only tip if the server goes above and beyond their work. The server at the barbecue place, made it such a great experience for me, I couldn’t help but tip, i WANTED to. but to make a customer feel pressured or guilt tripped into tipping you, you believe you will not get a tip from me.
20 is not a good tip sorry to burst your bubbke
I always ask people like you if you feel that way why not just cook at home why makes someone else’s life harder so yours can be easier
Im from the uk, why should people tip, we are already living on the breadline here with gas and electricity prices, this is an excuse for companies not to pay there staff properly, its not our job to pay your wages, i dont get tipped in my job. They should be paid a proper wage.
yea but every0ne in the UK is angry and miserable so we don't expect yall to tip.
Not enough sun out there 😁
im also totally joking
If you are poor where you can’t afford to tip, you should not be eating out.
@@fliprodriguez5250 theres a service charge already added, im not poor but i dont believe in people substituing someones wages so that the resturants get away with not paying enough. Why should everything including there wages passed onto the consumer, England is double the price of the states babe, get it right people here are choosing between eating and heating, why on top of the recession do we need to pay there wages when ours are not increasing at the rate of inflation. Thats called being stupid.
I assume people in the UK use punctuation at the end of sentences, correct? Do you only have a comma button??
@@fliprodriguez5250 better put them hot pockets in the microwave
Bartended for years after serving for years. Hole in the wall dives to nightclubs to steakhouses to fine dining. Never prejudge customers, but this guy has super valid points. Thing is, other customers see how we treat other customers, even ones we read as bad tippers, so beware
He doesn’t judge but ends up judging
Ikr. What was the point of introducing his segment on how to be bias by first saying he’s not bias? Waste of airtime.
Had he been black. You would be so excited about the video you just watched. Get over it. Who cares.
Sounds like you don’t tip.
@@joeydoherty368 I always tip just not to stand out, no matter how good or bad the service. I don't even care about slow or fast service, greets and smiles, or winks either. Sorry, but I don't wanna be your employer or your buddy either.
This is spot on. If you work in the business long enough, you know. There's one thing he left out, but you'll get cancelled if you say it.
What thing did he leave out? Was it demographics?
If so, I will go out on a limb to say I am part of a demographic that has a reputation for not tipping well.
That said, I usually tip generously.
I tipped one girl 50%.
She snatched money out of my hand and was extremely ungrateful and entitled.
I went back to that same restaurant and she was my waitress. When I got the bill, I put “zero dollars”on the Tip line and wrote why.
Black people tip very low or no tipp at all. Or they do a dine and dash
dark skinned folks dont tip
I absolutely disagree with that unfortunate stereotype your suggesting. Where I work at, the group of people you're referring to are great tippers. In fact, 2 of my best customers are of that demographic and you know what, I wouldn't even care if they gave me a bad tip (which they never have but for arguments sake), because they're two of the nicest and polite guys I've ever had the pleasure of serving.
Women fart at the table...yuck!
Ok here's my problem with this bearded guy, he is judging how well of service he gives by his predetermined fantasy of what he thinks of customers based purely on their look of how they are dressed or maybe the person is shy....if I saw him as a server in a restaurant, I would instantly leave and tell the owners why.
Your not realizing, his accuracy negates your comment.
This guy says it's ok if you don't tip me, then when you don't, he says he was stiffed!
I am a server part time for about 2 years now if I talk to you and you just ignore me…. You are not gonna tip me so I don’t waste my time trying to go above and beyond and just let y’all eat and leave. It’s okay if you don’t tip. You just have to be okay with me cursing your name on your credit card and showing it to all the other waitstaff and joking that we will never serve you again.
@@norisclark3416 yeah if you stiff me the next you come in the whole restaurant will know your face and remember your name. In a negative way
Im a server, over time you learn to read people, while you can’t 100% assume, you get a pretty good idea about who’s gonna leave you a decent tip, who you should and shouldn’t go above and beyond for
Multi-millionaire Phil would want to be judged on "merit". Struggling to pay the bills? Unlikely.
Maybe the bigger point missed here is...we could just pay people a fair wage? Using basic psychology to determine if you are going to be able to pay the rent this month and eat. What happened to America? What is happening to the Dr Phil show this season...world views from the very wealthy man that lives in Hollywood? That'll help fix the country.
thats why i am horrified to travel to America .... just eat at 7-11 when ur there
Really tipping gets you scared??
@@HaveCommonSense76we don’t have a tipping culture in my country and most of Asian countries don’t have it in Japan it’s plain rude and insulting to tip someone Why don’t the Americans pay waiters and servers a good enough salary
@@NylonStrings83 That’s up to the employer what they pay employees. It’s not like it’s a law or anything like that that they have to leave a tip. It just gets ridiculous that people want a tip from a customer when all they do is give the customer their food at a drive-thru.
@@NylonStrings83 Values dissonance is one helluva drug, isn’t it? If a basic act of generosity on the customer’s part is seen as an insult, then why bother being generous at all? No good deed goes unpunished, it seems.
@@fencerderio9814it's disrespectful to give them money at that stage. If you throw money to the performers in an opera kind of thing
If someone doesn't tip me i could care less.
Than you don’t work a job where it’s a majority of your income
@diegobrando1467 no I have a job that is a tipping job. My feeling on it is for every person that doesn't tip someone else will come along and be more then generous.
@@jimmydaddo9357and your the type of person I would tip generously. I dislike people who sorta beg or pressure people to tip. If someone is casual about getting tipped, then It tells me they deserve it for not faking a persona
@hidan407 thank you. Though tipping is just a bonus to me. I found a diner that mostly older people come to that I really enjoy talking to since all my grandparents have now passed away. I think for me it is more therapeutic then anything.
@@jimmydaddo9357you are a beggar 😂
I am African American and a good tipper. However, because the perception is that black people are bad tippers I often get bad service.
It's not a perception..it's a reality..I'm black as well and have worked in service and delivery and I can tell you first hand..90% of inner city blacks do not tip or tip a comical amount like 50 cents or a dollar. It's just facts. So try and at-least understand why we may get worse service sometimes and then look at our own people and how we perpetuate that.
@@tomford1080 how is it comical. Be grateful for whatever extra you get
We definitely get stereotyped when going out to eat it’s sad
Going to resturant in American seem like going to a torture cell.
Dr. Phil: “Does the service impact the tip?”
Audience: (50% hand raises)
Dr Phil: “So it does”
😅
Tipping culture is toxic. It's transfering the responsability of the salary from the employer to the customer by pressuring them. You do a job you should get paid for it correctly, The end. What is the service? Serving 20 gallons of unasked water? And annoying you every 5 minutes? I go to a restaurant for the food , not for a lapdance.
I do hate it when they refill things without asking your permission first. It's your money,, so you should have a right to get the service you want out of that money.
With all due respect, and to put it quite simply (…and hopefully your ignorance doesn’t completely cloud out my comment), then don’t go out to eat! Servers and waitstaff working at dine-in restaurants LIVE on those tips, and automatically don’t make the state minimum wage (in most states). You want to go out for a nice meal where you don’t have to cook/wash dishes/host/etc, but are still expecting NOT to tip at all for someone who is literally providing all of those services to you??? Wow. True colors of a completely absent-minded and incompetent, greedy generation. Human decency must NOT be a thing anymore 🤷♀️… Hey! I’ve got a fantastic idea: do us servers/waitstaff a huge favor and STAY. HOME. I know that I can speak for myself, as well as, many other hardworking people in the restaurant industry, by saying, we don’t want your business, nor your entitlement, nor your negative energy! 👍 Gracias!
@@shoresoffreedom687 unfortunately the only ignorant person is you. The tipping system is only used in the us and Canada , the rest of humanity Is perfectly able to pay employees a decent salary without relying on customers generosity to pay for the difference. Tipping is a bad system for everyone, the customers don't have a good experience, because they have to think about tipping. some tip less because the service is slow or the food not meeting their expectations and it has nothing to do with the server. The servers are unnecessary friendly and keeps pouring water just to show there's is a service worth tipping. I go to a restaurant for food not to have a fake best friend flooding my stomach with water. We are asked to tip on taxes and the wine can make a huge difference in the tip, this makes no sense.. Forcing server to live on tips is just like making them beg for money. The restaurant's owner skip the responsibility to pay a decent salary because we encourage that system. I won't stop going out to make you happy , but I won't participate to that toxic system . I go out to restaurants that have tips included and I never Tip places that don't provide a service of exception. now even places that don't provide service asks for tips because of the tips normalisation. And that's why this system has to go.
You also don't seem to understand why tips exist. It's not mandatory , it's the choice of the customer for an extra service provided. So if I'm provided with that and it makes a big difference in my experience , I'll happily give a tip. But not for bringing a plate from the kitchen to my table which is the job.
I hope you can see beyond your own ignorance before calling others ignorant on a matter you have zero understanding.
@@Super-JD If the entire US population of restaurant diners decided to collectively STOP tipping as whole to the waitstaff in restaurants, then yes, these establishments in the restaurant industry will be FORCED to pay them a set wage, absolutely. But then guess what happens to the prices of the menu at the restaurant YOU decide to eat at?? $$$ Prices SKYROCKET on the menu, because NOW, the establishment has to shell out more money to waitstaff, in order to make sure they get that hourly wage, and to ensure the stability of the business itself. You think inflation is already terrible in this country? Are you willing to pay almost double, now, for that glass of wine you ordered? Look at what happened in California, when they raised the fast food workers’ wages to $20 an hour- the food menu prices for those fast food restaurants increased dramatically, and thousands of fast food workers were laid off, because they couldn’t afford to pay so many of them at their establishments. Cause and effect. With this kind of mentality, I hope your wallet stays full! Good luck!
@@shoresoffreedom687 It's only normal tat the price at the menu reflect the salary of the employees. It's also a good thing that customers know what they will pay.
Lmao, "How do you spot a bad tipper", Tips are tips, nothing more, no one should HAVE TO tip. It's a choice, the only person to be blamed is the boss of the waiters who doesn't PAY them enough at the end of the month. Tipping shouldn't make you do your job better or worse. These Americans are unbelievable.
Incentives at work never made you work harder than when there wasn't incentive? If I knew I was make XXXX with minimal effort but could be making XXXXX more if I provide better service, meaning higher pay out (typically) why wouldn't you?
@@Heyyyitsjadee Stupid
I am an American and I agree with you. For me, the incentive to give good service was me KEEPING MY JOB since that is what the restaurant, NOT the customer, hired me to do. Not giving good service wasn't an option based on whether I would get tipped or not.
You are correct, you shouldn't have to tip. You also don't HAVE TO go out to be served your breakfast/lunch/dinner. You can cook all of your meals yourself!!!
@@worldwideslingercry
I pay for the meal. Not for someone to bring it to me. The tip should go to the chef who prepared the dish. Never tip, never will. What does the waiter do besides bring the food to you?
But the servers is responsible for making sure the one cooking your food does it to your needs/wants.. You know that cheese you want to add, and tomatoes you want to remove. The chef doesn't just know how you want it and if it wasn't for those servers, your order would never get put in meaning you don't eat.. hmm.. They bring your food, and let's face it, if the CHEF doesn't make the food right you're not walking back to the kitchen, you're yelling at the one in front of you. The server makes a majority of your experience and is literally the only reason the food you're eating is in front of you. Regardless, that "prepared dish" you're tipping on 99% of the time came out of a freezer and popped into the oven/microwave. So if the tip should just go to the chef, you're tipping someone for pressing a button and walking away? Like I always say, if you don't tip or can't afford to, you have no business dining out. Servers are providing a service. If you didn't want the service, you should've stayed home and made your own food. Plus tips don't go directly to one person. They're split between servers, bussers, hostess, chef, bar tenders etc. All of which make that one experience of eating out happen. Not just the chef.
@@Heyyyitsjadee Was stationed in England. Brits don't tip. This is a US thing.
@@morbidcorpse5954 I know it's an american thing.. i was just making a point about why I thought it was silly not to tip.. at least coming from an American.. I know in other cultures its not normal
@@Heyyyitsjadee Yea, I don't know dude. I did tip before but its almost like they want a certain percentage. They'll put it on the receipt or Kiosk trying to make people feel guilty for tipping less. Maybe some people were able to gather up enough money to take their families out for a treat. I always thought why should they be forced to spend more than the cost of the meal.
@@morbidcorpse5954 Okay... I can say I do agree with the "guilt" of putting tip amounts on the receipt and then feeling bad for tipping less. I can absolutely agree with that. It's not that people are "forced" per say to spend more, but it is an unspoken custom to tip for a service you're receiving. (speaking from America.. I don't know where you're from, but that doesn't change my view regardless.. I'm just saying from my perspective). My work just had a dinner last night.. about 20 people.. I don't think the two servers who were running around like headless chickens going above and beyond would've been very happy to done all that for a whopping $16 (I think where I live servers wage is like $4/HR). Which even then, those four hours of work work out to only about $1 above minimum wage... for one hour..
These waitresses and waiters are nothing but a bunch of greedy people, with no skills but to beg for money.
i couldnt agree more
The most ironic thing is your attitude is the definition of greedy😂.
@@erickzuniga3113 You are probably a waiter too. The truth hurts, I know...I know.
@najadahe2828 just say you're broke 😂. I never once worked a waiter job but knowing a lot of people in the industry I know that they don't get paid very well and they get paid the minimum wage job so they really rely on tips. I always give 50-110% tip money to my waiter or waitresses. Obviously if they were rude to you then their tip drastically declines. You just sound broke my guy 🤷🏻♂️
@@amacbook6565 Broke? hahaha...far from it. I'm an airline mechanic and that is a skill, these ppl look like they begging for money, if they don't like working for the minimum wage they should get a new job or get a skill.
You probably a waiter or waitress, and your job is going to be to bring me my food, you like it or not you will do that and no tip because that is your job and anybody can do that. My job requires knowledge and that not many ppl have. You just sound broke my guy.
How to spot an extortionist.
Imagine asking my patients for a tip before I pass their medications ?
Nurses typically don’t tip very well they’re very entitled
@@Catspajamas1776 You have that so backwards. A tip or a gratuity is a bonus, not an entitlement and It seems all servers have this entitled mentality, expecting/demanding customer’s pay their salary rather than their actual employer! lol 😂
@@Jewels-Xo when you go into a restaurant you are agreeing to the terms and those terms are services staff servers hostess and in a lot of cases bussers and dishwashers Share what the servers makes (In tips) with your ideology your basically saying yeah these people should be paid terrible for making my day better makes me wonder where people like you would have felt with slaves way back when… nurse also don’t just tip bad they act as if the world owes them it’s gross honestly you guys and construction workers match made in heaven all selfish self-concerned arrogant people 😂
@@Jewels-Xo go give another Tylenol and ask for and award🫢🫢 your cute honey
@@Jewels-Xo what’s your OF by the way?
I don't tip prices are too high. It's not my job to pay you it's the company job
Sounds like an excuse not to tip…Blame it on the corporations and the businesses that hire servers…So you’re willing to give 100% of the money you’re paying to the business, but not even a dollar or $2 back to the person who’s serving you and needs it most? And then you’ll blame the business afterwards for not paying their staff more?…Wow, you’re so righteous, way to stick it to the man! POS
As a guy who has been in the game for 30 years. Its amazing how accurate you really get. I can almost guess my tables entire order, what they will tip, and how they will act in the first 30 seconds. Id say Im right honestly about 90 percent of the time.
he was dead wrong about the guy at the end...... that guy refuses to tip, and he thinks tippoing contributes to a toxic environment that lays a horrible stigma on non tippers. (IE- people tip because they dont want to be a non tipper) thats what the whole show was about
Ya gunna tip you for doing your job 🤦♂️
What’s this service people go on and on about. The job is very simple: bring me my food and drinks, and perhaps any condiment I ask for. That’s it, you’re not giving me a massage.
The meritocracy of tipping is total bs. No matter how my service is, certain people will tip and certain people wont. Its based on the character of the customer and has nothing to do with how staff treats them. As long as you arent spitting in their face, a customer who tends to tip will tip.
Dine-in you should tip 20%
Carry-out no tip
@@RenataKleinRK since when do you tip on carry-out? Do you tip at every fast food? (Before you say”fast food gets paid min. wage/hour nor $2/hour.” If you had an order of 50 meals would you tip the cooks?)
dine-in 0% tip, price already includes service lol
@@sender5804 😂 you animal 💀
You damn well better tip for delivery though
I will not tip this guy because he judges people on looks.
Heey that's me! I in fact, did not tip.
Still got the hat!?
@@jacksonbrittcomedy OMG I wear the hat all the time
@@jacksonbrittcomedy It's one of my most prized possessions.
All of the people complaining that restaurants need to pay their servers better don't seem to understand that doing so would increase the price of your meal.
I tip drivers at pizza places. I don't use door dash mainly because i live in a town and even if i did live in a place that did have door dash I wouldn't use it. I also tip waitress if the service is really good, for example they are refilling my drink, making sure the food was to my liking, and asking if we need anything, and if they also have a positive attitude but i do understand people have bad days and can't always be in a good mood but if they do everything that i type i will usually just ignore that one. But im not tipping you if you hand me a box of pizza or hand my food when i pick it up, and if you give me bad service.
The problem is today we are expected to pay 20 percent minimum. Not doing so makes you an a**hole. That's not fair.
I challenge you to work as a server in a restaurant for one week. That’ll change that opinion. I think 15 percent should be mandatory. 20 percent for good service. If it’s awesome, as much as you want.
@@bencarter8423no it's not
@@bencarter8423 lmao no. murica brain.
@@teatusnoone6332 If believing servers should be able to eat makes me stout, then yes, I guess I’m stupid.
@@bencarter8423 You are soo right! These people that complain about tipping are those that have never EVER worked in the industry.....Ironically, the highest maintenance customers or guests are those that NEVER tip.....I've worked in a Tex-Mex restaurant in KC and there was a family that would, while I am delivering their beverages on a tray to their table, grab their drinks and chug them and then say I need another one...then take thirty minutes to one hour to decide what they want as an entre....they went through entire things of chips and salsa at least 7-10 times on a friday night...leaving a gigantic mess....once food came, they complained about how long it took (13 minutes on a Friday night that has a 45 minute wait time is absolutely incredible) and then ask for a manager for comps....(this was every Friday night)......I had 4 other tables and they would literally stop me in my tracks while holding a tray of first round drinks to another table....and tell me they are wanting more. and me, being a half glass is empty kind of guy.....would always be anal when it came to drinks, food, chips, salsa, everything......they gave me 45 cents as a tip....I guarantee these people that think that a living wage will improve their services...... It's hilarious.....these are cheap skates that either uber eats or are on government assistance
Had a tidy (but dizzy) bird plonk two menus down then say "hi im melissa can i take your order" pressed 4 buttons on an Ipad then expect $25 tip because she drew a smily face on the bill. Not happening love. Jog on.
first of all...let's not forget that tipping isn't mandatory. it's up to the person if they want to tip regardless of what kind of service it might be.
Please don't go out.
Unfortunately, the "service" you receive is not always the servers fault but yet they still take the brunt of it, as if they have something to do with the cooks being backed up in the kitchen or making a mistake with their food... And the worst part is, these scapegoats are only making $2.80 an hour at most restaurants so the tips is really what they live in.
But yeah, anyways, empathy is a trait a lot of us don't have it have in varying degrees.
Iam social and look into the eyes. But Iam not a great tipper. However, in my country tips isn't a thing. Everything is already included in the price so when I am traveling I dont think about it until they stand there looking funny at me. I never know how much to give and it gets extra hard because I have dyscalculia. So I can't count without a calculator, especially in a different currency. I feel so uncomfortable just thinking about it now
What if people just have the extra money to tip in just want a nice meal without feeling bad about not giving extra
I worked back of house at a restaurant. Don't tip servers. They make way more money than you think they do. Servers treat back-of-house staff poorly too. Don't tip servers!!! 'Tipping' is a broken system.
There is no such thing as a bad tip. PERIOD. tipping $1.00 is a great tip, stop saying “stiffed” the employer is the one that is stiffing the waiters on their pay. PERIOD.🎉😂😂😂😂
Almost every place has shitty service anymore. So they don't deserve a big tip
My mom works at a high-end restaurant and says the influencers, Somalian and Indian work/business groups/gatherings rarely tip. not sure if it's a cultural thing but they always buy expensive food take pictures and rarely tip.
Iam Swedish and tipping isnt a thing in my country. Neither is bargain. We pay the price that it says on the menu or price-tag. Because the personnel are fully paid from their salary. Whatever we would have given in tipp we already paid for when we bought the food. Some of the fancier restaurants still do it, but that isn't an everyday occasion for most of us.
I heard black people don't tip.
@@user-wj3yr7xr2f interesting, thanks for the info
@@pitbull7885 🤐🤐
People always say to respect everyones culture and background. If people don't come from tipping culture, which is most of the world, I think it should be respected. Again tipping is supposed to be completely optional and not a requirement,
I made 500 in tips last night. God bless America
I completely disagree with the system. Changed since cell Phones, because I’ve had a phone since the mid 90s and I remember people saying to me, “I’ll serve you,” or “I’ll help you, when you stop talking on your phone,” back when phones were the size of a small suitcases.
I’m old enough to know the first cell phone salesman who sold the first pocket sized cell phone - meaning it fits in a shirt pocket - in the San Francisco Bay area, and who his customer was. Long before cell phones, there were pagers, answering services, answering machines and all that.
Nowadays, people don’t necessarily get dressed up to go eat, and our phones are with us almost all the time, and we conduct all manner of personal and professional business using our cell phones, in other words we are carrying our pager, our answering service, our answering machine, our office, and many of the tools that used to be in the office.
Personally, I’m not at a restaurant to make friends. I find greeters who come up and try to engage me - in the exact way he’s talking about being engaged - as very irritating and I’m not into it. I don’t want some guy to come up and smile and say “hey guys, how’s it going,” and expect I’m going to be there for any other reason than ordering food, or getting in there and getting out with whatever it is that I need.
What he is doing, is 100% the exact same as a police officer who pulls up, and asks the same sort of scripted questions, and I’m not into that either. When the car pulls me over, I keep my hands on the steering wheel because I don’t wanna get shot, and I know at some point he’s going to tell me why he pulled me over, and he’s either going to lecture me, or give me a ticket, or both, and I’m simply interested in getting on my way as fast as possible because I probably was doing something wrong and that’s why I probably got pulled over. In other words, it’s a business transaction, with pretty much scripted formulas, and I know that that server doesn’t really Care about me or my day or how things are going for me. It’s just some script that he’s got in his mind and he’s in his formula. More power to him. Whatever works man.
I mean I’m not joking when I say I remember having a cell phone that weighed 3.2 pounds, before anybody had cell phones, and paying $.90 a minute for the incoming side of the call and $.90 a minute for the outgoing part of the call, but it was a tool that made me money, and plenty of it.
My point is, sometimes I was paying $1.80 a minute, and this is back in the mid 90s, and the last thing I wanted to do was have some server come up and interrupt me, and ask me how my day was going, when I knew that I was losing literally something like three cents per second for every second I spoke to someone else besides the customer or client or distributor or whoever it was that I was communicating with on the cell phone. Be honest, I’m not interested in dropping three cents per second for somebody who I don’t know, may never see again, on a “how is your day going” script.
I tried to be efficient with people and tell them exactly what I wanted, exactly how I wanted it, and if I had questions I would ask them. I wasn’t interested in the daily special. I wasn’t interested in talking about the weather. If you thought you were going to get a better tip by getting a smile out of me, or engaging me in Smalltalk, it was actually the exact opposite. And, as a San Francisco Bay Area resident I’ve eaten in a wide variety of restaurants- I’m there for the food not the mood.
This guy has a system that will work for some people, but we’re in a different society than we were 10, 20, and certainly 30 years ago. That system might work if you’re going into the restaurant and expecting the server to be polite, and kind, and smile, and say things like, “hey guys how’s it going today?”
As if he actually cares. He doesn’t care. Or she doesn’t care. Or they doesn’t care whatever your personal pronoun is.
For example, many cultures are very efficient, and will act as though they are in a rush when they come to your table, and it doesn’t really matter to me, because I’m not there for the mood I’m there for the food.
And I don’t think I’m alone. Well, I am alone right now, talking on my phone, if you don’t include my dog sitting next to me.
What I don’t want, when I had children at the table, was some horrible attitude server who thought that we weren’t going to tip because we’re parents of young children, so they spent all the time over at the other table with the people who had the alcohol and basically ignored us.
What I don’t want, is some server who thinks they have a system. That guy. Hate to say it, but he’d get a terrible tip from me because he’s treating me like I am a commodity, and that is a fact. He’s got everybody pegged.
Plus, I’m sure many of those servers can’t wait to get away from the table so they can check their phones, and their social media, just like many of the customers are doing at the tables.
That said, I have never been a server. And I don’t want to be a server. So, it’s just my opinion from the receiving end.
I’m going to add this last part, because I used to do anger management and domestic violence groups for men. Many of these men were violent. Many of them were entitled. Many of them had very poor social skills. And 99.9% of them were mandated to attend the groups by the courts, probation, parole, or their attorney who was trying to keep them out of jail or prison. Some of them were sent there by their works, and the groups used to be 12 weeks, then after the OJ Simpson Trial, they all went to 16 weeks, and then 32 weeks, and then 52 weeks.
I used to have an assignment that I would give to these guys. We talked about tipping and good / bad service. So I have heard thousands of stories about how people tip or don’t tip.
I used to assign these guys as homework that no matter how bad the service was that they got, they had to leave at least one dollar. Most guys refused. Whatever.
I’ve heard all the stories about the upside down water glass, the penny as a tip, and acts of incredible rage that you now see on UA-cam from some of these guys. In any case, I would assign them to leave a dollar, because it’s called an “opposite action.”
When you feel as though you’ve gotten really bad service, and your tempted to not leave a tip, leave at least one dollar, or two dollars, because it’s the opposite of what you want to do.
A similar strategy is, when somebody cuts you off in traffic instead of tailgating them or flipping them off, slow down and pray for them and take some deep breath‘s as you’re driving. The opposite of what you normally do. These are 1970s tape interventions in a field that deals with assertiveness training, versus aggressive or passive.
Many times, just like this server, they are expecting a bad tip, and I’m surprised Dr. Phil doesn’t say as much, but he is projecting onto the customers his own attitude, and he is even saying that if he gives excellent service to people who he believes are going to tip him well, for some magical reason they tip him well.
Conversely, if he believes they’re not going to tip him well, he may not be saying it, but he’s clearly giving them less than excellent service and surprise surprise, magically they’re not tipping him well.
In other words he’s creating his own reality.
Another word for it, is magical thinking, a stage of development associated with infancy, where the infant lying in the crib believes that they are crying causes some thing to happen in the real world, because when they cry people come, and do something for them, so the child learns to cry, as a means of controlling their universe. This is long before the development of language, and maybe the six months to 12 months stage of life. That servers engaging in magical thinking.
So I would recommend to undo scripted action- get bad service / give no tip or retaliate - by giving a two dollar tip to somebody who gave me bad service because they’re not expecting a tip.
I’m not giving the tip for them, I’m giving the tip for me.
And I taught guys to do this and we would talk about how they felt giving a tip to somebody that they didn’t want to give a tip to or they thought they had been disrespected by or given bad service by.
Some of these guys were very violent as I said, many of them possibly not so bright, and a few of them had murdered and definitely attempted to murder people. I really enjoyed these groups because you really got to see what people thought, or at least what they thought they could get away with saying to me because I was usually an agent of parole or probation or the courts and had to do progress reports and all that stuff.
That’s called the practice effect. You get better at it the more you practice it. In other words treating people a little bit better than you would normally treat them.
I have given large tips to some of the worst servers imaginable. They literally got everything wrong at my table, everything wrong at every table nearby, and clearly were not capable of doing the job well. Who knows? Maybe they had some really horrible life circumstance. I would give a five dollar bill to some homeless person if I felt it might really be a good thing for me to do for whatever reason I chose to do it. But 99.9% of homeless people I don’t even bother to look at much less give money to. And the same is true for you.
I’m going to die. I’m not taking it with
This is the least organized TedTalk I’ve ever been to.
Jesus, is this an excerpt from your dissertation on Tipping culture or something?
Jesus Christ. I'm just gonna pretend ChatGPT wrote that😂
I don’t agree with tipping decisions based upon looks.
I do
This was fun to watch !😊
I'm not too chatty. Get the food, ask how it is AFTER I've tried some, refill my drink because the glass is empty and at the edge of the table, don't make me wait 30 minutes for a bill. The last guy with the cheap un ironed shirt would have been my pick as a non tipper. Same with leather coat, green dress and cheap sports coat. The sad reality is the better you are dressed, the better the service in any store/restaurant. You even get free desserts and entrees if the staff decides you look important.
A tip should be for those who go above and beyond their service provided... just like folks who get bonuses or profit sharing- to some degree of course.... I totally disagree with some work places who make the wait staff share the tips be it to just other wait staff or especially with all the staff because they’re on hourly wages already, even tho it took the whole house to preform that task. I refuse to tip unless it’s to those who don’t get paid hourly.. I reserve tipping for others who have exceeded my expectations
Not in the USA. It is expected because they don't make much of anything after taxes and tipping out to the host with only an hourly wage of $2.13 per hour. Can you survive on about ten dollars a day, two hundred dollars a month.
Get into reality.
@@willp.8120Then maybe they should find a new job
@@willp.8120then why do they accept that position if it’s that defeating?
@@willp.8120they only get that if their tips don’t equal minimum wage. If no one tips that day the employer has to pay them minimum wage at least
Here’s the thing, even if a waiter were to go “above and beyond” like you said, said waiter could very easily just not get tipped. It’s a damned if you do, damned if you don’t situation.
You don’t want bad service? Pay people a livable wage & if the worker goes above & beyond allow for tipping then. Everyone gets something. Workers who do the minimum will at least get to squeak by w/ rent & food & others who want more have the option to work for it. Above all the most draining thing when working is constantly wondering/worrying about bills.
go experience customer service at a restaurant in Europe and tell me how you like it
Problem is servers aren't WILLING to do the **WORK** for their money at times. I have had servers try to get out of putting orders into the computer correctly. I added one side of ranch to an appetizer(just one condiment added) and when it came out from a food runner, the waitress admitted stupidly "I DIDN'T PUT IT ON THE TICKET, because THE FOOD RUNNERS DON'T READ THE TICKETS." I couldn't believe she was TOO LAZY to put into the computer ONE condiment. They don't want the money. I mean seriously, they don't want to even do the BARE MINIMUM at times. I'm glad not every server is like that. My husband and I have had some others that try to do that like I have had several servers say "Oh it's crispy" when ordering my bacon crispy simply because it's too much work for them to put into the computer the word "CRISPY." I don't want bad service, so that's why I tip 30%-40% at times, but IT DOESN'T HELP sometimes since some of them don't want to do their jobs at times.
how about he spots a bad employer first?
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"Bad Tipper" 😂😂😂Okay, America, whatever 🙄.
In my country a tip is nothing but a token of gratitude for great work therefore there is no such thing as a bad tip.
That guy was saying that they were all good tippers like he was afraid to hurt somebody's feelings or something out of the audience what the heck he said each and everyone was a good tipper
because it was all well to do people who watch dr. phil, not trashy welfare bums
also I can say that good service does not always amount to good tip . I always give the same great service to customers and I have had people leave me nothing or leave me a big tip. For example Indian people DO NOT TIP EVER. if anyone wants to say they do come fight me lol. They NEVER tip EVER. I am hispanic but Indian people confuse me for being Indian all the time and I honestly feel like if I would have just pretended to be Indian they would have actually tipped me cuz every time they have asked me and I told them I was Mexican they would get disappointed look on their face and start to treat me different.
I've worked in ten different restaurants and the majority of Indians tipped me very well and were very low-maintenance.....The worst is, and if you truly work in the industry............you know what I'm talking about...
Does ist start with B and end with K ?@@hayeshumphries311
Nonsense, in Japan tipping is seen as an insult and they have incredible service! People are proud of there jobs and want to do it to the best of there abilities.
I am a long time server, this video wasn't very informative at all. I think that I am much more able to tell if a table will be high or low maintenance. And yes, if you are high maintenance there is much more variance in the tip because the needier you are the more likely you will think that I am giving good or bad service. Needy customers are creating more opportunities for the server to "fail" or "impress" you.
A) Women are much higher maintenance than men, it is not even close. No, it is not sexist to say this. If you disagree, you are ignorant at best and sexist at worst. If you happen to have an uncle who is super demanding, whatever, women are on average significantly more demanding than men.
B) The way random people were paraded out here is not a good indicator of their tippiness. This could have been done much better, such as Dr. Phil films a restaurant and the guy makes his determination about their tippiness. Or even just film a bunch of people in a restaurant waiting room and then he judges them. The problem with that is that the show would have to blur their faces, and then the whole exercise is meaningless for the audience.
C) If tips are automatically included on the bill, that actually might improve service. With voluntary tips, if you don't like the service, the diner can either complain or tip less, or tip normally and leave a bad review or do nothing. If tips are included, the diner now has fewer ways of expressing his or her displeasure and is more likely to complain which is worse for the server than low tips.
I am not American but if I were why would I pay their employees. I never tip in my country.
I tip 100% every time. Am I rich? No, but, I eat out once a year. If ate out on a regular basis things might be different lol.
The worst tippers? Church goers. I put my way through college (USC) by waitressing. Sunday morning brunch brought in the churchies - they all figured they gave at church. We all did our best NOT to have those cheapskates seated in our sections.
oh wow! they left church and became fake.
As a waitress, this is a very accurate statement. I hate Sundays because we are always so slammed , it’s stressful and a lot of those people don’t tip.
@@RenataKleinRK very VERY true!
You sound like an entitled brat and you basically proved you didn’t even deserve thanks, let alone a tip.
Cry me a river. Entitled to bad attitudes. Your industry is full of it
I don't tip on percentages. I always tip at least $1. Then add a dollar per member of my party. Then it's based on service of the server is persobable another $1, if they keep my drink refilled I'll add 50 cents per refill. If I witnessed a server working hard through a rush and maintained a smile and didn't at all come off flustered due to the rush that's another $3-5. So if i dine by myself thats likely at minimum a $5 tip if they were great and it wasn't a rush period.
Naw, he got me wrong. I roll up on a Friday night in my work clothes looking like I just worked 12 hours. Because I just did. And I always tip at least 20%. 20 is for bad service, which then I may or may not return, but they are getting at least 20. If it is great service then they are getting more. It’s that simple. I won’t even go to Sonic if I don’t have cash, but I think they finally let you tip the car hop now with your debt card.
Certain demographics stereotypically don’t tip
lol! as a hairdresser I can tell who is going to be cheap and unsatisfied with anything, however, this is like 10% or less of people. most my clients are lovely, amazing ladies.
@☁POPULATION-_-420🌿 I’m happy for you and your hairdresser
I'm a massage therapist.. in general women are more generous tippers than men and I can do extreme deep tissue sports therapy. Example, the lady in her 20s or 30s will tip on average 20-25% older women sometimes 30-40% after helping relieve their pain. I've worked on grimy men who were more generous than the clean cut single male in his 50s who makes 6 figures. Specifically have a white collar working client who I helped chronic issues in a 90min massage and he tips a measly $10. Next session improved more range of motion and left a stack of 10 $1 bills like Mr. Big shot. cheap AF. Next session imma just rub him lightly 😂😂😂 have another male client who's married with kids owns a HVAC business and he's very generous. But in general males are horrible cheap tippers for massage. 🤮
@population-_-420 so your priorities are to stuff your face and tip the server but not the cook and not tip the one who works to make you look good... cause if you don't look good you don't make as much money.. probably go to Super Cuts 😂
@@ShinySilverBunny I’m a good tipper where can I find you for a massage 😫
Most black women do not tip well. Surprisingly, about half of black men in middle class areas tip decently, which is much better than 25 years ago.
People that generally don't tip less than 20% are either dead beats or people that have never worked in the service industry.....end of story
Usually black people leave zero tip.
I wear sports jerseys and have a hard time looking people on the eye yet i tip well. Sounds like this guy dislikes sports fans.
I generally don't like to go out to eat because of waiters like this dude. He probably comes up to my party every 10 minutes to check up on us - especially mid bite or in the middle of a convo. He has preconceived notions about sports fans.
Another thing i noticed is i tip in cash and hand it to the waiter after the meal. When i write in 0% prior in the card box i see their resentment come and then quickly leave when i hand them some cash. Professional servers aren't like this, of course, but this guy probably is.
If you take the job you made the choice. If take a job relying on tips that is your mistake. If you can't afford children don't have them. I can’t afford children so therefore i have none. California and New York pay minimum wage then you get tips on top of that.
I can tell you a surefire way to spot a bad tipper, but its not exactly what you call politically correct.
This is Jackson, the server from the video here. I see serving as a sales job. We’re selling you a great experience and building the check as large as possible in exchange for a commission (a tip). I think making serving a commission based job would be interesting. 15 percent of our sales go to us with no hourly. Reward based systems like commission or tipping gives the best out of workers. Think of the last time you went to the dmv or Burger King. How was your service? Is that the energy you want when you go out to eat to celebrate a birthday? Much love to you all, whether you believe in tipping or not! ❤
Your list was spot on.
Everything was very well said!
We are excellent tippers even with takeout but I’m getting discouraged by poor service. I’m a naturally friendly person who likes to connect but I’d say we get good service 20% of the time, great service 5% and mediocre to poor 75%. Tipping should be based on great service…if you’re just getting my food to the table that is your job. If you serve the food with a great attitude and make it more enjoyable I enjoy tipping. We tipped a waitperson $100 for a $25 breakfast (I just had tea) she was the worst server but had a great attitude…we left the tip and restaurant so didn’t see her reaction but hope she somehow got that it was about her effort.
I don’t get tipped at my job so why should you?
@@Sblueboy808 maybe you should be better at your job then
@@born2lorn you idiot, I don’t work as a waiter! I actually have a job in an office and we don’t get tipped at all. It doesn’t work that way.
One tell tale sign is if they order STRAWBERRY LEMONADE and WELL DONE steak. Been serving 30 years. This is ALWAYS the case. Every single time. It's nothing or $5 no matter the bill
"oh NO I only received $5 more than the pay I signed up for 😭" 30 years? bruh.
@@iburuma3621 it happens. But I make more working part time as a server than I did working full time. Love that work/life balance
I think we need to know the history behind tipped professions. Why do we tip hotel staff, wait staff, and anyone who provides a service? I am not clear on how paying a server $3.25 an hour is legal bc they work in an industry that receives tips. Why not pay them a regular wage and tips are a perk of the job! Just like free coffee is a perk when you work @ Starbucks. For those that don't tip I question their moral compass. My aunt always told me, "Do not sit down in a restaurant if you cannot tip." Even if the service is bad she told me to leave a tip. Not a big one, but I should also alert the manager about my experience. A restaurant manager told me to write a note on the receipt if the service was bad bc the managers see every single receipt. I tip 20% ALWAYS! Even if my meal is free, a refire, gift card, birthday, or special. I made the mistake a long time ago of tipping room service 20% until I looked @ a receipt and saw they already get gratuity included. International travelers in the U.S. do not tip, but they understand how our system works, so there really is no excuse for not leaving a tip. When in Rome!
In Sweden there we pay them a regular wage. And tips are a perk with the job if they get it. Traveling in countries that use the tipping system stresses me out.
if the meal is free how do you tip 20%?
God bless youuuu
@@realblackterry you slip the waiter cash?
No, if you can't afford to pay your employees, you can't afford to open a restaurant. 🙄🤦🏽♀️
Tiping came out of American-born racism. After the civil war came the great migration, where blacks came north to escape Jim Crow and to look for new opportunities. Restaurants refused to pay black waiters, instead letting them work for tips. So white servers worked for pay - there was no tipping for them. Black servers received no pay and worked only for tips. Of course this is great for the restaurant owners and caught on. This is why tipping is a unique to The United States and no other countries. It's broken because it started broken.
I can spot a bad waiter.
Black. That's the answer
I tip in cash even if it’s built in. I give extra to the person themselves if they’ve done a great job.
I usually tip 20-25% I run the bill on my card and pay the tip in cash.
Thanks
@@pitbull7885 thanks. You are the person everybody wnats to sereve when you walk in a restaurant
@@pitbull7885 exactly
Cash is totally preferrable....cash can't actually get taxed!!!!
Why no black people on the audience member tip guess? Wonder why
In USA, servers are TAXED on tips, whether they receive them or not! If you don’t tip your server, they literally lose money to the government, bc tips are “figured into” their reduced wage. I was an excellent server who made $200 per day in tips, but got paid $3.25 an hour, full time job, no benefits.
@@W4jR4JH8UG0DgFh This is so ignorant, I have am amazedI graduated University in middle of huge recession & NO ONE was hiring. Apparently, you are so entitled, you have never had to work any possible job, no matter how dangerous or poor the pay. How fortunate. Most people do not have that luxury. And $300 a month student loan.
Remember, service is already included, no need to tip extra. Spread the word!
In the USA this isn’t true. You are expected to tip extra here
@@joebillage3578
I'm aware of that expectation, but relying on tips creates an unstable income and can lead to significant disparities. This system also places undue pressure on customers and often results in unpredictable earnings for workers. A fair wage system ensures all employees are paid consistently and fairly, regardless of tips.
The people who say they don’t tip because tipping is just an excuse for the owner to underpay the employees are full of it in my opinion. They had no problem underpaying the worker and their tips show it. If they really didn’t like the business model they wouldn’t order. Non toppers are just people who don’t mind exploiting people for their labor.
Why not discuss how tipping even started?! That’s the real issue. And it needs to go. Other countries do fine without it.
Is Dr. Phil running out of things to discuss?
If I could get the restaurants to pay me a grand a week for 30 hours I would. In the meantime, tip your servers, and if you won’t tip, just be nice to a fellow human
Don’t be PC we all know who don’t tip !
Pretend to be table bussing and get free food?? 😮
Hes not a good predictor
When i go out carry extra for a tip and that was before i came in service industry
He 👏 IS 👏 ABSOLUTELY 👏 WRONG!"👏
(Let me be honest, YES! There are indicators that you might get screwed. The ones he named ARE NOT IT!!!) And I've had very unexpected tables bless me. So honestly don't judge a book by its cover. But he isn't lying. There are "tell tale signs" that seem to be very accurate based on my own experience.
The sports jersey take was very off lmao
I'm a 20% tipper for decent service. I dont expect every server to be at the top of their game every day. But if my wages depended on tips....guess what? Shocker.
im a non tipper
He sooo wanted to say the black girl would not tip but ended up saying shes a good tipper so no one would call him racist. If your a server you know lol. Black people dont tip. Even black servers know this.
If their black they not tipping mostly
If they’re black they most likely won’t tip either.
A tip is a privilege. I don't like Primadonna wait staff. If I'm lectured, pressured, or coerced, in any way about gratuities, they will forfeit them every time. I tip when I feel good service has been rendered, but don't take it from me.
Another sign is when they ask how much is this and that..and proceed to request the cheapest things and asked to be hooked up. I don't think I've ever gotten a dime from these people
I'm social, dress well, in shape, from a rich country. I don't tip, I think it's a habit that keeps people weak. I'd never do the disservice of tipping another human being.
Generosity does not equal pity.
@@fencerderio9814 it's not generous if it's implied by social pressure you have to tip.
Other demographics are bad about not tipping.
If you get my point
Serving is a entry level job for teenagers and college kids it’s not my fault that you are a full grown adult with the physical ability to work a harder and better paying job
I mean, that depends on the establishment. Like a Dennys server, I may agree with you, but go to a fine dining establishment and look at how many of their servers are teens or college kids. Good luck finding one.
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