you fear what you crave: to be seen. it's time.

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  • @RosaFox121
    @RosaFox121 День тому +55

    Happy fruitful year, I’m glad within the next week I'll be 10k left to completely paying my off 250k debt.

    • @DarwinRomero113
      @DarwinRomero113 День тому

      How were you able to do It?

    • @RosaFox121
      @RosaFox121 День тому

      its luck, it's me just being
      the right place at the right time. I met a
      financial and trading consultant at a
      seminar back at Los Angeles later last
      year, where she was featured and
      interviewed and I reached out to her
      afterwards. I didn't know much about
      trading and investing so I spoke to her
      about it, she then later introduced me to
      her platform where I and other people
      could invest.

    • @RosaFox121
      @RosaFox121 День тому

      Since then she has since
      provide entry and exit points on the
      securities I focus on. You can look her up
      online if you care supervision. I basically
      follow her trade pattern and haven't
      regretted doing so

    • @MichelaScheuerman
      @MichelaScheuerman День тому

      who is your financial coach, do
      you mind hooking me up?

    • @RosaFox121
      @RosaFox121 День тому

      Her name is Mrs Mary Elizabeth Webb

  • @fleabag6477
    @fleabag6477 День тому +15

    i dont even know why im crying, I was watching this video in the background whilst playing a game and I guess my subconscious was really listening, I feel so frustrated now.

    • @fleabag6477
      @fleabag6477 День тому +3

      Shame and Humiliation are so paralyzing

    • @lugeenx
      @lugeenx 16 годин тому +4

      😢 sounds like something in you wants to express itself

    • @CopperSage554
      @CopperSage554 2 години тому

      I struggle with this also. Sometimes the fear is paralyzing. Let yourself be angry. Let yourself grieve. Be honest with yourself. I wish for your freedom. I wish for your success in connecting to who you truly are. I promise that you are loved, but you must take the first steps. Have faith in yourself.

  • @shadesofshea888
    @shadesofshea888 День тому +20

    it's like you are speaking directly to me. I am truly grateful for you. 💚

  • @mattstockmal8167
    @mattstockmal8167 День тому +13

    I genuinely look to you to guide and comfort my artistic soul each day you upload. Cause you are genuinely on a wavelength of authentic spiritual growth so few have

  • @ZMorice
    @ZMorice День тому +21

    I'm ashamed of my fear of being seen. I am hoping and looking to God for guidance to recieve a breakthrough from this affliction!!!

    • @alexisgilley3948
      @alexisgilley3948 День тому +4

      You got this. ❤

    • @ZMorice
      @ZMorice День тому +2

      @alexisgilley3948 Thank you!!! 💚💚💚

    • @LaurineChepkorir
      @LaurineChepkorir 14 годин тому +1

      Sending you love ❤️

    • @ZMorice
      @ZMorice 6 годин тому

      ​@@LaurineChepkorirThank you!!!💜💜💜

  • @milatheehostkeyper
    @milatheehostkeyper День тому +6

    I'm not even 30 seconds in and my first thought was "girl, your getting too deep for me!" Preach! Thank you for your contribution 💖✨

  • @possessorofthewingsofisis2741
    @possessorofthewingsofisis2741 13 годин тому +1

    Thank you for sharing your gift. You are demonstrating exactly what you are inviting us to do. 💖

  • @MissMimimimi
    @MissMimimimi День тому +6

    Your channel is very healing ❤️‍🩹

  • @samiraaleah
    @samiraaleah День тому +4

    thanks for bringing one of my inner child wounds into light. like I had never heard it in a way that connected my fear of being seen to childhood memories of being ignored. I did really want to perform despite having a lot of anxiety even as a kid. I stopped performer for my mom and older sibling as soon as I felt like they saw me as an annoyance or burden. I also quit extra curricular because mine were not considered as important as my siblings so transportation or funds weren't supplied as much for me as for them. Middle child problems maybe.

  • @AnalyzeTheCurrent
    @AnalyzeTheCurrent День тому +5

    Your message is very unique to me, I haven’t seen many speaking on this particular topic. I started a UA-cam channel myself about a year ago and today I said to God “ok I’m ready for this channel to gone blow up” because I’ve been causing interference with my thoughts acting like I didn’t want to get views haha not wanting that to be the main goal honestly. And not long after saying that, here you are with this message. I appreciate you and can feel you operate from love, very refreshing 😊…more power to you great one.

  • @V444.mp3
    @V444.mp3 День тому +5

    You know what is so wonderful!!!! At your last creative masterclass, I had the honour of connecting with a sweet soul also based in my city. She is firmly one of my favourite people and has showered me with so much love. I guess it's a prime example of how we do a disservice to the world when we don't express ourselves, people are waiting for you. Waiting to witness you, love you and water you. Anyway I'm sure the free training and e-book are worth so much - thank you for allowing us to see you!!

  • @Psych.o.delica
    @Psych.o.delica День тому +3

    that humility/humble/humiliation - connection kinda blew my mind 🤯so grateful to your voice, crying as it resonates deeply. Yes to a physical Soul Salon!🥰🌌🌹✨

  • @koolbaaaa
    @koolbaaaa День тому +16

    Appreciate this message. I had to delete disrespectful comments on my last video, I don't even have 30 subs and I got 17 comments telling me to stfu...like how? 🤷‍♂️ Time to move forward. Thank you

    • @prodsexo
      @prodsexo День тому +9

      let the negativity show you that people are actually seeing you👀 you’re moving them even if it’s hate you’re receiving, it’s their energy… always energy

  • @jordanmfpaige
    @jordanmfpaige День тому +8

    Ugh. Needed this ! Love your channel, so insightful & inspirational. Wishing you the same love you give to the world 💖

  • @ank-hara
    @ank-hara 5 годин тому

    thank you ayanda for all your content. im an artist, and i have been on a journey to heal from CPTSD, recovering from sexist violence, and since it happened, its been hard for me to be visible, and share my art and myself with the world, as my nervous system would tell me it's not safe. so your content is really helping.

  • @jordantoronto863
    @jordantoronto863 День тому +3

    Yes!! “Wouldn’t you rather write the story by living it??” Beautiful.

  • @jaymakay
    @jaymakay День тому +2

    Girl, I am surprised at how surprised I am with how perfectly your words come across! 😂❤ Thank you so so much for sharing your thoughts and wisdom! Every single video of yours I've watched rocked and moved me. I never would've guessed at how much I needed your messages ❤

  • @joanballinger4927
    @joanballinger4927 День тому +1

    YES. She's back-
    Power sister! 🪞 ✌️💜
    Joan/Trinity

  • @xX19shegod19Xx
    @xX19shegod19Xx День тому +2

    🫶🏽 and Gratitude! You’re amazing! Your ebook felt like a loving hug, wrapped in a loving hug! It is a high vibrational reading, feeling, experience of love! I also listen to the playlist from the ebook daily, and it feeds my joy, and my self love day and night. You are deeply appreciated!!

  • @caddycallaghan
    @caddycallaghan День тому +2

    Very deeply amazing. Thank you.
    Your speaking is superb. 🕯️❤️‍🔥💪🏼🎶👌🏼🦄🏞️🩵🥰😍🤗

  • @mimihappy4563
    @mimihappy4563 День тому +1

    This was beyond perfection. You articulated this beautifully. So accurate. Good advice ❤

  • @ChrisMarrin
    @ChrisMarrin День тому

    Im only 5 minutes in but holy S I feel seen by you describing very clearly what Im going through

  • @AsaAdetimirin
    @AsaAdetimirin День тому +1

    My Oracle Therapist,
    May You Be Blessed Ten-Fold With the Wisdom You Have Bestowed Upon, and Reminded Me Of.

  • @Iamweketa
    @Iamweketa День тому +1

    I just uploaded some heaaaavy self love affirmations and I'm prepared for the backlash from people that need to do more inner work! I love you because you keep your content authentic and do minimal to no editing which resonates with me so much! Thank you for your inspiration and for living your truth and for sharing your BEAUTIFUL and POWERFUL goddess energy

  • @christopher1378
    @christopher1378 22 години тому

    This video meant alot miracles shall follow Miracles and Wonders Never Cease ❤

  • @shh3216
    @shh3216 20 годин тому

    That you for your vulnerability and sharing the story of your insecurities and imperfections with us. This episode has come at the right time and resonates 🙏🏼

  • @mmfuru
    @mmfuru День тому +1

    lovingly witnessed...wow...thank you

  • @miamia2590
    @miamia2590 День тому +1

    Thank you so much🔮🙏🏻🌟🤍

  • @monehahn9
    @monehahn9 11 годин тому

    So much gratitude to your energy. ❤🙏🏻 My heart broadens by your words. Blessed be!

  • @Katel0u_x
    @Katel0u_x День тому +1

    Thank you 🤍🙏🏼

  • @luckiest_star25
    @luckiest_star25 День тому

    This day i felt such a big urge to face my self and ask why do i fear being true and authentic in the context of being observed watched or even admired
    Anxiety wasn't enough of an answer as i don't believe i was made to be physically shaken by the idea of being seen
    I challenged myself in so many ways that I'm proud of recently but it felt like today was an adventure to find freedom as my whole being begged me to be . In the end of the day while i am walking home i ask the universe to guide me thru this new journey that i am embracing of rediscovering my self when its for everybody to judge after i understood that the sacrifice I'm making by choosing to stay in the shadows and silence my love from being expressed is the life thats waiting for me to accept fully .
    Once upon a star i wished to live a life i would never beg the universe for another chance at living , and sure tho i am satisfied and feeling fullfilled in my present i feel this day is the start of a new chapter one where i no longer fear my own shadow from looking a certain way i have been prepared for this i feel ready .
    Thank you for allowing yourself to be seen in hopes that somebody else also feels seen in the process , this video is now part of this journey . so grateful

  • @ximenadelrio
    @ximenadelrio День тому +1

    I'm not afraid of being seen, so this is not a challenge for me personally, it has never been (I face other challenges in my path), but I've noticed that a lot of people are afraid of visibility, I think this is in part because the psychology gaze and the psychiatric paradigm label people with words like "histrionic personality disorder" or "exhibitionist narcissist". Because de psychiatric paradigm is the new 0pr3ss10n tool of the syst3m and any behavior that is unconvenient for people in power is stigmatized. Confident people make the el1tes uncomfortable.

  • @HanaJourdan
    @HanaJourdan День тому +1

    Watched till the end, i will get the ebook❤ love ur work, bless you.

  • @Secret.SirenMJ
    @Secret.SirenMJ День тому +1

    Thank you you just saved me😭😭😭

  • @iamgabriellegrace
    @iamgabriellegrace День тому +1

    Your messages always feed my spirit 🥹🦋🪩✨

  • @christopher1378
    @christopher1378 22 години тому

    💚💚💚💚💚💚💚 I feel the love and inspiration

  • @JameelaLateefah
    @JameelaLateefah 4 години тому

    Wow , Thank you so much for this message ✨💜❤️🙏🏾🥹🩷💜✨

  • @loopy_bunny
    @loopy_bunny 2 години тому

    Such a powerful message. Thank you so much for sharing.

  • @The_Unseen1
    @The_Unseen1 День тому +1

    Thank you

  • @christopher1378
    @christopher1378 22 години тому

    I call back myself!

  • @christopher1378
    @christopher1378 22 години тому

    Miracles for all

  • @moelove8603
    @moelove8603 День тому

    I find this interesting as, I love speaking in front of physical groups and talking to large groups of people but I’m very uncomfortable with posting content online💀 yeah I’m a bit backwards. But this comes with breaking the boundaries of feeling that we have to earn, prove, or fix love❤️ as well as putting these hard expectations on us externally and internally, and I appreciate you, Jhadina and others who are spreading messages like this✨

  • @immersive_meditation
    @immersive_meditation 29 хвилин тому

    Thank you angel ❤

  • @EnthroneElixir
    @EnthroneElixir День тому +1

    Thank you so much 🎤

  • @V444.mp3
    @V444.mp3 День тому

    Thank you Ayanda - as always!

  • @Hoosiermadre
    @Hoosiermadre День тому +1

    Beautful message

  • @MB-uq7qv
    @MB-uq7qv 10 годин тому

    Beautiful message. Thank you.

  • @darrah3854
    @darrah3854 День тому

    Dammmn girl !!! You came out with the boxing gloves on! Knock out -round one!

  • @ritaparola7628
    @ritaparola7628 4 години тому

    Thank you for this and all of your video!
    All of your videos help me so much❤

  • @christinareyes7358
    @christinareyes7358 21 годину тому

    Thank you for sharing such wise words. ❤

  • @forevergenella
    @forevergenella 9 годин тому

    Girl this was a good video. ❤

  • @youthyogaltd3217
    @youthyogaltd3217 7 годин тому

    Beautiful ❤❤❤❤❤ thank you

  • @cb4017
    @cb4017 День тому

    Omg ❤ thank you 🥺

  • @alanae3350
    @alanae3350 13 годин тому

    Yes I am interested 💫

  • @Eluhohah
    @Eluhohah 2 години тому

    He wants to see.
    She wants to be seen.

  • @Farmingnaturesway
    @Farmingnaturesway 16 годин тому

    Love it ❤

  • @mackenziebecker8393
    @mackenziebecker8393 8 годин тому

    Wow. Wow this is for me

  • @Melodybookey
    @Melodybookey День тому

    ❤❤❤FACTS ILYSM

  • @betinaviera8944
    @betinaviera8944 День тому +1

    I❤u

  • @PinkClouds3835
    @PinkClouds3835 19 годин тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @PearlEvans-r1m
    @PearlEvans-r1m День тому

    🥺

  • @momageronset
    @momageronset День тому +1

  • @msshandi88
    @msshandi88 23 години тому

    😭🙏

  • @DanitzaLadwig
    @DanitzaLadwig 7 годин тому

    ✨🕊️✨

  • @Commentbycommenter
    @Commentbycommenter День тому

    I love your content so much but wish people with misophonia could listen. A wet mouth sounds ruins my day but I love your mind thank you

  • @53luxornanaelcamio17
    @53luxornanaelcamio17 День тому

    You will regret being seen. Don't listen to this woman. Privacy is your greatest asset. Being seen will ruin your life. And there is no way to undo it. Don't trust humans. A shell of protection is a good thing. It's good to be protected. Why would you want to be unprotected?

  • @leiathequeen
    @leiathequeen День тому

    This was so powerful for me, thank you 🫶🏼

  • @heycathey1593
    @heycathey1593 День тому

    Right now I'm trying to force myself out of bed to do anything. Your insights mean so much right now. Thank you.