*Should I be upset at my husband?* Family VLOG - going shopping with mama | Vita Sidorkina
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- Опубліковано 12 вер 2024
- Hi loves!
Welcome to another vlog with me😊 I love capturing all of these precious moments with my family as I don't get to see them that often! My family is super camera shy, but I feel like slowly there are getting into it😉
Enjoy watching & don't forget to share your thoughts on a topic I brought up in a video 😉👇🏻
If you ever wish to check out my medical facial spot, her insta is @skincarebytammy ❤️
The store I was shopping with my mom was GAP❤️ - love GAP it has so many good quality basics!
i don't understand why Vita hasn't 1 mil subscribers yet, she is so authentic, she deserves more fans! I love that she even answered to comments that weren't very polite, she didn't delete them, she actually answered them in a very intelligent way. My life is totally different from the one of Vita but somehow she is so relatable, probably because she brings out her emotions .
Hiii
Thank you for your comment & feedback ❤️
I appreciate your support - I hope one day it will be 1 mil 😊Ahah but for now I have small group of mostly awesome people that are sharing ideas & thoughts with me and I’m happy with it ! 😊
So so glad you can feel my emotions & messaging I’m putting into my content ❤️
Kisses
Because this is not McDonald's 😂
agree, she is has a really great personality and deserves a lot more followers 🙂 let´s go guys, everyone reading this should subscribe.
@@Joelina456 ahaha you guys are the best ❤️😊
Attraction is ESSENTIAL in a relationship. You can have so much love for someone but it’s also so important to communicate what you love about their appearance and effort. Thank you for being honest and sharing this. Mass society makes it a taboo subject because not everyone puts intent into their relationships by looking good for their partner and up keeping this.
Wow, so beautyful parents!! Now we know where the beauty comes from:D
I totally agree Vita. I think it’s nice for your partner to give you feedback on what they like on you and what they don’t. My husband is also very supportive of my appearance and it’s about looking and feeling your best. In my culture it is also very much appreciated. I am Polish and my husband is Australian and I tell him to always let me know the truth if I’m deciding on a new hair style etc.
People on UA-cam shouldn’t be this sensitive on the topic and jump into conclusions when Vita shares her stories. Valerio looks very kind and loving. Thank you Vita for another fabulous vlog 🥰 💕 x x
I also believe in every couple there is different set of rules and that’s ok…it’s for you to decide what your boundaries are , and what makes you feel comfortable! 😊
Thanks for your kindness 😊❤️
Your parents look very young!I think your mom can easily be seen as your sister
never have seen anyone with such a positive energy🌸😍 thank you for always sharing your uplifting personality 😍✨✨ w/ love from🇨🇭
Awwww❤️❤️❤️ sending you kisses
Love seeing your parents and family life, great vlog! I think it's important to let your spouse or significant other know what you like and don't like as far as appearance, etc. but to say it in a loving and tactful way. My husband and I (married 12 years) always compliment each other, but if someone needs a haircut or needs to clean their nose or teeth we always are honest.☺
Totally supporting your view and approach to marriage lol
I think it’s fine for your partner to give you feedback on your appearance, so long as you set boundaries or is something you can fix within 5 minutes. If they are commenting on something you are insecure about and you’ve told them you are insecure about, like your weight or your nose, it is not okay. But they want you to get a haircut or whiten your teeth or something, that’s totally fine.
Absolutely agree!!!!❤️
I agree as well!
Totally agree Vita 🙌 Relationship doesn’t mean only saying nice words to each other. It’s always nice to hear each other’s opinions ❤️🪂
the scene with Allegra in the end of the vlog is just too cute 🥰
I completely agree with you Vita! It's also nice to have someone looking out for you. Sometimes I don't even realize that something looks bad until someone tells me. Loved this VLOG, thxs!
its because you and Valerio have a european mind that is why sincere open feedback is ok! :) More content with your parents please! xxx
Totally!!!
Absolutely agree- that our mentality is different from American.
P.s: not better not worse just different 😄 (I know people can twist the words lol)
@@VitaSidorkinachannel haha exactly right! You always keep being YOU! xx
I was thinking the same! It seems like only americans think that when their boyfriends/husbands make a comment about their appearance, it is the worst thing that can happen. And then comments like: "im not gonna change for a man!" Well, its not just a man, it is your love, and partner for life he is allowed to have an opinion, since im sure a lot of girls also try to change things about their partner.
@@klaudiamagyar1088 totally!!!
My husband and I are European and we are straight with each other also- just different mentality vs Americans. If his cuticles look bad or he starts to look a little shaggy in his beard /hair, I tell him. Personally I really dislike chipped nails, so I understand Valerio’s comment. As others and yourself have stated, as long as the comment is constructive and respectful, there is no issue. I personally love looking externally beautiful for my husband and I know he appreciates it (he loves my inside already so!) We are married, not blind!!! TEAM VITA ❤️👏🏻🤩
As always- love hearing your thoughts and life perspective and insight! I hope you still feel open to saying what you feel and what you want in all future videos of course! We all don't know exactly how things are, as they are not always as they seem ❤ Glad you are comfortable with your husband and I do agree with you! ❤
Hello Vita. I'm married for 25 years. And you are right communication is the key to elevate your couple.
Totally agree it’s okay to give each other feedback, when it’s communicated in a loving way. In my opinion is more unhealthy if you cannot express how you feel to your S.O? I’d rather my bf tell me, if he doesn’t like something and vice versa. However, if I really love it/ want it, at the end of the day I am my own person and I’ll do what I want. But I value his opinion a lot and I know he values mine. Could you do a Q&A with your husband? On relationship vaules etc. that would be super interesting. He only wants best for me! Loooove your channel Vita. It brings me so much happiness. Love from New Zealand!
Очень красивые модные родители🔥🔥🔥 Вита, а как вы решаете , на каком языке говорить с дочкой? У вас микс всегда. Очень интересно
I love my man noticing any imperfections and telling me. You are so fortunate to have him observe and tell you what he likes and what he doesn't like. Allegro did it in such a subtle gentle way. Take it as a compliment that he cares about your appearance. Vita chipped nails are terribly unflattering.
100% agree with you when it comes to partners giving feedback on their preferences!! Like you said, it is ALL in the delivery!! It has NOTHING to do with one person trying to be controlling, etc. Personally, I loved that story you told and thought it was hilarious and could TOTALLY relate!!
I totally think the joke your husband made about the nails was innocent 😂 if it was a friend who is girl who said it I don't think people would react so hard. I agree with you about that it is okay for partners to say things to eachother, as long as it is well ment with a respectful comunication. As long as it is about being open about preference, and just making suggestions and not demands all is fine I think 😊
Totally!!!!🙌🏽❤️ yess absolutely agree
And Vita, I agree with you 100%! Having someone look out for you is also a comfort. I want someone to notice me or tell me if something is wrong. Thanks, I really like your vlog. Xo Heather Thrills
Hi Vita! Love this video! I personally think it’s ok to comment on appearance as long as it is with respect and in a constructive way. 😊
Allegra is such a character ❤️
So funny! My husband is Russian and he told me recently please do something with your hair since color was pretty much grown out already. For me, it was first unusual to hear.))) I think it’s in some way a cultural thing and how stylish the husband is as well. But yes sometimes a little hint helps if you are too busy with all child caring and business stuff as long as it’s small things I agree it’s just a little feedback.
Girl, you are such a joy to watch! You have so many subscribers who love you and your heart! I recommend not viewing comments on your videos! People are going to say whatever is on their mind & share their opinion. Just keep on doing you & inspiring others! Xoxox
Hahah cargo pants on men is just terrible, you are completely right on this one! I totally agree it's fine to have preferences on how your partner looks better. Sometimes people take things out of context, like he might have made a random passing comment and now it got made into a big deal when it wasn't.
Yesss🙄
Please tell my husband we all hate his khakis 😂😂😂 he won’t listen to his wife!
Can you please do a video about your nails, like where you do them, what shape and color do you ask for, how do you take care of them and your hands, etc.? they are always so perfect 😍❤❤❤
I totally agree with you. I think it is important to be able to communicate your opinion on certain aspects of your partner‘s appearance to him/her as long as it is in a non-harmful, friendly or humorous way. I personally am also interested in what my fiance likes or doesn‘t like! :)
I love that you still get to wear cargos 😉 but seriously, as long as it’s done respectfully and the other person doesn’t feel pressured to look a certain way. My dad was one to always give “feedback” on my mum’s look, but my husband totally doesn’t. But if you know that your partner is sensitive to comments, then we need to be respectful. It just depends on your relationship.
When I watch your videos I feel comfortable and happy 🥳🎊♥️ I wish to see you always and wish you a happy life my best friend🫂🍡❤️🥰😍😘🍭🌸💖💕🧁. ♥️
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Your Mom is super beautiful just like you 😍🌹
Thank you ❤️❤️
Hi Vita! 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹I love your video and I wouldn’t be mad at that comment from your husband. It depends on the delivery, ya know? Have a great day beautiful girl.
Haha, and there you are looking fabulous in your cargo pants! I totally agree with you that a little criticism/comment is perfectly fine! Funnily enough my husband doesn’t often comment on my appearance but he really doesn’t like red nails! So, no big deal!
Hi Vita ! I love your content , I look forward to videos every week. Please could you share what medical treatment you did as a facial ? Thank you xx
Ты очень красивая и всегда отлично выглядишь)
Скажи, пожалуйста, сколько у тебя уходит времени на уход за собой (утренняя и вечерняя рутина: умывания, душ, мытье волос; а также на сборы: макияж, наряд).
Я тоже люблю наряжаться, но я такая медлительная, у меня на это уходит так много времени... Переживаю из-за этого)))🌹❤
Очень было бы интересно посмотреть выпуск про уход за собой с акцентом на то, сколько и на что уходит времени))🌷
You are so gorgeous. My natural hair color is black and brown eyes but i wish i had your hair and eye color and your teeth! And skin. You’re just gorgeous
Your parents look like your older sibling. Wow. They look amazing.
ahha true😉❤️
I agree with your opinion about the feedback. I never get any negative comments from my husband about my look or how I’m cooking (well cooking is my biggest hobby 🥰) about home, cleaning and bla bla bla… he always appreciates and respects what I’m doing for him and for our family ❤️ the only thing that he don’t like is my emotions, so if he telling me something, I’m trying to accept his feedback, and try to be a better next time, because this is how we grow 🥰 If I say something to him, he always say thank you, and also say that he try to be better or not to do this and that next time. I’m a very happy women, because I don’t get any bad comments from my husband, and thanks god because I’m the biggest critic for myself and sometimes live with myself is so hard because I always searching for perfection 🤦🏼♀️
About hands, I know that Kourthey Kardashian doing this, when she put sunscreen on her face, she always put the same on the hands. Aging prevention ✨
I absolutely agree with you Vita, when we love someone, we love them in all aspects, but then again we have eyes and some things are right to say in good faith... and also what you said about the hair, so it's normal and natural that we want each other my partner likes, it but only if we like it too.. but I also think that if you cut your hair it would be beautiful and to Valerio would be beautiful like that too.. I'm sure.. because he loves you...so simple,,, but it's okay to say what does he like more.. I had hair like yours and my husband said don't cut your hair, but I just felt like cutting my hair to the shoulders and now he says that I'm even more beautiful now hahahah...
and yes, your parents are very handsome, especially your dad..he looks like an actor..he has really cool charisma..😘🥰
Love your channel ❤ I’m confused why people were offended by the nail comment… I loved your explanation of feedback ❤
I think there were some comments in regards to your manicure story that crossed the line. You are the only one that knows how your marriage is. As long as you set boundaries and your loved one isn't making comments about your insecurities, like somebody already mentioned. I personally would be upset because I've had an ex-boyfriend comment about my nails and said that I was ugly and looked like I didn't take care of myself. So I would never allow a future boyfriend to comment on something like that. But you have a different life and a different relationship. But I think people were just pointing out that it didn't sound so good
Hmmmmm
I agree to disagree here - I guess 😊
@@kellyh15 You missed what I was saying. Everyone has their own boundaries and reasons for those boundaries. If you are okay with that, then that's totally fine. I personally wouldn't be because of my past history. And you aren't obligated to look good for someone else. That's a unhealthy way of thinking because what happens when you gain weight or your hair looks gray or normal signs of aging kicks in? The comments from my boyfriend that I mentioned were while I was in recovery from surgery at home and laid up for 2 months. So it's all in perspective and what each person will tolerate.
@@VitaSidorkinachannel maybe I explained that wrong but what I was trying to say, as someone else already mentioned (and you agreed with), as long as you are okay with his comments and it wasn't crossing your boundaries or pointing at your insecurities, then that's totally fine. Everyone is different. There were people who said rude comments about therapy and stuff and that was inappropriate because they don't know your marriage.
I think it depends a lot on where you are in the relationship with a person. If there is long time trust and comprehension between both, then I think for those outside of the relationship, there will always be things that are misinterpreted as “red flags” when only the couples in that relationship understands. BUT if it’s early on in dating and a guy tells me (for example) that my nail polish is chipped or that he doesn’t like my shoes (speaking from experience) it’s a sign for me that this is probably not the right guy for me. Doesn’t mean anything bad about the other person necessarily, I think everyone likes different things, but a comment like that would stress me out. That being said, it’s obvious Vita has a lovely relationship and maybe it’s like Blake Lively and Ryan R. Just alot of sense of humor and joking around, sometimes that’s fun too! 😂♥️
I Love You so much thank you for creating and sharing your life, you inspire me and I am so grateful for you ❤
I love your blogs! Please keep doing it! If you don’t mind me asking how old is your father? He looks so young!! Good genes right there!!
Thanks for the entertaining vlog :) :) What dress is your mom wearing?? Could you link it please? Your mom is so young and beautiful!!
So are you of course, goes without saying :)
My fiancé went to a new salon and got a haircut. When he came home I did not like it ( I like his scruffy hair)and I could not tell for the life of me what type of haircut it was, until I realized it was a bowl style cut LOL. I called him my bowling boy for a week and he hated it but it was in an endearing way.
If he doesn't like something I'm doing, or something he knows I don't care about superficially he might tease me on it. BUT like Vita said my man will never say something nasty to me that he knows I'm insecure about. In some moments like that it's actually hilarious.
Yes, that’s call knowing the boundaries and having respect!🙌🏽😊
I love your chanel and content, it’s everything amazing! Hi from Brazil ❤️❤️
Your parents look so young, I love it!
I think it’s fine for a partner to say what they think as long as it said in a nice way.❤
I appreciate feedback from my husband. It's nice to know his preferences.
Thank you for your lovely videos. Just wanted to ask you do you practice intermittent fasting, eg 16/8?
Клёвые у вас родители!
I understand that it is important to have both of opinions of a couple both of you of their inputs
I believe your husband has a very good heart and like you he has his taste in what he likes and doesn’t like The blessing is that you Have a face body and most importantly personality that is so very beautiful and so precious so kind so happy
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Looks really THATS THE MOST important thing in the agenda for the relationship with you and your husband - -you are very blessed to have beautiful long hair but if it makes you happy -
to be honest even if you had a 1960s pixie style haircut you would still look gorgeous you would still look beautiful and your husband would think
so too I know that long hair takes a lot of work and time consuming lots of things I am sure your husband would love and accept you as you know more than me he would do that no matter what hairstyle you had I don’t think there are any issues or problems God has blessed you with beauty inside and out so all will be well because of your good heart🙏🏽❤️
I meant “LOOKS ARE MOST UNIMPORTANT TO THE AGENDA” sorry bad voice recording 😳🥵
Что касается слов Валерио, то, на мой взгляд, это нормально, если то была просто добродушная шутка.
В моей схожей ситуации это явно не было шуткой. Плюс, человек и до этого проявлял слишком много интереса к моей внешности. В таких случаях, я считаю, нельзя терпеть. Нужно смотреть правде в глаза, что ты для мужчины просто вещь)
Hey Vita, firstly, I love your videos! I am in a similar situation as you as my husband is from a different country and we speak with each other in English, while our parents don't speak English. How do you approach raising a child in your multicultural family? I think it would be an interesting video topic. Thanks :)
No, no lo estés 😊, mantenganse en Amor,paciencia soportandose unos a otros ❤.
Любопытно было бы ещё увидеть обзор твоей коллекции джинсов)🤩😉
My husband and I are honest and comment about things, we always have and it has worked 🤗
Hi, nice video as always, enjoy watching it. I personally have never got any negative comment from my love one about the way I look so I don’t know how I will feel about it if it happens. I think I will appreciate honesty if I ask for his opinion☺️.
Your parents are soo cool. They are my age I think!!
Love your vlogs!
Hi what is the name of the type of facial you got? 💗
hydrofacial if i got it right
Agree, in terms of giving opoinings on appearance - depends on the level of intimacy you have, the way the message is communicated. If a person is knitpicking it is sickening, there is a certain line one should be careful not to cross. Once i had commnets from a man like: Your shoe size is so big...- was said in a nasty smirky way...
Yes, it’s all depends on the overall level of respect in a couple & the way those type of comments said
what's the name of the place for the facial?
I tagged her insta in the description 😊
Love your opinions!
Love the videos vita 😊
Vita, I could not not find your blue bag. Kindly let us know the brand of your bag 🙏 ❤
You're mum is like me, I always feed the animals also.
Haha 😊 she always said that she was a dog in her previous life 😂😂 obsessed with dogs
Vita what hairspray do you use? ❤
Omg i hate those cargo pants too 🤣
Thanks for the vlog! Can you make us a video about styling with watches? 🙏🙏🙏
Your watch is adorable!! Can you write what brand it is from? Thank you💋
Glad to see how your channel is growing!!🎉🎉
Totally unrelated question, but does Valerio have any single brothers? 😉
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your parents are so young wow
How does HE handle criticism?
Where are you from vita
its no skinny jeans for me. and he doesnt wear it. so im happy
You are a super model and x Victoria secret model how come you are not invited to NY fashion show Valeria Lipovetsky not important model like you and she been invited for Fendi and Tom Ford first row
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Папа выглядит очень молодо
where the fuck is husband in this video?
You struggled with weight? Was It because of modeling?
неприятное видео,кривляние сплошное
Не смотрите 😄
Понравились 2 актуальных кубка в качестве катера, твой папа собирает такие?
Its also commen in my country to say feedback about style ,but from my idea u can say with respect and love i can feel better and think about it,and plus we shoud know we dont have right to change other one, so accept and if u can be more flexi with ur realtion its good🤙🏻🤍