I am an INTJ and I can totally relate and understand everything you say. I am sure he is very happy to have you as well. And especially for making a first move.
I find your videos so amazing but also hilarious!! Me and my infp have been together over 9 years now and I love how many similarities we see in this. I hope you make more soon! The controlling comment killed me cos I know exactly what you mean but it’s still funny but true! -INTJ (England)
i loved this video, im an infp that's been in a 2+ year relationship with an istp, it's definitely nothing like this but I loved listening to this talk
Love your video so far as a vegan female INTJ i can agree with how stubborn i am with my vegan diet. Ive been vegan since 2017 and other than not being able to eat out (not a bad thing) theres no adverse effects on my health. I'm never gonna say I'm sorry, I'm a clown for everyone, im never gonna let you down I'm always here like the sun-Ace of Base.
1) "You remind me of my father" - So funny bc intj realizes "Ah my massive walls/armor have been strangely & authentically disarmed... what is this? 2) "....sorry about that HES IN HIS OFFICE" - lmao 3) "...no no I LIKE you..." (literally thought to myself "...I think id say "oh").... BvH proceeds to say "and he said 'oh' 4) half and half part - while I had to work on this and HAVE gotten over it (I literally sat and watched (mostly rom coms worked the best honestly)) to like LITERALLY learn social norms and had to sit there and treat it like (almost) a math equation - "ohhh so if Bob does THIS... there TRYING to do THAT......." - but overall don't support the underdeveloped area of that example 5) Exhausting yourself by arguing with yourself - First, I stare at you with a flat face. Second: I make fun of you (nicely) Third: I pat you on the head then say "ILY" 6) Him sharing with you & distracting: I guarantee you his thought process is *my thought is more important/ she can handle it* - then he gets mad(ish) and says "omggGGG" 7) Obsession with projects - yes ah Duh - what's the point of life if you don't uNdErStAnD tHiNgS 8) Kisses me, I love you too, STOP - HAHAHAHAHAH 9) two way thick skin - as for # 4, I don't support that 100% + encourage you too not change up too much, bc (especially if he's poking you, you can poke back) - but I can see us INTJS getting too comfortable being mean but not 'slowing' it to happen back....
-"Oh no, they're expecting something from me! RUN!" You should perhaps look into *Pathological Demand Avoidance* . It's an Autistic profile where the underlying expectations in your interactions with other entities paralyze you with anxiety, especially if they're banal and mundane.
I have mixed feelings about enforcing monogamy in a long distance relationship where you've never met or slept with each other yet. I think once you meet and do that even once then yes I completely agree but I don't think it's the worst thing to allow each other some freedom. That being said, as a guy I pretty much know that any girl is going to get emotion and cry (as you did lol) so it's probably best to just not bring it up either way. But I get he was frustrated
Well done! Congrats on your courage! I wonder, is your father also INTJ? I think in a lot of cases, we learn from our parents what it's like to be in a relationship and what to expect from a partner. Also curious what enneagram type each of you are?
My father is an ESFP, my mother an INFJ and her closest brother an INTJ. He was my second father figure. The middle brother is an ISTJ and the youngest an ESFP
any thoughts on what male infps should aim for in a traditional relattionship? any tips, skills etc. to use to develop and find a place in society at large.
I am an INTJ and I can totally relate and understand everything you say. I am sure he is very happy to have you as well. And especially for making a first move.
You are the exact type of person an INTJ would love
Your so cute hahah, I miss your uploads ^^ - Infp
I find your videos so amazing but also hilarious!! Me and my infp have been together over 9 years now and I love how many similarities we see in this. I hope you make more soon! The controlling comment killed me cos I know exactly what you mean but it’s still funny but true! -INTJ (England)
INTJ is best for INFP. 😊
I'm an italian INTJ. I really feel like you described me for 90% of the video.
i loved this video, im an infp that's been in a 2+ year relationship with an istp, it's definitely nothing like this but I loved listening to this talk
*oversharing in INPF* 😂😂😂😂😂
And I love it!!!
Love your video so far as a vegan female INTJ i can agree with how stubborn i am with my vegan diet. Ive been vegan since 2017 and other than not being able to eat out (not a bad thing) theres no adverse effects on my health. I'm never gonna say I'm sorry, I'm a clown for everyone, im never gonna let you down I'm always here like the sun-Ace of Base.
I only discovered this channel the day after your last upload so I finally get to enjoy a video when it’s still new!
Lovedddd this update/recap❤ and I loved hearing about your dynamic at the end and totalllyyy feel you that it sounds toxic but isn’t 🔥
Insightful information on your experience with an INTJ! I encountered your channel through the UA-cam algorithm by chance. Thanks for sharing! 🔥🔥🔥
Socially tiered from self-talk 😂😂😂😂😂
SO relatable!
Girl we need infp females discord group🤟🏼
GIRL, I AM WITH U. GIGGLING AND KICKING LIKE UR MY BESTIE AND IM GETTING TEA 😂
Enjoyed the video!! welcome back 😂
1) "You remind me of my father" - So funny bc intj realizes "Ah my massive walls/armor have been strangely & authentically disarmed... what is this?
2) "....sorry about that HES IN HIS OFFICE" - lmao
3) "...no no I LIKE you..." (literally thought to myself "...I think id say "oh").... BvH proceeds to say "and he said 'oh'
4) half and half part - while I had to work on this and HAVE gotten over it (I literally sat and watched (mostly rom coms worked the best honestly)) to like LITERALLY learn social norms and had to sit there and treat it like (almost) a math equation - "ohhh so if Bob does THIS... there TRYING to do THAT......." - but overall don't support the underdeveloped area of that example
5) Exhausting yourself by arguing with yourself - First, I stare at you with a flat face. Second: I make fun of you (nicely) Third: I pat you on the head then say "ILY"
6) Him sharing with you & distracting: I guarantee you his thought process is *my thought is more important/ she can handle it* - then he gets mad(ish) and says "omggGGG"
7) Obsession with projects - yes ah Duh - what's the point of life if you don't uNdErStAnD tHiNgS
8) Kisses me, I love you too, STOP - HAHAHAHAHAH
9) two way thick skin - as for # 4, I don't support that 100% + encourage you too not change up too much, bc (especially if he's poking you, you can poke back) - but I can see us INTJS getting too comfortable being mean but not 'slowing' it to happen back....
Omg that really sounds like my bf intj! I understand I'm also infp. Simular scenario 🤣🤣
Thanks for the video!
-"Oh no, they're expecting something from me! RUN!"
You should perhaps look into *Pathological Demand Avoidance* . It's an Autistic profile where the underlying expectations in your interactions with other entities paralyze you with anxiety, especially if they're banal and mundane.
Yeah, that might be me.
love your videos
I have mixed feelings about enforcing monogamy in a long distance relationship where you've never met or slept with each other yet. I think once you meet and do that even once then yes I completely agree but I don't think it's the worst thing to allow each other some freedom. That being said, as a guy I pretty much know that any girl is going to get emotion and cry (as you did lol) so it's probably best to just not bring it up either way. But I get he was frustrated
People do forget intjs have feelings lol but understandably so
Well done! Congrats on your courage!
I wonder, is your father also INTJ? I think in a lot of cases, we learn from our parents what it's like to be in a relationship and what to expect from a partner.
Also curious what enneagram type each of you are?
My father is an ESFP, my mother an INFJ and her closest brother an INTJ.
He was my second father figure.
The middle brother is an ISTJ and the youngest an ESFP
What enneagram type are you and your husband . ?
any thoughts on what male infps should aim for in a traditional relattionship? any tips, skills etc. to use to develop and find a place in society at large.
18:47 here, you don’t sound like a crazy person
Here, you sound like an enfp.
Okay fair enfp’s are crazy.
How old is he