Donno abt school but in college in Texas my son says they don't face any difference or racism etc. by classmates or lecturers..... infact there r students from diverse countries.
Enakum oru experience kidaichathu last week nan walking pogum pothu time oru 7 irukum oru home less people (mentally affected maghiri vera irunthar) follow pannite vanthar nan parkku pogala roaldlaiye nadanthutu irunthen downtown la enth roadlaium yarum vera illa signal ninalum angeye nikraru cross panni nadantha avarum follow panrar ippadiye 6 or 7 signal follow panite vanthar enna panrathunu therila pora vazhila shop vera enthum openla illa. Athuku apuram oru safe ana idathuku poiten varum pothu cab book panni vituku vanthen.
Hi Highly appreciate all your efforts for the informative inputs. Do you mind discussing about repatriating money from India? Thanks in advance. Keep up your great work !!!!
Child abduction is highest in America. Why? It states that, Approximately 840,000 children are reported missing each year and the F.B.I. estimates that between 85 and 90 percent of these are children. As you said, it is not so easy to touch the children of even neighbors but the abduction crime rate is highest in USA, so we have to be very careful in taking care of kids in my opinion.
hi sainthavi i wanted you to do a video reg preteen and teenage kids and the struggles parents facing to raise them in america. My daughter is studying in 6th grade now itself in her class all the kids are dating each other and this girl bcoz of peer pressure her main goal is to get a boyfriend rather than concentrating on her studies. recently one of my neighbor she is an american kid studying in her class both are very good friends .she goes to soccer there she met a boy and they both planned to hang out at midnight 2 am. this kid stepped out sneaky along with another girl who came for sleepover and they both walked for atleast 2-3 miles midnight and met him.then something happened like that girl says a stranger came and told her to run away from that park and she got scared and hide under a bush called to my mobile (calling her parents would land in to big trouble) i didnt pick up bcoz i was sleeping then she tried other friend but they also didnt pick ultimately ended up calling 911 and we dint know what happened after that even my daughter is not saying anything when i ask her what happened to that girl.why foolishly she did like this .now am scared to send my daughter to her house. so many things are happening which i cannot say here it will be lengthy.just do a podcast if possible reg teen and preteen problems
@@shenbagavallim.k4237 we are in California. That small girl initially called my number i was deep sleep. Then she called to another friend she also didnt pick up. So she called 911.seeing all the webseries and fantasies. These girls are falling in traps like this. When i heard this i was in shock bcoz the streets will be very dark how daringly she went 🥺 that too @ 2.00 am . We parents need to monitor what these girls are doing.
I am sorry but this is a choice when you made to move and raise your kids in a different country. The culture Herr is very different. The laws are different as well, it protects your child. But having a boy friend or dating someone is not seen as a crime in US or N.America. It is very common. If you want your kids to grow with cultural traditional values, you picked the wrong country. You have to navigate this process and accept the fact your kids will grow up like other American kids. They will be doing the same thing. If you become strict and restrict their behaviour they will rebel. Also, other kids will bully and tease them if they behave like outcast. You have to think about the kids as well.
@@SainthavisKitchen I don’t know we have this option in US. It’s a much needed info for me right now.. thanks for sharing it.. 🩷I couldn’t find more info regarding it in web. If you share some more information regarding it would be helpful for people like me.
Why tamil kids don't speak tamil in u.s. do they feel the language inferior. But Telugu or hindi or malayalam kids growing in tamilnadu still speak their mother tongue. Any reason behind that?
because those kids are in tamilnadu? they keep hearing tamil and they need to use tamil when they go out of home? Telugu, Hindi, Malayalam is available on TV with a flick of a channel there? May be less Tamil speaking people in the US so less opportunities? Let them have freedom to talk whatever language they are comfortable with. Shoving Hindi down the thraot or shoving tamil down the throat of others is not how you maintain a language /culture.
Many Tamilians speak only In English at home ..when this change everything changes...also sometimes people think like speaking in mother tongue and going to school how she will cope up with English and so they start speaking at home in English...simple logic when our parents are not educated we go to school and learn and if we apply the same principle it works
@@KK-sl1nkeven tamil kids in japan are able to speak good tamil. Is it related to mindset because even the immediate generation in america is not able to speak the language is my thought.
Something I noticed when you answer questions. Yes, you do disclose a lot of stuff about yourself. But, you keep it very positive. We don't know about personal negative events that happens to you or your close family members. You are very clever to not disclose too much personal information about your kids or husband that will harm them in any way. But you are quick to disclose information about other people. About other's kids, about other's personal family stuff. Now, we don't know these people. But there are others in your close circle who might find out about them. You work with school kids. Weren't you taught to protect other children's privacy and not share information about them online. Not good, when you tell stories, tell personal ones or just say A and B. Don't expose other's giving hints for people to guess and that could ruin other's lives too.
Bullying is worst in America, even a kinder gardener knows to bully a child. My child has been constantly bullied and discriminated by other American kids for being an Indian, comparing food color and smell of indian food with poop smell etc. Although my kid is intelligent and selected for HAG he has to face all these issues in America. Most of the American parents do not teach their children about "how to behave with kids from other culture", how to be humble and talk to others people in respectful manner etc. Indian kids are wayyyyy better than American white/black kids here. Even the teachers are not good for anything. I personally feel that, all the schools should train the children to teach them how to respect other cultur and say things without hurting others as America is a country which embraces multiple cultures.
yes true whenever i pack food they are teasing my kid as curry muncher .As if there food is tasty and flavorful.I tell her kanji ponaa bun ,beef saapitu constipation avathi padura aalungalukku enna therium namma food pathi nu .. 😂
India is safe in some cases, children can come home alone in train late nights atleast in Mumbai, because it is always crowded, i hv seen in down town sanfransisco,after eight night time street full of homeless so scary ,many shoot outs,school children carrying guns,we have heard in news,some good and bad things in all countries
How Safe Is America? Sainthavi's Perspective Living Abroad Series !!
Donno abt school but in college in Texas my son says they don't face any difference or racism etc. by classmates or lecturers..... infact there r students from diverse countries.
Texas is India so lot of diversity
So informative akka
Enakum oru experience kidaichathu last week nan walking pogum pothu time oru 7 irukum oru home less people (mentally affected maghiri vera irunthar) follow pannite vanthar nan parkku pogala roaldlaiye nadanthutu irunthen downtown la enth roadlaium yarum vera illa signal ninalum angeye nikraru cross panni nadantha avarum follow panrar ippadiye 6 or 7 signal follow panite vanthar enna panrathunu therila pora vazhila shop vera enthum openla illa. Athuku apuram oru safe ana idathuku poiten varum pothu cab book panni vituku vanthen.
Scary!
Hi
Highly appreciate all your efforts for the informative inputs. Do you mind discussing about repatriating money from India? Thanks in advance. Keep up your great work !!!!
Great suggestion! Will do thanks
Child abduction is highest in America. Why? It states that, Approximately 840,000 children are reported missing each year and the F.B.I. estimates that between 85 and 90 percent of these are children. As you said, it is not so easy to touch the children of even neighbors but the abduction crime rate is highest in USA, so we have to be very careful in taking care of kids in my opinion.
Very useful information sis .. nice video 📸...u look very pretty with black 🖤 dress
Thank you 😊
hi sainthavi i wanted you to do a video reg preteen and teenage kids and the struggles parents facing to raise them in america. My daughter is studying in 6th grade now itself in her class all the kids are dating each other and this girl bcoz of peer pressure her main goal is to get a boyfriend rather than concentrating on her studies. recently one of my neighbor she is an american kid studying in her class both are very good friends .she goes to soccer there she met a boy and they both planned to hang out at midnight 2 am. this kid stepped out sneaky along with another girl who came for sleepover and they both walked for atleast 2-3 miles midnight and met him.then something happened like that girl says a stranger came and told her to run away from that park and she got scared and hide under a bush called to my mobile (calling her parents would land in to big trouble) i didnt pick up bcoz i was sleeping then she tried other friend but they also didnt pick ultimately ended up calling 911 and we dint know what happened after that even my daughter is not saying anything when i ask her what happened to that girl.why foolishly she did like this .now am scared to send my daughter to her house. so many things are happening which i cannot say here it will be lengthy.just do a podcast if possible reg teen and preteen problems
Which state are u sister??so that we will be safe we are not aware of these things da ...thanks for sharing
@@shenbagavallim.k4237 we are in California. That small girl initially called my number i was deep sleep. Then she called to another friend she also didnt pick up. So she called 911.seeing all the webseries and fantasies. These girls are falling in traps like this. When i heard this i was in shock bcoz the streets will be very dark how daringly she went 🥺 that too @ 2.00 am . We parents need to monitor what these girls are doing.
I agree you should avoid sending your daughter to that girls house
I am sorry but this is a choice when you made to move and raise your kids in a different country. The culture Herr is very different. The laws are different as well, it protects your child. But having a boy friend or dating someone is not seen as a crime in US or N.America. It is very common. If you want your kids to grow with cultural traditional values, you picked the wrong country. You have to navigate this process and accept the fact your kids will grow up like other American kids. They will be doing the same thing. If you become strict and restrict their behaviour they will rebel. Also, other kids will bully and tease them if they behave like outcast. You have to think about the kids as well.
@@shenbagavallim.k4237 am in california..not only in california everywhere its happening.we have to watch our kids
Waiting for ur video mam🎉
Can you tell about the locker benefits in US? It would be very much helpful
Not worth it.. You will pay a lot
It’s a safe place to keep your values safe from theft. We own a locker in India too. It gives us peace of mind lknowing everything is in a bank.
@@SainthavisKitchen I don’t know we have this option in US. It’s a much needed info for me right now.. thanks for sharing it.. 🩷I couldn’t find more info regarding it in web. If you share some more information regarding it would be helpful for people like me.
@@lakshganesh4776 Is it? $150/year is a good deal right?
Akka you look very pretty in this dress😊
Thank you 😊
Why tamil kids don't speak tamil in u.s. do they feel the language inferior. But Telugu or hindi or malayalam kids growing in tamilnadu still speak their mother tongue. Any reason behind that?
because those kids are in tamilnadu? they keep hearing tamil and they need to use tamil when they go out of home? Telugu, Hindi, Malayalam is available on TV with a flick of a channel there? May be less Tamil speaking people in the US so less opportunities? Let them have freedom to talk whatever language they are comfortable with. Shoving Hindi down the thraot or shoving tamil down the throat of others is not how you maintain a language /culture.
Many Tamilians speak only
In English at home ..when this change everything changes...also sometimes people think like speaking in mother tongue and going to school how she will cope up with English and so they start speaking at home in English...simple logic when our parents are not educated we go to school and learn and if we apply the same principle it works
My kids speak broken tamil. We are trying our best.
@@KK-sl1nkeven tamil kids in japan are able to speak good tamil. Is it related to mindset because even the immediate generation in america is not able to speak the language is my thought.
Safer than India! In India many crimes are not reported… if we do then India would be ranked #1
Agreed 👍
Something I noticed when you answer questions. Yes, you do disclose a lot of stuff about yourself. But, you keep it very positive. We don't know about personal negative events that happens to you or your close family members. You are very clever to not disclose too much personal information about your kids or husband that will harm them in any way. But you are quick to disclose information about other people. About other's kids, about other's personal family stuff. Now, we don't know these people. But there are others in your close circle who might find out about them. You work with school kids. Weren't you taught to protect other children's privacy and not share information about them online. Not good, when you tell stories, tell personal ones or just say A and B. Don't expose other's giving hints for people to guess and that could ruin other's lives too.
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Bullying is worst in America, even a kinder gardener knows to bully a child. My child has been constantly bullied and discriminated by other American kids for being an Indian, comparing food color and smell of indian food with poop smell etc. Although my kid is intelligent and selected for HAG he has to face all these issues in America. Most of the American parents do not teach their children about "how to behave with kids from other culture", how to be humble and talk to others people in respectful manner etc. Indian kids are wayyyyy better than American white/black kids here. Even the teachers are not good for anything. I personally feel that, all the schools should train the children to teach them how to respect other cultur and say things without hurting others as America is a country which embraces multiple cultures.
yes true whenever i pack food they are teasing my kid as curry muncher .As if there food is tasty and flavorful.I tell her kanji ponaa bun ,beef saapitu constipation avathi padura aalungalukku enna therium namma food pathi nu .. 😂
@@tanishkasiddhi2238 Exactly! Well said! You stole the words from my mouth.
India is safe in some cases, children can come home alone in train late nights atleast in Mumbai, because it is always crowded, i hv seen in down town sanfransisco,after eight night time street full of homeless so scary ,many shoot outs,school children carrying guns,we have heard in news,some good and bad things in all countries
In India yu can even walk at 10 o clk night, but it is impossible in America 😀 Such a country is America!
really? why there are so many rape stories in local indian newspapers
We live in a safer city comparatively
Schadenfreude