i cannot get over how sweet bailey is giving this advice on such personal things and going back to read quotes even like that just shows she cares what her fans are going through.
i need to keep this video in the back of my mind for when i go through a breakup haha, i'm gonna need het straight up ass advice telling me to cut all contact and go have fun :p
Great advice! I’m only 14 and not in a relationship and I never have been but I agree with most of the stuff you said! It can really apply to friends too- I’ll def use it in the future!!
This is really good advice. I especially agree about "you can never change another person". People do change, occasionally, but only if it's their own decision, and never because somebody else was trying to change them. About overthinking, what helped me the most was realizing that not everything is about me. :) It sounds silly when you put it that way, but what I mean is that whenever I saw a person frowning, I used to worry what I did to annoy them. Now I realize that there are a million reasons somebody could be frowning, and most of them have nothing to do with me. Similarly, if a person sounds annoyed when they are talking to you, they might be annoyed at the previous person they talked to, or at something they saw on TV, or they might just be having a bad day. So as an exercise for less overthinking, if you think somebody is mad at you, try to immediately think of three other reasons they might have that facial expression. (Because if you are like me, chances are that 90% of the time you think people are mad at you, they actually aren't, and the remaining 10% of the time, they'll tell you exactly what you did wrong. Or at least something that you did wrong.) So you can try training your brain to think of other reasons, instead of immediately going down the "I am a terrible person" spiral. EDIT: Finally, there are some people who will find a reason to be angry at you no matter what you do. In that case, just remember that it's the problem with them, not you. If it's a boyfriend, dump that toxic (censored). If it's a parent, or someone else you can't avoid, just remember that they are the ones wrong, and try to ignore it. (See the part about being unable to change another person.)
Thank you Bailey for continuing to bring me joy and motivation! It’s helped so much this year and I’m so excited to see what you have in store for 2022! Take care❤️❤️❤️
11:02 i just wanted to leave this here for anyone who need to hear it. basically me and this one guy liked each other but for certain reasons we could not be together. the night everything happened i was sobbing on my bathroom floor texting my bestie. he said to her “i feel like ive always liked her” which hearing that made my heart shatter. i can say that i have NEVER cried over a boy more than this one. EVER. it honestly took me over a freaking year to get over him but i finally did a few months ago. during the whole year of still liking him after everything happened, we were friends. yep. i had to hide everything from him including my feelings. endless nights of crying, telling myself i wasnt good enough ( even though thats not the reason we could not be together ), and even hurting myself. when i finally realized i lost feelings for him, i was so unbelievably proud of myself. myself a year ago would have never thought i would be where i am now. ladies i hope this story of mine helps if youre going through something like this!!! either way, we are in a good spot now. we are friends and im comfy being friends with him. obviously this isnt the case for everyone, but i just wanted to add this
thank you best friend.. this is exactly how I felt when this vid ended I absolutely love these ily imma go cry now, how you say things like don't do that, what I have been telling you no nope, their loss ahhh you are a gem and the outro
i have never enjoyed a video more than this one. bailey, you are so brutally honest and i love that about you. putting yourself before anyone else is such a good thing. watching your growth over the past couple of years has been incredible. congrats to you and leo for making it to one year! love you 💖💖
I love how Bailey is always editing in her bed at midnight ❤️🤣 and how she put on mascara for 5 minutes!! Love ya Bailey! Hope you don't take this offensive.
you’re literally so gorgeous. remember you’re doing amazing and I’m so incredibly proud of you! you’re so strong. remember you’re so gorgeous, intelligent, caring, funny, sweet, outgoing, worth it, valid, loved, and so amazing! make sure you eat something and drink lots of water! we love you. we’re always here for you
I love how her advice is so great, like she's just honest and saying the truth. Alot of people, even friends don't give you that sometimes. I really like the quote she said :)
i love ur vids u r like the big sister i never had could u do a makeup and skin care tutorials with like info in description bc ur skin is FLAWLESS and ur makeup is always on point u r so sweet and happy new year wishing u the best of lucky this year
the advice about boys really helped, because this boy just left me for another girl and I liked him for 4 months already, and I cant stop crying about it. He broke my heart without knowing he broke my heart. Ill try and follow this advice but idk if ill get through it..
This was honestly some of the best relationship advice i've ever had and it let me to have such a good convo with my boyfriend that we have been needing recently. This legit helped me so much and was exactly what I needed to hear.
This has really helped... me and this boy well he said he liked me and then he ignores me but then he like puts his arm around me and makes me feel great... and I have really seen mixed feeling and emotions but the one thing that has helped me with this person is my friends so i really agree with you! Love you!
i love this. every point you made made so much sense and was explained perfectly. this is the perfect video for relationship advice :) hope you had a great time on the date btw💝
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i cannot get over how sweet bailey is giving this advice on such personal things and going back to read quotes even like that just shows she cares what her fans are going through.
i need to keep this video in the back of my mind for when i go through a breakup haha, i'm gonna need het straight up ass advice telling me to cut all contact and go have fun :p
can we just appreciate how realistic bailey is with us
Great advice! I’m only 14 and not in a relationship and I never have been but I agree with most of the stuff you said! It can really apply to friends too- I’ll def use it in the future!!
Same (:
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You don’t look 14.. 😂
@@tisforterror6076 people tell me that all the time, what makes me not look 14?
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This is really good advice. I especially agree about "you can never change another person". People do change, occasionally, but only if it's their own decision, and never because somebody else was trying to change them.
About overthinking, what helped me the most was realizing that not everything is about me. :) It sounds silly when you put it that way, but what I mean is that whenever I saw a person frowning, I used to worry what I did to annoy them. Now I realize that there are a million reasons somebody could be frowning, and most of them have nothing to do with me. Similarly, if a person sounds annoyed when they are talking to you, they might be annoyed at the previous person they talked to, or at something they saw on TV, or they might just be having a bad day.
So as an exercise for less overthinking, if you think somebody is mad at you, try to immediately think of three other reasons they might have that facial expression. (Because if you are like me, chances are that 90% of the time you think people are mad at you, they actually aren't, and the remaining 10% of the time, they'll tell you exactly what you did wrong. Or at least something that you did wrong.) So you can try training your brain to think of other reasons, instead of immediately going down the "I am a terrible person" spiral.
EDIT: Finally, there are some people who will find a reason to be angry at you no matter what you do. In that case, just remember that it's the problem with them, not you. If it's a boyfriend, dump that toxic (censored). If it's a parent, or someone else you can't avoid, just remember that they are the ones wrong, and try to ignore it. (See the part about being unable to change another person.)
“Don’t play games unless they’re playing games and then you can play them back”
The best advice!!!!
bailey backing up what she says not RECKLESS not DRUGS and then that little laugh was soo funny love this video it was so on point
Just about to say that 🤣
the amount of effort and entertainment she puts into videos needs to be appreciated
Thank you Bailey for continuing to bring me joy and motivation! It’s helped so much this year and I’m so excited to see what you have in store for 2022! Take care❤️❤️❤️
11:02 i just wanted to leave this here for anyone who need to hear it. basically me and this one guy liked each other but for certain reasons we could not be together. the night everything happened i was sobbing on my bathroom floor texting my bestie. he said to her “i feel like ive always liked her” which hearing that made my heart shatter. i can say that i have NEVER cried over a boy more than this one. EVER. it honestly took me over a freaking year to get over him but i finally did a few months ago. during the whole year of still liking him after everything happened, we were friends. yep. i had to hide everything from him including my feelings. endless nights of crying, telling myself i wasnt good enough ( even though thats not the reason we could not be together ), and even hurting myself. when i finally realized i lost feelings for him, i was so unbelievably proud of myself. myself a year ago would have never thought i would be where i am now. ladies i hope this story of mine helps if youre going through something like this!!!
either way, we are in a good spot now. we are friends and im comfy being friends with him. obviously this isnt the case for everyone, but i just wanted to add this
her videos are always on point! im so glad she takes time out of her life to give us good content
can we all agree that the amount bailey has been posting has been great
bailey: “I have this black dress from princess polly”
I swear everything bailey owns is from princess polly andd i’m here for ittt
Seriously this sentence reminds me of Sadie aldis
She was used to saying that when vlogging lol😄
Watching her videos for some reason make me feel productive.
The first thing Bailey said, goes for friendship too! if they aren’t giving you as much as you are giving them, they are worth that drain
thank you best friend.. this is exactly how I felt when this vid ended I absolutely love these ily imma go cry now, how you say things like don't do that, what I have been telling you no nope, their loss ahhh you are a gem and the outro
i have never enjoyed a video more than this one. bailey, you are so brutally honest and i love that about you. putting yourself before anyone else is such a good thing. watching your growth over the past couple of years has been incredible. congrats to you and leo for making it to one year! love you 💖💖
I can tell that she is a perfectionist simply by how long she spent on her mascara. It looked amazing though. I could never😭 she is so pretty
Bailey you NEED to make a podcast because I would listen to that!!
YES
shes literally so perfect! i love her
I love how Bailey is always editing in her bed at midnight ❤️🤣 and how she put on mascara for 5 minutes!! Love ya Bailey! Hope you don't take this offensive.
Her videos are so nice and funny at the same time!
you’re literally so gorgeous. remember you’re doing amazing and I’m so incredibly proud of you! you’re so strong. remember you’re so gorgeous, intelligent, caring, funny, sweet, outgoing, worth it, valid, loved, and so amazing! make sure you eat something and drink lots of water! we love you. we’re always here for you
I love both the dress and the final outfit, they are so pretty!
I am obsessed with your videos thank you for being so on top of uploading!!
10:26 spontaneous… NOT RECKLESS, trying new things…. NOT DRUGS 😭😭
this is such good advice and so real, the advice on getting over someone was so down to earth and helpful tbh
Bailey i’m obsessed with your videos so much! You put so much hard work into your videos and it shows! Wishing you a good 2022!
I love you Bailey . Going on a date is the best way to kick off the new year! . Happy new year love 💗.
i feel like i havent seen u in ages. so happy to be here ❤❤
bailey is such a queen
who else just loves when she posts?
please continue to give us advice on boys, i love this vibe
I love how her advice is so great, like she's just honest and saying the truth. Alot of people, even friends don't give you that sometimes. I really like the quote she said :)
the “you and your friends boyfriend” thing had me giggling for a good minute
you truly have wisdom well beyond your years bailey.❤️
babe this helped my current situation sm
I literally could not stop looking at your lashes like they are so pretty
hey bailey! hope you're doing better from your sickness! thanks for all the good advice!
Bailey is hilarious! you definetely seem like the friend that says it exactly like it is which can be so funny!
Congratulations Bailey!!🤍🤍🤍
I’m so happy for you
literally a comfort youtube rn i love u so much Bailey
you should do an in depth makeup routine/ skin care routine and do a review on Truly & Beach Bum bum products!! ❣️
Hey Bailey I literally love and look up to you so much you are like the bigger sister I never had. Thank you so much for being you❤️❤️❤️
i swear bailey always gives the best advice
YOU ARE THE QUEEN wow, PERIOD SIS great advice pop offfffff, ly gorgeousssssss
This is great advice Bailey!! And I love how honest u are with all of us
Literal queen
Those advice really hit the spot, I think I needed to hear that. Thank you so much for being my bestfriend through it all❤️
I really appreciate this because these are literally my thoughts that I can't put into words, you said it well
I love how mature your are!
Cam you pls do a workout routine or something that has to do with the gym or what you eat
m obsessed with your videos helppp
Can you do a girl talk next 🤩
Early! I haven’t watched your videos in a while excited to watch this one ❤️
That quote she read helped me so so much. Love you Bailey thank you.
You don’t know how much I needed to see one of your videos today
bailey you sound so wise, your advice was super good
girl you need a podcast
yayy you posted! Love watching your videos they've become apart of my schedule :)
bailey your absolutely stunning i’ve never doubt that opinion
she’s the bsf we all need 😭 lil therapist fr
I’m 19 and this advice is just perfect!!
thank you so much for this. i think we all needed to hear the advice
ur actually so pretty
HAPPY 1 YEAR BAY LOV YOUU 💕💕💕💕
YAY SHE POSTED
Who else thinks the comments are a better vibe than live chat?!
omg right its so hard to read
ur hair is so pretty
i love ur vids u r like the big sister i never had
could u do a makeup and skin care tutorials with like info in description bc ur skin is FLAWLESS and ur makeup is always on point
u r so sweet and happy new year wishing u the best of lucky this year
girl i literally needed this so much rn. i’m going through a horrible breakup so thank you literally so much.
girl your skin is so good
the advice about boys really helped, because this boy just left me for another girl and I liked him for 4 months already, and I cant stop crying about it. He broke my heart without knowing he broke my heart. Ill try and follow this advice but idk if ill get through it..
Thanks Bailey!! Even though I’m older but your advice helps me!! Love ya girl ❤️❤️
hi bailey ilysm you are so pretty
the queen has posted!!!!!
Ummmm Bailey when are we going to meet this boy?
Bailey gives such such good advice and I appreciate it so much.
but look at her so PRETTYYYYYYYYYYY
no because this video is perfect timing
I LOVE YOU UR SO PRETTY
Bailey saying boys are completely clueless i couldn't agree more.
Coming from experience
Can u pls film another closet cleanout vid!!! It was the first vid of urs that I saw and to this day it is still my fav!!!
bailey 2022 "be reckless with your friends, not reckless. Try new things, not drugs." made me laugh so hard
I’ve been in a few relationships and idk how I feel about it love you Bailey ❤️
I’m really loving the advice! 🤍
you give SUCH good advice. you’re really helping me going into my junior year
This was honestly some of the best relationship advice i've ever had and it let me to have such a good convo with my boyfriend that we have been needing recently. This legit helped me so much and was exactly what I needed to hear.
okay but how is her skin so clear 😭
This has really helped... me and this boy well he said he liked me and then he ignores me but then he like puts his arm around me and makes me feel great... and I have really seen mixed feeling and emotions but the one thing that has helped me with this person is my friends so i really agree with you! Love you!
i love this. every point you made made so much sense and was explained perfectly. this is the perfect video for relationship advice :) hope you had a great time on the date btw💝
I haven't seen her in so long,she has a boyfriend now wow,you have changed so much loving it
Bailey you are soooo pretty!!!!♥️♥️✨✨
please do an everyday makeup tutorial with the products you use because i NEED to know what products you used for your base; bc chefs kiss
Love these videos were you just like sit down and it feel like we are having a conversation hope you had a fun date
her eyelash transformation omg-
(bailey what mascara do u use??)
Your boyfriend is a lucky guy! Not only are you beautiful, you are very smart as well. How/where did you two meet?
Have fun on your date!! 💕
i think they were childhood friends :)
just had my one year too ahhh!!!! great advice, loved the video!!!!
You're the best bailey 💖💖
I love your guys's relationship