1. Don't rely on others for approval 2. Being too dependent can ruin your life 3. No one is responsible for you but you 4. Failure is inevitable and it's ok 5. Radical acceptance
Yep and that exactly what God says too everyone is responsible for their own actions and their own souls But there is a verse saying that the sins of the Father will become the sins of the Son meaning your bad / evil habits your children may get them if they're not taught well
@@Yokyle4356Verbal plenary in exegetical writing means that while the meanings are "canonically" univocal they have never been taken as such as its a figurative vs literal paradox. Projecting it as though it were the reification of an unfalsifiable deity is also unfalsifiable. Even the first point dismisses this in the video. Externalising meaning to yourself can be a good way to build self esteem short term, but long term it means any incongruence between your ideal and perceived self is magnified by social perception or external barometers such as theistic lensing. Theism is just not a good topic to shoehorn into this video as they share diametrically opposed beliefs.
1. Don't rely on others on approval 0:18 2. Being too dependent can ruin your life 1:04 3. No one is responsible for you but you 1:54 4. Failure is inevitable but it's ok 2:33 5. Radical acceptance 3:15
This year i met the most broken and darker version of myself my kindness to my friends has changed into not giving a single f*** ever since i got rejected by my crush everyone on my school is making fun of me even my best friends it really affected my mental and physical health thanks to this channel it is like my therapy
I've accepted every mistake, flaws and faults I made and I just decided to continue do what makes me happy and just do what I want when I want to without complaining or comprising for anything or anyone
I cant live with the consequences, the regret and the guilt as well i just can't! I lost the best thing that ever happened to me! I hope she stays happy!
1. When others say something I'm really REALLY proud of like my drawings is bad I tell myself "its okay, it's their opinion" but istg I'm crying inside 2. I'm really attached to my yt channel and when the views or subscribers suddenly drop makes me anxious and make me overthink myself like "what did I do wrong?", "is the video not good enough?", "why am I so bad at this?" And etc, etc 3. I don't know what I'm supposed to feel for 90% of the day, I always feel like I'm inresponsible even tho people tells me that "I'm so responsible" because I take care of my siblings 4. I compare myself to literally everyone better than me. I want everything to be perfect. When something isn't as perfect as I want it to be, I'll redo it over and over again. When I'm drawing, I NEED it to be as perfect as possible (it's getting tiring... And I'm losing interest in almost everything now, idk why) 5. I blame myself for things that aren't my fault but I feel responsible for it, I feel guilty for no reason. I keep trying to change myself but I feel like I'm not worth anything or just a useless being sometimes I feel like nothing so I keep trying to change myself (I REALLY AM 😭) but I keep failing again and again. I try to change my siblings to be better but it fails too. I sometimes wish I could just die but a part of me wants to keep living, at least, for my family. But I feel so tired, I want to be someone else. I'm losing interest in the one thing that's keeping me happy and alive, drawing, I don't want to leave the house. At all. Anytime someone invites me out, I just make excuses like "I don't have time, sorry 😔", "I'm tired, maybe another time 😅", "I'm busy, I'm so sorry 😭" or something like that. I don't want to die but I also don't want to live like this... (Why am I like this?)
I took a look at your channel. If those thumbnails are your drawings, then you are really good. You don't have to be perfect. I am a writer. My stories are far from perfect. In fact, sometimes, they are cringe-inducingly awful. That will not stop me from writing as it is the only thing that gives me joy and purpose. Keep drawing. Even if you're convinced that your drawing is awful, then keep at it anyway. It is with practice that we become better, but we will never be perfect. And that's OK.
My friend..... A lot of times you have to start not giving a F*ck what people thinks of you, especially online with this video. This is your life, this is your journey, and do what you think matters the most. There is no right OR wrong what you do. Also... this video is not always 100% Truth, often are mixed with Biased opinions and suggestions for better mental health. You Value a lot.... Seriously! I may don't know you in real life, but actually you are a valuable "Asset" like the rest of us, despite your problems and insecurities. because without you the world wouldn't be a great place. We need you, and remember you are always welcome❤
I heard a younger me voice reading portions of this. WOW, Iam so sorry that ,you, too are feeling these things. At some other instances my babygirl was reading it to me. If you can afford it. Look into vitamins, minerals N proteins or maybe even look into essential oils... do whatever YOU feel is going to pull your self confidence up. Big hugs!!
Hey! I am a painter and I also struggle with perfectionism. Whenever I find myself frustrated or not enjoying the process of painting, it is usually to my perfectionism kicking in, so I need to remind myself to strive for "good enough", because perfectionism is unrealistic. Besides, there is beauty in imperfections. Just look at the way trees grow, not perfectly straight with branches awry. Their roots peek from the earth and their bark is uneven. Yet they are beautiful. The way the beach waves crash against the shore is not perfectly the same each time. The foam and reflections are randomly scattered, more beautiful than if placed a specific way. It is ok not to be perfect. The only true perfect thing in this world is the fact that you were born. Everything lined up perfectly for you to come into this world. You are valuable. Continue to draw and continue to learn in life, for learning is truly endless. Sometimes drawing imperfections on purpose can help snap you out of a bout of perfectionism.
@BrainyBoost22 accepting weakness is crazy and ignorant. How about furnishing it's flaws. Cuz in reality if we don't how can we reach self enlightenment or happiness.
Loving someone does not necessarily equal having a relationship with them. You can still feel love for someone that was in your life and know a relationship is not possible with them.
One tough truth that I have learned in my life is that people come and go in your life. Don't over rely on one or only a very few people. People you form a bond with might move on in life and sometimes unexpected. Feeling left behind is what I felt many times when they say got new jobs and this is the last time we meet is tough.
Sometimes I get confused if this channel is stalking me irl or not because yesterday I just didn’t know anything to do that would make my life easier and now this channel comes and posts a video on it😭 I do appreciate it though ;D
The third one kinda hit me true though.. I once heard a youtuber say the quote "If you can't help yourself, why should i help you?" i know it was not the exact quote but the meaning of it still remains the same.
I’m always in a dark place every time I always felt that I accept failure but it doesn’t mean it will last forever. We will accept our mistakes we have made we move on and do things right for a change.
It sounds like you’re carrying a lot but also holding onto hope, which is so important. Accepting failure and learning from mistakes shows how strong and resilient you are. What’s one small step you’re thinking of taking next to start making that change?
Accepting failure is one thing... And taking actions towards positive change in your life is one thing... If you don't take those actions... Even if you accept failures it will ruin your future in matter of time... And eventually start feel lonely and victim of all your failures 📉
I live by everything except the last one. I literally can't let go from my fight against evil especially on the internet. All people that I tried to change never wanted to and I can't force my mindset on othera. It's just not possible. There's stil a looong way for me to go. I hope that I'll manage to make it to a moment in life when I'll be able to have the strenght to change things I can change, the strenght to move on from the things I can't but above all, have the wisdom to tell them apart from each other.
Fantastic video My five-year relationship ended a month ago. The decision to part ways with the love of my life is something that truly consumes me. Though it's all in vain, I've tried everything to get him back, and I can't fathom my life with anyone else. Even though I've made every effort to quit thinking about him, I can't help but miss him and can't stop thinking about him. Why I am stating this here is beyond me.
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤
My problem was too much radical acceptance. I learned at a young age that life sucked and there was nothing I could do about it. I could feel comfortable in even the worst situations. That dog in the fire saying "this is fine." Years of therapy later I'm finally learning to actually live my life. This has actually been one of my most fun years ever.
I am in a really dark place right now. I just don't feel safe unarmed anywhere, and it is a direct result of people harassing me over how ugly I am. Like I am so scared someone will actually put me in that situation ya know...and I will be damned if I let someone hurt me or my loved ones. But ya, def in a dark place. I don't want to hurt anyone...but I will if I have to. Just don't feel like I deserve this just for being ugly.
I have traumatic memories in the past. Because I always hide this from other people, no one ever know whats in my head. Some time later, I began to interested in writing novels, writing fantasy stories. Over time, I learned psychology and philosophy behind writing, and doing self-introspection. I think, it's really healing me. Makes me understand more about myself. Finally, I reach this 'Radical Acceptance' phase and accepted that traumatic moment. Everything feels better. Although, I still did nothing. I'm still jobless. But, I learned something. I learned that the darkness was not to be afraid. Accept and embrace the darkness, then step forward, you will learn the true essence of light. Suffer and pain exists to make you grateful for the joy and happiness you have.
I never seek other people's approval but my own, I live alone with my cat, I'm not afraid of failure as I know it is inevitable. I listen to my intuition and live my life through my own beliefs and I'm grateful I possess this power to live my life this way.
Timestamps 1). Don't rely on others for approval 0:17 2). Being too dependent can ruin your life 1:03 3). No one is responsible for you but you 1:53 4). Failure is inevitable but it's ok 2:33 5). Radical acceptance 3:14 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
I agree with everything except on the subject of confidence. I think most people take confidence for granted because in their youth, they were showered with compliments from family and friends and other people they interacted with as a child and as an adult can call upon all of that when times are tough. I don't think people are used to coming across someone like myself who was never complimented or shown affection and therefore don't have a wellspring of confidence to draw upon regarding most things except for oddly specific circumstances
Another hard truth: Even if a person may is your best friend, if life has corrupted that person, it's better to let them go (or maybe even try to get more distance between them and you)
When my son was in his early twenties, and frustrated with life, I had to impart a bit of wisdom to him. I told him that he needed to understand that he was not the center of the universe, and the world did not revolve around him. I reminded him that he was a tiny speck in the midst of many other little specks, and should not expect special treatment. For once I think he actually listened to me and took it to heart. He learned to not be so narrow-minded and got a good look at the “big picture”. Once in a while, we need a bit of a kick in the butt to bring us back to reality!
1. meritocracy doesn't exist 2. luck plays bigger role in life than society would like to admit 3. life is unfair on the get go but society will demand from you to be fair 4. money is essential in life 5. you are not important, at all 6. you can't have everything in life.
@@marikothecheetah9342 I'm a formerly homeless child who comes from an extremely abusive household, raised by immature, psychopathic people that always echoed similar sentiments to yours. Could even say that these are their guiding principles. Today I enjoy a greater quality of life than anyone who did nothing but wave these lies around due to the merits of the decisions I've made even in such a horrible situation. Your nihilism is poisonous and I would hope that you focus on keeping it to yourself so you can grapple with the consequences of dysfunction rather than offloading it onto others. Very gross behavior that will one day go extinct. You can choose to be better, or sink to the bottom of the ocean with this mindset only after hurting everyone around you.
When my father told me that my mother’s cancer (that we knew she had) was terminal, I was quiet for a minute. He said, “Are you there? What are you thinking?” I said the first thing that came to my mind. “It is what it is.” This was my mother’s response to the news as well.
I really like this video, there can't be more truth than here, especially the last thing about radical acceptance it's just brilliant. For me personally radical acceptance helped me a lot to get out of a problem that pulled me in depression at some point. This is not harsh truth - it's truth that actually helps you improve your life.
I disagree with the 'only you are responsible for you' in cases of severe abuse, the abuser can be held accountable as well as those with disabilities. In multiple cases, people try but cannot overcome their traumas themselves and it's the fault of those who traumatised you, not yourself, recovery is secondary but the trauma given to anyone comes first before that and is always wrong. While responsibility and doing things yourself is important, you're not responsible for your traumas nor are you fully responsible for your healing- it's not wrong to seek help, at least you can seek help.
You're absolutely right-no one should have to bear the full weight of their trauma alone or feel like they’re solely responsible for their healing. Accountability lies with those who caused harm, and seeking help is not only okay, it’s an act of strength. Recovery often requires support, whether from trusted people, therapy, or community, because healing is not meant to be done in isolation. How has seeking help or even just reflecting on this truth impacted your journey so far?
Here’s one truth that sounds harsh at first, but can be a source of comfort too: nobody cares. Yes, nobody cares can be taken negatively to mean no one wants to keep track of your well being. But this has a positive side: this also means no one cares about the little mistakes you make. For example: you somehow commit a dating faux pas. You may be mulling over the mistake you made, but your partner has likely forgotten about it by now (either that or they simply move on).
I’ve come to accept the fact that I can’t really do much to help my online friend, who’s been a victim of physical, emotional, verbal and sexual abuse for years. She’s so broken and I really wish I could do more for her than I’m doing rn, but she lives in another country, and there’s only so much you can do behind the screen. Nevertheless, I’ll continue to do my best in giving her the support I’ve been giving these past 3 years.
I'm a Vietnam combat veteran, and I was deeply affected by that experience. After much reading and research I realized that modern humans have been fighting wars and killing each other for a about 300,000 years. This is who we are and this is what we do. When I see people doing bad things I tell myself this is nothing new. People have always done bad things. Bad behavior has been hard-wired into our genes because it gave us some evolutionary avantage in the past. This is human nature and it's not going to change in my lifetime. There is a dark side to human nature, but there is a bright side as well. I try to encourage the bright side and not feed the dark side.
The most important thing on your path, is being okay that you were courageous enough to be lead on a path, but its also just as important to know when the path is becoming "foolish". Which is the calibration that everyone requires, in order to make the "right" decisions in life. If you don't attempt a path, you are denying your opportunity for wisdom, if you never think your path is leading you down the long road, you are forcing everything that comes into your reality as truth and begins the road of miss-alignment.
Yes! I’m glad this video is up. Another truth to add, and this probably adds to the first truth in the video. Not everyone is going to like or love you. You’re the one who needs to love themselves, because the world doesn’t love nor give a crap about you. It’s not to say no one loves you and everybody hates you. Because that’s just not true. But, the world doesn’t care how you live your life, what you like and don’t like. Be yourself. Let the people judge you. It’s up to you whether you let them restrict you or not.
It’s completely normal to feel emotional about this-it shows how much you care about them. Instead of letting those thoughts consume you, try focusing on the time you have with them now. Make memories, share moments, and remind them how much they mean to you. What’s one thing you can do today to make them smile? Also, there' s a channel called www.youtube.com/@BryanJohnson. Do you think you can possibly apply some of his stuff to help your parents pursue a longer life?
Hello Pysch! I'm loving ur channel recently, could you give me some tips to organize a day and overcome procastination? Keep uploading, u deserve gratitude too 🥰
I agree independance can be a pain. But there's a reason I'm independant is because I'm afraid of being dependant on others. Exemple : Sometimes, I think finding a partner and living with them would be cool but I'm a person who can't say no to anything, so it would just make my life unbearable. 1,3,4 & 5 are also very true but I feel 2 is the hardest for me.
What REALLY sucks is when you WANT to be resposnible for the outcome of your life, but literally cannot take control. I personally think life would be so much easier if most problems could be solved by yourself alone, but often times the biggest problems are unfkrtunately not yours to solve.
I do most of the things explained in this video ,these aren't new to me ,but seeing people who are still trusting others and bring depending on others makes me think like "they keave one day,these people should do on theor own".
Once I made a major blooper at work, my boss said: "People who claim to never have messed up like that are either lying, or they're not doing their job."
Some hard truths I've discovered: 1. You can try your hardest and still fail. It's okay, so long as you learn from it. 2. Coming out from the most devastating and traumatic events in your life are what make you stronger and more resilient. 3. Obsessing and placing all value on an end goal will leave you full of disappointment and regret if you achieve it without enjoying the process along the way. 4. Intelligence without wisdom or willingness to take action when needed is useless at best and self-destructive at worst. 5. No amount of money, friends, or achievements will ever replace being content and having gratitude.
practicing radical acceptance is tough. My roommates are causing drama. I can't change anything about it. Imma call them out on their own bullshit. I will point out how they both are being immature and not communicating properly. That's all I can do.
It sounds like you’re really trying to handle a tough situation while staying true to yourself. Calling them out and addressing the lack of communication is a bold step, and it shows you value honesty and accountability. What’s your plan for staying calm and collected when you talk to them?
@@Psych2go Writing this comment helped me vent. I'll definitely word it differently and keep myself emotionally detached for the conversation. I already spoke to one of them. The other one is trickier since she isn't always sober. I'll try to set up a time when we both are sober.
The easiest, best advice I can share on failure, that came from _Extra Credits_ , is this; Do no fear Failure. The best way to combat this fear: Fail Faster. Act. Fail. Learn. Course-correct. Act again. Repeat as needed until you reach your destination.
Was life ever sunshine and rainbows? I don’t think it was not even since I was a kid. I had a different perspective on life when I was a kid than I had as a teenager and later in the future. I am not trying to act, sound, or look negative but I like this video and I knew there was no such thing as sunshine and rainbows in life.
I like psychology, painting, drawing, journaling, bullet journaling, skating, biking, riding on my hoverboard, playing videos games especially Nintendo ones, playing mobile games, drawing (a lot) and relaxing. I also like being with my family, friends and my Lord because I have faith with him even thought I doubt myself. Thanks for tour videos, they helped.
You're doing a fantastic job! Just a quick off-topic question: I have a SafePal wallet with USDT, and I have the seed phrase. (alarm fetch churn bridge exercise tape speak race clerk couch crater letter). What's the best way to send them to Binance?
What is something important that you learned about yourself this month?
That I should believe in myself, also I’m a big fan 🫶
That I love your channel! ❤
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I want to be a history teacher
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1. Don't rely on others for approval
2. Being too dependent can ruin your life
3. No one is responsible for you but you
4. Failure is inevitable and it's ok
5. Radical acceptance
I agree 100%! You've got this in a nutshell ....
And what would you know about any of that mr.thanos?
Yep and that exactly what God says too everyone is responsible for their own actions and their own souls
But there is a verse saying that the sins of the Father will become the sins of the Son meaning your bad / evil habits your children may get them if they're not taught well
@@Yokyle4356Verbal plenary in exegetical writing means that while the meanings are "canonically" univocal they have never been taken as such as its a figurative vs literal paradox. Projecting it as though it were the reification of an unfalsifiable deity is also unfalsifiable.
Even the first point dismisses this in the video. Externalising meaning to yourself can be a good way to build self esteem short term, but long term it means any incongruence between your ideal and perceived self is magnified by social perception or external barometers such as theistic lensing. Theism is just not a good topic to shoehorn into this video as they share diametrically opposed beliefs.
@@EldestZelot That's just your own opinion on the matter which I respect but doesn't mean it's right
1. Don't rely on others on approval 0:18
2. Being too dependent can ruin your life 1:04
3. No one is responsible for you but you 1:54
4. Failure is inevitable but it's ok 2:33
5. Radical acceptance 3:15
Failure is the best teacher
Some days are easier to accept these truths than others
Too real, man
Good advice is that depression is a time that makes you stronger but sometimes you need to be happy
This year i met the most broken and darker version of myself my kindness to my friends has changed into not giving a single f*** ever since i got rejected by my crush everyone on my school is making fun of me even my best friends it really affected my mental and physical health thanks to this channel it is like my therapy
Hang in there, I am rooting for you!
I simultaneously envy and feel sorry for everyone who didn't learn these things in early childhood
I've accepted every mistake, flaws and faults I made and I just decided to continue do what makes me happy and just do what I want when I want to without complaining or comprising for anything or anyone
I cant live with the consequences, the regret and the guilt as well i just can't! I lost the best thing that ever happened to me! I hope she stays happy!
Whenever I am facing a hard time I remember this verse from the Quran
(For indeed, with hardship [will be] ease.)
94:5
"The only reason for existence is happiness." - فرهان تی.
Another tough truth that should make life easier.
the nihilism is crazy
No, that's hedonism.
@@JulianDulay-m8t Agreed. The irony is that self-gratification, in the long run, often leads to darkness and despair.
1. When others say something I'm really REALLY proud of like my drawings is bad I tell myself "its okay, it's their opinion" but istg I'm crying inside
2. I'm really attached to my yt channel and when the views or subscribers suddenly drop makes me anxious and make me overthink myself like "what did I do wrong?", "is the video not good enough?", "why am I so bad at this?" And etc, etc
3. I don't know what I'm supposed to feel for 90% of the day, I always feel like I'm inresponsible even tho people tells me that "I'm so responsible" because I take care of my siblings
4. I compare myself to literally everyone better than me. I want everything to be perfect. When something isn't as perfect as I want it to be, I'll redo it over and over again. When I'm drawing, I NEED it to be as perfect as possible (it's getting tiring... And I'm losing interest in almost everything now, idk why)
5. I blame myself for things that aren't my fault but I feel responsible for it, I feel guilty for no reason. I keep trying to change myself but I feel like I'm not worth anything or just a useless being sometimes I feel like nothing so I keep trying to change myself (I REALLY AM 😭) but I keep failing again and again. I try to change my siblings to be better but it fails too.
I sometimes wish I could just die but a part of me wants to keep living, at least, for my family. But I feel so tired, I want to be someone else. I'm losing interest in the one thing that's keeping me happy and alive, drawing, I don't want to leave the house. At all. Anytime someone invites me out, I just make excuses like "I don't have time, sorry 😔", "I'm tired, maybe another time 😅", "I'm busy, I'm so sorry 😭" or something like that. I don't want to die but I also don't want to live like this... (Why am I like this?)
I took a look at your channel. If those thumbnails are your drawings, then you are really good. You don't have to be perfect. I am a writer. My stories are far from perfect. In fact, sometimes, they are cringe-inducingly awful. That will not stop me from writing as it is the only thing that gives me joy and purpose.
Keep drawing. Even if you're convinced that your drawing is awful, then keep at it anyway. It is with practice that we become better, but we will never be perfect. And that's OK.
My friend.....
A lot of times you have to start not giving a F*ck what people thinks of you, especially online with this video.
This is your life,
this is your journey, and do what you think matters the most.
There is no right OR wrong what you do.
Also... this video is not always 100% Truth, often are mixed with Biased opinions and suggestions for better mental health.
You Value a lot.... Seriously!
I may don't know you in real life, but actually you are a valuable "Asset" like the rest of us, despite your problems and insecurities.
because without you the world wouldn't be a great place.
We need you,
and remember you are always welcome❤
Me too but l try and definitely l did so you should not worry about it anyways
I heard a younger me voice reading portions of this. WOW, Iam so sorry that ,you, too are feeling these things. At some other instances my babygirl was reading it to me. If you can afford it. Look into vitamins, minerals N proteins or maybe even look into essential oils... do whatever YOU feel is going to pull your self confidence up. Big hugs!!
Hey! I am a painter and I also struggle with perfectionism. Whenever I find myself frustrated or not enjoying the process of painting, it is usually to my perfectionism kicking in, so I need to remind myself to strive for "good enough", because perfectionism is unrealistic. Besides, there is beauty in imperfections. Just look at the way trees grow, not perfectly straight with branches awry. Their roots peek from the earth and their bark is uneven. Yet they are beautiful. The way the beach waves crash against the shore is not perfectly the same each time. The foam and reflections are randomly scattered, more beautiful than if placed a specific way. It is ok not to be perfect. The only true perfect thing in this world is the fact that you were born. Everything lined up perfectly for you to come into this world. You are valuable. Continue to draw and continue to learn in life, for learning is truly endless. Sometimes drawing imperfections on purpose can help snap you out of a bout of perfectionism.
This made me sad,but we just have to accept this:(also if ur reading this dw everything's gonna be ok❤
Why? A lot of this seems like common sense to me. What specifically is sad about it?
This world is evil beyond belief. That is what is sad. Humanity is in a very low vibration. The evil is unbearable for those of us who are empaths.
Yeah... Accept your weakness and failure and focus improve your strengths
@BrainyBoost22 accepting weakness is crazy and ignorant. How about furnishing it's flaws. Cuz in reality if we don't how can we reach self enlightenment or happiness.
Loving someone does not necessarily equal having a relationship with them. You can still feel love for someone that was in your life and know a relationship is not possible with them.
One tough truth that I have learned in my life is that people come and go in your life. Don't over rely on one or only a very few people. People you form a bond with might move on in life and sometimes unexpected. Feeling left behind is what I felt many times when they say got new jobs and this is the last time we meet is tough.
Sometimes I get confused if this channel is stalking me irl or not because yesterday I just didn’t know anything to do that would make my life easier and now this channel comes and posts a video on it😭
I do appreciate it though ;D
It's all about timing and a lot of our videos aim to help us in many areas of life.
The third one kinda hit me true though.. I once heard a youtuber say the quote "If you can't help yourself, why should i help you?" i know it was not the exact quote but the meaning of it still remains the same.
I’m always in a dark place every time I always felt that I accept failure but it doesn’t mean it will last forever. We will accept our mistakes we have made we move on and do things right for a change.
It sounds like you’re carrying a lot but also holding onto hope, which is so important. Accepting failure and learning from mistakes shows how strong and resilient you are. What’s one small step you’re thinking of taking next to start making that change?
Accepting failure is one thing... And taking actions towards positive change in your life is one thing... If you don't take those actions... Even if you accept failures it will ruin your future in matter of time... And eventually start feel lonely and victim of all your failures 📉
It really makes a world of difference if you shift your mindset, reframing everything as a question can really make it way easier.
I live by everything except the last one. I literally can't let go from my fight against evil especially on the internet. All people that I tried to change never wanted to and I can't force my mindset on othera. It's just not possible. There's stil a looong way for me to go.
I hope that I'll manage to make it to a moment in life when I'll be able to have the strenght to change things I can change, the strenght to move on from the things I can't but above all, have the wisdom to tell them apart from each other.
Fantastic video My five-year relationship ended a month ago. The decision to part ways with the love of my life is something that truly consumes me. Though it's all in vain, I've tried everything to get him back, and I can't fathom my life with anyone else. Even though I've made every effort to quit thinking about him, I can't help but miss him and can't stop thinking about him. Why I am stating this here is beyond me.
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?
His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.
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My problem was too much radical acceptance. I learned at a young age that life sucked and there was nothing I could do about it. I could feel comfortable in even the worst situations. That dog in the fire saying "this is fine." Years of therapy later I'm finally learning to actually live my life. This has actually been one of my most fun years ever.
❤❤ I agree or see me the most in the last one and that one with making mistakes. So good to hear, thank u
I am in a really dark place right now. I just don't feel safe unarmed anywhere, and it is a direct result of people harassing me over how ugly I am. Like I am so scared someone will actually put me in that situation ya know...and I will be damned if I let someone hurt me or my loved ones. But ya, def in a dark place. I don't want to hurt anyone...but I will if I have to. Just don't feel like I deserve this just for being ugly.
It hurt me to read your comment. I hope u soon learn to see the beauty in yourself.
Everybody is out for themselves. IYKYK ❤
Topic Number 2 and 3 is what definitely identifies me. They go hand and hand.
I have traumatic memories in the past. Because I always hide this from other people, no one ever know whats in my head.
Some time later, I began to interested in writing novels, writing fantasy stories. Over time, I learned psychology and philosophy behind writing, and doing self-introspection. I think, it's really healing me. Makes me understand more about myself. Finally, I reach this 'Radical Acceptance' phase and accepted that traumatic moment. Everything feels better. Although, I still did nothing. I'm still jobless.
But, I learned something. I learned that the darkness was not to be afraid. Accept and embrace the darkness, then step forward, you will learn the true essence of light. Suffer and pain exists to make you grateful for the joy and happiness you have.
I never seek other people's approval but my own, I live alone with my cat, I'm not afraid of failure as I know it is inevitable.
I listen to my intuition and live my life through my own beliefs and I'm grateful I possess this power to live my life this way.
I think the hardest thing I had to learned/found out the hard way was friends come and go
Timestamps
1). Don't rely on others for approval 0:17
2). Being too dependent can ruin your life 1:03
3). No one is responsible for you but you 1:53
4). Failure is inevitable but it's ok 2:33
5). Radical acceptance 3:14
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
I like that they put the references in the description. That's always important.
i’m so early!!!! thank you sm for changing my life literally youtube therapy
I agree with everything except on the subject of confidence. I think most people take confidence for granted because in their youth, they were showered with compliments from family and friends and other people they interacted with as a child and as an adult can call upon all of that when times are tough. I don't think people are used to coming across someone like myself who was never complimented or shown affection and therefore don't have a wellspring of confidence to draw upon regarding most things except for oddly specific circumstances
Never rely on external validation and dependence, something I've learned the hard way. Once embraced, life's so much peaceful and easier.
Another hard truth: Even if a person may is your best friend, if life has corrupted that person, it's better to let them go (or maybe even try to get more distance between them and you)
When my son was in his early twenties, and frustrated with life, I had to impart a bit of wisdom to him. I told him that he needed to understand that he was not the center of the universe, and the world did not revolve around him. I reminded him that he was a tiny speck in the midst of many other little specks, and should not expect special treatment. For once I think he actually listened to me and took it to heart. He learned to not be so narrow-minded and got a good look at the “big picture”. Once in a while, we need a bit of a kick in the butt to bring us back to reality!
1. meritocracy doesn't exist
2. luck plays bigger role in life than society would like to admit
3. life is unfair on the get go but society will demand from you to be fair
4. money is essential in life
5. you are not important, at all
6. you can't have everything in life.
@@marikothecheetah9342 I'm a formerly homeless child who comes from an extremely abusive household, raised by immature, psychopathic people that always echoed similar sentiments to yours. Could even say that these are their guiding principles. Today I enjoy a greater quality of life than anyone who did nothing but wave these lies around due to the merits of the decisions I've made even in such a horrible situation. Your nihilism is poisonous and I would hope that you focus on keeping it to yourself so you can grapple with the consequences of dysfunction rather than offloading it onto others. Very gross behavior that will one day go extinct. You can choose to be better, or sink to the bottom of the ocean with this mindset only after hurting everyone around you.
When my father told me that my mother’s cancer (that we knew she had) was terminal, I was quiet for a minute. He said, “Are you there? What are you thinking?” I said the first thing that came to my mind.
“It is what it is.”
This was my mother’s response to the news as well.
I really like this video, there can't be more truth than here, especially the last thing about radical acceptance it's just brilliant. For me personally radical acceptance helped me a lot to get out of a problem that pulled me in depression at some point. This is not harsh truth - it's truth that actually helps you improve your life.
This is absolutely one of the MOST helpful Psych2go videos for me, thank you so much. Many of these truths I must accept to be happier.
I disagree with the 'only you are responsible for you' in cases of severe abuse, the abuser can be held accountable as well as those with disabilities. In multiple cases, people try but cannot overcome their traumas themselves and it's the fault of those who traumatised you, not yourself, recovery is secondary but the trauma given to anyone comes first before that and is always wrong. While responsibility and doing things yourself is important, you're not responsible for your traumas nor are you fully responsible for your healing- it's not wrong to seek help, at least you can seek help.
This
You're absolutely right-no one should have to bear the full weight of their trauma alone or feel like they’re solely responsible for their healing. Accountability lies with those who caused harm, and seeking help is not only okay, it’s an act of strength. Recovery often requires support, whether from trusted people, therapy, or community, because healing is not meant to be done in isolation. How has seeking help or even just reflecting on this truth impacted your journey so far?
These are ones I'm having a hard time trying to learn and get in my head.
Here’s one truth that sounds harsh at first, but can be a source of comfort too: nobody cares.
Yes, nobody cares can be taken negatively to mean no one wants to keep track of your well being. But this has a positive side: this also means no one cares about the little mistakes you make. For example: you somehow commit a dating faux pas. You may be mulling over the mistake you made, but your partner has likely forgotten about it by now (either that or they simply move on).
I need to stand up for myself even if I often struggle to do so. That's this month's learning
Such perfect upload timing at 3 AM lol they truly know their most of their audience and our terrible sleep schedules lmao
Or maybe our sleep schedule is just as terrible.
Yippe! :>
I’ve come to accept the fact that I can’t really do much to help my online friend, who’s been a victim of physical, emotional, verbal and sexual abuse for years. She’s so broken and I really wish I could do more for her than I’m doing rn, but she lives in another country, and there’s only so much you can do behind the screen.
Nevertheless, I’ll continue to do my best in giving her the support I’ve been giving these past 3 years.
I'm a Vietnam combat veteran, and I was deeply affected by that experience. After much reading and research I realized that modern humans have been fighting wars and killing each other for a about 300,000 years. This is who we are and this is what we do. When I see people doing bad things I tell myself this is nothing new. People have always done bad things. Bad behavior has been hard-wired into our genes because it gave us some evolutionary avantage in the past. This is human nature and it's not going to change in my lifetime. There is a dark side to human nature, but there is a bright side as well. I try to encourage the bright side and not feed the dark side.
The most important thing on your path, is being okay that you were courageous enough to be lead on a path, but its also just as important to know when the path is becoming "foolish". Which is the calibration that everyone requires, in order to make the "right" decisions in life. If you don't attempt a path, you are denying your opportunity for wisdom, if you never think your path is leading you down the long road, you are forcing everything that comes into your reality as truth and begins the road of miss-alignment.
Life is not just difficult. It’s terrible.
I love this channel so much❤
Yes! I’m glad this video is up. Another truth to add, and this probably adds to the first truth in the video. Not everyone is going to like or love you. You’re the one who needs to love themselves, because the world doesn’t love nor give a crap about you. It’s not to say no one loves you and everybody hates you. Because that’s just not true. But, the world doesn’t care how you live your life, what you like and don’t like. Be yourself. Let the people judge you. It’s up to you whether you let them restrict you or not.
The 4 truth was literally me, Im so easy to collapse after failures
I know death is part of life but im just getting too emotional about my parents getting older…… knowing they’re getting closer to death……
It’s completely normal to feel emotional about this-it shows how much you care about them. Instead of letting those thoughts consume you, try focusing on the time you have with them now. Make memories, share moments, and remind them how much they mean to you. What’s one thing you can do today to make them smile? Also, there' s a channel called www.youtube.com/@BryanJohnson. Do you think you can possibly apply some of his stuff to help your parents pursue a longer life?
I feel you
Hello Pysch! I'm loving ur channel recently, could you give me some tips to organize a day and overcome procastination? Keep uploading, u deserve gratitude too 🥰
I agree independance can be a pain. But there's a reason I'm independant is because I'm afraid of being dependant on others. Exemple : Sometimes, I think finding a partner and living with them would be cool but I'm a person who can't say no to anything, so it would just make my life unbearable. 1,3,4 & 5 are also very true but I feel 2 is the hardest for me.
Something I learnt about myself is ‘it’s okay to be vulnerable’ and
‘You are ABSOLUTELY responsible for the outcome of your life’
What REALLY sucks is when you WANT to be resposnible for the outcome of your life, but literally cannot take control. I personally think life would be so much easier if most problems could be solved by yourself alone, but often times the biggest problems are unfkrtunately not yours to solve.
I wish I learned how to have a growth mindset early. This truth actually help to free me.
Nothing about how being attractive makes your life much easier, while the opposite also being true.
No body is responsible for me but me, yes, I accept this.
I do most of the things explained in this video ,these aren't new to me ,but seeing people who are still trusting others and bring depending on others makes me think like "they keave one day,these people should do on theor own".
Thank you 🌸
It is what it is.
Thank you for this video.
Once I made a major blooper at work, my boss said: "People who claim to never have messed up like that are either lying, or they're not doing their job."
Some hard truths I've discovered:
1. You can try your hardest and still fail. It's okay, so long as you learn from it.
2. Coming out from the most devastating and traumatic events in your life are what make you stronger and more resilient.
3. Obsessing and placing all value on an end goal will leave you full of disappointment and regret if you achieve it without enjoying the process along the way.
4. Intelligence without wisdom or willingness to take action when needed is useless at best and self-destructive at worst.
5. No amount of money, friends, or achievements will ever replace being content and having gratitude.
#1 Don't rely on others for approval
#2 Being too dependents can ruin your life ❤❤
practicing radical acceptance is tough. My roommates are causing drama. I can't change anything about it. Imma call them out on their own bullshit. I will point out how they both are being immature and not communicating properly. That's all I can do.
It sounds like you’re really trying to handle a tough situation while staying true to yourself. Calling them out and addressing the lack of communication is a bold step, and it shows you value honesty and accountability. What’s your plan for staying calm and collected when you talk to them?
@@Psych2go Writing this comment helped me vent. I'll definitely word it differently and keep myself emotionally detached for the conversation. I already spoke to one of them. The other one is trickier since she isn't always sober. I'll try to set up a time when we both are sober.
I 🙏🏼 God gives me strength
The problem is i can give great advice, honestly. But i can never actually USE my advice, i think i work better alone.
How wrong i was.
Do we have a new narrator??🤔
Amandla is probably taking some time off.
😢@@kenrickbautista6141
@@kenrickbautista6141 She's still here. We have many voice actors wanting to work for us, so we thought we'd give everyone a shot.
Ashleigh was actually one of our earliest voice artist. You can find her in some of our videos 7 years ago.
@@Psych2go ohh that why her voice seemed familiar 😲🤧 ....
I remember sitting in a corner of my old house and watching your videos😭❤️ feels nostalgic
True 😊😊😊😊
The easiest, best advice I can share on failure, that came from _Extra Credits_ , is this;
Do no fear Failure. The best way to combat this fear: Fail Faster. Act. Fail. Learn. Course-correct. Act again. Repeat as needed until you reach your destination.
I do all of these things. *Damn* i love myself :)
6. Don't rely on UA-cam videos to get you through life.
Was life ever sunshine and rainbows? I don’t think it was not even since I was a kid. I had a different perspective on life when I was a kid than I had as a teenager and later in the future. I am not trying to act, sound, or look negative but I like this video and I knew there was no such thing as sunshine and rainbows in life.
Facts and awesome 😊
The people closest to you WILL hurt you the moots just a matter of time and if it doesn’t EVER happen with a certain individual you got lucky
1:14 What about dependency on watching you’re videos?
I like psychology, painting, drawing, journaling, bullet journaling, skating, biking, riding on my hoverboard, playing videos games especially Nintendo ones, playing mobile games, drawing (a lot) and relaxing. I also like being with my family, friends and my Lord because I have faith with him even thought I doubt myself. Thanks for tour videos, they helped.
Just live in the present moment, it's the only thing that actually exists. The rest is all in your head.....
1.Not being the honoured one
2.Not being the king of curses
3.Not Toji
4.Not Jujutsuing
5.Not enough Kaisen
Cute video thankyou ❤️👍🏻😊
thx abt this vid!💗
Any comments about the art or voice over?
they are nice! keep up💗
Thanks for sharing, love the animation
My parents don't even know what being grateful and being held responsible means
under 1 hour💜💜💜💜
Stoicism teaches us all that.
Thank you psych2go for your contribution in creating mental awareness and helping many people like me to navigate through situations like these❤
You're doing a fantastic job! Just a quick off-topic question: I have a SafePal wallet with USDT, and I have the seed phrase. (alarm fetch churn bridge exercise tape speak race clerk couch crater letter). What's the best way to send them to Binance?
If you’re reading this love yourself! if not for you. then do it for me thankyou
That's so encouraging! :)
6. You can't have super powers when thought as a kid you can be batman 😔
Acceptance is the most difficult thing…
I have become too dependent on the air I breathe. I have been in the process of dying for a while, and I'm ready to go. I have been so miserable.
Very informative 😊
good thing I've already accepted 4/5 of this very early on, 5th is a half and a half.
Sometimes i think i never had an inner child, and if i did, he's dead.
Her sound became better😊
Thank you. What did you like most about her voice?
@@Psych2gowhere is the original voice? The one that was always narrating before?
@@Psych2go
I for one don't care about who narrates the videos.
Accepting im not able to make friends easily
Your best friend can become your worst enemy
If life is difficult learn to love the difficult problem solved..
How does one build inate confidence?
Heyyyy
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@Psych2go Omg YOUR LIKE MY FAVORITE CONTENT CREATOR 😍