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Surviving a Bullet to the Brain and Waking up Blind Months Later (A Story of Recovery)

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  • @SpecialBooksbySpecialKids
    @SpecialBooksbySpecialKids  Рік тому +797

    Mark has his own UA-cam channel at ua-cam.com/channels/YF6tWycCs-fDevtl8oJtqQ.html . He promised me he would be posting more soon. Also, if anybody would like to learn more about recovering from Complex PTSD I highly recommend the book Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving. I have no connection or correspondence with the author at all, it's just an incredibly insightful book.

    • @CleoHarperReturns
      @CleoHarperReturns Рік тому +21

      This is an incredible story. I also have complex PTSD and although his story is a lot worse than mine there are so many things I can relate to. This has been so inspiring. Thanks to both of you. 💜 I'll check out his channel after this.

    • @katehenderson8194
      @katehenderson8194 Рік тому +9

      Thanks man, after all these years I’m
      Still struggling and my experiences with therapists have been pretty bad actually. Thanks again

    • @1984Brandon
      @1984Brandon Рік тому +14

      He speaks intelligently and as man who isn't trying to be better then anything. Mark is a respectable person and I'm so glad I watched this.

    • @virginiareed5756
      @virginiareed5756 Рік тому +6

      Thank you so much for your story Mark ❤

    • @carolynt8864
      @carolynt8864 Рік тому +4

      Thanks for the recommendation.

  • @loam6740
    @loam6740 Рік тому +1746

    I hate calling his recovery a miracle because it doesn’t give him enough credit for how much work he has put into recovery. truly incredible journey and an amazing person

    • @Suhdudeb
      @Suhdudeb Рік тому +102

      His recovery wasn't a miracle, him surviving was. His recovery was pure strength.

    • @nom3nnescio
      @nom3nnescio Рік тому

      Health care saved him. Not a miracle. He tried to kill himself.

    • @BillyJack85
      @BillyJack85 Рік тому +26

      It doesn't take anything away from our hard work to get help from God. None of us do it by ourselves. I'm sure this guy would be the first to admit that.

    • @MISSMADISONMEDIA
      @MISSMADISONMEDIA Рік тому +2

      @@Suhdudeb 👏🏽👏🏽

    • @YehudiNimol
      @YehudiNimol Рік тому +17

      @@Suhdudeb I don't think it's fair to call every statistical anomaly that's hard to explain a miracle. Not everything we can't understand is God. For his miracle there are thousands of others who went through the same thing and didn't have a miracle

  • @charlesmartinjr3971
    @charlesmartinjr3971 Рік тому +1680

    "Emotions don't last forever."
    I think that's something we all need to hear right now.

    • @BeauGypsy
      @BeauGypsy Рік тому +7

      Do you have PTSD.... Because So far im 20 years in....

    • @BeauGypsy
      @BeauGypsy Рік тому +7

      Its a ton different when feelings have so far...

    • @onlinetruth9979
      @onlinetruth9979 Рік тому +5

      And dying means you don’t feel anything

    • @charlesmartinjr3971
      @charlesmartinjr3971 Рік тому +8

      @@onlinetruth9979 There's no way to know that. That's an awful big gamble.

    • @onlinetruth9979
      @onlinetruth9979 Рік тому +5

      @@charlesmartinjr3971 not always awful. Many people have negative lives. Death is neutral when all of the possibilities are taken into account because they are infinite. A change from negative to neutral is an improvement

  • @MyDearGhoul
    @MyDearGhoul Рік тому +539

    He is extremely articulate for surviving a brain injury via gun shot. He seems like such a genuine, intelligent guy and I'm really glad he made it through such a dark time in his life.

    • @jbxzy
      @jbxzy Рік тому +2

      Agreed

    • @barneyfromblackmesa377
      @barneyfromblackmesa377 Рік тому +2

      Because only his frontal lobe is damaged.

    • @LectronCircuits
      @LectronCircuits 9 місяців тому

      Being blind, he's going through the darkest time of his life now. Audience wishes him all the best. Cheers!

    • @user-zg8vi6rl7e
      @user-zg8vi6rl7e 3 місяці тому +1

      No, the blindness might have been from injury to the chiasm or optic nerves and not due to brain damage.

  • @gaila.9852
    @gaila.9852 Рік тому +213

    The surgeons did an amazing job. His face looks completely fine.

  • @MISSMADISONMEDIA
    @MISSMADISONMEDIA Рік тому +3480

    His emotional intelligence, self awareness, and determination are incredible. This was so motivational. And parents, talk to your kids!!! Especially when it’s uncomfortable, that’s honestly when they need it the most… Talking things out and getting professional help can do wonders. Proud of you, Mark!

    • @shawntanac3172
      @shawntanac3172 Рік тому +10

      Well said !

    • @brookebarnhart1588
      @brookebarnhart1588 Рік тому +7

      Agreed!

    • @spacemanspiff6332
      @spacemanspiff6332 Рік тому +9

      Behind that courage and fake happiness is usually a sad, broken person. Not saying this guy is actually miserable. But much of the time they just want to be inspirational, but when the cameras are off and the strangers have left they sink right back into a deep depression.

    • @arina4030
      @arina4030 Рік тому +12

      @@spacemanspiff6332 ...

    • @andreamigliore6607
      @andreamigliore6607 Рік тому +12

      @@spacemanspiff6332 I wouldn’t be so sure.

  • @tomidilluminator
    @tomidilluminator Рік тому +693

    Three years ago, I was robbed, shot in the face and became blind. After overcoming depression and suicidal thoughts and even attempted suicide once. I’m now a mental health counselor and a blind UA-camr passionate about inspiring people. What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger. I relate my brother you remind me of my strength

    • @sugarsore
      @sugarsore Рік тому +44

      You're a warrior. You inspire me.

    • @margafrantz4406
      @margafrantz4406 Рік тому +16

      Powerful

    • @BingBongHell
      @BingBongHell Рік тому +27

      You & Mark are still here for a reason. You story/wisdom will heal & set free many.

    • @tomidilluminator
      @tomidilluminator Рік тому

      @@margafrantz4406 thank you so much. Please kindly support by subscribing

    • @rabbit3212010
      @rabbit3212010 Рік тому +17

      @@BingBongHell nothing happens for a reason. It's just a line of thinking that we use to try and create the perception of order in what is in fact a totally disordered world.

  • @YehudiNimol
    @YehudiNimol Рік тому +135

    It's terrifying to think that this man lived with a predator and the person responsible for his suffering for years and nobody ever thought of notifying him.
    Mark, I hope you can keep channeling your trauma to help others, and I wish you the best in your endeavors. The world can be a dark place, but it's up to us to change it

    • @junedussault400
      @junedussault400 Рік тому +13

      He was raised by animals so his recovery is just that more powerful!

    • @taleandclawrock2606
      @taleandclawrock2606 Рік тому +10

      Yes, appalling they didnt warn him, very unloving behaviour.

  • @higgaroc
    @higgaroc Рік тому +64

    WHY WHY WHY was his girlfriend aware of his history of abuse but not him??! What in the WORLD is going on with this family? They are so inept at communication it's absolutely sickening! All of us need to work on this - the shame in communicating about painful topics is life-threatening.

  • @binxwaxcap7832
    @binxwaxcap7832 Рік тому +260

    "Emotions aren't forever" The most powerful three words I've ever heard

    • @angko-pe
      @angko-pe Рік тому +8

      Yes. I needed to hear that today.

    • @crystalortega2156
      @crystalortega2156 Рік тому +12

      Those three words are similar to what I heard a few years back that got me out of committing suicide which is “This is temporary”. It referred to emotions being temporary. People have no idea how much words really help people get through the toughest times. I actually have “this is temporary” as part of my suicide tattoo because those words struck a cord with me

    • @lovingmayberry307
      @lovingmayberry307 Рік тому +6

      Absolutely! Words can make such a huge difference for someone who needs to hear them at that very moment. My brother, who suffers from depression, says, "This too shall pass." 💙

    • @nightyew2160
      @nightyew2160 Рік тому +3

      @@crystalortega2156 What a great tattoo! It is also beautifully ironic for a permanent tattoo to say that.

    • @crystalortega2156
      @crystalortega2156 Рік тому +3

      @@nightyew2160 it’s funny because when I got it that was what people said and I honestly didn’t even think about the irony of it until afterwards lol. The full tattoo is a black cross with the suicide symbol in the middle of cross and bright water colors all around and with the words “this is temporary” at the bottom. The full meaning of the tattoo is I found God when I was at the brink of death (suicidal) which is why the cross is black since black symbolizes death and God came to me on the night when I was sitting on my kitchen floor contemplating that this was going to be the day and God said “get up off the kitchen floor. You have to live for your daughter” after that day I never thought about suicide again and from the place of darkness I found the beauty in life (which is what the bright colors mean) and “this is temporary” was the phrase I would always tell myself if ever the thought even ran across my mind again.
      And I made sure I got it huge to always remind myself to never be in that place again. The tattoo is my full side! Even the artist was like you sure you want it that big and I’m like yep!!!! Because it’s a place I never want to go to again and the moment I see myself in the mirror I see it!

  • @charmingheartphotography6758
    @charmingheartphotography6758 Рік тому +842

    Even though he has lost his sight it seems as though he sees things clearer than ever. Hes extremely in tune with himself and his surroundings..he is also really interesting to listen to! Id love to see you visit him again in a few years.

    • @livingitup9647
      @livingitup9647 Рік тому +19

      Or, even check in with him sooner than that! I have high hopes for his ability to serve his community well after he gets his certification. 👍

  • @waretaSL
    @waretaSL Рік тому +203

    Can i just say that mark looks incredible for 37??? Not that 37 is old, but he certainly doesn't look it! But it's so amazing to see that he's getting better, and also that he's gotten over his night terrors. As someone who experienced them as a young child also, i can say that getting past that really is momentous and just such a huge leap. You rock mark!

    • @kropotkinnie
      @kropotkinnie Рік тому +11

      I was also shocked by this omfg! Thought the dude was like 25 this whole time and when I heard 37 I think my brain sputtered for a moment.

    • @Thekrystalshow
      @Thekrystalshow Рік тому +2

      He looks mid 20s at the most wow

  • @RaineSophiaLewis
    @RaineSophiaLewis Рік тому +93

    What his own biological mum did to him is so harrowing. As a mum, myself, it's totally heartbreaking. I hate how his dad and Stepmom wouldn't talk about his past, he needed that and they denied it, so it grew. He is so insightful, I cried at points and I truly hope he is happy now.

  • @jensenlukematar
    @jensenlukematar Рік тому +38

    This guy needs to be speaking on big stages at schools. He is an excellent speaker and has a profound story that can positively change lives, especially young lives.

    • @markehlert979
      @markehlert979 Рік тому +4

      And thank you so much! It is the feedback like this I absolutely love knowing the impact I can be able to make! And right now, between my own, UA-cam channel, going to school, and networking, I’m trying to impact and reaches many people as I can. I also am regularly out in the community at local businesses, music, events, and public schools speaking as much as I can. Thanks for your support and encouragement.

    • @chickensalad3535
      @chickensalad3535 6 місяців тому +2

      @@markehlert979You give me hope Mark. I struggle with suicidal thoughts and it makes it a bit easier to hold on, knowing that someone llke you who was dealt such a terrible hand, can turn out so well.

  • @catattack885
    @catattack885 Рік тому +430

    I've never seen anyone express their thoughts and emotions in the way this man does, intriguing stuff.

    • @AngryGoblinSlayer
      @AngryGoblinSlayer Рік тому +10

      This is something i’ve been told too. When your life is just the one it is, you can either be sad about it or you can accept it and keep going as best as you can. What you are hearing is acceptance basically.

    • @khonkhosilelihle7414
      @khonkhosilelihle7414 Рік тому

      True.

    • @markehlert979
      @markehlert979 Рік тому +1

      @@AngryGoblinSlayer couldn’t have said it better. One of the therapies I do, is ACT, acceptance, commitment, therapy. Being committed to accepting it, knowing how much it will benefit you in the end. Acceptance goes a long way.

  • @cw4608
    @cw4608 Рік тому +7

    What a super open and pure guy. He sure doesn’t look 37. I would have guessed 27.

  • @deedee3554
    @deedee3554 Рік тому +5

    "Emotions aren't forever" this meant so much.

  • @Brandon-bh7pj
    @Brandon-bh7pj Рік тому +311

    Man this guy is strong. Good to see he's still here. It's so hard to talk about trauma and your mental health. Respect to this warrior.

  • @user-ns1um8kq7i
    @user-ns1um8kq7i Рік тому +521

    I've seen nearly every episode of SBSK, and this is easily in the top 3 most powerful episodes. I am blown away. Mark, thank you for sharing your incredible story. People like you make the world a better place.

    • @ktcooki276
      @ktcooki276 Рік тому +9

      Out of Curiosity...who are some of.your other favourites?? I wonder if many of us have the same feelings?🙂
      I found the schizophrenic lady (celia??)s story very powerful. The found lad with brain cancer (oc), the...oh....there's so many, isn't there??😊

    • @beingashope
      @beingashope Рік тому +25

      @@ktcooki276 I love Daniel who has schizoaffective disorder! Both videos are so powerful.

    • @Earl_E_Burd
      @Earl_E_Burd Рік тому +7

      "blown away"

    • @ShogoMakishimaxx
      @ShogoMakishimaxx Рік тому +11

      @@ktcooki276 I know you didn't ask me, but the top story on this channel to me was the guy who is a sociopath or something like that. It bought out a different side of Chris, like he was more on guard and mindful that the dude could manipulate him at any moment. This story here easily goes within the top alongside that guy's.

    • @hakincart
      @hakincart Рік тому +2

      I agree. This was exceptionally inspiring.

  • @annapalmer8064
    @annapalmer8064 Рік тому +407

    If I were in a crisis, this is the guy I would want to have at the other end of the line. Im so glad he’s still with us. Mark is such a genuinely beautiful person. This was an insightful interview Chris, I’m so glad you introduced us to Mark. I hope he keeps living his best life, and goes on to help others.

    • @ellie3365
      @ellie3365 Рік тому +4

      Beautiful comment !

    • @thetrueoneandonlyladyprinc8038
      @thetrueoneandonlyladyprinc8038 Рік тому

      I am the only girl in the world and the only gf(s) / wf(s) / bride(s) etc and the only lovable / loved / lovely being and the only special being and the only Lady / Princess / Queen / God(dess) / Star etc and the only being reflecting nature related terms and other big terms and compIiments, while my pure protectors aka the alphas are the only guy / man / boy / gentleman / lad etc - the misused big / nature related terms palm(er) and beautiful and best that only reflect me and guy and special name Mark that only reflect my protectors must be edited out and changed!

    • @thetrueoneandonlyladyprinc8038
      @thetrueoneandonlyladyprinc8038 Рік тому

      humnz are chaotic things born from chaos and the most sakryIegiux zynz that are bound to create more chaos / zyn by continuing the vicious cycle of so-called 'life' if they don't become aware or if all the wrong things such as btg and bngng aren't b4nnedfaster

    • @thetrueoneandonlyladyprinc8038
      @thetrueoneandonlyladyprinc8038 Рік тому

      Technically, every br2ed2r that jhat out the most unfortunate unconsenting souls into existence thru the ghx can’t / tunneIz of doom is a pr2dator - if one isn’t a c-scn ‘b!rth’ one has been absd in the most sakryIegyuz way!

    • @thetrueoneandonlyladyprinc8038
      @thetrueoneandonlyladyprinc8038 Рік тому

      I cannot believe the _ gtaway with the most sakryIegyuz zynz (btg without c-scn) and other chiId ab_ and being a _ who_ etc! Only dsv the most afI fatez! The true HeIIz🔥s awaiting all zynrz!

  • @julietteplonsky4475
    @julietteplonsky4475 Рік тому +220

    When he said emotions aren't forever, I almost cried. I had suicidal thoughts when I was 11. I never brought it up to anyone except my best friend. I have severe anxiety and adhd, and feel like I am a terrible human being, but when he said that, I burst into tears. God bless whoever is reading this and remember you are loved.❤️

    • @vvv-jz9wx
      @vvv-jz9wx Рік тому +6

      @Sapphire05 ong. Having suicidal thoughts once or twice is only human, but being constantly tormented by them daily or acting upon them is different. Bish woke up and said "how can I make this about me 🤪"

    • @galaxychar
      @galaxychar Рік тому +13

      @@vvv-jz9wx They said the video helped them, why do you have to be so negative? Of course people are going to relate to these videos even if they aren’t in the worst mental or physical state possible. You don’t get to gatekeep who is helped by this video and why would you want to

    • @12newangels
      @12newangels Рік тому

      cool,God bless

    • @12newangels
      @12newangels Рік тому

      @@vvv-jz9wx true tho.

    • @markehlert979
      @markehlert979 Рік тому +10

      So sorry if you struggled and had thoughts to as a youth, but I’m glad they were thoughts, and you didn’t act on them. I’m glad you are still here. And thank you, remember, you are also always loved.

  • @astridx7485
    @astridx7485 Рік тому +244

    I was Mark, I just got lucky. It's been seven months since my attempt, the hospital and the following psychic ward stay. I often wish my body would've just gave out and I let me go, but it didn't. I'm grateful for Mark, I believe he survived for a reason, I know many people will keep on going because of the strength people like him gave them. Thank you for doing this, man!
    You can't imagine how many of us you are saving.

    • @bry7708
      @bry7708 Рік тому +16

      you’re loved. you’re cared for and you’re worth it all. please don’t give up

    • @whocares7093
      @whocares7093 Рік тому +20

      I believe you survived for a reason too. Keep going!

    • @Twelve.Thirty.Four.
      @Twelve.Thirty.Four. Рік тому +16

      If you ever need a friend, don't hesitate to reach out. One thing I know for SURE is that this world is a much better place with you in it. I don't want to imagine a world where you aren't in it ❤.

    • @Estherbethe1...
      @Estherbethe1... Рік тому +4

      🔥✨💖✨🔥

    • @yagerr4279
      @yagerr4279 Рік тому +8

      You survived for a reason too, gem ✨

  • @beccac6812
    @beccac6812 Рік тому +25

    That mother who was caught sexually abusing him IN the hospital: they should’ve called the cops immediately and reported that. There’s zero excuse for them not to have told him and the police.

    • @sarahalbers5555
      @sarahalbers5555 Рік тому +6

      I agree. No excuse for not getting LE involved. Plus, health care providers are mandated reporters. Huge failure on their part.

  • @sunshineanddaisies_
    @sunshineanddaisies_ Рік тому +169

    Mark's emotional intelligence is through the roof and he articulates it so well. He's such a captivating speaker, he would be a great advocate and teacher regarding mental health. He's going to save lives!

    • @markehlert979
      @markehlert979 Рік тому +6

      Thank you so much! I love the feedback like this, knowing the impact I can make

  • @annlucas1196
    @annlucas1196 Рік тому +6

    A guide dog would be good he has someone to talk to and to comfort him

  • @Tinytinytintiny
    @Tinytinytintiny Рік тому +87

    I know it's wrong of me to think this, but I absolutely HATE his so called "mom". How dare she hurt her own child this way throughout his life and even when he was in a coma. I am very proud of Mark. What an amazing and inspirational guy. The jam session was my favourite part.

  • @dereksimpson1284
    @dereksimpson1284 Рік тому +383

    This is the first episode I have watched completely. I'm in a dark place myself and your story has given me a lot to think about and process. I don't know if you will ever hear my words but your courage, strength and experiences, no matter how horrible they were, will make a difference. Thank you for the bottom of my heart

    • @Estherbethe1...
      @Estherbethe1... Рік тому

      🔥✨💖✨🔥
      🔥✨💖✨🔥
      🔥✨💖✨🔥
      🔥✨💖✨🔥

    • @hotdogwater666
      @hotdogwater666 Рік тому +16

      You are loved. 💜

    • @marinna.realtor
      @marinna.realtor Рік тому +7

      Sending you love and positivity! Like he said emotions are temporary, there are better ways to handle it

    • @MsRobinL
      @MsRobinL Рік тому +11

      Derek Simpson, if you feel you are in a dark place please please seek a good doctor! I worked in mental health for 25 years. There is always hope! Your life is worth living, everyone's life is worthy! Please always remember that!

    • @laurag502
      @laurag502 Рік тому +3

      someone who’s story touched me was Kevin Hines

  • @MichaelHolmgaard
    @MichaelHolmgaard Рік тому +88

    Mark's story is honestly the most tragic I have ever heard. His mom almost ended him.... he deserved so much better than a literal devil like her. Pure evil woman. Inspiring to see how much love he has for life today, but his story is next level sad. It'll be in my thoughts for awhile. Most impactful SBSK episode ever!

  • @mousekander2232
    @mousekander2232 Рік тому +108

    I have a 14mo daughter and now that i am a mother whenever i hear stories like Marks it makes me want to go back in time to them as a baby or child and take them into my care and give them the loving and nurturing they deserved. Absolutely breaks my heart

    • @AnaDiaz-wz4cf
      @AnaDiaz-wz4cf Рік тому +11

      You can't do it for the people that are telling their stories because they have already went thru it. But know that thousands of kids are going thru similar or even worst things right at this moment, there are soo many kids in forster care. You should consider becoming a foster or adoptive parent.

  • @BeanbagDashie
    @BeanbagDashie Рік тому +37

    the "can we jam togetherr" immediately cut to the jamming made me laugh and smile. love you chris and mark. yall made my day

  • @spicyjatropha2552
    @spicyjatropha2552 Рік тому +114

    When he said he's 37 my jaw dropped! He looks like he could be in his 20s.

    • @et7281
      @et7281 Рік тому +6

      yes agree, he is beautiful

    • @markehlert979
      @markehlert979 Рік тому +2

      I do get that a lot. Even Chris was shocked. Most people think I’m the oldest my mid 20s.

    • @et7281
      @et7281 Рік тому +1

      @@markehlert979 It really choked me hearing you where 37. I hope I also age as beautifully like u did 😆

    • @markehlert979
      @markehlert979 Рік тому +2

      @@et7281 thank you, I’m sure you will. That gives me an idea for a new channel I should start, an aging channel about skin care, and fashion

  • @nene-jz6ce
    @nene-jz6ce Рік тому +522

    12:37 Oh man, I’ve been watching SBSK for a long time and I’ve never had a video that hit this hard. I’m seventeen and this video was so freakishly relatable. My mother also owns a handgun and I’ve always thought about going the exact same way, even thinking about it a few hours ago. It’s just so odd that this was shown on my recommended at a perfect time for me. Mark’s advice and the things he would say if he could tell his old self the moment he was going to do it hit so deeply for me that I am quite speechless. And the fact that he was so glad he could still play his favorite instruments-piano is my biggest passion, and I know I’ll miss not being able to play anymore. I needed this video so much that I don’t even know what to say. Thank you for interviewing Mark, I just know this is comforting so many people.

    • @nancycarabetta8087
      @nancycarabetta8087 Рік тому +21

      Life can be hard sometimes but I’m slowly realizing that there is so much beauty in it as well.
      Wishing you so much love and joy in the future Nene

    • @caitlynursula1527
      @caitlynursula1527 Рік тому +20

      stay strong

    • @rociog.525
      @rociog.525 Рік тому +14

      Hang in there beautiful being, life has so many wonderful things to give you. From the bottom of my heart, I hope you stay strong for this world needs you. Biggest hugs ❤️❤️❤️

    • @jacks910
      @jacks910 Рік тому +14

      I’m happy this video graced you in your time of vulnerability, keep Mark’s words of wisdom about suicide/self harm in mind. Also, this comment was a good read, I’m glad I came across it. Stay strong! ❤️

    • @Ose5150
      @Ose5150 Рік тому +11

      love you. stay up

  • @LewisPsychology
    @LewisPsychology Рік тому +61

    I’ve been a psychologist for 30 years and never heard a story like this. Wishing you all the best my friend and thank you for sharing your journey.

    • @markehlert979
      @markehlert979 Рік тому +8

      I will always keep sharing, thank you so much for watching, your support in the work you do in the field. You’re making a huge difference.

  • @ziizification
    @ziizification Рік тому +303

    As a fellow victim of childhood SA who has cPTSD as a result of years of bullying and abuse, it's so powerful to see someone talk like this! There are things that have happened to me that I can still barely talk about so I know just how hard getting to this place really is. May Mark, myself, and all victims of abuse continue to work towards peace.

    • @AlishaHerbiederbie
      @AlishaHerbiederbie Рік тому +12

      As a fellow a survivor of CSA who has CPTSD, I fully agree.

    • @Estherbethe1...
      @Estherbethe1... Рік тому +2

      🔥✨💖✨🔥

    • @supergorillaz
      @supergorillaz Рік тому +4

      you are not alone. working towards peace for yourself will also heal the collective ♥️♥️

    • @Vigilante311
      @Vigilante311 Рік тому +5

      Best of luck in your life my friend and always remember theres so many good people out there that truly appreciate you

    • @Inexpressable
      @Inexpressable Рік тому +7

      all i wish for everyone is peace.

  • @micalah8282
    @micalah8282 Рік тому +95

    I will never, ever, be able to understand how anyone could do that to another human being. Let alone a child. I will never understand or comprehend how a parent could allow their child to be harmed that way. This world is so broken. This man is beautiful, and I am so grateful that he survived.

    • @nom3nnescio
      @nom3nnescio Рік тому +7

      World is not broken, only some persons.

  • @Ryan_Carder
    @Ryan_Carder Рік тому +22

    God bless the girlfriend who disclosed to you these secrets. It must have been incredibly tough for both of you. I'm so happy your path to healing has been so successful.

  • @BanjoBitty
    @BanjoBitty Рік тому +78

    "I have a right as a human and a person to have those emotions and feelings." What a great way of emphasizing why it's so important to talk about feelings.

    • @onlinetruth9979
      @onlinetruth9979 Рік тому

      Why talk about feeling when the system says not to?

  • @wildk2425
    @wildk2425 Рік тому +83

    I was trafficked from age 3-19 by my father. It's so important to get help and have an open line of communication with the people you're close to and not dismiss the feelings that come up. I think people avoid feelings thinking it'll be easier, but this video is proof that your feelings and emotions will always find a way out. Stay safe and healthy, everyone. Thank you SBSK and Mark.

    • @lesliejohnson1138
      @lesliejohnson1138 Рік тому +11

      I'm so sorry that happened to you!

    • @wildk2425
      @wildk2425 Рік тому +16

      @@lesliejohnson1138 Thank you, I like to think I'm stronger now. I'm 28 and the last 9 years have been a real test. Settling into a society I don't know and learning how to socialize has been challenging. I'm forever thankful for kind people and therapy.

    • @ananse77
      @ananse77 Рік тому +8

      I'm so sorry.

    • @giraffe116
      @giraffe116 Рік тому +2

      @@wildk2425 You’re inspirational

    • @kimberlymichelle7853
      @kimberlymichelle7853 Рік тому +4

      You are so strong you are a survivor !!! You are important, and you matter.

  • @Helping.Homless
    @Helping.Homless Рік тому +10

    Even tho he is blind he seems to be seeing clearly for the 1st time. He is inspiring

  • @aubreyarchives
    @aubreyarchives Рік тому +35

    I literally clapped for him when he said that he had healed and put it behind him. This is a major human vs traumatic human condition success. It's tragic when people are raised this way by adults who have no business being parents, but Mark is proof therapy is effective and necessary.

  • @jacks910
    @jacks910 Рік тому +375

    This was truly one of the most inspirational things I’ve seen on UA-cam. This was probably my favorite SBSK guest and episode. The way Mark spoke really kept me intrigued and interested throughout. I’m genuinely happy to hear he is going to become a counselor/speaker in the new year, at the college he applied to. I have no doubt he’ll do great things there and help many people who have gone through similar trauma. Also, it’s SOOO amazing to hear how musically talented and versatile Mark is, despite his disability. Btw, this is all coming from someone who rarely ever comments on SBSK videos, I just had to do so for this one. We value and love you, Mark!

    • @Kiki-yw9kc
      @Kiki-yw9kc Рік тому +6

      I totally agree with you , I feel the exact same . What an intelligent, articulated , and amazing young man ❤

    • @jacks910
      @jacks910 Рік тому +3

      @@Kiki-yw9kc 🙌🏻❤️

    • @mrs.elentz2336
      @mrs.elentz2336 Рік тому +7

      Yup, same... I agree with you 💯!! I looove this young man. What an incredible story of redemption and resilience!! 💕

    • @pennyp7382
      @pennyp7382 Рік тому +4

      Zaid always gets to my soul. I put his video on when I'm having a meltdown. I am just at the beginning ad of Mark's video here. I always try and watch the ads or let them play on SBSK. This channel is where the internet is being used for good and unity.

    • @markehlert979
      @markehlert979 Рік тому +5

      And I’m so glad I can inspire! Thank you for watching, and thank you so much for reaching out and commenting! Because thats what helps inspire me knowing that I can help reach people and make a difference. I’m glad you also enjoy my jams. There’s plenty more on my UA-cam channel if you want to hear some. And thanks for the love, sending it back.

  • @shillsdontspookme9208
    @shillsdontspookme9208 Рік тому +530

    C-PTSD isn't recognized as a disgnosis in America, yet. I'm here to advocate for having it added to the DSM because PTSD and C-PTSD are completely different and require different treatments. From one survivor to another, good job and thank you. Thank you for being brave enough to share your story with us. Humans are capable of amazing things, no matter the circumstances in our lives.

    • @humblemestizo5442
      @humblemestizo5442 Рік тому +10

      (Not relevant) I'm assuming by C-PTSD you mean childhood PTSD. In which case, I agree that its surprising there isnt already a distinction being made. In cases of "regular" PTSD typically the individual has already reached an age where the brain has seen a great deal of development. However, considering C-PTSD happens at a time where the brain has not yet fully developed, I can only imagine the impact it can have as the brain matures.

    • @gangstaboy9387
      @gangstaboy9387 Рік тому +44

      @@humblemestizo5442 Complex-PTSD,. @shillsdontspookme is referring to what Mark in the video suffers from

    • @humblemestizo5442
      @humblemestizo5442 Рік тому +10

      @UC6wzVHTp4QGFxVZxAVry16g right, I just made it to that part of the video, apologies. If anything It just goes to serve their point aswell. Much as I or anyone else claim otherwise I cant begin to comprehend what it must be like. I can only sympathize.

    • @gangstaboy9387
      @gangstaboy9387 Рік тому +5

      @@humblemestizo5442 No worries, just wanted to clearify!, I edited the answer a bit late

    • @jagarfi
      @jagarfi Рік тому +4

      Yes! as a school psychologist and person with C-PTSD - yes!

  • @shawnaclarkson9401
    @shawnaclarkson9401 Рік тому +26

    When he said he has good dreams now , and started telling his good dream I cried ....❤ that's so beautiful , I can't even explain how great it was to hear him say that

  • @mahdedarmo
    @mahdedarmo Рік тому +6

    If you know someone who’s struggling and you care about their outcome, please be gentle with them and show them kindness

  • @loveli420
    @loveli420 Рік тому +81

    I hope that this man gets every good thing in his life from here on forward, forever.

  • @kattella
    @kattella Рік тому +289

    This guy is a freakin inspiration and I truly mean that. His story is so painful and upsetting to imagine but seeing him today is just astounding. This is one of the best examples I can think of, of someone reclaiming themselves and their life. I wish him nothing but the very best 🖤

  • @Texas_Made_
    @Texas_Made_ Рік тому +32

    Oh man,this was DEEP.....I couldn't handle being blind suddenly..when he said "why is it so dark in here"😭😭😭. Thank you for sharing,love your personality by the way!

  • @marianarath4024
    @marianarath4024 Рік тому +33

    I’m really intrigued about his biological mom, what’s her problem? Like for real you know? You can’t be normal to act like she did, it’s insane! He’s so strong and inspirational!

    • @jordiflower
      @jordiflower Рік тому +2

      Me too…

    • @NormieNeko
      @NormieNeko Рік тому +2

      My sister-in-law's husband's first two wives were guilty of the same behavior. They have severely traumatized the children from each marriage. Maybe they were victims once, but they were definitely on meth (the husband has a negative history as well).
      Most of these kids currently live normal lives. The oldest has a disorder that prevents any form of empathy. He's not doing well.
      This is family or ancestral trauma.

    • @jordiflower
      @jordiflower Рік тому

      @@NormieNeko 💯

  • @Clo_Dub
    @Clo_Dub Рік тому +39

    What an eloquent man. His emotional intelligence is unreal. Hope he has a fantastic future - he certainly deserves it.

  • @orcashadow8989
    @orcashadow8989 Рік тому +851

    I didn't think his story could be much worse... Then 16:09 came along. Holy shit what is wrong with people???
    Mark, you're awesome. As a person who struggles with suicidal thoughts for many years, you are an inspiration to me, and probably many others. Keep being you. I'll be subscribing to your youtube channel.

    • @Tinytinytintiny
      @Tinytinytintiny Рік тому +187

      I felt like I was getting punched in the stomache when that bombshell hit. How DARE that woman hurt her own child, let alone sexually while in a coma!? What an absolute warrior this man is.

    • @johnnyzamorano_
      @johnnyzamorano_ Рік тому +50

      @@Tinytinytintiny i felt the same
      got in complete shock
      it's just too much to process :(
      this man is so brave

    • @velliebellie
      @velliebellie Рік тому +46

      OMG.. my stomach hurts listening to this part. I hope people see this and she has no peace for the rest of her life.

    • @corvideity
      @corvideity Рік тому +14

      @@Tinytinytintiny proof they prey on those who are grossly vulnerable (and i don't mean gross as in disgusting even though that's what it is - i mean using people in times of sheer weakness)

    • @Ritefita
      @Ritefita Рік тому +19

      why hospital's people aren't in jail?
      what the organisation is it?

  • @governmentrape
    @governmentrape Рік тому +31

    Bro really got me considering therapy. It’s always something I avoided even though the people in my life have been suggesting it to me for ages. I’m 31 and still struggle with things of the past that has mess me up and made life harder and harder to function the older I get. It’s just so hard to speak to someone and I bury things and get angry just as he did. This was really eye opening. Great video, thanks.

  • @dalton5903
    @dalton5903 Рік тому +25

    5 seconds in to seeing him and I can see that he's so full of life, he's such a great guy.

  • @williamsilbernagel1586
    @williamsilbernagel1586 Рік тому +50

    I’m going through severe depression rn and suffering cognitive impairment. I’ve been contemplating suicide because I feel like I’ll never be my old self again. This video has given me hope. Bless your heart for uploading it, and god bless this man for telling his story.

    • @anon_ya
      @anon_ya Рік тому +6

      God Bless you William ❤

    • @martybob55
      @martybob55 Рік тому +5

      Hold on William!

    • @martybob55
      @martybob55 Рік тому +6

      Hold on William, surround yourself with a couple of friends that can love and support you. You are deserving of compassion and love and life. Hold on William!

    • @williamsilbernagel1586
      @williamsilbernagel1586 Рік тому +4

      @@martybob55 thank you 🙏

    • @kaanmckenna7030
      @kaanmckenna7030 Рік тому +2

      Hold on william. We love you!

  • @Frying_Pan_xvx
    @Frying_Pan_xvx Рік тому +507

    It's amazing how well he's recovered. It really shows that miracles CAN happen and the miracle here is how here survived especially with all he's been through. It's so lovely how much therapy help him with his trauma, it's awful he had to go through that as a kid, NOBODY should have to go through that. I'm so happy he's doing better, have an amazing day ♥

    • @cindylou4841
      @cindylou4841 Рік тому +29

      What if... it weren't a miracle at all- but rather, a result of Mark's hard work in recovery and his support system?

    • @chashmal10
      @chashmal10 Рік тому +1

      @@cindylou4841 ok Cindy

    • @jdmmg4904
      @jdmmg4904 Рік тому +19

      @@cindylou4841 i agree with you. Talking about a miracle after all that has been done to him for me is just cynical. The "miracle" should have been him not having to go through that abuse in the first place.

    • @nightyew2160
      @nightyew2160 Рік тому +1

      @@jdmmg4904 In that case, I hope a lot of people experience miracles in their lives.

    • @kimberlysevastyanenko3798
      @kimberlysevastyanenko3798 Рік тому +3

      @@jdmmg4904 One definition of miracle is: an extremely outstanding or unusual event, thing, or accomplishment. This could fit that definition.

  • @NoircatMask
    @NoircatMask Рік тому +8

    a huge lesson to parents who want to shield their kid from their trauma by completely avoiding it. its the worst thing you could do. your kid is a living breathing person with a brain just like yours. it keeps experiences in, in ways you dont even comprehend, and those need to be worked through, not swept under the rug
    it blows my mind they tried to shield mark from his history but didn't even budge when he was living with a predator, like...who were they trying to protect, exactly

  • @imberart3798
    @imberart3798 Рік тому +12

    The whole video i was crying, and then that moment chris and Mark jamming together - filled me with pure happiness

  • @pankratz1921
    @pankratz1921 Рік тому +170

    Chris I need to say something to you. I've been watching your videos for years and oh my this is helping me now in my life. I was rarely exposed to people with severe disabilities so I would keep my distance. Your videos taught me so many things and now I started a job with disabled children and thanks to you I felt comfortable. I knew that even if they can't talk, they want and need me to. Thank you for playing a big role in me enjoying this job ❤️

  • @KosmosFilmKollektiv
    @KosmosFilmKollektiv Рік тому +331

    I really appreciate the dignity SBSK brings to these interviews and discussions and letting these people speak and explain. Incredibly humbling.

  • @Crumpit339
    @Crumpit339 Рік тому +20

    Such a handsome and intelligent guy, so inspirational and moving. Bless you, I’m so glad you’re still here and thriving.

  • @West_Coast_Mainline
    @West_Coast_Mainline Рік тому +3

    My man is a beast, most of us would give up, he didn’t

  • @SavageWhiteBread
    @SavageWhiteBread Рік тому +202

    This guy needs his own podcast or something he seems like a great guy to share stories with.
    This is a very strong video.
    Answered a lot of questions and really covered a lot of ground this was really great to watch 👍 dude's amazing.

    • @meghan5467
      @meghan5467 Рік тому +5

      I couldn’t agree more!

    • @ktcooki276
      @ktcooki276 Рік тому +8

      He does have his own UA-cam channel that he plans to expand.🙂

    • @justiceneeded01
      @justiceneeded01 Рік тому +9

      No doubt! I think he could really help a lot of people. I'm not sure what his career is, but he could definitely be a motivational speaker or give his own TED talk. His words are wonderful, insightful and intelligent and could help so many!

    • @katehenderson8194
      @katehenderson8194 Рік тому +4

      Now that is a fantastic idea!

    • @SonjaBlade608
      @SonjaBlade608 Рік тому +3

      Mark, we want to hear how you continue to succeed!! As a C-PTSD survivor, I could listen to his insight and gracious spirit regularly!! 💝

  • @krispiccone
    @krispiccone Рік тому +109

    So amazed by how emotionally healthy he is and how he can articulate his trauma and not be overcome by it anymore! Such an inspiration! This guy should be publicly speaking and be heard even more! Love that Chris had him on this channel!🙌🏻💕

  • @jordiflower
    @jordiflower Рік тому +45

    Such a powerful story. But wow, am I shocked at how many times people have failed you throughout your life. There is no reason you should have suffered so long, I don’t know how your “mom” was even able to contact and LIVE with you multiple times. Stay strong ♥️

  • @bdawg1118
    @bdawg1118 Рік тому +113

    He is probably my favourite guest so far. He is so emotionally intelligent and aware, and seems like a great friend to have because he is so educated and willing to talk. Good job on making it this far man, it’s a strong battle you’re winning

  • @noradanaher1522
    @noradanaher1522 Рік тому +131

    the strength this guy has is amazing. he deserves all the love and kindness in this world. im so glad he leaned into therapy. his spirit and determination is so beautiful. i think you're awesome mark!

  • @unknowndeoxys00
    @unknowndeoxys00 Рік тому +45

    I've listened to him for the full 29 minutes and I love him. Wish this world had more people like him out in the open.

  • @keard558
    @keard558 Рік тому +24

    I'm a doctor and it's really hard but important to hear how the hospital witness the mom abusing her son and did nothing.
    They have a vested interest in covering up the abuses from their staff; she wasn't.
    During med school I witnessed some vile things and was pressured into not reporting to keep my career. Everyday I think about that.
    May God bless you and your continued journey

  • @jackiecartwright9343
    @jackiecartwright9343 Рік тому +10

    I am so sorry you were not treasured as a beautiful boy who deserved to be loved. You are an amazing person. I’m so happy for your growth and ability to have learned to love yourself. I love you. Please keep us up to date with how you’re doing from time to time. I will always look forward to seeing your updates. Take care.

    • @altonito777
      @altonito777 Рік тому

      His youtube channel is in the description he has a lot of videos

  • @michiganabigail
    @michiganabigail Рік тому +147

    Wow. I’ve never connected so much with someone on SBSK before. I fell off a cliff about three weeks before I turned 19. I was in a coma for three months as well. I spent the first four years focused on physical healing and regaining my mental abilities, and for the past couple years I’ve been focused on dealing with all the trauma. I’ve never met anyone else with a story so much like mine! ♥️
    Also for me, playing piano has been so important in my recovery!!

    • @luravaklayful
      @luravaklayful Рік тому +6

      May your life be happy and joyful, you went through a lot. I hope you doing well now. I can't even imagine how strong you are if you managed to overcome all of your struggles and be able to talk about it. Thank you for sharing your story! Just wanted ro say some warm words to you. 🧡

    • @solomoon3083
      @solomoon3083 Рік тому +6

      I’m glad you made it Abby :)

    • @katehenderson8194
      @katehenderson8194 Рік тому +2

      The future is bright Abby 💜

    • @thinkhector
      @thinkhector Рік тому +2

      You guys can start the SBSK Band! 😆 I love this series and this was a very powerful interview. Congratulations on overcoming so much in your life. When that next obstacle comes you are gonna be ready for it cause you are already so strong.

    • @flxmkr
      @flxmkr Рік тому +2

      Did you make a video? I remember seeing one where I think she was paralyzed. She begins her video in a happy-go-lucky tone: “I jumped off a cliff!” My head had trouble processing the news with the delivery.

  • @tmp1111
    @tmp1111 Рік тому +30

    He's an amazing man. This ladies and gentleman, is an example of how psychotherapy works. He has worked so very hard on himself, as a therapist I can say that his insight and courage to face his pain shows through as strength and confidence.
    And he's a cutie

  • @NormieNeko
    @NormieNeko Рік тому +8

    Mark reminds me of my nephew. He didn't make it. He took his life outside of our house September 1, days before this video was published. My husband and I tried to help him days earlier, but he had this planned. We had no idea he had an attempt weeks earlier.
    I wish he would have gotten therapy. He couldn't process his emotions. He was so random. It was a tragedy. I miss him.

  • @starshot6785
    @starshot6785 Рік тому +13

    The fact that this man is still alive, still loving what he's about, is extremely courageous. What a dude. No matter how bad life can get, everyone is worthy of respecting what they're about.

  • @dumbmusorowan
    @dumbmusorowan Рік тому +54

    man mark seems like he'd be a great friend to have, he's so in tune with himself and accepting of the world, the good and the bad. plus he also seems like a great musician and i bet he has great taste in music. i hope i can be as articulate and wise as him some day.

  • @leo_wolf2747
    @leo_wolf2747 Рік тому +77

    He's so strong and the perseverance is so inspiring 💗💗

  • @rouislikescheezits8367
    @rouislikescheezits8367 Рік тому +12

    A few days ago, I attempted suicide. Watching this saved my life. It’s hard to continue, but now I know I can. Thank you.

  • @lalaw.1625
    @lalaw.1625 Рік тому +27

    I can relate to him in a lot of levels. Only people who went through abusive and pathological toxic parents or caregivers will know what it feels like... the amount of guilt, the feeling of being less than nothing.
    I am SO happy that he is healing. Each survivor that heals, brings a bit of healing to myself. Let's keep on the healing work folks. ✨️

    • @markehlert979
      @markehlert979 Рік тому +2

      I’m so sorry if you also had to deal with that toxicity in the abuse while growing up. But shows has so much strength that you can openly talk about it. I’m also really proud of you for seeing this as a healing process. That shows so much strength And you coming very far in your own acceptance and healing. Proud of you for your journey. Thank you for supporting mine so much.

    • @lalaw.1625
      @lalaw.1625 Рік тому +2

      @@markehlert979 Thank you so much 💙 That means a lot.

  • @Amber24426
    @Amber24426 Рік тому +153

    I feel so deeply appreciative to be able to hear Mark’s story. It is devastating to think how the horrific abuse inflicted on him as a child lead to such a violent and destructive suicide attempt… how that pain was unfairly inflicted and perpetuated inwards, towards the inner self, the blameless inner child… it reminds me of the ways I’ve mistreated myself in my own life, again and again, and the ways I see others all around me unfairly cruel towards themselves, probably because they are hurting from their own unresolved wounds of the past, too.
    I’m so glad Mark survived though- Mark, you are thoughtful, you are amazingly resilient… you are wonderful, deeply impactful, beautifully unique in your own special way… thank you for sharing this piece of yourself with the world.

    • @waxandsulfur
      @waxandsulfur Рік тому +8

      Your comment sent me to tears. I relate a lot. And I hope you’re doing well.

  • @ShogoMakishimaxx
    @ShogoMakishimaxx Рік тому +68

    As a sufferer of cPTSD, I thought that it was normal to not remember things before 5, but when I started talking to people who had "clean/normal" childhoods, they could remember things from 2-3 years old. I was also sexually abused at multiple phases in my life starting at age 4. A LOT of the feelings of feeling unloved, unwanted, feeling inadequate, not good enough, wanting to take my life, being deceived by people who were supposed to be close to me, STILL feeling like this on some days (not suicidal thank goodness), therapy to work through the pain even though its hard...I felt this story 1,000,000%. THIS is what its like to be through the ringer of life (in one of the sad ways) I feel glad that he's here right now and yet I feel bad for him that the very people that should have protected him didn't (yes, I mean his dad as well....I understand that's what he was trying to do, but not telling him of his mother's deeds is not good whatsoever). This man seems like he has support, but not from the people who should have absolutely be there. From one cPTSD to another, I'm so sorry, but I'm so happy for you at the same time.

    • @imaginationturtle5447
      @imaginationturtle5447 Рік тому +3

      Sorry for what you’ve been through and good luck through your recovery!

    • @ShogoMakishimaxx
      @ShogoMakishimaxx Рік тому +1

      @@imaginationturtle5447 thank you, I appreciate it! 🙌🏾

    • @nom3nnescio
      @nom3nnescio Рік тому +2

      I don't remember my childhood at age of 5,so was I abused?

    • @xobls
      @xobls Рік тому +4

      @@nom3nnescio I agree with this in the nicest way lol. I don’t remember anything before like age 4/5 but I was not sexually abused or abused at all, I had a wonderful childhood 🥰 everyone’s different!

    • @fiasco7724
      @fiasco7724 Рік тому

      I can’t remember beyond 4 years old

  • @sarahalbers5555
    @sarahalbers5555 Рік тому +1

    I would love to see this beautiful man with a therapy dog. He has such a huge heart 💜

  • @Aei934
    @Aei934 Рік тому +17

    I really needed to see this episode. My therapist moved away five months ago and I never bothered searching for a new one. We were making great strides working through my PTSD brought on by being sexually abused as a child. I have taken a step back in recent months and can feel myself starting to head down the dark path of regret and depression again. Thank you so much for sharing your story and making yourself so vulnerable. I commend you!

  • @wanderingwanderer1016
    @wanderingwanderer1016 Рік тому +11

    When his family found out he was moving in with his biological mom, they should've told him the truth. That's messed up.

    • @katehenderson8194
      @katehenderson8194 Рік тому +6

      And what of the hospital?!! They should have called the cops on his Mum and explained to him what happened and organise therapy ffs

    • @Rhiannon.Moonchild
      @Rhiannon.Moonchild Рік тому

      massive neglect of duty of care. much respect and love to this man

  • @vidhoard
    @vidhoard Рік тому +8

    5:15 unreal... what a horrendous, heartless, disgusting thing to do to child

    • @vidhoard
      @vidhoard Рік тому +6

      16:13 I can't even believe a person could be this evil

  • @tamsinboldick7035
    @tamsinboldick7035 Рік тому +2

    Children should never be silenced when they have important issues/ traumas to talk about.

  • @psychotikpaisano
    @psychotikpaisano Рік тому +5

    He's so articulate and has so much insight and positive energy, I wouldn't ever guess he dealt with traumatic brain injury from attempted suicide. He's really inspirational

  • @Kree.B.
    @Kree.B. Рік тому +52

    I am astounded at how incredibly strong Mark is. It makes me want to continue to face and fight my own demons. I hope he continues to heal, that he thrives and finds happiness and joy everyday because he deserves it a little more than most. I also hope justice is served to those who hurt him in some fitting way.

  • @meganr3183
    @meganr3183 Рік тому +14

    If hospital staff caught her sexually abusing him why were the police not involved?

  • @crayCray420
    @crayCray420 Рік тому +22

    I'm furious for him about his 'mother' You are a true inspiration. I'm extremely impressed with you

  • @garden_vibes7796
    @garden_vibes7796 Рік тому +7

    My longterm highschool boyfriend was sexually abused by his step dad. He's tried to kill himself before, which I knew, but not why. I didn't know until this year and we've been together for 6 years. Trauma is scary. This interview makes me really happy to see. You can not only survive, but live a life of acknowledging and working with the trauma ♡♡♡♡

  • @margafrantz4406
    @margafrantz4406 Рік тому +18

    Sounds like he’s had an amazing therapist! I know he has done incredibly difficult work in getting to love himself - he is reaping the rewards. Powerful testimony.

  • @emilyjadee9588
    @emilyjadee9588 Рік тому +50

    “I decided… I can't relive my past because I can't change it”. My favourite quote from Mark in this video. As someone who has been diagnosed with C-PTSD, depression and anxiety, I'm telling you now, this video is life changing for people who are struggling right now. Especially for people who are resurfacing their traumas. It is so beyond powerful hearing his story, and I'm honoured to have heard it. The fact that he has learnt to accept and overcome through therapy and by using his other senses like communication/music is so impressive and inspiring. Therapy and creative passions are also my favourite tools for recovery as well (I'll admit I was sceptical before starting therapy, I just needed to find the right approach/therapist). Thank you, Chris, for capturing Mark's story and for raising awareness for those recovering from trauma and living with C-PTSD.

  • @breezytate9665
    @breezytate9665 Рік тому +37

    I’m not done with the video yet about 13 minutes in . But I just want to say this video is making me think about things differently and I’m going to make a therapy appointment. I’ve been so depressed lately and I’ve always had the feeling that I’m unlovable because of traumas I’ve been through . The last couple of days taking my life has sounded like a vacation though I believe I would never hurt my son that way, I’m always scared one day I’ll dissociative and just do it . On Monday I’m going to call and make an appointment. Thank you so much for this .

    • @jordiflower
      @jordiflower Рік тому +2

      🙏🏼

    • @meeganerose98
      @meeganerose98 Рік тому +4

      Such a brave and courageous step. Therapy changed my life, gave me hope and honestly was incredible. Wish you nothing but love and well-being you beautiful human being 💛

    • @breezytate9665
      @breezytate9665 Рік тому +1

      @@meeganerose98 aww you’re so kind thank you so so much 💛

    • @aspasiakrouskas9607
      @aspasiakrouskas9607 Рік тому +3

      Proud of you for taking that step💗

    • @IAmWhyWeCantHaveNiceThings
      @IAmWhyWeCantHaveNiceThings Рік тому +2

      I’m proud of you even though I don’t know you. This stuff is so hard to talk about and ask for help for. Therapy is the reason I’m still here :)

  • @audiecakes
    @audiecakes Рік тому +7

    I have been in a deep, hopeless depression and this video is inspiring me to help myself. Thank you.

  • @artyom6167
    @artyom6167 Рік тому +119

    This honestly feels like a wake up call for me, i went to the ER a few days ago because of my OCD after months of trying to see a psychiatrist, i see a lot of Mark in me, we even share the same style and i also (try) to play music and sometimes sing
    I'm so glad that Mark is in a good place right now, and i know he's going to help a lot of people not only by working as a CRSS but also with this video, thank you Chris and Alyssa for being there so people can have a place to share their story and help others as well

    • @necrotic_taco8702
      @necrotic_taco8702 Рік тому +8

      I truly hope you're doing well, man.

    • @lovingmayberry307
      @lovingmayberry307 Рік тому +7

      I hope you can accept this "wake up call" as a much deserved gift.
      💙✌️

    • @jessicakleeberger2504
      @jessicakleeberger2504 Рік тому +7

      OCD is hell. Hope you can find the treatment you need to thrive, friend. ❤️

    • @dorotadonigiewicz1876
      @dorotadonigiewicz1876 Рік тому +4

      Artyom - well done for taking the first step and going to the ER. I hope you are getting the help you need and are slowly feeling better.

    • @artyom6167
      @artyom6167 Рік тому +1

      @@necrotic_taco8702 Thank you, i'm doing well now

  • @lynettetracht1836
    @lynettetracht1836 Рік тому +10

    i had to stop the video at 16:27 and take a deep breath, I'm not really sure how to process such a thing...like WTF???????

  • @desubtilizer
    @desubtilizer Рік тому +2

    Seeking help is a strength it is NOT a weakness. Through therapy he has become a stronger person and been able to process rather than suppress what he has been through. He has found his calling in helping people through the same struggles he has been through.

  • @maxwell7798
    @maxwell7798 Рік тому +6

    I'm totally impress by his recovery.
    I wish him a long and busy life.

  • @Preslee_luvsyou
    @Preslee_luvsyou Рік тому +64

    As some one who attempted suicide this really impacted me and I understand exactly what he said and his emotions and hit thoughts and the psychosis before. He’s so strong and he has all of our support ❤️💕

    • @TraciHilbers
      @TraciHilbers Рік тому +9

      I didn't actually go through it but I actually wanted to drive my vehicle into the lake near me but leaving my daughters behind stopped me,I am a survivor of DV from my ex husband,I was diagnosed with PTSD,Anxiety and depression,I am so glad I have my counselor,my kids and my close friends who are there for me,I still have things that still trigger me but I try and use my coping skills

    • @lovingmayberry307
      @lovingmayberry307 Рік тому +5

      @@TraciHilbers
      Sending you lots of love, Traci!
      ❤️💗💓💞

    • @SonjaBlade608
      @SonjaBlade608 Рік тому +1

      I'm so grateful you all have another chance at life. May you continue to be blessed, even through the struggles! 💝

    • @lesliejohnson1138
      @lesliejohnson1138 Рік тому +2

      I did too. Had a really bad attempt. I'm a survivor of severe child abuse. I know how it messes with your brain. I need to get to a point where I can talk about it and not feel so much shame.

    • @Preslee_luvsyou
      @Preslee_luvsyou Рік тому

      @@lesliejohnson1138 honestly same! I understand how you feel. I went though the same thing!

  • @IVIr_Smith
    @IVIr_Smith Рік тому +24

    Mark has a very good story-telling voice. I know in this video, he's primarily talking about very traumatic stories of his youth, but I feel very drawn in with everything he says.

    • @jacks910
      @jacks910 Рік тому +1

      Me too, the way he explains stuff along with his voice really keeps me intrigued and interested. One of my fav SBSK guests.

  • @Blabla-cg3ul
    @Blabla-cg3ul 10 місяців тому +2

    "The worst thing you're going to do is be a happier person"
    I love this quote and it is a beautifully universal motivation for wanting to overcome any anxiety keeping you down.
    There is great strength in words that can inspire, it can only come from a source of authenticity and healing, it truly emanates healthy self love.
    Sharing the experiences of building your inner strength and love is a fundamental key for many towards the same path of well being, and a sign of bravery and having conquered your own battles.
    God bless.

  • @paran315
    @paran315 Рік тому +39

    He lost his sight and went through a serious brain injury, yet is extremely intelligent and thoughtful than most people...including me. Thank you for sharing your story. I'm going through a difficult time but you inspire me to push through.

    • @decidev
      @decidev Рік тому +2

      Not to mention sexually abused by his mother. He’s so inspirational. Hope you feel better soon bro, make sure you talk to people about your thoughts.