STORY TIME: Our BIGGEST FIGHT this year| Lessons learnt from the FIGHT
Вставка
- Опубліковано 12 жов 2024
- Hey Fam,
Here we are to air our dirty laundry once again. We are sharing a story about our biggest fight this year and lessons learnt from that fight.
We trust that you'll enjoy and learn a thing or two.
Do remember to to LIKE before watching, SUBSCRIBE while watching, COMMENT while watching and SHARE with your peeps when done watching. DO NOT SKIP THOSE ADS
Colabs and enquiries:
Contact:elenemfam@gmail.com
Facebook: / lethoandmbulelo
Instagram: / letho_and_mbulelo
www.tiktok.com...
My relationship has taught me that a fight does not equate a breakup, which is something I’ve struggled with in the past.
I’ve also learnt that relationships are a sequence of forgiving each other, and having grace for one another.
It’s hard to fight with your partner but it’s inevitable, you’re just learning and adjusting to this person that is now a part of your life, so there will be disagreement, you just need to always find a way back to each other!❤
Yeah that is so true ♥️
This was the sweetest fight. As people we need problem solving skills and ongoing coucelling. In a nut shell fight with love. As woman, we need to learn how to speak to our husbands with respect.
“Sweetest fight” 🤣🤣🤣🤣
How Letho looks at Taka Lulo when he's introducing himself 😅😅🔥🔥🔥🔥
😂😂😂
It's so beautiful how she just let's him be. When I started watching I thought the the intro was so extra but I snapped out of and learnt from it because of how much space she gives him to just be. I'm learning to actually just do this with my husband and loved ones in general.
There's an opportunity to learn in the smallest moments
It's magical isn't it! It speaks volumes...
18:46 I needed to hear this. I let things fester. By the time I address it ibolile and it's hard to resolve. I like to think before I address things, but sometimes it is too much.
❤️❤️❤️
Oh you guyz are so blessed umtshato wenu is going far such beautiful union oh this is beautiful to fight nd laugh about it niphinde your love is so beautiful hayi ndingathetha kuse phandle i love you guyz ❤❤❤
Siyabulela kakhulu ❤️❤️
My toxic trait now is silent treatment. Or I pretend nothing ever happened, that time it is all building up.
I became like this because I used to be the vocal one while hubby is the quiet one. I would voice out and he wouldn't meet me halfway so I changed and became like him now 😂
I feel you
lol it’s funny how this always happens, usually one of the partners change to become more like the other. In our marriage Mbulelo is the more talkative one and wants things to be addressed, over the years I have also become like him 😂😂
@@LethoMbulelo 😂
Hey guys, as young you are i just learn a lot from you. Thank you for sharing. i love you so much❤
Thank you so much 🥹🥹❤️❤️
I learnt something from my husband, he says if someone says something you've done or said hurt them, that's it don't try to validate their feelings, even if wena you were saying it jokingly how they say it made them feel that's exactly how they feel.
100%!!!
Communication is the only key and solution.
True 😊😊
Also it's so funny when you revisit the issue and realize ukuthi "kodwa bekuyini nje le". Look at yourselves laughing at each other. 😂😂 Love is really beautiful 🤞❤️
Yazi 😂😂😂
Thetha vele uma uzizwa unomsindo ngalesosikhathi tnx guys we learn asimvumeli u devil.❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Hello family!, like Mbulelo, my toxic trait when it comes to arguments/opposition is passive aggression and I geuinely want to overcome it coz i want to be one's safe place, plus its not Godly nje! I dont have a partner yet so there's no content to share!, Thank u fam. Do stay blessed! 💖💖
@@SindisiweKunene-ht6zl yazi that's also mines. My baby daddy use to call me spit fire. I've prayed about it and I hope my future husband will never experience this side of me because I believe and thank God that it won't be there anymore.
@@khumalolungile973 Amen sister
Thank you fam for sharing, we’ll all working on ourselves ♥️
Hey hey here don't skip ads ❤
Please!!!
Abakhonzi abakwenzi oko udinga to pray hard mbulelo its not like you bro njengenceku mina i will pray too because we love you guys asinazi ziqu we see you on you tube.❤❤❤❤😮
Yo bantase ziyakhala kule mshado but asiyindawo maluphela olwakho uthando we continue ngolwani😂😂😂 love you guys
And injalo😂😂😂
Asiyindawo 😂😂😂
This was worth sharing, thank you family ❤❤
Thank you fam ♥️♥️
Thank you for sharing this guys, we are honestly learning a lot from you! Yes, I totally agree, fights are so draining mentally and emotionally! Anyways we love you fam! 😊
Thank you so much fam, we love you too ♥️
Letho..there's a woman I watched sometime here on UA-cam. Please watch her video..she teaches alot of girls who are married about how to behave to keep your marriage going. She's full of wisdom for lady's in marriage..It's really necessary and it might help nje for future
She even has her number..
Hi. Can you please share the ladies UA-cam name so I can watch her. I just learned about myself with this video
@@tlotlophenyoprooz6324 hey, do you know Chris Network? The woman named Mme Matekoane??
Please watch her videos and her numbers are on the description
Thank you for sharing ♥️
Powerful guys. I love this
Thank you fam ♥️
Love love the consistency 🙏🎉🎉🙏
😊😊😊
L&M fam thank you guys so much for being transparent and actually inviting us into your life the way you do♥️♥️
You two are authentic and genuine. Which most people don't do..
And I would like to know, I heard you said you go to church on Saturday? Which church is that?
Thank you so much 🙏🏾🙏🏾.
We go to Hope Restoration Ministries on Sundays, if we said Saturday it must have been in error
May God help you through every situation and may u settle fights with the help of God.. no one is perfect but with Good communication and love all things are possible ❤
Thank you 😊😊❤️❤️
Thank you fam for the vlog, Ave zincinci ke neznto zenzi fight😂kona it's not easy shem I don't wonna lie, but spnde skumbule that ukuzthoba to each other kwenzi peace coz tjooo that's so true guys conflict is sooo draining and unhealthy. The Bible says 'do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold' so nje we can fight and spnde sxolelane.
Yeah, we must never allow the devil to rule over our marriages. Going to bed in peace with each other is the first step 🤞🏾
I pray my self because my husband uyaba njalo nenkani ibhoke njengomkhonzi ngiyambiza ongabonwayo.❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉😂
I just love you L&M fam❤
Thank you 🥹🥹❤️❤️
My partner told me in the beginning of our relationship ukuth we never raise voices at each other... our fights are do boring coz I can't shout!😂😂 and we don't sleep ingalunganga... kungamane kuse ekseni 😂😂😂 imagine talking ungafuni! 😂😂
Ndihlekiswa ngu kungamane kuse 😂😂😂😂😂
Ufuna ifights zamamovies wena where people shout at each other and throw things and all 😂😂
@sibusiwengqwemesa9024 😂😂😂😂
Lutho! But can I sleep in it ngehlise umoya ke bese ksasa sengiCalm syakhuluma. Cabanga u need to speak indaba isakushisa bese don't raise your voice futhi! Marriage is hard sometimes kodwa hhhay hhhay @LethoMbulelo
@@sibusiwengqwemesa9024yebo oe awulokothi ulale kungakakhulunywa! If u have the skill kwata fast ubhodle fast ukhulume so that by sleep time sekuphelile
Thank you Family 😍😍
❤️❤️❤️
I do wish besingakwazi uhlala phantsi silingise zinto nomyeni wam but phi ke Sana sigqiba veki singathethi ngoba I always apologise for izinto endingazenzanga qha funa kube ryt endlini but ngoku am tired Sana
Xolo sisi marn. love and light🥺❤
So sorry about that, we’re praying things get better 🤍🤍
Passive aggression is my toxic trait and I HATE THAT about me. lol Like you bro, I'll emphasize I am not fighting, weeeeeeh umaMoloi will EXPLODE when I say that💔💔💔
Eish bro. I dont know why we feel the need to emphasise 😂😂😂
@@LethoMbulelo 😅😅😅😅 maybe because it upsets her as much as it upsets umaMoloi🤣🤣🤣
I just had one with my wife this morning. Guess what, it was over kids' lunch. This afternoon, we're still guarded. No one wants to extend an olive branch. Interestingly, it's the first one after a long time.
It’s crazy how things that start arguments can appear small.. we hope you were able to work it out 😊
My beautiful family ❤❤
Hey fam ♥️♥️♥️
❤❤L&M fam🎉😊helooooo
Hello fam 😊😊❤️❤️
My favs 😍
❤️❤️❤️
Saaana andisahleki cause Lethu is me and i am her🤣🤣🤣🤣enjoyed the sit down guys
😂😂😂😂
Lol I love your guyz sense of humour 😂😅
Thank you 😃❤️
Seems like the fight/argument was interesting.
😂😂😂
❤❤❤
❤️❤️❤️
I love you 💖
Owam u baby vele bengathi anga fainter net ndithi (baby can we talk)😂😂😂into ayithethileyo last Saturday isandihleli kabi and yena he mived from that without saying ngiyaxolisa i guess he really meant it sana noba ndiziva nhani mna okusalayo umile yena yena 😢
Yho we’re so sorry about that. We hope you won’t lose heart in expressing how you feel regardless of how it’s received 🤍🤍
My toxic trait is silent treatment and I will silently cry 🙈
That’s a killer 😂😂
My toxic trait is silent treatment guys😢 and nginochuku it can go for days
lol Yeeeeyi
@@siyabonganhlakaniphomatheb1039 I'm not proud of it 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈
@@AllThingsLindo lol I'd hope you're not 😅😅. I replied to your comment cos siyafana, uyiwele lam🚮😔
@@siyabonganhlakaniphomatheb1039 and it's such a painful thing to do komuntu omthandayo🙈🙈
@@AllThingsLindo don't I know it!! WeLindo, when it's done to me ngathi ngingazisakaza😖😖 I just see disrespect QHA🤞🏽
Arg man you guys are a blessing 🤞🏽🥹🤍, currently engaged to be married this coming December and I must I am learning so much from you guys ❤
Thank you and all the best with everything ❤️❤️
❤️❤️❤️
♥️♥️♥️
How I love you ❤
We love you too fam ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Yea, and since you're believers im sure you know that pride is the biggest sin to God. Pride Is a demonic spirit called Leviathan..please pray about it, and get delivered from that unclean spirit
🤍
Hello love❤😂
😂😂😂❤️❤️
How can I make him watch this 😢
idlale ekhona babes uzibukelele nje but volume for everyone🤣🤣
@@sindisiweyonga1842 😂
😂😂😂
@@sindisiweyonga1842unyanisile yazi girl 😂😂😂😂😂 indlebe ziyeva sana
This is so beautiful to listen to. I’ve learnt and unlearned just by listening to you guys🥹🙌🏽Conflict resolution strategy is important.
❤❤❤
❤️❤️❤️❤️
❤❤❤❤❤
❤❤❤❤
♥️♥️♥️
❤❤❤❤
♥️♥️♥️
❤❤❤❤
❤️❤️❤️
❤❤❤❤❤
❤️❤️❤️❤️
❤❤❤❤❤
❤️❤️
❤❤❤❤
♥️♥️♥️♥️