Possession and Relationship .... are poles apart ....... it can b poisoness .... A person can b very happy husband and a happy friend too... We must respect .. personal sensualities... Major Aulakh.
very well articulated discussion and Shelly Kaur"s analysis is to the point. Ultimately cheating is a result of poor self esteem. never thought like that. thanks.
Anchor Singh Saab looks infatuated with the ma’am Shelly Kaur…on a good note note in lighter vain but it’s cute as she has so endearing, charming personality….Good luck
? It appears very Interesting Intellectual conversation for the Times Today.... but micro Cheating -Crush etc ordinarily get in short circuits ... on natural connect chemistry ....& perhaps gets communicated - responded almost instantly .. Starting with infatuation levels ....feel good in company of each other......
This idea of wedding came so that relationship will not be come and go - live in relationships mostly are like a station but wedding is the relationship for whole life with respect reliability and care for each other whole life.
What ever ... There is nothing known as .. Cheating in relationship .. we must not over look .. INSTANT .. RELATIONSHIP.. be it a man or woman .. it can happen anywhere any time... It is all about .. Mental Maturity.. NO ONE IS MOSES .
I can understand, same happened with me after coming to canada .. and in 2 months he was clear to leave me and wanted to live alone .. that was just a pretext .. now I can’t trust on anybody
@@thenaturevlogger9816 learn from Ma'am Shelly kour, she has prooven that husband is not very essential part of the women, there are many more way to live your life and you can alone feel complete.
Relationship vich bahut cheating hundi hai ji khas bandya valon aurat kol bache hon te time hi nahi hunde naal Kam kardiya kudiya jananiya kive rok sakde bandeya de ser Sawa chheti pe jandi aurat bache le kithe jaave padho likho te apna Ghar banao aurat vaste sahi hai koi fer jande jaaye ser dhakan nu te hai ma pio vi ban jandi par pio ma nahi Banda jaldi mare te viah Kara lainde. Aurat nahi karandi
Dirty banan te animal ban k hi rehan aaye ne human .nonsense I don’t understand seriously why they hurt other person with cheating and manipulations off
😂लव this discussion i am die heart fan of shelly ma'am, i approximately love her adore her admire her and she know it very well, but i have not hide anything with my wife, ab kya ye bhi cheating hai😂😂😂😂
@@ShellyKaur jab councious hua to aap ko maa maan liya, jise dekhte hi main khil jata hun, Jeevan me sukh hai mout ka dar nhi, aur log muskurahat dekh kar pagal hue ja rahe hain, suru se hin deewano ki tarah jiya hai maine, no body can understand my happiness level mom.
MY PRECTICAL..40 YRS ( SPECIAL 2014..24 SUNDER DOST WOMEN SANGH WITHOUT SEX RELATIONSHIP DOSTI BOHAT ANAD WALI HOTI HAI...KOI DARR NAHI K HAALAT CHENGE HOJAWAN GE .** AUR SUNDER BOHAT SUNDER ACTIVE WOMEN DI DOSTI. UTNA TIME ** DILLCHASP ..HAU JABB TAKK. NAHI SEX SAMBANDH **** SHADI WALE MEN KO KOI MUSHKAL. NAHI.
Kudiya da vee iki saal Diya hon te viah kar dende par shuru vich hi pata lag jande ki e Banda besabra asantusht hai kudi je paath Karn wali kirtan Karn wali hoye man kadi unu dekh es raste te nahi chalde eda de log tanderut khade chade rende kiuki oh parwah hi nahi karde sevety fiv e di umer de vich vi vehicle chuk sad di dhup vich bahane bana bana jande e Kam si o Kam si Bai shami chale jaai na sunder hi nahi Sara din bahar raat vi apna alg saunde me dekhya aurat heart patient hon te vi koi ni sago mauka milde ki apni marji di ji ndgi karde paise ne pension hai o kyo rahega ek kol bada Ganda time hai khande vi vadiya umer vi lambi karde Paisa bahut hunkaar paida karde aurat vi haar jandi ki chhado Eva sadna mast raho ehi hai badhi ki kare eda de log ehi sansakara ch palde te ehi Kari jande ek chhd duji fer teeji rab Jane rakhde nahi thakde nahi bhaine
How is it? An inappropriate topic cheating is so rampant in our community and talking about is bad, but doing an acting upon it is appropriate according to you, let me know.
If you listen carefully, it’s not about aashiqi it’s about cheating which happens a lot in our community and people do get triggered when this is brought to surface please listen carefully before commenting
@@ShellyKaur haha Naxal’s macro socialism got confused and have started micro cheating in response to macro and micro economy of capitalism ? ਭੰਗ ਪੀਣੇ ਵਿਹਲੇ ਰਹਿ ਕੇ ਸਰਬੱਤ ਦਾ ਭਲਾ ਕਰਨਗੇ , ਮੇਰੀ ਜੁੱਤੀ ?
ਮੈਡਮ ਸ਼ੈਲੀ !
ਤੁਸੀਂ ਇਕ perfect ਇਨਸਾਨ ਹੀ ਹੋ।
ਇੰਨੀਆਂ ਡੂੰਗੀਆਂ ਗੱਲਾਂ ਕੋਈ ਆਮ ਇਨਸਾਨ ਨਹੀਂ ਕਰ ਸਕਦਾ।
You are a Librated woman. 👍
Thank you dear
ਬਹੁਤ ਖੂਬਸੂਰਤ ਗੱਲਬਾਤ । ਮੈਡਮ ਸ਼ੈਲੀ ਹੁਰਾਂ ਨੇ ਕਮਾਲ ਕਰ ਦਿੱਤੀ ।
Thank u
Very intersting thind sahib Shelly ji bhut vadhia jankari dsde han
ਬੀਬਾ ਜੀ ਤੁਸੀ 💯 right
Possession and Relationship .... are poles apart ....... it can b poisoness .... A person can b very happy husband and a happy friend too... We must respect .. personal sensualities... Major Aulakh.
Very good and true speech, Shelly ji.
ਧਿੰਥ ਸਾਹਿਬ ਸਵਾਲ ਬਹੁਤ ਹੀ ਵਧੀਆ ।ਮੈਡਮ ਸ਼ੈਲੀ ਜੀ ਤੁਹਾਡੇ ਵਿਸ਼ੇ ਬਹੁਤ ਨਾਜ਼ਕ ਹੁੰਦੇ ਹੈ ਵਾਲ ਦੀ ਸਿੱਲ ਲਾਉਂਦੇ ਹੋ।ਮੈਕਰੋਚੈਟਿੰਗ ਨਾਸ ਸੱਕੀ ਪੈਦਾ ਹੋਣ ਗੇ। ਮੇਰ ਖਿਆਲ ਹੈ ਇਕ ਪਾਸਾ ਹੀ ਚੰਗਾ ।ਗੱਲ-ਬਾਤ ਰੌਚਕ ਤੇ ਗਿਆਨ ਭਰਪੂਰ ਸੁਕਰੀਆ। ਹੋਮਿਓ ਸੈਕਸੂਅਲ ,ਨਸ਼ੇ ਕੁਦਰਤ ਦੇ ਨਿਯਮਾਂ ਖ਼ਿਲਾਫ਼ ਚੱਲਣ ਵਾਲ਼ਿਆਂ ਵਿਸ਼ਿਆਂ ਤੇ ਵੀ ਗੱਲ-ਬਾਤ ਕਰੋ ਪਲੀਜ
Micro cheating can also be worded as -possessiveness, intolerance, jealousy, weak heart of the other partner. Love and believe your partner.
Shelly ji and thind sahib always have interesting conversations
Thank u ji
ਵਿਸ਼ਾ social values system, moral values system, micro cheating ਕਰਕੇ ਕਾਫੀ ਗੰਭੀਰ ਹੋ ਗਿਆ ਸੀ ਪਰ ਅੰਤ ਵਿੱਚ personal values system ਦੀ ਗੱਲ ਕਰਕੇ ਥੋੜਾ ਹਲਕਾ ਹੋ ਗਿਆ, ਦੋ ਕੰਡੀਸਨ ਹੁੰਦੀਆਂ ਹਨ 1. ਕੋਈ ਇਨਸਾਨ ਇਹਨਾਂ ਸੰਬੰਧਾਂ ਨੂੰ ਗਲਤ ਸਮਝ ਕੇ, ਉਸਦੇ ਖਿਲਾਫ ਬੋਲ ਕੇ ਵੀ ਚੋਰੀ ਸੰਬੰਧ ਕਰਦਾ ਹੈ 2.ਇੱਕ ਇਨਸਾਨ ਇਹਨਾਂ ਸੰਬੰਧਾਂ ਵਿੱਚ ਕੋਈ ਗਲਤੀ ਨਹੀਂ ਸੋਚਦਾ (ਆਪਣੀ intelligent, intelectual, liberal ਤੇ free ਸੋਚ ਕਰਕੇ ) ਜਾਂ ਨਾਜਾਇਜ਼ ਨਹੀਂ ਮੰਨਦਾ ਪਰ social values system ਕਰਕੇ ਇਹਨਾਂ ਸੰਬੰਧਾਂ ਨੂੰ ਚੋਰੀ ਕਰਦਾ ਹੈ ਤਾਂ ਉਨ੍ਹਾਂ ਦੋਵਾਂ ਇਨਸਾਨਾਂ ਦੀ ਨੀਅਤ ਵਿੱਚ ਜ਼ਮੀਨ ਅਸਮਾਨ ਦਾ ਫ਼ਰਕ ਹੈ, ਪਹਿਲਾ ਸੌ਼ਂਕ ਨਾਲ ਗਲਤ ਕੰਮ ਕਰ ਰਿਹਾ ਹੈ ਤੇ ਦੁੱਜਾ ਠੀਕ ਕੰਮ ਵੀ ਮਜਬੂਰੀ ਵਿੱਚ ਚੋਰੀ ਕਰ ਰਿਹਾ ਹੈ। ਬਾਕੀ .... ਜੇ ਕੁਦਰਤੀ ਰੱਬ ਦੇ ਬਣਾਏ ਇਨਸਾਨ ਦੀ ਗੱਲ ਕਰੀਏ ਤਾਂ ਉਸ ਵਿੱਚ ਕੁਦਰਤੀ ਫਿਤਰਤ ਹੁੰਦੀ ਹੈ ਕਿ ਉਹ ਹਰ ਸੋਹਣੇ, ਚੰਗੇ, ਮਨ ਭਾਉਂਦੇ ਇਨਸਾਨ ਨਾਲ ਗੱਲਬਾਤ ਕਰਨੀ, ਨੇੜਤਾ ਕਰਨੀ, ਸੰਬੰਧ ਬਨਾਉਣੇ ਚਾਹੁੰਦਾ ਹੈ ਪਰ ਪਸ਼ੂਆਂ ਤੋਂ ਇਨਸਾਨਾਂ ਨੂੰ ਵੱਖ ਕਰਨ ਵਾਲੇ ਸਮਾਜਿਕ ਸਿਸਟਮ (ਖਾਸ ਕਰਕੇ ਹਿੰਦੋਸਤਾਨੀ ਸਮਾਜਿਕ ਸਿਸਟਮ ) ਇਨਸਾਨ ਨੂੰ ਇਹ ਆਜ਼ਾਦੀ ਨਹੀਂ ਦਿੰਦਾ, ਹਾਲਾਂਕਿ ਪੱਛਮੀ ਦੇਸ਼ਾਂ ਦੇ ਸਮਾਜਿਕ ਸਿਸਟਮ ਇਨਾਂ ਸੰਬੰਧਾਂ ਦੀ ਕੁਦਰਤੀ ਫਿਤਰਤ ਨੂੰ ਜਾਣ ਕੇ ਮਰਦ ਤੇ ਔਰਤ ਦੋਵਾਂ ਨੂੰ ਬਰਾਬਰ ਦੀ ਖੁੱਲ੍ਹ ਦਿੰਦੇ ਹਨ ਤੇ ਇਸਨੂੰ micro ਜਾਂ macro cheating ਨਹੀਂ ਸਗੋਂ enjoy ਆਖਦੇ ਹਨ
Shelly Kaur ji di bhut uchi samaj h 👍
Thank u
Kise di soch naal khedna hi paap hai.
very well articulated discussion and Shelly Kaur"s analysis is to the point. Ultimately cheating is a result of poor self esteem. never thought like that. thanks.
Thank you 🙏 so much for another life teaching episode.
Anchor Singh Saab looks infatuated with the ma’am Shelly Kaur…on a good note note in lighter vain but it’s cute as she has so endearing, charming personality….Good luck
Ha Ha! They both are edearing and enlightened, his questions are apt and the discussions so very refreshing.
Happy wala feel hai aap bhi feel karo happy happy😊
Apni apni soch a veer
Very few relationships will be perfect but relationships become perfect when we accept them with imperfections-
True
Very nice talk Shelly ji...
Jehde parmatma di soch vich savarth da jeher ghol den uhna ander insaniyat vale gun nahi hunde.
Relationships only don’t work when we don’t have trust in each other and to much interference from family
Very nice
Good topic.
Good taking
We need a more deep conversation on this topic. Maybe by DR. Kashmira Singh
? It appears very Interesting Intellectual conversation for the Times Today.... but micro Cheating -Crush etc ordinarily get in short circuits ... on natural connect chemistry ....& perhaps gets communicated - responded almost instantly ..
Starting with infatuation levels ....feel good in company of each other......
Yes thank u for your input
One should have confidence on them there is no need to control others to change - just be high character
Yes
This idea of wedding came so that relationship will not be come and go - live in relationships mostly are like a station but wedding is the relationship for whole life with respect reliability and care for each other whole life.
It's Depend, in good relationship even marriage is not required, but for this both body need deep understanding and maturity level.
In good relationships partners don’t do any cheating and they give respect to each other- they are independent as well as dependent upon each other.
Well said and that’s exactly how I feel
Independent and depend, wow
Financial social mental independent but emotional dependency, lovely 🙏
Very good thoughts
Well defined,detailed description.❤. Thank you .
I don’t agree with “marriage is KHAROOS .”
My own experience 😂
@@ShellyKaur you are too good , honest , bold , full of emotion, balanced.intellectual …don’t need someone to complete you .
“Beautiful package “
Aww that’s a nice compliment thank you
@@ShellyKaurMa'am I don't understand, how can someone not feel fortunate in your company, it's eight wonder of the universe.
Maam informed the new show of these both will come today
That is another show will be posted soon
Man maele sab kuch maela gurbani kehndi saari bani man nu sucheya rakhan vich hai
What ever ... There is nothing known as .. Cheating in relationship .. we must not over look .. INSTANT .. RELATIONSHIP.. be it a man or woman .. it can happen anywhere any time... It is all about .. Mental Maturity.. NO ONE IS MOSES .
Major Aulakh.
God bless you bhen
Eh soch uhi rakhde han Jina ander parmatma di soch nahi.
Absolutely right
😅
Amor dresses both of you.
ਮੈਡਮ ਸਬਦ ਨਾ ਜੂਸ ਕਰੋ please 🙏
ਮਨ ਚੰਚਲ ਹੈ ਜੀ
ਕੌਣ ਫਤਹਿ ਪਾ ਸਕਦਾ
Oh what I need.i need a home for my child in canada but without relationship
YES...OSHO RAJNEESH..NE KIHAA. SHADI KHADUUS WRONG SISTEM HAI
ਮੈਨੂ ਨੀ ਲੱਗਦਾ ਕੋਈ ਘੱਟ ਕਰਦਾ
ਹੁਣ ਤਾਂ ਜ਼ਮਾਨਾ ਬਹੁਤ ਅੱਗੇ ਚਲਾ ਗਿਆ ਥਿੰਦ ਸਾਹਿਬ
Mem Shelly g vedio g. Hor vedio. Phejo
Not doing all people some people doing that’s
Baemani te hramjadgi ch frk hunda h
Sorry to say je Female kol option zyada hundi aa taa Use and through vi females hi hundiaa
It’s because women are not aware of their options and are culturally brainwashed to depend on others
🙏👌
Aj de time husband bilkul loyal nhi m khud es ch suffer kr rhi ha smj to bahr ik beti v aa mere only 5 mont 😢😢😢😢 husband di cheating ne Tod k rkh dita
I can understand, same happened with me after coming to canada .. and in 2 months he was clear to leave me and wanted to live alone .. that was just a pretext .. now I can’t trust on anybody
@@thenaturevlogger9816 learn from Ma'am Shelly kour, she has prooven that husband is not very essential part of the women, there are many more way to live your life and you can alone feel complete.
ਚੋਰੀ ਦਾ ਗੁੜ ਹਮੇਸ਼ਾ ਮਿੱਠਾ ਹੁੰਦਾ
ਲਾਲਾਂ ਡਿੱਗਦੀਆ ਹੀ ਰਹਿੰਦੀਆਂ
ਥਿੰਦ ਸਾਬ ਵੀ ਨਿੱਤ ਨਵਾ ਈ ਸੱਪ ਕੱਢਦੇ ਆ
Aaj te janwera nu insana Diya harkta te shrm aundi honi aa
Relationship vich bahut cheating hundi hai ji khas bandya valon aurat kol bache hon te time hi nahi hunde naal Kam kardiya kudiya jananiya kive rok sakde bandeya de ser Sawa chheti pe jandi aurat bache le kithe jaave padho likho te apna Ghar banao aurat vaste sahi hai koi fer jande jaaye ser dhakan nu te hai ma pio vi ban jandi par pio ma nahi Banda jaldi mare te viah Kara lainde. Aurat nahi karandi
Shelly ji you are saying social set up is for man not for women but man is also dating with other woman -???
No I m not saying that at all
ਗੱਲਬਾਤ ਤਾਂ ਵਧੀਆ ਸੀ ਪਰ ਬੀਬੀ ਜੀ ਨੇ ਕਿਸੇ। ਤਣ ਪੱਤਣ ਲਾਈ ਨੀ ਗੱਲ। ਬਾਕੀ ਥਿੰਧ ਸਾਹਬ ਪੰਜਾਬੀ ਚ ਗੱਲ ਇਉਂ ਐ ਬਈ ਕਿਸੇ ਦੇ ਖੇਤ ਚ ਖੜੀ ਗੰਨੇ ਦੀ ਫਸਲ ਨੂੰ ਵੇਖ ਕੇ ਜਾਂ ਫਿਰ ਅੰਬਾਂ ਦੇ ਬੂਟੇ ਤੇ ਲੱਗੀਆਂ ਅੰਬੀਆਂ ਵੇਖ ਕੇ ਤੁਹਾਨੂੰ ਆਪਣੇ ਮਨ ਵਿੱਚ ਖੁਸ਼ ਹੋਣ ਦਾ ਤੇ ਸਿਫ਼ਤ ਕਰਣ ਦਾ ਪੂਰਾ ਅਧਿਕਾਰ ਹੈ, ਮਸਲਾ ਗੜਬੜ ਉਦੋਂ ਹੋਣਾ ਜਦੋਂ ਤੁਸੀ ਗੰਨਾ ਜਾਂ ਅੰਬ ਤੋੜ ਲਿਆ, ਕੁਦਰਤ ਦੀ ਬਣਾਈ ਹਰ ਚੀਕ ਨੂੰ ਪਿਆਰ ਨਾਲ ਦੇਖੋ,ਮਸਲੇ ਨਹੀ ਵਿਗੜਣਗੇ, ਬੱਸ ਹਰ ਚੀਜ ਤੇ ਕਬਜ਼ੇ ਨਾ ਕਰੋ
😂😂
bahut vadiya soch hai bai g tuhadi
Good glbaat
if theres a legit reason
leave your partner, do whatever you want to do
but stay away from nakhrebaaz people
ਲਾਈਲੱਗ ਨਾ ਹੋਵੇ ਘਰ ਵਾਲਾ ਤੇ ਚੰਦਰਾ ਗਵਾਂਢ ਬੁਰਾ,,,,
Jes kise ne prwark jod shuru kita insan nu insan bne Rehan waste kita
Dirty banan te animal ban k hi rehan aaye ne human .nonsense I don’t understand seriously why they hurt other person with cheating and manipulations off
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏👌👍
😂लव this discussion i am die heart fan of shelly ma'am, i approximately love her adore her admire her and she know it very well, but i have not hide anything with my wife, ab kya ye bhi cheating hai😂😂😂😂
Aww thank u dear
@@ShellyKaur jab councious hua to aap ko maa maan liya, jise dekhte hi main khil jata hun, Jeevan me sukh hai mout ka dar nhi, aur log muskurahat dekh kar pagal hue ja rahe hain, suru se hin deewano ki tarah jiya hai maine, no body can understand my happiness level mom.
❤❤❤💥💥💥👌👌👌🙏🙏🙏
Not agreed with mame sorry
MY PRECTICAL..40 YRS ( SPECIAL 2014..24 SUNDER DOST WOMEN SANGH WITHOUT SEX RELATIONSHIP DOSTI BOHAT ANAD WALI HOTI HAI...KOI DARR NAHI K HAALAT CHENGE HOJAWAN GE .** AUR SUNDER BOHAT SUNDER ACTIVE WOMEN DI DOSTI. UTNA TIME ** DILLCHASP ..HAU JABB TAKK. NAHI SEX SAMBANDH **** SHADI WALE MEN KO KOI MUSHKAL. NAHI.
Kudiya da vee iki saal Diya hon te viah kar dende par shuru vich hi pata lag jande ki e Banda besabra asantusht hai kudi je paath Karn wali kirtan Karn wali hoye man kadi unu dekh es raste te nahi chalde eda de log tanderut khade chade rende kiuki oh parwah hi nahi karde sevety fiv e di umer de vich vi vehicle chuk sad di dhup vich bahane bana bana jande e Kam si o Kam si Bai shami chale jaai na sunder hi nahi Sara din bahar raat vi apna alg saunde me dekhya aurat heart patient hon te vi koi ni sago mauka milde ki apni marji di ji ndgi karde paise ne pension hai o kyo rahega ek kol bada Ganda time hai khande vi vadiya umer vi lambi karde Paisa bahut hunkaar paida karde aurat vi haar jandi ki chhado Eva sadna mast raho ehi hai badhi ki kare eda de log ehi sansakara ch palde te ehi Kari jande ek chhd duji fer teeji rab Jane rakhde nahi thakde nahi bhaine
Pap lagu ga
Kise de waste aapne noha naal apne shrir nu lhu loohan kr Lena murkhta h
gandian gallan
How is it? An inappropriate topic cheating is so rampant in our community and talking about is bad, but doing an acting upon it is appropriate according to you, let me know.
@@ShellyKaursab ko nhi samjhaya ja sakta
kaum te aini bheed bdi aaaa saari duniya da media o de te charcha kr reha tu camredaa asiqi kri ja saari umar lng gyi teri
If you listen carefully, it’s not about aashiqi it’s about cheating which happens a lot in our community and people do get triggered when this is brought to surface please listen carefully before commenting
ਇਹ ਹਿੱਲੀ ਬੀਬੀ ਕਿਹੜਾ ਬਾਥਰੂਮ use ਕਰਦੀ ?
ਇਹ ਕਾਹਨ ਸਿੰਘ ਨਾਭਾ ਦੀ ਭੈਣ ਨਵਾਂ ਸ਼ਬਦ ਕੋਸ਼ ਲਿੱਖ ਰਹੀ ?
MR , Mrs , Ms ਤੇ ਇਹਦਾ perceptive gender ?
All this is beyond your comprehension I would encourage you to retrain your old mind set we are in 2023 and not in 1600
@@ShellyKaur haha Naxal’s macro socialism got confused and have started micro cheating in response to macro and micro economy of capitalism ?
ਭੰਗ ਪੀਣੇ ਵਿਹਲੇ ਰਹਿ ਕੇ ਸਰਬੱਤ ਦਾ ਭਲਾ ਕਰਨਗੇ , ਮੇਰੀ ਜੁੱਤੀ ?
ਸਨਾਤਨੀ ਸ਼ੈਲੀ ਕਿ ਮਹਾਭਾਰਤ ਦਾ ਸ਼ੈਲਾ ?
Naxals , Taxals and ਮੂਲ ਨਿਵਾਸੀ ਪੰਜਾਬ ਦਾ ਭੱਠਾ ਬਿਠਾ ਕੇ ਹੁਣ ਕੈਨੇਡਾ ਦਾ ਭੱਠਾ ਬਿਠਾਉਣਗੇ ?
Bastards against freedom of speech always trying to find narrative to confuse ordinary people to further their Naxal agenda ?
Do I care 😂😂😂find your peace your peace u really need it 😅
Shelly ji how can I contact you pls reply