how to NEVER be manipulated again | spot the manipulator right away

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  • Опубліковано 22 жов 2024

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  • @amelie-db7gu
    @amelie-db7gu Місяць тому +6

    God I hate people who say/do something super shocking or hurtful and then say "only joking"...disturbing.

  • @spaideman7850
    @spaideman7850 2 місяці тому +15

    'i was only joking' is their favorite line when they tried to test their border with you. if u get angry, their next line will be 'why are you so petty? easily triggered'

    • @velvettverolett
      @velvettverolett  2 місяці тому +1

      Exactly! This is one of the most common ways to trigger

    • @spaideman7850
      @spaideman7850 2 місяці тому +2

      @@velvettverolett narcissists way of thinking is almost the same, very predictable, as if all of them are controlled by the same 'entity'(demon)

    • @velvettverolett
      @velvettverolett  2 місяці тому +1

      @@spaideman7850 Unfortunately, I met quite a lot of people like that( It is much better to understand how they behave than to doubt yourself afterwards.

    • @specialtwice4975
      @specialtwice4975 2 місяці тому +1

      I was at work one day (I worked front desk at a hotel). A narc came in very late at night, no reservation.
      The narc wanted a room but we had none available except the executive suit. (all other rooms were filled or not ready for guests)
      The narc argued and said they wanted that room. NOW.
      I called my boss and boss said "no" and told me to tell them to leave because by now they were making a "call your manager now!" ruckus and being loud and rude.
      I did as my boss said and told the narc to leave, the narc pouted before sitting for a few hours in the lobby so a friend could pick them up.
      When I later went to mop the floor for the night, the narc was still sitting in the lobby...he sneered "Why do you look so miserable? You should smile and be nice to me. I'm still here so I'm a guest, no?"

  • @Ihavemadeit999
    @Ihavemadeit999 Місяць тому

    You're wise, stay this way

    • @Ihavemadeit999
      @Ihavemadeit999 Місяць тому

      The intuition Part is so true. It's so crazy bc u don't know shit but end up still knowing !!

  • @GesuHeche-fv4hx
    @GesuHeche-fv4hx 2 місяці тому

    This is such a good video. Thanks for sharing

    • @velvettverolett
      @velvettverolett  2 місяці тому

      @@GesuHeche-fv4hx Thank you for your support!💗

  • @anonymuzz5102
    @anonymuzz5102 2 місяці тому +7

    I feel manipulated by life coaches on yt it seems they want views

  • @bharath_murali
    @bharath_murali 2 місяці тому +3

    Add overlay text for each point that you make and number them. It will be easier for viewers.

    • @velvettverolett
      @velvettverolett  2 місяці тому +1

      @@bharath_murali Thank you for your feedback! I really appreciate it🤍

  • @jmsjms296
    @jmsjms296 2 місяці тому

    AI might give you a hard time...

  • @kaziulaz
    @kaziulaz 2 місяці тому +5

    unbelievable that such a mature statement falls from the mouth of such a young girl. You couldn't have worked it all out yourself.. the contrast makes an impression especially on the part of the brain that doesn't know it. You have perfectly adapted some source material that you used to your person. At the same time, you have maintained a young charm as if you had come up with all this information yourself. Stay in this childlike spirit as long as possible because the internet is full of experts with stone faces who give the impression that they have been on all fronts of wars and defeated everyone with their bare hands or sell their content with artificial optimism and joy. Your manipulation on viewers is nice thing for now. Please don't let success go to your head