We Don't Talk About Elliot Rodger: A Response to Stefan Molyneux | Big Joel

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  • Опубліковано 20 вер 2024
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    Ways of Seeing by John Berger: waysofseeingway...
    Elliot Rodger's manifesto: www.documentcl...
    Stefan's video: • Video
    One of Elliot Rodger's videos: • Video
    (There's another video I'd want to add here, but I can't seem to find it. In the video, Elliot talks about how he is incredibly desirable, that he drives a nicer car than most of his peers and has expensive clothes.)

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  • @BigJoel
    @BigJoel  5 років тому +5136

    Below are the things I said I'd respond to in the pinned comment. Thanks again for watching my video. If you liked it, consider donating to my patreon: www.patreon.com/bigjoel Okay cool please enjoy this amazing pinned comment
    *Is it reasonable to interpret Elliot Rodger’s crime as a hate crime against white people?*
    It’s hard to even argue against a position this ridiculous. Elliot Rodger did resent white people, but he resented them from the perspective of a white supremacist who looked down on non-white people. He specifically resented white women for going with black men and not him. This was a crime transparently motivated by white supremacy, and the race of his victims does nothing to change this fact.
    *Is it reasonable to interpret Elliot Rodger as a leftist who took “redistribution of resources” to mean “ redistribution of women”?*
    No, what? Where is Stefan even getting that from? For one thing, Elliot didn’t want to “redistribute” women, he wanted to muder them and erase them from society. But more importantly, Elliot never conveyed any allegiance with leftism in his writings, nor would it make sense for him to have done that. Incels reject feminism and, at least in my experience, tend to lean toward the right. Whereas leftists want to redistribute resources because they see the lives of the poor as meaningful and worthy of protection, Elliot Rodger considered women subhuman, was obsessed with his class, and saw himself as inherently superior because of his “aristocratic breeding.” I don’t know, not really seeing the leftist influence.

    • @tidiarr
      @tidiarr 5 років тому +69

      party in the usa!

    • @kitwhitfield7169
      @kitwhitfield7169 5 років тому +609

      The problem with the ‘redistribution of women’ thing is that, and I know this’ll shock you new leftists out there - women aren’t a resource. Women are citizens. When you’re talking about resources, you don’t talk about distributing women, you talk about distributing TO women. Same as men.

    • @datfisheboi6519
      @datfisheboi6519 5 років тому +162

      @@kitwhitfield7169 Why would that shock anyone on the left?

    • @kitwhitfield7169
      @kitwhitfield7169 5 років тому +296

      Dat Fishe Boi It wouldn’t, I was joking. Text-tone strikes again, I guess. :-)

    • @RemiDobbs
      @RemiDobbs 5 років тому +272

      Yeah what Molyneux pushes with the redistribution thing reveals the way he looks at women moreso than it is a statement which gives us some truth about leftism. As Kit said women aren't a resource, they're sentient beings and citizens and Rodgers' manifesto isn't based on some egalitarian society but on a perspective where only some human beings can/should be treated as human.

  • @stilltoomanyhats
    @stilltoomanyhats 5 років тому +8362

    "it would be disrespectful to the victims to politicize the holocaust by claiming nazi ideology had anything to do with it, so let's do the common-sense non-political thing and speculate wildly about how traumatic it must have been for Hitler to have his art school application rejected... "

    • @oldishandwoke-ish1181
      @oldishandwoke-ish1181 4 роки тому +29

      stilltoomanyhats Quite 😏

    • @OmqSparklez
      @OmqSparklez 4 роки тому +576

      gonna be 100% honest with you, lots of people genuinely believe this to a T, people who generally align themselves in exactly the same ways as stefan molyneux.

    • @TerranPersoid725
      @TerranPersoid725 4 роки тому +73

      Oh mY GOD YOU’RE RIGHT

    • @Vooblebooble
      @Vooblebooble 3 роки тому +20

      Daaaamn

    • @rebbecawitt581
      @rebbecawitt581 3 роки тому +77

      Oh god, don't make me wanna die

  • @darthfastball1150
    @darthfastball1150 4 роки тому +4165

    Stefan: “At one point in his life, Elliot tripped and fell. What if he tripped a lot? No one likes tripping, and I’m not saying that tripping a lot is the direct cause of his actions, but it’s definitely a straw on the camel’s back.”

    • @theviewer6889
      @theviewer6889 4 роки тому +218

      I wonder if Stephan would take that same policy with transgender people, treat them as they want to be treated otherwise it's another straw on the camel's back.

    • @The_Mighty_Fiction
      @The_Mighty_Fiction 4 роки тому +8

      Joel: "I'm not saying it's misogyny. But it's misogyny."
      Two different flavors of absolute garbage. They're both picking over the ravings of a disturbed teenage boy and claiming it needs to be taken seriously because 'muh narrative.'

    • @annhilator55
      @annhilator55 4 роки тому +202

      @@The_Mighty_Fiction what alternative to the "narrative" would you give oh mighty centrist.

    • @The_Mighty_Fiction
      @The_Mighty_Fiction 4 роки тому +1

      @@annhilator55 Do you honestly need to be told _another_ fairytale rather than attempt to comprehend this on your own terms?

    • @annhilator55
      @annhilator55 4 роки тому +200

      @@The_Mighty_Fiction ah the copout route, how masterful. You know when a dude goes on about how he hates women, then attempted to murder several, then because he wasnt able to just turned his gun on anyone he wanted i'd imagine that yes misogyny is at play. The whole "mentally disturbed" thing, is a copout which puts the blame on some internal mental issue rather than the acts of a lucid individual who chose to do an act of violence.

  • @squidcultist0022
    @squidcultist0022 4 роки тому +1393

    He was born
    Stephan: "Women are responsible for this"

    • @joywolfe.
      @joywolfe. 4 роки тому +115

      I mean I know this is an ironic joke but the man literally said
      "All of the cold hearted jerks in the world came out of the vaginas of women"
      lmao he is beyond parody

    • @stigma2936
      @stigma2936 3 роки тому +8

      @Anna Dayton - His mother tried to kill him? That's explain a lot.

    • @shizachan8421
      @shizachan8421 3 роки тому +38

      @@stigma2936 Tbh, if I was his mom, I would absolutely advocate for the right to have an abortion even after birth.

    • @ifirmlydislikeeverything412
      @ifirmlydislikeeverything412 3 роки тому +1

      I mean, at least one woman was responsible

    • @rolfs2165
      @rolfs2165 3 роки тому +30

      What broke my brain was the "your dad was an asshole because your mother chose him". Like, what? So if a _nice guy_ happens to get a girlfriend, he magically transforms into an asshole that very second? Wha… how … why …
      Also, wouldn't that make Stefan an asshole, because some woman apparently chose him and even had a child with him?

  • @sarinat3101
    @sarinat3101 3 роки тому +2367

    "Don't use the victims as tools for your political agenda, because I'm using them for mine." -Stefan Molyneux

    • @ts4gv
      @ts4gv Рік тому +44

      Dibs

    • @anybodysouthern9213
      @anybodysouthern9213 Рік тому +83

      Also annoyingly ignoring the fact that if a crime comes with a political manifesto, it is inherently political to begin with.

    • @tundra4331
      @tundra4331 7 місяців тому +21

      Don't use the victims as a tool for politics even though that was the murderers purpose

  • @Theo0x89
    @Theo0x89 5 років тому +4808

    I, too, follow the wonderful tradition of not talking about my sex drive with my mom.

    • @sorryifoldcomment8596
      @sorryifoldcomment8596 5 років тому +388

      Well I hate to inform you of this, but there's around a 50% chance you are gonna kill a bunch of people! As long as you didn't go to summer camp...

    • @cosmojenkins3020
      @cosmojenkins3020 5 років тому +75

      Clearly you wouldn't have been casted in "Back To the Future."

    • @tormuse2916
      @tormuse2916 5 років тому +218

      My mom gave me the "sex talk" when I was 24. It consisted of two sentences. "Use a condom. I don't care what she says."
      Fortunately, I didn't turn out to be a mass murderer, despite once going to camp.

    • @KEvronista
      @KEvronista 5 років тому +6

      @@Odinsday
      are you calling theo's mom a blabbermouth?
      KEvron

    • @Chuubii
      @Chuubii 5 років тому +2

      lol

  • @bachpham6862
    @bachpham6862 4 роки тому +2992

    Elliot Rodger: My local Subway employee forgot to remove the pickles from my order
    Stefan Molyneus: StRAw oN tHe CamEl's bAck.

    • @mothdoc1909
      @mothdoc1909 4 роки тому +137

      bach pham that's not something Stefan would say, because the employee wasn't explicitly said to be a woman!

    • @gurusmurf5921
      @gurusmurf5921 4 роки тому +104

      @@mothdoc1909 But they were probably poor if they worked at Subway. I'm sure poor people are partly to blame.

    • @MarioRossi-sh4uk
      @MarioRossi-sh4uk 4 роки тому +1

      I am glad that some people listen to the always questionable ideas of Molyneaux and virtually nobody reads the idiot jokes you write.

    • @rockawayb1tch
      @rockawayb1tch 3 роки тому +39

      I mean, don’t tell me you can’t imagine Elliot Rodger writing one or two paragraphs in his manifesto about how some female Subway employee looked at him funny when he corrected her on getting his order wrong

    • @maivaiva1412
      @maivaiva1412 3 роки тому +56

      "There's this assumption in fast food, and in society at large, I think, that everybody must like pickles. And what if you don't like pickles? Well, you have to ask. (fake laugh; next part said with weirdly angry grin) You have to ask them to remove the pickles and, frankly, they should remove those pickles because not everybody likes pickles in their sandwich! (expression grows serious) And then, and then, what if they don't? Even after you ask? That local Subway that you trusted has let you down. There is this, this highly insidious undercurrent, I'd say, of alienation."

  • @sicksalt7765
    @sicksalt7765 4 роки тому +1168

    If someone insists on not bringing the politics of the shooter into the discussion, nine times out of ten it's because they share those same politics.

    • @rickrolld1367
      @rickrolld1367 3 роки тому +125

      One time out of ten is because they _are_ the shooter.

    • @jessegauthier6985
      @jessegauthier6985 4 місяці тому +1

      @@rickrolld1367 I don't think that's how that works lmao

  • @rosejuliette9180
    @rosejuliette9180 3 роки тому +459

    I was abused by a woman as a child and yet I have never killed any women... But apparently being taken to summer camp could have been the straw that broke the camel's back... According to a white supremacist at least. I personally believe that my lack of murder comes from my willingness to distinguish between someone who caused me trauma and arbitrary descriptors of that person such as gender, sex, race or anything else.

    • @vice2versa
      @vice2versa Рік тому

      or maybe it's because you are a neurotypical person who can handle stress better than he does. Seriously, stop trying to compare yourself to someone who committed suicide. It's obvious that you don't got a clue about how severe his mental illness was.

    • @legrandliseurtri7495
      @legrandliseurtri7495 Рік тому

      @@vice2versa Committing suicide is one thing. Killing people before you do it is another.

    • @Rissfleisch
      @Rissfleisch 7 місяців тому +9

      I hope you're feeling as good as one can be now ❤

    • @madra000
      @madra000 5 місяців тому

      so no cognitive dissonance towards logic and fallacies of logic. Sorry for your experience with abuse.

    • @rosejuliette9180
      @rosejuliette9180 5 місяців тому +16

      @@madra000 it isn't so much that the dissonance doesn't happen. it's that i acknowledge and challenge it. If i meet someone and they remind me of my abuser i might feel like putting up a barrier and judging them. when i have that feeling i then remind myself of what is actually making that connection. It could be something like they are wearing a similar clothing style or an inflection in the way they talk but unless the similarity is in how they are being actively abusive i tell myself "they are not my abuser" and honestly that really helps. abusers aren't defined by sex, race, religion, or idk music preference. Abusers are defined by the abuse. Working from a place of being abused really requires that we make those steps to learn that. if we don't we can become immobilised by ungrounded fears based on generalisations. Thats a losing situation. if i feared anyone who had something in common with someone whe did something bad to me then there would probably be nobody in the world left to trust. And you see some people doing that. They were abused by a man and now they fear everyone born with a penis including trans women. it isn't healthy and enabling that fear hurts them and hurts everyone. we can understand the cause of someones fear whilst reassuring them that they are safe and that the fear isn't what keeps them safe.

  • @EmperorTigerstar
    @EmperorTigerstar 5 років тому +2287

    Stephan Molyneux is an Olympic gold medal mental gymnast.

    • @TheFiresloth
      @TheFiresloth 5 років тому +75

      His points always seems to fall flat on their face for me.

    • @virtoerto5207
      @virtoerto5207 5 років тому +50

      Wait... isn't this my internet history teacher just commenting?

    • @CJBetcherMolandfreak
      @CJBetcherMolandfreak 5 років тому +62

      Virto Erto it’s always interesting to see that about half of the prominent UA-cam historians are reasonable leftists and the other half jerk off to the idea of re-creating empires.

    • @lanceash
      @lanceash 5 років тому +1

      He's a pig.

    • @BeastNationXIV
      @BeastNationXIV 5 років тому +5

      Yeah...but did he win that gold medal with a broken freakin' neck? (That's a wrestling joke. Don't worry if you don't get it.) 🤣

  • @DanCicala
    @DanCicala 4 роки тому +3219

    "It's really repulsive how people use this sort of atrocity as a way to score cheap political points. That's why, out of respect for the victims' families, I'm going to relay the killer's manifesto without a single grain of salt, vindicating his worldview at every step of the way."
    - Stefan Molyneux

    • @joshuahitchins1897
      @joshuahitchins1897 4 роки тому +310

      And making him relatable and imitatable by every lonely kid out there, as 95% of his complaints are just normal kid things.

    • @timothymclean
      @timothymclean 4 роки тому +66

      Hey, that's apolitical. His ideology could be anything, repeating it isn't a political act. It's a factual statement about a news event, and things can only be one thing, not two. That's why the people on the left are only making political statements and not reporting facts about the news event.

    • @MidTierVillain
      @MidTierVillain 4 роки тому +107

      Timothy McLean *-Smoothest Brain on the Internet*
      I truly hope you’re just being satirical, though. I hope.

    • @timothymclean
      @timothymclean 4 роки тому +98

      @@MidTierVillain I hoped I exaggerated and self-retorted enough to make that clear.

    • @MidTierVillain
      @MidTierVillain 4 роки тому +36

      Timothy McLean Lol touché

  • @heinzguderian9980
    @heinzguderian9980 4 роки тому +1771

    Molyneux: Women screwing bad men is the reason for all problems!!
    Also Molyneux: Why didn't you women screw this bad man?!?!?!?

    • @piranha5506
      @piranha5506 4 роки тому +105

      Heinz Guderian that’s the thing. He doesn’t think he did anything wrong.

    • @PFADderERKENNTNIS
      @PFADderERKENNTNIS 3 роки тому +133

      But... but Elliot was a NICE GUY!

    • @Darth_Bateman
      @Darth_Bateman 3 роки тому +7

      Now sir I do declare that this is a straw man, buT WE ARE TALKING ABOUT THE EGG MAN!!!

    • @ragalyiakos
      @ragalyiakos 3 роки тому +31

      See, the reason he says this is because to Stephan, the distinction the between a 'good' and a 'bad' man comes down to skin colour...

    • @coaxill4059
      @coaxill4059 2 роки тому +3

      Clearly this mass murderer was only bad because no supermodels fucked him.

  • @mittensthemagic5519
    @mittensthemagic5519 4 роки тому +1975

    The problem with Stephan is that he refuses to acknowledge that it was Elliot himself who caused his own actions. Many teens face rejection, loneliness, divorce, etc. but they don't become mass murderers.

    • @spennyb89
      @spennyb89 3 роки тому +176

      Many men grow up in toxic environments but don't become rapists or harassers. Yet, I don't think it's unreasonable to suppose how we raise boys has an impact on their choices regarding women. The personal responsibility element can be present while also acknowledging the causal influence of social factors. Now, Molyneux is just plain wrong in what he identifies as causal factors, but wouldn't there still be causal factors worth investigating?

    • @hermionestranger4964
      @hermionestranger4964 3 роки тому +202

      @@spennyb89 Yes it's worth investigating, but by actual psychiatrists, psychologists and detectives, and not by political demagogues, professional misogynists and single-digit IQ Internet comments.

    • @ottojarvonnen2455
      @ottojarvonnen2455 3 роки тому +1

      Because they have something to lose.

    • @ravedubin3983
      @ravedubin3983 3 роки тому +58

      @@ottojarvonnen2455 No they are just sane

    • @ottojarvonnen2455
      @ottojarvonnen2455 2 роки тому +1

      @@ravedubin3983 Keep telling that to yourself if it lets you sleep better.

  • @BewegteBilderrahmen
    @BewegteBilderrahmen 5 років тому +993

    Stefan: I talk to my children about sex since before they were born.
    Also Stefan: Ewww, don't allow your wife/mother to have sexuality.

    • @jdprettynails
      @jdprettynails 5 років тому +70

      I'm surprised he even managed to create any children considering how disgusted he is by women....and their VAGINAS!

    • @BewegteBilderrahmen
      @BewegteBilderrahmen 5 років тому +85

      @@jdprettynails his racial imperative to procreate is too strong, or whatever. But yeah, dude's a huge misogynist by even the most forgiving definitions.

    • @TheMorganVEVO
      @TheMorganVEVO 5 років тому +49

      @@BewegteBilderrahmen It makes me wonder how or why some people accept their partners' extreme sentiments, even at their own expense. Maybe his wife was just desperate to be married and she doesn't really care what he thinks about anything. Who knows?

    • @hexx2211
      @hexx2211 5 років тому +49

      @@TheMorganVEVO Some people internalize bigotry directed towards them. It's possible that she feels the same way about herself as her husband does about her.

    • @maschaorsomething
      @maschaorsomething 5 років тому +16

      @@TheMorganVEVO
      Hm, I may be able to answer it, as I am in a similar situation.
      I've been in a relationship for a few months now, and he only recently told me about his sympathy for incels and their hatred for women, since he apparently used to think the exact same way as them before meeting me.
      I still choose to be with him, because I fell for his personality and the experiences we've been through, not his views.
      (It's much more complicated, but that stuff's personal and no one cares.)
      But! His views have been progressing and are taking a turn for the better.
      He even loves to watch the occasional Contrapoints video with me.

  • @jamesoblivion
    @jamesoblivion 4 роки тому +1278

    "Let's set aside the white supremacy and misogyny, and examine all the completely normal things that happened to this kid, and collect enough straws to build a...oh, I dunno, some kind of...man of straw?"

    • @johnnyspin6346
      @johnnyspin6346 3 роки тому +3

      Elliot rodger was not white. He was half Asian

    • @thehighwayman8776
      @thehighwayman8776 3 роки тому +104

      @@johnnyspin6346 nobody said that he was white?

    • @allyli1718
      @allyli1718 3 роки тому +169

      @@johnnyspin6346 don’t need to be white to be white supremacist. My family is Asian and still acts like white men are the best thing in the world sometimes. It’s astounding

    • @jackkraken3888
      @jackkraken3888 3 роки тому

      Nice

    • @veronicavieyra4392
      @veronicavieyra4392 3 роки тому +5

      He was as much white as he was asian. Half.

  • @BREADSWORD
    @BREADSWORD 5 років тому +4347

    [OWNED] Alpha Big Joel Absolutely Destroys Stefan Molyneux With Nice Audio Quality And Cozy Sweater

    • @MissMoontree
      @MissMoontree 5 років тому +90

      It is a nice sweater.

    • @kalehead0075
      @kalehead0075 5 років тому +60

      Indeed...a very cozy sweater and A+ audio!

    • @suburbanweekend
      @suburbanweekend 5 років тому +55

      Big Joel always is wearing a sweet ass sweater.

    • @mikexstad1121
      @mikexstad1121 3 роки тому +12

      Lol'd so hard at this

    • @Darth_Bateman
      @Darth_Bateman 3 роки тому +16

      Absolutely destroys virgin Eggman.

  • @Julianakun
    @Julianakun 3 роки тому +893

    Stefan is definitely someone who says things like "You can't even say hello to women anymore" and "Well what was she wearing?"

    • @Sarah-re7cg
      @Sarah-re7cg Рік тому +8

      This is so true

    • @astralseaslug546
      @astralseaslug546 Рік тому +39

      No he says things that are MUCH worse lol

    • @cryo311
      @cryo311 Рік тому +48

      He called a can of pasta “feminist virtue signaling” because it had supergirl on it

    • @xafilmbyx
      @xafilmbyx Рік тому +18

      @@cryo311what a dork

  • @emmawachowski2587
    @emmawachowski2587 4 роки тому +3012

    Molyneux has such a ridiculous amount of compassion for one person who did terrible things, and yet Molyneux has...like...no compassion for anybody else ever

    • @rxbenzo3302
      @rxbenzo3302 4 роки тому +41

      That's pretty crazy huh

    • @caesarspeaks
      @caesarspeaks 4 роки тому +245

      It’s because he wants to do what Elliot did so badly. He thinks women are going to destroy the entirety of western civilisation, the same western civilisation that gives him so much privilege and income.

    • @wooogie672
      @wooogie672 4 роки тому +118

      Caesar Speaks don’t forget “western civilization” is a dog whistle for the whites which he considers superior

    • @itsspaceboi
      @itsspaceboi 4 роки тому +6

      @@wooogie672 Oh so there's no such thing as "western civilization" now? Is it just a dog whistle?

    • @fangsabre
      @fangsabre 4 роки тому +127

      @@itsspaceboi I mean.... kindof? For the vast majority of history western europe has been far from homogeneous enough to consider one single civilization. And if you consider all of europe western then it becomes even less so. It's like saying Russia and Japan are both part of Eastern Civilization. Like, fucking how? Other than them both being to the east of europe how are they anything alike.

  • @ActuallyAnanya
    @ActuallyAnanya 5 років тому +428

    He really focused on the school uniform aspect, when I just looked at the points on that slide and realised Rodger spent his early childhood here in England, where... everyone wears a school uniform. And we have a very low number of mass shootings. Now that might be because of our gun laws, but to Stefan I'm sure saying that is way too political.

    • @nerdychocobo
      @nerdychocobo 5 років тому +4

      Well to be fair high school blazers are pretty enraging /s ((as in no blazers don't actually give me murderous intent, they were horrible tho))

  • @michaelotero3909
    @michaelotero3909 5 років тому +1680

    “I started talking to my daughter in the womb about sex.” This man is almost so absurd it’s surreal.

    • @john.james.110
      @john.james.110 5 років тому +592

      *Puts face up to stomach* "Listen here, darling. When a man of sufficient means meets a woman of optimal sexual market value, they will perform an unspeakable act involving the genitalia. This will cause new life to spring forth. This life will be forever stained with the insoluble birthmark of the mother's iniquity."

    • @technopoptart
      @technopoptart 5 років тому +68

      @@john.james.110 if only i could upvote this post twice

    • @Caddyleadz
      @Caddyleadz 5 років тому +9

      When a man talks to a baby inside a mother's stomach it's absurd, when a women does it its healthy and beneficial to the child. I'm perceiving some bias in your comments.

    • @technopoptart
      @technopoptart 5 років тому +114

      @@Caddyleadz only if that woman in the mother, otherwise it is just as worthless and weird an endeavor. the fetus is not capable of understanding speech and through the noisy moving body of it's mother it reasonably cannot hear much if anything. if the mother is doing it then the mother is receiving some sort of (hopefully) positive stimulation and which could conceivably be passed on to the child hormonally though to be honest that is a generous opinion. likely its no different from if someone outside of the mother spoke to the fetus which is to say it's not for the fetus' benefit so much as it is for the speaker's
      also molyneux is creepy and weird and the joke is that he would be no less creepy and weird to his unborn child than he would to any other female person

    • @Caddyleadz
      @Caddyleadz 5 років тому +12

      @@technopoptart he was making a joke about making sure to talk to your children at a young age... Witch hunts should only happen in 3rd world countries. This is what passes for weird and creepy in 2019? Have you seen the freaks out there......

  • @DStecks
    @DStecks 3 роки тому +1030

    Conservatives when a starving black person steals from a megacorporation: "Evil! Monster! Personal responsibility!!!"
    Conservatives when a white man murders a whole bunch of women: "This was because his stepmom posted noods"

    • @theragoooverlord5021
      @theragoooverlord5021 Рік тому +7

      Aged badly the food stores are leaving areas with those so called starving people

    • @codemonster8443
      @codemonster8443 Рік тому +27

      Funnily enough blaming the mom is pushing the personal responsibility on the mother.

    • @theragoooverlord5021
      @theragoooverlord5021 Рік тому +6

      @@strawberrysshortestcake2781 no conservative ever said that lol.

    • @whompronnie
      @whompronnie Рік тому +60

      @@theragoooverlord5021 Whew, swing and a miss, buddy

    • @theragoooverlord5021
      @theragoooverlord5021 Рік тому +1

      @@whompronnie great you finally caught on and seen the error of your ways. I'm just glad I could help.

  • @allsucksX
    @allsucksX 5 років тому +4336

    Guys, guys, I know its easy, but please don't judge Adolf Hitler.
    He had a:
    - difficult upbringing
    - he never got his dream job
    - he was in a war
    - he had only one testicle
    - he was insecure around women because they only liked art students.
    So, don't make this a political thing. Those are all straws that lead to breaking the panzers back.

    • @nekozombie
      @nekozombie 5 років тому +96

      best comment

    • @muntu1221
      @muntu1221 5 років тому +315

      @@johannageisel5390 I think the point was more than just the sarcasm. I feel it was saying while, yes, Hitler had experienced trauma and abuse, the issues we have with him as a person are primarily political, seeing as his motives were in massive part political in nature. So even if the reason he went the extra mile is due to experiencing trauma, it was still also his political ideology that gets us to the point where he even targeted certain groups.

    • @johannageisel5390
      @johannageisel5390 5 років тому +42

      ​@@muntu1221 Miller argues, that the rumour that the father of Hitler's father was a Jew, did contribute to the antisemitism Hitler either grew up with or developed on his own.
      I think, ideologies and the psychological setup of a person are not strongly divided. If you're being raised to develop a compassionate nature, you will hardly be drawn towards an ideology that excludes groups of people.

    • @muntu1221
      @muntu1221 5 років тому +82

      @@johannageisel5390 I'm aware that ideology is strongly rooted in one's personal experiences, but what I'm trying to say is that it would be dishonest to say his actions weren't political in nature simply because you can find a personal reason as to why he may have done it. He still used politics to justify it and garner a massive following that were more or less okay with carrying out his will.

    • @dmitriygryaznov9210
      @dmitriygryaznov9210 5 років тому +21

      @@johannageisel5390 If I remember correctly Bismark remarked that the Franco-German war he presided over was won by "the Prussian teacher," the same teacher later leading Germany into WW1 and WW2 but not finding as easy a punching bag for his pupils makes a lot of sense and puts a lot of things in perspective.
      I also agree with you that these kind of things should be mentioned more often, even if it would be probably less about your kid becoming a nazi and more about your kid being mentally healthy. A psyche that consciously understands why nazism is wrong but is subconsciously drawn to it is not great for your happiness and productivity.

  • @Dutchwheelchair
    @Dutchwheelchair 5 років тому +821

    Stefan Molyneux blames the women. What an surprise.

    • @ussishkingang7194
      @ussishkingang7194 5 років тому +35

      ravioliandsalsiccia what are you trying to say ?

    • @a.carneirozhu8104
      @a.carneirozhu8104 4 роки тому +25

      @ravioliandsalsiccia No. Elliot Rodger has as much of a free will as we do. The distribution of responsibility does nothing but whine; if not the parents, and in turn the society, and in turn, the cruel, cruel universe, would we all not be serial killers? Our understanding of sentience and accountability would never permit this: to believe otherwise is to attribute him to either the status of a god or subhuman.

    • @a.carneirozhu8104
      @a.carneirozhu8104 4 роки тому +32

      @ravioliandsalsiccia Apparently women can't comment without being judged. Nice move.
      I'm not saying that he is not a product of his environment. I hold the belief that almost all that is human in us is nurtured and not nature; that the experiences we have are what define us. However, his murdering, his disgusting actions, should not be blamed on those around him. If they were, I'm afraid the judicial system would be quite the joke. It is not attributed on a whole to Elliot, though; his trauma, mental stability, and more than unhealthy habits can all be traced back to childhood incidents, but his actions are results of his own doing.
      A note: either the part I was responding to was deleted, or my sleepless nights have caught up to me, because that comment was a little bit out of place (and quite rude, sorry lol), and I honest-to-god do not remember writing or thinking about it.

    • @fuckoff565
      @fuckoff565 4 роки тому +12

      The entire situation with Elliot Rodgers, much like every other spree killer, was a product of both nuture and nature.
      He was suffering from severe untreated depression, which is a common occurrence with spree killers in perticular. In almost every instance where a spree killer isn't apprehended or shot, the killer will take their own life, as that is ultimately the final goal of these types of mass murderers.
      They're fed up with the world and want to end it all, but take revenge against the world that they blame for their trouble in a final act of defiance.
      Most of what Elliot had gone through is the same ordeal hundreds of millions of kids around the world go through. Pretty much normal teenage angst and him being socially inept. He is a good example on how a privileged upbringing is ultimately meaningless if the parents have headass syndrome.
      His father in particular was one such case. Still, his mental fortitude was ultimately a result of nature and from an early age, if his manifesto is a credible source into his psyche, then he was always highly likely to develop mental issues.
      Children who show early signs on mental issues will almost always see these issues manifest in their teenage years, as the development of the brain and hormones is at its peak there.
      It was a circle of negligence, lacking observation of his parents, social isolation from his peers, his own highly agressive and apprehensive attitude towards people, weak mental fortitude and very possible undiagnosed behavioral disorders which caused him to commit his act.
      It was planned to a degree but a very impulsive and sudden decision, which is made evident by the way he executed it.

    • @azarinevil
      @azarinevil 4 роки тому +6

      @ravioliandsalsiccia My little sister is a psychopath.. she was born that way. We grew up in the same half-decent home and had mediocre parents. There is this idea that psychopaths and sociopaths are some how not inherently evil, well they are inherently selfish aholes with zero remorse or empathy. They will sell you a happy "I'm capable of being a reasonable person" right up until they stab you to death. They love fools who will fall for their BS blame shifting and see them as redeemable.. easy prey.

  • @TheRedRaccoonDog
    @TheRedRaccoonDog 4 роки тому +2473

    The one problem with your approach is that I'm like 90% sure that Stefan Molyneux doesn't view women as people.

    • @iannordin5250
      @iannordin5250 4 роки тому +485

      He actually doesn't. His philosophy is based around the idea that all evil in the world is tied down to bad mothers who have sex with "bad men" and make bad children. He has gone onto Taylor Swift and other famous women's twitters to admonish them about having careers while begging them to settle down to produce more offspring before their "uterus' become unviable." To Molynaux women are a means of producing men. All women can be divided into good categories: women that make good mothers vs women that make bad mothers. The most important thing a woman can do is marry a good man and produce good sons.

    • @TheRedRaccoonDog
      @TheRedRaccoonDog 4 роки тому +79

      @@iannordin5250 Thank you for the summary.

    • @theclubvids
      @theclubvids 4 роки тому +4

      @@TheRedRaccoonDog ​ Ian Nordin You're both stupid and I don't even like Stephan.

    • @oddacity5883
      @oddacity5883 4 роки тому +153

      @theclubvids “You’re stupid, why? No reason. Good day” What a great retort, biggest brain ever

    • @mc-ps-playa5569
      @mc-ps-playa5569 4 роки тому +33

      Od dacity Bro look at his videos, dude is legit insane

  • @tittytatssauce5567
    @tittytatssauce5567 3 роки тому +320

    Stephan: “this is entirely the fault of the parents and had nothing to do with misogyny.”
    Then continues to explain an incredibly normal an uneventful childhood that almost everybody has and some would be lucky to have.
    I mean, the man in his biggest points is essentially blaming the women in his life for his actions. He’s hardly doing any justice for the victims

    • @Sarah-re7cg
      @Sarah-re7cg Рік тому +45

      I noticed a lot of serial killers do this too. Even if they also have an incredibly abusive dad in the picture, they still blame their mom and it’s like 🙃

    • @spOOkytimes
      @spOOkytimes Рік тому

      @@Sarah-re7cg In a patriarchal society, men think they are entitled to make all the decisions, that includes attributing blame to whomever they feel like for bad decisions or unmet expectations. Women are an easy target in these systems due to being socialized to accept abuse and injustice and having disproportionate expectations to protect their families. Incels are just contributing to the cycle and getting mad when it works therefore making the world worse. They don't want partners, they want punching bags to reproduce with continuing the cycle with their own kids (kid witnessing abuse and carrying it out in their own relationships).

    • @eVill420
      @eVill420 9 місяців тому

      @@Sarah-re7cg well you need to consider how having an abusive dad led them to internalize the world, I imagine it would twist your thoughts about what is supposed to be the case as a coping mechanism

    • @Sarah-re7cg
      @Sarah-re7cg 9 місяців тому +8

      @@eVill420 there’s a fine line to dance there. Not all misogynists are products of trauma and not all products of trauma are misogynists. They can be both raging misogynists and products of trauma. Usually they use trauma as something to hang their misogynistic hats on.

  • @DreadBirate
    @DreadBirate 5 років тому +921

    These people seem to think that ideology has no effect on people’s actions.

    • @kseriousr
      @kseriousr 5 років тому +7

      @brandon roberts It does. The materials are there, all you need are people motivated enough to take those to the extreme. Those motivations however often comes independent of said materials. 'Oh, the west is responsible for your misery, let's go teach them a lesson.'

    • @LimeyLassen
      @LimeyLassen 5 років тому +67

      They don't really believe that. If they did they wouldn't bother spreading their ideology. It's just an excuse they make to distract people.

    • @alexsmith2910
      @alexsmith2910 5 років тому +28

      Facts don't care about their delusions.

    • @Michael-kp4bd
      @Michael-kp4bd 5 років тому +24

      @@LimeyLassen no, most of them believe it. The inconsistency is lost in them, and the fear of the other is very intense and pathological. They don't think themselves into these positions, but they aren't faking it.

    • @PalitoSelvatico
      @PalitoSelvatico 5 років тому +21

      They believe it, but they refuse to admit its THEIR ideology the one that gets people killed. So they have to invent ways to twist everything

  • @serpenking
    @serpenking 5 років тому +372

    I understand the reasons for not showing his face but my goodness the thumbnail of faceless elliot rodgers is nightmarish

    • @awkwardnerd.
      @awkwardnerd. 5 років тому +18

      It's what made me click on the video

    • @UltimateKyuubiFox
      @UltimateKyuubiFox 5 років тому +13

      It should be.

    • @hamluk_
      @hamluk_ 5 років тому +37

      elliot rodgers with a face is more nightmarish in my book

    • @soyborne.bornmadeandundone1342
      @soyborne.bornmadeandundone1342 5 років тому +6

      I don't get it. I think he's a much better lookin dude than me. Thinner than me. Not going bald like me. I know tastes vary from person to person because of opinions and all that... But I'm apparently way smoother with the ladies lol. I think his problem is that he was a stupid asshole...

    • @lumen8341
      @lumen8341 5 років тому +14

      @@soyborne.bornmadeandundone1342 he was another entitled privileged brat who whined about not getting his way. if he had just stuck it out he'd have lived a normal life, probably with all the shit he actually wanted, thanks to his money. but he was too much of a whiny bitch to stick it out. how people idolize him is beyond me. listening to his manifesto is just... ugh! SO MUCH WHINING!

  • @OriLOK2
    @OriLOK2 5 років тому +1518

    Elliot Roger: *recounts a normal developmental experience for a teenager*
    Stefan: Yet another straw that leads to MASS MURDER.

    • @Giganfan2k1
      @Giganfan2k1 5 років тому +31

      Theoretically he is technically correct. For as long as we have had societies we have had empty vessel sociopaths/psychopaths.
      If you want to understand why he did what he did look to McVay, or the Canadian dude that tried to copy Dexter. They had nothing in them so they let society fill them up. That was never enough so they killed.

    • @justjess6636
      @justjess6636 5 років тому +14

      @@Giganfan2k1 They're serial killers.

    • @aaronsmith1023
      @aaronsmith1023 5 років тому +9

      This would be so pants-pissingly hilarious if it weren't actually true.

    • @Caraphatash
      @Caraphatash 5 років тому +8

      men like Stefan really would blame anything but maybe Elliot Rodger just hated women

    • @stoutyyyy
      @stoutyyyy 5 років тому +3

      Sum Arbor McVeigh wasn’t a psychopath, he was an anarchist with very clear and stated motives.

  • @heavenly2k
    @heavenly2k 2 роки тому +306

    The fact that Stephen thinks that anti-misogyny is a political stance to take, says a lot.

    • @A_C_E_R...
      @A_C_E_R... 2 місяці тому

      He doesn't like women like at all i think he might be a virgin

  • @tristanneal9552
    @tristanneal9552 5 років тому +2278

    Stefan: It's disrespectful to the victims when people [liberals] try to make political statements out of tragedies like this one.
    Stefan: *Proceeds to push his political agenda based on the tragedy.*

    • @byronnotbryon8605
      @byronnotbryon8605 5 років тому +136

      Typically a agenda is informed by opinion.

    • @Rellikan
      @Rellikan 5 років тому +8

      The political agenda is? That Hollywood is mostly filled with left-leaning people (fact) and that Elliot Rodger targetted people based on their race (fact) and gender (fact). Those are just facts. What can you refute it with?

    • @byronnotbryon8605
      @byronnotbryon8605 5 років тому +107

      @@Rellikan ummm.. And none of that had anything to do with the post.. Need to work harder at changing the subject.

    • @Rellikan
      @Rellikan 5 років тому

      @@byronnotbryon8605 Not changing the subject. Stefam was focusing on the straws that created the horrible person that is Elliot Rodger. That is not disrespectful. If you went to the original video you would find that one of the parents of the victims actually posted a thank you comment about it.

    • @byronnotbryon8605
      @byronnotbryon8605 5 років тому +125

      And you missed the point that he pushed his polictical beliefs as straws after saying liberals shouldn't push their beliefs in conjunction with his manifesto.

  • @daiselol
    @daiselol 5 років тому +2103

    That clip of Stefan Molyneux on race is the epitome of 'I'm not racist, _but_ ...'

    • @NoProHarrie
      @NoProHarrie 5 років тому +118

      It's "I'm not racist, but" to the third power

    • @alexsmith2910
      @alexsmith2910 5 років тому +21

      Absolutely.

    • @Izzrules
      @Izzrules 5 років тому +58

      “...but I am an empiricist!”

    • @sorryifoldcomment8596
      @sorryifoldcomment8596 5 років тому +11

      Thank God Elliot Rodger is at least half white! 🙄 Well, AND had pale complexion. If this was a half white/half black man I kiiinda doubt he'd be so kind.
      (I'm just spitballing though LOL... wouldn't want to imply ole Stephen might just be a tad racist now would I!)

    • @CoryMck
      @CoryMck 5 років тому +98

      @@AnHeC decades of research that has been disproven decades ago? You're categorically wrong, sit with that.

  • @thynErro
    @thynErro 4 роки тому +511

    I just find it ironic that Stefan says others will exploit Elliot for their own purposes and then literally exploits Elliot for his own purposes.

    • @jonchilders7363
      @jonchilders7363 4 роки тому +27

      To Stefan, it's only a bad thing if liberals do it.

    • @FenixIzyuze
      @FenixIzyuze 4 роки тому +15

      Thats because Stefan isnt exploiting Elliot, he is with him. Stefan is defending Elliot, that whole video is a essay about how is not Elliot fault, but of the people around him (mostly his parents)

    • @thynErro
      @thynErro 4 роки тому +5

      @@FenixIzyuze That's even worse, but I'll accept the criticism.

    • @slamacat9866
      @slamacat9866 4 роки тому +9

      @@FenixIzyuze murder for something that isn't self-defense is always the murderers' fault, nothing from mental health to bad childhoods is a cause for murder. It can be a explantation for why they thought/acted a certain way but no one pulls the trigger but themselves. Defending or blaming others them doesn't do any good cause it takes away the blame.

  • @archermadsen2028
    @archermadsen2028 3 роки тому +150

    Stefan: "Lets not make this political".
    Also Stefan: "Elliot became a murderer because of the commies".

  • @Manorjames
    @Manorjames 5 років тому +2234

    Something: *occurs*
    Stefan: This is surely the fault of single moms.

    • @TheMorganVEVO
      @TheMorganVEVO 5 років тому +137

      That's basically him. Lol. I remember watching one of his videos years ago in which he interviews a woman simply because she wasn't a single mom. That's literally it.. I guess it's such an accomplishment to him that it warranted a whole interview.

    • @samiamrg7
      @samiamrg7 5 років тому +60

      Yeah, really. The man has some serious parent complexes.

    • @DB-sd3cw
      @DB-sd3cw 5 років тому +5

      It usually is though

    • @Manorjames
      @Manorjames 5 років тому +88

      Stefan, go away

    • @DB-sd3cw
      @DB-sd3cw 5 років тому +6

      @@Manorjames sorry you dont like the truth, it's just a fact that stefan fires off hard cold facts that people dont and opportunists without original thoughts like this channel simply appeal to that offended group to gain views and subscriptions.

  • @ishouldhaveknown1101
    @ishouldhaveknown1101 4 роки тому +4122

    Elliot had an extremely privileged childhood. All those ‘super terrible’ experiences he described are nothing more than some unpleasant moments almost every kid has to go through. Yet guys like Stefan try so hard to portray him as some ‘poor guy’ who was terribly wronged by his parents and by society so that he basically had no other choice than to kill people. That’s an insult to the millions of people in this world who actually had terrible childhoods and were beaten, abused, neglected by their parents or by others and who still somehow managed not to go on a killing spree and hating half of the Earth’s population. But yeah, poor Elliot had to go to a camp once and random women didn’t just come up to him and sucked his dick because he bought himself some nice expensive stuff. What an injustice!!! Poor little Elliot!!!

    • @theviewer6889
      @theviewer6889 4 роки тому +172

      @@cosmicraynullificationsqua7667 Only if they're offered good legal protection.

    • @cosmicraynullificationsqua7667
      @cosmicraynullificationsqua7667 4 роки тому +23

      @@theviewer6889 Hookers earn enough to pay for their own protection and human trafficking would still be illegal. I know girls who have panic buttons linked to a security firm.

    • @Galvion1980
      @Galvion1980 4 роки тому +461

      @@cosmicraynullificationsqua7667 I support decriminalization of sex work, but that wouldn't have helped in Elliot Rogers' case: He wanted to get it for FREE, because he had such an overblown sense of entitlement. And what if a sex worker turns down a guy like Rogers, because she can smell the evil on him? (A lot of pros develop a veritable Spidey-sense!) He would just have felt entitled to murder sex workers, as many assholes feel already...

    • @FreddieGonza
      @FreddieGonza 4 роки тому +7

      @@Galvion1980 I think it's not fair to distance yourself from people by saying they're evil, as if you wouldn't turn evil if we pushed some buttons on ya

    • @Galvion1980
      @Galvion1980 4 роки тому +269

      @@FreddieGonza Yes, every action a person undertakes is a result of "buttons being pushed". Nobody bears any responsibility for their own actions. Everything is everybody else's fault. Your argument is impecable. You are very smart.
      Why are you so offended by me calling a murderer evil? If you assume I would commit murder if you were to "push my buttons", whatever...you're in no position to do so. Why do you have so much more sympathy for a killer than his victims?
      I've had a whole lot of my buttons pushed in my life (abuse, bullying, assault, you name it) and yet, I have not murdered anyone. And I didn't grow up wealthy and spoilt like Sad Boy Elliot. Wow, I must be a real saint! Or maybe I'm just a halfway decent person who understands a few baselines of human civilization, like...murder is wrong!

  • @qualifiedarmchaircritic
    @qualifiedarmchaircritic 5 років тому +715

    15:30 "Damaging Female Experience"
    Every time I have to listen to that patronising stef-moly-drawl I am having a Damaging Male Experience

    • @michaelcavanaugh971
      @michaelcavanaugh971 5 років тому +63

      0noregrets0 every time stefan talks i’d like to give him a damaging male experience (ง’̀-‘́)ง

    • @zachjollimore4339
      @zachjollimore4339 5 років тому +22

      @@johannageisel5390 Stefan is the 30-50 feral hogs you need to defend your children from.

    • @johannageisel5390
      @johannageisel5390 5 років тому

      @@zachjollimore4339 Yes.

    • @knickknackgurl07
      @knickknackgurl07 5 років тому +2

      @0noregrets0 got you to 666 likes. You're welcome. Hope you enjoyed this positive female experience!

    • @BarrySlisk
      @BarrySlisk 4 роки тому

      @@johannageisel5390
      "I have impulse control, but the feeling is still there."
      Well, deep inside you are evil. This is also why you are a leftist. Leftist secretly love violence.

  • @nienkehuijbens301
    @nienkehuijbens301 3 роки тому +842

    The idea that this guy has a daughter is frightening. Imagine being a girl and growing up with a hyper conservative, misogynist father like stefan

    • @nienkehuijbens301
      @nienkehuijbens301 3 роки тому +60

      @ i'm not particularly fond of conservatism but i did say 'hyper conservative' + 'misogynist' for this purpose. I recognize that stefan is not representative of conservative people

    • @drpibisback7680
      @drpibisback7680 3 роки тому +42

      She's doubtlessly joining a large crowd throughout history.

    • @cam4636
      @cam4636 2 роки тому +9

      @@malgorzatawojtys9846 Yes, we already said he's hyper conservative and misogynist.

    • @TheMoistestNugget
      @TheMoistestNugget 2 роки тому +19

      can we get her a relief fund or something: :(

    • @heckoff7904
      @heckoff7904 2 роки тому +11

      Just gotta hope his weirdly positive beliefs about hands-off parenting he (maybe used to) have affect his parenting. Idk exactly what he believes anymore, but his whole thing used to be about how much he hates parents pushing onto children. That's what he got his early following from.

  • @XMysticHerox
    @XMysticHerox 5 років тому +375

    There is a very simple reason Stefan says so many ridiculous things to deflect from Rogers ideology and that it was the motivation for the shooting. Because he almost completely shares his ideology. Of course he has to deflect.

    • @timmydirtyrat6015
      @timmydirtyrat6015 5 років тому +20

      I wish he would just say it, it is so obvious, he is just as extreme as those mouth breathers on incel.me and r/braincels but instead he acts like some fair centrist.

    • @Elvalley
      @Elvalley 5 років тому +6

      He doesn't want to "make it political" when making it political would make his side look bad, but he's quick to blame the left and their talk of redistribution for Rodgers' entitlement. Also, like many right-leaning youtube "thinkers", he's quick to pass political talking points as "unbiased facts".

    • @vice2versa
      @vice2versa 5 років тому

      @@timmydirtyrat6015 no he just understand that nature and psychology of women unlike you dumb fucks

  • @aarond0623
    @aarond0623 5 років тому +5505

    Stefan: "Parents should always listen to their kids."
    Kids: "Mom, dad, I think I may be transgender."
    Stefan: "Wait no not that."

    • @sorryifoldcomment8596
      @sorryifoldcomment8596 5 років тому +345

      Hey, if you don't like school, you don't have to be apart of this school.
      And if you don't like the opposite gender...you don't have to be apart of this family! 🤗 Equality

    • @gyz9599
      @gyz9599 5 років тому +12

      Ansa Seppalainen are you done

    • @Odinsday
      @Odinsday 5 років тому +57

      Mechanical Junkie I wouldn’t wish that fate on my worst enemy.

    • @dpersonal4187
      @dpersonal4187 5 років тому +6

      @Mechanical Junkie Thanks for trotting out your bigotry for all to see.

    • @dpersonal4187
      @dpersonal4187 5 років тому +6

      @Mechanical Junkie Poor Stefan! So discriminated against. So downtrodden. Such a wonderful person. Bwaaaaaa.... ua-cam.com/video/lVQOLX1wDAc/v-deo.html poor white person

  • @ASMRcomic
    @ASMRcomic 5 років тому +2308

    That bit about Stefan talking to his daughter about sex while she was still in the womb made me do a double take wtf dude...

    • @jeffengel2607
      @jeffengel2607 5 років тому +490

      I get a little sick every time I'm reminded Molyneux has a daughter. That poor girl.

    • @sorryifoldcomment8596
      @sorryifoldcomment8596 5 років тому +223

      @@jeffengel2607 me too. I literally forget because it's so awful. Same with Philip/Sargon of Akkad.
      It's like traumatic memory. My brain uncontrollably blocks it out of my consciousness to protect itself... until I'm occasionally reminded and have to vomit all over again.

    • @carninuz1
      @carninuz1 5 років тому +23

      Haha that's funny but you know that's not what he said
      We can take apart arguments without inventing comments

    • @sorryifoldcomment8596
      @sorryifoldcomment8596 5 років тому +74

      How does Stephen Molyneux sleep at night knowing he is contributing to the destruction of our great civilization by bringing into the world such an evil and shameless creature. 🙄
      For shame!

    • @ASMRcomic
      @ASMRcomic 5 років тому +186

      ​@@carninuz1 I'm aware that he actually meant that he was just talking to her in general, not talking specifically about sex. It's still a good example of how careless he is with his words and how creepy he is in general.
      Also, I'm not trying to take apart his garbage arguments, I'm just making fun of him.

  • @sophiabrown2493
    @sophiabrown2493 3 роки тому +1836

    THANK YOU for spitting facts. Honestly as a girl I can’t count the times I’ve been ACTUALLY mistreated by men, not REJECTED but abused, manipulated, taken advantage of, sexually harassed, groped, had drinks spiked and yet I don’t have some weird hatred for all men or would ever consider harming someone? I’ll never understand the boohoo poor lil virgin mentality, anyone supporting it needs to grow up.

    • @itsathing3369
      @itsathing3369 2 роки тому +55

      You go girl.

    • @MikoyanGurevichMiG21
      @MikoyanGurevichMiG21 2 роки тому

      A sense of nuance like these is what keeps you away from the equally just as psychotic "#killallmen" types.

    • @acommenter3939
      @acommenter3939 2 роки тому +60

      Jesus Christ, if this ALL actually happened to you, you should consider therapy.

    • @itsathing3369
      @itsathing3369 2 роки тому +23

      @@acommenter3939 Yeah maybe she should.

    • @cam4636
      @cam4636 2 роки тому

      @@acommenter3939 "if." Tell me you've never listened to any woman ever without telling me you've never listened to any woman ever. This is common basic shit that everyone who is or is mistaken for female goes through.

  • @tehgrrl
    @tehgrrl 5 років тому +531

    As someone from an actually abusive household, this guys logic is infuriating

    • @basedbattledroid3507
      @basedbattledroid3507 4 роки тому +15

      Same

    • @oldishandwoke-ish1181
      @oldishandwoke-ish1181 4 роки тому +71

      tehgrrl And insulting to real abuse survivors like yourself. "His mother woke him up early and told him he had to go to camp". Omg, what a monster! 🙄

    • @alexbellington9243
      @alexbellington9243 4 роки тому +22

      He had to go on vacation to Morroco to stay in a mansion. Can't believe the suffering he went through lol.

    • @oldishandwoke-ish1181
      @oldishandwoke-ish1181 4 роки тому +2

      Alex Bellington Abuse! Abuse!

    • @neilagangitlog
      @neilagangitlog 3 роки тому +1

      Same 😩

  • @LimeyLassen
    @LimeyLassen 5 років тому +2352

    Stefan: This kid was a lone crazy person with a bad mother, don't get political about it
    Also Stefan: White men are being replaced and someone needs to do something about it

    • @itsthatsebguy93
      @itsthatsebguy93 5 років тому +20

      I don't see the hypocrisy here. I mean i don't like Stephanie Mollynox. Elliot Roger was an Asian kid dude

    • @lopez.jacinto.6726
      @lopez.jacinto.6726 5 років тому +141

      @@itsthatsebguy93 Really? Well there will always be those who don't want to see.

    • @dinospumoni5611
      @dinospumoni5611 5 років тому +191

      Walrus Guy those are some impressive imaginary facts you made up
      p.s. “white” isn’t a race or ethnic group and therefore are logically incapable of having genocide committed against them except in nation-level or culture-level subgroups independently (e.g. genocide can be committed on Norwegians, but not on “white Western people”)
      and that’s the least of the stupidity and lack of education in your comment... I’m not sure you said a single correct thing outside of accurately quoting the UN (just before misreading then)

    • @lopez.jacinto.6726
      @lopez.jacinto.6726 5 років тому +107

      @Walrus Guy Well, if you don't give them job contracts how do you want immigrants to pay taxes? If they have to hide for the fear of being separated from their kids... How do you want them to pay taxes? That's hipocresy.

    • @KeiKoAbyss
      @KeiKoAbyss 5 років тому +166

      @Walrus Guy Man, white people are so dramatic, calling genocide just because some people dont want to fuck them and taxes lol. White genocide is a myth my dude, no one is forcing white people not to have kids, it's just our definitions of what is "white" naturally results in the "white" population shrinking because people with only one white parent are often not considered white themselves.

  • @mrwalkway4740
    @mrwalkway4740 5 років тому +1347

    Literally anything bad can happen anywhere in the world and stefan will immediately upload a 44 minute long video blaming women for it

    • @Clawdragoons
      @Clawdragoons 4 роки тому +252

      I don't think this is accurate. If we figured out some bad thing happening in space, he'd probably find a way to blame women for that too.

    • @oof-wi7hp
      @oof-wi7hp 4 роки тому +65

      @@Clawdragoons you got me there.jpeg

    • @generationofswine-ge5rw
      @generationofswine-ge5rw 4 роки тому +28

      Molyneux lives in my country, and it makes me sick that he uses Canada as a base for his promotion of hate, especially against women, who are usually called SJWs or "feminists," immigrants, even though he is one, so non-white immigrants, and other targets of fascism. He incites violence against these targets. We had never had a mass killing in Canada before the alt right and Trump era, with it's endorsement of racism and other forms of hatred. Already we have had two mass killings, both by white men who learned their hateful right wing propaganda on line. fuck the free speech of fascists and others who obviously don't believe in free speech except for themselves. If mass killings can be prevented by banning right wing hate sites then so what? Free speech doesn't cover conspiring to murder people and destroy democracy.

    • @BarrySlisk
      @BarrySlisk 4 роки тому +1

      @@generationofswine-ge5rw
      "He incites violence against these targets"
      Example please...

    • @azarinevil
      @azarinevil 4 роки тому +1

      @@generationofswine-ge5rw We had a them before Trump, you must be young.. there were a bunch back in the 80's.

  • @goctagonrecovery3270
    @goctagonrecovery3270 3 роки тому +769

    “I know how Eliot felt and I admire him so much. Is this a bad thing?”
    Yes... yes it is. Get some help.

    • @shinygiveaways1920
      @shinygiveaways1920 Рік тому

      What the fuck has he done admirably? Literally the opposite. Definition of CUCK.

    • @CCROGGY
      @CCROGGY Рік тому +6

      “All it takes is one bad day”
      -Joker

    • @ghoost8943
      @ghoost8943 Рік тому +29

      ​@@CCROGGY we live in a society

    • @theragoooverlord5021
      @theragoooverlord5021 Рік тому +1

      No One can debunk the rodge

    • @floreroafloreril1458
      @floreroafloreril1458 Рік тому +40

      @@CCROGGY There are a shit ton of people who live through pretty bad days on a near daily basis and none of them become murderers. 💀

  • @jarmarmarn4323
    @jarmarmarn4323 5 років тому +621

    Personally I always liked the big comfy-looking couch aesthetic, but who am I to stand in the way of progress?

    • @leoseling4413
      @leoseling4413 5 років тому +49

      I like the new look, though. It's less comfy but... I don't know how to put it. It radiates a certain smugness.

    • @pleggli
      @pleggli 5 років тому +21

      I like the cool element

    • @Mlafleur1864
      @Mlafleur1864 5 років тому +23

      My boi big Joel going big chair instead of big couch

    • @jincyquones
      @jincyquones 5 років тому +9

      I miss the days of the extremely wrinkled cream-colored bed sheet.

    • @caryssonford
      @caryssonford 5 років тому +1

      I miss the days of just voice over... 😆

  • @eccentriastes6273
    @eccentriastes6273 5 років тому +1743

    I only have one nitpick with this video, which is that My Twisted World isn't, as you and most others call it, a manifesto, at least not primarily. It is first and foremost an autobiography. It's actually striking how much time he spends narrating seemingly irrelevant events and how little time spelling out an ideology or agenda. I think this is important because the reason Elliot wrote an autobiography is because _he wanted_ us to do what Molyneux does, to understand his crime in terms of his experiences and how he personally was wronged by society, to see him as a victim of circumstance. So it's very easy for Molyneux to talk about building up straws, because that's what Elliot's book itself is implicitly doing. Molyneux is just taking it at face value, which is obviously a pretty questionable way to approach a book like this.

    • @abizombie90
      @abizombie90 4 роки тому +172

      THANK YOU! I was thinking the exact same thing! Rodger is an unreliable narrator, period, and for Stefan to take it at face value either shows an incredible lack of forethought OR a calculated oversight to push his own agenda. I don’t know which would be worse.

    • @jasonkilley
      @jasonkilley 4 роки тому +8

      On point

    • @dellaliz1610
      @dellaliz1610 4 роки тому +45

      This 💯 He wrote the narrative that got him to his actions, so picking through it and 1) using to find the reason for his crime and 2) taking it all at face value is isn’t exactly adding value to that conversation.

    • @bangarang3810
      @bangarang3810 4 роки тому +4

      Apparently you have magic powers where you can read minds

    • @OjoRojo40
      @OjoRojo40 4 роки тому +51

      @@bangarang3810 Nah it's just called text analysis.

  • @RobertB0H
    @RobertB0H 5 років тому +313

    I'm surprised Stefan didn't talk about Elliot Rodger's skull shape

    • @soyborne.bornmadeandundone1342
      @soyborne.bornmadeandundone1342 5 років тому +6

      Lol agreed.
      Also the name of this video should be... Why Stefan is all alone in life.

    • @technopoptart
      @technopoptart 5 років тому +2

      to be fair the millimeters speak for themselves

    • @Otakupatriot117
      @Otakupatriot117 4 роки тому +1

      Well, Elliot Rodger was half Asian. If we're really taking the "White supremacist" route, Elliot isn't the best poster boy for it.

    • @justwannafreefx9419
      @justwannafreefx9419 4 роки тому +1

      @@Otakupatriot117 internalized racism 😌

  • @johncerasi
    @johncerasi 3 роки тому +261

    Stefan takes Elliot at his word 100% of the time which is very strange. This kid was clearly emotionally erratic and had a very strange and twisted view of the world. You don't think that worldview colored the way he wrote this manifesto, Stefan?

    • @ratedpending
      @ratedpending 2 роки тому +17

      whenever he talks about soumaya it's just like
      BREAKING: raging racist misogynist didn't like an African woman that's more successful than he

    • @gRinchY-op5vr
      @gRinchY-op5vr Рік тому +12

      That was my thinking when this manifesto came out, like...how much of this tripe can we REALLY take at face value??

    • @Tobelia
      @Tobelia Рік тому +6

      It definitely comes across as weird for Molyneux to sympathise with every single trivial complaint rather than dismissing it as self-centred whining. I wonder how he would have approached this if Rodger was a woman.

  • @benb2399
    @benb2399 5 років тому +3095

    It's disrespectful to the victims to politicize this. Anyway, he did it because of liberalism

    • @juicejumper
      @juicejumper 4 роки тому +322

      Ah yes the racist misogynistic whackjob killed all those non-white people and women because them god damn *LIBRULS*

    • @tompatterson1548
      @tompatterson1548 4 роки тому +24

      but what if the victims explicitly ask for it?

    • @rxbenzo3302
      @rxbenzo3302 4 роки тому +32

      *inceldom

    • @spong2548
      @spong2548 4 роки тому +50

      YEAH GET EPICLY ROASTED LIBTARDS, LIBERALS HAYE BLACK PEOPLE RIGHT? Honestly though fuck off with these politics, if anything he was an incelble

    • @thisrandomdude2880
      @thisrandomdude2880 4 роки тому +49

      I always jest that the problem with the right is that they hate liberals for the wrong reasons, and Stefan is a prime example of this (Sorry to any liberal in the comments, but y'all are stinking with centrist vibes XP).

  • @816Godzilla
    @816Godzilla 5 років тому +427

    Stefan talks about things that most kids are forced to do by their parents like some kind war crime against Elliot

    • @Michael-kp4bd
      @Michael-kp4bd 5 років тому +75

      I'm all about trying improving these issues ingrained in our culture, but these things are like... the most typical growing up experience of everyone I've every known or heard about.

    • @hamluk_
      @hamluk_ 5 років тому +92

      "my parents made me have a few bites of my dinner because i have refused to eat all day, fucking fascists"

    • @Nenona1200
      @Nenona1200 5 років тому +38

      @@hamluk_ one of the biggest Men's rights advocates cites his first traumatic experience of his mother being evil was making him take diarrhea meds when he'd been having it for 2 days. They had to "wrestle it into his mouth" and he said he knew right then she was a rights-violating monster, like all women.
      So apparently making children take medication that keeps them from the hospital or death is also on their list of "awful things to do to a child".

    • @nuriben7910
      @nuriben7910 5 років тому +35

      If you read the manifesto Elliot was essentially spoiled rotten. I could never imagine having such a privileged upbringing.

    • @wanderingoryx3710
      @wanderingoryx3710 5 років тому

      @@nuriben7910 they reaped what they sowed

  • @samkuperman9035
    @samkuperman9035 4 роки тому +1420

    “If a child is crying about not wanting to go to school, you need to take that into account. But if your child has gender dysphoria, just completely ignore it bc they’re just delusional”
    Anything to absolve guilt from any cishet man that commits an atrocity

    • @defensivekobra3873
      @defensivekobra3873 3 роки тому +22

      Ah, i take from this comment that the wonderous stefán somehow manages to not Believe in trans people

    • @samkuperman9035
      @samkuperman9035 3 роки тому +91

      @@defensivekobra3873 Considering the rest of his political beliefs, I would be absolutely gobsmacked if he had any positive opinion on trans people

    • @defensivekobra3873
      @defensivekobra3873 3 роки тому +15

      @@samkuperman9035 yeah sounds about right

    • @neothepenguin1257
      @neothepenguin1257 3 роки тому +9

      @@samkuperman9035 he doesn’t believe that trans people exist

    • @neothepenguin1257
      @neothepenguin1257 3 роки тому +7

      @@samkuperman9035 I checked his Wikipedia article and the only thing I found was that the independent (news paper) called him transphobic

  • @metademetra
    @metademetra 3 роки тому +69

    "Don't politicize this...but also video games, sexual women, and every scapegoat conservative dad talking point is responsible."

  • @robertrulebirtannia
    @robertrulebirtannia 5 років тому +1703

    "Everything but Elliot Rodger is responsible for the actions of Elliot Rodger"
    -Stefan Moluneux, man of personal responsibility

    • @kestrelraptorial689
      @kestrelraptorial689 5 років тому +12

      Except that wasn't what Stefan was saying in his presentation.

    • @robertrulebirtannia
      @robertrulebirtannia 5 років тому +98

      @@kestrelraptorial689 It is what he's saying. The rest of us just blinded by Moluneux bullshiting like you

    • @kestrelraptorial689
      @kestrelraptorial689 5 років тому +6

      @@robertrulebirtannia Alright, perceive things that way . . . and watch your own family descend into a downward spiral. If I look at your videos side-by-side, or one after the other, Molyneux made his arguments and defended them far better than you did.

    • @ussishkingang7194
      @ussishkingang7194 5 років тому +8

      Kestrel raptorial look at other videos also
      Reach out to a wider discussion
      You might change your mind
      Might not
      But be open headed

    • @kestrelraptorial689
      @kestrelraptorial689 5 років тому +2

      @@ussishkingang7194 I'm ten steps ahead of you. I did watch other videos around the time of the event itself, some from people saying much what you said, another good commentary by PsychologyinSeattle, and some interviews with the father himself. After all that, I still say Stefan Molyneux had the best, most comprehensive insight.

  • @reeseadams7063
    @reeseadams7063 5 років тому +465

    OH MY GOD THE NEW SETUP IS JUST AS SMUG AND PERFECT AS YOU SAID

  • @hlf3769
    @hlf3769 5 років тому +520

    Elliot Rodger on video: “I’m gonna kill a bunch of women because they owe me sex and won’t give it to me”
    Or misogynists: “why would he have done this?”
    Btw Stephan can be heard empathizing with Elliot, you can hear in his voice that he is referring to other people in Elliot’s life as the “other” they are the villains and Elliot is the victim to him... this is 99% of how misogynists argue, some is raped and they think “poor man who got accused of rape”
    All their arguments take the perspective of the rapist it’s very telling

    • @curtisnoll1292
      @curtisnoll1292 5 років тому +8

      I've never heard anyone take the position that a genuine rapist deserves sympathy

    • @hlf3769
      @hlf3769 5 років тому +1

      Curtis Noll I hope you don’t mean me?

    • @curtisnoll1292
      @curtisnoll1292 5 років тому

      @@hlf3769 I'm addressing you if that's what you mean

    • @supermutantsam1160
      @supermutantsam1160 4 роки тому +49

      @ravioliandsalsiccia Since you don’t do a good job of writing coherent sentences, I’m going to address what I can surmise.
      Firstly, nobody is suggesting that women are incapable of wrongdoing, just that they aren’t responsible for causing a mass murder because they wouldn’t sleep with the man who committed it.
      Secondly, nobody is suggesting that Stefan is personally responsible for inciting Elliot either, just that Stefan’s political ideology mirrors Elliot’s in a very apparent way, and that his attempts to depoliticize the event seems to be in an effort to distract people from that.
      Of course, I expect you to dismiss both of this response out of hand, because I have little faith in someone who came to these sorts of conclusions despite all reason to be very capable of meaningful self-reflection, but regardless, know that you’re wrong.

    • @user-un8jx8yo7z
      @user-un8jx8yo7z 4 роки тому +2

      You are completely warped if you think all or even people questioning why a killer would have killed people are sympathizers. Most people question things because they don't understand them and are looking for answers to explain. Very few people actually align with a killers warped perspective. People are just trying to make sense of it all. People want to know what makes murderers murder so that it can be prevented.
      You're are deluded to think that if someone is trying to reason why he did it from his own thoughts and perspective that they agree with him. No sane person is going to say yeah because of his sexual frustration it was fine that he murdered people or that it was justified in any way.
      Also your misogynist comment does not make sense. People sympathize with people who have alleged raped people because false convictions happen often enough where people worry about if the person is innocent.

  • @kathlenedaniels9401
    @kathlenedaniels9401 3 роки тому +331

    My childhood was similar to Eliot Rodgers, in the framework that Stephan uses here. In many ways it was much less trivial, instead of being unprepared for summer camp, I was unprepared for the many illnesses my father would face, unsure if each hospital visit would be the last time I saw him alive. My mother was cruel and abused prescription pills, buying them from people she worked with with money we didn’t have. I was isolated, homeschooled my whole life and taught a warped worldview that I learned was utterly untrue at a late age. I even found lewd pictures of my mother on my dads laptop.
    Somehow I didn’t turn out to be a murderer and a racist. Big Joel is absolutely correct in his assessment that Eliot Rodger is a monster of his own creation, and the thing largely responsible for eliots crimes is Eliot.

    • @lukebruce5234
      @lukebruce5234 2 роки тому

      You're a woman lol. You've always been liked by boys.

    • @jellysecret
      @jellysecret 2 роки тому +3

      @@lukebruce5234 we arent just women, were people. people who (just like you) have been liked and disliked, have been loved and hated. whoever is convincing you that we arent fully human is lying. theyre trying to make you more isolated from us, trying to use our natural instinct to tell you to fuck off as proof that we could never understand you. so please, re-evaluate the choices in your life that made THAT your first response here.

    • @lukebruce5234
      @lukebruce5234 2 роки тому

      @@jellysecret what the fuck are you even talking about

    • @neofromthewarnerbrothersic145
      @neofromthewarnerbrothersic145 2 роки тому +2

      @@lukebruce5234 You really think all women are just automatically "liked by boys" for their entire lives? More importantly, you think being "liked by boys" somehow removes the trauma from all traumatic experiences?
      You are fucking delusional, and you sound like Eliot. Annika is right - I don't know what caused THAT to be your knee-jerk response, but it's appalling.

    • @vice2versa
      @vice2versa Рік тому

      What makes you think your life was anything like Elliot Rodger???? were you as severally mentally screwed up like him??? were you suicidal to the point that your life and anything you did no longer mattered??? were you severely bullied to the point you had to move schools??? did you have severe social anxiety disorder that made every single social interaction extremely painful and embarrassing???? Did you care and obsess over every detail about peoples thoughts about you to the point it caused extreme pain and hatred??? you are most likely a neurotypical person so you really shouldn't be comparing your life to Elliot Rodger just so you could make some weak attempt at a self righteous argument.

  • @nathanshlap
    @nathanshlap 5 років тому +2371

    Ahahaha Joel you're so sexy don't get your channel terminated ahaha

    • @nekozombie
      @nekozombie 5 років тому +45

      ahaha that's exactly what I was thinking ahahaha

    • @bookbook9495
      @bookbook9495 5 років тому +6

      Nathan Shlapobersky,
      *confusion noises*

    • @violet5188
      @violet5188 5 років тому +56

      Noo Joe don't get terminated you're so sexy aha

    • @kvdrr
      @kvdrr 5 років тому +7

      @@violet5188 proper format

    • @anshagrawal254
      @anshagrawal254 5 років тому +13

      RIP Mumkey Jones

  • @Amazatastic
    @Amazatastic 5 років тому +596

    "kids wanting to be cool causes violence and bullying"
    "Misogyny doesn't tho"

    • @Rellikan
      @Rellikan 5 років тому

      Who said those?

    • @EC-yw5hg
      @EC-yw5hg 5 років тому +47

      Gigajoule Candy it’s just a snappy summary of what Stefan’s video claimed.

    • @Rellikan
      @Rellikan 5 років тому +7

      @@EC-yw5hg Stefan never claimed nor implied that misogyny doesn't cause violence or bullying. I watched the entire video on his channel and a lot of other videos unrelated to Elliot.
      The "cool" element he was talking about IS cancerous in youth culture. Who (besides those deemed 'cool') wouldn't agree with it? Fashion trends, Instagram girls, having the latest piece of technology, being able to take expensive trips etc. These are all things that are not virtuous. What is deemed "cool" is usually something superficial or sometimes an indulgence of a lack of self-control.
      He didn't say or imply that being uncool WILL cause one to become violent but its an age old common idea that being uncool is grounds for bullies to target you.
      This isn't controversial. I feel like people are making a big deal out of something Stefan said that's practically benign.

    • @Noisius
      @Noisius 4 роки тому +2

      @@beepbopboop7727 and i believe Antifa are the new nazis and climate change is a cult.

    • @Criszgz22
      @Criszgz22 4 роки тому +11

      @@no.8466 As men are gross. Everybody IS gross

  • @teacup4561
    @teacup4561 4 роки тому +661

    The way Stefan talks about women is genuinely terrifying. There is so much hatred in his voice. I hope one day he can recover from that because as he is now I would be scared to even be in the room with him.

    • @somebodyonce5976
      @somebodyonce5976 4 роки тому +92

      He's too sucked into his worldview for that. All we can hope is that his daughter grows up emotionally healthy.

    • @prettyokandy230
      @prettyokandy230 3 роки тому +4

      probably got worse since susan yeeted him from youtube :D

    • @caspermcgoangle975
      @caspermcgoangle975 3 роки тому +8

      Yeah me too especially since he has a daughter

    • @anahata3478
      @anahata3478 3 роки тому +9

      @@somebodyonce5976 I was just as deep as he part of this world of extreme hatred towards women, muslims and leftists. Nobody is beyond reach

    • @primo4915
      @primo4915 3 роки тому +2

      @@caspermcgoangle975 dude what

  • @n3v3rg01ngback
    @n3v3rg01ngback 4 роки тому +87

    “I’m an empiricist. Now I’ll indulge in a mix of confirmation bias and unsupported generalizations. Let’s get hypocritical.”

  • @enbyennui
    @enbyennui 4 роки тому +392

    "Cultural M-"
    Broke: "-arxism"
    Woke: "-ystification"

  • @funkyskunk1
    @funkyskunk1 4 роки тому +772

    Stefan “I think women should be punished for the men they choose to date because they never choose the nice guys😭😭😭” Molyneaux

    • @tuumanka7974
      @tuumanka7974 4 роки тому +55

      I only date prisoners because they’re such badass 😤🤤

    • @Hanfgurkenhasser
      @Hanfgurkenhasser 4 роки тому +15

      @@tuumanka7974 BRB killing some people.

    • @theluckypoptart2945
      @theluckypoptart2945 4 роки тому +117

      Have you ever noticed the guys that are angry women don't pick nice guys, aren't nice guys.
      They are always yelling angry men who talk down to women and wonder why we don't like them.

    • @0lionheart
      @0lionheart 4 роки тому +74

      @@theluckypoptart2945 true story, my old best mate (who's now bitter and angry at the world) once blew his chance with an incredibly attractive girl at one of our Halloween parties by ranting for about an hour about how modern music is terrible and basically how he has superior taste to everyone. If you ever talk to him about it, she was just leading him on because she liked the attention, and she ended up hooking up with some meathead because that's what women are like. Somehow forgetting that she hooked up with our other mate, who is a really nice and cool guy, not at all a "bro" or anything. It's honestly staggering watching some people absolutely self-sabotage social encounters, and then listen to how they perceive it. There's such a disconnect between reality and the world they live in.
      I've been friends with enough "nice guys" now to know they're anything but.

    • @theluckypoptart2945
      @theluckypoptart2945 4 роки тому +40

      @Black Pill Presentations no, the mix up is what nice is. Many people have issues knowing where boundaries are and what is socially appropriate behavior.
      I understand that. I'm autistic and there are many behaviors I don't understand why people do. I do understand we should do them though.
      "Nice" guys and girls think they are being nice but are often over stepping people's personal boundaries.
      Even when told they are making someone uncomfortable or scared they come off with you just aren't used to people being nice to you.
      Nice is respecting people boundaries. Nice is letting people get to know you at their own speed and not pushing.
      Nice is understanding that some just isn't into you for whatever reason and respecting that.
      Yes, I believe some people just play up their nice factor to get into someone's pants.
      Because why would it be love bombing at first. then when the person says no it's you're a dumb whore anyways or I didn't like your ugly ass anyways.
      If you're really a good person you don't have to tell everyone you're good.
      They know by your actions.
      Once these people understand boundaries, body language and respecting other people's space they usually end up in a relationship pretty quick.
      It's full just a lack of caring how others perceive actions and how it makes them feel.
      Just because you see something as nice doesn't mean it won't come off creepy to someone else.

  • @entertain7us148
    @entertain7us148 4 роки тому +736

    knowing that Stefan has a daughter terrifies me

    • @Onoesmahpie
      @Onoesmahpie 3 роки тому +41

      Wow, not surprising though. Terrible people always have at least one kid.

    • @elisabethnordin
      @elisabethnordin 3 роки тому +64

      It makes me uncomfortable too. I wonder if there isn't a grim silver lining there that he didn't have a son though. At least self-hatred won't necessarily leave to hatred unto others. I felt ill writing this though.

    • @cowboysonfilm
      @cowboysonfilm 3 роки тому +23

      @@elisabethnordin i totally see your point. as sick as it is to say, i think it mirrors something like the trolley problem.

    • @patiotaiza
      @patiotaiza 2 роки тому +20

      That poor girl

    • @jameskenny8821
      @jameskenny8821 2 роки тому +12

      I use to watch him, lucky he only had his children a few hours a week.

  • @anais3337
    @anais3337 4 роки тому +115

    What Stephan consistently forgets in his “analysis” is that almost all these experiences elliot describes are.... not unique. And most people that go through these things don’t end up murdering people.

  • @fruitjuiceshibe
    @fruitjuiceshibe 4 роки тому +327

    Imagine being Stefan Molyneux's daughter.

    • @oldishandwoke-ish1181
      @oldishandwoke-ish1181 4 роки тому +24

      Fruit Juice Shibe Grim.

    • @NoddinOff.
      @NoddinOff. 3 роки тому +1

      cassl14 the fuck is wrong with you?

    • @NoddinOff.
      @NoddinOff. 3 роки тому +3

      cassl14 You don’t know me, but what you said was repulsive, it’s clear what type of thought pattern you have.

    • @NoddinOff.
      @NoddinOff. 3 роки тому +1

      cassl14 You should stick with your crystals and detox cleanser playlists instead of letting your true colors unveil your twisted head.

    • @NoddinOff.
      @NoddinOff. 3 роки тому +2

      cassl14 This still doesn’t make sense about your tasteless joke or accusation, I don’t believe anyone here was implying or would go as far to claim he’s touching his own daughter in perverted ways. Just the fact you felt the need to say that shows your character. You’re saying he’s an incel as your excuse but he’s a married man, with a child. Honestly it really isn’t about whether you like him or not. you claim to be anti-abuse but your words are very powerful and can be used in abusive ways. Think about your own father, if some co-worker or unknown person was spreading false rumors about him touching you, would you take kindly to that? You can tell me to fuck off that’s fine, but just take a second to realize the scoop of your words and how they may influence others to spread false accusations.

  • @bellakonrad5952
    @bellakonrad5952 5 років тому +464

    when u hear "i often have problems with white nationalism, HOWEVER" that's ur cue to skedaddle

    • @snowdriftmoon
      @snowdriftmoon 5 років тому +24

      Bella Konrad I AM AN
      E M P E R I C I S T

    • @Rellikan
      @Rellikan 5 років тому +4

      You don't listen to him much do you?
      Stefan is right to feel vindicated about how easy it was for him to stage a talk in Poland. Racial homogeneity produces significantly less crime and a lot more community trust. Studies have been conducted about this between communities with varying racial diversity in the US.
      The authors have hesitated to publish their work for years trying to reach different conclusions.

    • @andrewthen8998
      @andrewthen8998 5 років тому +4

      Gigajoule Candy when you zero into police placements, crime data and wealth in the neighborhood Americans and Europeans see a predominantly black and brown representation in crime are in part because of these over representations, but people like you must also recognize is that education and access to capital (like an iMac, or other “luxuries“) you wouldn’t see the level of crime because crime is downstream from poverty and if u really care about it you have to address it

    • @andrewthen8998
      @andrewthen8998 5 років тому +6

      Gigajoule Candy Of course the study would say that Dumbass racism is extremely prevalent and wholly inescapable, past and present. Who’s surprised? Nobody. I bet they didn’t want to publish it because they thought if people read it they would think they were racists, a fact that is lost on the real racists who hold up that work as any kind of tangible proof of segregation or mass deportation or mass murder would be a good thing. Libertarian my ass, you’re another dumb Republican who hates the word Republican

    • @Rellikan
      @Rellikan 5 років тому +2

      @@andrewthen8998 Crime is not downstream from poverty. The Appalachian Mountains, predominantly white are some of the poorest communities in the US. Their crime rates defy the notion that poverty causes or is highly correlated with crime.
      Crime causes poverty, not the other way around.
      The Scottish, the Irish, the English and the Welsh used to engage in open warfare against one another for their differences in culture and ethnicity. History has many examples were violence was applied along clear inter-racial and inter-ethnic lines.
      You realise the authors were left leaning. Also you are a bigot if you automatically assume someone is racist for showing facts that hurt your feelings.
      They would have been called racist by narrow-minded bigots like you if they had not taken the time and effort to sit and bend their conclusions in ways that avoided such rash accusations.
      Believe it or not some people that disagree with you are not evil tyrants. We have principles that we stand by; universal ethics that are not withdrawn for personal or political gain. Do not project your lack of principles onto to us. The Non-Aggression Principle is vehemently in direct collision of any form of violence. Mass murder is not moral and does not follow NAP. Violating people's freedom of assembly and association is not viable with NAP. Mass deportation of legal citizens and migrants through coercion or violent force is not in congruent with NAP.
      Initiating violence or coercion is not a part of the NAP.

  • @theyoungottoman3533
    @theyoungottoman3533 5 років тому +208

    Molyneux is, as always, a opportunist of the worst kind. The wonderful John Berger intro helped in easing into this video however.

  • @sym438
    @sym438 3 роки тому +307

    "I started chatting with my daughter when she was still in her mother's womb about having sex."
    Imagine presenting yourself as a reasonable man and then just casually saying something so stupid in conversation as if it's reasonable. lmao

    • @adamweisshaup
      @adamweisshaup Рік тому +7

      "I started chatting with my daughter when she was still in her mother's womb for heavens sake"

      Hearing is kind of key to understanding.

    • @thespiceman9367
      @thespiceman9367 Рік тому

      A good visualization of how alt-righters present themselves as correct just because they present as calm and reasonable even when saying the most abhorrent and incorrect things

    • @Tobelia
      @Tobelia Рік тому +4

      @@adamweisshaupyeah he’s saying he spoke to his kid from the earliest days… so is his suggestion that the parents didn’t ever talk to their child, and this is why he couldn’t admit his sexual fantasies to them? Apart from being bizarre that would also be false even based on the manifesto

  • @a147aaron
    @a147aaron 5 років тому +2536

    the virgin stefan molyneux vs. the chad big joel

    • @caesarspeaks
      @caesarspeaks 5 років тому +159

      Et Tu, Aaron? I mean there’s a reason he’s called BIG Joel

    • @k80_
      @k80_ 5 років тому +152

      The virgin stefan vs the objectively hot troubadour big joel

    • @xenoblad
      @xenoblad 5 років тому +6

      I'm pretty sure Stefan has a daughter, but I get the point of the post.

    • @Max-nk9xg
      @Max-nk9xg 5 років тому +38

      "Chad Big Joel" sounds like he will drop UA-cam for singing Jazz in a big band.

    • @a147aaron
      @a147aaron 5 років тому +28

      Anarchist Moose buddy it’s a joke

  • @dinospumoni5611
    @dinospumoni5611 5 років тому +142

    Didn’t know Molyneux was so into intersectionality.

  • @re0294
    @re0294 4 роки тому +487

    He was just desperately grasping at straws to pick out every single thing he can justify to cover up the gaps so he doesn’t have to admit that the very ideology that he SHARES with this guy led to this event

    • @The-illuminated
      @The-illuminated 4 роки тому +1

      Your comment doesn't make sense

    • @GhostyGhost7007
      @GhostyGhost7007 4 роки тому +47

      @@The-illuminated It does

    • @punchgod
      @punchgod 4 роки тому +3

      ASAP Çhrønøß probably means you’re a bit dumb

  • @thewaronrugs8493
    @thewaronrugs8493 3 роки тому +70

    when Molyneux says "I'm an empiricist", you can feel just how smart he thinks this makes him sound.

  • @booley
    @booley 5 років тому +506

    One would also think that if Molyneux was honest, he would consider that Elliot Rodger may be what is called an Unreliable Narrator.
    Notice how everything in Elliot's life wasn't just bad but some other person's fault?

    • @YokaiX
      @YokaiX 4 роки тому +34

      Tbh I always just assumed that was Elliot being his usual “psychologically incapable of taking responsibility” self.

    • @momogasi7930
      @momogasi7930 4 роки тому +8

      悪妖怪Evil Darth YōkaiXالشر شبح It is, and by extension he becomes an Unreliable Narrator

    • @The_Mighty_Fiction
      @The_Mighty_Fiction 4 роки тому +1

      OK, so he's an unreliable narrator, _except_ when it comes to the white supremisogyny stuff which is the super-cereal product of a lucid and rational mind? Are those the _only_ parts of the Manifesto that are reliable, then?

    • @breh9243
      @breh9243 4 роки тому +10

      @@The_Mighty_Fiction yes

    • @coltonphillips7781
      @coltonphillips7781 4 роки тому +40

      @@The_Mighty_Fiction like everything else, those parts are his ideological conclusions he ended up at by blaming everyone else. I dont get why you're trying to reach there.

  • @QuintonReviews
    @QuintonReviews 5 років тому +755

    Skateboarding was one of the straws that broke Elliot's back and made him kill
    ~ Stevahhan Milnousskks

    • @leiram8833
      @leiram8833 5 років тому +7

      Hi dad!

    • @wanderingoryx3710
      @wanderingoryx3710 5 років тому +2

      Galaxy's Edge is garbage

    • @abandonedchannel281
      @abandonedchannel281 5 років тому +6

      Wandering Oryx That’s a hot take

    • @wanderingoryx3710
      @wanderingoryx3710 5 років тому

      @@abandonedchannel281 Quinton's degrading back into his slumpy, unshaven mess of a self is a hot take the big black beautiful JLong Bone stated in a three hour stream.

    • @theinternet1424
      @theinternet1424 5 років тому +7

      Lolyneueux just keeps adding them straws until it breaks the back of another camel - the purpose of his narrative. The message is basically: Just please don't blame misogyny and other ideological problems that Roger himself made evident in his own manifesto, blame everything that ever happened to him at the same time and indulge in pointless detail!

  • @albinocavewoman
    @albinocavewoman 5 років тому +348

    I suppose, it goes without saying, Stefan is disrespectful and opportunistic.

    • @alexsmith2910
      @alexsmith2910 5 років тому +6

      Yes. Easiest upvote of my life. You've earned it.

    • @darknessml6145
      @darknessml6145 5 років тому +1

      @@alexsmith2910 "We don't use that word here"

    • @hamluk_
      @hamluk_ 5 років тому +4

      @@darknessml6145 upvote sounds more important because it's got vote in it, a like doesn't have the same weight, and them's the facts 😩

    • @kieranstark7213
      @kieranstark7213 5 років тому +3

      So is Elliot Rodger and other people/characters with "Nice Guy Syndrome" where the guys assault girls that ask for actual nice guys.

    • @wanderingoryx3710
      @wanderingoryx3710 5 років тому +1

      One dollar

  • @dougthedonkey1805
    @dougthedonkey1805 2 роки тому +169

    Going back to this video, I think there’s a big point you missed. Stefan takes everything Elliot days as fact. He sympathizes with him more than he does the victims. He believes him and rids him of guilt by exercising each excuse Elliot makes. A rational, skeptic reader would read Elliot’s manifesto and learn more about Elliot from it than they would learn about the world. Stefan, on the other hand, seems to have learned nothing about Elliot, and instead taken the manifesto as gospel, with the goal of learning about the world from it.
    Needless to say, it’s disgustingly rude and abhorring to the victims. For one supposedly so obsessed with respect, he seems to not care how much he sees eye-to-eye with their murderer.

    • @UndeadSlayer5
      @UndeadSlayer5 Рік тому +1

      He doesn’t look like someone who would worship him

    • @thespiceman9367
      @thespiceman9367 Рік тому +18

      Yeah, it's obvious that Elliot was a privileged narcissist that acted like everyone was out to get him whenever something didn't go his way. The summer camp story for example is basically just "boo hoo, my parents made me go outside as a kid instead of letting me play video games inside all summer"

    • @alexwyatt2911
      @alexwyatt2911 9 місяців тому +4

      @@thespiceman9367 And, as was pointed out in this video, he _liked_ summer camp-just like his parents believed that he would.

  • @papalosopher
    @papalosopher 5 років тому +239

    Boy oh boy, Stefan sure knows how to talk to his audience.
    "YES! Stefan! YES! Every single unpleasant thing that happens to me IS enormously significant."

    • @johannageisel5390
      @johannageisel5390 5 років тому +43

      Woman: "In seventh grade, a nice boy didn't want to share his lunch with me. Since then I only choose assholes. This was just another straw on my back, together with being made to wear uncomfortable socks."

    • @sptony2718
      @sptony2718 5 років тому +8

      I snubbed my toe. It isn't sprained or anything, it's just unpleasant as fuck. That's E N O R M O U S L Y S I G N I F I C A N T...

    • @vlogo4371
      @vlogo4371 5 років тому +9

      Someone else not immediately bending over backwards to indulge me is a straw on my back!

    • @JCLegendary
      @JCLegendary 5 років тому +8

      "Is enormously significant, AND justifies my bad behavior."

    • @papalosopher
      @papalosopher 5 років тому

      @ShaddowSabbath I will think about this.

  • @gregorycomey
    @gregorycomey 5 років тому +899

    I've never heard anything intelligent come from Stefan Molyneux.

    • @TheKiroshi
      @TheKiroshi 5 років тому +13

      Hes a total dope when it comes to anything related to culture (which is nearly everything)
      But this is probably one of the more reasonable videos.. sadly, he continues to push away criticism that he always may follow.

    • @squirrel1331
      @squirrel1331 5 років тому +4

      stepon mypoo heheheh

    • @lennoxbaumbach390
      @lennoxbaumbach390 5 років тому +2

      Me neither.

    • @TheSugarRay
      @TheSugarRay 5 років тому +2

      Same

    • @ejnarsorensen2920
      @ejnarsorensen2920 5 років тому +8

      But, but, he says he's an empiricist!

  • @crewmatewillthrowthesehand7600
    @crewmatewillthrowthesehand7600 5 років тому +753

    the mental gymnastics of the far right astounds me to this day

    • @alexsmith2910
      @alexsmith2910 5 років тому +72

      Facts don't care about their delusions.

    • @Lrripper
      @Lrripper 5 років тому +52

      It's intentional bad faith done in order to achieve straight cis white male supremacy.

    • @sorryifoldcomment8596
      @sorryifoldcomment8596 5 років тому +10

      Well you know what they say, reality has a liberal bias! 😂
      (Of course, I wouldn't want to imply *objective truth* actually does exist and can be observed...that might sound "partisan" and I don't want to trigger any conservatives. 🙄

    • @sorryifoldcomment8596
      @sorryifoldcomment8596 5 років тому +4

      @@Lrripper GASP 😰 I thought liberals were all about tolerating different faiths! So much for the "tolerant left" huh 😂

    • @Eddbrain
      @Eddbrain 5 років тому

      Alex Smith I’m gonna quote this comment someday, thank you :)

  • @MrKaneShadow
    @MrKaneShadow 3 роки тому +58

    If there's one thing I know for sure, it's that when someone pulls off a murder/suicide you should totally take their own word for everything that happened in their life because it's likely accurate and not sociopathic

    • @thevioletbee5879
      @thevioletbee5879 Рік тому +2

      Honestly I can take him at his word because his childhood sounds genuinely solid for the most part.

  • @ocelotlmunoz2799
    @ocelotlmunoz2799 5 років тому +392

    It seems people like Stephan are so quick to remove any sort of agency from these murderers and place the blame anywhere else (read women).
    And the thing that gets me most about that line of thinking is that there are countless scores of people who have endured exponentially more pain and trauma and hardship than any elliot roger ever experienced and they never shot anyone.
    Stop coddling violent men with toxic ideologies and hold them accountable for their actions smh.

    • @oldishandwoke-ish1181
      @oldishandwoke-ish1181 4 роки тому +2

      ocelotl muñoz And the so,ution to it all is .... more of the "free" market! 🤨

    • @no_peace
      @no_peace 4 роки тому

      I agree about molyneux and his agenda
      The thing about "people had it harder and THEY didn't shoot anyone" is a problem though honestly. Obviously there are components of violence in how many cultures raise young men, but i mean by the same logic, lots of young men don't shoot people. There was something wrong with him, his parents maybe sucked, it was a perfect storm and there was no adequate intervention. And he should not have had access to guns in the first place.
      Just in terms of research, not him specifically, some people experience extreme adversity and turn out basically fine or even great because they have temperamental resilience and they have some level of support no matter how small. Really it can be almost nothing. Other people cut a swath of destruction through the world after experiencing much less adversity, because they don't have those resources to deal with it. It affects their brain and entire body.
      The reason this is important is that WE, as citizens, as community members, can have an effect on this, but making it seem like an individual problem will not help. It's not an individual problem. "Psychopaths" develop as kids before they ever have a chance to become someone else. That's not on them that's on the adults around them.

    • @xenonsan3110
      @xenonsan3110 4 роки тому +5

      @@no_peace there does come a point though that it's no longer society's problem and that of the individual. Yes, we can say if maybe society wasn't so based in puritan/conservative views of sex, sexual orientation, and gender roles then he wouldnt have believed what he did. If his parents or friends caught on to his beliefs and tried to help him. If someone saw that he was struggling with mental illness and helped him seek help
      The fact of the matter is is that he ended up committing a crime. He himself decided to do that and by blaiming it on society it doesn't excuse that fact. Basically, everyone likes to excuse their actions by blaiming it on other things instead of taking personal responsibility (I know I've done it before although I try not to)
      Should we as a society all try to look out for this behaviour and help those who fall into it? Yes, absolutely but not at the cost of your personal safety, mental wellbeing, and rights. I can't force these people to go to therapy or get help, I can only suggest it. And at that point, it's no longer society's fault, but theirs for refusing help

    • @theash4361
      @theash4361 4 роки тому +2

      @@xenonsan3110 I'm sorry if this is a bit too nit-picky, but blaming puritan/conservative values of gender and sexuality and a lack of professional help (which he actually did receive) is a stretch in the same manner as Molyneux blaming liberalism. You're projecting your world view into this situation, which is counterproductive.

    • @xenonsan3110
      @xenonsan3110 4 роки тому +1

      @@theash4361 it's not nit picky don't worry! Of course there are a million other things that could contribute to this situation. It's not solely one person's fault or one evil in society. I just know that personally those values harmed me growing up and I had to hid my sexuality and gender among many other things. I didnt have alot of healthy relationships until recently because subconsciously I was still thinking of the gender roles projected on me growing up. Do all conservative values and puritan values affect everyone like this? No, some of them honestly are very good values to have (such as finances). I'm just offering one explanation of many :)

  • @nisiwilli
    @nisiwilli 5 років тому +300

    This guy have a daughter?...oh no, poor child

    • @astoldbynickgerr
      @astoldbynickgerr 5 років тому +5

      Nissi Nisi what I was thinking!

    • @JohnDoe-wj3lv
      @JohnDoe-wj3lv 4 роки тому +2

      Watch some of his videos with her. She seems happy and well adjusted

    • @JohnDoe-wj3lv
      @JohnDoe-wj3lv 4 роки тому +1

      Ryan Kruse most people have the capacity to read other people based on their voice and interactions. Maybe that’s too much to ask from you

  • @Ploskkky
    @Ploskkky 4 роки тому +220

    The more I learn about him, the creepier and creepier Stefan Molyneux becomes.

  • @radiobob1908
    @radiobob1908 Рік тому +68

    Look, I had stepmom problems. I got rejected by lots of girls. I experienced shame over perfectly normal adolescent feelings. I had bad experiences at summer camp. I even went to an elementary school with too many complicated, arbitrary rules. But instead of murdering people, I went to therapy and transed my gender. Now I'm a relatively well-adjusted weirdo.

    • @biggestastiest
      @biggestastiest Рік тому +13

      i feel like transing your gender does solve alot of problems unknown to you in your adolescence

    • @legrandliseurtri7495
      @legrandliseurtri7495 Рік тому +6

      That's the thing, none of Elliot's described life experiences are super unusual. Many people have messy and frustrating romance (in)experience when they're teenagers. Many people will have some unpleasant moments at summer camps. Many will be confused by the rigid structure of elementary school. There's nothing special about all this.,

  • @louisa9914
    @louisa9914 5 років тому +227

    if you pop enough straws on the camel, you've got yourself a strawman

    • @johannageisel5390
      @johannageisel5390 5 років тому +3

      This deserves more upvotes.

    • @johannageisel5390
      @johannageisel5390 5 років тому +5

      @Christopher Stanley Uhm, the straw is atop the camel.
      I know there are instances, when one camel is somehow on top of another, but in these instances the upper camel is more towards the rear end of the lower camel.
      But when you put the straw onto the camel's back, it's in the place of a human rider. Therefore, it'll form a straw man, not a straw camel.
      Now I wonder what straw camels might have to do with needle eyes.

    • @yaeli_i_guess
      @yaeli_i_guess 5 років тому +1

      Oof. Good comment

    • @-whatthefuckdidyoujustfuck3405
      @-whatthefuckdidyoujustfuck3405 5 років тому +2

      This video summarized in one comment

    • @dominickperez2952
      @dominickperez2952 5 років тому

      @@-whatthefuckdidyoujustfuck3405 Stefan's or Joel's?

  • @MJFERMEZLA
    @MJFERMEZLA 4 роки тому +215

    Am I the only one who remarks that this guy who claims to not put political agenda on the case of Elliot Rodger... does exactly that ? I mean he just says in the most political corectness way that it's because of video game and the lost of tradition like stay sexually abstinent when you have kids, anti-divorce, anti-prostition and pornography, that's conservatism, that's a political agenda.

    • @pablomagno4679
      @pablomagno4679 4 роки тому +14

      Life it's a political agenda. Anyone who says otherwise is trying to push a political agenda. Usually an anti-life one.

    • @neofromthewarnerbrothersic145
      @neofromthewarnerbrothersic145 2 роки тому +5

      Late response, but no, you're far from the only one to point this out. I've seen tons of comments saying the same thing.

  • @MissVintage789
    @MissVintage789 5 років тому +315

    Who the hell would talk about their sexual desires/fantasies with their parents?

    • @DanielGarcia-wn9so
      @DanielGarcia-wn9so 5 років тому +1

      These MEN (us), have obssession with sex and sexuality. Isn't about what it feels exactly but what it represents, so it makes sense that adolescents struggle with this concept and need adult's help.
      But at the same time: ILL

    • @joywolfe.
      @joywolfe. 5 років тому +20

      Даниель Гарсия Well that's the thing about human experience though. Sure, if we could cultivate some perfect, lab tested way of developing a healthy childhood, maybe that would be something really great and helpful, but that still doesn't mean it isn't perfectly normal and definitely not outright dangerous that teenagers are private about their sexuality. Almost all of them are, and almost none of them become what Elliot roger Became

    • @blupeppers6437
      @blupeppers6437 4 роки тому

      Stefan Molyneux probably did that

    • @oldishandwoke-ish1181
      @oldishandwoke-ish1181 4 роки тому +12

      mia And what kind of creepy ass parent would be poking his/her nose into their son's/daughter's private evolving sexuality?

    • @movimentodoscacos
      @movimentodoscacos 4 роки тому +6

      @@molvania6330 Sure, that's fine, talking about this as a young adult, but in adolescence people tend to be way less open about it. And tbf even your particular relationship with your parents in regards to sex is not the norm. But yeah, it can happen and I feel if we didn't shame people who are into sex (aka most people) - something that Molyneux does here, for example - it would be easier and healthier to talk to your parents about sex. After all, they are there to help you and they have more experience.

  • @wraynephew6838
    @wraynephew6838 2 роки тому +109

    At 22 years old there is plenty of time in life to lose your virginity. Hard to imagine someone that desperate that they think it will never happen. The kid literally had a good 50 years to figure it out. Some people would love to set the clock back at be 22 years old again. Such a wasted life and such horrible thing he did to innocent people.

    • @leafyishereisdumbnameakath4259
      @leafyishereisdumbnameakath4259 Рік тому

      Some die at 22

    • @buldermatts2968
      @buldermatts2968 Рік тому +16

      @@leafyishereisdumbnameakath4259 thank you, LeafyIsHere Funny Moments Fan Channel, very insightful.

    • @leafyishereisdumbnameakath4259
      @leafyishereisdumbnameakath4259 Рік тому

      @@buldermatts2968 lmaoo. Bro can't even read

    • @newtfigton8795
      @newtfigton8795 2 місяці тому

      It actually becomes harder to lose it as you get older, because women hate older virgins. The older the virgin, the more disgusted they feel. You have to lose it young or you have NO chance later.

  • @SiraSpirit
    @SiraSpirit 5 років тому +419

    Still horrified by the idea that Stefan Molyneux has a daughter.

    • @cadencenavigator958
      @cadencenavigator958 5 років тому +53

      "I talked to her while in her mother's womb about sex"... goodness, I hope that Molyneux's daughter is okay.

    • @LimeyLassen
      @LimeyLassen 5 років тому +22

      Probably an estranged daughter by this point

    • @Albirie
      @Albirie 5 років тому +32

      @@LimeyLassen Well she's like 10 so not yet, but probably someday.

    • @robynhoodie
      @robynhoodie 5 років тому +73

      We should blame his wife for falling for an asshole.

    • @FreyaEinde
      @FreyaEinde 5 років тому +15

      Albirie the Blue She’s nearly at that age when girls get weirdly obsessed with witchcraft for a little bit

  • @HylianKilljoy
    @HylianKilljoy 4 роки тому +100

    It is REALLY uncomforting to see a man like Molyneaux fall into the "nice guy" mentality. It reminds us that this doesn't just exist in online forums of young men, this mentality is in the real world and it's dangerous.

    • @drpibisback7680
      @drpibisback7680 3 роки тому +11

      This man has a wife! Not only did he fall into the nice guy trap, but he did so despite actually getting a woman to sleep with him! That's what really baffles me: it's one shitty thing to be angry because you feel entitled to sex and don't have it, but for someone to feel angry _on behalf_ of people who feel entitled to have sex and don't?

    • @plaie7358
      @plaie7358 Рік тому +2

      I was an unsuccesful teenage boy just a few years before incel culture became a real thing, all we had was basic memes about nice guys, without a whole political Mysoginistic ideology backing it up. If i was born a few years later and i would definitely have been part of this big hate group cause of rejection and feeling unwanted.

  • @Ivytheherbert
    @Ivytheherbert 3 роки тому +29

    "Please don't politicise this tragedy" usually means "political views I agree with helped to cause this tragedy".

  • @veero7575
    @veero7575 5 років тому +189

    I feel like one of the problems with his assessment is that he’s taking a lot of what’s in the manifesto at face value, not necessarily considering the person it’s coming from. Jumping through hoops and finding ‘straws on camels’ to justify a literal interpretation of events without considering the likelihood that the specifics of things that “happened to” Elliot Rogers by his own account are exaggerated if not outright falsified by nature of his own delusions.

    • @Ddiaboloer
      @Ddiaboloer 5 років тому +27

      Clearly done because Stefan Molyneux knows that his own political beliefs are the real cause of the violence and is using as many excuses to distract from that fact

    • @adamblumenau6569
      @adamblumenau6569 5 років тому +19

      Alt-Right demagogues can't operate in a framework that admits unreliable narrators exist, it would make what they're doing too obvious

    • @Nenona1200
      @Nenona1200 5 років тому +25

      Exactly, that's precisely what happened as well, there's stuff from his stepmother(Soumiya) who actively tried to help him, cooked for him, etc. At one point he writes about how she made him some "disgusting soup" which is a traditional dish in Morocco, where she's from, and not gross at all, but the way he writes it, it's like she cooked something she knew he would definitely hate to "punish him". He saw women saying they weren't interested as purposefully trying to hurt him.
      The words I've heard in regard to this kind of outlook is "wound collecting"--i.e. this collection of situations where they purposefully see everything they don't like, or find ways to dislike things, in order to justify an attack on people or a group of people they already don't like. He wrote what was essentially, the list of wounds he'd felt he collected, and he clearly was not a remotely liable narrator and reading through it, you cannot take his word as truth. I understand that it's how he *felt* things happened, but it clearly was not how they actually happened.

    • @Yoarashi
      @Yoarashi 5 років тому +13

      @Ddiaboloer Depressing as it is to contemplate, I think there's a fair chance that Molyneux genuinely doesn't comprehend that his ideology was the cause of what Rodger did - though I do agree he's certainly invested in trying to prove otherwise. I don't think people like Rodger or Molyneux have ever in their lives truly understood or even questioned the motivations behind their own words and actions, and aren't interested in doing so. It's all just knee-jerk reactions followed by rationalizations after the fact. People like that cannot/won't ever truly ask themselves whether their emotions, like a feeling of being mistreated by being made to go to school, might be unjustified. They can only infer that anything they don't enjoy inherently IS mistreatment. Likewise, Molyneux doesn't like the idea of being (held) responsible for what Rodger did, so to him that means he just simply isn't.

    • @partylikeits1066
      @partylikeits1066 5 років тому +8

      @@Yoarashi yes, I think this is a pretty spot on description of the mindset of people like molyneaux and other far right agitators. They entirely lack self reflection or understanding

  • @veero7575
    @veero7575 5 років тому +80

    17:06 “...half of her ‘gina hanging out”
    Unrelated but equally important.

    • @johannageisel5390
      @johannageisel5390 5 років тому +18

      Indeed. A prolapsed vagina is a serious medical condition that should be immediately treated.

    • @johannageisel5390
      @johannageisel5390 5 років тому +11

      (No, it's actually not. It's just uncomfortable and can have harmful complications.)

  • @hayleighmiller9660
    @hayleighmiller9660 5 років тому +92

    i also feel like stefan being able to say that elliots parents forcing him to go to camp is one of the many valid reasons that elliot wanted to kill people is... worrying.

    • @oldishandwoke-ish1181
      @oldishandwoke-ish1181 4 роки тому +7

      hayleigh miller My parents forced me to go to school! Where can I get a gun? Oh wait, I'm not a man....

    • @momogasi7930
      @momogasi7930 4 роки тому +2

      Jennifer Akdemir What ARE you then? A lizard? A ROBOT? perhaps BOTH?! Gasp

    • @oldishandwoke-ish1181
      @oldishandwoke-ish1181 4 роки тому +1

      Tomato Chan Try a woman, my dear Tomato.

  • @LunarChaos
    @LunarChaos 4 роки тому +106

    He practiced self-isolation at different points in time. He had people reach out to him to be his friend, and he rejected them. How much you wanna bet he rejected some 'ugly' girl because she wasn't his 'type'. Guess who sends their kids to camp?! Parents that FUCKING work. Omg the world ends because my parent doesn't want me to sit at home unsupervised. He had a BMW, didn't have to worry about paying for college, probably would have a had a good job...PROBABLY WOULD HAVE FOUND A GF EVENTUALLY. Damn some people are late bloomers. Most people can't have a quality relationship until they are stable enough to be in one. And to say he didn't believe the stuff he said, come on bro. Thats like saying Kanye don't believe what he is saying. Its ironic that they keep repeating the same thing in different ways for years. But your not supposed to believe him. His parents should have been more responsible for him, and making sure they taught him the skills to connect with other people. Honestly i seen his videos...and he didnt have a good personality, and he chose to an ass to people.
    And to blanket this with his mental illness. Does a disservice to the millions of people who have mental health issues and don't kill people.

    • @LunarChaos
      @LunarChaos 4 роки тому +32

      Most incels always scream how great they are, how much they have, how great of a catch they are..but when you look at them and their history. They do not have great PERSONALITIES, they want women to be beneath them. Most women are not going to be with feeling less than in a relationship.

  • @Rawrbagels
    @Rawrbagels 4 роки тому +498

    Stefan: I started talking to my daughter in the womb
    Stefan Molyneux to his unborn daughter: "You, my daughter, are already a second class citizen as it should and always will be. You are the death of society and the scourge of man. You are destined to subjugate yourself to a man who will hit you because he loves you and your innate worth is less than his. Love you as an object!"

    • @brain_apostrophe_t
      @brain_apostrophe_t 4 роки тому +82

      And if your husband or child turns out to be a bad person thats your fault. Not theirs, lets not even bring up how they have control over their own lives.

    • @Rawrbagels
      @Rawrbagels 4 роки тому +4

      @@brain_apostrophe_t besides the fact that your comment seems irrelevant to the point I made; That Stefan treats women as less than human. I would say all though no parent would eve be at fault they should be considered a factor. To say "parents play no factor in the way a person turns out" would be fallacious. And obviously the amount of influence parents have on their kids varies by case. But they certainly play a large roll in the development of the person typically.

    • @digdug1489
      @digdug1489 4 роки тому +54

      @@Rawrbagels ??? They were agreeing with you by making a satirical joke

    • @marcschwartz5676
      @marcschwartz5676 4 роки тому +10

      In the context of the video, I literally pictured him loudly giving the sex talk to a pregnant belly.

    • @sweetbunnybun
      @sweetbunnybun 4 роки тому +17

      no wonder his wife divorced him and he allegedly can not see his child. that's why he's crazy and guess his wife left him because he was crazy, vicious cycle.

  • @lunaraydue1340
    @lunaraydue1340 4 роки тому +372

    As a psychology student, I do like to look at the circumstances in someone's life that could have led them to a certain point, all the different factors that could contribute to an unusual and tragic outcome. However, an important aspect that's often overlooked is that we DON'T and CAN'T know every single thing that happened in a person's life. As detailed as Elliot Roger's manifesto is, it's only a narrow, biased window into what HE thought were the things that led him to that point. It's impossible to be truly objective about yourself (and about others, for that matter) and we have no way of knowing what details were left out, made up, or warped. I haven't read the whole thing myself, but it's clear from what I have seen that much of what he mentions are things he's using for his own justification, trying to use to explain why he ended up like that even if it may be an illusory correlation. There ARE a lot of factors involved in this, certainly, but in the end it was his own decision to get involved in the ideology he did and plan out such a heinous event, not only because of the things that shaped his life, but how he reacted to them and chose to cope.

    • @The_Mighty_Fiction
      @The_Mighty_Fiction 4 роки тому +22

      ^This. I've been trying to get this across for ages, that the Manifesto is just being used in a tug-of-blame between people trying to pull the whole thing over to their agenda. Question; as a psychology student, do you have any knowledge of psycho-pharmaceuticals? Rodger was apparently coming off risperidone, and I've read that withdrawal has a bunch of possible side effects, hallucinations, delusions, dissociation, suicidal mood swings and so on. I'm wondering if this might've been a factor in this and similar cases.

    • @lunaraydue1340
      @lunaraydue1340 4 роки тому +17

      ​@@The_Mighty_Fiction I have only limited knowledge of anti-psychotics, but it seems that Rodgers refused to take the medication he was perscribed at all, so I don't believe he would have been suffering from withdrawl effects. However, as a result of not taking the medication at all, the symptoms of what it was supposed to be treating would still be present and potentially getting worse, as they may have in his case. It's uncertain what specifically he was diagnosed with to be given this medication to my knowledge, but risperidone is used to treat mood disorders (most commonly schizophrenia, bipolar disorder, and irritability associated with autism), so we can infer his diagnosis was likely something along those lines and the symptoms of that could very likely be a contributing factor to his actions.

    • @elisabethnordin
      @elisabethnordin 3 роки тому +10

      Sure and its inherently difficult to pinpoint everything because everyone is different, exist on a spectrum and are triggered in different ways differently at any one moment. If there is an algorithm to predict behaviour, it will inevitably be individualistic and infinite due to infinite quasalities. Point is: not every behaviour is excusable just because it can be understandable.

    • @xyaeiounn
      @xyaeiounn 3 роки тому +8

      Reading the manifestos or musings of hideous criminals can have a corrosive effect on the reader. They all blame victims and use reason and logic as expedient tools. It's like holding a coloured lens up to the world and looking at the distorted image that results. John E Duncan's blog the Fifth Nail is an amazing example. If we find ourselves informed in any way though, that's a failing in our critical reading. Anders Breivik and the Columbine shooters faced the same troubles as anyone else, but chose to snap and lash out as a grab for relevance. Stefan is just a very weak version of that same hateful, warped outlook.

    • @vice2versa
      @vice2versa Рік тому +1

      @@xyaeiounn but that outlook exists for a reason.

  • @sugarblunt
    @sugarblunt 4 роки тому +351

    I feel so bad for his daughter and wife my god

    • @robertwoods8939
      @robertwoods8939 3 роки тому

      I feel bad for me having found big no talent joel.

    • @clintwood731
      @clintwood731 3 роки тому +47

      @@robertwoods8939 boohoo, want me to play the smallest violin for you?

    • @tellthetruthna8523
      @tellthetruthna8523 2 роки тому +7

      His wife is an adult who should know better. She enables him at the expense of her own daughter. Pretty sick.

  • @minabright9894
    @minabright9894 4 роки тому +89

    From what he revealed , this dude had a very very very decent childhood even a good one , people get raped by their parents and still manage to grow up and deal with trauma and not mass murder and hate half of the human population.

    • @thinkngskeptic
      @thinkngskeptic Рік тому +2

      The fact that most people who are abused are able to overcome it doesn't mean that most people who are criminals weren't influenced by abuse