Communication Skills and Conflict Resolution in Healthy Relationships

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  • Опубліковано 27 вер 2024
  • Counselor Carl (serenityonlinet...) describes 4 essential skills for successful conflict resolution in healthy relationships. He explains that conflict is inevitable as two people bring their lives together, so conflict is not the problem. Rather, the problem is when two people do not have the skills to resolve conflicts in healthy and effective ways. And finally, he asks several questions to help you pinpoint which skills you and your partner or friend will need to improve to successfully resolve conflicts. Counselor Carl's straight-forward teaching style makes complex concepts easy to understand. Counselor Carl is a licensed, professional counselor with 19 years of clinical experience both online and face-to-face.

КОМЕНТАРІ • 38

  • @theultimateman7231
    @theultimateman7231 4 роки тому +2

    I like the fact that you talk about the big things in a relationship. Money is the biggest one. great video

  • @sacmakiz
    @sacmakiz 8 років тому +4

    Always clicking the thumbs-up button before the reminder. 😆 Thank you for the videos! ❤

  • @LivingwithLivvy101
    @LivingwithLivvy101 Рік тому

    I just found your channel. This is one of the most helpful videos I have seen discussing conflict resolution. Thank you for explaining this so clearly and carefully.

  • @dierdrahughes2990
    @dierdrahughes2990 Рік тому

    Great information!, I just found your channel and I would like to ask if you would speak about Estrangements; I had never heard of this until it happened to me. I will keep listening and pay close attention to my life!!. Thank you.

    • @Serenityonlinetherapy
      @Serenityonlinetherapy  Рік тому

      Hi Dierdra. I also have a playlist of videos on mindfulness if you want to learn a lot more about "paying attention to your life."

  • @tl5404
    @tl5404 3 роки тому +3

    This is so good, concise and helpful. Thank you for this! Please keep them coming!

  • @daughteroflight8624
    @daughteroflight8624 2 роки тому

    Excellent video.
    Thanks Counselor Carl.💙💫✨

  • @TBR_LLC
    @TBR_LLC 5 років тому +2

    How do you know if you are skillful at expressing yourself?

    • @Serenityonlinetherapy
      @Serenityonlinetherapy  5 років тому +4

      Are you saying what you mean, meaning what you say, without saying it mean? Are you truly advocating for what you need or want in relationships in a direct but respectful way? Or might you be beating around the bush, hinting at what you want or need, or being silent altogether, hoping that others will read you mind about what you need or want rather than you having to express it?

  • @Everything-dr1wb
    @Everything-dr1wb Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing 🙏👍👂

  • @istarigreenman8235
    @istarigreenman8235 3 роки тому

    Carl, how would this work in a NT/AS relationship?

    • @Serenityonlinetherapy
      @Serenityonlinetherapy  3 роки тому

      Hi, Istari. I don't know what you are asking.

    • @istarigreenman8235
      @istarigreenman8235 3 роки тому

      Would the skills you talk about work within a relationship where one person is Neurotypical and the other person is Asperger Syndrome/Autism Spectrum?

    • @Serenityonlinetherapy
      @Serenityonlinetherapy  3 роки тому +1

      @@istarigreenman8235 Hi, Istari. I am no expert on working with clients with NT/AS. Still, I think if any person is open to learning new ways to communicate, he or she can make progress. After all, these are just skills that can be learned. I have worked with clients with many disorders - ADHD, depression, chronic anxiety - who have benefited from intentionally choosing to learn new communication skills.

  • @T333TN
    @T333TN 3 роки тому

    Great video!

  • @darlingtonboobam4107
    @darlingtonboobam4107 7 років тому +4

    another awesome and helpful. video.. thank you... counselor Carl.

  • @jamestracey5958
    @jamestracey5958 Рік тому

    My wife says thank you🤩🤩

  • @rameshsharma4422
    @rameshsharma4422 3 роки тому +2

    Helpful? No I find this video golden... Such a crucial information for free... My parents are dysfunctional I had to learn everything on my own... Thank you 🎉

    • @Serenityonlinetherapy
      @Serenityonlinetherapy  3 роки тому

      You're welcome, Ramesh. I'm glad you found this video helpful. Best wishes!

  • @adeelali8417
    @adeelali8417 3 роки тому

    Aaah so good.

  • @DOOMPASSERS
    @DOOMPASSERS Рік тому

    This is top down, the best conflict management video I've seen. I've really identified which is the problem area within my current relationship. This video is timeless!

  • @h20doctor
    @h20doctor 3 роки тому

    Pain and simple... Thank you !!!

    • @Serenityonlinetherapy
      @Serenityonlinetherapy  3 роки тому

      You're welcome!

    • @h20doctor
      @h20doctor 3 роки тому

      @@Serenityonlinetherapy I watched so many videos in the last week trying to find just a simple structure and outline for communicating and your The only one that laid it out in simple terms.. so thank you very much

  • @new_light-xq6cd
    @new_light-xq6cd 7 років тому

    I have not skillfully expressed myself, nearly losing my sister, of 40years 😥

    • @Serenityonlinetherapy
      @Serenityonlinetherapy  7 років тому

      new_light 2017 Sorry to hear that. Maybe trying to skillfully express yourself to her might help.

    • @new_light-xq6cd
      @new_light-xq6cd 7 років тому

      Counselor Carl I will do that. I see I have some work to do with me.

    • @Serenityonlinetherapy
      @Serenityonlinetherapy  7 років тому

      new_light 2017. I wish you the best!

  • @stephanienelson1381
    @stephanienelson1381 8 років тому

    very good