Cam-Girl Turned Murderer: Case of Matthew Trussler

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  • @HaileyElizabethh
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    • @Imcornholioo
      @Imcornholioo Рік тому +9

      Hey Hailey i have a video suggestion. You should look into the stalker Bjork had in the 90’s. Some pretty heavy stuff.

    • @yvechapman9342
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    • @megaelixir_elix
      @megaelixir_elix Рік тому

      @@Imcornholioo I thought I was the only one who recalls hearing about that once. I mention it sometimes to folks (in my age range who were old enough to understand media in 90s), and I always get weird looks that makes me feel like I'm having the Mandela Effect or something Lol

    • @belledejour280
      @belledejour280 Рік тому

      @@Imcornholioo yes!!!

  • @LynLyn2000
    @LynLyn2000 Рік тому +530

    The ring audio genuinly freaked me out so much. Hearing the rage in someone’s voice before, during, and/or after taking someone’s life away is…. horrific

  • @heyimsasa
    @heyimsasa Рік тому +749

    people don't see it as such because it's the least obvious form of abuse but financial isolation almost always leads to social isolation. "stay in the house and take care of it so that i can take care of you" is such a red flag. it's really sneaky too, especially when abusers aren't being physically abusive.

    • @uzomannorom1409
      @uzomannorom1409 Рік тому +27

      it's even worse that her financial and social abuse turned verbal and physical, a myriad mix of domestic abuses

    • @lauren9004
      @lauren9004 Рік тому +1

      EXACTLY

    • @stephanieclark1487
      @stephanieclark1487 Рік тому +13

      My ex tried to do that to me. I refused to quote my job or give up my car. Things got worse after that because he couldn’t completely control me. I eventually got away. Scary times I’m my life honestly.

    • @k_a_y_l_e_e
      @k_a_y_l_e_e Рік тому +8

      financial abuse needs to be spoken about more becasue it's insidious.

    • @Name-sb1fr
      @Name-sb1fr Рік тому +6

      Was he attempting to leave her.
      1. The way she reacted in the room, "are you just going to leave me, at least keep me company" = Can't be left alone.
      2. Holds strongly on sentimental value: the couch, photo album to high attachment level = Can't let go.

  • @paolafrias
    @paolafrias Рік тому +2121

    It blows my mind how people think they can kill someone and get away with it. If you really want to get rid of someone, why wouldn’t you just break up with them?

    • @thegrimlooper
      @thegrimlooper Рік тому +136

      For people like this, they dont want to break up. They want to completely control them, and usually they dont intend to kill them- but it ends that way because the aggressor really needs help to deal with their emotions. But the second you kill or really hurt someone, usuallly there’s no going back.

    • @pleaseshutup7053
      @pleaseshutup7053 Рік тому +60

      Over 50% of murders are never solved. My sister in law was murder never solved my cousins was shot confined to a wheelchair never solved

    • @nicholasschoonbeck6866
      @nicholasschoonbeck6866 Рік тому

      In this case? This seems like drinking & very unhealthy patterns, a murder of passion in the moment. But more broadly, I think about that all the time, especially in relation to data that we have. Men murder women in huge numbers in America, & they often seem pretty confident that they will get away with it. We have good data that says they way we raise boys & girls, from elementary school & moving forward, we "encourage" boys to be confident & self assured, & we "encourage" women to stay quiet, & feel a lot of self doubt. As adults, many men think they are smarter & more capable than they really are, when tested. And many women don't feel as intelligent & capable as they really are. So, I often wonder how many women & kids would be alive if men had a better understanding of just how incapable they are of succeeding in their murders?

    • @freddiedisapproves
      @freddiedisapproves Рік тому +37

      @@pleaseshutup7053 im so sorry, i hope they get justice some day :(

    • @a.m4863
      @a.m4863 Рік тому +1

      ​@@thegrimlooper ⁷Io

  • @torturachina6452
    @torturachina6452 Рік тому +976

    I feel like in a friend group at a bar everytime I watch Hailey Elizabeth

  • @bellaboopixi
    @bellaboopixi Рік тому +664

    Its hard to even listen to the interrogation. Shes soooo annoying. Poor matthew :(

    • @emo_penguin420
      @emo_penguin420 Рік тому +74

      I find her to be intensely irritating all around... but for whatever reason, the way she sits with her toes pointing inward towards each other takes my cringe over the top!

    • @charlessarver1637
      @charlessarver1637 Рік тому +15

      She rambles alot

    • @Prideminute
      @Prideminute Рік тому +22

      she's so whiny, i wanted to yank my ears off lol

  • @SaltyNau
    @SaltyNau Рік тому +386

    Im just sitting here as a 30 year old with two hands under my chin, intensely listening to you like a kid whose listening to a grown up telling a story. You always create the best vibes girl.

    • @sonjastanger5858
      @sonjastanger5858 Рік тому +5

      @Naures Alsalem ikr, Haley is awesomely awesome @this❤😊🫂

    • @k_a_y_l_e_e
      @k_a_y_l_e_e Рік тому +2

      i feel like she's my older sister/bff's older sister talking to me and my friends at a sleepover lol

  • @gemini1005
    @gemini1005 Рік тому +368

    This interrogation is one of the weirdest and cringest I've ever seen... from her trying to hold her hand together when showing her cut as to try to now show how deep it is, to giving them weird and not asked information, the weird "hey, look, I'm crying" kinda thing and finally, that photo album, like whaaaaaaat?? The audio they caught off the neighbors camera is also chilling, just listening to her shrill is insane 🤦🏿‍♂️🤦🏿‍♂️

    • @mkayybruh2878
      @mkayybruh2878 Рік тому +28

      When she was eating nuggets and then they told her that she’s under arrest and that she can keep eating the happy meal later… that was peak awkward right there

    • @blunjun4165
      @blunjun4165 Рік тому

      Idk if others feel it too but isnt it hard to go thru the stuff of someone who you loved so dearly (who passed away)

    • @analisapena1675
      @analisapena1675 22 години тому

      She was sitting with her feet together trying to be all cute too like omfg

  • @counttochair
    @counttochair Рік тому +680

    I used to actually subscribe to her content and spoke to her several times. I figured she disappeared because she wanted to leave the adult industry but I was completely shocked when I found out what happened. It really makes you reevaluate all the people you encounter in life

    • @yusra8376
      @yusra8376 Рік тому +38

      why would u sub to someone?

    • @tkp97
      @tkp97 Рік тому +20

      @@yusra8376 same lol. but i guess some ppl are addicted more than others

    • @yusra8376
      @yusra8376 Рік тому +51

      @@tkp97 ahahah no but seriously! No judgement I just want to understand people from the standpoint of being a subscriber to someone’s OF. It just doesn’t make sense to me :/

    • @tkp97
      @tkp97 Рік тому +12

      @@yusra8376 no I get what you mean. I never understood it lol. I wouldn't subscribe to anyone's only fans or cam thing of thing. For me, things can always be streamed but that's just my opinion. I guess they wanna support the creator that's my only thought

    • @SxdHxrmony
      @SxdHxrmony Рік тому +57

      ⁠@@yusra8376some people have specific taste that companies and amateurs just don’t accommodate.
      or people simply want to support their favorite creator with a sub!
      i’ve seen a few creators that would be worth subscribing to (for me!), just doesn’t fit my entertainment budget lol

  • @nekoleramey4922
    @nekoleramey4922 Рік тому +103

    I love how you title and frame your videos after the victim rather than the criminals ❤

  • @makenziehayes8124
    @makenziehayes8124 Рік тому +89

    I was just thinking how great it would be if you dropped this vid before I ate lunch (I’m an iPad adult)…just sat down with my food and you posted 7 minutes ago, so happy rn

  • @theresanoelle
    @theresanoelle Рік тому +77

    the "same" next to the officer's reaction to her showing him her photo album and the way you delivered the line "wow that's so crazy it's almost like actions have consequences" was so funny thanks for the little bright spots to bring up the mood on an awful situation

  • @stephaniecx
    @stephaniecx Рік тому +90

    I feel like hailey really makes the story feel real and powerful not like some other character in her stories.

  • @vayanotaro8718
    @vayanotaro8718 Рік тому +204

    21:03 I know that she's obviously a bad person, but hearing her cry about the couch reminded me of the time a girl at my school committed suicide. When I heard the news, I didn't cry, although I was in shock. It didn't really hit me until I was walking to class, the same way I always do, and the place where she always stood in the hall was empty. Idk it just broke me. Like knowing she's supposed to be there, but she just isn't, and she's never going to be there again. Idk i just thought about it when she was talking about the couch

    • @lauren9004
      @lauren9004 Рік тому +20

      Thank you for sharing this. I was thinking about a similar thing

    • @invictussupremus5832
      @invictussupremus5832 Рік тому +1

      "I know that she's obviously a bad person, but..." has the "I'm not a racist, but.." kinda vibes!
      Stop it! She's a cold blooded murderer and awful person, period, nothing else to say!

    • @yawninglion1677
      @yawninglion1677 Рік тому +15

      It reminds me of my cousin and her fiance getting hit by a drunk driver; she was fine but he had to go to the emergency room. My cousin was in shock but eventually broke down over the relatively minor issue of how it would effect her daily routine. Luckily the man recovered fast and the wedding is still on, but... yeah grief can hit for the smallest of reasons, probably because the other stuff is too much to process.

    • @shhitssandyy
      @shhitssandyy Рік тому +7

      Thank you for saying this! When she mentioned it, I thought about how when my dad died one of the first things that came to my mind after the shock of it all was that he would never be able to walk me down the aisle. It was a completely random and selfish thought but it was what made me fully break down and cry after the news. Grief works in weird ways.

    • @Name-sb1fr
      @Name-sb1fr Рік тому +5

      It could be genuine if she didn't mean for this to happen.

  • @Danielle-pt7we
    @Danielle-pt7we Рік тому +104

    I know she is guilty but when I lost my son when I was pregnant one of the first things i said was his cot is coming this week, what am I going to do.
    I think it was because I knew there was going to be constant reminders but not only that, I would need to sign for items I now, could no longer use that just brought me pain.
    I was lucky enough my neighbours made sure every time a truck/van came they would go get the packages and then give them to my father in law when he came over each week.

    • @mkayybruh2878
      @mkayybruh2878 Рік тому +4

      I’m so sorry for your loss

    • @ktvcartoons
      @ktvcartoons Рік тому +2

      I'm sorry for your loss

    • @Danielle-pt7we
      @Danielle-pt7we Рік тому +6

      Thankyou this was in 2012, so it isn't as raw for me as it once was but still think of him daily.
      I just wanted to say that grief is such a weird thing and makes you say thing that even you look back on and think, why was that even a thought..

  • @emo_penguin420
    @emo_penguin420 Рік тому +23

    19:08 ok that voice switch she does utterly chilled me to the bone. She starts off saying, "I need an ambulance..." in her normal voice, stops herself abruptly, and repeats herself in her "crying" voice.

  • @darkwriter_xx94
    @darkwriter_xx94 Рік тому +27

    It may be grief response. When my aunt died, it didn’t really set in until a coat she bought was delivered the next day. It’s kinda like “they really intended to be here for this and now they’re not”.

  • @effymaltezos3419
    @effymaltezos3419 Рік тому +51

    i love that i found your channel, truly bestie energy

  • @gloriouswonderland5575
    @gloriouswonderland5575 Рік тому +76

    Rest In Peace Matthew I hope that you are happy where you are ❤

  • @camilamendes431
    @camilamendes431 Рік тому +18

    I love the way she focuses more about interrogation for me it's most important part of any story

  • @weirdlyinsomniac
    @weirdlyinsomniac Рік тому +28

    the fact over sharing is a sign of lying sucks for me because even if im telling the truth i overshare with anything

    • @OrphanCrippler6969
      @OrphanCrippler6969 3 місяці тому +1

      Me toooo I just wanna be clear and understood so I just keep goin until someone tells me to shut up

  • @nicholasschoonbeck6866
    @nicholasschoonbeck6866 Рік тому +214

    Who knows about this woman, but I would say its not that unusual for a grieving person to think about something that was supposed to happen that now won't be happening. I've seen that with break ups dozens of times, but I've been sober for over 15 years & sadly, I've watched many people I know in sobriety lose people they know as well, from accidental overdoses, intentional suicide, & some others. Its not unusual to think about things you thought would happen & now won't be happening, & feel like its kind of a cosmic joke at your own expense.

    • @artemisameretsu6905
      @artemisameretsu6905 Рік тому +26

      That was the most realistic thing I'd heard from her.
      When I lost my best friend all I could of is all the things he wouldn't be there for like to see my wedding, go floating that summer, to even just talk to each other each week
      It really fucks you up because what you thought was all this time stretched out in front of you is suddenly gone and you're walking that path alone 😔

  • @jaeheartsjae.
    @jaeheartsjae. Рік тому +20

    rest in paradise Matthew 🕊

  • @sisterdiscomadeleine
    @sisterdiscomadeleine Рік тому +114

    Haven't seen the whole vid yet (which is awesome so far btw!) but just want to point out that during trauma (like death) everyones acts so differently. When I got a call about my mom was about to pass away at the hospital, I called one of my best friends who I also worked as a caregiver for and had panic because I couldn't work my next shift due to that. I was SO focused on that, while she started to cry because of my mom. As I said, haven't seen the whole video yet but seeing this girl rambling about the sofa when crying seems like a kinda normal trauma reaction. Okay gonna continue watching now hah, just couldn't help myself from writing this.

    • @crayons1584
      @crayons1584 Рік тому +18

      I agree. Obviously Melissa was guilty, but the beginning part was not weird at all to me. When you lose someone, you start thinking about how all of the small things will not be the same. That was a very valid reaction to finding out your partner has passed away

    • @lauren9004
      @lauren9004 Рік тому +1

      I’m so glad you wrote this because I was thinking the same thing

    • @invictussupremus5832
      @invictussupremus5832 Рік тому

      @natalie7662 Yes, let's empathize with the murderer because she's a woman. Women can do no wrong!

    • @invictussupremus5832
      @invictussupremus5832 Рік тому

      @@crayons1584 She didn't lose anyone, she KILLED him! wtf is wrong with you people?

    • @Name-sb1fr
      @Name-sb1fr Рік тому +2

      @@invictussupremus5832 Don't be an id, that's not what was said.

  • @SanjaSleipnir
    @SanjaSleipnir Рік тому +12

    Damn the „what did I do“ really sends shivers down yer spine

  • @jeremiahbrown2339
    @jeremiahbrown2339 Рік тому +25

    She said can you at least come in here and keep me company. Girl you better get used to being lonely you gonna being waiting in rooms for a very loooong time. It sucks for her that she chose a happy meal as her last outside world food

  • @katherineb1253
    @katherineb1253 Рік тому +17

    Thank you girl for these podcasts! I’m pregnant and I have the worst morning sickness and your podcasts help me so much lol thanks Hailey

    • @BaBa-pf3ol
      @BaBa-pf3ol Рік тому +9

      Watch some fun content. Crimes trigger your emotions and it may have negative affect on baby so

  • @NoName-sh5xe
    @NoName-sh5xe Рік тому +53

    Hailey, been watching for a few months now. Seen this case covered. Great job! Just wanted to say, I know some true crime creators focus on the story and background aspect and others do the 2 hour interrogation. I just wanted to say, this video hit a perfect sweet spot for casual watching with your interesting commentary. Thanks again!

    • @sidology1.0
      @sidology1.0 Рік тому +1

      Highly agreed ! Perfect median found 👌🏾

  • @meagancx6987
    @meagancx6987 Рік тому +3

    Thank you for existing Hailey. Your videos bring me so much peace and comfort when I'm feeling lonely. It's like having a friend tell me a story. You're truly a blessing to all of us.

  • @pinkgirl394051
    @pinkgirl394051 Рік тому +16

    I love that you have been putting in more video/audio clips!

  • @Estassi55
    @Estassi55 Рік тому +8

    Really do love this girly- sweet, down to earth, genuine. Like I want to be friends with her, she seems like someone I would have met in college and really clicked with

  • @nicholasschoonbeck6866
    @nicholasschoonbeck6866 Рік тому +66

    At the core of this, is all the major social issues we have. Having low self esteem, based on how cruel others can be, especially when we're young, she makes a good change, but because we're so uneducated on good mental health, healthy relationships, what to do if you grew up with not much $ & now you are making a ton of $, how sex & men's desire can be profitable but also destructive, & more. We just do not give people the tools they need.

    • @pleaseshutup7053
      @pleaseshutup7053 Рік тому +6

      Nah she just crazy and found a weak man to test her

    • @answerman9933
      @answerman9933 Рік тому +3

      And they are people who grow up in good situations with plenty of money and no abuse who turn out bad. I think a person is who they are at their core. Circumstance only amplifies (or suppresses) it one way or the other.

  • @BabvBlues
    @BabvBlues Рік тому +2

    This is prolly so random but your head and face shape is perfection

  • @monirahabdullah7498
    @monirahabdullah7498 Рік тому +10

    Hey hailey!
    I’m deeply in love with your story tilling, I think you should talk about the case of Dammam kidnapper it’s a famous case in Saudi Arabia and it’s interesting and heartbreaking, I didn’t see anyone talking about it on youtube.

  • @haleynicole9720
    @haleynicole9720 Рік тому +18

    yesssss now i get to listen while i do my everything shower

  • @minciemae979
    @minciemae979 Рік тому +207

    Not to add unnecessary negativity to the comment section, but wtf is going on with people saying that a video about a murder case makes their day? I understand that Hailey brings the good vibes home, but that isn't supposed to distract others from the tragedy of the case. Maybe I'm overreacting, but it just feels disrespectful to me.

    • @pleaseshutup7053
      @pleaseshutup7053 Рік тому

      You playing dumb you know damn well they are talking about Haley uploading

    • @xoxowena
      @xoxowena Рік тому +27

      Consumerism joy

    • @Avaskai
      @Avaskai Рік тому +48

      My problem is that she edited blood splatters over the murder victim in the thumbnail 😬 idk if she usually does that and this is just the first time I noticed but yikes

    • @nekrotikYT
      @nekrotikYT Рік тому +52

      You’re definitely overthinking things and possibly shouldn’t be on crimetube. They’re not saying the murder story is what made their day, they’re saying that Hailey posting a new vid made their day. That’s a bit of a reach tbh, and there’s no ill will behind what people are saying. Just because a UA-camr posts morbid/serious things doesn’t mean people can’t still be super stoked when they post 🤷🏻‍♀️ it’s no different than MUA posting a new makeup vid or a mukbanger posting a new food vid

    • @nekrotikYT
      @nekrotikYT Рік тому +34

      The blood spatter, however, is definitely a big yikes 😬 definitely lacking class for sure

  • @Rosey-Eyez
    @Rosey-Eyez Рік тому +5

    I love how her bullshit escalates.
    "We never fought and I was sleeping the whole time"...
    "Okay we fought and he hit me and cut me so I was just defending myself and stabbed him!"...
    "I can't go to prison because I'm CrAaAaAaZy *talks to air*"

  • @Emma-yp6hz
    @Emma-yp6hz Рік тому +6

    Getting arrested mid happy meal is the funniest thing 🤣

  • @deltatango6793
    @deltatango6793 Рік тому +22

    Is this the result of social media being the majority of someone’s socializing? Did her parents pay too much or too little attention to her? What is WRONG with people?? This is terrifying. People are so disconnected from humanity. It’s disturbing.

    • @pleaseshutup7053
      @pleaseshutup7053 Рік тому +1

      She was in the power position in the relationship

    • @LoveFree333
      @LoveFree333 Рік тому +3

      It's crazy how she and the other Floridian OF model both killed their boyfriends like that.

    • @deltatango6793
      @deltatango6793 Рік тому +1

      These people are not developing their ability to feel for others. Completely disconnected from reality and self-absorbed beyond levels I thought possible.

    • @splingusbugs
      @splingusbugs Рік тому +1

      Seriously, and the way she acted in the investigation especially when she was alone talking to herself makes me believe most of her socialization came from cartoons 🙄. You don’t just talk to yourself like that it resembles the way you can hear the inner thoughts of a person on a show.

    • @deltatango6793
      @deltatango6793 Рік тому

      @@splingusbugs lmao shouldn’t laugh but omg so true

  • @نيشا-د2م
    @نيشا-د2م Рік тому +49

    Honestly, when she’s left is interrogation room by herself, & she’s talking to herself, I can’t really judge her only b/c I do that myself on a daily basis 😬. If you were to put a camera in my house, you would see how much I talk to myself as if someone is there, especially when I feel lonely, stressed out, or just upset. It’s just a coping mechanism I’m guessing, idk.

    • @lauren9004
      @lauren9004 Рік тому +1

      Exactly

    • @Dawgmawm_to2
      @Dawgmawm_to2 Рік тому +4

      Uh yeah I think the same thing 😅 people would legitimately think I’m crazy if they knew how much I talked to myself… I’m just the funniest person Ik what can I say 😂🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @snotgrrrl
      @snotgrrrl Рік тому +1

      plus she’s a cam girl her job was basically to talk to herself anyways

    • @rejunshane
      @rejunshane 11 місяців тому +1

      No I’m surprised no one is saying anything but to me it’s clear that she is facing a one way mirror that is off camera and she’s talking to the person on the other side. But I could be wrong.

  • @rachelmolina986
    @rachelmolina986 Рік тому +4

    Beautiful makeup look and amazing storytelling ❤❤❤

  • @forthefrogs
    @forthefrogs Рік тому +2

    The video of her after the murder happens is so insane to see. It's so uncommon for you to be able to see something like that settle in, in real time (outside of a movie). It almost feels unreal. Especially when she didn't think it was being recorded

  • @carislaurell
    @carislaurell Рік тому +13

    "so lets just get right into it... ok before we get into the video"

  • @RatEatRat
    @RatEatRat Рік тому +13

    just got my wisdom teeth out perfect timing thank u queen

    • @sonjastanger5858
      @sonjastanger5858 Рік тому +4

      @Rat ouchy!!! Hope ur healing well... take care & God bless 🙏🕊🫂

    • @RatEatRat
      @RatEatRat Рік тому +4

      @@sonjastanger5858 thank you!!!

  • @diannaherrera3768
    @diannaherrera3768 Рік тому +9

    The fact that Matthew was talking to her calmly (as we hear from the audio) and Cam girl (I already forgot her name) was just screaming at him and then proceed to kill him is so sad. Matthew should've lived.... :/

  • @ivypng
    @ivypng Рік тому +8

    omg just had to stop to say that shirt is adorbs on you hailey!
    ok back to the video have a nice day c'x

  • @NerdyHousewifey
    @NerdyHousewifey Рік тому +60

    I haven't finished the video yet, but when she goes on about the couch, that actually isn't that weird (even if she was innocent, which I dont know yet since im still watching).
    When something really tragic and sudden happens, your brain can focus on smaller issues to try and cope. It's like trying to protect you from a problem it thinks is too overwhelming.
    I'm not a dr or anything, just personal experience. Looking back i realize my brain was just trying to keep me going until I could actually process what had happened.

    • @NerdyHousewifey
      @NerdyHousewifey Рік тому +17

      I mainly wanted to say this because I think we go into these stories biased. We know someone was already found guilty, so it's easy for us to sit here and be hyper critical with everything they say and move they make. But I think we as people watching and commenting need to be a little cautious with "isn't that weird" "that was crazy" when it comes to how people respond to trauma. While she's guilty, she probably is responding from a place of trauma a place other people (innocent people) have also responded from in similar manners.
      Just my 2 cents as someone who hated themselves for years for worrying about my car for a second because my brain couldn't handle the fact the most important person in my life had been taken from me.

    • @ameliaaak
      @ameliaaak Рік тому +15

      yeah i agree. when losing someone, you start to realise your never gonna see them again, hang out together, laugh together, sit on a couch together, theyre just gone. i dont think what she said was weird, i totally get that. i havent seen the full video yet so i dont know if shes guilty, but im just saying that what she said about the couch is understandable

    • @hayley4896
      @hayley4896 Рік тому +2

      same!! i thought the same, when i was breaking up with my boyfriend i could only think about the apartment and the cat we were supposed to get together lol

    • @ZoeLeeJames
      @ZoeLeeJames Рік тому +3

      @@NerdyHousewifey yes!! you have put so perfectly what iv been feeling into words. i start getting annoyed at some true crime vids that constantly judge every action of the guilty party as sus because they know they're guilty. like obvi they did it but i feel like a lot of the things pointed out in this video weren't that odd, like her bringing the scrapbook, as a very sentimental person i can imagine myself doing the same to find any kind of comfort in a situation where my partner has died and im being interrogated (again i know she's guilty and probably had other reasons but i still didnt think it would be that weird) and i worry about innocent grieving people being impacted when these natural reactions are criticised. i just think we should be more careful.
      you put it better than me and i probably didnt need to write so much but it was rubbing me the wrong way the whole video and i needed to vent haha

  • @pleaseshutup7053
    @pleaseshutup7053 Рік тому +14

    36:00 this woman talking in a trance is scarier than any horror movie I expected her to get up and attack the cops

  • @peachybee2829
    @peachybee2829 Рік тому +7

    You post so often but It feels like years love you Hailey!!!!!!💛

  • @sukiboo420
    @sukiboo420 11 місяців тому +2

    "i wouldnt had let him die if id known" but on camera she said "then fkn die"... i dont believe a single word she says. shes so sickening to listen to.

  • @kaismith3198
    @kaismith3198 5 місяців тому +3

    I will say in times of grief you do sometimes worry about the dumbest stuff

  • @Blawaisican
    @Blawaisican Рік тому +4

    It's a good day when Hailey drops

  • @Happylilcinnamaroll
    @Happylilcinnamaroll Рік тому +5

    The video footage and audio is chilling. Also your makeup and top/dress are giving pretty woman chic.

  • @urfosterdad
    @urfosterdad Рік тому +1

    of all the new videos i have to watch, some of them being true crime from different channels, an i chose hailey cuz i just lover her voice, her vibe, so cute an cant forget the mispronunciations ♡

  • @klarissataylor9492
    @klarissataylor9492 Рік тому +4

    Currently at work scanning groceries listening to you 🤗🤗

    • @miryana79
      @miryana79 Рік тому

      Oh ok. I don't think you should use your mobile when u r working actually or headphones.

  • @midlifemigz
    @midlifemigz 11 місяців тому +1

    Throughout the video, she's doing her makeup and finally finished Towards the end. When she finished the video, she was like, "Okay, time to take it off again 😂😂

  • @pineconepilgrimage
    @pineconepilgrimage Рік тому +3

    That 2nd interview was unbelievable because she continued to think she outsmarted detectives. The cut on her body with no pain makes methinks she was disassociated obviously.

  • @lilyyworth
    @lilyyworth Рік тому +10

    need a shirt with “totally chill” on it

  • @t-t2487
    @t-t2487 Рік тому +21

    You post at the best times !
    I was feeling really down and now I have something to calm me down and keep me distracted.I hope you know that you always make my (and so many other peoples) day better.❤️

    • @yam-w1u
      @yam-w1u Рік тому +3

      Hope you feel better ☺️

    • @t-t2487
      @t-t2487 Рік тому +1

      @@yam-w1u Aww, thank you so much, I really do feel better. ☺️🙏

    • @sonjastanger5858
      @sonjastanger5858 Рік тому +1

      @T-T I agree, Haley's awesomely awesome ❤😊🙏 Hope ur feeling better 🫂🙏

    • @t-t2487
      @t-t2487 Рік тому

      @@sonjastanger5858 Thank you so much ☺️

  • @starmanalex29
    @starmanalex29 Рік тому +2

    this interrogation feels so awkward for some reason. she just seemed like she was trying to gain pity from everyone around her. she knew what she did and still made herself out to be the victim. it just is off putting to me. i hope matthew’s at peace in the afterlife

  • @PineappPae
    @PineappPae Рік тому +3

    That shirt is a VIBEEEE👏🏻👏🏻

  • @aceykrew
    @aceykrew Рік тому +27

    To be fair when you buy a house & are capable of renovations you DO wanna be at the house all day. Working on it & trips to home depot. 😮

  • @roseopl7
    @roseopl7 Рік тому +1

    Oh my I'm doing crafts while listening and i looked up and saw the final look and wow girl, you killed this look

  • @NimBelle
    @NimBelle Рік тому +2

    Ngl sis I miss your skit transitions into sponsorships - comedy gold❤️

  • @crayons1584
    @crayons1584 Рік тому +10

    The amount of times she "not that I know of" is so incriminating. I don't know who she thinks she was convincing

  • @Stonedandbookish
    @Stonedandbookish Рік тому +6

    I’ve seen a couple videos on this and you managed to provide info they didn’t about their relationship

  • @daniela-po8he
    @daniela-po8he Рік тому +2

    AYYYYY HAILEY YOU LOOK SO PRETTY IN THIS TOPPO

  • @JoshRazauskas
    @JoshRazauskas Рік тому +7

    Murder and abuse is so sad! There’s always another answer to depression.

  • @deedeemay4
    @deedeemay4 Рік тому +1

    I’m sick and your video has just made it a bit easier to cope! ⭐️ Thank you! ❤

  • @eliandblueberries
    @eliandblueberries Рік тому +11

    i won't lie girl, i really miss you doing make-up and then going through cases. I kinda like it this way. also love your videos

  • @Reem.H.A
    @Reem.H.A Рік тому +6

    Giiirl you look gorgeous in the cheetah print

  • @cinthiabela8408
    @cinthiabela8408 Рік тому +27

    Hailey and dreading dropping a video on the same day? Ohhh I know lunch break gon be lit

    • @lauramelendez761
      @lauramelendez761 Рік тому +2

      Best duo 🙌

    • @aceykrew
      @aceykrew Рік тому +2

      Somewhere Sinister ❤ also

    • @RatClowns
      @RatClowns Рік тому

      Yessss

    • @lahsmutha2828
      @lahsmutha2828 Рік тому +2

      Wait who is dreading ? Tryna find some new channels to watch

    • @cinthiabela8408
      @cinthiabela8408 Рік тому +2

      @@lahsmutha2828 amazing channel, one of the best true crime channels on youtube imo

  • @mrdad-zl9zl
    @mrdad-zl9zl 4 дні тому

    Her interrogation is so fascinating as far as police interrogations go. So many lies and then the over explanation of things the police didn't ask, like she went on and on about her hiccup condition multiple times.
    I feel like there so much pressure on the psyche of someone in an interrogation to be honest that those who lie through it will look for anything real and honest to talk about
    Then the cops move in toward the end and she realizes she's donezo and starts getting argumentative and panics horribly. Really good work on the detectives, the slow burn.

  • @sajinnie
    @sajinnie Рік тому +1

    she is literally like a total comedy show. i feel so bad for matthew i hope the best for his family.

  • @suzimonkey345
    @suzimonkey345 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for the warning! 😬

  • @ohjaipeur4607
    @ohjaipeur4607 Рік тому +3

    Hope y’all having a good day ❤

  • @lemon_drop_dream
    @lemon_drop_dream Рік тому +1

    On know whether you woke up while sleeping: people often wake without any recollection of having done so. In those with sleep apnea, for example, a person could wake 15 to 25 times an hour (sometimes even more) while having no idea. Personally, I struggle with getting out of bed when my alarm rings. The alarm will bare and shake my bed, yet at times I’ll still turn it off, go back to sleep, and them have no memory of getting out of bed to silence it.

  • @fifs7400
    @fifs7400 Рік тому +5

    the amount of times she said "'not that i can remember ''or from what i can remeber gave me an aneursm

    • @answerman9933
      @answerman9933 Рік тому

      @fahda And yet you were still able to post a message about your aneursm (aneurysm).

    • @pleaseshutup7053
      @pleaseshutup7053 Рік тому

      @@answerman9933 😂😂😂 you got the answers

  • @elodielilith5324
    @elodielilith5324 Рік тому +6

    I'm not giving her any excuses because what she did is horrific, but everyone has a different reaction from finding out about the death of a loved one.
    The couch thing could be a normal emotional response to a traumatic loss, like when my dad died (I was 20, I'm 28 now) and I went home from school after being told about it on the phone, I literally cried about the fact that his bath towels were still hanging untouched in the bathroom and how he would never get to use them again, and how the dog was going to be sad and "who's gonna take Cookie on hikes now ?"since my dad was his favorite human and was the one who always did the most long actual hikes with him... my sister was 18 and crying her eyes out, and I was in such disbelief and in shock I couldn't cry or be angry or anything, I was just blank, like an emotional void, and I probably passed as "cold" and "not caring" to the rest of the family, obviously I was devastated and extremely sad but it didn't show as much on the outside

  • @jay1603
    @jay1603 Рік тому +23

    You never know when you're about to match with your murderer I guess

    • @pleaseshutup7053
      @pleaseshutup7053 Рік тому +7

      Maybe the multiple crazy drunk fights have you a hint. Most people don’t kill their partners out of the blue

  • @sonjastanger5858
    @sonjastanger5858 Рік тому +5

    Hiya, Haley love ur channel, love allllll ur posters especially the "Ferris Buhler" 1, awesomely awesome... & the way u tell the stories, while applyin makeup 💄 ❤😊

  • @francinepaul3524
    @francinepaul3524 Рік тому +5

    needed something to watch asap, this is perfect!

  • @fatimanayani888
    @fatimanayani888 Рік тому +2

    (completely unrelated to the case) your top looks the exact same as a barbie doll top i had as a child (this is a compliment-it is fire)

  • @lisacavannagh
    @lisacavannagh Рік тому +3

    Never been so early for a video absolutely up there one of my fav crime UA-camrs 🥰❤️❤️❤️

  • @itslizz6561
    @itslizz6561 Рік тому +5

    yess thank youu these videos make me forgot ab everything ‼️‼️

  • @annadaunting
    @annadaunting Рік тому +2

    Watching her cry makes me cringe, you can clearly tell it's fake and she's trying to get away with it. Actually listening to the footage of her screaming "What did I do" is so eery. Also her speaking about it in prison and bragging about it makes it more clear to me how she felt about him. Why can't people just leave instead of m*rdering?

  • @Ang_e_line
    @Ang_e_line 6 місяців тому +1

    “The cheapest house is like $300,000” miss girl that is CHEAP for a house these days!

  • @CausaBrevitatis
    @CausaBrevitatis Рік тому +17

    A ring leader is the leader of a group of people who are doing something illegal, so in the context of a relationship between two people, even a violent one, it makes no sense to call either one the ring leader.

    • @Oliviag1996
      @Oliviag1996 Рік тому +4

      It does make sense. A group can be just two people, and a ring leader can broadly mean any person who is the leader or top person of that group. It doesn’t always involve illegal activities, usually just mischievous or troubling behavior.

  • @NFSMAN50
    @NFSMAN50 Рік тому +8

    Another camgirl murderer, its a tough and rough world out there.
    Happy Wednesday Hailey and comments section peace and love ❤❤ Im always enjoying it here!

  • @thatladydriver
    @thatladydriver Рік тому +6

    I think she came to look like in a trance at that point when saying he cut himself, cause she knows she's doomed but just needs to go through continue lying, and that they're on to her and she's gonna get caught lying...

  • @yakwtfgo6218
    @yakwtfgo6218 Рік тому +18

    I love how she’s literally red handed..😂

  • @yakwtfgo6218
    @yakwtfgo6218 Рік тому +2

    Loving the leopard print 😍😍

  • @lydia8560
    @lydia8560 Рік тому +1

    “Were you asleep? To my knowledge,yes” WTH DO YOU MEAN TO YOUR KNOWLEDGE HOW DO YOU NOT KNOW😭😭

  • @sheldonmurphy6031
    @sheldonmurphy6031 Місяць тому

    Ma'am, you are a damn good story teller, and very enjoyable to listen to.
    I was just looking for interrogation videos with crime scene photos when i bumped into your channel.
    I must move on to find the video, but you are awesome, and i love your eyebrows at the beginning of the video. lol Just had to get that out. 😁

  • @her_she_her
    @her_she_her Рік тому +1

    I really love your new mic set up, the old mic you used pick up on all the wet mouth noises when you talked and this one is so crystal clear without picking up anything else but your narration, seriously, thank you for this quality!

  • @adri4825
    @adri4825 Рік тому +7

    do a controversial people or theory case! its been so long

  • @stellahaze3743
    @stellahaze3743 Рік тому +5

    Hi Hailey!! Love your channel! 💝

  • @yoonbibaby1122
    @yoonbibaby1122 Рік тому +1

    Just pausing the video to comment that her being told she’s getting arrested while in the middle of eating her happy meal is kinda hilarious.
    “You can continue to eat” bestie I don’t think she’ll want to 😭

  • @angelang222
    @angelang222 Рік тому +74

    I was surprised the plea deal was for 25 years to begin with because it seemed like second degree murder anyways. But yeah it's crazy that being found guilty she gets less time than if she had just plead guilty. I feel so bad for Matthew. She was clearly the abuser and aggressor in the relationship and I think the attention she got from being a cam model went to her head. Most anyone could make money doing x rated material so sit down girl you're not as special as you think you are! She now has 20 years to sit and think about what she did and I hope she comes to terms with all that's wrong with her and turns her life around. My heart goes out to all of Matthew's family and loved ones.

    • @lauren9004
      @lauren9004 Рік тому

      I agree with everything that you said

  • @TwigMaiden
    @TwigMaiden Рік тому +1

    I was just going back and looking for your makeup videos to watch.