Thank you for such a important message. Unfortunately the biggest obstacle is the struggle with worst day cycle and that's where we are loosing most of the energy for chance and space to heal. Part of my story too. "Thanks" to my burnout during toxic relationship I had to stop and start to break the cycle, start the healing, learning about that, study the psychology of that atc. Love that at the end. 😀 So empowering. ❤️🙂 Thank you very much. 🙏🙂
Thank you for this awesome video, I am so grateful I found your channel a few weeks ago. You are putting out a lot of effort,love,wisdom and knowledge and I appreciate it deeply💕
I love you Kenny!!! Just going through all parts 1- 5...amazing eye opening..how hard and simple if that makes sense. Thank you for taking so much weight off me ...iam continuing to heal and love my kids without fear....now i see why i acted towards them and got their reaction...iam working more and more on me to heal them❤🦋🙏
Will Smith said at the Oscar's "my parents were invited they chose not o come my mom has her knitting group or something like that, " not verbatem but close what he shared. My heart sunk realizing little did he know the motivator to that behavior.
I know can you believe that his mother would rather net then share in this moment with her son and now you know why he picked a woman who wants an open marriage. His mother does not want to take responsibility for being a mother either. That is the worst day cycle
I thought my elderly dad was on his death bed, so I flew to Arizona to visit him in the hospital; the moment I stepped in the room his first words to me were, "you need to get that weight off." Years later, I can still hardly breath when I think of that moment.
Hope that is just awful. You did not deserve that. That's a reflection of him, and not on you. My trauma was I woke up at age eleven and my dad was gone, totally gone. No goodbye. I hate him for that. Just went no contact again. He's in his eighties and I will not go to his funeral. I've had enough. Take care of you dear one
I wonder if there's a way for you to make your videos louder. I've got both UA-cam & my computer turned up all the way & it still isn't loud enough - especially if there's any outside noise at all.
I don’t have enough information? It could be your approach? Sometimes we think we’re standing up for ourselves when in fact we are crushing other peoples boundaries…?? But in general you are correct. Because we are all caught in the worst day cycle we get caught in shame when people do stand up to us and then we drop in to denial and we push the other person away instead of facing and addressing our perfect imperfections. It’s much easier to play the victim and blame someone like yourself instead of taking ownership and doing the work. Our society promotes the victim power position and that’s what I’m trying to help people over come
@@nikkimacie9763 Yes originally it feels very overwhelming but if you stick with it you’re about to discover the best part of your life. Going on this journey to learn all these skills and tools we were never taught is the most enlightening and enjoyable reward you will get from life. You will come out the other side strong, capable, empowered and totally able to navigate your life. It’s an amazing experience and a wonderful journey. Don’t let the overwhelm frighten you away from your destiny!
All of the videos in the five part series can be found by going to my worst day cycle playlist. In the thumbnail they are numbered one through five but if for some reason you can’t see the numbering, look at the video description. I have also labeled them one through five.
Yea, Maybe we'd be less overpopulated, and populated by fucked up people like my parents, and hence me, if people would understand just what a HUGE RESPONSIBILITY it IS to give birth to another human being and they'd decide not to do it. Why do we NOT hold people Responsible for the damage they (we) do to others who we (they) Contract with the Universe to create, provide for and then renig on by default? The Damage parents are allowed to perpetrate on their progeny is FAR Worse than the Damage inflicted by violent rape by a stranger and yet, the random rapist will pay with his life, not being granted a pass because he's Just Imperfectly Perfect and the parents get to blame, the child, discredit the child, and Discard and move on Scott Free, leaving another human being broken and dismayed in their wake? I know. I've experienced both. I'm coming to the conclusion that Trauma is a Promise's Fulfillment Withold for no Understandable Reason. So the rapist is, without question, damned and not understood to be perfectly imperfect, but we allow parents to be Perfectly Imperfect and their crimes against nature dismissed with a rueful chuckle. Riddle me THAT!!
Well I’m not condoning mistreatment of any kind but the thing that people forget is the molester and the rapist are almost always a byproduct of a dysfunctional childhood. They’re only doing what they were taught directly or indirectly. If it was directly, it means it was done to them. If it was indirectly that means they suffered so much pain this is their way of expressing that pain. Nobody wants to talk about that truth
The best gift is the truth. Thanks so much.
Thank you for such a important message. Unfortunately the biggest obstacle is the struggle with worst day cycle and that's where we are loosing most of the energy for chance and space to heal. Part of my story too. "Thanks" to my burnout during toxic relationship I had to stop and start to break the cycle, start the healing, learning about that, study the psychology of that atc. Love that at the end. 😀 So empowering. ❤️🙂
Thank you very much. 🙏🙂
You’re very welcome 😁
Best information I have came across.
So helpful.
Absolutely phenomenal!!! 💯% thank you This video needs to go viral, a resource for all in all capacities. Thank You Kenny Weiss
Please share it with others so that it can go viral and we can make the change that we all need
Yes, fear sends the blood to our legs, to run and away from our brain, makes sense. And anger sends the blood to our hands, makes sense.
I SO appreciate you naming this stuff and trauma and facing our deception (because it's traumatic to realize we've been traumatized! TruthTrauma
You’re so welcome and I’m so glad the way I speak about it works for you😁
Thank you for this awesome video, I am so grateful I found your channel a few weeks ago.
You are putting out a lot of effort,love,wisdom and knowledge and I appreciate it deeply💕
You are very welcome. I’m glad it’s helping you😁
I love you Kenny!!!
Just going through all parts 1- 5...amazing eye opening..how hard and simple if that makes sense. Thank you for taking so much weight off me ...iam continuing to heal and love my kids without fear....now i see why i acted towards them and got their reaction...iam working more and more on me to heal them❤🦋🙏
Will Smith said at the Oscar's "my parents were invited they chose not o come my mom has her knitting group or something like that, " not verbatem but close what he shared. My heart sunk realizing little did he know the motivator to that behavior.
I know can you believe that his mother would rather net then share in this moment with her son and now you know why he picked a woman who wants an open marriage. His mother does not want to take responsibility for being a mother either. That is the worst day cycle
I thought my elderly dad was on his death bed, so I flew to Arizona to visit him in the hospital; the moment I stepped in the room his first words to me were, "you need to get that weight off." Years later, I can still hardly breath when I think of that moment.
Oh my God how devastating🤦♂️🥲
Hope that is just awful. You did not deserve that. That's a reflection of him, and not on you. My trauma was I woke up at age eleven and my dad was gone, totally gone. No goodbye. I hate him for that. Just went no contact again. He's in his eighties and I will not go to his funeral. I've had enough. Take care of you dear one
How do you handle fixing yourself but dealing with damaged siblings and adult children.....so much damage
Great question. We focus on the only thing we can control. Ourselves and our recovery.
Same situation. I had to work on me and go no contact with my entire family of origin.
I like you a lot.Wish to find more people like that on Dating Website.I just get ghost 👻.I super sad and confused 🙁
It’s a very frustrating place to try and meet people
To Foster a child you have to have 16 weeks of parenting classes, even that doesn't touch on all this. Keep telling it Kenny.
Great point and for marriage, precana...classes were a couple weeks 😳
I wonder if there's a way for you to make your videos louder. I've got both UA-cam & my computer turned up all the way & it still isn't loud enough - especially if there's any outside noise at all.
Interesting! I haven’t heard that before. I run all of my videos through a program to create good sound!
I’m not sure what the problem might be?
it is coming from your source, I hear it very loud and clear...hope that helped
I don't have a problem standing up for myself the problem is people can't handle it and I lose friends.
I don’t have enough information? It could be your approach? Sometimes we think we’re standing up for ourselves when in fact we are crushing other peoples boundaries…??
But in general you are correct. Because we are all caught in the worst day cycle we get caught in shame when people do stand up to us and then we drop in to denial and we push the other person away instead of facing and addressing our perfect imperfections. It’s much easier to play the victim and blame someone like yourself instead of taking ownership and doing the work.
Our society promotes the victim power position and that’s what I’m trying to help people over come
@@kennyweiss you are so kind to respond. I'm trying to understand. Just so overwhelming. :/ I have SOOOOO much work to do!
@@nikkimacie9763 Yes originally it feels very overwhelming but if you stick with it you’re about to discover the best part of your life.
Going on this journey to learn all these skills and tools we were never taught is the most enlightening and enjoyable reward you will get from life.
You will come out the other side strong, capable, empowered and totally able to navigate your life.
It’s an amazing experience and a wonderful journey. Don’t let the overwhelm frighten you away from your destiny!
Where is part 1 & part 2?
All of the videos in the five part series can be found by going to my worst day cycle playlist. In the thumbnail they are numbered one through five but if for some reason you can’t see the numbering, look at the video description. I have also labeled them one through five.
Yea, Maybe we'd be less overpopulated, and populated by fucked up people like my parents, and hence me, if people would understand just what a HUGE RESPONSIBILITY it IS to give birth to another human being and they'd decide not to do it.
Why do we NOT hold people Responsible for the damage they (we) do to others who we (they) Contract with the Universe to create, provide for and then renig on by default?
The Damage parents are allowed to perpetrate on their progeny is FAR Worse than the Damage inflicted by violent rape by a stranger and yet, the random rapist will pay with his life, not being granted a pass because he's Just Imperfectly Perfect and the parents get to blame, the child, discredit the child, and Discard and move on Scott Free, leaving another human being broken and dismayed in their wake? I know. I've experienced both.
I'm coming to the conclusion that Trauma is a Promise's Fulfillment Withold for no Understandable Reason.
So the rapist is, without question, damned and not understood to be perfectly imperfect, but we allow parents to be Perfectly Imperfect and their crimes against nature dismissed with a rueful chuckle.
Riddle me THAT!!
Well I’m not condoning mistreatment of any kind but the thing that people forget is the molester and the rapist are almost always a byproduct of a dysfunctional childhood.
They’re only doing what they were taught directly or indirectly.
If it was directly, it means it was done to them. If it was indirectly that means they suffered so much pain this is their way of expressing that pain.
Nobody wants to talk about that truth