Ep 19_I financed our wedding & caught my man with a woman under our bed
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- Опубліковано 9 лют 2025
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THE DATING STORIES
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Guest: Elizabeth @LizzyKhairu
Host: Kerry Kagiri @kerrykagiri
This amazing episode was:
Filmed at Hotel Troy
Filmed by @SmartEdgeMedia
Make-up @ejaybeauty
©2024 - SHARED MOMENTS WITH JUSTUS @SharedMomentswithJustus
I moved in with the father of my daughter when i was 5 months pregnant during that time i could tell him how my dad is so harsh so there was no way i could ran away and go back home so when i gave birth he started beating me with no any good reasons at all so when my daughter was just 2 months i caught him red handed sleeping with the house girl so going with the story i had told him i can never run away he thought i will continue staying even when i started packing to leave he couldn't beg me not to because he thought i was just pretending 28yrs down the line i have never looked back ladies love yourselves don't let any man frustrate you just because of love
I can’t even remember the last time I was in a relationship 😂😂😂😂 here single for years and unbothered I need prayers 😂😂😂
Let's hook up 😊
Let's hook up 😊
@Is-on5tu Me I'm bothered.😂😂😂 4yrs and I desire companionship though not ready to compromise my values.
@@Grace-y6o9 yes never compromise Godly values
@@Is-on5tu you don't need no prayers everytime I watch these stories I just relax
I pray that we give our kids a very awesome environment that they will never tolerate sh**t because they are so afraid of coming home or ashamed.
My advice is just seek the kingdom of God first and all other things shall be added unto you girl.. including the right man in your life
For sure also there is wisdom that comes with salvation
She can't get married again people should read the bible well
Shinda hapo@@josephnjunge9615
Nooooooo,wacha wewe.God is of another chance@@josephnjunge9615
so true
Hey Kerry
Can you please try and put on subtitles everytime you switch to your language. I’m a South African and love your channel
Thank you Sawubona Unjani! Feedback noted
@@YourgirlTessa-n6b woi sorry for not understanding kiswahili
The episode was for "listening and not judging" because weeh!
😂😂😂we listen but we don't judge
😂I will judge juu whuuee hii ni ufala
Mimi aki! Tu I am still in shock. I need to debrief
@@KerryKagiri We need to heal before dating and stop having marriage as a goal/achievement. What's this aki?😩
Manzee I agree
Whoa! People are so beautiful out here ..inside out..and yet they have gone through so much
💯
My thoughts too!
Imagine!
I swear they are so beautiful. This lady is darn cute yoh
Let us flee away from sexual immorality for our bodies are the temple of the Holy Spirit.Pursue righteousness in Christ Jesus.Amen💯❤️🙏✌️👏🇰🇪🥰🥰🥰
Amen i wish this was pinned post...coz it is TRUTH
That is too much for one person....I think most of her issues stemmed from home...her self-worth was never natured.
Hugs
I agree
True ....there is power in a parent build their childs self esteem.
I’m so proud of u gal. First for being honest with yourself. Secondly, not bad mouthing the men badly n lastly, for putting yourself first n taking time to heal.❤❤ writhing u a wonderful relationship in the near future. .
There is a big void we can try to fill with money, men, career... after trauma or neglect from parents that only God can fill. I love her honesty. Only God fills that void
It's the most depressing thing
I thank God for saving me
Amen...may the good Lord heal her soul and heart.
❤it takes so much healing and acceptance to give such a deep story ❤
The lesson here is once you indulge in sex before marriage,it becomes a series of heartache,heartbreak and endless search for love outside God. I wish we can all learn this. I'm glad she shared . These "born again parents tho"😢😢
Life is spiritual once you sleep with a man who is not your husband your light goes off your destiny is distorted
@brendahasana exactly that's why I wish virginity would know the power in waiting some of us cannot rewind back but such stories should impact lives
@@Misskiss254 most ladies married while pure,buh still it turns out badly.its just by the grace of God to have a happy marriage.
I kept myself pure till our wedding night,I was(still)a woman of faith and character,educated but woe,we are separated and nothing can bring us back together.This life😒
She has no boundaries and she kinder settles for the first man who shows even a little bit of interest. Also she doesn't have non-negotiables.
In short she needs to build her self worth and also self love through positive self talk, inner work and journaling etc.
Might take time but an accountability partner would be great as well as a busy job and focusing on other personal goals.
In overall there is a childhood story here that has contributed to the woman she is now.
this one we listen and faint 😂😂😂😂❤️
😂😂😂😂😂
We wake up and faint again....😅😅😅😅weeeuh....
How can someone be so ignorant? Aki ladies let's do better.
You are doing the most😭😭😭😭
@@paulinekarinawangui5029 Sometimes I wonder why life gives good hearted people wicked and not appreciative partners
Woooi this beautiful lady has gone through tunnels 😂.. May God give her true love.. The interviewer brings so much life to the show. So wonderful
I totally love Kerry's interviewing style. It's different
For those of you who are watching the first couple of minutes, please have a qualified First Aider on standby. We are watching, fainting and recovering repeatedly.
That's true !! DAMN!! What the hell 😁!
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
same here weuee
@@itsjuliam Will At John ambulance help, ama we try Sonko Rescue 🤣🤣🤣🤣
She tolerated too much!
Kerry U need to be my friend 😂 the way you are rubbing in it.."then u meet this guy at the therapy door"🤣
Just Wheeeeeeeeu 😂😂😂😂l have done some crazy stuff like supporting aman financially lakini raising his hand on me or cheating,that’s where l draw the line.Ladies tujipende jameni!
Supporting a man is very unfortunate.
😂😂😂😂😂girl i am even worried on your behalf. I am laughing , crying,worried,confused Weeeeeuh
Eiiii wuehhh experience na nusu....ya leo nawatch na mdomo pia.
She's a great woman though.Wishing her all the best in her rebuilding journey.
Maybe I was fighting someone else destiny. I felt that baby. Owww what a beauty. Wish she believed in herself.
She doesn't wait in between relationships.
Thanks for being so vulnerable Liz.For not playing victim but owning you bit in Enabling what happened to you.I can relate to some extent . Best as you pursue to rediscover your self.You are smart and very beautiful too.Hugs
Liz you are beautiful and you deserce the best the universe can offer. Love yourself and out you first. The universe will align.
This is a roller coaster movie........ of someone's life. You are brave to share this .......
"Loneliness is not cured by human company. Loneliness is cured
by contact with reality, by understanding that we don’t need
people."
Humans are social beings. The issue is people are not widely taught the difference between lonely and alone.
Also, the fact that connection through various social groups/hobbies, keeps one emotionally healthy: as opposed to the dominant social push to romantic relationships for emotional health.
Sure, it's very liberating when one realises that he or she is enough without requiring anyone to complete them.
how old are you Mr Sage😂, thanks though
My advice to Elizabeth pleas give your life to Christ otherwise the cycle will continue even in 2030
THIIIIIIIISSSSSSSSSSSSSS the Truth
I know we're laughing and sighing and getting shocked throughout, but there's a pattern of helplessness, allowing & passivity that Liz is dispalying. I find it frightening. I hope she will go through extensive therapy to get to the bottom of this.
Lizzy I'm so sorry. Good you have learnt lessons and you're working on yourself. Such a beautiful human with a big heart.
The mum who embraced you after 2months was offloading her narcissistic abusive cheating son to you. Alikua amechoka na the son & was glad you came along to take him off her hands. She needs to seriously address all her traumas to stop the toxic dating cycles. Wish her well❤
The blue print for marriage is in the Bible, where the author of marriage has it laid out. But humans think they can outsmart God.
Ladies pass through a lot. May God grant you all a discerning heart and spirit
Thank you Elizabeth for sharing your story and the lessons learnt from your experience:
Acknowledge your role as an enabler
Never give too many chances
Define boundaries
Know what your non negotiables are
There is no 1 villain in a relationship, we must each take responsibility for our actions and the part we played.
All the best in your healing and renewal journey. You have a great life ahead of you. Thanks Kerry for great conversations, keep up the good work. 👏👌👍
Asante sana and we are learning
I'm still breathing in, I'm yet to breath out..I love both of your personalities❤.
Tubreath out pamoja sahii
She is truely a great story teller. I like the interviewer as well.
This is a rollercoaster of emotions... Its funny, sad, serious,flabbergasting etc...
😮😢.
Wueh!! The calmness though!!
She's a beautiful soul, May God keep you.
I maybe delulu in many ways but the moment i know another girl is involved am done fighting for the relationship
Me too, I just can't, neva
Respectfully, I feel like it's hard when sex is involved.
I haven't been intimate but I've dated men, I find it easy to leave men when they give me reason to.
I've never fought over another gal, Nkiskia kuna mtu namuachia huyo mwanaume.
I will never make excuses for men
Delulu is not the solulu
@@KerryKagiri 🤣🤣
Kerry you make a really dope host,
Well done❤
Asante sana!
Liz you’re very beautiful, lovely, calm….. may you rise above all these past issues. Hugs gal❤
I will never wrap my mind around people cheating, violence, etc and still remain together. Chaiii!!
I love the interviewer,full of cheeky humour🎉
Waaah, I'm just watching this today . We listen, and we dont judge .
But what i would tell her is to really take time for herself
And if she dates, let her date God . Beacuse yoooh .
God loves all, and everything will work out
Thank you Lizzy for sharing being so candid and I know without a doubt God will do something for you. He wants your heart. Thank you all for watching commenting and sharing.
I have fainted a couple of tyms listening to this weuh😂
Young ladies of today are very interesting, why would you finance your own wedding ? That's already a red red flag
The world is changing. wedding is not only for the man but both patners
@@Godsinceday1 Allow a man to lead
Older women have done this, only that they don't tell the stories.
LADIES ARE CRAZY!!!! THEY MUST TO BE MRS??? CRAZY
Trust me it's not about women of today. My own mother did that. It's just about how much a woman values themselves. If you're desperate enough, you'll do anything to feel "loved" or accepted.
Walk with her Kerry please do, she needs that accountability 🙏
If a man is allowing you to pay for your own wedding including the rings, please know that he doesn’t love you and will cheat on you countless times. A man who cheats once will cheat again and again. Never show a man that you’re desperate to be with him-he’ll mistreat you worse than rabid dog.
girl, get to know Jesus, He will help you so so much. therapy alone can't help the heart of a woman, not in the current dating scene. Jesus can show you who a good man is and who is not days into meeting them, u wont waste time and emotions. Also if possible, please keep your story away from social media and the public until you truly heal. sending hugs
I hate tribalism am a luo mum and my son who is a banker is in is love with a kikuyu learned and beautiful girl. I wish them well coz i love the girl and they r planning to wed...May God create something permanent btwn them. We r all Kenyans at the end of the day. My sn loves her so much.
This is the interview of the Year.... Day made
I think so too
I think ladies go through alot and when we decide to talk it out....we will need a century😂
Right we couldnt have enough time for this
Me here
We clearly need a support group 😂
Wueeeeeh!I applaud the courage gal and the journey you have been through has reshaped you..iam glad you are rediscovering yourself.wishing you well
Wale tumefika hapa Kutoka TikTok nipewe likes.
😂😂😂 Elizabeth let me laugh at you because its your time to be on set. Red is your favourite color though 😅😅
KK you listen and you JUDGE clearly 🤌
Thank you for your openness in sharing your story. I hope you keep seeing the therapist, and I hope that they are good.
All the way from show ya kingori and landed to this dating diaries ❤
Nmejoin hii team sasa 🎉
I would really want to share my story but am abit far . ... my life has been so messy since 2010...there is something that toxicity does to a soul that people will never understand.....am in Kakamega
i'd want to hear your story
That girl from "How I met your mother" - whose window was always closed Kenyan version. wishing you well beautiful girl.
We listen, we collapse
wachaaa wewe
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
We don't judge
Don't finance a man ever. Those who don't listen will learn one by one.
@@SandraSandra-cm6em True!
Ladies need to keep their space and stop doing what a man should do. The not doing something should be a red flag. But girls are saying I love him why can't I do what he hasn't done? Then boom shock on you
I'm happy she has finally woken up and realized her role in all that mess.
This narrative is flawed because even when a man does the chasing, some of those couples still break up/divorce.
Just like she's said she really needs good time off dating before the next one. Rediscover herself holistically
That was a very genuine talk
The amount of emotions I'm going through as I watch this is a lot. I'm pissed on her behalf
Most people follow fling, getting into marriage and get disappointed
Wueh! This story is heartwrenching and funny and confusing at the same time😢😂😮
The amount of times I audibly gasped wueh!
did you diiee
I'm glad she's recovered and put everything on check
Did you divorce the other guy officially?If not you cannot get officially married.Take a step back from the dating world.Work on what needs to be worked on.Love yourself and have a principled goal of your future relationship and don't bend your peinciples.Then move on as a healthy person.
She should make Benjamin Zulu his Friend, She is going to Learn so Much from him
This gal is so beautiful😊
Bebies born prematurely have great destiny it's not a weakness
I'm only at min 18:59 lakini nmechoka. Wuueeh, mnajitesa aki.
Mimi from one relationship to the next can take even 5yrs 😂😂.
No wonder I'm even single at 30, a heartbreak sends me into a season of self reflection mbaya sana.
Might get stuck hapo kwa self reflection for years 🤣🤣
Same 😂😂😂😂 I thought I was abnormal 😮
Me and you both😅😅😅
Me too
Me too. 😢 😂😂
Me and you sis twinniez
From Emma Amara to here....🙆 These stories are really sad 😢
That girl went through alot😢
@@catherinekimulu its more than a lot ata...she didn't deserve that
@@mercynungari9315 Me too ✋️ 😢
You have really gone through a lot my dia. I pray you heal and as you heal during the process, I pray that you don't break other people because you are broken
she is beautiful and generous too may Good Lord fulfill the desire of your Heart LIZ.
Get to love being alone for a while and understand yourself plus boundaries very important learnt that the hard way
Why on earth would you finance your own wedding. That in itself should have been a very red flag, no man with any pride would allow his wife/woman to do that. Run away from such.
Wow Kerry this was a good one please keep her accountable
Uuuweh!!😂😂 I was really laughing at that beautiful girl till it got serious !!!! 😢
😂😂😂😂😂
@TriciaKay-yj4yf you are laughing too!!
Why do people go this far
Love flows
If a man or a woman loves you and ready to marry you
Actually you don’t struggle it flows
I was in a wrong relationship for five years but one day I met just the one and within an year he had proposed n made all things official
Patience pays marriage works
Love is beautiful ❤
Well said
Amen
The new pandemic "women paying their dowry and financing their weddings" Lord help your daughters 🙏
Please Lord intervene 🙏🏽
We listen we don't judge..you have suffered in the hands of relationships. But God is with you when the time is right he will locate the right one for you❤ i enjoyed watching hugs🥰😍
From doctor Kingori....am loving the show....😊
hi please!
@@KerryKagiri do you host men? We need to hear from them...ama Siri zao waliapa watazikwa nazo??😂
And another question...has she officially divorced the one they were legally married...tondu maa! It can be tricky😮
Wooow what a great interview!!!!❤
2 Things
1. Society has made it feel like if one is not married they haven't achieved it yet. The pressure people give people and others receive in the name of Marriage it's wild.
2. It's time women learn that if a man wants you they will go above and beyond for you. Am sure we have seen it.
True …. There is no one as desperate as a 25-31 year old woman because of the society peer pressure …. That is the age women make the worst mistakes
Exactly, mwanaume akikupenda they will do everything for love.
Ladies want a man to do everything for them and then the man is rejected like a hot potato
@josephnjunge9615 Love is two way, people are different. People have different understanding of love according to their experiences and upbringing.
You don't expect someone who has never been loved to love you unless they intentionally decide to learn about love.
No matter what happens, I still believe that people are capable of love. Love is a good thing, humans have just refused to be patient with themselves and others.
@@Grace-y6o9 I have seen it all I don't understand how a man can do everything for a lady in the name of love and then eventually she'll just tell u she's not interested in dating you that's why men do some weird stuff like, kulipiza kisasi
You are so beautiful please learn to be by yourself you will grow and value yourself a lot.
Kindly host Emma Amarah too ❤❤
Exactly, their story sounds kinder similar
I am glad she woke up from all that, we all unlearn, relearn to grow.
She has not woken up
the title alone had me shook!
At some point I was Elizabeth guys , nikaona kitakuja niramba nikaamua tu kwenda Saudi Arabia I just get to know who I am ... Let's meet on this episode in 2027
Its the eggs and watermelon part for me...oi!even kerry was lost fr words..wueeeeh
Weeh what a story..I like how she is composed..woiii
Riiiiggght?
There for eyes turning red on.....😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂weeeuh
😂😂😂
😂😂😂wazazi jameni
Love your show Kerry !!! Keep it going !!
Thank you, Liz, for sharing your story, honestly. We pray for you to achieve your goal and find the best partner who will understand you and give you all the support that you need to transition into that woman of your dream 2026.
I have always judged ladies who don't give themselves time after a breakup but now I understand
Ewooo😂😂😂.....lessons learnt though.....now you know better you do better....much ❤ thanks for sharing your story❤❤.we keep on learning ni life wadau❤
Hellos from Uganda😊 Keryy, your a real vibe. 😅
Webalenyoooo
Omulabye
Listening to this story reminds me of my own story wah
Nooooooo waaay
😂😂😂when heard 1st January 🙌🙌🙌🙌
Wueeh! She needs to do a complete overhaul on her self! It is good she realises she is not a victim