Alcohol brings on hot flashes. I learned that halfway through my menopause journey. What helps with hot flashes is ginger tea. 1 teaspoon of freshly grated ginger steeped in a cup of hot water adding honey is optional.
Sis, as a fellow 50+ in Atlanta with a 20+ daughter you need to let her be an adult. Fall back and give her space to explore and grow without you. Let her know you are there for her but put that energy on yourself and avoid the day drinking.
Thank you so much for this 💗. I am finally on this beat and loving living in this side. Sometimes it’s a lot and you’re right refocusing on me has been a game changer for me. I appreciate you so much. We are our sisters’ keeper 💗
@@TriciaBachoo❤. Yes! I have to constantly remind myself to focus on me because we naturally want to “help” it is challenging. I just think about my last frustration trying to help and hold my tongue until I’m asked for my opinions or advice.
Girl, I am convinced at 59 years of age that Menopause comes and goes in stages. I had a hysterectomy at 39 and started Menopause about 48. I have gone in and out of hot flashes, night sweats, and now joint pain in which I believe is contributing to Menopause.
Hi, new subbie here, I just love your channel. You are so relatable to us girlie's of a certain age. Your content is inspiring. I had a hysterectomy in 2020 it has been a rollercoster, especially the weight gain. I have a whole new body shape, but watching your workout and food prep vids has given me hope. Sending you peace & and blessings from Texas ❤
Hey love !! Thank you so much. I’m so grateful for you and for your kind message. Guuuurl, it was a journey that seems to take forever!! What helped me was that wrap around waist trainer I wore everyday for 4-6 hours a day for a few weeks combined with hot caffeine cream. It redefined my waistline. Shyt works ! Once I felt like I was getting my waistline back in line it gave me the push I needed to keep going.
Sending you love and light you got this ! Tomorrow I will drop another workout and meal prep video . I just love how we can support and encourage one another here 🫶🏾
Hey Love! Thank you for subscribing ! I am soo grateful for you... thank you so much.. You are just a stone throw away. What stopping you, love from doing it?
I just found you today through your workout out/meal prep video, immediately subscribed. Then this vlogs pop up tonight!! You are on a roll with these vlogs, and I’m here for the daily content!!❤🙌
Hey!!! Thank you so much for subscribing... I am so grateful for you 💓... I am here for the long haul... I ask the Universe for the inspiration to create daily content for my growing community of unstoppable women. Let's go! 💫
Thank you so much love.... oh, hmmmmm.. maybe that is is.. since I have drop the last 10 of 35 pounds, Im sassy and think I can eat anything again lol .. you mighta nailed it. Thank you, Sis!
New subbie here! I am loving your content as a 54 year old, peri menopausal, mom of four daughters, ages 15-24. I have learned so much about how tough it is to parent young adults. I NEVER would have used the tone or had the attitude with my mother as they have ALL had/have with me, smh. I miss them being younger and not talking back. They will make you drink, Cheers🥂!
I was always told each woman needs their own space. I’m fifty-one(51) and going through the same thing with my 23 year old. I’m in the early stages of menopause and have been pre-menopausal since forty-four(44). Pray for her because they think they know everything. These girls that is.
I was just getting ready to say there’s an old proverb “No house is big enough for two women” or smthg like that. There are no absolutes so I don’t believe this to be completely true but from experience understand it. It comes down to respect, not tolerance but genuine respect. Communication isn’t enough, comprehension and compassion are necessary. It take real work but it’s worth it. We work for everything else we want, why not with and for our loved ones ❤
Thank you so much... Living with loss is hard. One day, I decided that I had to change the energy .. and celebrate him instead of mourning not being able to share life with him. 💙
@@TriciaBachoo I send you this message with love. I lost my mother mother day weekend. My dad passed a year after her and my brother passed last year on my birthday so when you say talk about a loss, I’m only walking and breathing because of God nothing but God trust me I understand.❤️❤️
Hiii omg!! I have been binge watching you…loveee!! lol my daughter thinks I can’t live without her lol. She’s moving to Rhode Island to work on her BS. God is a mighty healer. I’m so happy she doing well and can return back to college. That’s a blessing!! Enjoy college life it’s the best. And mom enjoy you!! I just turned 50 months ago and I decided to give myself my life back after 3 children. ❤
Thank you so much.. I so feel your energy and so glad you found me .. just know, I am here to stay! Iamm need help though coming up with content week to week so please don't hesitate to share thoughts on things you would like to see as I continue to evolve and grow 🌸
Ooooo weeee sis, she’s stressing me out and I’m only watching! I’m 55 with a 27yo daughter, so I get it. Please give yourself that beautiful infectious energy and give your daughter space to miss you. She’d appreciate you so much more…❤Her attitude dampens your content.
Hi Love, Thank you so much!!! I am so grateful that I showed up in your feed 💗... I am here to stay ! I love the amazing women that have shown up.. we all need this ! Have an amazing day beautiful
Hi Love! Awe thank you. I’m so grateful for you. I’m equally grateful that I stuck with it. I am. Just drop in a relaxer for 2 mins to knock the wave out to keep it looking sharp. I have 2A hair and a pixie cut looks like a wet poodle which is NOT cute 😂
Hi Love, I’m so grateful for you Thank you for subscribing it means the world to me. We will stand here together supporting each other and praying for clarity and peace. 💗
Luv this I am New subscriber to your channel has touched me at the age of 51 no children by choice but divorced for five years in however have grown Godchildren And have relocated from the DMV area DC”Maryland “ Virginia to North Carolina I am now a southern girl by heart in most definitely luv ATL My BFF The family and some friends are there …Blessing upon u Sis
Hi Love! Thank you so much for subscribing and for your kind words. I’m so grateful for you. I in turn, am so grateful for my obedience in staying the course on this journey to find the community of women that needed me as much as I need them 🙏🏾 Congratulations on the amazing changes in your life. You are exactly where God wants you. 💗
Let me be clear! Hair turned out nice, it didn’t require much to begin with your gorgeous. The actual touch up process, the blow drying and hair spray especially was just interesting 😅
That was a follow up visit. My hair cut was actually the day before ( which I didn’t record but spoke about in the video called finding comfort after the storm ) and I just went in for him to show me how to blow out my hair when it gets frizz. He definitely has so much more to offer. But what you witnessed was a friend standing in the gap for a friend in need.
New subbie here, also in Atlanta & I enjoyed your video! Sorry to hear about your baby’s accident but happy to hear she is recovering well & ready to go back to school. I had a hysterectomy at 47, I am a few weeks from 54 and have zero menopause symptoms. I’m wondering if this is the calm before the storm😭🤣.
Thank you for your videos ❤ Let your “twenty-somen” be. As a “menopausal mess”, newly divorcee & an empty nester, I’ve learned to let them* do them & be them. Now I still check in per se but I don’t hold the grip. It’s a different world out here & we (due to our upbringing)tend to hold on tight. She will be ok. Let her learn as she go & if & when she needs you, she will come to you. Side note: thank you again for being transparent on your chanel Im 55 & I need this inspiration 🥂(I still grab a drink here & there tho)🤷🏽♀️
Hi Love! Thank you so much.. you are soo right the more I let go the more she comes to me when she needs to just chat.. and in letting her be I am doing me! It's such a freeing place. Cheers to new beginnings.. 💓
Baybeh! The way I cackled at that car chat when you said it’s time to sign off! We love our babies, but y’all are not our every doggone thing! You have to let her grow up and be an adult; however, there’s nothing wrong with reminding her that she is blessed. Not in a throw it in her face type of convo, but just a reminder. Let her know she’s loved and that she can come talk to you…older parent or not. Just from me watching the few vids that I have seen, you appear to be very wise! And no, there’s nothing wrong with day drinking! ❤❤❤
Hey Love! Just know I meant it 😂. Sometimes, I feel like she likes me to give her the side eye 😂 Yes and yes ! Thank you so much for this reminder 💗 Amen Sis At the day drinking 🤣. Let’s go 🙌🏾
I love your channel and very relatable especially menopause. Why there was no class about this during highschool or college. This is absolutely ridiculous lol but it is an experience. I have to force myself to get it together some days. I am going to start back working out and eating better. I am 49 and my youngest daughter is 9 smh when she grow up to be your daughter age I am going to let her live with her older sisters lol. Keep the content coming.
Hey Love! Thank you so much! I am so grateful for you! I am saying??!! Like they knew lol You got this.. LOL that is a great long term plan.. praying for the older sisters so they have it all together for the change coming lol I appreciate you so much.. another vlog drops tomorrow.. Since losing the last 10 of 35 total pounds, I went rogue and eating all kinda crap.. back on it tomorrow AM ..LOL Let's go!
Hello I'm 59 and just found your channel. I did the opposite...my kids are 41, 39 and 35 so I'm definitely enjoying life. Menopause I can say has been good to me...meaning a hot flash here and there, but not often. I have no other symptoms. I'm a athlete and I drink alcohol occasionally and plenty of water.
OMG yes those are so our words. When I tell you when I clicked on your video and I saw your Luggage, I said oh she fly and you know what it means when we say that.
AWE .... Thank you LOVE 💗 I love all things travel...I have literally been traveling internationally since I was an infant. Vintage Luggage is my THANG!!!
i started using Olaplex shampoo and conditioner. it's so good ! And before I comb my hair to dry I spray Mizani Milk leave in Conditioner or the creme milk leave in. My hair is doing so good. I love your hair cut. chic and dope ❤
Hi Love! Thank you so much for these tips. I’m going to try the Olapex shampoo. I’ve been drilling drawn to it for some reason and well, you sharing is right on time. Thank you so much I’m so grateful for you 💗
I'm 63 and I have a 42 year old married and a 24 year old. The 24 yesrbold is a girl. And about the menopsuse. I still have hot flashes occasionally, but the night sweats are 😅unreal
It’s interesting… I live in Los Angeles and have a 12 year old. Most of her friend’s parents are our age - I’m 51 and my husband is 53. I definitely think us in the West Coast have kids later in life. I didn’t marry until I was 36 and had my kid at 38.
I just left ATL last weekend and was vlogging there. Went to see Usher 🤭. These are the type of videos I miss on UA-cam. Very soothing. New Subscriber💕🙏🏾 I am 48 and my daughter is 26 and these kids WILL try you!!!😩😩
Hey Love, Yaaasss! Live that life, honey! URRSHUR... Baby! 🤣 Thank you soo much. I am so grateful for you GURRLLL! I think my kid is confused by the patience that I stand in at 50 something and my soft tones. Pray for us! 😑😅🤣
New subie here!! I absolutely loveeeee your glasses!!! Where can I find a pr? They're my fav color!! Also, I'm 49 and my son is 13 so I'm always the eldest parent in the group too lol
Thank you so much for subscribing 🙌🏾 thank you. They are such a fun pair of glasses. I got them from Pearl Vision in Buckhead. They are a part of Bottega Ventas. I dropped the style number on another subbies comment. Give me a sec and and I will reply with another comment and send it to you.
Hu Hun, I just ran across your channel. I really enjoyed your vlog. The night sweats are no joke, I get them once in a while😂. I am on the 5th Floor like you😂. These kids are something else❤. Happy that you were able to vote with your daughter. I am in Georgia myself and will vote probably tomorrow ❤. I am new to Georgia, just 3 years. Your Hair stylist looks like he is so caring. New subscriber ❤❤. I do have a UA-cam channel also, pass by and show some love ❤. Take care❤
Hey Hey Love! Thank you so much.. Guurlllll! LOL They are off the chain! Welcome ! He is amazing.. I am so grateful for him... I will check you out now and subscribe!
We are still journeying on her healing.. it's been over an year and we are grateful.. Girl, these kids lol ... I just ask God to help "they mommas" lol
I’m n menopause 2. I’m abt 2 try these vitamins that are supposed to help with hot flashes. If they work guh I’m put u on 2 them. I don’t gate keep. I get hot flashes randomly throughout the day.
Hi Love! Thank you so much.. that reminds me. In January, I stared on Dr Sebi's program which was an important part of this journey for me. He has a hormone balancer in his program. Las week, I had a call with his camp and working on a discount code for my viewers ...
Good morning, New Subscriber 😊 thoroughly enjoyed the vlog. Thinking 🤔 where can I purchase the shirt/sweatshirt with the logo Soft Girl Life? Thanks 😊
Chiming in as a 50+ with a 20++ (lol), they are absolutely a special group. Now, for night sweats, may I suggest a grounding sheet. I don't have hot flashes or night sweats like I've heard about. I have warm overs😂. I got a grounding sheet and have slept like a baby ever since.
Gurl! You said it! LOL IMMA look into that.. I also reached out to Dr. Sebi's son Abdul. He and I are friends.. I was on his female hormone balancing program in January... I appreciate you! 💓
Hey love thank you so much. Girl this hair of mine was a journey. Yes, I run Mizane through it for like 2 mins. I’m a mixed chic - my Dad is East Indian and My Mom is Black and my dad’s Mom was Latina. I had to learn to love this hair of mine without being frustrated with it never staying straight so dropping in a little butter blend allows me to mold it, wrap it with strips and dry it with a hand blow dryer with a diffuser and go. Once I get back to a bob, I won’t need to do it anymore because the longer my hair gets the weight of it keeps it straight enough.
Hello Tricia! I just found you, the Start a You Tube travel Channel video but as I watch this one you say "my birthday last weekend" let me find out we are birthday twins. My birthday was Oct 22nd & I turned 54. Subscribing!!!
Adult children need support like everyone 0-100. She’ll be much much different and more of a true “adult” or whatever that means in 5 years. 25 when the frontal lobe is hardened traditional parenting authority should switch over to more guidance and reinforcement. Our roles as a guide is just important as their position as teachers, children reflect back to us much of ourselves. We can get arrogant the more we increase in age but we all need a soft place to land. I pray you and your daughter seek to understand each other more as you both learn to understand yourselves better through life’s transitions. ❤
So many similarities! I had my daughter at 34 and she's 20! I voted w her for the first time in the primary election. Since she is not here she'll have to go Presidential alone. Well let's be real. I took care of her absentee ballot. She will just have to mail it in. 😂😂😂❤
Hi Love, oh my gosh! Yess. The more I show up here the more girlies I meet that have walked the same walk. I have to say it’s so nice to align now in support celebrating one another. 💗
Hello there I’m 53 and hv a 21 soon to be 22yr old and what I learned whn she moved out last year after graduating frm college a year early was I had to step wayyyyyy back and let her be her because we so want the best for them and at the same time we want them to not experience things we did but guess wht Thts how we learned…So I feel your pain but whn I stepped back it was the best thing for us … Although I would love to see her more it makes me proud that she’s doing her thing….. I hv to call her and say please check on your mother lol😂 but tht was something I said to her as a little girl playing outside…
Hi Love, I love everything about your message. What you’re saying is soo true. I’ve stepped back in comparison to what I used to do and just manage my day. When she doesn’t hear from me she is like ummm Mom don’t you love me ? And is always checking for my whereabouts. When I used to check in with her she used to act like I was annoying her so I stopped and giving all that attention to myself. I’ve told her that she is in my world not the opposite and the truth is talk is cheap and we gotta just show them. Her transitioning back to college will help a lot because I gotta a life to live and she is in my way 😂
Where did your daughter get her grey jacket from? My daughter was asking about it. I am also a 50+ mother and my daughter is also in her 20s so I relate lol
Didn't know any other way to contact you. Please try another doctor . Those night sweats can be something else. Don't mean to scare you but that could be a sign of cancer. I had night sweats like you are describing. It took another doctor to tell me it was cancer . I was almost stage 4. The doctor needs to do a petscan to see what is wrong. You only go through menapause once. Please get check for cancer.
@@TriciaBachoo I am doing great! Thank God for the other doctor who saw something was wrong. I was having night sweats and it was cold. Please don't wait to get check . Go this week please. If anyway possible I will continue to check on you,
i can see in your daughter's actions she is fiesty. You are not old. Young people are clueless about age. I just hope you will be able to have a good relationship with your daughter. She is beautiful like her mama.
Hi Love! Say it again!! Clueless and think they know things. How does that work?! 🫣 it doesn’t 😂 I appreciate you so much and I’m so grateful for your wisdom and prayers. 💗
Hey friend not your daughter bossing you around. Haha listen my grown son leaves me alone sometimes but my daughter she’s 7 and she thinks she’s the boss of me now! I’m going through perimenopause so I understand 😩😩 I can also relate that I’ve changed as a mom. I was a very young girl mom the first time and then an older mom the second time. I pray to be vibrant and be able to keep up with her. But Lordt her as a 20 something I’ll be in my early 50’s. This’ll be fun lol 15:00 😂😂😂 She said I’m your offspring
Girl, she is tripping LOL! I just look at her sometimes and just stay thank you lord for the patient and kind woman you have pressed me into becoming! She takes my soft tones the wrong way! Your kid is right so she betta understand who her Momma is! LOL .. We gonna pray right now for the babies! lol
Thank you so much. It’s definitely light coverage for a flawless finish. I’m a make up kinda girl. I see it as a part of my pampering 💕 In May, I started using Tretinion and it was a game changer .. lines were zapped away and the hyperpigmentation that I had all gone. What’s your favorite mascara? My allergies always made it hard for me to wear mascara so I opted for strip lashes. Imma rock those until I’m like 100 😂
hey love! I just dropped the link for the rack in the description of this video! I appreciate your patience.. I wanted to make sure that I responded to everyone before I could start hunting the links for the product requests.. I am so grateful for you! Have an amazing day, ahead..
You are so attractive, I think I need to let my hair go, it's thinning and always dry because I live in a high altitude location. But anyways, I know that cut will look cute on me because I used to wear my hair cut low and everyone liked it on me. Im 56 BTW
Hi Love! Thank you so much! I did a hair growth video and that product helped me grow my hair back. It's a combination of sulfur 8 and virgin hair fertilizer..the photos in the video tell the whole story.. if it wasn't for that product I would not be able to continue to wear it this short... I am excited for you.. you are stepping into a new you! 🙌🏾
Omg I would hook your hair up, that’s way too much time for doing nothing. I just didn’t see the point. Your haircut is so feminine and it should be bumped a little just soft bumps all the way around nice and neat. I just don’t see what he’s trying to achieve in all of that. I watched him be busy for absolutely nothing on your head. You’re Absolutely Gorgeous with a very sharp haircut. I’m sure your stylist is good and thank God there’s always room to grow to specialize and to sharpen your craft. Your stylist has caring hands that I can clearly see ❤ Shampoo, conditioner, mold, under the dryer, light oil spray, soft bump curls, sharpen those edges with the clippers and then out the door. Real easy just like that. A good stylist work always stands out. Your hairstyle is simple but it should’ve been laid to the gods. My first time watching your channel as we speak and I absolutely love it 🥰 Jet black hair rinse would make your hair pop and make it look more healthier.
YAY!!!!!!!!! I subscribed and hit like. I am soooo proud of you, Sis! You did it!!!!!!! If you don't have UA-cam Studio on your phone download it. Go into the edit feature of your video and turn on the comments. and um, you can share things in addition to the Word.. As you get comfortable how you navigate life daily and what support you have to do life. I am celebrating you!!!!!!!!!
Hiii omg!! I have been binge watching you…loveee!! lol my daughter thinks I can’t live without her lol. She’s moving to Rhode Island to work on her BS. God is a mighty healer. I’m so happy she doing well and can return back to college. That’s a blessing!! Enjoy college life it’s the best. And mom enjoy you!! I just turned 50 months ago and I decided to give myself my life back after 3 children. ❤
Hi Love!!! Awe thank you soo much. I am grateful for you! I I don't know about these only children lol RI is beautiful.. I went to UCONN and would drive over to RI for dinner on on Friday nights... Amen! Thank you so much. It is a blessing. we are so grateful... She is soo ready to get back to that life and I think now, appreciates it much more things go around. Happy belated birthday beautiful!!! Yes, honey we are in our prime and it's show time..
I’m 54 and my son is 32. We both grown and I love it.
Awe... I love this... son's love their Moms... I love this for you both! Live that life, honey! 💓
Alcohol brings on hot flashes. I learned that halfway through my menopause journey. What helps with hot flashes is ginger tea. 1 teaspoon of freshly grated ginger steeped in a cup of hot water adding honey is optional.
Hi Love, thank you sooo much for this. I’m so grateful for the amazing and supportive women that I’m meeting here. We are our sisters’ keeper 💗
Sis, as a fellow 50+ in Atlanta with a 20+ daughter you need to let her be an adult. Fall back and give her space to explore and grow without you. Let her know you are there for her but put that energy on yourself and avoid the day drinking.
Thank you so much for this 💗. I am finally on this beat and loving living in this side. Sometimes it’s a lot and you’re right refocusing on me has been a game changer for me. I appreciate you so much.
We are our sisters’ keeper 💗
@@TriciaBachoo❤. Yes! I have to constantly remind myself to focus on me because we naturally want to “help” it is challenging. I just think about my last frustration trying to help and hold my tongue until I’m asked for my opinions or advice.
@@kbutterfly1397 same Sis 🫶🏾
Girl, I am convinced at 59 years of age that Menopause comes and goes in stages. I had a hysterectomy at 39 and started Menopause about 48. I have gone in and out of hot flashes, night sweats, and now joint pain in which I believe is contributing to Menopause.
Not what I wanted to here lol 😂.. Praying for you, Sis and praying for us all.. Menopause is a beast..
Hi, new subbie here, I just love your channel. You are so relatable to us girlie's of a certain age. Your content is inspiring. I had a hysterectomy in 2020 it has been a rollercoster, especially the weight gain. I have a whole new body shape, but watching your workout and food prep vids has given me hope. Sending you peace & and blessings from Texas ❤
Hey love !! Thank you so much. I’m so grateful for you and for your kind message.
Guuuurl, it was a journey that seems to take forever!! What helped me was that wrap around waist trainer I wore everyday for 4-6 hours a day for a few weeks combined with hot caffeine cream. It redefined my waistline. Shyt works ! Once I felt like I was getting my waistline back in line it gave me the push I needed to keep going.
Sending you love and light you got this ! Tomorrow I will drop another workout and meal prep video . I just love how we can support and encourage one another here 🫶🏾
@TriciaBachoo thank you, thank you, beautiful for sharing this information. I am going to definitely do this!
New subscriber here👋🏾 I am a native Atlantan. I live in Gwinnett county and I’ve always wanted to live in the city so I’m loving your vlogs!
Hey Love! Thank you for subscribing ! I am soo grateful for you... thank you so much.. You are just a stone throw away. What stopping you, love from doing it?
Just bumped into your channel two days ago and I absolutely love it here!!
🥹 Thank you sooo much! I am so grateful for you ! 💓
I just found you today through your workout out/meal prep video, immediately subscribed. Then this vlogs pop up tonight!! You are on a roll with these vlogs, and I’m here for the daily content!!❤🙌
Hey!!! Thank you so much for subscribing... I am so grateful for you 💓... I am here for the long haul... I ask the Universe for the inspiration to create daily content for my growing community of unstoppable women. Let's go! 💫
Yellow flowers are my favorite and especially the tulips
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I’m 54 and a new subscriber. I absolutely love your channel.❤
Thank you so much Love! I am so grateful that you have found me. I am all the way committed to staying! We all need this! 💓
I’m so glad to have found your channel! Very real and authentic! You have a new subscriber! 👌😊
Awe thank you so much. I appreciate you so much 💗 and thank you for subscribing
The bedroom window ❤
So thankful for her recovery ❤
Thank you so much 💗
Congratulations to your daughter on her recovery. Night-sweats increased for me if I eat too much sugar.
Thank you so much love.... oh, hmmmmm.. maybe that is is.. since I have drop the last 10 of 35 pounds, Im sassy and think I can eat anything again lol .. you mighta nailed it. Thank you, Sis!
Hello love! Your hair is cute. Blessings to you and daughter ❤
Hi Love! Thank you soo much! That means so much! Thank you Blessings to you, too! 💓
New subbie here! I am loving your content as a 54 year old, peri menopausal, mom of four daughters, ages 15-24. I have learned so much about how tough it is to parent young adults. I NEVER would have used the tone or had the attitude with my mother as they have ALL had/have with me, smh. I miss them being younger and not talking back. They will make you drink, Cheers🥂!
GURRLLL! Bless you.. I seriously felt like day drinking was a solid solution 🤣 Thank you so much for subscribing! 💓
I was always told each woman needs their own space.
I’m fifty-one(51) and going through the same thing with my 23 year old.
I’m in the early stages of menopause and have been pre-menopausal since forty-four(44).
Pray for her because they think they know everything. These girls that is.
I was just getting ready to say there’s an old proverb “No house is big enough for two women” or smthg like that. There are no absolutes so I don’t believe this to be completely true but from experience understand it. It comes down to respect, not tolerance but genuine respect. Communication isn’t enough, comprehension and compassion are necessary. It take real work but it’s worth it. We work for everything else we want, why not with and for our loved ones ❤
One thing I know is prayer changes things. I’m praying for us all! Just know my side eye game has gotten stronger 😂
1st Time Watching & Subscribe!
Hi Love! I’m so grateful for you ! Thank you for subscribing 💗
You are beautiful and uplifting doing your thing
Thank you love! I am so grateful for you and your support. 💓
Oh so sorry for your lost. God Bless your Angel above. 💙💙💙💙
Thank you so much... Living with loss is hard. One day, I decided that I had to change the energy .. and celebrate him instead of mourning not being able to share life with him. 💙
@@TriciaBachoo I send you this message with love. I lost my mother mother day weekend. My dad passed a year after her and my brother passed last year on my birthday so when you say talk about a loss, I’m only walking and breathing because of God nothing but God trust me I understand.❤️❤️
Hiii omg!! I have been binge watching you…loveee!! lol my daughter thinks I can’t live without her lol. She’s moving to Rhode Island to work on her BS.
God is a mighty healer. I’m so happy she doing well and can return back to college. That’s a blessing!! Enjoy college life it’s the best. And mom enjoy you!! I just turned 50 months ago and I decided to give myself my life back after 3 children. ❤
Thank you so much.. I so feel your energy and so glad you found me .. just know, I am here to stay! Iamm need help though coming up with content week to week so please don't hesitate to share thoughts on things you would like to see as I continue to evolve and grow 🌸
Tell her she got this go vote and proud ❤❤❤❤
Thank you so much! She was sooo nervous but handled it like the Queen she is!
I’m so glad I found another 50+ creator! I actually just turned 60 😊. Love your content.
Happy Birthday Love. I am an October soul, too! Thank you.. I love your new intro... I am here for support, Sis! Let's goooooo
Ooooo weeee sis, she’s stressing me out and I’m only watching! I’m 55 with a 27yo daughter, so I get it. Please give yourself that beautiful infectious energy and give your daughter space to miss you. She’d appreciate you so much more…❤Her attitude dampens your content.
Gurl! I live every thing about your message 💗 I’m grateful for you and value every word. Amen! It is done 🙌🏾 blessings beautiful.
Love the channel! Just popped up on my feed! Hello from Texas 🤠
Hi Love, Thank you so much!!! I am so grateful that I showed up in your feed 💗... I am here to stay ! I love the amazing women that have shown up.. we all need this ! Have an amazing day beautiful
Hey sis, hey I just came across your channel and click subscribe. God bless you and your beautiful daughter.
Hey Love! Awe, I am so grateful for you! Thank you so much.. Blessings to you, too! Manifest that BIG life!
New to your channel. Thank you for your transparency and being authentic. Loving the hair. Are you relaxed?
Hi Love! Awe thank you. I’m so grateful for you. I’m equally grateful that I stuck with it.
I am. Just drop in a relaxer for 2 mins to knock the wave out to keep it looking sharp. I have 2A hair and a pixie cut looks like a wet poodle which is NOT cute 😂
I'm 53, and I just subscribed to your channel. I have a 20 year old and we bump heads daily. I can relate to a lot of what you're saying.
Hi Love, I’m so grateful for you Thank you for subscribing it means the world to me. We will stand here together supporting each other and praying for clarity and peace. 💗
Luv this I am New subscriber to your channel has touched me at the age of 51 no children by choice but divorced for five years in however have grown Godchildren And have relocated from the DMV area DC”Maryland “ Virginia to North Carolina I am now a southern girl by heart in most definitely luv ATL My BFF The family and some friends are there …Blessing upon u Sis
Hi Love!
Thank you so much for subscribing and for your kind words. I’m so grateful for you. I in turn, am so grateful for my obedience in staying the course on this journey to find the community of women that needed me as much as I need them 🙏🏾
Congratulations on the amazing changes in your life. You are exactly where God wants you. 💗
I totally agree at 50 I began not to care about certain things. lol
OMGG! YES!!!!! 🤣
New subbie! Enjoying your content ❤
Hi Love! Thank you so much for subscribing. I’m soo grateful for you 💗 thank you 🥹
New subscriber i been bing-watching I'm a women over 50 I'm just loving your channel
Hi Love! I am so grateful for you!! Thank you sooo much 💗..
That hair salon visit was insane! I know Atlanta got more to offer than that quiet chaos 😂
Let me be clear! Hair turned out nice, it didn’t require much to begin with your gorgeous. The actual touch up process, the blow drying and hair spray especially was just interesting 😅
That was a follow up visit. My hair cut was actually the day before ( which I didn’t record but spoke about in the video called finding comfort after the storm ) and I just went in for him to show me how to blow out my hair when it gets frizz.
He definitely has so much more to offer.
But what you witnessed was a friend standing in the gap for a friend in need.
New subbie here, also in Atlanta & I enjoyed your video! Sorry to hear about your baby’s accident but happy to hear she is recovering well & ready to go back to school. I had a hysterectomy at 47, I am a few weeks from 54 and have zero menopause symptoms. I’m wondering if this is the calm before the storm😭🤣.
guuurllll, it is! LOL Hang on... cuz it's coming lol Thank you so much.. I am sooo grateful for you!
Thank you for your videos ❤
Let your “twenty-somen” be.
As a “menopausal mess”, newly divorcee & an empty nester, I’ve learned to let them* do them & be them. Now I still check in per se but I don’t hold the grip. It’s a different world out here & we (due to our upbringing)tend to hold on tight.
She will be ok. Let her learn as she go & if & when she needs you, she will come to you.
Side note: thank you again for being transparent on your chanel
Im 55 & I need this inspiration
🥂(I still grab a drink here & there tho)🤷🏽♀️
Hi Love! Thank you so much.. you are soo right the more I let go the more she comes to me when she needs to just chat.. and in letting her be I am doing me! It's such a freeing place.
Cheers to new beginnings.. 💓
Baybeh! The way I cackled at that car chat when you said it’s time to sign off! We love our babies, but y’all are not our every doggone thing!
You have to let her grow up and be an adult; however, there’s nothing wrong with reminding her that she is blessed. Not in a throw it in her face type of convo, but just a reminder. Let her know she’s loved and that she can come talk to you…older parent or not. Just from me watching the few vids that I have seen, you appear to be very wise!
And no, there’s nothing wrong with day drinking! ❤❤❤
Hey Love! Just know I meant it 😂. Sometimes, I feel like she likes me to give her the side eye 😂
Yes and yes ! Thank you so much for this reminder 💗
Amen Sis
At the day drinking 🤣. Let’s go 🙌🏾
I love your channel and very relatable especially menopause. Why there was no class about this during highschool or college. This is absolutely ridiculous lol but it is an experience. I have to force myself to get it together some days. I am going to start back working out and eating better. I am 49 and my youngest daughter is 9 smh when she grow up to be your daughter age I am going to let her live with her older sisters lol. Keep the content coming.
Hey Love! Thank you so much! I am so grateful for you! I am saying??!! Like they knew lol You got this.. LOL that is a great long term plan.. praying for the older sisters so they have it all together for the change coming lol I appreciate you so much.. another vlog drops tomorrow.. Since losing the last 10 of 35 total pounds, I went rogue and eating all kinda crap.. back on it tomorrow AM ..LOL Let's go!
New Subscriber Love your vlogs so encouraging and insightful ❤
Hi love, thank you so much for subscribing. I am so grateful for you 💗
so happy you guys voted !! Good video. i enjoyed. Drink cold water it will cool you down
Thank you so much, Love! I appreciate you so much. 💗
Hello I'm 59 and just found your channel. I did the opposite...my kids are 41, 39 and 35 so I'm definitely enjoying life.
Menopause I can say has been good to me...meaning a hot flash here and there, but not often. I have no other symptoms. I'm a athlete and I drink alcohol occasionally and plenty of water.
Hi Love! I am soo grateful for you.. Thank you I love everything about your energy!!! Blessings, Sis!
OMG yes those are so our words. When I tell you when I clicked on your video and I saw your Luggage, I said oh she fly and you know what it means when we say that.
AWE .... Thank you LOVE 💗 I love all things travel...I have literally been traveling internationally since I was an infant. Vintage Luggage is my THANG!!!
@@TriciaBachoo OMG I see your absolutely fabulous
i started using Olaplex shampoo and conditioner. it's so good ! And before I comb my hair to dry I spray Mizani Milk leave in Conditioner or the creme milk leave in. My hair is doing so good. I love your hair cut. chic and dope ❤
Hi Love! Thank you so much for these tips. I’m going to try the Olapex shampoo. I’ve been drilling drawn to it for some reason and well, you sharing is right on time. Thank you so much I’m so grateful for you 💗
I'm 63 and I have a 42 year old married and a 24 year old. The 24 yesrbold is a girl. And about the menopsuse. I still have hot flashes occasionally, but the night sweats are 😅unreal
Gurrl , unreal is accurate lol 😂
New to your channel really enjoy the content look forward to to more
Hi Love! Thank you so much.. I am grateful for you! 💓
❤Worst place to put your gold ✨️ rack is near a windows 🪟. The sun 🌞 fades your clothes
Hi Love, It's only a place to show case items in the short term. I appreciate you!
Girl me and my sister were having the same conversation about these "grown" kids trying to tell us what to do, they get of my nerves!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂
GURLLL ! 😩🤣
It’s interesting… I live in Los Angeles and have a 12 year old. Most of her friend’s parents are our age - I’m 51 and my husband is 53. I definitely think us in the West Coast have kids later in life. I didn’t marry until I was 36 and had my kid at 38.
It’s a great age to start a family. I just believe we are better parents as we mature. We can only hope the same for the kid lol 😂
I just left ATL last weekend and was vlogging there. Went to see Usher 🤭. These are the type of videos I miss on UA-cam. Very soothing. New Subscriber💕🙏🏾 I am 48 and my daughter is 26 and these kids WILL try you!!!😩😩
Hey Love, Yaaasss!
Live that life, honey! URRSHUR... Baby! 🤣
Thank you soo much. I am so grateful for you
GURRLLL! I think my kid is confused by the patience that I stand in at 50 something and my soft tones.
Pray for us! 😑😅🤣
@@TriciaBachoo 🙏🏾 Amen!! Prayers sent 🤣🤣☀️
New subie here!! I absolutely loveeeee your glasses!!! Where can I find a pr? They're my fav color!! Also, I'm 49 and my son is 13 so I'm always the eldest parent in the group too lol
Thank you so much for subscribing 🙌🏾 thank you. They are such a fun pair of glasses.
I got them from Pearl Vision in Buckhead.
They are a part of Bottega Ventas. I dropped the style number on another subbies comment. Give me a sec and and I will reply with another comment and send it to you.
New to you. I’m 58 with a 24 yr old daughter. I feel You 🤦🏽♀️
Hi Love! I am grateful for you! I have mastered my straight face LOL .. praying for you sis!
Hu Hun, I just ran across your channel. I really enjoyed your vlog. The night sweats are no joke, I get them once in a while😂. I am on the 5th Floor like you😂. These kids are something else❤. Happy that you were able to vote with your daughter. I am in Georgia myself and will vote probably tomorrow ❤. I am new to Georgia, just 3 years. Your Hair stylist looks like he is so caring. New subscriber ❤❤. I do have a UA-cam channel also, pass by and show some love ❤. Take care❤
Hey Hey Love! Thank you so much.. Guurlllll! LOL They are off the chain! Welcome ! He is amazing.. I am so grateful for him... I will check you out now and subscribe!
Just subscribed! You got this!
@@TriciaBachoo Thank you Hun, yes we got this ♥️♥️
I appreciate you.
So relieved your daughter has recovered from her car accident ❤
Lol, going to have to use that 20yr old come back on my 17 yr old 😂
We are still journeying on her healing.. it's been over an year and we are grateful.. Girl, these kids lol ... I just ask God to help "they mommas" lol
New subscriber here 👋🏾
hey hey hey! Thank you so much! 💓
New subscriber here ❤ Hey girl hey ❤
Hey Love! Thank you so much for subscribing! I am soo grateful for you!
I’m n menopause 2. I’m abt 2 try these vitamins that are supposed to help with hot flashes. If they work guh I’m put u on 2 them. I don’t gate keep. I get hot flashes randomly throughout the day.
Hi Love! Thank you so much.. that reminds me. In January, I stared on Dr Sebi's program which was an important part of this journey for me. He has a hormone balancer in his program. Las week, I had a call with his camp and working on a discount code for my viewers ...
I just subscribed beautiful Queen
Thank you so much Love! I really appreciate you 💓
@@TriciaBachoo you’re welcome Queen ❤️
Good morning, New Subscriber 😊 thoroughly enjoyed the vlog.
Thinking 🤔 where can I purchase the shirt/sweatshirt with the logo Soft Girl Life?
Thanks 😊
Hey love ! Thank you so much. I’m grateful for you. 💗 the link to my shop. You’re gonna love it
@ Thanks Have amazing day.
Hello where did you get that glass work board from and the clips I need that so convenient
Hi Love! It’s the best board. I found of from ikea. They don’t carry it any more but I did drop a few links for u in the description in the section 💗
@ Hi 👋🏽 Thank you so much .. 😊
Chiming in as a 50+ with a 20++ (lol), they are absolutely a special group.
Now, for night sweats, may I suggest a grounding sheet. I don't have hot flashes or night sweats like I've heard about. I have warm overs😂. I got a grounding sheet and have slept like a baby ever since.
Gurl! You said it! LOL IMMA look into that.. I also reached out to Dr. Sebi's son Abdul. He and I are friends.. I was on his female hormone balancing program in January... I appreciate you! 💓
Hi Tricia can you share where you got the clothing rack stand in your bedroom? Thank you.
Hey love ! Of course. Give me a second and I will circle back and drop the link in the description for you 💗
Caffeine and alcohol make hot flashes worse! When I have those, I really have to ask myself, am I prepared for the hot flashes!
Its bananas, right?!! The things we gotta go through.. LOL
Your hair is so pretty. Is your hair relaxed? It looks like it.
Hey love thank you so much.
Girl this hair of mine was a journey. Yes, I run Mizane through it for like 2 mins. I’m a mixed chic - my Dad is East Indian and My Mom is Black and my dad’s Mom was Latina.
I had to learn to love this hair of mine without being frustrated with it never staying straight so dropping in a little butter blend allows me to mold it, wrap it with strips and dry it with a hand blow dryer with a diffuser and go.
Once I get back to a bob, I won’t need to do it anymore because the longer my hair gets the weight of it keeps it straight enough.
New subbie, nice channel! ❤
Hi Love! Thank you so much.. I appreciate you!
Hello Tricia! I just found you, the Start a You Tube travel Channel video but as I watch this one you say "my birthday last weekend" let me find out we are birthday twins. My birthday was Oct 22nd & I turned 54. Subscribing!!!
Happy Birthday, Love ! Thank you so much .. I am so grateful for your message.. 💓
Listen, we have the same daughter. My God!! I could tell you some stories.
😂. I literally laughed out loud.
We need a meet & greet “Fine & Fifty-plus” living in the Atl.
Maybe we can do a Beltline Meet up or Something near Smyrna🎊🎉🩵
I love that idea.. soon for sure.. I thought maybe starting with a few lives and then go and grow from there 💓
Just know once she turned 18 u dont owe her anything so she should feel blessed.
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Adult children need support like everyone 0-100. She’ll be much much different and more of a true “adult” or whatever that means in 5 years. 25 when the frontal lobe is hardened traditional parenting authority should switch over to more guidance and reinforcement. Our roles as a guide is just important as their position as teachers, children reflect back to us much of ourselves. We can get arrogant the more we increase in age but we all need a soft place to land. I pray you and your daughter seek to understand each other more as you both learn to understand yourselves better through life’s transitions. ❤
Then why have these kids if you just waiting till they turn 18 so you can kick them out. SMH.
So many similarities! I had my daughter at 34 and she's 20! I voted w her for the first time in the primary election. Since she is not here she'll have to go Presidential alone. Well let's be real. I took care of her absentee ballot. She will just have to mail it in. 😂😂😂❤
Hi Love, oh my gosh! Yess. The more I show up here the more girlies I meet that have walked the same walk. I have to say it’s so nice to align now in support celebrating one another. 💗
Hello there I’m 53 and hv a 21 soon to be 22yr old and what I learned whn she moved out last year after graduating frm college a year early was I had to step wayyyyyy back and let her be her because we so want the best for them and at the same time we want them to not experience things we did but guess wht Thts how we learned…So I feel your pain but whn I stepped back it was the best thing for us … Although I would love to see her more it makes me proud that she’s doing her thing….. I hv to call her and say please check on your mother lol😂 but tht was something I said to her as a little girl playing outside…
Hi Love, I love everything about your message. What you’re saying is soo true. I’ve stepped back in comparison to what I used to do and just manage my day. When she doesn’t hear from me she is like ummm Mom don’t you love me ? And is always checking for my whereabouts. When I used to check in with her she used to act like I was annoying her so I stopped and giving all that attention to myself.
I’ve told her that she is in my world not the opposite and the truth is talk is cheap and we gotta just show them.
Her transitioning back to college will help a lot because I gotta a life to live and she is in my way 😂
Please can you link your duvet insert? I want one just like that to create a hotel look in my room.
Hi Love! yes of course! I will drop it tomorrow for you.. Thank you for patience.. I was at an event and just getting in
@ thank you! I appreciate it.
Where did your daughter get her grey jacket from? My daughter was asking about it. I am also a 50+ mother and my daughter is also in her 20s so I relate lol
hey love! Girl! we can day drink together LOL Which one? the one at the beginning of the video?
@@TriciaBachoo 🤣🤣 yes, that’s the one
Didn't know any other way to contact you. Please try another doctor . Those night sweats can be something else. Don't mean to scare you but that could be a sign of cancer. I had night sweats like you are describing. It took another doctor to tell me it was cancer . I was almost stage 4. The doctor needs to do a petscan to see what is wrong. You only go through menapause once. Please get check for cancer.
Thank you so much for this! I appreciate you so much! How are you doing now? I pray well! 💓
@@TriciaBachoo I am doing great! Thank God for the other doctor who saw something was wrong. I was having night sweats and it was cold. Please don't wait to get check . Go this week please. If anyway possible I will continue to check on you,
i can see in your daughter's actions she is fiesty.
You are not old. Young people are clueless about age. I just hope you will be able to have a good relationship with your daughter. She is beautiful like her mama.
Hi Love! Say it again!! Clueless and think they know things. How does that work?! 🫣 it doesn’t 😂
I appreciate you so much and I’m so grateful for your wisdom and prayers. 💗
Hey friend not your daughter bossing you around. Haha listen my grown son leaves me alone sometimes but my daughter she’s 7 and she thinks she’s the boss of me now!
I’m going through perimenopause so I understand 😩😩
I can also relate that I’ve changed as a mom. I was a very young girl mom the first time and then an older mom the second time. I pray to be vibrant and be able to keep up with her. But Lordt her as a 20 something I’ll be in my early 50’s. This’ll be fun lol
15:00 😂😂😂
She said I’m your offspring
Girl, she is tripping LOL! I just look at her sometimes and just stay thank you lord for the patient and kind woman you have pressed me into becoming!
She takes my soft tones the wrong way!
Your kid is right so she betta understand who her Momma is! LOL .. We gonna pray right now for the babies! lol
@@TriciaBachoo 🤣🤣🤣 yes let’s pray lol
You don't even need all that makeup and so much work. I don't wear makeup maybe mascara if I'm going somewhere important 😊
Thank you so much.
It’s definitely light coverage for a flawless finish. I’m a make up kinda girl. I see it as a part of my pampering 💕
In May, I started using Tretinion and it was a game changer .. lines were zapped away and the hyperpigmentation that I had all gone.
What’s your favorite mascara? My allergies always made it hard for me to wear mascara so I opted for strip lashes. Imma rock those until I’m like 100 😂
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hey love! I just dropped the link for the rack in the description of this video! I appreciate your patience.. I wanted to make sure that I responded to everyone before I could start hunting the links for the product requests.. I am so grateful for you! Have an amazing day, ahead..
You are so attractive, I think I need to let my hair go, it's thinning and always dry because I live in a high altitude location. But anyways, I know that cut will look cute on me because I used to wear my hair cut low and everyone liked it on me. Im 56 BTW
Hi Love! Thank you so much! I did a hair growth video and that product helped me grow my hair back. It's a combination of sulfur 8 and virgin hair fertilizer..the photos in the video tell the whole story.. if it wasn't for that product I would not be able to continue to wear it this short... I am excited for you.. you are stepping into a new you! 🙌🏾
Omg I would hook your hair up, that’s way too much time for doing nothing. I just didn’t see the point. Your haircut is so feminine and it should be bumped a little just soft bumps all the way around nice and neat. I just don’t see what he’s trying to achieve in all of that. I watched him be busy for absolutely nothing on your head. You’re Absolutely Gorgeous with a very sharp haircut. I’m sure your stylist is good and thank God there’s always room to grow to specialize and to sharpen your craft. Your stylist has caring hands that I can clearly see ❤ Shampoo, conditioner, mold, under the dryer, light oil spray, soft bump curls, sharpen those edges with the clippers and then out the door. Real easy just like that. A good stylist work always stands out. Your hairstyle is simple but it should’ve been laid to the gods. My first time watching your channel as we speak and I absolutely love it 🥰 Jet black hair rinse would make your hair pop and make it look more healthier.
I appreciate you Queen! He is a barber and I do the rest at home.. and don't like the bumped look.. but I love your energy for sure! 💓
I did it. I posted my first video. ❤❤❤
YAY!!!!!!!!! I subscribed and hit like. I am soooo proud of you, Sis! You did it!!!!!!!
If you don't have UA-cam Studio on your phone download it. Go into the edit feature of your video and turn on the comments.
and um, you can share things in addition to the Word.. As you get comfortable how you navigate life daily and what support you have to do life. I am celebrating you!!!!!!!!!
I think I'm in menopause, not sure because I had hysterectomy but I don't speak of menopause. I'm not giving it credit 😊
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Hiii omg!! I have been binge watching you…loveee!! lol my daughter thinks I can’t live without her lol. She’s moving to Rhode Island to work on her BS.
God is a mighty healer. I’m so happy she doing well and can return back to college. That’s a blessing!! Enjoy college life it’s the best. And mom enjoy you!! I just turned 50 months ago and I decided to give myself my life back after 3 children. ❤
Hi Love!!! Awe thank you soo much. I am grateful for you! I I don't know about these only children lol RI is beautiful.. I went to UCONN and would drive over to RI for dinner on on Friday nights...
Amen! Thank you so much. It is a blessing. we are so grateful... She is soo ready to get back to that life and I think now, appreciates it much more things go around.
Happy belated birthday beautiful!!!
Yes, honey we are in our prime and it's show time..