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  • @sanchezcristy6423
    @sanchezcristy6423 2 місяці тому +29281

    Anything is possible. I was raped and decided to keep my child. I had my daughter at 14 and had no body. Not even my family. I'm 32 now and my daughter is 17. She will be 18 in a few weeks. Last week I watched her walk down the aisle for graduation. Never give up.

    • @kimmyg7821
      @kimmyg7821 2 місяці тому +1133

      You should be so proud of yourself ❤

    • @ashleylowery3029
      @ashleylowery3029 2 місяці тому +495

      Your an inspiration to all women out there!!❤️❤️ Congratulations to your baby Graduating I know how exciting that is for a mother and how proud it makes us!! #StrongWomen #MaMas

    • @mars-bv3ps
      @mars-bv3ps 2 місяці тому +113

      August baby?🤗

    • @pizza8050
      @pizza8050 2 місяці тому +200

      You're an amazing human being I hope you're proud of yourself :)

    • @laylaclarice6233
      @laylaclarice6233 2 місяці тому

      Okay but she wasn't raped and why is she having sex at that age??

  • @MosaicSprite
    @MosaicSprite Місяць тому +8173

    I was pregnant at 14. She’s now 40. It is scary. I went on to graduate HS. Had more children. Became an Esthetician. Got my Undergraduate degree then my PostBac then my Masters and I’m a yoga teacher! Anything is possible.

    • @MaisyDaisy333
      @MaisyDaisy333 Місяць тому +57

      That's wonderful! That must have been very scary, but you have so much to be proud of. Good for you! ❤❤

    • @johannacastro7159
      @johannacastro7159 Місяць тому +21

      Congratulations ur my hero ur my inspiration mom

    • @V.E.R.O.
      @V.E.R.O. Місяць тому +31

      You need a masters degree to be a yoga teacher?

    • @juliansearcie1758
      @juliansearcie1758 Місяць тому +8

      That's an exception not the rule ..oh you were 14 who housed and feed the child?.

    • @kittytonic87
      @kittytonic87 Місяць тому

      Nobody gives a flying fck what you accomplished, that doesn't make you less of a mcthotty, like who goes around opening their legs at that age 🤢

  • @IsaFernández-g1c
    @IsaFernández-g1c 2 місяці тому +11504

    i’ve been there. hang in there girl! i was r@pEd by my bsf’s brother at the age of 16 and now i have a 1 year old daughter. i love my daughter very much. as for my r@p!st, he is in jail. there are so many of us teen moms and we have to look out for eachother. i couldn’t imagine a life without my daughter now. god bless you.❤
    update: i want to thank everyone for their support. god bless everyone!

    • @christina8951
      @christina8951 2 місяці тому +490

      sorry but that's completely different.....being forced isn't a choice...laying up with someone is

    • @twothousandandchew
      @twothousandandchew 2 місяці тому

      you’re a victim of something you didn’t want.. she wanted sex..

    • @DFD_horses
      @DFD_horses 2 місяці тому +205

      I’m so sorry. I have no idea what you’ve gone through but I bet it was horrible

    • @Kikibaby70
      @Kikibaby70 2 місяці тому +292

      Your situation is way different than this girl situation. You got raped the girl that’s talking volunteer to have unprotected sex now I am so sorry that you had got raped that was so messed up and I’m glad that you know you taken a negative and turn it into a positive but this little girl right here was hot in the tail.

    • @Freedomfred25
      @Freedomfred25 2 місяці тому +60

      I knew some 13-14 year olds who had gotten pregnant by there rapists but they were forced to kill the preborn baby. I’m glad both of you are safe now

  • @Thaylovekotaaa
    @Thaylovekotaaa Місяць тому +1668

    it’s crazy how many people in the comments have been r@ped and had children young it’s so sad and i’m so sorry for all of you to have to go through that but i’m also glad you are happy with your kids and love and support them and i also support you guys i hope the best for everyone!

    • @That_Afroqueen
      @That_Afroqueen Місяць тому +6

      I know!!

    • @Thaylovekotaaa
      @Thaylovekotaaa Місяць тому +3

      @@That_Afroqueen frrr

    • @4you2C
      @4you2C 27 днів тому

      Fr

    • @Geminicricketi
      @Geminicricketi 26 днів тому +3

      @@Thaylovekotaaa I wonder where were their parents. Was their mom also a single mom. These are things women don’t think about when they are gone to work all the time or having others raise their children. Hopefully they care raise their children better

    • @Thaylovekotaaa
      @Thaylovekotaaa 26 днів тому

      @@4you2C yesss

  • @Suzanne1968
    @Suzanne1968 Місяць тому +3180

    I was 17 & thought that was young! My parents were thankfully supportive. I had my life together. Married his dad. After 2 more kids, their dad turned into a drug addicted alcoholic with a bad temper. I struggled after leaving him working at a daycare. Finally got a great paying job, few years diagnosed with a brain tumor! I've struggled, but was able to raise 3 boys, that are now great men. All with great families, homes & jobs.

    • @BobbieXxoo
      @BobbieXxoo Місяць тому +39

      I hope n pray that they are there for you now! You have struggled so much n need a break!!!

    • @ayuanabradford3206
      @ayuanabradford3206 Місяць тому +9

      Yeah duh.. At that age guys only liked you for your looks.. People change alot…Only a very few are committed to staying with the first girl they got pregnant by. Girls are just a number to a guy lol because they need credit to practice until they actually are ready to settle down with someone they actually love. How do i know this? Ok this guy he got a girl pregnant at 16 and i found out through him talking and showing pictures of his son. We work together as that girl he met in school…Anyways, it funny because when we first met he was 18 and although he grew he didn’t seem mature at the time.. He was love bombing me, he was flirting and touching all women etc and he wasn’t serious at the time even though he liked me. The thing though is as our bond grew so much so did his heart.. How? Well once his friend ask him “ Why isn’t he helping me?” When i offered to help him because i liked him lol. His response was.. “ She said she will help?” And than a few minutes later he thank me. Fast forward now.. He seems so scared to lose me.
      He more caring, he steps in to help me even when i say i got it we fight who will do it lol and his friend dont even have to tell him to help me now..he go do it on his own. He alot more protective and he opening up to me rather than putting on a face.. The best of all he forgot his baby momma. Like yeah. Of course he going to see his son but it more of her responsibility compare to him. He has full freedom. As all he does is pay child support and he can be with someone he truly love. Now i never said he didn’t like his baby momma because there was obvious attraction,but base on how he’s treating me and really scared of losing me it like he found out what TRUE LOVE IS…Now he does love his son and he is responsible to still be in his child life but he have no feelings for his baby momma. Also how do i know? Because i gave him plenty of time to leave he always come back to me and if we avoid each other for so long.. he withdraws as his family get worry so much. Also i saw how he changed into A Mature Adult that wants to wait. It sucks because i want him soooo badly, but he wants to wait until he finish his career which isnt long lol and provide for me the right way and give me all his love and support rather then knowing its just lust and selfish sex just to please himself. What i am saying is…People change especially guys. They aren’t mature at age 25 and younger. Also girls don’t understand… even if they made mistakes so young why would a guy waste all his youth on one women that he accidentally got pregnant by so young when he missed out screwing it out until he got tired of that life and knowing when to give that life all up. He became an alcoholic because he’s depressed. He screwed up his youth and although he love his kids it just he wasn’t really ready for it.. It was forced by accident and now he have to live by it for years… When you drink the same milk for years it get boring..

    • @they.call.me.crybaby.official
      @they.call.me.crybaby.official Місяць тому +6

      you're so strong!

    • @lxryus
      @lxryus Місяць тому +7

      praying u get better!

    • @debbiea.4822
      @debbiea.4822 Місяць тому

      🙏🏻💖

  • @fisheboy_lover7150
    @fisheboy_lover7150 2 місяці тому +3240

    8th grade is unbelievable. I really hope kids start seeing all these recent teen pregnancies and realize that protection or just not having sex is the best answer. Accidents happen and it can change your entire life

    • @peepepsi
      @peepepsi 2 місяці тому

      i had a friend in eighth grade who got pregnant. i initially thought she got rped but she told me it was consensual (she was 14). i saw her at a store and she was crying and asked where menstrual products were and then ended up asking where the pregnancy tests were bc they weren't in that area. i bought them for her along with condoms so she could be safe next time. she ended up getting an abortion

    • @roselyngomez3271
      @roselyngomez3271 2 місяці тому +302

      Teens having sex and getting pregnant is actually starting to become more of a issue. Kids in grades 6 and 7 are starting to do it now.

    • @shimmershine6902
      @shimmershine6902 2 місяці тому +156

      @@roselyngomez3271 Which is weird because stats show that teen pregnancy has gone down dramatically since the late 90s when they started pumping the “don’t get pregnant” thing into schools

    • @roselyngomez3271
      @roselyngomez3271 2 місяці тому +16

      @@shimmershine6902 True, but its happening.

    • @sharonthebaron88
      @sharonthebaron88 2 місяці тому +105

      Or parents can start talking to their kids at a younger age about pregnancy and std prevention.

  • @Innocentban
    @Innocentban Місяць тому +1807

    My mom got pregnant at 14 and had me at 15 and luckily she had my grandmother as a support system, but she worked her butt off to take care of me even though she was still a kid herself. She was and still is a great mom and I pray we get to grow old together.

    • @BlackBeauty2023
      @BlackBeauty2023 Місяць тому +26

      Same here, but my mom had me at 16. My grandma was my guardian but I also had my dad, paternal grandma, aunts, uncles, God mom and great grandparents. I really had a tribe to support me. I couldn't be more appreciative. I am now 37 and my mom passed almost 2 years ago, of stage 4 breast cancer. She was only 52. I miss her something terrible. RIP mommy 🙏🏾💕

    • @kendra8888
      @kendra8888 Місяць тому +5

      Aww that is such a sweet thing to say. I bet you are such a blessing to your mom ❤ I too hope to grow old with my son who I had at a young age and essentially grew up side by side (I wouldn't have admitted it at the time. I thought I knew everything). ❤

    • @alanamonique84
      @alanamonique84 Місяць тому +1

      ❤❤❤❤

    • @dentedcokecan
      @dentedcokecan Місяць тому

      Same here I had my son a day bf I turned 17 quit school to support him and keep him off welfare...I worked McDonald's and burger King and my mother watched him while I was at work...

    • @herpaderp-bp4pe
      @herpaderp-bp4pe Місяць тому

      ​I pray you get to grow old with her too hun❤❤ I bet you're very close to your grandma too❤@@alanamonique84

  • @TeagansTown
    @TeagansTown Місяць тому +6410

    “Support teen moms, not teen pregnancy”
    -A wise person
    Edit: Ty for all the likes!

    • @Vkeiaddiction
      @Vkeiaddiction Місяць тому +89

      That's contradictory. You can't support pregnant teens without supporting the act of teen pregnancy.

    • @justanothermortal1373
      @justanothermortal1373 Місяць тому +230

      ​@Vkeiaddiction what? No. They meant that you should provide the support for teenagers who happened to get pregnant, as in provide them with mental health care and child support. Just because you care for a child who got pregnant doesn't mean you supported the act of them getting pregnant.

    • @neatricebennett4265
      @neatricebennett4265 Місяць тому +60

      I agree. But sometimes I wonder where you draw the line with that statement? Because in most cases I’ve seen, when teen moms get supported, they feel comfortable enough to get pregnant again because they felt like they had enough lenience to. So WHAT would be the correct approach to the situation, other than just saying “don’t get pregnant”?

    • @luvv.bj89
      @luvv.bj89 Місяць тому +18

      ​@@neatricebennett4265 I AGREE!! perfectly said

    • @Ashlynross88
      @Ashlynross88 Місяць тому +5

      No, your a contradictory. People have opinions and the girl who u commented on was true, sorry that you have a false opinion.

  • @amandae5165
    @amandae5165 Місяць тому +681

    I was molested and impregnated at 12 and had my daughter at 13. I'm now 44 amd she is 31 this year. It was very difficult. I do not regret keeping and raising her. She is a beautiful human being. I do wish I had not had to make such grown decisions as a child myself, but it helped make me who I am today and the world is a better place with my daughter in it. ❤ I'm a grandma now too❤

    • @regiluci
      @regiluci Місяць тому +55

      I’m so sorry that happened to you, and am proud of your perseverance. I’m 17 and it’s so disheartening to see r@pe victims, especially really young ones, have to decide whether or not to keep their babies, especially since some parents may be reminded they were assaulted every time they look at their child. I wish you nothing but the best ❤️

    • @CurrentAssistant
      @CurrentAssistant Місяць тому +15

      God bless you

    • @Gigivv2
      @Gigivv2 Місяць тому +11

      i’m so proud of you. I’m praying for you and your family to keep thriving ♥️ I can’t even imagine having a kid that young, thats younger than me and my sisters age gap!

    • @AkaAva-
      @AkaAva- Місяць тому +10

      God twelve bless you and your daughter 🙏

    • @Ty_sam0
      @Ty_sam0 Місяць тому +1

      😂

  • @kmr1157
    @kmr1157 2 місяці тому +6316

    The man who got her pregnant she said?? A 14 year old kid or a grown ass adult??

    • @ohIcouldnever
      @ohIcouldnever 2 місяці тому +337

      right?
      Pretty sure Mom knew after the Dr appointment.

    • @pikachugamer304
      @pikachugamer304 2 місяці тому +217

      The dad isn’t an adult

    • @catlynnn1224
      @catlynnn1224 2 місяці тому +206

      nah he’s the same age i think but not an adult

    • @Mrmonke2.0
      @Mrmonke2.0 2 місяці тому +9

      Idk

    • @-sky
      @-sky 2 місяці тому +68

      No he’s not a grown man you can go to her yt and see it’s Juliette Ackerman

  • @jennylee_pham
    @jennylee_pham 2 місяці тому +1058

    my bsf was raped at the age of 15 by our other bsf brother. her family hated her and said she should’ve have done that even though it wasn’t her fault, she was tricked. my family understood her situation though and now she is my adopted sister and we help take care of her child, who is a happy and healthy 5 year old girl and her name is Hope because she is always a ray of hope.

    • @lindsayshockledge579
      @lindsayshockledge579 Місяць тому +15

      Sorry but what's bsf?

    • @ava_9116
      @ava_9116 Місяць тому +44

      @@lindsayshockledge579it means best friend 👍

    • @lindsayshockledge579
      @lindsayshockledge579 Місяць тому +22

      @ava_9116 sounds kinda obvious now I know the answer lol but thank you so much for your reply 😊

    • @girleyreds11-11
      @girleyreds11-11 Місяць тому +9

      Bf..best friend. Whats the S in bsf?😅

    • @daliafel2020
      @daliafel2020 Місяць тому +28

      ​@@girleyreds11-11 bf if boyfriend.. bsf is best friend

  • @idonated50jellybeanstothew56
    @idonated50jellybeanstothew56 Місяць тому +397

    As a 14 yo i can barely even cook an egg bruh

    • @J.U.N.N.I.P.E.R
      @J.U.N.N.I.P.E.R Місяць тому +37

      That's a weird comparison to raising a child 😭

    • @yk.itzkenn
      @yk.itzkenn Місяць тому +21

      You actually just suck eggs cook fast and are easy to cook

    • @megan893
      @megan893 Місяць тому +8

      Well, make sure you figure out that egg before having children, lol

    • @hkinfp
      @hkinfp Місяць тому +1

      same 😂

    • @IamTheJesus
      @IamTheJesus Місяць тому +5

      I’m not even fully trusted to make brownies 😭😭

  • @Dyshaye1
    @Dyshaye1 2 місяці тому +902

    You can do it!! 💕 I’ve been in your shoes. 14 years old 8th grade pregnant! Had my baby did another year of 8th grade, but I kept going! Well, 10th grade my son was born. Now 17 with 2 gifts from above. I kept going!! Graduated at 19 yrs old. Joined the military 6 month out of high school. I retired at 40 yrs old 2015 from US Navy. My daughter 35 now college grad (BA-psychology) married 3 children, teaches Japanese at her children’s private school, son 32 (business owner) no children Thank God for family support. God has been good to us!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @sherrisolomon8673
      @sherrisolomon8673 Місяць тому +45

      @dyshae, Honestly you need to tell BOTH the GOOD and BAD side of walking in your shoes in that area esp since many teens don’t have family support like you did. Thank God you didn’t have my Mom because she already told me and my Sis that we would be going straight to the abortion clinic and she meant every word.

    • @Amazing_80
      @Amazing_80 Місяць тому +7

      Amazing life story ❤️

    • @Amazing_80
      @Amazing_80 Місяць тому +17

      ​@sherrisolomon8673 well your mom can't force you to have an abortion, but I definitely don't advise you get pregnant. I had my first at 21 and I'm 44 now, I still say I was wayyy too young even at 21! My mom had a baby at 14, my sis had one at 16..

    • @sherrisolomon8673
      @sherrisolomon8673 Місяць тому +3

      @@Amazing_80 Thank you for the advise but my fertile days stopped a couple of yrs ago.

    • @milliehummer4713
      @milliehummer4713 Місяць тому +5

      God bless you for giving your children the most precious gift of life! They ARE gifts! Thank you for your service to our country too ❤️

  • @renataklodka8803
    @renataklodka8803 2 місяці тому +7016

    Kids have no problem with iphones, computers etc but they have problem with condoms

    • @Fruitpunch-se1jy
      @Fruitpunch-se1jy 2 місяці тому

      Condom or not aswell as birth control doesn’t even live up to its meaning I’m an adult now but when I was 15 and being experimental we used a condom yes but it broke no he wasn’t big for it to break it just happened so it’s not the kids at fault for this it’s the company and the factory making this and with now project 2025 they will most likely sabotage prevention for it more

    • @Angel.m653
      @Angel.m653 2 місяці тому +280

      No but the fact that she literally 14 years old

    • @haman_san2032
      @haman_san2032 2 місяці тому +475

      It's not about the fu***** condoms it's about she's 14
      Like when i was 14-15 i didn't even know what sex is 😭

    • @Angel.m653
      @Angel.m653 2 місяці тому +60

      @@haman_san2032 exactly

    • @Stillobsessedd
      @Stillobsessedd 2 місяці тому +95

      You can't blame children for what they were taught

  • @haven2586
    @haven2586 2 місяці тому +1684

    bro ain’t no man got u pregnant that’s a little boy. stay strong fr

    • @TrishaMaddison
      @TrishaMaddison 2 місяці тому

      Instead of making fun of her and making her life worse go find a life and find a better profile pic instead of being a cat

    • @Fookmee-t6w
      @Fookmee-t6w 2 місяці тому +79

      Considering they were 14 he was a boy when she got pregnant so yes you are right about that he was not a man😂😂

    • @Prissi162
      @Prissi162 2 місяці тому +32

      Who’s having to grow up real fast now.

    • @vanlifebae
      @vanlifebae 2 місяці тому

      Well he shouldve thought about that before having unprotective sexual activity 🤷‍♀️ ​@@Prissi162

    • @TatyanaKosh-ch4se
      @TatyanaKosh-ch4se 2 місяці тому

      I mean both are literally kids. Both of them willingly decided to have sex.

  • @Lala_monzz
    @Lala_monzz Місяць тому +202

    That’s why you shouldn’t be having sex as a child

    • @J.U.N.N.I.P.E.R
      @J.U.N.N.I.P.E.R Місяць тому +75

      Well duh, but it already happened. She can't go back. Don't support teen pregnancy, but support pregnant teens.

    • @Cklone566
      @Cklone566 Місяць тому

      Why support teen pregnancy? Maybe make sure your daughters don’t go for having sex with boys when they need to study and make a future

    • @Vanilla_beann
      @Vanilla_beann Місяць тому +5

      Sometimes it happens by accident/you can’t control it, if yk what I mean

    • @zayleewolfhard.
      @zayleewolfhard. Місяць тому +1

      yeah like you know it all

    • @iiamradianttt
      @iiamradianttt Місяць тому +8

      ​@Vanilla_beann girl we don't know what you mean 😂

  • @sofiamusyoki7007
    @sofiamusyoki7007 2 місяці тому +1540

    My mama would have killed me😂

    • @theofficialidalia2426
      @theofficialidalia2426 2 місяці тому +27

      Yeah same here 😂

    • @MapbotsSB
      @MapbotsSB 2 місяці тому +16

      Ye💀

    • @englishORspanish99
      @englishORspanish99 2 місяці тому

      She could have been raped? Never assume someone’s position.

    • @trexdizzle63
      @trexdizzle63 2 місяці тому +8

      Yes

    • @Adedayoandheroyinbohusband
      @Adedayoandheroyinbohusband 2 місяці тому +40

      My parents would have sliced my head.
      Even after Uni at 23, I told my dad I wanted to get married, he jumped through the roof!
      “ You can’t be thinking of getting married- you are still a baby”
      He finally agreed!

  • @MadisonHarvill
    @MadisonHarvill 2 місяці тому +377

    Bro said I don’t recommend getting pregnant as a teen. Y’all need to stop acting like you don’t know how babies are made. If you’re gonna act grown, you’re gonna face the grown up responsibilities.

    • @isabelsan5700
      @isabelsan5700 2 місяці тому +41

      yesss thats the biggest thing, taking responsibility for ur actions, especially when you knew what could happen. When you decide to do grown up things there are going to be grown up consequences.

    • @Arffff03
      @Arffff03 2 місяці тому +43

      That’s the thing… they don’t know… this is why sex Ed is extremely important instead of just teaching abstinence

    • @Josselyn716
      @Josselyn716 2 місяці тому +12

      Yesss! It baffles me she is only 14

    • @VileCarnival
      @VileCarnival 2 місяці тому +7

      @@Arffff03 i agree. not knowing about contreception and safe sex is literally how people get pregnant by accident. in my own experience, we have only had 1 girl get pregnant at 14 (she's 22 now) and it hasnt happened since. why? because they improved our sex ed classes!

    • @The_Cherokee_Gypsy
      @The_Cherokee_Gypsy 2 місяці тому +33

      With all this damn social media, I’m sure these teenagers KNOW exactly what birth control is! Let’s not sit here and act like they’re innocent to sex ed or what’s going on when they have the entire internet at their fingertips!

  • @alinamuzafar
    @alinamuzafar 2 місяці тому +3544

    Dont have sex that early😊

    • @CAMC4955
      @CAMC4955 2 місяці тому +395

      It's really that simple. Choices

    • @veritsas
      @veritsas 2 місяці тому +268

      and that’s why proper sex ed is needed. all abstinence does is increase the frequency of teen pregnancies.

    • @sierramanning5322
      @sierramanning5322 2 місяці тому +36

      I started having sex at 17 wound up pregnant with my oldest has become my best friend I wouldn’t change anything for the world she and my husband are the only good thing that came out of the relationship

    • @samarjamil-ol2rq
      @samarjamil-ol2rq 2 місяці тому +99

      Dumb kids these days make mistakes but it’s because of their so called friends and the internet

    • @ZoeBurks
      @ZoeBurks 2 місяці тому +108

      Or have better sex ed... telling teens not to have sex is like telling college kids not to drink. They're going to do it anyway.

  • @NinaNina-qr2pf
    @NinaNina-qr2pf Місяць тому +22

    I can't understand 13/14 years old having sex... Like that actually disgusting. Like forget the pregnant thing, its just repulsive no matter the gender. Wtf is happening.

    • @xyredits320
      @xyredits320 Місяць тому

      literally i cant even imagine or comprehend how they are doing this shit that young. i met two people in 7th grade who had s3x for a total of like 30 seconds ig. still fucking gross at the VERY least wait until youre 16.

    • @melthefallen4558
      @melthefallen4558 Місяць тому +1

      Hormones are what’s happening. Combined with a lack of sex Ed maybe.

    • @Yhkz_jdiis
      @Yhkz_jdiis Місяць тому +7

      ​@melthefallen4558 No, these kids know how babies are made, don't say "oh well they're horny kids", bro, everyone is at their age, but that does not mean to be having sex nor cheating on your bf

    • @melthefallen4558
      @melthefallen4558 27 днів тому +1

      @@Yhkz_jdiis Do they? Maybe, but they may not fully understand how much of a risk it is and how serious it is. Some people can’t handle their emotions and hormones as well as that age. It sucks, and shouldn’t happen, but it does. I don’t think it’s right, don’t get me wrong, it just makes sense for it to be an (uncommon, hopefully) occurrence.

    • @JettMommy0-0
      @JettMommy0-0 10 днів тому

      its hormones lil bro 14 is average age to loose your virginity

  • @heatherwebb6410
    @heatherwebb6410 2 місяці тому +194

    Stay strong. I am yet another person who got drugged. I was already six months along by the time I found out that not only was I pregnant, but I had been r@p3d at 13. I was a virgin and didn’t have a boyfriend. I’m really really glad that you have the love and support from your family to be able to keep your baby. I did not. I was kicked out for getting pregnant called a whore and gave my baby up for adoption because I did not want to live on the street with my baby at 13. Sometimes you can do everything right and it still ends up wrong. I am grateful to the family that I got to pick for my child and they are awesome.

    • @mackenzie5826
      @mackenzie5826 2 місяці тому

      She wasn’t raped tho

    • @plousia
      @plousia Місяць тому +28

      I'm so sorry that happened to you. I hope you still get to see your child sometimes.

    • @carolinesalv
      @carolinesalv Місяць тому +20

      Oh I am so very sorry for what you were made to endure 😔 it was wrong! I know there is a special place on hell for that sick freak .It was NEVER your fault and you should have NEVER been blamed!
      But I also would like commend you for being strong and making the right decision in the end.Not even one has the courage to do so and you were a child nonetheless. May God bless you and keep you ❤

    • @-nellie-m3711
      @-nellie-m3711 Місяць тому +7

      I’m sorry you had to go through that But you definitely made the right choice to give your baby up for adoption, you thought of your child’s future over your own and that says a lot about who you are, I hope you have grown up to be the best version of yourself and know that your child was Wanted and Loved by the couple who adopted your baby..🥰🥰

    • @cutie-44
      @cutie-44 Місяць тому +4

      You are a strong soul and I thank God that although you were alone with hard decisions to make, you made the best ones.
      You should be a an aware speaker in junior high schools

  • @Howler28
    @Howler28 2 місяці тому +531

    The scariest part is the female body physically isnt ready at 14 for safe birth. A big factor in maternal mortality rates is the age of mothers. Less developed can mean very young mothers. I'm so glad she went to a dr right away instead of hiding it. 🎉 responsible action right there

    • @themaximumcreation
      @themaximumcreation 2 місяці тому

      I'm not saying this is okay but scientifically once you have a period your body is ready for conception. Ages ago (again not saying this is ok) girls as young as age 12/13 were being married off to men to have children and make families this is so when the men die the women would still be young enough to care for the children Also you're right about maternal death rates dealing with woman's age but it is mainly older woman (geriatrics pregnancies) starting from the early age of 38

    • @sallypanda1014
      @sallypanda1014 2 місяці тому +19

      14 isn’t that young . Most girls have had their periods for a few years by then and their bodies are developing /developed already. Only in most recent days has teen pregnancy been taboo. Historically woman have been having babies much earlier than we are now . Im not saying girls should be popping out babies in their teens though.

    • @Howler28
      @Howler28 2 місяці тому +52

      Im not talking mentally, I mean physically. Do you realize how long you need to be exposed to certain hormones to finish the biological maturity process. Unlike men who have access to their hormones all month on 24 hour cycle it take a woman a month for the same hormone cycle, which only starts being produced after menstruation starts😅 Biologically female bodies take longer to mature from start of puberty to physical maturity due to limited access to hormones. Just because it can do something doesn't mean it should. Kids these days are getting periods in 1st grade (7yo) should they have kids because of a period? ​@sallypanda1014

    • @Howler28
      @Howler28 2 місяці тому +24

      Not to mention once pregnant new hormones are added to the mix to finish prepping. An example is we can't produce milk until body is exposed to pregnancy to finish physical development of mammary glands

    • @JaclynAlways
      @JaclynAlways 2 місяці тому +8

      I got pregnant at 16 and my doctor said that our body’s are made for it at that age idk about 14 but people were way more mature and ready in ancient days than now

  • @SamanthaAbbruzzese
    @SamanthaAbbruzzese Місяць тому +664

    Don't want to be a teen mom! Don't have sex...period!

    • @sg5720
      @sg5720 Місяць тому +80

      Say it louder. !!!

    • @katharinlannon4061
      @katharinlannon4061 Місяць тому +76

      Or use protection! It's amazingly easy and safe 😊

    • @MT_Gamer.
      @MT_Gamer. Місяць тому +48

      ok but what if she was 🍇

    • @kuroe-chan5190
      @kuroe-chan5190 Місяць тому +23

      Yeah but pretty unrealistic. Take steps and be responsible that’s the problem though. I 100% knew at 16 how to BOT get pregnant….but when those hormones hit I just didn’t care. I was lazy so I went for the depot shot: once every 3 months ruined my body! Severe depression major mood changes I wasn’t ready to handle the emotions sex carried with it to my boyfriend. Breaking up destroyed me I was so unstable. Never got pregnant but eventually put my self in harms way for disease because I lost it

    • @cz5836
      @cz5836 Місяць тому +43

      ​@@kuroe-chan5190It's actually very realistic. What isn't is being delusional about sex.

  • @protectedearthempress3986
    @protectedearthempress3986 Місяць тому +35

    Absolutely! Spread that message, young lady! She said, "I don't recommend getting pregnant as a teen."

    • @knockofftasty9693
      @knockofftasty9693 17 днів тому

      that’s a pretty generic message I mean condemns exist for a reason

  • @Kkfm478
    @Kkfm478 2 місяці тому +124

    Erm, as an 8th grader myself, not seeing myself doing any act whatsoever until im married, I will simply say: dont have sex.
    If your boyfriend was doing it with consent, and you both knew the consequences, I believe if you want that responsibility or not, you have to raise it. Because that was your decision. But if you were r@ped or uneducated, I understand. And as for your parents, I believe they should care more about their CHILD having a baby. As they only had you 13-14 years ago themselves.

    • @belkyscolon7293
      @belkyscolon7293 2 місяці тому +23

      Kudos to you darling! What an intelligent young woman you are! Get ur education first, enjoy your youth. 🎉👏👏👏👏🌹🌹

    • @Kkfm478
      @Kkfm478 2 місяці тому +10

      @belkyscolon7293 Thank you 😊

    • @AlchemisingMissmystic24
      @AlchemisingMissmystic24 Місяць тому +10

      Very intellectual response, I can see you going far in life with this mentality love. Sometimes it's easier said than done and children believe the consequences for their actions are substantially lower than what they're told, with trends and ways to stay afloat I can understand how alot of teens have fallen down the rabbit hole of following the crowd. I'm 35 and one of very few who don't have children from my yr at school, and all that I spoke to who had them young have all compared their lives to me wishing they done it differently, funny I wouldn't have minded having children by now but to see so many regretting their youth descions I'm glad I listened somewhat to my parents and didn't grow up too soon. Enjoy your youth as much as you can 😊

    • @GoblinsMom
      @GoblinsMom Місяць тому +2

      Or you can just not have sex and everyone else can do what they want. 🤷‍♀️

    • @chrissyswifey
      @chrissyswifey Місяць тому +2

      erm, as an 11th grader, i say: shut up

  • @calamityjane6677
    @calamityjane6677 2 місяці тому +336

    I was pregnant at 14. My son is 30 years old now. We made it! God bless this young lady and her beautiful baby!!!! Got nothing but love for you!!!!

    • @alinamuzafar
      @alinamuzafar Місяць тому +7

      @@calamityjane6677 why so early 🤨🤨

    • @MyahWozney
      @MyahWozney Місяць тому +21

      @@alinamuzafarsometimes it’s not a choice (rape), sometimes protection doesn’t work (condom breaks or other forms of birth control), sometimes a lack of sex ed at a young age.

    • @SkipperXoOo
      @SkipperXoOo Місяць тому +2

      My mom uses to call me Calamity Jane when I was a kid 😆

    • @shuttttttttupppp
      @shuttttttttupppp Місяць тому

      What the fuck

    • @helixmoore7636
      @helixmoore7636 Місяць тому +6

      ​@alinamu zafar She did nothing wrong. How about men control themselves

  • @freeod21
    @freeod21 2 місяці тому +2596

    Say it like this doing the nasty in 8th grade💀💀

    • @gnome4Iife
      @gnome4Iife 2 місяці тому +33

      Fr how Duse no one get that they had to do that to get pregnant

    • @Soph-uc2he
      @Soph-uc2he 2 місяці тому +32

      when i was in 6th kids were literally caught doing it all the time 8 th grades not that shocking is it good no but it’s happening

    • @Faye_Bakker
      @Faye_Bakker 2 місяці тому +71

      My mother who is now very old and not apart of my life anymore lost her virginity when she was 7 no she was not r@ped. She did it with her crush. In second grade! My entire childhood she encouraged me and my siblings to do the nasty and sleep around and I stayed strong and waited until marriage. I lasted the longest in my family with her bad influence.

    • @Lalaliseven
      @Lalaliseven 2 місяці тому +27

      @@Faye_Bakkerthat’s really good of you even if you don’t wait till marriage doing it 2nd grade is unbelievable and after 11th or 12 th it’s fine but still

    • @Aubreejamiya
      @Aubreejamiya 2 місяці тому +5

      So say it like some people don’t get raped they don’t have a choice

  • @Angel-y4x
    @Angel-y4x Місяць тому +13

    Wth is wrong with people, glorifying teen pregnancy. Kids aren’t adults, neither are teens, just stay in school and don’t have sex, plus, why the hell would 14 year old have sex with a MAN?!?!

    • @2Scared4This
      @2Scared4This Місяць тому +3

      people arent saying to glorify it, support pregnant teens, not teen pregnancy

  • @alizadvir2558
    @alizadvir2558 2 місяці тому +418

    She is already pregnant and shaming her won't help . The only thing society can do to prevent future teen pregnancy is to give them healthy access to ACCURAGE sources at school and communicate with their caregivers how influential the " talk " can be.
    I'm not saying support 13 year Olds and buy them rubbers .
    I'm saying make sure that they UNDERSTAND what puberty is , what healthy / intimacy is as well us the emotional and mental factors that comes with it.

    • @OfficialTeeLucero
      @OfficialTeeLucero 2 місяці тому +31

      We need to normalize bullying and this is also a parent problem

    • @Annie-me3wg
      @Annie-me3wg 2 місяці тому +2

      THIS

    • @kaylasworld_
      @kaylasworld_ 2 місяці тому

      maybe american culture needs to stop making sex and sexual temptation soooo normalized no reason for mfs to normalize hookup culture when in reality… we shouldn’t even be sleeping with someone till we are married because stuff like this.

    • @mommak8342
      @mommak8342 2 місяці тому +2

      They don’t find that on Tik Tok that’s the problem.

    • @ashleej527
      @ashleej527 2 місяці тому +17

      @@OfficialTeeLucerookay bring Shame back because this is not the world’s business

  • @420Deee
    @420Deee Місяць тому +222

    Yall lil kids be acting so grown it’s crazy , I was 14 and still watching little kid cartoons

    • @MarquishaFreeman6043
      @MarquishaFreeman6043 Місяць тому +24

      Good for you this isn’t about you

    • @chrissyswifey
      @chrissyswifey Місяць тому +21

      good for you…? she’s sharing her story

    • @azurezuraun761
      @azurezuraun761 Місяць тому +17

      Ok an opinion is an opinion, yall triggered or what? 😂 If it was a boy yall would be saying his lil ass needs to be worried about kid stuff and not tryna clap cheeks

    • @winkmink7709
      @winkmink7709 Місяць тому +22

      Yep, I was watching cartoons and paying video games and maybe reading some spicy fanfiction but not applying makeup or fucking left and right. 😂
      This generation is doomed LOL

    • @chrissyswifey
      @chrissyswifey Місяць тому +9

      @@winkmink7709 bro thinks reading $mut is less extreme than wearing makeup 💀

  • @fat2ifitmani
    @fat2ifitmani Місяць тому +428

    Having a bf at 14 and having him “come over” sounds like a recipe for teen pregnancy

    • @EdithMoore-wj5il
      @EdithMoore-wj5il Місяць тому +29

      She said her boyfriend was not the father of her child.

    • @fat2ifitmani
      @fat2ifitmani Місяць тому +19

      @@EdithMoore-wj5il either way, still sounds like a recipe for teen pregnancy.

    • @gac379
      @gac379 Місяць тому +83

      ​@@EdithMoore-wj5ilshe said the boy that got her pregnant isn't her boyfriend 'ANYMORE'

    • @emmacookie10
      @emmacookie10 Місяць тому +26

      @@EdithMoore-wj5ilher boyfriend is the one that got her pregnant she said ex because she found out she was pregnant with his child after they broke up but I think they got back together after they found out she was pregnant

    • @xcherrixx
      @xcherrixx Місяць тому +24

      how? her just wanting to hang out with her bf makes it a “recipe for teen pregnancy”?
      “hey wanna come over and hang out for a bit?”
      “no that’s a recipe for teen pregnancy”
      “tf i just wanted to talk with you and play video games??”

  • @fwznc
    @fwznc Місяць тому +76

    Some of yall need to learn that things like condoms exist for a reason.

    • @yk.itzkenn
      @yk.itzkenn Місяць тому +27

      Exactly, or as a 14 year old just don’t do that at all.

    • @txtlynxt_s0phia
      @txtlynxt_s0phia Місяць тому +3

      it wasnt her choice

    • @fwznc
      @fwznc Місяць тому +8

      @@txtlynxt_s0phia how do you know this?

    • @yk.itzkenn
      @yk.itzkenn Місяць тому +5

      @@txtlynxt_s0phia yes it was

    • @Cklone566
      @Cklone566 Місяць тому +6

      That’s why a 14 year old kid shouldn’t have access to internet without parental supervision. They want to try things they see online.

  • @Karalolcowlaw
    @Karalolcowlaw Місяць тому +198

    Your mother 'taking that news well' speaks volumes about your family and their moral compass.

    • @Amberxxbbunni
      @Amberxxbbunni Місяць тому +53

      So her mother should’ve abandoned her?? Screaming at her wouldn’t of helped

    • @georgette7588
      @georgette7588 Місяць тому +45

      Indeed it does. She has an amazing supportive mother that believes in always supporting her children. When it's the scariest for them is when you become stronger for them.

    • @ResidentMilf
      @ResidentMilf Місяць тому

      The fact that you think bad news automatically means a freakout speaks volumes about your disposition.

    • @backpain4516
      @backpain4516 Місяць тому +71

      ​@georgette7588 you missed the point. Her mother "taking it well" means she isn't suprised about her children's EXTREMELY early sexual activity and clearly hasn't bothered teaching them anything about dignity of body and status. Let's be so fr rn.
      It's not "supportiveness". It's lazy parenting and a huge lack of discipline.

    • @ResidentMilf
      @ResidentMilf Місяць тому

      @@backpain4516 Ewwww, purity culture! 🤮

  • @kayleighb.3235
    @kayleighb.3235 2 місяці тому +363

    Looked at my parents and smiled for giving me an ass whoopin when i got out of line.

    • @kaylasworld_
      @kaylasworld_ 2 місяці тому +14

      for real

    • @theriddlerUSA
      @theriddlerUSA 2 місяці тому +11

      Same!!

    • @TheGr8erPurpose
      @TheGr8erPurpose Місяць тому +7

      @@kayleighb.3235 frl
      “Spare the rod, spoil the child”

    • @chrissyswifey
      @chrissyswifey Місяць тому +8

      “im so cool i got abused and brag about it online”

    • @kayleighb.3235
      @kayleighb.3235 Місяць тому

      Oh you poor thing, "omg that's abuse!! I'd never hit my child!!" Your one of the people in this generation who are soooo sensitive. Whipping your child's ass isn't abuse honey. If you kid is way out of line, whipping them will rangle them back in. So, if you want to let your child roam free, and let your kids do whatever they want without discipline. You do that. And when of the teens comes to you and tells you, "ma I'm pregnant" or "ma I got a girl pregnant" I hope your look at yourself and smile at your "wonderful" parenting 😁

  • @Shay3356
    @Shay3356 Місяць тому +169

    You shouldn’t be having sex in the first place. Children don’t do adult stuff, stay in school young ones.

    • @chrissyswifey
      @chrissyswifey Місяць тому +24

      bro thinks this comment is ending teen pregnancy

    • @Enfjscrolling
      @Enfjscrolling Місяць тому +57

      ​@@chrissyswifey are they wrong?? Middle schoolers don't need to be having sex. It makes sense for high schoolers, nobody younger though.

    • @aubreydrakegrahamthe1st
      @aubreydrakegrahamthe1st Місяць тому +11

      @@chrissyswifeyblud really spending all their time arguing on yt at 16😭😭 go work at McDonald’s or something

    • @chrissyswifey
      @chrissyswifey Місяць тому +2

      @@Enfjscrolling this comment still doesn’t do anything it’s just repetitive

    • @chrissyswifey
      @chrissyswifey Місяць тому +1

      @@aubreydrakegrahamthe1st “spending all my time arguing” i replied to a comment 💀

  • @The-real-Tobias
    @The-real-Tobias 27 днів тому +8

    Literally just use protection ;-; they teach u this in like 6th or 7th grade

    • @skibdihaze
      @skibdihaze 25 днів тому +4

      or…just DONT do it at all?? shi, I’m 14 and wtf 😭‼️

    • @guysigotahandle
      @guysigotahandle 24 дні тому

      @@skibdihazeI’m almost 14 and FRRR

  • @firebunny2407
    @firebunny2407 2 місяці тому +142

    14 year old out here acting like a 25 year old is high key so sad. She's a KID, why is she applying makeup, why is she out there leaving her legs open... shouldn't kid be playing outside, having sleepovers and whatever else kids do? This lowkey so disappointing to see our new generation turning into this

    • @Apache-the-hobby-horse
      @Apache-the-hobby-horse 2 місяці тому +20

      Exactly!!!! It's so wrong!!!!

    • @kaylasworld_
      @kaylasworld_ 2 місяці тому +22

      the whole “it’s been around” our gen was supposed to be the better parents but they are making the same exact “mistakes” as their parents ….

    • @OreoForLife.ehehe123
      @OreoForLife.ehehe123 2 місяці тому +15

      I agree with you, but there is nothing wrong with makeup, it's just art

    • @firebunny2407
      @firebunny2407 2 місяці тому +24

      @OreoForLife.ehehe123 bruh no one said that makeup is the "enemy" here, it's about the overall concept. Kids should be out enjoying nature, riding their bikes around, having sleepovers etc etc. What KIDS shouldn't be doing is taking care of their own children. This is a 14 year old that can't embrace her natural beauty, one that seems attached to technology and social media, heck she hasn't even fully "matured", her brain isn't finished developing, her body is still going through puberty (well depends it's different for everyone) but my point is, she's a child. She shouldn't be sexually active (that should be the very last thing on her mind at this age)
      I will say this, since I'm not fully aware of her child was conceived so I can't be to critical but my point still stands.

    • @OreoForLife.ehehe123
      @OreoForLife.ehehe123 2 місяці тому +9

      @@firebunny2407 I said i agree with you, there's just nothing wrong with makeup

  • @Hiiiiiiiiiiiii26
    @Hiiiiiiiiiiiii26 2 місяці тому +296

    I feel like we shouldn’t support teen pregnancy but we should support pregnant teens

    • @vanlifebae
      @vanlifebae 2 місяці тому +20

      Lmao no thank you

    • @EJ-zd9ur
      @EJ-zd9ur 2 місяці тому +40

      That's so contradictory. You cannot support a pregnant teen without supporting teen pregnancy. If you support the pregnant teen more teens are gonna see that. There's no consequences for their actions if yall help every teen. The teen chose it now they should live with it.

    • @Hiiiiiiiiiiiii26
      @Hiiiiiiiiiiiii26 2 місяці тому +3

      @@EJ-zd9ur I haven’t thought about it that way

    • @lilitboyadjian9019
      @lilitboyadjian9019 2 місяці тому +9

      yea no, none of that is right

    • @stephaniemurphy4390
      @stephaniemurphy4390 2 місяці тому +21

      This comment is ridiculous. Support teens going to damn school, this is disgraceful. Idc how or why it happened, it’s disgraceful.

  • @rainbowdashisme
    @rainbowdashisme Місяць тому +26

    If you don’t want kids as a teenager then learn self control and don’t do that stuff.

    • @kitty1256x
      @kitty1256x Місяць тому

      Being manipulated by a boy is not easy for her. Even women get forced and manipulated into sex. He clearly took advantage of her. Need to blame a boy more but not her. Everyone is blaming her but need to blame him.
      What do people expect when most women are not heard since birth. Of course she couldn't say NO because nobody wanted to hear NO from her in her life. Parents wanted obedient child, school wanted obedient child, that's how they produced her. Women's voice is not heard since birth. That's why she couldn't say NO and he probably wouldn't even listen even if she tried to speak up. Everyone expects women to be obedient. Need to blame a boy and her parents and society but NOT her.

    • @chrissyswifey
      @chrissyswifey Місяць тому +1

      wow that’s so helpful to her rn

    • @Hellokitty_391
      @Hellokitty_391 Місяць тому +1

      Preach

    • @Hellokitty_391
      @Hellokitty_391 Місяць тому +1

      ​@@chrissyswifeyyou acting like we're living in the 70s.

  • @hasabrahamyan4356
    @hasabrahamyan4356 Місяць тому +8

    8 GRADE? Where’s your MOTHER?

  • @StrawberryPinkGirl
    @StrawberryPinkGirl 2 місяці тому +35

    For me, a 29 yo virgin, this is crazy.
    But I’m not blaming her, I’m blaming the non existence of sexual education.
    My family has several doctors in it, that’s why I was always aware of the risks from such a young age.

    • @user-tv6tm4nd5z
      @user-tv6tm4nd5z Місяць тому +8

      Do you think she really didnt know about protection or maybe she supposed dont have sex while you are still a kid and in school?

    • @StrawberryPinkGirl
      @StrawberryPinkGirl Місяць тому +7

      @@user-tv6tm4nd5z look, we totally agree. For me sex should be something adults do because it could be dangerous. But, we can’t stop minors. I stopped and refrained myself from sex actually very well. But some
      People can’t do that. Instead we can try to educate…

    • @assyathefoxghostmugmansgf500
      @assyathefoxghostmugmansgf500 Місяць тому

      Plus sex is called ADULT ACTIVITY for a reason!!! ​@@StrawberryPinkGirl

    • @assyathefoxghostmugmansgf500
      @assyathefoxghostmugmansgf500 Місяць тому +1

      ​@@StrawberryPinkGirlalso it called ADULT ACTIVITY FOR A REASON

    • @TooRad
      @TooRad Місяць тому

      I think you are a virgin because you are a POC. It's way harder to be celibate when you are white, aka the desired and the most attractive race. I've had my struggles.

  • @pixie9499
    @pixie9499 2 місяці тому +341

    i thank the universe everyday that i’m 25 & childless. i was raised with a realistic idea of what childbearing was like & i made the decision to not spawn my own. i can’t imagine being 13 & worried about a baby.

    • @faithsangwa2182
      @faithsangwa2182 2 місяці тому +16

      Louder!!

    • @KristinAndre1717
      @KristinAndre1717 2 місяці тому +14

      God is the universe. Please educate yourself. The universe doesn’t just appear. I’m sooo thankful I have my beautiful children. Sry your missing out

    • @his.other.rib444
      @his.other.rib444 2 місяці тому

      so your old and have nothing lol

    • @Cheryl-Beanie
      @Cheryl-Beanie 2 місяці тому +28

      Same! 25 and childless. I’m getting married in 2 months and we’re going to start trying after. But I’m so glad I’m not a teenager that’s immature or unmarried trying to care for a kid when I could barely care for myself

    • @kaylasworld_
      @kaylasworld_ 2 місяці тому +7

      this doesn’t “just happen” one day out of no where it’s not the universe protecting you girl please take accountability

  • @theelliebellie
    @theelliebellie 2 місяці тому +397

    this is the same girl who bullied me in middle school for no reason lol, she moved but i still go to highschool w the babys father and him and his friends are still the same assholes they were in middle school. im also not the only one her and her friends bullied/made fun of. they were assholes. it got so bad i moved during the start of 8th grade year and went back to school for 9th grade but they still do the same thing just not as bad, they stare and whisper, they gag at me, all the usual bully stuff. again not sure abt her cuz she moved and goes to my schools rival school now so i havent seen or talked to her in forever.
    Edit: im not sure how to prove to yall this is true without like completely doxxing her, the babys father, and myself so idk what to tell yall all i can say is the babys dads name is jensen, again rlly not sure how to prove this also if ur gonna say im lying dont even bother to reply

  • @michellechair
    @michellechair 26 днів тому +14

    to all the people talking about how getting pregnant from sexual assault and choosing to have unprotected sex as a teenager is different: kindly stfu. yes, they're different! the pressure that young women deal with from men and their peers to be sexually active is a real thing though and i wish people wouldn't take that for granted

    • @bri.szz17
      @bri.szz17 25 днів тому +1

      how are they not different?

    • @killazzy
      @killazzy 20 днів тому +1

      That's different. She agreed to have sex in 8th grade without a condom with her boyfriend. That was her decision, then she chose not to give the baby up. I get peer pressure but you're in middle school? Your 12-14 year old peers are telling you to have sex and get pregnant? 💀 She's irresponsible and needs discipline, because having a boy put his penis inside you in the 8th grade is NOT ok. As bad as it sounds, thats the blatant truth. She had the choice to use a condom, unlike most teen moms. Shes a strong young woman for carrying and caring for that baby. Hopefully the baby lives a good happy life

  • @AriannaMihailovich
    @AriannaMihailovich 2 місяці тому +173

    Honey if you don’t want kids at the age of 14 either don’t have sex that young and if you do it’s called protection such as a condom or birth control or both

    • @xxflameaminoxx
      @xxflameaminoxx 2 місяці тому +10

      yeah im sure she got the memo 💀

    • @AriannaMihailovich
      @AriannaMihailovich 2 місяці тому +30

      @@xxflameaminoxx she clearly didn’t get the memo if she is still coming online complaining.

    • @xxflameaminoxx
      @xxflameaminoxx 2 місяці тому

      @@AriannaMihailovich this isnt complaining its real life, you think she should be sent away to a nunnery or some shit? lol

    • @lcyyoongid6091
      @lcyyoongid6091 2 місяці тому

      @@AriannaMihailovichshe can rightfully complain lol

    • @krakusanna18
      @krakusanna18 2 місяці тому +16

      Naah, just don't have sex. Protection does is not 100% valid

  • @_urfavbrunette14
    @_urfavbrunette14 2 місяці тому +34

    i love how you told your mom and didn’t hide it from her
    i’m in 8th grade rn and i couldn’t imagine having to go through that
    very happy you kept your baby girl 🤍🩷

  • @alissandrasmith1181
    @alissandrasmith1181 2 місяці тому +98

    I hate that they glorify teen pregnancy

  • @haileyCC787
    @haileyCC787 Місяць тому +170

    Nose pierced and pregnant at 13 is wilddd

    • @chrissyswifey
      @chrissyswifey Місяць тому +40

      she said 14, and what does a nose piercing have to do with this

    • @winkmink7709
      @winkmink7709 Місяць тому +51

      ​@@chrissyswifey parent is too lenient.

    • @nikkisumesh
      @nikkisumesh Місяць тому +17

      Piercing? Seriously?

    • @undefinedd1147
      @undefinedd1147 Місяць тому

      @@chrissyswifey News Flash! You don't get pregnant and have a baby immediately

    • @user-dy4eh9yq8s
      @user-dy4eh9yq8s Місяць тому +19

      ​@@winkmink7709 piercing isn't that serious..

  • @user-zd1jk6hq9f
    @user-zd1jk6hq9f 2 місяці тому +198

    That’s on you gang 😭

    • @Josselyn716
      @Josselyn716 2 місяці тому +15

      Frrr my response this whole thing

    • @SamanthaTotimeh
      @SamanthaTotimeh 2 місяці тому +5

      😂😂😂 omds

    • @Alice45894
      @Alice45894 Місяць тому

      Pure stupidity, how are 14 year olds getting pregnant in this day and age idiots

    • @TaliahNonord
      @TaliahNonord Місяць тому

      Pff

    • @SUN00sManager
      @SUN00sManager Місяць тому +3

      Not helping

  • @janew7008
    @janew7008 2 місяці тому +664

    What the hell are you even doing having sex at 14??? I guess sex education classes have to start at 5th grade now.

    • @breeburgstaler5042
      @breeburgstaler5042 2 місяці тому +29

      That's the problem is they do teach that and than kids get intrested and want to experiment

    • @brianstuchel8021
      @brianstuchel8021 2 місяці тому +3

      14 in eighth grade is the clue but, I didn't hear an age in the video.

    • @pikachugamer304
      @pikachugamer304 2 місяці тому +48

      @@breeburgstaler5042if a kid has a boyfriend they’re gonna experiment regardless, better they had protection than be pregnant 🤷

    • @briannamason0201
      @briannamason0201 2 місяці тому +5

      I didn’t have a sex Ed class (health class) until freshman year.

    • @herbertchong9039
      @herbertchong9039 2 місяці тому +5

      The way my school had us to learn about sex when I was just in 2nd Grade is crazy like wtf are schools doing these days?!

  • @ELBONYBEAUTY27
    @ELBONYBEAUTY27 2 місяці тому +54

    Been there done that, he’s 28 now. I’m a nurse and we made it. Keep pushing keep and keep your head up.

  • @mothertrucker936
    @mothertrucker936 2 місяці тому +11

    I blame the parents for not educating their boys at all. I told my sons everything I knew, about sex and relationships. Bought the condoms and told them it wasn’t a license for sex but when those urges hit , I wanted them protected against disease and fatherhood, while mentioning that a condom was not 100% reliable. I’m finally a grandmother to a child that was planned

  • @mistyfrasik8742
    @mistyfrasik8742 Місяць тому +61

    I had my son when I was 15 got pregnant at 14 my mom was very supportive but he's father was not he put me through a lot but now my son is 33 and I have two grandchildren don't take anything for granted it goes really fast before you know it you'll be a grandmo too

    • @ayuanabradford3206
      @ayuanabradford3206 Місяць тому +4

      Yeah duh.. At that age guys only liked you for your looks.. Only a very few are committed to staying with the first girl they got pregnant by. Girls are just a number to a guy lol because they need credit to practice until they actually are ready to settle down with someone they actually love. How do i know this? Ok this guy he got a girl pregnant at 16 and i found out through him talking and showing pictures of his son. We work together. As for that girl..he met her in school…Anyways, its funny because when we first met he was 18 and although he grew up he didn’t seem yet mature at the time.. He was love bombing me, he was flirting and touching all women etc and he wasn’t serious at the time even though he liked me. The thing though is as our bond grew so much, so did his heart.. How? Well once his friend ask him “ Why isn’t he helping me?” When i offered to help him because i liked him lol. His response was.. “ She said she will help?” And than a few minutes later he thank me. Fast forward now.. He seems so scared to lose me.
      He more caring, he steps in to help me even when i say i got it we fight who will do it lol and his friend dont even have to tell him to help me now..he go do it on his own. He alot more protective and he opening up to me rather than putting on a face.. The best of all he forgot his baby momma. Like yeah. Of course he going to see his son but it more of her responsibility compare to him. He has full freedom. As all he does is pay child support and he can be with someone he truly love. Now i never said he didn’t like his baby momma because there was obvious attraction,but base on how he’s treating me and really scared of losing me it like he found out what TRUE LOVE IS…Now he does love his son and he is responsible to still be in his child life but he have no feelings for his baby momma. Also how do i know? Because i gave him plenty of time to leave he always come back to me and if we avoid each other for so long.. he withdraws as his family get worry so much. Also i saw how he changed into A Mature Adult that wants to wait. It sucks because i want him soooo badly, but he wants to wait until he finish his career. Which isnt that long lol. He just want to provide for me the right way and give me all his love and support rather then him knowing its just lust and just selfish sex just to please himself.

    • @LAVISHLYLAVISH
      @LAVISHLYLAVISH Місяць тому

      33 and grandchildren? Like your teens are having kids too?

    • @KimJonUnUwu
      @KimJonUnUwu Місяць тому

      33 isn’t a teen 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @LAVISHLYLAVISH
      @LAVISHLYLAVISH Місяць тому

      @@KimJonUnUwu I thought she meant she was 33

  • @carolinecasey2543
    @carolinecasey2543 2 місяці тому +34

    Beyond pregnancy why are you putting all the cosmetics and creams on your face. You’re A Child !!!! Obtain from sex ! You’re going to be an adult for a long Time
    DON’T RUSH !!! Back it up little girl ❣️

    • @MoonyStaar
      @MoonyStaar 2 місяці тому

      She’s like 15/16

    • @Itsgivingme123
      @Itsgivingme123 2 місяці тому +7

      Yea but doing the dirty in 8th grade is crazy

    • @MoonyStaar
      @MoonyStaar 2 місяці тому +2

      @@Itsgivingme123 In 6th a girl had sex

    • @krakusanna18
      @krakusanna18 2 місяці тому +2

      Don't rush it? She has a baby, she needs to grow up now. What you expect? For her mom to step in so her daughter can make more stupid choices?

    • @cyanidesidesalad
      @cyanidesidesalad Місяць тому

      @@MoonyStaarstill a child? What’s your point.

  • @Hiieatpies
    @Hiieatpies Місяць тому +8

    And thats why they say wait till marrage

    • @vvsFcd
      @vvsFcd Місяць тому +1

      Yup

  • @Extraterrestrial420-ne3je
    @Extraterrestrial420-ne3je 2 місяці тому +82

    If you don't kids, why are you having sex? AT 14???

    • @user-lo7zn5pr3p
      @user-lo7zn5pr3p 2 місяці тому +5

      Best comment award 🏆

    • @Extraterrestrial420-ne3je
      @Extraterrestrial420-ne3je 2 місяці тому

      @@user-lo7zn5pr3p 👏🏼🙌🏼

    • @kitty1256x
      @kitty1256x Місяць тому

      She was groomed and raped and abandoned and brainwashed by her boyfriend. Need to blame boys more for forcing girls. Girls don't even want sex unless to please a boyfriend.

  • @Itstartsinyou
    @Itstartsinyou 2 місяці тому +65

    As another teen mom, my kids are older now, but you will see all your friends "living their best life" and feel like your missing out. I PROMISE YOU stick by your baby and yourself, and when your little baby is graduating or just being an amazing human, you realize that your sacrifice was beyond worthit.

    • @madhushriparab1409
      @madhushriparab1409 Місяць тому +16

      But that's the point you lost your childhood..... Your friends kids will also graduate after a while and every parent sacrifice for their children.... I don't want to make you feel bad or less, I'm just saying everything has to be done at the right time or else price is way too high.....And not every teenager can handle such huge responsibility like an adult, even adults have a difficult time, so if this backfires it can cause baby harm.....

    • @ayuanabradford3206
      @ayuanabradford3206 Місяць тому +1

      Yeah duh.. At that age guys only liked you for your looks.. Only a very few are committed to staying with the first girl they got pregnant by. Girls are just a number to a guy lol because they need credit to practice until they actually are ready to settle down with someone they actually love. How do i know this? Ok this guy he got a girl pregnant at 16 and i found out through him talking and showing pictures of his son. We work together as that girl he met in school…Anyways, it funny because when we first met he was 18 and although he grew he didn’t seem mature at the time.. He was love bombing me, he was flirting and touching all women etc and he wasn’t serious at the time even though he liked me. The thing though is as our bond grew so much so did his heart.. How? Well once his friend ask him “ Why isn’t he helping me?” When i offered to help him because i liked him lol. His response was.. “ She said she will help?” And than a few minutes later he thank me. Fast forward now.. He seems so scared to lose me.
      He more caring, he steps in to help me even when i say i got it we fight who will do it lol and his friend dont even have to tell him to help me now..he go do it on his own. He alot more protective and he opening up to me rather than putting on a face.. The best of all he forgot his baby momma. Like yeah. Of course he going to see his son but it more of her responsibility compare to him. He has full freedom. As all he does is pay child support and he can be with someone he truly love. Now i never said he didn’t like his baby momma because there was obvious attraction,but base on how he’s treating me and really scared of losing me it like he found out what TRUE LOVE IS…Now he does love his son and he is responsible to still be in his child life but he have no feelings for his baby momma. Also how do i know? Because i gave him plenty of time to leave he always come back to me and if we avoid each other for so long.. he withdraws as his family get worry so much. Also i saw how he changed into A Mature Adult that wants to wait. It sucks because i want him soooo badly, but he wants to wait until he finish his career which isnt long lol and provide for me the right way and give me all his love and support rather then knowing its just lust and selfish sex just to please himself.

    • @Itstartsinyou
      @Itstartsinyou Місяць тому

      @@madhushriparab1409 i CHOSE to lose my childhood for my kids. That didn't matter to me, my kids did.

    • @Itstartsinyou
      @Itstartsinyou Місяць тому

      @@ayuanabradford3206 my first BD, was way older than me, he still calls everyday trying to reminisce, and would come running if I called

    • @madhushriparab1409
      @madhushriparab1409 Місяць тому +6

      @@Itstartsinyou you were a kid when you got involved in adult activities and got pregnant you didn't have any other choice..... You were too naive to "CHOOSE"..... it's good it worked out for you but teens should just focus on studies or life becomes harder way before that it should be

  • @taylorinvancouver2017
    @taylorinvancouver2017 Місяць тому +159

    It’s crazy the amount of ppl that are like “u go girl, you’ll be fine” what is wrong with u ppl!

    • @Rissarenee-d3j
      @Rissarenee-d3j Місяць тому +19

      Exactly. Insanity

    • @chrissyswifey
      @chrissyswifey Місяць тому +4

      no one says that

    • @taylorinvancouver2017
      @taylorinvancouver2017 Місяць тому +20

      @@chrissyswifey except so many of the comments, I guess you could live your life pretending they don’t..whatever gets you through your day🙄

    • @chrissyswifey
      @chrissyswifey Місяць тому +12

      @@taylorinvancouver2017 blud literally none of the comments are saying that😭 schizophrenic ahh

    • @ADYISCOOL311
      @ADYISCOOL311 Місяць тому +14

      @@chrissyswifeyover half the comments are supportive and that’s the problem. They aren’t talking about people hating on her.

  • @nikaweekes7582
    @nikaweekes7582 Місяць тому +5

    Not hating, just in general, what can a teen mom teach her child? She's still a child herself. One thing I know, being around these moms as adults - they don't make good grannies, when their children become teen parents as well. No one wants to be a granny in their 30s lmao. This is honestly narcissistic. A child deserves better, it's not your toy, but no one ever thinks about that while congratulating every female that got pregnant, as if it's rocket science.

    • @Annie-SupernovaSOTY
      @Annie-SupernovaSOTY Місяць тому

      Why are you saying such things that you don't know will happen or not 😭 she said little things in this video yet you say she treats her child like a toy... im sorry, but what?...

  • @eltheeclecticcreative
    @eltheeclecticcreative Місяць тому +16

    Proud of you for telling your mum and taking responsibility and having the courage to tell your story and the realities of teen pregnancy. You are doing awesome.

  • @ShanecaRene
    @ShanecaRene 2 місяці тому +18

    I was a young teen mom and had my son in high school..he just turned 32 June 22nd..I can't believe how fast time flies 💛

  • @sararosales2943
    @sararosales2943 2 місяці тому +56

    I was catching fireflies at that age 😂my parents watched us like a hawk 😅but, I wish u well!

  • @moonbeamstarottiffanywells1460
    @moonbeamstarottiffanywells1460 2 місяці тому +42

    I got my pregnant at 14 first guy I was ever with and I told my mom I wanted to be out on birth control she told me I was to young! Everyone wanted me to have an abortion but I didn’t and he is now grown with two kids is a wonderful father! Has went so far in life! I’m proud of him! I really think us as parents should listen to ur kids more

    • @asia_nzeako
      @asia_nzeako Місяць тому

      Why would you want to be on birth control at that age
      Don’t blame your mum
      It was your decision
      Whyyyyyy would you be sexually active at that young age

    • @Rissarenee-d3j
      @Rissarenee-d3j Місяць тому

      You were too young and you shouldn't have been having sex at 14 with your fast ass. That's not okay

  • @lun1ax
    @lun1ax 2 місяці тому +72

    year 8 IS WILDDDD..

    • @lizzieg4535
      @lizzieg4535 2 місяці тому +3

      Technically 8th grade is Year 9

    • @storminicole3991
      @storminicole3991 2 місяці тому +5

      @@lizzieg4535no. It starts after kinder. 8th grade is grade 8

    • @chrissyswifey
      @chrissyswifey Місяць тому

      “year 8” 🤓

    • @lun1ax
      @lun1ax Місяць тому +1

      @@chrissyswifey “grade 8” 🤓

  • @vanw1504
    @vanw1504 Місяць тому +11

    Young ladies here’s some advice: open your eyes and close your legs!

  • @iamdatabrained
    @iamdatabrained 29 днів тому +5

    girl im 14 and i could not IMAGINE 😭😭 you are so brave fr

  • @Buggsy75
    @Buggsy75 2 місяці тому +20

    I was pregnant at 19, knew I wasn’t going to get an abortion……..immediately chose to find a couple who couldn’t have children, to give them my baby. I knew I couldn’t give my baby what it would ever need or want. This was the HARDEST event in my life, BUT the BEST decision for my baby and me. Selflessness…….just because you find out you’re pregnant, doesn’t mean you HAVE to keep the baby. Think about the baby FIRST.

    • @garnetjohnson763
      @garnetjohnson763 Місяць тому +3

      I did the same thing 22 years ago. I salute you because there is nothing in my eyes More painful than signing your baby over, even when it's the right thing to do.

    • @Star_angelY2k
      @Star_angelY2k Місяць тому

      ur so brave for that. getting preg at 19 honestly isn't as bad at getting preg at 14

    • @Buggsy75
      @Buggsy75 Місяць тому +1

      True, but I believe that when a girl or woman gets pregnant unexpectedly, you have to put that child first, before all………..can you give that child what it needs and wants, are you capable of being a parent.

  • @ViewAppalachia
    @ViewAppalachia 2 місяці тому +70

    Keep your legs closed until you’re prepared to raise a child. We need to stop giving these kids a platform for being teen moms because it’s like saying it’s okay they screwed up now they can just get famous and never work and get paid by UA-cam

    • @zxcmd
      @zxcmd Місяць тому +9

      @@ViewAppalachia there's a few things wrong with this. saying "keep your legs closed" on a video about a 14 y/o girl is absolutely wild. at 14, there aren't a ton of job opportunities, and she also has a baby to take care of, so most jobs won't be feasible. she's working a job. you make videos? only they're that masculinity shit. i really don't care about what people do with their lives personally. she mentioned in this video that she doesn't recommend getting pregnant at that age. none of us know what really happened. she IS raising a child, and she is fully aware she screwed up. think about keeping your mouth shut rather than telling 14 year old girls to keep their legs shut.

    • @ViewAppalachia
      @ViewAppalachia Місяць тому +15

      @@zxcmd the problem with your logic is that the worst that can happen if I don’t keep my mouth closed is someone might listen and not end up a teen mom, and the worst that can happen if they don’t keep their legs closed is become a teen mom. I don’t care how it makes you feel. The age bothers you? Good even more reason to be as stern as possible to get the point across. Take your tone policing self on somewhere. I don’t care how you feel

    • @Tshepiso18
      @Tshepiso18 Місяць тому +12

      ​@ViewAppalachia Honestly! I agree with you. A lot of people make it as though it is normal to have sex at a young age. I broke my virginity at 19, and I am now pregnant with my first child at 27. I still regret having my virginity broke that early! I am going to tell any of my girl children to wait for as long as they can and will tell them all the consequences of starting out early.

    • @beautifulmermaid718
      @beautifulmermaid718 Місяць тому

      @@Tshepiso18what will you tell your boy children? See the issue is yall want to hold girls to a purity standard but say nothing to boys. So that when children of both genders makes mistakes the blame is ultimately put on girls and boys aren’t responsible for the consequences… just the girls to be told keep their legs shut and it’s their fault.

    • @janvan4424
      @janvan4424 Місяць тому +3

      ​@@zxcmdhow about teaching young men to stop sleeping around with 13 year old girls

  • @user-yq6st8kq7j
    @user-yq6st8kq7j 2 місяці тому +45

    Use PROTECTION IF YOU DIDNT WANT KIDS!

    • @MsJipsey26
      @MsJipsey26 2 місяці тому +7

      Agreed, BUT using protection isn't 100% effective, only abstinence is, and technically pregnancy is possible without insertion so... Doesn't mean they weren't using protection- broken condom, taking antibiotics while on the pill, missed pill, not taking it perfectly...

    • @brendabazykowski4369
      @brendabazykowski4369 2 місяці тому +7

      How rude.
      She's was a 13 yo kid.
      What is the dirt on the dad, raping a child!!!

    • @assyathefoxghostmugmansgf500
      @assyathefoxghostmugmansgf500 Місяць тому +5

      Or just dont have sex at all until youre a fully developed adult out of school

    • @Hopelife889
      @Hopelife889 Місяць тому

      @@brendabazykowski4369how do you know she got r@ped? Did she even clearly state how she got pregnant in the video?

    • @chrissyswifey
      @chrissyswifey Місяць тому

      @@assyathefoxghostmugmansgf500no lol

  • @lurji
    @lurji Місяць тому +8

    we should not be celebrating or encouraging this

    • @Annie-SupernovaSOTY
      @Annie-SupernovaSOTY Місяць тому +2

      Nobody is??? Like said in the video, being pregnant at EIGHT grade is scary.

    • @yogurtandmusic5710
      @yogurtandmusic5710 Місяць тому

      ⁠@@Annie-SupernovaSOTYwhen i was in eighth grade, i knew the consequences that came from doing the nasty, so if she thinks it’s scary then thats the punishment that comes from doing the nasty without protection or just doing it that young.

    • @Annie-SupernovaSOTY
      @Annie-SupernovaSOTY Місяць тому

      @@yogurtandmusic5710 Okay? Congratufuckinglations what do you want me to say? "Omg thank you for having common sense!!! You're so smart for an eight grader hahahahah!" Seriously tho, wether how much you try to change things she was still an 8th grader, a teen, she was reckless and that's on her behalf. Doesn't mean you can go and shame on her for it

    • @yogurtandmusic5710
      @yogurtandmusic5710 Місяць тому +2

      @@Annie-SupernovaSOTY no actually yes it does because if an eighth grader sees that everyone is treating her getting pregnant as a “mistake” which is INSANE considering it’s not a mistake it’s a consequence that she will now have to live with not only for 18 years but for the rest of her life for being a dumbass . a mistake is spilling a drink or going late somewhere but having sex willing when you know the damage that it could have on not only your life but your child’s life, that’s certainly not a mistake. anyway, supporting her for getting pregnant so young will have eighth graders believe that having sex that young as normal . so yes we should shame her for getting pregnant, and im not saying shame her as a person, but for getting pregnant? absolutely

    • @Annie-SupernovaSOTY
      @Annie-SupernovaSOTY Місяць тому

      @@yogurtandmusic5710 So a mom being supportive for her daughter, aka doing her job as a mom arw making eight graders think its the norm...? I'm sorry what... Why do you hags forget that she's still an eight grader, a teen. Sure, on her behalf that was a stupid move, unprotected s3x, whatever. But what right do you have to shame a person in the internet who ONE does not know you, and TWO is not your relative of any sorts? If anything it's heartbreaking to see young children be pregnant, the only exception is that they were willing and were proud of it will only you feel dissapointment. As seen in the video that she was obviously struggling and should've never made that mistake, and will eventually grow from it. But it's you people that stop her from doing that and only making the situation worse without the support as it damages the teen's health and the child she is carrying.

  • @ruthanneglickman1173
    @ruthanneglickman1173 2 місяці тому +49

    She had the kid already and still saying she doesn't want it??

  • @SophiaSoNY0428
    @SophiaSoNY0428 2 місяці тому +18

    I was pregnant at 14, had my daughter at 15. Her dad left when she was 2. I graduated high school a year early making honor roll my last year (I’ve ALWAYS struggled in school, and even got left back in the 3rd grade) I’m now 31, and she’s 16 years old, high honor roll student and has held the same job for the last year. It’s wasn’t/isnt east but make a conscious decision to be better, and love yourself unconditionally in the process. Your lil girl is watching and picking it all up, which is why making sure you have time for yourself is crucial and extremely important. You can do it love. Stay strong and don’t make the same mistake twice. Our children are not a mistake, but the timing is. Ima need a ring on this finger before I have another, and that’s in period lol. Sending love 🫶🏽

    • @statesashley0416
      @statesashley0416 Місяць тому

      My daughter's going to be 16 in February.

    • @_cosmic_aurora_gameofcones
      @_cosmic_aurora_gameofcones Місяць тому +1

      Men just always wanna run from responsibility

    • @TooRad
      @TooRad Місяць тому

      You got banged without a ring before, so why not again? It's not like you have any morals anyways, rather go just all out.

  • @noname-jw2fi
    @noname-jw2fi 2 місяці тому +165

    My cousin was 14 when she had her first baby❤️ at 27 she had her third baby and six days after giving birth she passed away. Congratulations on your baby. You reminded me of my cousin. I miss her. Wish you the best❤️

    • @HeyImWilla
      @HeyImWilla 2 місяці тому +11

      Oh my god! I'm so sorry for you! I share your pain because i lost my best friend at that age. Know that I grieve with you.

  • @sehrious_xm
    @sehrious_xm Місяць тому +2

    All of You women who kept your babies even if they were conceived w out your consent i give You all of my respect, i was freshly 18 but since i have been homeless my whole life i couldn’t keep my baby. I bow down to all of You strong women ❤ all my respect and to your precious babies

  • @player2763
    @player2763 2 місяці тому +81

    Why are people shaming her in the comments?
    1. Lecturing her about her PAST will only make her feel bad and won’t help anything.
    2. I’m sure she’s already learned her lesson since she’s got a living breathing baby to take care of.
    And 3. The sex life of a minor is not the business of random strangers online. It’s problematic for a 14 year old to have sex but I’m sure her parents, doctor, etc will have told her that.

    • @sophialockwood1213
      @sophialockwood1213 2 місяці тому +36

      Pretty sure she made it everyone’s business when she posted the video on a public platform but okay

    • @rachel3682
      @rachel3682 2 місяці тому +14

      But they posted it for people online why don't they keep the legs closed and that'll be great

    • @StasiaSailorMoon
      @StasiaSailorMoon 2 місяці тому +12

      ​@@rachel3682Why don't you keep your mouth closed? Nobody needs your emotional immaturity

    • @rachel3682
      @rachel3682 2 місяці тому

      @@StasiaSailorMoon ever heard of a thing called taking your own advice? 🥱🤡 Your emotional immaturity is coming out on my little comment. Is the internet sweetie not a 🍆 I suggest you don't take it too hard

    • @rachel3682
      @rachel3682 2 місяці тому

      @@StasiaSailorMoon ah another child. Ever heard of taking your own advice? I see your little emotional immaturity coming out on my comment because you can't handle the truth. Is the internet sweetie not a 🍆. I suggest you don't take it so hard 😘 you keep your mouth and your legs closed. Kids need to be kids and not having babies.

  • @boingyboop4960
    @boingyboop4960 Місяць тому +32

    Adorable baby! So glad your mother supported you! I imagine teen pregnancies are tough, you are so strong! Congrats

    • @jjjaee
      @jjjaee Місяць тому

      So she is strong for having sex with someone at a young age?

  • @alpha1143
    @alpha1143 2 місяці тому +7

    Child: Mom, how old am I?
    Mom: your 14 years younger then me.
    Child:😱

  • @Med0w_101
    @Med0w_101 27 днів тому +4

    If I was pregnate at 14 my mom would have killed me💀 I duno how some of yall have chill ass mom

  • @joceisnthere
    @joceisnthere 2 місяці тому +16

    yall full on doing this and i cant even have a guy touch my hip without me flinching

    • @chrissyswifey
      @chrissyswifey Місяць тому +1

      omg so different

    • @joceisnthere
      @joceisnthere Місяць тому +2

      @chrissyswifey its cause of trauma but alright 💀

    • @chrissyswifey
      @chrissyswifey Місяць тому +2

      @@joceisnthere womp womp

    • @joceisnthere
      @joceisnthere Місяць тому

      @@chrissyswifey womp womp fr

    • @undefinedd1147
      @undefinedd1147 Місяць тому +3

      @@chrissyswifey I feel so sorry for Chrissy.

  • @sarah.j.777
    @sarah.j.777 Місяць тому +18

    I got pregnant when I was a teenager against my will by stealthing. (I insisted on protection and he took it off without telling me, which he later admitted)
    I raise my child alone.

    • @kaylieash4858
      @kaylieash4858 Місяць тому +5

      He should get jail time.

    • @Yhkz_jdiis
      @Yhkz_jdiis Місяць тому +1

      He should 100% be in jail, but also you just shouldn't be having sex by any means at that age, i hope you're doing well God bless you

    • @Hilmao-e4l
      @Hilmao-e4l 6 днів тому +1

      That’s literally 🍇 since you consented with protection… I hope you’re okay now and I hope you will be able to raise your child well

  • @caitlinneilson7731
    @caitlinneilson7731 2 місяці тому +18

    This is so weird dude. 14?! Jesus christ.

    • @kitty1256x
      @kitty1256x Місяць тому

      Abuse women by men starts early. He clearly took advantage of her kindness. Even grown up women get used by men.

    • @chrissyswifey
      @chrissyswifey Місяць тому

      you’re not helping

    • @Riahmima
      @Riahmima Місяць тому

      @@chrissyswifey​​⁠you the girl friend or something cause you keep getting in these dang comments defending this girl, saying “you’re not helping”, ain’t nobody give a fck about helping this girl that is not our damn obligation.

  • @CinderellaRaptured333
    @CinderellaRaptured333 Місяць тому +3

    I give her this much. At least she had the baby and didn’t have an abortion. That takes strength.

    • @beckystarrski
      @beckystarrski Місяць тому

      I concur with that. 👍

    • @mystorage1010
      @mystorage1010 Місяць тому

      She should have it. She's not a breeding mare.

    • @kitty1256x
      @kitty1256x Місяць тому

      She was raped and abandoned by her boyfriend. It's clear that at this age girls only do it to please a boyfriend. She was obviously emotionally manipulated and forced and used by him.

    • @chrissyswifey
      @chrissyswifey Місяць тому

      having an abortion takes a lot of strength too, halt den Mund mit diesem Blödsinn

    • @LizzylooFuntinati-hx5gd
      @LizzylooFuntinati-hx5gd 26 днів тому +3

      Why would you care if she did? It’s not your choice either way

  • @ashleybibi1249
    @ashleybibi1249 Місяць тому +6

    I didn't even no what sex was at 14 I was too busy learning makeup

  • @stargirlie6728
    @stargirlie6728 26 днів тому +6

    next time my mom complains about my messy room imma show her this video and tell her kids my age are doing worse 💀

    • @guysigotahandle
      @guysigotahandle 24 дні тому +1

      LMAO, my mom gets mad at me for yelling a tiny bit too loud and I’m thinking to myself “kids are doing ten times worse than talking back to their mothers”

  • @Lady.Tijuri
    @Lady.Tijuri Місяць тому +13

    I'm so happy ur mom took it well, most parents will be upset which I do understand, but stress on u which is NOT good.

    • @mhmmmmm660
      @mhmmmmm660 Місяць тому

      I would be mad if my child decided to get pregnant. Fucking fast ass kids these days

  • @thepurestchild
    @thepurestchild Місяць тому +2

    i was 🍇d at 14 and luckily nothing bad came out of it other than the occasional nightmare and lack of justice, and it just gives me such a different perspective on teen mothers. even if it wasn’t a 🍇 situation, i will still always support teen mothers with everything in me.

  • @tinawalker4928
    @tinawalker4928 2 місяці тому +4

    I got pregnant at 16.
    My beautiful daughter is now 32.
    She's my best friend

    • @molly5262
      @molly5262 Місяць тому

      You’re one of the few lucky ones. Usually doesn’t work that way.

  • @xaenab219
    @xaenab219 Місяць тому +61

    Everyone is being so supportive in the comments section and me I'm just like who tf sent you to be pregnant at 14? When you're supposed to be focused on school.

    • @idonated50jellybeanstothew56
      @idonated50jellybeanstothew56 Місяць тому

      Im 14 and school is still easy for me tho

    • @J.U.N.N.I.P.E.R
      @J.U.N.N.I.P.E.R Місяць тому +12

      She didn't choose to be pregnant. She made a mistake, and received consequences from it. If she has a good support system then she'll be fine. Support pregnant teens, not teen pregnancy. There's a difference

    • @Annie-SupernovaSOTY
      @Annie-SupernovaSOTY Місяць тому +5

      She didn't choose to be pregnant 😭

    • @yk.itzkenn
      @yk.itzkenn Місяць тому +1

      @@idonated50jellybeanstothew56but you can’t cook an egg..

    • @yk.itzkenn
      @yk.itzkenn Місяць тому +1

      @@Annie-SupernovaSOTYno but she choose to have unprotected (I’m assuming) s3x and also have s3x to begin with?

  • @Chris2flye
    @Chris2flye Місяць тому +5

    No matter how this is portrayed, it is not ok.

  • @ldjs265
    @ldjs265 9 днів тому +1

    She’s a beautiful baby. Babies are a gift from God, cherish her and she will bring you joy beyond your expectations 🙏🏻🥰

  • @melissasaga173
    @melissasaga173 2 місяці тому +16

    Parents should kept a close eye

    • @adorqss
      @adorqss 2 місяці тому

      they dont care

    • @chrissyswifey
      @chrissyswifey Місяць тому

      that’s not gone stop teens from having sex lol

  • @rosaria-fw2zj
    @rosaria-fw2zj Місяць тому +6

    Apparently everybody in this comment section is teen mom lol

  • @starrmistt
    @starrmistt Місяць тому +51

    That was me once I'm 43 . im still with the dad we had a girl when I was 14 and a boy when I was 18 , married a few weeks before our son was born.been together 30 years still married❤

  • @stillhere1425
    @stillhere1425 Місяць тому +3

    And yet this young lady seems way more sensible than many biological, foster, and adoptive parents, suggesting to many of us “You’re not perfect, but you know right from wrong, your child and your has been evaluated as sufficient-do your best, I’m sure you will be adequate!

  • @alwaysrootingfortheantihero123
    @alwaysrootingfortheantihero123 Місяць тому +8

    God bless you and your baby. I pray that you will both get support and give in your life, and that you won’t have to miss out too much on being a teen because of a mistake you made in middle school that God used to give you a suprise blessing. it is hard now but i will pray it gets better. GOD BLESS YOU.

    • @Geminicricketi
      @Geminicricketi 26 днів тому

      @@alwaysrootingfortheantihero123 what about the kid she made🤦🏾‍♀️. What will the kid miss out on? A father? A mom to make good choices in their best interest? Just like the abortion argument, getting pregnant is not only the mom’s life. The child’s life matters more. Idc whatever tf she misses out on. She just will have to miss tf out. Although she still not missing out on having a bf 🤦🏾‍♀️. The fact u said that, I know how u get down. That’s 304 talk. Loose as a goose.

  • @WolfKing25
    @WolfKing25 Місяць тому +7

    Bro wtf... this is why you dont do it at 14...
    I am the same age and this is kinda ridiculous, we are still kids my guy, be more responsible, jesus christ
    Id get it more if it was out of your control (r'd) BUT this is on you...

    • @greeneyelightskin746
      @greeneyelightskin746 Місяць тому

      She have an account she said she was r’d

    • @WolfKing25
      @WolfKing25 Місяць тому

      @@greeneyelightskin746 oh alright, that's a totally different story then, what's her account??

  • @Chickenface123
    @Chickenface123 2 місяці тому +23

    Don’t support teen pregnancy’s
    Support pregnant teens

    • @kyleebooker549
      @kyleebooker549 2 місяці тому +1

      Pregnancies

    • @hr-hq8ji
      @hr-hq8ji Місяць тому

      Go for it then. It’s a no from me

    • @bar1338
      @bar1338 Місяць тому

      No i will not support literally kids who can't keep their legs close

  • @Wkdjejfjf
    @Wkdjejfjf Місяць тому +4

    My flex is being the same age and not ending up like here🤞💀

    • @Biplyo.b
      @Biplyo.b Місяць тому

      At 14 i dreamed of rainicorns

  • @lancepeacock3753
    @lancepeacock3753 2 місяці тому +8

    Shaming teens for being pregnant ain’t gonna do sheit. Support pregnant teens, not teen pregnancy

    • @Hopelife889
      @Hopelife889 Місяць тому +1

      That sounds like a contradiction lol

    • @chrissyswifey
      @chrissyswifey Місяць тому

      @@Hopelife889it’s not! hope this helps

    • @Hopelife889
      @Hopelife889 Місяць тому +1

      @@chrissyswifey kind of is, it’s like saying I don’t support the creator of this game nor do I support this game but you play it daily, spend money on it and post about it

  • @Eva-tw4ff
    @Eva-tw4ff Місяць тому +6

    I’m thirteen and I’ve never held hand w a boy😭😭😭