Real Friends - When You Were Here (Official Music Video)

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  • Опубліковано 2 жов 2024
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    Official music video for When You Were Here performed by Real Friends
    Copyright (C) 2023 Real Friends.
    RealFriends #WhenYouWereHere
    Producer: Errick Easterday, Michael Herrick (@easterxdaily, @micahelherrick_)
    Director: Errick Easterday, Michael Herrick (@easterxdaily, @micahelherrick_)
    Set Design: Trevor Post (@trevorpost)
    Set Design Assist: Skylar Storm
    BTS: Morgan Newell (@morganxnewell)
    PA: Aaron Elkins
    Dancer: Lilly Comstock (@lillycomstock)
    Lyrics:
    I’m still avoiding the exit that goes to your old house
    Listening to Konstantine
    Like we did at seventeen
    But I know it’s not helping me out
    I wish I could let go & blame someone else
    I wish I could tell you that
    I don’t really wanna die
    But I don’t wanna be alive
    Like I did when you were here
    I think I’m just scared to death
    That you’ll always mess with my head
    Like you did when you were here
    You said I’m being destructive
    I guess I’m just stuck in my old ways
    The self pity I’m caught in is like a broken cassette
    Wrinkled tape of regret
    Yeah, we were both too selfish to change
    I can’t get over this cause you’re already over this

КОМЕНТАРІ • 364

  • @realfriendsband
    @realfriendsband  10 місяців тому +514

    This is the first music we’ve released without the support of a record label in over ten years. With that being said, your love and support for us goes further than ever now. When you share this video or song, know that it means the world to us. This is literally not possible without you. You’re a part of this. We love you.

    • @kimblylemonicus9070
      @kimblylemonicus9070 10 місяців тому +1

      Saw y’all in Austin this summer and you guys were incredible 🤘🏼 keep it up

    • @dustinrimmey4053
      @dustinrimmey4053 10 місяців тому +1

      I knew I would love it because it's ya'll....a Konstantine reference in the opening third

    • @slash196
      @slash196 10 місяців тому +2

      This slaps like the original shit. Labels be holding you down dudes

    • @jeremycoleman5989
      @jeremycoleman5989 10 місяців тому +2

      Love you guys!!!!!

    • @michaelengelking9047
      @michaelengelking9047 10 місяців тому +1

      Awesome saw your show in Tampa got a shirt and some random girl was like I love Real Friends I got nervous brushed her off but almost got to make a friend because of you guys...anyways love the music

  • @streetleague72
    @streetleague72 10 місяців тому +86

    "I don’t really wanna die, But I don’t wanna be alive" . Hits me pretty hard lately, such relatable line of lyrics, great song guys!

    • @realfriendsband
      @realfriendsband  10 місяців тому +3

      thanks for telling us. so glad you're digging it. -KYLE

  • @fabulouspain5341
    @fabulouspain5341 10 місяців тому +34

    I haven't listened to them since Dan left.... this is fuckn good.. wish I didn't sleep on them after the change

  • @godfreygallego8551
    @godfreygallego8551 10 місяців тому +4

    DOOOOPPPPEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! KEEP MAKING THESE KINDS OF MELODY AND RHYTHMS IN POP PUNK !!!!! THESE ARE WHAT OUR EARS AND BRAINS ARE CRAVING FOR!!

  • @yogarizqipratama2647
    @yogarizqipratama2647 Місяць тому +2

    2:01 Fav Part🔥

  • @RRiffe
    @RRiffe Місяць тому +1

    The late nights in my car have turned into sleepness nights in my house. These vibrations keep me vibrating.

  • @gabby_8123
    @gabby_8123 10 місяців тому +31

    YES!! AMAZING! Such a powerhouse both lyrically and melodically. Real Friends Forever

  • @EliteLMS
    @EliteLMS 2 місяці тому +1

    I think they're the best they've ever been!! Love this song😍

  • @adambusenbark5997
    @adambusenbark5997 10 місяців тому +34

    Cody sounding the best I’ve ever heard him, great job!

  • @raphyd1466
    @raphyd1466 9 місяців тому +16

    That passage in the chorus where Cody sings "I think I'm just scared to death" and the drummer plays the same rhythm as Cody's enunciation is so damn satisfying, brillantly done

    • @caliban5505
      @caliban5505 День тому

      Dude that fucking rules, nice catch. I’m also such a fan of the structure of this song, how they go into an acoustic sound that evolves into a heavy chorus then it remains heavy but always emotional

  • @alwaysevolving281
    @alwaysevolving281 10 місяців тому +23

    Damn, the vocals sound so good.

    • @realfriendsband
      @realfriendsband  10 місяців тому +3

      he is sounding pretty damn good. thanks for the love! -KYLE

  • @emmashmusic
    @emmashmusic 10 місяців тому +7

    Absolutely love the grunge-y vibes!!!! I can hear that Static Dress influence too!!! Killer song!! ❤

    • @realfriendsband
      @realfriendsband  10 місяців тому

      glad you are digging it. thanks for jamming with us

  • @Doc_FeelGood69
    @Doc_FeelGood69 8 місяців тому +4

    Heard of you guys on NHL23 and have been hooked since. Reminds me of early 2000's punk / emo. Love it.

  • @drewmcgill5290
    @drewmcgill5290 10 місяців тому +22

    I haven’t liked a pop-punk song in a long time. This rules and goes hard.

    • @realfriendsband
      @realfriendsband  10 місяців тому +9

      Thanks for letting us know. There’s more where this came from.

  • @iluvpost-hardcore4204
    @iluvpost-hardcore4204 10 місяців тому +5

    Konstantine always tore me apart and made me cry
    Now I hear that song and know that...

    • @realfriendsband
      @realfriendsband  10 місяців тому +1

      I like that you noticed the connection

  • @codyb6849
    @codyb6849 10 місяців тому +1

    Oh my goodness that Singing your drummer is awesome and the guitarist an the bassist heaven to my ears perfection guys an happy weekend love Cody

  • @hlroxas6506
    @hlroxas6506 10 місяців тому +6

    lyrics:
    I'm still avoiding the exit that goes to your old house
    Listening to Konstantine
    Like we did at seventeen
    But I know it's not helping me out
    I wish I could let go & blame someone else
    I wish I could tell you that
    I don't really wanna die
    But I don't wanna be alive
    Like I did when you were here
    I think I'm just scared to death
    That you'll always mess with my head
    Like you did
    Like you did
    Like you did when you were here
    You said I'm being destructive
    I guess I'm just stuck in my old ways
    The self pity I'm caught in is like a broken cassette
    Wrinkled tape of regret
    Yeah, we were both too selfish to change
    I can't get over this cause you're already over this
    I don't really wanna die
    But I don't wanna be alive
    Like I did when you were here
    I think I'm just scared to death
    That you'll always mess with my head
    Like you did
    Like you did
    Like you did when you were here
    I wish I could let go & blame someone else
    I wish I could tell you that
    I wish I could let go & blame someone else
    I wish I could tell you that
    I don't really wanna die
    But I don't wanna be alive
    Like I did when you were here
    I think I'm just scared to death
    That you'll always mess with my head
    Like you did
    Like you did
    Like you did when you were here
    I wish I could let go & blame someone else I LOVE THIS SONG SO MUCH

  • @ca9847
    @ca9847 6 місяців тому +1

    I just love this song more and more and more. I want even more people to share it with because it’s so raw, so genuine, and so true.

  • @jgarr127
    @jgarr127 10 місяців тому +3

    I think I've never heard of any of you before, but UA-cam recommended and I think it's cool

  • @lexidarling
    @lexidarling 10 місяців тому +3

    "Listening to Konstantine like we did at 17" I felt that in my soul.

  • @dannielehawkins4338
    @dannielehawkins4338 10 місяців тому +3

    Man, another one to add the the life track. This is going to be the soundtrack to so many peoples adolescence, and make them feel so much less alone.
    Always producing quality.
    Congratulations on the independent release!

  • @Kittypeony
    @Kittypeony 10 місяців тому +25

    What a powerful voice and talented band ❤❤

    • @realfriendsband
      @realfriendsband  10 місяців тому +4

      Thanks for the kind words. It means the world. -KYLE

  • @leightonstarks2328
    @leightonstarks2328 10 місяців тому +16

    Thank you guys. the day you guys released this I was having death thoughts for the first time in years. Just a really hard season. The chorus is everything. It's not that I wanted to die, I want to live, I just want the pain to stop and sometimes death feels like the only way it will stop. I have several practices now to get me through to the next day and people to reach out to. But this song helped me the day you released it. So seriously, thank you.

    • @realfriendsband
      @realfriendsband  10 місяців тому +2

      ❤ thank you for connecting

    • @JoeydrinksSherry
      @JoeydrinksSherry 10 місяців тому +1

      Don’t give up, brother. I know I’m just a random stranger. But I’m rooting for you! 🤙

    • @leightonstarks2328
      @leightonstarks2328 10 місяців тому +1

      @@JoeydrinksSherry Hey thanks man it means a lot. I'll never give up. Generally happy considering how crazy life is right now. I'm rooting for you too!

    • @JoeydrinksSherry
      @JoeydrinksSherry 10 місяців тому +1

      @@leightonstarks2328 No problem, and hell yeah! I’m glad to hear that. & thanks man, I appreciate that more than you know. Going through an unforeseen trial right now so that means a fucking lot. Seriously

    • @ca9847
      @ca9847 5 місяців тому +1

      Life is so very hard and expectations we place on ourselves (and others place on us) is unreal. I don’t know you, but there are people like me who do care. It’s what a band like Real Friends brings together. People like you who can feel safe talking about their feelings, and people out here who care. I’m sending you a hug - Chrisann

  • @xnotrustx
    @xnotrustx 9 місяців тому +2

    & the boys do it again! I am thoroughly convinced that the guys cannot make a bad song. Big record company or not, you guys will have a loyal fan in me for life. ♡ keep 'em comin' boys! You guys are amazing!

  • @chrisharris7819
    @chrisharris7819 8 місяців тому +1

    Y'all really have locked in y'all's sound keep up the good work! 🤘

  • @dusky193
    @dusky193 10 місяців тому +2

    Love everything about this

  • @LizDillman
    @LizDillman 10 місяців тому +1

    been here since 2016 ❤️ I just saw y’all in on tour and you guys brought the best energy ever!! I’ll always support you guys, much love from WI 🫶🏻

    • @realfriendsband
      @realfriendsband  10 місяців тому

      that means the world. thanks for letting us know.

  • @Kevinolvera22
    @Kevinolvera22 10 місяців тому +16

    I don’t think these boys, will ever realize how much we truly love them and appreciate them! Love the fucking song!🖤🥺

    • @realfriendsband
      @realfriendsband  10 місяців тому +4

      We love and appreciate you too. Big big love.

  • @LizDillman
    @LizDillman 10 місяців тому +1

    been here since 2016 ❤️ I just saw y’all in on tour and you guys brought the best energy ever!! I’ll always support you guys, much love from WI 🫶🏻

  • @Noumu
    @Noumu 10 місяців тому +10

    I ABSOLUTELY LOVE THE INSTRUMENTALS ON THIS TRACK GUYS! you guys evolved so much and i'm really happy to see my all time favorite band keep on releasing new bangers

  • @saramommy33
    @saramommy33 10 місяців тому +1

    Yes!

  • @pip119
    @pip119 10 місяців тому +1

    Also available on bandcamp!

  • @galaxyrose15
    @galaxyrose15 9 місяців тому +1

    Love this band!!!

  • @Gabriel-e8m9n
    @Gabriel-e8m9n 8 місяців тому +1

    bro this song is fire, love from brazil guys

  • @camrynbariesheff
    @camrynbariesheff 10 місяців тому +1

    you guys, this is absolutely fantastic!!!! 🥹

  • @ca9847
    @ca9847 10 місяців тому +11

    This is the kind of song/lyrics that get stuck in my head and I’m here for it. ❤

  • @GrayWoIf
    @GrayWoIf 10 місяців тому +4

    Yeh more sad songs to drive to

    • @realfriendsband
      @realfriendsband  10 місяців тому +1

      exactly. thanks for jamming. tell your friends.

  • @jasonlong2311
    @jasonlong2311 10 місяців тому +4

    Love to hear a something corporate reference

    • @iluvpost-hardcore4204
      @iluvpost-hardcore4204 10 місяців тому

      This is actually the second time they referenced this song. the first time was back in 2014 when Dan lambton was still in the band

    • @ca9847
      @ca9847 10 місяців тому

      Or a reference of lyrics from a song by The Starting Line.
      “Tell me what you thought about”

    • @realfriendsband
      @realfriendsband  10 місяців тому +1

      so happy this has been noticed. I love them.

  • @bowieoliver555
    @bowieoliver555 10 місяців тому

    Wow what a beautiful voice. I love it!!!!!

  • @c3kile
    @c3kile 10 місяців тому +3

    Every new RF song makes me think of a toxic situation i used to be in and the aftermath even tho im out now
    (Also sidenote: love the coorinated swing at 2:11

    • @realfriendsband
      @realfriendsband  10 місяців тому +1

      I hope that’s a good thing? Hahah. Thanks for the love.

    • @c3kile
      @c3kile 10 місяців тому +1

      @@realfriendsband it's just nice to know that I'm not the only one feeling these emotions

    • @realfriendsband
      @realfriendsband  10 місяців тому

      we Love you. glad our music can help.@@c3kile

  • @cheemsdog7071
    @cheemsdog7071 9 місяців тому +4

    Cody putting a little Youth Fountain scream in there. Really proud of you guys, can't wait to see you live again.

  • @Snypr18
    @Snypr18 9 місяців тому +1

    Really incredible stuff guys. Keep at it. After being blindsided by a divorce this one hits pretty hard.

  • @viincreations
    @viincreations 10 місяців тому +1

    Love you forever ❤

  • @cbjueueiwyru7472
    @cbjueueiwyru7472 Місяць тому

    I remember hearing someone describe Real Friends as "shouty lyrics about a girl"

  • @connoryoung9398
    @connoryoung9398 9 місяців тому +1

    Beautiful

  • @Brianna-g2q
    @Brianna-g2q 10 місяців тому

    Thanks for existing. You guys have been keeping me going since 2013. ❤ love to seeing you guys grow!

    • @realfriendsband
      @realfriendsband  10 місяців тому

      thanks for sticking with us over the years.

  • @fredericklong9649
    @fredericklong9649 7 місяців тому +3

    This dude was amazing in youth fountain and he’s great hear pleaseeee do a tour with youth fountain

  • @apocablitztv
    @apocablitztv 10 місяців тому +1

    🤘🤘🤘🔥

  • @Thompson1246
    @Thompson1246 9 місяців тому +13

    As much as we all miss Dan, the new singer is honestly killing it

    • @tylermartinmusic
      @tylermartinmusic 14 днів тому +1

      His name is Cody Muraro. He was originally from the bands Youth Fountain and Parting Ways. If you dig him, you should check those out too

  • @macadabra2125
    @macadabra2125 10 місяців тому +40

    I freakin love Cody's voice, so great seeing him getting the love he deserve

  • @HayleyTurnerMMA
    @HayleyTurnerMMA 10 місяців тому

    Love, love, love this. Constantly impressed by you guys. Love from Skokie ❤

    • @realfriendsband
      @realfriendsband  10 місяців тому +1

      Skokie!! Chicago love. Hope to see you at a show soon.

  • @betteranywayoh
    @betteranywayoh 8 місяців тому +1

    🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸 Love from Ohio
    ❤ Better Anyway

  • @MatthewMoore-p6v
    @MatthewMoore-p6v 9 місяців тому +1

    🤘

  • @sharmacs284
    @sharmacs284 6 місяців тому +2

    this song is fucking awesome know that, im jumping all around my room lmao

  • @Skeptic331
    @Skeptic331 10 місяців тому +3

    No disrespect to Dan, but I think i prefer this sound!

    • @realfriendsband
      @realfriendsband  10 місяців тому

      thanks for jamming that new stuff. we love you .

  • @joeypadron
    @joeypadron 10 місяців тому +1

    Your new song is so good. I like it a lot 😊

    • @realfriendsband
      @realfriendsband  10 місяців тому +1

      thanks for your continued love and support

    • @joeypadron
      @joeypadron 10 місяців тому

      @@realfriendsband you're welcome 😊

  • @CraiggaeShark
    @CraiggaeShark 10 місяців тому +1

    big guitar tones

  • @fixingthepast
    @fixingthepast 10 місяців тому +5

    This song absolutely hits all the right spots. Really vibing with it.

  • @DonySetiawan
    @DonySetiawan 3 місяці тому +1

    I’m really grateful for Cody being in Real Friends. Everything is perfect right now for you guys! Please don’t ever think to break up or something like that. Love from Indonesia. 🇮🇩

  • @ryanhayden9235
    @ryanhayden9235 10 місяців тому +1

    Quality.

  • @VentureWayward
    @VentureWayward 9 місяців тому

    Hell yeah dudes!

  • @apaucokes2140
    @apaucokes2140 8 місяців тому +2

    Real Friends all day love from Manila PH \m/

  • @CorbinPostYT
    @CorbinPostYT 9 місяців тому +1

    Is it ok if I do a cover but I'll have to use the video

  • @niloclaaskion4153
    @niloclaaskion4153 10 місяців тому +4

    I've been following the band since 2014 when I first got dragged to a concert. Honestly though, that night was wonderful and I have loved seeing the evolution of the band since. You all have been there for me in a way that pulled at my heart strings and felt like a healing bowl of soup at the same time. This bop is absolutely fantastic, congrats on releasing such an incredible song independently and keep on rocking!
    Sincerely,
    A lost boy with bony knees

    • @realfriendsband
      @realfriendsband  10 місяців тому +2

      that was really nice to read. thank you for such kind words. we appreciate you so much. love- Kyle

  • @JhonAngeloTagle-uv6xx
    @JhonAngeloTagle-uv6xx 10 місяців тому

    I'm always gonna be a fan of you guys 🤟🏻

  • @GGaemer
    @GGaemer 10 місяців тому +4

    literally hit after hit after hit

    • @realfriendsband
      @realfriendsband  10 місяців тому +1

      thanks for saying that. we love you!

    • @GGaemer
      @GGaemer 10 місяців тому

      @@realfriendsbandright back atcha!

  • @mikedaveggie9955
    @mikedaveggie9955 10 місяців тому

    Damn fellas, you just keep dropping bangers 🔥 your performance at Slam Dunk North is still one of the finest sets I’ve experienced all year but I do have one request if you read this…..please come over to the UK for a full headline tour. We’ve got soooo much love to give you! ❤

  • @farhanmuhammadirsyadi9572
    @farhanmuhammadirsyadi9572 10 місяців тому

    Keep this up!

  • @jeffwilkerson1145
    @jeffwilkerson1145 2 місяці тому +1

    First time listener to your band, you guys are really,really good. 🔥💯

  • @alonso4989
    @alonso4989 2 місяці тому +1

    ridiculously good vocals!

  • @Coryaria
    @Coryaria 10 місяців тому +4

    It’s the gritty vocals for me. 🤘🏻🤘🏻

  • @exitbags
    @exitbags 9 місяців тому +3

    Cody always reminds me of that actor who played REACHER

    • @widexawake_
      @widexawake_ 4 місяці тому

      This does sound like a song Thad Castle would 100% sing at the Karaoke 😂

  • @GBAmerica1781
    @GBAmerica1781 6 місяців тому +2

    I heard this on Jango for the first time a few days ago and I keep replaying this over and over again. This is a fantastic song. Eager to listen to more of this band.

  • @Slicckitty
    @Slicckitty 10 місяців тому +1

    Cody said comment something stupid so here we go…
    Something stupid lol

    • @realfriendsband
      @realfriendsband  10 місяців тому +1

      you could have at least said the song is just okay. hahah

  • @JoeydrinksSherry
    @JoeydrinksSherry 10 місяців тому +3

    Fucking Rips!! Bring on that new album, fellas. WE ARE READY!! (Please)

  • @LUCIEN-MX
    @LUCIEN-MX 10 місяців тому +2

    I all of a sudden love this band after the NHL games

  • @SwelIy
    @SwelIy 10 місяців тому +3

    You guys killed it at House of Blues, I was excited to hear this one again!

    • @realfriendsband
      @realfriendsband  10 місяців тому +1

      ahhh such a sweet show. thanks for rocking.

  • @sergio4163
    @sergio4163 10 місяців тому

    "en realidad no quiero morir, pero no quiero estar vivo" alta frase directo al espiritu

  • @asthisatia8914
    @asthisatia8914 2 місяці тому +1

    After a long time i discover really good band.

  • @cosmicotterrrr
    @cosmicotterrrr 10 місяців тому +2

    I recently just started listening to you guys and I have to say I’m obsessed. Everything from the lyrics to the instrumentals. Keep it up guys love ya😁🫶🏻

  • @JamesEdwardTagle
    @JamesEdwardTagle 9 місяців тому +1

    😁

  • @Findingfrisson
    @Findingfrisson 8 місяців тому +1

    Goosebumps, this is the first song I’ve listen too since 2016 and I’m so happy with the change and keeping the band alive :). Also love the poetry Kyle i have ur books 🩷😊

  • @kotymccallister5150
    @kotymccallister5150 10 місяців тому +1

    Dancing lady looks familiar

    • @ca9847
      @ca9847 10 місяців тому

      The dancing girl like a Taylor Swift vibe to me for some reason.

    • @kotymccallister5150
      @kotymccallister5150 10 місяців тому

      Almost reminds me of Hayley Williams from Paramore

    • @realfriendsband
      @realfriendsband  10 місяців тому

      it is Haley....@@kotymccallister5150

  • @marisaburns4720
    @marisaburns4720 10 місяців тому +2

    This is BEYOND EPIC along with Torn in Two EP, you guys are killin it!! I’m still jamming out to those songs two years later every week❤❤❤

    • @realfriendsband
      @realfriendsband  10 місяців тому

      thanks for such kind words. we appreciate you.

  • @GarrettHagen-n1c
    @GarrettHagen-n1c 9 місяців тому +2

    One of the best RF songs ever

  • @-zeromeia-
    @-zeromeia- 8 місяців тому +2

    Masterpiece

  • @NoHandIeHere
    @NoHandIeHere 9 місяців тому +1

    It gonna suck when I start to get sick of this song but I can't stop hitting that replay button, it's too good

  • @J-racks
    @J-racks 8 місяців тому +1

    Damn this shit hit so hard. Just had a buddy of mine pass away a couple weeks ago and he was the life of the party. He always told me I was better than the party life and I’d rise above it. This song can be interpreted in so many ways and that’s why it’s beautiful, but I take it as a friend telling another friend that he’s there.
    Maybe I’m just grieving

  • @cameronliterally
    @cameronliterally 10 місяців тому +3

    Real Friends is in top form

    • @realfriendsband
      @realfriendsband  10 місяців тому +1

      thank you for saying that. makes us feel pretty alright.

  • @paigeasaurr
    @paigeasaurr 13 днів тому

    Killing Killing killing it!! This is on repeat for me. Makes me feel 15 in my room again😭😭

  • @Iirelandd
    @Iirelandd 10 місяців тому +2

    Album soon?😊

  • @oscarenriquegarcia3157
    @oscarenriquegarcia3157 8 місяців тому +1

    This has to be one of my most played songs on my phone, it just hits so damn close to home. I guess 5 years do simply fade away.

  • @danrockwell420
    @danrockwell420 9 місяців тому +1

    THIS SONG is so painfully relatable.. im sure to many of us

  • @JamesEdwardTagle
    @JamesEdwardTagle 9 місяців тому +1

    really love the lyrics, definitely will keep on supporting real friends.

  • @eglovesmusic
    @eglovesmusic 10 місяців тому +2

    Always excited to see what comes next for you guys. Always evolving and getting better.

  • @Stressy_Jessy_Smokes
    @Stressy_Jessy_Smokes 10 місяців тому +2

    you guys are refreshing as fuckkkk🔥🔥

  • @xmyfavoritewordsx
    @xmyfavoritewordsx 10 місяців тому +1

    Hope SEE You guys again in southamerica ❤❤❤❤

  • @cobra1xtz
    @cobra1xtz 10 місяців тому +1

    This is the first song that I've liked since Dan left. This is cool, feels great to jam Real Friends again.

  • @brandonfaletti1472
    @brandonfaletti1472 10 місяців тому +2

    Absolute banger

    • @realfriendsband
      @realfriendsband  10 місяців тому

      love to hear it. thanks for the love. -Kyle

  • @Stereo1229
    @Stereo1229 9 місяців тому +1

    Good job!! Powerfull song and great video 🔥🤘