Surviving the Storm: Pebetsi Nolo Matlaila's Inspirational Journey | Perspective With Itu

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  • @kgothatsokhakhane46
    @kgothatsokhakhane46 Рік тому +41

    This is by far the best interview ive watched to date. I learned so much about myself from this woman. Its still crazy how this woman is telling my life story in her words.

    • @itumelengsekhu-pedi
      @itumelengsekhu-pedi  Рік тому +4

      Wow 🤩 look at God..I pray God speaks more to you and may He walk you through your journey.

    • @makhotsohlalele8788
      @makhotsohlalele8788 Рік тому +1

      😅😅😊😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

    • @endurancebapela355
      @endurancebapela355 Рік тому +1

      I totally agree with you. This is by far one of my favorite interviews. This was beautiful to watch, laughed, cried, and resonated. I've learned so much. God bless this show ❤

    • @ThembakaziGcweni-dr5tg
      @ThembakaziGcweni-dr5tg 11 місяців тому +1

      Oh I know the alcoholic dad. I really enjoyed this. Totally agree that we can't always blame the partners for the failed relationships

    • @itumelengsekhu-pedi
      @itumelengsekhu-pedi  11 місяців тому

      @@ThembakaziGcweni-dr5tg Eish 😭😭😭

  • @tshegofatsomonare8846
    @tshegofatsomonare8846 6 місяців тому +1

    ‘A smart person learns from their mistakes but a wise one learns from the mistakes of others’ - this stood out to me. What a wonderful interview.

  • @mosimasathekge7667
    @mosimasathekge7667 Рік тому +11

    I took three days to watch this ,it was so difficult becouse it has so much triggers. The best interview so far

    • @itumelengsekhu-pedi
      @itumelengsekhu-pedi  Рік тому +1

      Shuuuuuu ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ thank you soooooo much for watching it! May the good Lord heal you in your journey as well.

  • @Ladydee510
    @Ladydee510 Рік тому +7

    She is an amazing woman, with a beautiful voice. Keep them coming Itu, you are a great interviewer.

  • @jhvmanagement
    @jhvmanagement Рік тому +6

    When we heal ourselves we heal others and bring balance and integrity to the Universe. The call to heal self, yes one of the toughest journeys to embark and also the most honourable service to mankind. I salute and honour you for the work thus far. Indeed ke leeto le le golo🪷✨🥂 Well well done 👏🏾🙏🏾

  • @thelmachuene2163
    @thelmachuene2163 Рік тому +5

    Pebetsi shares with so much intensity and truth, she is such an inspiration. Can’t wait to hear more from her.

  • @NoloM-de4zh
    @NoloM-de4zh Місяць тому

    Cant believe i procrastinated to watching this episode 😭😭 because of how long it was……. I resonated soo much with this episode 😭😭😭😭

  • @motapemabusela1458
    @motapemabusela1458 Рік тому +7

    It's my first time watching an interview from start to finish without any distraction or even fast forwarding it. I can relate to this 90%. Thank you so much Itu and Pebetsi for sharing. I am also writing but it's not easy hey. I'll get there, i know. Big up👏

  • @RoseKotana
    @RoseKotana Рік тому +7

    this is so much that we don't realise how much we ruining our kids future and behavior learning a lot

  • @keagolda
    @keagolda Рік тому +5

    You are a great interviewer,you are so patient,you listen and so eloquent.She’s amazing she’s strong,she’s a fighter.Thank you for sharing

    • @worshipwithlerato3812
      @worshipwithlerato3812 Рік тому +1

      I totally agree with you, Itu doesn't rush people and doesn't make things about her, love it ❤

  • @tshepisosenetla4960
    @tshepisosenetla4960 Рік тому +6

    This really did feel like a therapy session🥲. Glad I came across it.

    • @itumelengsekhu-pedi
      @itumelengsekhu-pedi  9 місяців тому

      Thank you so much gorgeous…we appreciate it ❤️💐

  • @youngmindsutopia8397
    @youngmindsutopia8397 Рік тому +8

    This was so therapeutic

    • @itumelengsekhu-pedi
      @itumelengsekhu-pedi  Рік тому

      I love you my angel, I'm watching it now as well and seeing it from the outside in is groundbreaking...this episode is going to change millions of life 🤩😍

  • @katlehomokhatla7613
    @katlehomokhatla7613 Рік тому +5

    This is one of fhe best interview.I got to heal through Ausi Nolo.I saw myself through her and she was actually speaking about me and speaking to me.She actually healing ❤️❤️Ausi Nolo you are a great womanI love you.I am definitely buying the book ❤🥺

  • @lesh1986
    @lesh1986 Рік тому +9

    She went thru a lot😢.❤love and peace to you Nolo. Life is tough guys,we all have sad stories to tell,thats why we should be kind and give love to to everyone..but giving your life to Christ is the best as Christ would give you peace to go through this storms.the bible says the peace the Lord gives the world does not give John 14:27

  • @tebohomosala8346
    @tebohomosala8346 Рік тому +6

    She’s so authentic, Wow ❤

  • @nazreenlebang9193
    @nazreenlebang9193 11 місяців тому +2

    Nolo is a strong woman.God loves you. Keep pushing, you got this

  • @LephalaleTaxiAss
    @LephalaleTaxiAss Рік тому +6

    Thank you for bringing her Aus Itu❤ i enjoyed and learned so much. Salute to you Mrs Sekhupedi

  • @mosetsanawamotswana_
    @mosetsanawamotswana_ Рік тому +6

    Wow!!!!! This interview changed my whole perspective about life. Thank you so much!

    • @itumelengsekhu-pedi
      @itumelengsekhu-pedi  9 місяців тому

      Wow 🤩 this means so much to me, appreciate this so much! ❤️💐

  • @paulakats9037
    @paulakats9037 Рік тому +4

    She is literally talking about Me, when it comes to being the 1st born and the responsibilities that comes with it to trying to be a good child just to win your parents love. I have a great father I won't lie and my mom is my best friend but still feel they could've done more with me.... 😢❤

  • @portiamailula4706
    @portiamailula4706 11 місяців тому +3

    Wow........I am overwhelmed, speechless.Thank you for the interview ❤

  • @nthabisengmaluleka6630
    @nthabisengmaluleka6630 Рік тому +5

    wooed very interesting episode first time watching and I must say I'm so touched and found pieces of me in her may we all heal from the things we don't talk about and learn to love and appreciate our self's i know im not a celebrity and might not get a chance to tell my story on this show one day but watching interviews really really heals us as a nation

  • @kms708
    @kms708 Рік тому +3

    What a beautiful, soothing, and emotional interview---this will give a lot of women the strength to move out of abusive marriages. It will propell self-reflection and introspection. Thank you

  • @lehlogonolodithole3660
    @lehlogonolodithole3660 Рік тому +3

    Thank you sooo much Ausi Itu for this podcast.. It's healed some of us 🙏😘❤️💯Ausi Nolo may the good Lord give you all the strength❤

  • @sheilamoikangoa6667
    @sheilamoikangoa6667 Рік тому +4

    Thank you Nolo for being open and authentic keep inspiring and Tumi I loved this interview and i love how you make all your guest feel seen and heard. keep shining ❤

  • @UnathiRasana-me3uz
    @UnathiRasana-me3uz Рік тому +3

    😢my pain is healing through this interview
    Thank you 🙏

  • @hoppykubs1368
    @hoppykubs1368 Рік тому +6

    ITU Thank you so much for this channel..I reliazed my healing was through UA-cam on channels like yours..I've healed especially after Nestum's episode...I love you so much for this channel...I don't think a lot anymore and learnt to love myself more and more❤

  • @madamdhergirls433
    @madamdhergirls433 11 місяців тому +3

    Thank you so much for this interview. I thought I was the only one. I can relate.

  • @hlulanichauke6611
    @hlulanichauke6611 11 місяців тому +5

    This interview is an eye-opener ❤

    • @itumelengsekhu-pedi
      @itumelengsekhu-pedi  9 місяців тому

      I also learnt so much from it, Pebetsi is amazing ❤️💐

  • @ayandamagubane7211
    @ayandamagubane7211 Рік тому +3

    This is the best interview, Thank you Nolo❤

  • @ReshoketsweMthombeni
    @ReshoketsweMthombeni Рік тому +3

    This is such an exciting interview Itu! I first knew of Pebetsi when people were telling me we look alike😂 hahaha what a beauty! I wish we did! - on a serious note- what an intelligent black woman!

  • @seithatintumelangsetswanap2639
    @seithatintumelangsetswanap2639 11 місяців тому

    I am so touched by this interview and bring so much introspection. I have a best dad and mother. But being a first daughter, they both confide in me it triggered me when Nolo said she is her mother’s best friend. I’m always the fixer😢

  • @SophieN17
    @SophieN17 Рік тому +5

    Loved this interview so much.2 hours felt like 2 minutes .
    Cant wait for the book.❤❤❤

  • @faithmafishi4171
    @faithmafishi4171 Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much Pebetsi and Itu. This is powerful and healing and rebranding. God bless you my ladies. ❤

  • @nthabisengmashaba1
    @nthabisengmashaba1 Рік тому +2

    The bestest interview I have ever watched. Oooohhh my,thank you for this interview with my fave♥️🙏🏾

  • @NoloM-de4zh
    @NoloM-de4zh Місяць тому

    The host did a great job🎉🎉🎉

  • @moeketsitalane8121
    @moeketsitalane8121 Рік тому +4

    Thank you so much for this interview Itu. I learnt so much from it. Keep up the good work❤❤❤

  • @millicentmanganyi1626
    @millicentmanganyi1626 Рік тому +3

    wow, so intelligent.. i like where she says if the devil is after you there is something about you

  • @malebogolaonebakaka4463
    @malebogolaonebakaka4463 7 місяців тому

    Itu you are doing a very good job❤...just got to know.of your podcast now i don't wanna leave my computer, am loving and learning from your interviews ❤

  • @manakemanamela4462
    @manakemanamela4462 Рік тому +1

    Heartbreaking interview and learning from scars 😢 the authenticity of everything brings healing to some one 🙏 God will never leave us bcoz He knows the storms we go through
    Patiently waiting 4 the book Nolo
    ❤❤❤❤

  • @mahaseramarou
    @mahaseramarou 11 місяців тому

    This is by far the outmost best episode I have ever watched 👌💯🥰❤️oooh arghhh man!!!! This is very emotional 🥺😭 literally in tears

  • @lebogangshantel6269
    @lebogangshantel6269 8 місяців тому

    When she cried I cried 😭😭😭😭😭 yohhhhh GOD is powerful 🙏

  • @pabalelowendy9571
    @pabalelowendy9571 Рік тому +5

    Her marriage experience reminds me of the Novel “It ends with us” by Colleen Hoover. Sending you lots of love Pebetsi ❤

    • @itumelengsekhu-pedi
      @itumelengsekhu-pedi  Рік тому +1

      Eish…it’s unfortunate that she had to go through it as well but also it shows how many marriages go through such toxic marriages. We need to pray and help people through healing

    • @pabalelowendy9571
      @pabalelowendy9571 Рік тому +2

      @@itumelengsekhu-pedi I agree. It's important to offer support and empathy to those who have experienced toxic marriages. Prayer and a listening ear can go a long way in helping someone heal from these traumatic experiences. Let's continue to be there for those who need our support and guidance. Thank you for creating such a platform Itu ❤❤❤

    • @Sbosh123
      @Sbosh123 11 місяців тому +1

      @@itumelengsekhu-pediI’m currently reading the book

    • @itumelengsekhu-pedi
      @itumelengsekhu-pedi  11 місяців тому

      ❤️

  • @Miss_wandy
    @Miss_wandy 11 місяців тому +2

    This interview was life😊

  • @ayandakhanyisa1881
    @ayandakhanyisa1881 Рік тому +4

    Her birth experience brought me to tears. It sounds similar to twin birth experience. Funny, I buried that experience but my sister remembers everything n how they prayed.
    When you are there. God covers you so remain calm.
    Beautiful lady first time hearing of her, 😅

  • @carolinemothobi6100
    @carolinemothobi6100 11 місяців тому +1

    This is healing and enlightening. Thank you

  • @ongezwasonteya8543
    @ongezwasonteya8543 11 місяців тому +2

    😢😢EY i was also raised by tough love my upbringing kill my confidence but life goes on.

  • @nthabisengmaluleka6630
    @nthabisengmaluleka6630 Рік тому +1

    thank you team

  • @theeliassebolashow5942
    @theeliassebolashow5942 11 місяців тому +2

    Nolo told my story in this interview 😢

  • @nthabisengmaluleka6630
    @nthabisengmaluleka6630 Рік тому +2

    i hit the 300 likes mark just by listening to the intro... ok let me have a listen.

  • @Unfoldedwoman
    @Unfoldedwoman Рік тому +1

    I love your work Itu- What do you see!

  • @phillipinemagolego332
    @phillipinemagolego332 Рік тому

    Bathong Pebetsi you are a gem❤ wish to meet you in person❤

  • @kedimohai2612
    @kedimohai2612 Рік тому +8

    I've never been a fan of a mother being best friends with her daughter, not saying it's wrong but I feel like you burden the child with deep issues. Sometime you don't even check where the child releases the burden. Listening to Nolo shows her mother forgot she was also being abused by witnessing abuse in the home.

    • @itumelengsekhu-pedi
      @itumelengsekhu-pedi  Рік тому

      Shooooo interesting perspective…I love it 😍 thank you for sharing 🌺❤️

  • @lovedeliamotebe9820
    @lovedeliamotebe9820 Рік тому +3

    This is triggering so much, I don't think I'm gonna finish the interview😭

    • @sibongilemakganye6830
      @sibongilemakganye6830 Рік тому +2

      Same, 😢yuu issalot

    • @itumelengsekhu-pedi
      @itumelengsekhu-pedi  Рік тому +3

      Askies gorgeous ladies…God is our ultimate Healer, He’s able to heal you in ways you never thought possible. Just draw closer to Him ❤️💐🌺

  • @raesetjelebogangmanala61
    @raesetjelebogangmanala61 11 місяців тому +6

    I’m not hating, but I feel there was no need to prolong this episode, Ausi Nolo, answered everything question before you could even ask it Itu..

    • @itumelengsekhu-pedi
      @itumelengsekhu-pedi  11 місяців тому +1

      I get you, thank you for the feedback. I get you 🤩💃🏽❤️

    • @Marthashiningstar
      @Marthashiningstar 11 місяців тому +2

      Oreng mara wena

    • @raesetjelebogangmanala61
      @raesetjelebogangmanala61 11 місяців тому +2

      @@Marthashiningstar The message got delivered to the direct person.. wena etswa mo nna Assomblief.

  • @lebogang7600
    @lebogang7600 Рік тому +4

    Itu she needs to come back for her in-depth experience of the NDE she had she died for 3 minutes I've watched a lot of interviews on NDE but mostly it's not African people yes their stories are mostly the same but I want her to to explain hers what did she experience?

    • @itumelengsekhu-pedi
      @itumelengsekhu-pedi  Рік тому

      That would be lovely to find out, yes she must definitely come back 💃

  • @hoppykubs1368
    @hoppykubs1368 Рік тому

    That mark grabbed my attention 😢

  • @DmakT
    @DmakT 11 місяців тому +2

    It ends with us…..😢

  • @nthabisengmaluleka6630
    @nthabisengmaluleka6630 Рік тому +2

    functional depression.. hmm i didn't know that exited but i think i have that really how does one find out if they have it

  • @thabieretz
    @thabieretz Рік тому +3

    My girl❤❤❤❤❤

  • @MatinettEdnaTshisano
    @MatinettEdnaTshisano 11 місяців тому

    In your story I find myself

  • @Hush_A
    @Hush_A Рік тому +4

    Interview e e bohloko yoh😢

  • @kms708
    @kms708 Рік тому +3

    Is Itumeleng a psychologist?

    • @itumelengsekhu-pedi
      @itumelengsekhu-pedi  Рік тому +1

      Nope, not yet but I did Psychology as one of my majors at the University of Johannesburg, why

    • @kms708
      @kms708 Рік тому +6

      Wow, that makes sense way you interact with your guest it's so therapeutic you could make a great psychologist and help people heal.

    • @itumelengsekhu-pedi
      @itumelengsekhu-pedi  Рік тому +4

      @khutsosedibeng9789 thank you so much gorgeous…I’m busy with the process for postgrad ❤️💃🏽🍷🌺

  • @maletsatsimolefe1548
    @maletsatsimolefe1548 Рік тому

    😍😍❤️❤️

  • @mmoraka5161
    @mmoraka5161 Рік тому

  • @nomthandazomsenga2948
    @nomthandazomsenga2948 11 місяців тому

    😍😍😍