Love & Cookies 🌹 ( Babble&Bake )

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  • Опубліковано 1 сер 2017
  • talkin' about love and makin' some cookies !
    this week has been very busy for a summer vacation week, it seems like i've been working non-stop ! of course, i adore working, but this upcoming week is also insanely busy because i'm moving to california in 10 days. 10 days!!! WAH!!! TEN DAYS AHHHHHHHHHHHHHH. yall, i'm so excited. and scared. woop!
    if the next couple weeks have kinda irregular uploads, i apologize in advance. it's going to be a massive whirlwind! i can't believe i'm moving. wow.
    i love you guys so much, thank you. for literally everything. gosh. wowza.
    see u in a few days~
    -cone
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    Places to find me!
    Snapchat: @conanxcanon
    Instagram: @conangray
    Twitter: / conanxcanon
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    conangraycontact@gmail.com

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  • @lauraloveleyy8639
    @lauraloveleyy8639 7 років тому +4251

    DID SOMEONE SAY BOGOLATE BHIP BOOKIES

    • @itsjustparis
      @itsjustparis 7 років тому +172

      Laura.ren101 🅱️ogolate 🅱️hip 🅱️ookies😍👏🙏🏻😩

    • @yuan9744
      @yuan9744 7 років тому +147

      give me uhhhhh 🅱️oneless bookie

    • @okaythen-
      @okaythen- 7 років тому +28

      Laura.ren101 FUCK I WAS ABOUT TO COMMENT THIS.

    • @lotusendota3369
      @lotusendota3369 7 років тому +19

      I STARTED CRYING WHEN I READ THIS

    • @user-yp1fm5es4h
      @user-yp1fm5es4h 7 років тому +60

      can i get uhhh a 🅱️oneless 🅱️ookie wit two liter of milk

  • @bellaviagiannoni6823
    @bellaviagiannoni6823 5 років тому +861

    “CRUSH CULTURE MAKES ME WANNA SPILL MY GUTS OUT”

  • @trash-ch8hp
    @trash-ch8hp 5 років тому +578

    so this was when crush culture was born

  • @esme798
    @esme798 5 років тому +1166

    is anyone else freaking out that this video literally sounds THE EXACT SAME AS CRUSH CULTURE

  • @kimolyslager
    @kimolyslager 7 років тому +858

    "I'm more innocent than actual babies" ... "Lil' heart" MY HEART THAT WAS SO CUTE

    • @kimolyslager
      @kimolyslager 7 років тому +4

      And big hugs for you Conan, I feel like filming a video and mention that I am on my period is already too personal. Let alone the things you talk about. Really, you're so so so amazing and I'm glad you are slowly realizing that.

    • @aidanann3140
      @aidanann3140 7 років тому +1

      Kim Olyslager your channel looks so cute and you already sound wonderful!!

    • @kimolyslager
      @kimolyslager 7 років тому

      Aaaw thank you, that is so lovely! You literally made my day

    • @daltonbrooks7460
      @daltonbrooks7460 7 років тому

      your channel is my art aesthetic i love it

    • @kimolyslager
      @kimolyslager 7 років тому +1

      THANK YOU seriously omg my cheeks are turning into the colour of my hair (hahaha ginger joke i am so sorry i am dumb)

  • @mirioux675
    @mirioux675 5 років тому +512

    It's actually funny to watch this video after the release of crush culture, some words are litteraly in the song

  • @aguyaguy6236
    @aguyaguy6236 2 роки тому +29

    conan: i've never been in love
    also conan: *writes the most heartbreaking songs in the entire universe*

  • @l00srr12
    @l00srr12 5 років тому +193

    Conan: love
    Literally everyone: ɔɾ∪ƨh ɔ∪∟†∪ɾə

  • @lulutrotter
    @lulutrotter 7 років тому +164

    Conan's probably the realist person I've ever seen. He doesn't sugarcoat anything, but he does it in a way that isn't agressive or offensive. He lets us know that he has his days too and how long it took him to progress to the state which he is in now. He knows what we've all been through and gives the best advice on how we can get better. I can confidently say that after watching Conan and other positive influences, my life has became better and look forward to more videos discussing topics such as this💖

  • @JohnPierron
    @JohnPierron 7 років тому +2180

    It's okay Cone, I've never been in a relationship either. And I'm sure a ton of us here in the comments haven't either. WE ARE IN THIS TOGETHER

    • @chloe7046
      @chloe7046 7 років тому +8

      John Pierron YAAAAAS

    • @randa9113
      @randa9113 7 років тому +31

      John Pierron squad of innocent babiess 🌹

    • @TRUETOILETTENPAPIER
      @TRUETOILETTENPAPIER 7 років тому +12

      John Pierron it's so nice to know I'm not alone!

    • @n7o7v7a
      @n7o7v7a 7 років тому +10

      Yesss lonely babies unite!

    • @hilalaslan3110
      @hilalaslan3110 7 років тому +4

      YELL HEAH

  • @jax5502
    @jax5502 4 роки тому +79

    "i think im pretty cool so im just gonna do whatever i want"
    -conan gray
    the iconic statement of the century

  • @loganriley990
    @loganriley990 7 років тому +301

    I have so much love for this human

    • @discodeus
      @discodeus 7 років тому +1

      Logan Riley same

  • @shaeley7337
    @shaeley7337 7 років тому +470

    Babble and Bake needs to become a Netflix series so I can binge watch all the videos and binge eat all the recipes.

    • @cinnacassie
      @cinnacassie 6 років тому

      shayyy righttttt

    • @djr8939
      @djr8939 5 років тому

      sis they’re just chocolate chip cookies

  • @aspenricca
    @aspenricca 7 років тому +115

    his camera angles are so perfect I feel like I am sitting at that table making cookies with conan

  • @lampardkipler7413
    @lampardkipler7413 7 років тому +809

    why aren't there more youtubers like conan and less like jake paul 😫

  • @s.o.3647
    @s.o.3647 7 років тому +187

    i'm 18 too and never dated anyone. although i admittedly do sometimes (a lot of the time) crave romance, i am okay with being single. for one, i generally don't believe in dating for the sake of dating, i would only want to aim for a long-term partnership - so far i don't know anyone who i would want to be with like that lol.
    furthermore, i get what you're saying about feeling like you've missed out on something, but i don't let it bother me. if i didn't learn the things i would've learned then, i either actually did learn them in a different way or i will learn them on my own/in non-romantic relationships/in an adult relationship someday. no need to rush. you constantly learn new things about yourself, with or without teenage relationships. the pressure is so silly!!

    • @Jo_anna896
      @Jo_anna896 7 років тому +9

      I'm in a really similiar situation. I can't see the purpose of dating just to date. I want to be in a meaningful relationship with a person I know I want to spend my whole life. So I can't understand why people get into a relationship when they only "like" each other. Because of that I can't imagine me with someone dating, but I can easily imagine myself as idk wife. Like I don't really crave for super romantic dates, bumping heart and all-time blushing. I want someone who will be just by my side and I could feel comfortable with him.
      To be honest I'm scared to start something, even though I found this special someone, because the whole process of dating scares me

    • @sifra3710
      @sifra3710 6 років тому

      S. O. P

  • @lydiatan
    @lydiatan 7 років тому +170

    9:50 "They're so...'heart-y'"
    conan I see u. It was pretty smooth, dough

  • @JustNicole6400
    @JustNicole6400 7 років тому +87

    Dear Conan,
    I'm about to be a senior in college and I still haven't dated anyone. Don't let anyone pressure you into thinking being single is a bad thing. Loving yourself can be just as beautiful as loving someone else

  • @markjohnson8709
    @markjohnson8709 7 років тому +312

    *secretly waiting for the chocolate chip cookie recipe*

    • @mingissi
      @mingissi 5 років тому +2

      same 😭

    • @lartist2751
      @lartist2751 4 роки тому +7

      Min Min it’s in the ash and cone cooking show

  • @kurt-um9dg
    @kurt-um9dg 4 роки тому +50

    **crush culture screaming in the distance**

  • @ava9949
    @ava9949 7 років тому +758

    Dont worry cone ur not alone we are getting married

    • @lilvi5656
      @lilvi5656 7 років тому +33

      Ava Brennan me and conan are gonna have a no homo marriage because i'm 100% not gay but conan is hot and s nice person no homo

    • @vandilore
      @vandilore 7 років тому +55

      gay boii your name and your comment have conflicting information

    • @bella-fq9fm
      @bella-fq9fm 7 років тому +7

      your name and comment contradict eachother

    • @mugomogu2379
      @mugomogu2379 7 років тому +12

      guys.....i think maybe, just maybe, gay boi was joking

    • @bella-fq9fm
      @bella-fq9fm 7 років тому +19

      yes i know, i was joking too. sarcasm doesn't show well on the internet. still a lesson i'm trying to learn.

  • @despoinakaratzi6509
    @despoinakaratzi6509 7 років тому +691

    dont worry conan, ive never been in a relationship before too and im 17, ive never kissed someone before too, its okay. It is gonna come and its gonna be great. No need to hurry right

    • @athanasia222
      @athanasia222 7 років тому

      despoina hd ακριβώς

    • @despoinakaratzi6509
      @despoinakaratzi6509 7 років тому

      Penelope San Diego parakseno na vriskw ellhnes sta comm haha

    • @athanasia222
      @athanasia222 7 років тому

      despoina hd 🤗

    • @diochu2163
      @diochu2163 7 років тому +6

      Same, I feel so inexperienced because my bestfriend got her first kiss when she was 12 and it was with her crush lmao

    • @jintefrederix7382
      @jintefrederix7382 7 років тому +2

      despoina hd thank god that I'm not the only one!😅

  • @aprilp649
    @aprilp649 7 років тому +233

    Conan: who needs love when you have cookies
    Aquamarine:
    [eating Ben and Jerry ice cream] Who needs Raymond? I found two new men to love... Their names are Ben and Jerry!

    • @zaiikapetya5239
      @zaiikapetya5239 7 років тому +1

      what video is this?

    • @aprilp649
      @aprilp649 7 років тому +1

      CHOSENPAGE aquamarine is a movie 😀

    • @crystalball7993
      @crystalball7993 6 років тому

      😂😂💕💕

    • @jenibella1466
      @jenibella1466 6 років тому +2

      oh my gosh i love aquamarine. i love you for making this reference ahh

    • @emmam8539
      @emmam8539 5 років тому +1

      i freaking love that movie

  • @womenitrust
    @womenitrust 5 років тому +70

    CRUSH CULTURE MAKES ME WANNA SPILL MY GUTS

  • @angelinazaza1497
    @angelinazaza1497 7 років тому +454

    alright so today i was feeling pretty sad because of problems with food and weight and self hate so naturally i was crying on the floor but i got a lil notification that u posted so i clicked and i feel so much better like?? the topic and my situation? You are my favorite human being thank you so much for existing in general ily

    • @angelinazaza1497
      @angelinazaza1497 7 років тому +2

      this probably makes no sense but my point is thank you

    • @brunnameirelles6036
      @brunnameirelles6036 7 років тому +5

      you are pretty, and you deserve to love yourself. wishing u all the love

    • @alexadiaz6296
      @alexadiaz6296 7 років тому +8

      i'm in the same exact situation but don't worry girly it's all going to get better! stay strong beautiful!

    • @Naturegirl135
      @Naturegirl135 7 років тому +5

      me too, conan is somehow always there when i need him to be

    • @myja100
      @myja100 7 років тому +2

      Angelina Zaza all the luck, love and best positive wishes! If you ever need to talk, please don't hesitate to ask!

  • @annabellegao
    @annabellegao 7 років тому +421

    people keep saying oooh no wonder cone's Polaroid has so many stickers it's not his and I'm like wait what HAHA WHAT DID YOU DO TO IT ITS DECKED OUT HAHA

  • @totoLP100
    @totoLP100 6 років тому +112

    CONE YOU ARE A RELIEF, I was literally really sad just now thinking about how I've never kissed everyone, never had sex, no one has ever noticed me... It's such a relief to know somebody else my age (you are two years older lol) that hasn't had these "defining experiences" yet. I am a bit the oppossite though, I crave love a lot, whether it is friendship or romantic love I have always been a very lovey person. It's not so much that I feel like I missed out it's a lot more about the pressure everyone puts on your shoulders to have this experiences. I don't know, it's nice to see I am not the only one who feels like a kid in a world of young adults ready for thesw things.

  • @eren9055
    @eren9055 4 роки тому +22

    this video is basically the crush culture origin story

  • @magdeliarnstrom1351
    @magdeliarnstrom1351 7 років тому +148

    One important thing we should remember; Just because you don't love yourself doesn't mean other can't. I think too many of us think that way and that is so WRONG and toxic. You're all beautiful and even if you can't love yourself, somebody else will.

    • @petrag8
      @petrag8 7 років тому +6

      magdeli hm that's so sweet and I think you're right cause there are people who will never fully love themselves and they deserve to be in a relationship as well!

    • @haileygallinari3264
      @haileygallinari3264 7 років тому +9

      you're right but at the end of the day, it's just you and yourself and you deserve to love yourself. you don't want to go out searching for love cause it just leads to hurt and disappointment.

    • @aleynamutlu1111
      @aleynamutlu1111 7 років тому

      Noone can love me.

    • @frankie1984
      @frankie1984 5 років тому

      yeah I agree and disagree at the same time, I believe that you should love yourself first before letting other people love you cause at the end of the day you will always have yourself

  • @owoahkay8746
    @owoahkay8746 7 років тому +130

    Love: a word that's hard to understand, but easy to feel

    • @izzy460
      @izzy460 7 років тому +1

      Hi My favourite UA-camr True

    • @nathaliej3768
      @nathaliej3768 7 років тому +1

      Hi My favourite UA-camr amen sister

    • @piapot2115
      @piapot2115 7 років тому +8

      yet mysterious and beautiful and scary at the same time

    • @merten9298
      @merten9298 7 років тому +1

      Hi My favourite UA-camr kanna

    • @elkebiesendorfer3961
      @elkebiesendorfer3961 7 років тому +1

      ok mr shakespeare hah

  • @bellaf9150
    @bellaf9150 7 років тому +65

    Don't worry cone, if you don't find someone, we can get married.

  • @madelyngallier9943
    @madelyngallier9943 7 років тому +11

    5:51 "look at my cookies" OML YOURE TOO PRECIOUS

  • @giannapaloma
    @giannapaloma 7 років тому +141

    I've been binge watching your videos while doing some art journal-ing and it's been so lovely, just listening to you talk while drawing is soooo relaxing 💗

  • @teeayeuu1692
    @teeayeuu1692 7 років тому +151

    I used to hate the way I looked, the way my body was shaped and just the body I inhabited wasn't the real one. I have been working on accepting it and helping myself get to the point where I can look in the mirror and see that it is me. I have accepted that I'm not going to be the "ideal woman" my mother wants me to be. I like wearing a more tomboy style and if that "makes you look like a boy" oh well. I know I'm not, I am a girl but the way I dress to make myself comfortable isn't going to affect you or your image. I dress for myself. I have no one to impress in my daily life. I am liking who I am in the mirror now. I wear baggy tshirt a and skinny jeans. I have my hair short and like dad hats. I prefer bare face over makeup. I am still happy with who I am.

    • @floraballot4254
      @floraballot4254 7 років тому +1

      Auszi yes!! Acceptance of ones self has been a problem for todays society and im proud of you for you doing so yourself!! 💕

    • @jamilcharles9159
      @jamilcharles9159 7 років тому

      Auszi preach!

    • @laurenonhertravels
      @laurenonhertravels 7 років тому +1

      Auszi AMAZING

    • @marialvarez7954
      @marialvarez7954 7 років тому

      i simply laugh at my mom and get to poke her back by saying" well im your boy so you better appreciate it",, i love my style- gendered clothing doesn't exist xD and if someone wants to say it does; My opinion= it doesn't :D

    • @R3yr3yproductions
      @R3yr3yproductions 7 років тому +1

      Auszi exactly.

  • @finalfinalfinal
    @finalfinalfinal 5 років тому +26

    okay yall im gonna be honest i miss this show so much, its been a long time since he did this kind of video. im absolutely proud of him for getting recognizion but i hella miss this era at the same time

    • @stardolphin783
      @stardolphin783 3 роки тому +4

      Same. Im just glad he didnt take them down

    • @zoyasaqib8994
      @zoyasaqib8994 2 роки тому +1

      @@stardolphin783 yeah same

    • @mimaansa3521
      @mimaansa3521 2 роки тому +1

      Yes I completely agree

    • @lizzymcg13
      @lizzymcg13 Рік тому +1

      yeah i miss these so much but i’m also proud of how much he’s grown

  • @gh0ulm4id73
    @gh0ulm4id73 4 роки тому +23

    4:47 - and Crush Culture was born

  • @byrmojoh4266
    @byrmojoh4266 7 років тому +35

    *To love myself* I think of little kid version of me and of how I would love and shelter that person if they sat in front of me now. Knowing what they will go through, knowing that it won't be easy but they are not to blame for it because they are just this pure little kid who will try their best to learn to grow up in their surroundings and then the world. Sometimes it will feel like they fail to and they will feel miserable, but that's how it's going to be for every little kid. It means that they, as all children, deserve as much support and acceptance and love as is possible.
    It's easy to love a kid, never forget that you (and everyone around you) where a kid too and even though you grew up, that kid never left. So love them still, love yourself. ♥️🌾

    • @zahrakurlova6504
      @zahrakurlova6504 7 років тому +1

      Byrmojoh it saddened me knowing that little did my younger self know she will get depressed and all that bad things

  • @babynica13
    @babynica13 7 років тому +220

    I've always been someone constantly having a crush on someone until I was 13. At that age, I had my first kiss with a boy and now I'm 18 and I still can't get over him. He and I have a love and hate relationship. We barely talk. Like, he greets me on holidays and we talk for weeks then never hear from the other again until one of us texts (usually me as I am a fucking clingy annoying human being). Recently we talked about being friends with benefits and oh, boy.. this just made thing quite worst as I am clearly utterly in love with him and he, well, i don't really know what he wants. We once had a conv and I told him that I was mentally attracted to him, like we could talk for hours like we usually do (now it's a "did" bc we started not talking again) but he didn't attracted me physically and he told me that he was attracted to me in both ways. (What I told him was not so nice but our level of confidence is high enough to be that brutally honest) However, when I randomly asked him why some people don't get into relationships he said "as for me, it's bc i don't need it" but like..if you're attracted to me in both ways, why don't we try?? Obviously, I never asked him explicitly to be his girlfriend bc 1. that would increase his ego 2. I don't know how he would react (i know i have to risk but im too scared) and here's my " love " story. Thank you for reading this (if anyone is reading this). Bless you 💖

    • @manya2954
      @manya2954 7 років тому +6

      tbh yes I'd say the same. ofc you love him and the friends with benefits idea, if you don't like it because of too much physical and less emotional connections, then would there really be meaning in dragging out your confusion and pain? he doesn't sound like someone who'd outwardly tell you he liked you, and I personally would say, go for it. it'll be worth so much less if you don't and both of you carry your feelings in a dissatisfied area till they fade. hope it all goes well ✨

    • @babynica13
      @babynica13 7 років тому +3

      Manya Gupta however it's hard to deal with narcissistic people who deep down are insecure as he is. I'm not saying i wouldn't do it bc i would definitely would but I overthink and i worry about his reaction. He is quite lunatic and God only knows what he would say in case I confessed my feelings. Then, aren't we too different people? Like I said before we barely talk or HE barely texts me, he barely texts anyone actually..He is like that and I can't change that. But that does not meet with my necessities as I am guilty of being panicky and anxious and I tend to always be protective of my loved ones and therefore I NEED to keep in touch with them. One last thing before you get tired of my drama, how do I approach him? Like, do I let him know that this "barely talking" bothers me or act like i don't care and chill? Thank you for your response 🙌🏼

    • @DanielaRodriguez-ry7vd
      @DanielaRodriguez-ry7vd 7 років тому +3

      Romelyn Toledo I think you should be honest with him. If it's something that's constantly in the back of your mind, it's best to tell him and see what happens. That's just my opinion. I hope all goes well.

    • @manya2954
      @manya2954 7 років тому +3

      hi sorry for not replying!! didn't see the notif. his current communication type sounds like something you're not compatible with. if you do love him, i'd say either you cut it off to make it stop hurting OR actually confess, because if you dont it won't change anyways. but do take my advice with a grain of salt, it all comes down to what feels right - just don't forget to take care of yourself too and remember what'll be important later xx

  • @matcha8865
    @matcha8865 6 років тому +11

    “Who needs love when you have cookies?”

  • @mr.samadook8832
    @mr.samadook8832 7 років тому +63

    IF YOU CANT LOVE YOURSELF HOW THE HELLL U GONNA LOVE SOMEBODY ELSE, CAN I GET AN AMEN UP IN HERE?!?¡

  • @soph3mai
    @soph3mai 7 років тому +46

    relationCHIP cookies. nice.

  • @hannahbagarino7436
    @hannahbagarino7436 7 років тому +177

    *the world famous cooking show extraordinare...babble & bake*
    So cute ugh

    • @avakova2836
      @avakova2836 7 років тому +3

      RAP MON

    • @kenziec859
      @kenziec859 7 років тому +2

      hannah rhino AHAHA I LOVE YOUR PROFILE PIC AND I KNOW, CONAN IS ADORABLE

    • @kyrstn
      @kyrstn 7 років тому +2

      lol yes (also hello fellow army

    • @Marie-yj5gd
      @Marie-yj5gd 7 років тому +2

      crack kookie JHOEEEEEE AINT GOT NO NOEEEE

  • @aidynstruck9510
    @aidynstruck9510 6 років тому +18

    I'm in a relationship currently. It has probably saved my life. It has taught me to view myself in a higher light. He is my best friend. It is one of the best relationships (friendship or romantic) that I've ever had in my life.

  • @wilburgeorge6690
    @wilburgeorge6690 3 роки тому +15

    I miss when he did these. Now he's on the radio

  • @ButeraMoonlight
    @ButeraMoonlight 7 років тому +28

    You stand out, in a good way. You don't have to jump on this bandwagon being in a relationship. You being yourself with your music career is what makes YOU Conan

  • @jayeful6564
    @jayeful6564 7 років тому +693

    It's raining 💧
    I'm watching conan 🌺
    ( *BEST DAY EVER!* )

    • @cliqueasfrick-9122
      @cliqueasfrick-9122 7 років тому +2

      ah same it's a good day~

    • @bella-ut7jr
      @bella-ut7jr 7 років тому +2

      SAME

    • @MelinaENJ
      @MelinaENJ 7 років тому +4

      Noodle Paege its 107 FREAKING DEGREES OUTSIDE and I'm watching Conan

    • @lovekillaaa9441
      @lovekillaaa9441 7 років тому

      Melina Jacklet same

    • @viSammy
      @viSammy 7 років тому +1

      Clique As Frick |-/ im on a megabus
      and watching conan. uhhh...

  • @drueodin5613
    @drueodin5613 5 років тому +9

    who even needs love when you have cookies

  • @xiaoyuwang6984
    @xiaoyuwang6984 2 роки тому +2

    Watching your videos makes me getting better at loving myself... Thanks Conan

  • @roxannecubero4706
    @roxannecubero4706 7 років тому +237

    ah i usually don't share stories about my love life to complete strangers because it's such an exhausting journey (and so far, not a lot of people have), but i think that talking about it definitely helps with understanding why things happened the way they did. i've had three boyfriends: the first threatened to kill himself if i didn't break up with my (then) current boyfriend, the second barely talked to me but gave me twenty dollars to barnes & noble on christmas (with the perfect christmas card to this date), and the third was...a whirlwind. the third was my longest relationship, and it bridged the end of the middle school to almost the end of freshman year. (i'm a rising senior, and i haven't had a boyfriend or almost-boyfriend since.) when i was with him, i thought i was madly in love and i did things that i would have never done if i didn't have someone egging me on. (very much like conan, i am a very pure child in body and mind and spirit, excluding the things that i did when i was with him.) but when i was with him, i found that i had distanced myself from my friends and that i was focused on my love life rather than my education. when we broke up (we didn't go to the same high school), i was so heartbroken that it practically took over my life. even into sophomore year, i'd go to his school's football games, hoping to see him there. after a while, i (sort of) made peace with the fact that he was no longer mine, i found someone else to focus my energy on. this was someone that was practically the opposite of my ex: perfect and pure in every conceivable way. but it was the same, unhealthy obsession/crush to distract myself (from what? i don't really know). throughout high school (so far), i've let my hopeless romantic tendencies to take over my life and distract myself from achieving academic goals. i've somehow managed to maintain a 4.0 gpa, but i'm terribly unhappy. my ex now has a new girlfriend (who used to be my best friend in middle school, but started disliking me one day), and she had him block me on all social media. (he already had me blocked on twitter because i'm extremely liberal while he is extremely conservative; we had a huge argument on election night, which is another story for another comment section.) i've had time to separate myself from him and enjoy my life as a single woman surrounded by supportive and positive people. a couple of weeks ago, he contacted me, asking to talk and clear things. we did, and i explicitly told him that my life was better without him in it. he told me that he was happy that i was happy; i said the same thing to him. a couple of days ago, he texted me, but i didn't text back. a day later, he unblocked me on instagram and snapchat and followed and added me, respectively. i didn't reciprocate. i briefly thought of doing so, but i knew that i am still fragile and fickle and i could easily fall into the same trap as earlier. (which is not how i want to start senior year.) i decided that, he chose to leave my life, so i get to choose if i let him back in. for a long time, i used to hate him. but i've recently began on a journey of becoming my best self, and i have made it a goal not to hold any hate for anyone in my heart. as dodie said in her veda video yesterday, why should you feel pain and jealousy and hurt towards someone you used to love? so i no longer feel hate towards him, but i do love myself more to know that he is no longer a positive force in my life. i feel as though romantic relationships are important; but i think pop culture has sensationalized the idea of teenage love. in my last year of high school, i'm going to try my best to forge new platonic friendships, because i think those are of utmost importance in high school. romantic love is a force that cannot be reckoned with, and it's a thing that can't be forced. when it's time, it's time. if it's meant to be, then it will be. i don't necessarily regret having a romantic relationship, but i do regret that it took over my life the way it did. if you made it to the end of this, bless you. thank you for taking time to read this and letting me spill my heart to you, i hope you have a great day.

    • @renee_6974
      @renee_6974 7 років тому +18

      i love your way of seeing things, thank you so much for sharing your story

    • @emilyburgos6307
      @emilyburgos6307 7 років тому +2

      roxanne cubero this really made me rethink things. thanks for sharing!

    • @emilykinnon3918
      @emilykinnon3918 7 років тому +3

      I love this comment so much. You expressed everything so perfectly and thanks for sharing! I've also been watching Dodie's Veda💛

    • @xRandomHousex
      @xRandomHousex 7 років тому +1

      roxanne cubero thank you for sharing this!! :)

    • @lildandelionlily
      @lildandelionlily 7 років тому +3

      roxanne cubero everyone makes mistakes in everything. don't hold yourself accountable for how others treated you. it's healthy to break off relationships if they are making you feel bad about yourself. you seem like such a sweet girl. sometimes it's good to wait but keep yourself open. break off all ties with ex's is my huge tip.

  • @horaciodelgado2923
    @horaciodelgado2923 7 років тому +211

    So today is August second and I am going to be a night grader in a couple weeks. I am freaking out to the point that I was shaking because i I'm really affected by the words of others. Then there's people like Conan who make me feel better. So one day i want to as strong or even stronger than Conan. Thank you Conan for being someone that inspires me and that helps me through tough times💕

    • @taylorroy401
      @taylorroy401 7 років тому +6

      Horacio Delgado as someone who is going to be a senior in high school this year, I can tell you from experience that high school is not as bad as you think it is. most people don't care to talk about others, just bc they just don't care that much of what's going on in random people's lives. Is there still gossip? Yes. Is it as bad and scary as it seems? No. As long as you're not doing something wild like meeting Beyoncé or driving a Mercedes to school, most people won't talk about you in a bad way or at all sometimes.

    • @marialvarez7954
      @marialvarez7954 7 років тому +2

      honestly people will say what they want, but they are just strangers- what makes you nervous is that you might see those people everyday. might as well get to know em :D and if it doesnt work out, then thats fine- choose people who choose you, and have fun. highschool is fun if you choose to have fun ;)

    • @horaciodelgado2923
      @horaciodelgado2923 7 років тому +1

      Taylor Roy this make me feel so much better and I don't think you know how grateful I am for you reply. Thank you so much for your advice and I know all you wrote is a couple sentences, but it really help me. Thank you💕

    • @lilydonae3187
      @lilydonae3187 7 років тому

      coming from someone who just finished freshman year; it's not as bad as it's made out to be. i had a very fun experience (though i highly recommend you focus on your classes, i didn't do that as much as i needed and it hurt) and also have learned valuable life lessons. im sure you'll do alright, theres no need to fret. don't overwork yourself and just have a good time, make new friends and have new experiences. it'll be worth it

    • @horaciodelgado2923
      @horaciodelgado2923 7 років тому +1

      lia donae Thank you as well. Now I feel beyond brave and now I'm finally not nervous and I know that everything will be fine. I will not die, life will still go one but I will still have bad days and good days. This is day had been one of the best because I have gotten so much advice. Thank you💕💕

  • @lazymajou
    @lazymajou 6 років тому +8

    I've never been in romantic relationship as well. But I've never craved it to tell the truth. I was always like "I'm better off alone", couse relationships need a lot of work and I simply don't really have it. It's not like I dont want to be with someone ever but I don't want it now.
    Instead I was trying to self-improve, to find out who I am, what I want to do in life, to become the person I want to be, to do what I love. Most of my friends are in relationships, they drink, go to the parties, some smoke. Me on the other hand - i don't like parties or alcohol. I've missed most of my hs activities, because I don't really like my class and I mostly stay at home and learn, read or draw.
    There are also some ppl that are telling me all the time that I'm wasting my life - but I pretty much like it. So I'm just doing what I like.
    --
    Sorry for bad English - it's not my native language.

  • @floraballot4254
    @floraballot4254 6 років тому +7

    so far, in my 16 years of life, i too havent had experience in feeling love. sure, i love my family and my ‘guilty pleasure’ shows but apparently that isnt what love is. growing up i didnt exactly know what love meant because i have heard it in many ways of saying it. my experience with self love isnt exactly as healthy as most but im learning and things take a while for my to get in the habit of. i dont kno where all this really came from i guess i dont talk about love very often

  • @kimmardi1113
    @kimmardi1113 7 років тому +29

    Honestly thank you so much for talking about never being in a relationship and stuff. Right now it's kind of thought of as WERID if you've never had a kiss or date before at your age and a bit of pressure , but that's such bullshit it's completely normal even celebrities have said that they never kissed anyone till their twenties
    So thanks for talking about it

  • @jayeful6564
    @jayeful6564 7 років тому +22

    CONAN: "i felt like talking-"
    Me: *talks 24/7*
    "SAME!"

  • @judy981
    @judy981 7 років тому +129

    how ironic that this video about love came out yesterday when the guy I like got a girlfriend :/

    • @sofooiaa
      @sofooiaa 7 років тому +12

      im so sorry girl

    • @judy981
      @judy981 7 років тому +7

      thanks. it's all good tho❤️

    • @aleynamutlu1111
      @aleynamutlu1111 7 років тому +12

      fuck him mate its his fault for not recognizing your love for him.

    • @seignee
      @seignee 6 років тому +8

      Aleyna Mutlu _but don't actually fuck him tho_

    • @chelseaezibe4765
      @chelseaezibe4765 5 років тому +1

      Lo siento

  • @thememoryguardians
    @thememoryguardians 6 років тому +5

    I can relate to this SO MUCH Conan. My friends are getting engaged and having babies and I haven't experienced any sort of relationship.
    But we have something that they don't have and that is time for self development. Of course you grow (no pun intended) in a relationship too but people that have the chance to spend time alone in life - especially when they're young - are able to develop and truly discover and create themselves as an individual which is priceless.

  • @vanessar3017
    @vanessar3017 7 років тому +121

    I'm in high school, and an asexual with no desire to have any romantic or sexual relationships, so I don't necessarily feel like i'm missing out on anything. But I can only vouch for myself. I feel like there's this pressure to go out on dates and make out with everyone during high school that makes some people feel ashamed of not doing any of the above. I hate that it's just expected of you, and that romantic/sexual love is supposed to be compulsory...? I did take a little offence to conan saying he felt like a robot because he's never been in love. In a way it is hard to exist rn without being in love or being in a relationship- but please remember that it's totally fine to not be interested in anyone or have a significant other. To my fellow high schoolers, it's okay to not be in a relationship! There is absolutely nothing wrong about not experiencing the whole "crazy high school love" aspect of school.

    • @aleynamutlu1111
      @aleynamutlu1111 7 років тому +4

      YAY met another person who is asexual!

    • @0bsidi4n42
      @0bsidi4n42 6 років тому

      Mundane Mess oh my gosh yesss! Asexuals unite!

    • @bunnydream3750
      @bunnydream3750 6 років тому

      im aromantic asexual and i feel the same way!! thanks for speaking out, it’s good to know people feel the same way

    • @peerlesspotato1755
      @peerlesspotato1755 6 років тому +2

      You’re completely right. As a bisexual while I think being in love and loving someone is something nice to have, I am not worried about pursuing anyone in HS or getting into a relationship that my friends say feels wonderful. When the feelings come they come, and when they don’t they don’t, and if I happen to be single forever that’s perfectly fine. No one should be defined by their relationship status or the amount of times they’ve been in love

    • @marih9771
      @marih9771 6 років тому

      asexual group awe yes

  • @jackiecohern8254
    @jackiecohern8254 7 років тому +55

    my thoughts on love for me is that for the times that iv shown affection for another person romantically, they had always didnt like me that way. my friends, however always had the good luck side of things and always had a person like them back. I keep loving because i know i don't want to push away the real people that love me but i mostly have bad luck with loving

    • @marialvarez7954
      @marialvarez7954 7 років тому +1

      fam, same *cries*// hahaha i do the same thing but i figured i just love love, so i just keep er' goin~

    • @kiera_g
      @kiera_g 7 років тому

      WonderKitten this is exactly how i feel.

    • @sleepypeachy416
      @sleepypeachy416 7 років тому +1

      WonderKitten I felt that way for such a long time, you always like the other person more than they like you. But there is always someone. Like, it will shock you how much they like you. It kinda comes when you're not looking for it.

    • @jackiecohern8254
      @jackiecohern8254 7 років тому

      Sleepy Peachy thank you that means alot

  • @antonio-qq5vl
    @antonio-qq5vl 7 років тому +2

    Don't worry Cone! You are a beautiful person with a wonderful adorable personality. You are very unique and you are loved by me. You inspire me so much! Soon love will find its way to you. Take care💕

  • @teatime7116
    @teatime7116 5 років тому +20

    I learn to be less naive
    A long time ago I was with an other boy (im a boy too)
    and he was
    not ok
    at all
    but I was so in love with him that I wasnt able to see how much he was destroying every little part of my existence
    He was manipulative
    and he dumped for a girl he was dating at the same time as me.
    I was so scared of being in a gay relationship for the first time
    I was so insecure
    And like Conan said 2 years ago now I dont need to hate myself
    but I started hating myself 'cause that guy wasn't ok with me
    I started hating myself so much that I stop everything
    I even tried to kill myself
    And now
    im 16 and im with a beautiful boy named Oliver and I love him so much
    I took the decision to stop being constantly depressed and actually do things that I love
    Because living with that amazing person is the only thing that I want in my life
    and I know that im only 16 or whatever
    but what I learned from that is that:
    if people are making fun of you
    abusing you
    telling you that what you do for fun is stupid or not worth it
    then leave
    because that person doesn't deserve you. at all.
    because you're amazing
    and you dont need more negativity in your life.
    So just be in love for someone that love you for who you are, not because they are pretty cool and shit
    (I know that video is old and that Conan is probably never going to see my comment but whatever
    people need to know I think
    my first language is french btw
    im sorry if I made so mistake )

    • @ellie91059
      @ellie91059 4 роки тому +2

      Are you still with him? x

    • @zoyasaqib8994
      @zoyasaqib8994 2 роки тому +1

      dw, ur english was perfect, and im very happy that you're with someone who loves u for u, ur amazing, and im so proud of u.

    • @mimaansa3521
      @mimaansa3521 2 роки тому

      You deserve everything you want✨✨ keep going

    • @mimaansa3521
      @mimaansa3521 2 роки тому

      @@ellie91059 I wanna know too lmao

  • @terraleona334
    @terraleona334 7 років тому +66

    Im going to high school in 2 months so no boy-girl(friend) stuff but I did have 2 "best" friends and I think its simmilar.
    *If you dont love yourself nobody will
    *If you disrespect yourself everyone else will to
    *Your first relationship will most likely end but dont think about that, have a great time and learn something from it
    *dont date someone just beacuse everyone is doing it, do it beacuse you really like someone
    THAT ARE MY ADVICES

    • @hotpinkinthenight
      @hotpinkinthenight 7 років тому +8

      im not sure if that's what people mean when they say that? i interpret it as 'you should always try to love yourself before someone else can, even if you don't succeed'. it's just worded harshly. i think too many people think that someone else loving them will fix their problems, which isnt fair on anyone. waiting for someone else to love you isnt an excuse to stop trying to love yourself, yknow?

  • @PopcanStudio
    @PopcanStudio 7 років тому +102

    yooo annabelle and conan with the timed videos these dayssss !! ❤️❤️

    • @mariumahmad3355
      @mariumahmad3355 7 років тому +2

      Eunicorn yaaa i noticed toooo

    • @PopcanStudio
      @PopcanStudio 7 років тому +2

      marium ahmad i love ittt ❤️❤️

  • @varahiprashant2573
    @varahiprashant2573 5 років тому +12

    "I'm more innocent then actual babies."

  • @annac8112
    @annac8112 7 років тому

    I absolutely love all of ur vids!! every single one makes my day so much brighter!!

  • @maybelinesanchez4063
    @maybelinesanchez4063 7 років тому +100

    You're the cutest little bean around!!

    • @colemiller8245
      @colemiller8245 7 років тому

      Maybeline Marie don’t steal my comment 😡😡👋🏻👋🏻👋🏻🙄🙄🙄🤧

  • @JohnPierron
    @JohnPierron 7 років тому +81

    I WENT ON MY FIRST DATE EVER YESTERDAY AND IT WAS TRAGIC. No worries, there's not much to look forward to honestly andnsnsnsnsbx

  • @r3giancy
    @r3giancy 6 років тому

    this speaks to me so much ! I love how we can all just relate and be in this together , thanks for that cone.

  • @myaneptune7682
    @myaneptune7682 7 років тому

    These Babble&Bake vids are awesome, please keep doing them! It's really inspirational, hearing you talk about your thoughts and about life, and the baking at the same time-that's a sweet bonus~ I love your vids!

  • @Orchidroot
    @Orchidroot 7 років тому +19

    *Conan is about to eat the dough*
    UA-cam: PERFECT! TIME FOR AD

  • @bpdstare
    @bpdstare 7 років тому +8

    I want to assure you, the amazing hard work you put into your education is extremely valuable. Besides, you have amazing beautiful friends who are always there for you.

  • @gutsyrookie915
    @gutsyrookie915 6 років тому

    I just love how you always remind your viewers that you are not as perfect as your channel makes it seem.
    It's important because sometimes that's easy to forget. Love you, conan, and your whole genuine human-ness. 😭

  • @beyzab.326
    @beyzab.326 5 років тому

    I can't explain how proud i am of you. And how much i enjoy listening to u talking abt various topics and how most of them are so relatable! You really are a special human being ❤

  • @user-vm7bx2lz4w
    @user-vm7bx2lz4w 7 років тому +8

    OMG YESSSS CONAN same same same!!!! Sometimes I would feel bad about it, but I also prefer to prioritize my work ahead of relationships. I know it's not that great, but being 17 it is the only time in my life to really do good in my career. I have the rest of my life to find love💗💗💗

  • @sabaherraoui8669
    @sabaherraoui8669 7 років тому +26

    Conan deserves the world but the world doesn't deserve Conan

  • @elenamabi
    @elenamabi Місяць тому +1

    Grazie per aver girato questo video. Sono passati anni da quando lo hai registrato ma ascoltare quello che hai detto mi ha aiutato tantissimo! Ti voglio bene e ti seguo con affetto 💗

  • @evex3160
    @evex3160 7 років тому

    i can't believe how much i relate to you and how much hearing your experiences and being able to compare them to myself eases me!! self love has been a tough journey for me but it's so wonderful at the end of the day. love you cone, thank you for being actually an angel

  • @beatriza.4626
    @beatriza.4626 7 років тому +33

    This video is so good

  • @yassinlmiri5368
    @yassinlmiri5368 7 років тому +13

    Boy, you bring peace to my ears🌌

  • @all6662
    @all6662 7 років тому

    it makes me happy that you got to genuinely love and appreciate yourself, it is a beautiful thing

  • @amycassidy4998
    @amycassidy4998 7 років тому

    I've only just found this channel and I'm already in love , Conan you seem like such a amazing person and I've literally spent my afternoon binge watching your videos. The comment section is so positive and just really lifting and has put me in such a better mood just reading other people's problems and knowing I'm not alone in such situations 💙💙

  • @fishyscribbles8698
    @fishyscribbles8698 7 років тому +13

    You seriously inspired me to wear what I want, I'm barley starting highschool and its only scary for me because in Middle School everyone already understood me for me, and didnt see my attire as anything but normal, but now Going into highschool I'm scared that I'll have to explain my self too 3 other classes. But with my self love and friends and your positive impact I'll be just fine

  • @elmiraadili
    @elmiraadili 7 років тому +3

    For me, self love came from learning how to be alone. I spent a lot of my early teen years obsessing over other people liking me due to extreme extroversion and exploring creative outlets like writing really helped me see that I like the unfiltered thoughts that come from my brain. Additionally, accepting that it's normal to feel sad and nervous and to be emotional really helped me like myself more because I realized I held myself to an outrageous standard before. I'm still working on self love and confidence overall but I've definitely dramatically improved since middle school. Great topic! Love you, Conan 💗

  • @ExpectoBangtan
    @ExpectoBangtan 3 роки тому +4

    Oooh, this is how the iconic queen ✨crush culture✨ was born UwU

  • @Psych.o.delica
    @Psych.o.delica 6 років тому +1

    Hey Conan. i'm fairly new to your channel but am so so happy i found you. so grateful to the many times i'v been down and randomly watch one of your adorable and genuine videos, that somehow always manage to pick me up.You are oh so wise for your young age. and still being so young i can honestly say you are a great role model for so many kids out there, including my 23 y o self.
    I was once at the same place as you when it comes to love. Was a total awkward virgin until i found my first boyfriend at the age of 18. Being brought up super religious, sex was kinda taboo in our house. so against my mom's will i sortof ran from home and moved in w my boyfriend. I too felt like i had missed out on so much from what the "normal" high school experience was about. you know, making friends for life, high school romances w skipping class and secretly smoking on breakes. yeah did none of that.. until it all kinda hit me and i felt like i had to catch up to everyone. this was when i moved to London from sweden many years later. in between that awkward teen to the me today, i've changed and evolved many times over. and each new Sofie (me) feels like one step closer to the me i want to be.
    What i'm trying to say is that you are definately not alone. when it comes to both falling in love and the self-love you built up. i've been there like so many others. there is no deadline for that. it will never be to late. and just because it feels like you're falling behind, doesn't mean you actually are. you are exactly where you're supposed to be right now. fuck where the others are in their life. nobody else had to start in the same place as you. hence, your path in life can never be compaired with somebody else's. camparison kills. don't compare your still contiuing journey in life to somebody else's already finished one.
    Trust me, somehow it will all make sense to you later in life, why love came to you a little late.
    enjoy the innocence many of us lost a long time ago. you can always have a sexual revolution later and go all slut out if you want haha. but what you have now can never be regained. so enjoy yourself. and am kinda excited for you, still having to fall in love for the first time in front of you.
    keep being you and fuck the rest.
    xx / s

  • @calebburgett9870
    @calebburgett9870 7 років тому +8

    OMGO YES CONE!!! I love the anxiety and stress relief i get when i click on your videos!!

  • @mnd0412
    @mnd0412 7 років тому +45

    Florida tropical storms,blankets, and Conan :)

    • @hannaspitznagel
      @hannaspitznagel 7 років тому +2

      maybe marissa omg! I'm living for your Profil picture! So ironic 👏🏽🙏🏼✨😂

    • @delaneyr3298
      @delaneyr3298 7 років тому +3

      maybe marissa fl represent 🙌🏻

    • @ghost-cat420
      @ghost-cat420 7 років тому

      Florida! Woo!

    • @alex-bu3vg
      @alex-bu3vg 7 років тому

      i love this comment and your profile pic

    • @trinityide7165
      @trinityide7165 7 років тому +2

      I'm in the same boat, literally... south west florida is flooding

  • @marinajoy3033
    @marinajoy3033 6 років тому

    Oh boy I just love this video.I watch it every now and then because it's so relatable and Conan is just beautiful.

  • @molly8602
    @molly8602 7 років тому +1

    you are not broken, you are capable of love and you are deserving of love. focus on the love you have now, in whatever form, and one day the love you're missing will come around. just keep being your lovely, positive and glowing self and don't be too hard on yourself ☀️ 😊

  • @ericahernandez8873
    @ericahernandez8873 7 років тому +53

    I'm still learning to self love myself for me it's always been hard because I always felt there was a part of me I didn't like even if I started I like myself more idk if that makes sense but I think I'm getting better at it.. also I've dated I just wouldn't call them relationships because they both ended badly and now I'm afraid of love I guess because I'm scared that same thing is gonna happen I'm gonna end up hurt.. but that's just me

    • @marialvarez7954
      @marialvarez7954 7 років тому +2

      as an optimist id say they ended badly for good reason, you are stars and rainbows and you shine brighter than what those relationships went through; so yes, you can be scared of love- but when you feel it again, always give it another chance ;) you never know~

    • @ericahernandez8873
      @ericahernandez8873 7 років тому

      Thanks that's sweet and encouraging and I'm honestly trying to figure out my feelings rn cuz I don't know what I want if that makes sense but thanks that helped:)

    • @ericahernandez8873
      @ericahernandez8873 7 років тому

      Mari Alvarez thanks that's very sweet and encouraging honestly I'm trying to figure out my feelings cuz I don't really know what I want if that makes sense but it helped thanks:)

  • @FreddieRansom
    @FreddieRansom 7 років тому +8

    hey guys it's conan fulfilling all of your aesthetic needs

  • @ellableu5657
    @ellableu5657 6 років тому

    You are so sweet, innocent, and smart. I think you’re friends are very lucky to be a part of your life because I feel like when you appreciate someone you really truly appreciate and love them.

  • @Foodbasedgamer
    @Foodbasedgamer 7 років тому

    AWWWW conan you are so cute! I love these videos so much!

  • @mahnoora6618
    @mahnoora6618 7 років тому +11

    THIS IS THE FIRST VIDEO OF YOURS THAT IVE WATCHED AND I LOVE YOU ALREADY

    • @uwu-0009
      @uwu-0009 7 років тому +2

      Mahnoor Arshad welcome to the team !! :>

  • @JohnPierron
    @JohnPierron 7 років тому +36

    Yesterday I went on my first date and I was asked if I'm a virgin and I DIDNT HEAR THE QUESTION PROPERLY SO I SAID "no" EVEN THOUGH IM THE BIGGEST WEE TOT EVER. SO NOW THEY THINK IM LIKE SOME SCANDALOUS BOY AND IN REALITY THAT WAS MY FIRST DATE EVER. LIKE. WOW.

  • @EmmaTerrance
    @EmmaTerrance 7 років тому

    I've told my friends in a regular basis that "love is a made-up concept" because I had a similar mindset to yours where I'm more focused on studying and work than I am on finding a significant other. I think this has been my favorite of your chatty videos because self love and love for others is so important and it's not the easiest to understand. Great job, Cone.

  • @Emma-de9if
    @Emma-de9if 6 років тому

    I was lonely for my entire life Conan , but watching your videos make me feeling I'm not alone anymore , love you so much , may god bless you 💜

  • @ashleighlauren9061
    @ashleighlauren9061 7 років тому +13

    The whole video I was waiting for cone to just eat the cookie dough because I want to eat it right now

  • @naomifitzgerald1403
    @naomifitzgerald1403 7 років тому +3

    yess babble&bake is one of my favorite serieses on conan's channel

  • @miairizarry305
    @miairizarry305 7 років тому

    i've been watching your videos since you were little and i feel like i've literally grown up with you, conan. this video hit really close to home, as i've always felt like i was the only one out of all of my friends who had never been focused on love. we're very similar in taste and even in our work ethic; i feel like that's why i've stuck around for so many years and watched your videos. thank you so much for this, conan. i love you! never stop making videos!

  • @sophianicole8671
    @sophianicole8671 7 років тому

    can i just say every time i hear your song on my playlist i immediately become happy and peaceful and i can't wait for you to have more aiowejfalkej youre so amazing ugh