I only use Tinder to lower my self esteem. Like... today I feel awesome, let's swipe 200 girls to get 2 matches and find out they actually don't like me.
@@invisiblehatednotwantedforever oh no not nice guy syndrome! Your not getting rejected because your a nice guy! Your getting rejected because you aren't as nice as you think you are and you see interactions with women as purely transactional. They aren't horrible because they don't want to date you. Maybe instead of blaming everyone else you should look towards your self to see where you might be going wrong.
@@invisiblehatednotwantedforever bro dating , and hooking up are a game you have to play the right angle to get results most of the men who get good results are either really attractive , somewhat good looking but know how to chat really well, amazing liars or filthy stinking rich , pick your poison and go have fun. Dont go on these apps looking for love they are extremely superficial. Just land you a chick and smash and swipe left just like they do to men...dont complain and destroy your self esteem that has the opposite effect of what you want. No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.
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Theyre both super scammy for guys. Tinder doesnt clean up fake profiles, and bumble is inherently scammy. Bumble shows tons of hot chicks to guys, most of which are all dead profiles. Bumble seems to keep these profiles around to make their program look more attractive with so many hot chicks, but the actual person probably hasnt used the app in ages. These apps are pretty much useless for most guys, unless youre super attractive.
Bumble is shit. I quit using it ages ago, how many profiles I came across saying "don't be shy message me" or "message me with more than hi", one actually said "Why don't guys talk on this", you think to yourself we can't bloody message you, girls have to make the first move duh. Also POF is the worst for fake profiles, scammers, sex site profiles and women just going on for self esteem boosts.
+EarnSpendLive just like porn for men, dating apps turn womens minds into trash, just look at these two, weak eye contact, weak posture and a low frequency. just like a guy who is hooked on pornography in his moms basement you can tell these two spend equal amount of time with their heads in their phones. Always looking for a rush and a quick urge of seratonin. It´s sad to see
@@xfighters3913 the majority of people are falling into degenarate behaviour and your answer is "who cares" ? You sound like a nihilistic, feminist lefty. Pure trash
I prefer bumble because that way I dont have to elaborate so many messages for girls that wont even respond. If she makes the first mlve at least I know she will talk and then Ill elaborate what I want to say and Ill put work into it.
Gettinq Women have that problem literally thier whole life until the undeniable truth that they are way past the wall has set in. Some women would rather live in eternal denial than face the truth and have to make a change.
Creepy dudes on tinder? She is creepy. If her pickup line is 'my bed is broken, can I sleep in yours?' She's no better. How exactly does she think she differs from these 'creepy dudes'? Talking about double standards.
there's something about that blonde chick I don't like. The brunette is at least halfway descent. and seems more grounded. dating are sites are mainly a waist of time for dudes. let's be honest, there looking for rich guys.
Bitter much? Just another guy who doesnt get girl and starts looking for the reason outside of himself. How realistic is it really that ALL girls are looking for a rich guy? You are tricking yourself don't you see
@@harleyquiinnnn something ain't right about your comment. for a dude, it makes more sense that chicks want the money and power over a good guy with descent money. most dudes don't get dates from the sites. sonething is up.
sorry. bri and anna whats wrong with you? using and advertising dating app as self-esteem booster. please quit and stop spreading your mindset. or at least, please think first about your responsibility which comes with releasing public videos. you're not one step ahead to the tinder creepy ones if this is your honest opinion. in fact are the creepy ones the result of your attitude. i don't know you, but if your video is meant to be serious, think about it. all love, no hate. peace.
We don't know you either, but you have a pretty strong opinion about people you've never met. Using trolling in our comments section as a self-esteem booster? Please quit and stop spreading YOUR mindset. You're not one step ahead of anyone either when you resort to leaving rude comments. Think about it.
3:35.... "Im pretty bad at checking my phone often" Bullshit.... Thats the "plausible deniability" women love to use. Yes, spend your time to download an app, add photos, insert a bio, and swipe, THEN state you are "bad at checking your phone"/"too busy" to check your phone. Meanwhile, go anywhere public these days, people are glued to their phones.
I don’t understand how you can be too busy to reply to a message in TWENTY FOUR HOURS! I’ve never taken more than 10 hours to reply to a message ever, in fact taking longer than 6 hours for me is a rarety.
These two girls are why dating apps suck now. They clearly are on them for entertainment and not serious about making actual connections and find love. The dark headed girl that said she likes the confidence booster because she likes having all these guys message her with compliments. This ultimately makes girls very full of themselves, superficial, and conceded. That goes for guys too who do that. I remember when tinder was good, I have some friends that got married off of it. Now it’s just straight up crap that no one even takes serious anymore.
Initially, Tinder was used for dating (when it was first launched). But then it became a caricature for hooking up. I know a friend who met a guy on Tinder and they are now married.
Tinder, Bumble & co killed romance for an entire generation and made (self)love about fucking body measurements, selfies, and telephone screens. It's sad tbh!
I would say the Bumble is a little bit better than the Tinder not by much but if the girl is really interested then she has to start a convo with me which I then know that she is at least little bit interested about me.
It's funny to watch an average girl and below average girls talk negatively about guys. This is why you are on dating sites because you cant get men to either approach you or stay interested.
Wow....as a women reading some of these male comments 😦 I'm shaking my head. Gentlemen, all ladies aren't the same. I learned a long time ago that all men aren't either. Get a grip....Be patient. and what you are looking for may be in front of your face. Give some of these ladies a break....please!😒😞😆
Ruby Artis you would feel exactly the same if you were in our shoes m8. The laws favor females, social media, society, colleges, and opportunities. You can ruin a mans reputation just with the accusation of raping another female (doesnt matter if your innocent m8). Politics are requires to put one female in office even if she doesnt qualify, if we divorce you....guess who pays child support, female hit guy in nuts and if the man retaliates he gets in trouble instead, men are seen as the enemy of society but females are seen as the heros. (Women as seen as strong, independent, and intelligent) but we are stupid. Im getting sick of this shit
@@jonathanmckinsey5364 what the fuck does bumble and self esteem boosts have to do with false rape accusations and men's rights? I mean the laws are horrible I agree, but I don't see the point of spewing your ideology here when it has nothing to do with the subject.
@@jonathanmckinsey5364 women hitting men is never acceptable, and your belief regarding child support is completely unfounded. Men and women aren't completely different beings, everyone should be judged on an individual basis and either gender being sour with the other isn't going to get you much romantic attention.
holy fuck. How could they mess up such a simple concept? You like someone's appearance, you chat to see if you like them so far, schedule a date, and boom. Instead they turned it into a fucking science project
Just got my heart broken by all the girls that's been on the apps for years but still looking for a man. Like seriously, how many guys you reject so far, just to find no one🤔
Most normal guys wont use either, and its due to the fact of the profiling and the main factor of all the spam. For every 10 times we get contacted by a "Female" 9 of them are scammer accounts. Most are not hard to spot but its the false hope that lead any really GOOD guys from being on any of those apps.
"Self-esteem booster"? For who? I have used both Tinder and Bumble for over two years and have had ZERO matches on either. Sure, this is a great "self-esteem" booster, especially if you want to boost it right down the toilet.
For women. MANY women use apps just to boost their self-esteem and get validation and attention. If these two think it works the same for men , they are very deluded.
Indeed, I got kicked off bumble because I told a woman "I think its rather arrogant of her to assume I would sleep with her on the first date as if I dont have standards".
I get a match every day on tinder and never run out of dates on weekends, but I have never gotten a date from bumble. A few matches but nothing that led to a date
Neither app works for guys. It's annoying how 99% of matches are either robots, fake profiles, profiles made to boost self esteem. Even then you need to say something perfect to even get the girl to respond, in real life you don't. There's way too many hoops to jump through. I've only had 3 turn into actual dates.
Not over all horrible as it does explain a lot of the pros and cons but the one part that really bugged me was the esteem boost thing. I get you want validation, everyone does but don't just lead guys on to make yourself feel good because that isn't the purpose of them, the purpose is to find dates and to help people find relationships and by toying around with people you are just wasting time and frustrating them. Bumble and Tinder are for dating and by doing this you are making it unessisary difficult for people who want to find actual relationships.
Seems like most women are always looking for the "perfect Man"...seems like the usual minimum standards are that he must look perfect at all times, have at least $10-Million in the bank, two mansions by the beach, and 2-3 Phd's. I tried Bumble many times and I decided that spending my money on video games and booze is a better investment. I rather be happy with my very simple life than bother with my time and money to be the "perfect Man"...😆
I prefer bumble for one simple reason: Women message first = less creepy dudes = more women = less competence for non-creepy dudes. It's natural selection.
Ya know what made me uninstall the app at first? Seeing people I know in person, or friends from my Facebook o-o Not sure if that was just "bad timing" or if Logging in with FB is Not the best idea. Also being real, girls using tinder have it much easier than guys using tinder. Guys actually have to pay for the app to actually work.
I give some advice from a wealthy, muscular men and entrepreneur. I hate those apps only weird people there with low self esteem. A lot of my kind will be not there because most girls there think they are goddes while they aren't. If you are on these apps you have mostly a boring/poor life and even when you are good looking you will never get what you want since you personality sucks. Think about that and change yourself else you will end up alone or frustrated due your own behavior.
If i enter with Facebook will bumble send anything to my face account just like it says? I mean it would be embarassing for me to see all my Facebook friends know that i use bumble
Hi Bri and Anna (and youtube commenters), I have some questions on this. I am trying to see it from your view point though. Everyone I think enjoys getting a self esteem boost, it isn't bad necessarily. If this self esteem validation is taken to an extreme though, it could be damaging. By that I mean, I don't want to be dismissed as “self esteem boost #34”, I'd want to form real a connection. I know I am not perfect, but if I can help make someone happy or be a good part of their life, then I want too. It is just as a guy, I don't want to be viewed as a source for someone else's self esteem. I want to be viewed as someone that can form a connection, and is good to build something with overtime in a relationship. How widespread is the self esteem boosting described above in online dating? Is it possible that a lot of online dating just doesn't fit me? Even though I am a millennial, I've never tried online dating. Is it possible that Tinder doesn't fit me? There's nothing wrong with the approach of quickly swiping left or right a bunch, but I don't think that culture is a good personal fit for me. How could I possibly get enough information to make that decision from a picture? Of course, the same pitfalls can happen in real life too. There's no guarantee that someone's approach will be compatible with me. So Maybe I should still try online dating? I might just focus on doing the things I enjoy and care about in my life right now, and if dating comes up be open to it. Thank you everyone that decides to read this.
I would like to try to answer your questions and concerns. I'm currently using Tinder and Bumble. I like Tinder and Bumble for different reasons. The reason I like Bumble is the concept of women making the first move and initiating the dating process as well as other so-called forbidden taboos. I like the idea because it makes sexism super-obsolete and promotes egalitarian sexual romantic love relationships. Now the reason I like Tinder is because it's primarily a hook-up app but in practice some users use it to make friendships--which in my opinion is pointless and a waste of time there are other apps for specialized for just making friendships. Correct me if I'm wrong but it seems like you're looking for an LTR? If that's the case, then you're looking for a more serious relationship. In your case, if you decide to use any dating app--you could just ask the person you're interested in what they are looking for. The self-esteem boost is a case-by-case basis each person has different motivations for dating. Yes, there are some shallow people on Tinder or Bumble just like IRL, too. On the other side though self-esteem boost can be used positively for potential matches to feel romantically desired by each other if the feelings are mutual. I think you should still try online dating there are risks you're correct,however with online dating you know(presumably) that the other person is single unlike IRL--you don't really know if that person is single. At least on the apps they identify themselves as single and looking which is more efficient and precise if you think about it. There are other risks, which I'm sure if you think about it you will know which ones. I encourage you to pursue sexual romantic love while enjoying your interests as well. There is no conflict with pursuing sexual romantic love while doing the things you enjoy and care about--you can do both simultaneously. Life doesn't just happen to you--you make it happen. As far as I can tell you are definitely "datable" and not one of the shallow people. You have substance in your character. Whoever decides to date you, should judge you within context, fairly, and accurate. Judge your personality, your actions, and character. If you have any other questions, feel free to ask me. You're welcome.
I'm a male I have actually ran out of swipes before United's went through the whole lap really hard to find women who are actually willing to go on a date and not just talk forever. Like I want to hit you with hey let's go out let's play some mini-golf let's go on a dinner date let's go out and do something but no you guys want to talk for months so I end up having to date older women who are actually going to go out on dates
Group dating?? Are you in the 7th grade? You're either serious about going on a proper date or not. Friends add another layer that gets between you and your date. It's a waste of time. Leave the group dates for date #5 and beyond.
I don't wish to be critical of these young women, but Bumble and Tinder are just completely vacuous and, right there, we have the critical floor for all the users of these apps. Either you are sketchy or they are, and there is practically no way of telling either way.
Never been on any dating sites. I'm 72.. Back in the day women chased men.now sad people use these one sided sites.on bumble 9 clown men to every one average woman. Same on tinder. Thousands of thirsty men
I think these girls did a fine job at defining both.. although living in a midwest small community, i only have about 40 swipes in a 30 mile range area (on tinder)
Never gonna use either ever glad Im married but if i wasn't still take my chances in the wild. Also ladies hope your getting paid well for this but if that is your life for real so very sad.
I actually chatted with a girl once on tinder ... and it was just for laughs .. we knew there wasn't going to be a date because of the distance ... it went on for a while she told me she was bored and was chatting with a bunch of guys at the same time, she was leading them on and right away the guys got vulgar saying stuff like I'd like to fck you on the counter... etc... anyway all that to say is a girl will get almost a 100% match rate wherre guys will get closer to 0%... it's a fcked up world we live in now
Now this comment is just about general ideas and my thoughts about dating apps and the users. This concept of millennials and different generations is in my opinion frustrating sometimes. There are some women that are super-cool but they are in a older generations and would probably not consider dating me and vice versa. Sexual romantic love knows no boundaries in any generation. I believe in a person can find sexual romantic love in any generation regardless of age differences legally permitting of course. I reject the concept of dating a person based on generational differences. The concept is a fallacy, and therefore I reject it. However, I do recognized that some people have preferences when it comes to dating. Consider this concept, computers and software are perfect--most errors are user errors. Tinder like any other dating apps(excluding updates because that helps improve the app) rarely has any flaws it is only the users who have flaws and errors. Some users give these dating apps a bad reputations as you can see when Bri pointed out that there are super-creepy guys on there. Anyways, one of the most important reasons I use dating apps is in my opinion to find sexually liberated people who want to have mutually orgasmic sex. Instead of viewing hook-ups as something potentially bad, view them as a choice. I admit a hook-up can be bad if it is one-side and not mutually satisfying but on the other point of view, a hook-up can be satisfying if the partner's involved care about pleasing each other as well not being on any mind-altering drugs. I used these apps to find instant free sex but the sex has to be based on mutual pleasure if not then--I exit the hook-up.
Both apps are garbage in their own way. Tinder's userbase is garbage. But, most women on Bumble still won't make the first move. Also the Bumble devs regularly talk down to their male userbase.
thanks for the video though; nothing personal against the hosts. It's just a bit frustrating to be a guy on these dating sites -- the experience for men is much less fun
Man up bro , there is no such a thing that a male should be beautiful, just presentable and manly is enough on the other hand females job is to do face maintenance 24/7 😂
I was thinking of joining bumble but I prefer if the man takes the lead. I think Bumble might attract more dominant women who like to have things go there way. I prefer a man to be in more control. I think men join bumble because they like the idea of putting in less work when it comes to selecting a partner since the women messages them first BUT those type of women might not match well with their personality if they are the type of man that likes to be in control. Sometimes easier is not always better in the long run. Women also need to keep in mind that the men who gravitate towards bumble tend to be less likely to put in effort into the relationship because they don't like to pursue (traditionally men are the pursuers). It would be interesting to see the success rate from people who meet on Bumble. Tinder is a hook up app so not even considering it; Its a cock carosoul for women and at the end of the day everybody has slept with the same person at least once and a quick way to catch aids or std. Tinder is disgusting on so many levels. OKC is the best out of all of them.
pretty shitty way of thinking dont you think? you want tinder because guys have to take the lead, but then shit on guys when they download Bumble because women have to take the lead? change your perspective dude
I believe guys (like myself) have bumble because if a girl is interested in them they will say something, opposed to tinder that it does not matter if you have interest in a girl or not, most of the cases they dont say a thing, so it`s almost useless, to a guy, bumble is about interest, not letting woman take the lead or not having to work, at least that is my position
I only use Tinder to lower my self esteem. Like... today I feel awesome, let's swipe 200 girls to get 2 matches and find out they actually don't like me.
@Benny Ramos preach it bro. Damn right.
How the fuck did you get 2 matches, whats your secret? I use Tinder to remind myself that I'm literally undateable because I'm fugly.
Lmao
Deaad
Then use bumble then XD
Tinder and Bumble, the place men's souls go to die. Fun times.
@@invisiblehatednotwantedforever oh no not nice guy syndrome! Your not getting rejected because your a nice guy! Your getting rejected because you aren't as nice as you think you are and you see interactions with women as purely transactional. They aren't horrible because they don't want to date you. Maybe instead of blaming everyone else you should look towards your self to see where you might be going wrong.
@@invisiblehatednotwantedforever bro dating , and hooking up are a game you have to play the right angle to get results most of the men who get good results are either really attractive , somewhat good looking but know how to chat really well, amazing liars or filthy stinking rich , pick your poison and go have fun. Dont go on these apps looking for love they are extremely superficial. Just land you a chick and smash and swipe left just like they do to men...dont complain and destroy your self esteem that has the opposite effect of what you want. No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.
Invisible, hated, Not wanted, Forever Alone incel alert
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Theyre both super scammy for guys. Tinder doesnt clean up fake profiles, and bumble is inherently scammy. Bumble shows tons of hot chicks to guys, most of which are all dead profiles. Bumble seems to keep these profiles around to make their program look more attractive with so many hot chicks, but the actual person probably hasnt used the app in ages. These apps are pretty much useless for most guys, unless youre super attractive.
Bumble has the photo verification though, so you can see if someone is verified.
Mere verification doesn't help as long as it hasn't some kind of activity evaluation built in, though.
Bumble also requires Facebook which is ridiculous.
Bumble is shit. I quit using it ages ago, how many profiles I came across saying "don't be shy message me" or "message me with more than hi", one actually said "Why don't guys talk on this", you think to yourself we can't bloody message you, girls have to make the first move duh. Also POF is the worst for fake profiles, scammers, sex site profiles and women just going on for self esteem boosts.
Than does anyone know any good dating apps?
and people say women don't objectify men..well ok
No one ever said they didn't?
+EarnSpendLive just like porn for men, dating apps turn womens minds into trash, just look at these two, weak eye contact, weak posture and a low frequency. just like a guy who is hooked on pornography in his moms basement you can tell these two spend equal amount of time with their heads in their phones. Always looking for a rush and a quick urge of seratonin. It´s sad to see
@@spiritofalaska who cares? if they aren't your type of girl then just move on.
@@xfighters3913 the majority of people are falling into degenarate behaviour and your answer is "who cares" ? You sound like a nihilistic, feminist lefty. Pure trash
@@spiritofalaska well met, brother.
I prefer bumble because that way I dont have to elaborate so many messages for girls that wont even respond. If she makes the first mlve at least I know she will talk and then Ill elaborate what I want to say and Ill put work into it.
Tinder is better if you're looking to build a fortnite squad. However sometimes people will still unmatch you if you ask them if they play fortnite.
Enchanted Lmao
Lmao xD I do that but none of those unmatched me (yet)...Im scouting mainly gamers there to hang with since its easier to communicate with them :)
Never played Fortnite but would give it a shot if you wanted to form a team with me
also I like ironically doing Fortnite dances
Humanity is hopeless...
Starting with these two in the video... They're creepy af. Like straight out of a horror movie.
Bitter much y'all. Just another bunch of guys who don't get a girl and start looking for the reason outside of themselves. Incel alert?
Very cringe considering both are tier 3. Problem with those apps is that it makes the average girl believes that shes worth a 8/10 guy.
Gettinq Women have that problem literally thier whole life until the undeniable truth that they are way past the wall has set in. Some women would rather live in eternal denial than face the truth and have to make a change.
She just admitted women go on tinder only for Validation and waste your time
Creepy dudes on tinder? She is creepy. If her pickup line is 'my bed is broken, can I sleep in yours?' She's no better. How exactly does she think she differs from these 'creepy dudes'? Talking about double standards.
bloodsord9 I thought that was an example she gave of a creepy dudes message, but maybe I missed it.
it's not creepy if he's cute
That's a line a guy said to her, not her to a guy.
elitestar what the fuck , that just sounds lame
Are you serious, you need tinder for a self-esteem boost? How pathetic!.
Are you serious, you have to leave rude comments about people you don't know for a self-esteem boost? How pathetic!
BCFreedomFighter Hit the wall face first at 70mph! 😄
Joe Mata ..All females.
@@Earnspendlive It's a tie! 😋
there's something about that blonde chick I don't like.
The brunette is at least halfway descent. and seems more grounded. dating are sites are mainly a waist of time for dudes.
let's be honest, there looking for rich guys.
Bitter much? Just another guy who doesnt get girl and starts looking for the reason outside of himself. How realistic is it really that ALL girls are looking for a rich guy? You are tricking yourself don't you see
Harley Quinn are you a female ? Do you ever complain about men ? If so shut the fuck up
@@harleyquiinnnn
something ain't right about your comment.
for a dude, it makes more sense that chicks want the money and power over a good guy with descent money.
most dudes don't get dates from the sites. sonething is up.
sorry. bri and anna whats wrong with you? using and advertising dating app as self-esteem booster. please quit and stop spreading your mindset. or at least, please think first about your responsibility which comes with releasing public videos.
you're not one step ahead to the tinder creepy ones if this is your honest opinion. in fact are the creepy ones the result of your attitude. i don't know you, but if your video is meant to be serious, think about it.
all love, no hate. peace.
We don't know you either, but you have a pretty strong opinion about people you've never met. Using trolling in our comments section as a self-esteem booster? Please quit and stop spreading YOUR mindset. You're not one step ahead of anyone either when you resort to leaving rude comments. Think about it.
You know what boosts my self esteem? Helping other people, and THEN they complement me. Earn that shit.
A bit self-righteous?
thepers0r had a valid point.
Shrugging it off acknowledges that fact.
It doesn't refute it.
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thepers0r dude they’re bitches.. females.
3:35.... "Im pretty bad at checking my phone often" Bullshit.... Thats the "plausible deniability" women love to use. Yes, spend your time to download an app, add photos, insert a bio, and swipe, THEN state you are "bad at checking your phone"/"too busy" to check your phone. Meanwhile, go anywhere public these days, people are glued to their phones.
Donald. What exactly do you mean?
Tinder girl is needy
Actually, she's honest. And you're rude.
She wants validation and constant attention. Red flag. Avoid!
And what were you wanting by leaving these comments...? Swiping left on this convo.
Richard Squire how ?!
Oh no, you didnt like a comment on the internet that doesnt cater to you ? You poor dear.. lets get you to a safe space.
Millennials - can you please explain why you need dating apps when you are so young, and most of your peers are single?
I don’t understand how you can be too busy to reply to a message in TWENTY FOUR HOURS! I’ve never taken more than 10 hours to reply to a message ever, in fact taking longer than 6 hours for me is a rarety.
What if you have a bad internet connection if, say, you're on holiday and have a bad connection?
These two girls are why dating apps suck now. They clearly are on them for entertainment and not serious about making actual connections and find love. The dark headed girl that said she likes the confidence booster because she likes having all these guys message her with compliments. This ultimately makes girls very full of themselves, superficial, and conceded. That goes for guys too who do that. I remember when tinder was good, I have some friends that got married off of it. Now it’s just straight up crap that no one even takes serious anymore.
Girls please reply to messages, if you dont want the guy any more than unmatch them. Just dont ghost them that is mean.
If they ghost you simply move on because you shouldn't have to message more then twice to get a response.
I thought Tinder was just for hook-ups? People actually use it to date?
Initially, Tinder was used for dating (when it was first launched). But then it became a caricature for hooking up. I know a friend who met a guy on Tinder and they are now married.
This is so lame! So superficial
@@invisiblehatednotwantedforever Bitter much? Just another guy who doesnt get girl and starts looking for the reason outside of himself. Incel alert?
Most people that do get girls dont get them from dating apps. They confident enough to hit thr street
Bri and Anna? Brianna? Trippy.
hahahaha
RabidTardigrade lol
Tinder, Bumble & co killed romance for an entire generation and made (self)love about fucking body measurements, selfies, and telephone screens. It's sad tbh!
I get she wants to weed out creepy dudes, but that line she uses is also creepy imagine if a dude used that same exact line.
I would say the Bumble is a little bit better than the Tinder not by much but if the girl is really interested then she has to start a convo with me which I then know that she is at least little bit interested about me.
Reason why I’m quitting dating apps. I’m old school and like DATING in PERSON! face to face.
It's funny to watch an average girl and below average girls talk negatively about guys. This is why you are on dating sites because you cant get men to either approach you or stay interested.
Wow....as a women reading some of these male comments 😦 I'm shaking my head. Gentlemen, all ladies aren't the same. I learned a long time ago that all men aren't either. Get a grip....Be patient. and what you are looking for may be in front of your face. Give some of these ladies a break....please!😒😞😆
Ruby Artis you would feel exactly the same if you were in our shoes m8. The laws favor females, social media, society, colleges, and opportunities. You can ruin a mans reputation just with the accusation of raping another female (doesnt matter if your innocent m8). Politics are requires to put one female in office even if she doesnt qualify, if we divorce you....guess who pays child support, female hit guy in nuts and if the man retaliates he gets in trouble instead, men are seen as the enemy of society but females are seen as the heros. (Women as seen as strong, independent, and intelligent) but we are stupid. Im getting sick of this shit
Same tbh... Honestly some of these guys need to chillllll. :/
@@jonathanmckinsey5364 what the fuck does bumble and self esteem boosts have to do with false rape accusations and men's rights? I mean the laws are horrible I agree, but I don't see the point of spewing your ideology here when it has nothing to do with the subject.
ALL WOMEN THE SAME PERIOD. Some women "change" only after she get couple kids from different guys but it's fake "nice"
@@jonathanmckinsey5364 women hitting men is never acceptable, and your belief regarding child support is completely unfounded. Men and women aren't completely different beings, everyone should be judged on an individual basis and either gender being sour with the other isn't going to get you much romantic attention.
holy fuck. How could they mess up such a simple concept? You like someone's appearance, you chat to see if you like them so far, schedule a date, and boom. Instead they turned it into a fucking science project
Just got my heart broken by all the girls that's been on the apps for years but still looking for a man.
Like seriously, how many guys you reject so far, just to find no one🤔
@4:19 That IS terrible! Why do you have stoop that low? GTFOH!
Most normal guys wont use either, and its due to the fact of the profiling and the main factor of all the spam. For every 10 times we get contacted by a "Female" 9 of them are scammer accounts. Most are not hard to spot but its the false hope that lead any really GOOD guys from being on any of those apps.
Wow I had considered trying these apps. I now see it is not advisable for me. Good to know thanks for the insight.
Bumble girls are just promoting their instagrams!
Tender is not a dating app per say. It's a hookup for sex app.
this made me wanna change my name to Misogynist Joe
Sami Folio they’re all feminists fucks.. so.
Bitter much? Just another guy who doesnt get girl and starts looking for the reason outside of himself. Incel alert?
"Self-esteem booster"? For who? I have used both Tinder and Bumble for over two years and have had ZERO matches on either. Sure, this is a great "self-esteem" booster, especially if you want to boost it right down the toilet.
For women. MANY women use apps just to boost their self-esteem and get validation and attention. If these two think it works the same for men , they are very deluded.
Women and black guys
Yeah Bumble. Soon to be replace by crumble...
Indeed, I got kicked off bumble because I told a woman "I think its rather arrogant of her to assume I would sleep with her on the first date as if I dont have standards".
It's as though they're creaking in a foreign language.
I get a match every day on tinder and never run out of dates on weekends, but I have never gotten a date from bumble. A few matches but nothing that led to a date
Neither app works for guys. It's annoying how 99% of matches are either robots, fake profiles, profiles made to boost self esteem. Even then you need to say something perfect to even get the girl to respond, in real life you don't. There's way too many hoops to jump through. I've only had 3 turn into actual dates.
Not over all horrible as it does explain a lot of the pros and cons but the one part that really bugged me was the esteem boost thing. I get you want validation, everyone does but don't just lead guys on to make yourself feel good because that isn't the purpose of them, the purpose is to find dates and to help people find relationships and by toying around with people you are just wasting time and frustrating them. Bumble and Tinder are for dating and by doing this you are making it unessisary difficult for people who want to find actual relationships.
she wants to meet up with a group of guys LEL @5:29
Lol well we know the reasons why she loves meeting with a group of guys.. Doesn't surprise me at all.
Not very sharp minds in either of these broads.
Martin Iversen ...all females
Bitter much y'all. Just another bunch of guys who don't get a girl and start looking for the reason outside of themselves. Incel alert?
Doesn't matter, never get a match
Or ditch both and learn how to attract the one to you. I can teach you!
...Why couldn't it be just like the movies? Dreaming my life away ...does she exist God?
Delete these apps, guys. These apps are unhealthy.
The comment section is ridiculous. If yall dont like dating apps dont use them? Who hurt you?
lmao you fat asf stfu
Welcome to the UA-cam 👹
Seems like most women are always looking for the "perfect Man"...seems like the usual minimum standards are that he must look perfect at all times, have at least $10-Million in the bank, two mansions by the beach, and 2-3 Phd's. I tried Bumble many times and I decided that spending my money on video games and booze is a better investment. I rather be happy with my very simple life than bother with my time and money to be the "perfect Man"...😆
I would swipe left on anna
David W both of them. Left left.
I prefer bumble for one simple reason: Women message first = less creepy dudes = more women = less competence for non-creepy dudes. It's natural selection.
#4 is useless because both Tinder and Bumble of backtrack features although Tinder lets you backtrack on people you swipe right on unlike bumble.
Can you explain what happen when you swipe right and what happens when you message someone on the bumble app?
Ya know what made me uninstall the app at first? Seeing people I know in person, or friends from my Facebook o-o Not sure if that was just "bad timing" or if Logging in with FB is Not the best idea.
Also being real, girls using tinder have it much easier than guys using tinder. Guys actually have to pay for the app to actually work.
I give some advice from a wealthy, muscular men and entrepreneur. I hate those apps only weird people there with low self esteem. A lot of my kind will be not there because most girls there think they are goddes while they aren't. If you are on these apps you have mostly a boring/poor life and even when you are good looking you will never get what you want since you personality sucks. Think about that and change yourself else you will end up alone or frustrated due your own behavior.
If i enter with Facebook will bumble send anything to my face account just like it says? I mean it would be embarassing for me to see all my Facebook friends know that i use bumble
kids, dating app is actually a meet and fuck apps.
Hi Bri and Anna (and youtube commenters), I have some questions on this.
I am trying to see it from your view point though. Everyone I think enjoys getting a self esteem boost, it isn't bad necessarily. If this self esteem validation is taken to an extreme though, it could be damaging. By that I mean, I don't want to be dismissed as “self esteem boost #34”, I'd want to form real a connection.
I know I am not perfect, but if I can help make someone happy or be a good part of their life, then I want too. It is just as a guy, I don't want to be viewed as a source for someone else's self esteem. I want to be viewed as someone that can form a connection, and is good to build something with overtime in a relationship.
How widespread is the self esteem boosting described above in online dating?
Is it possible that a lot of online dating just doesn't fit me? Even though I am a millennial, I've never tried online dating.
Is it possible that Tinder doesn't fit me? There's nothing wrong with the approach of quickly swiping left or right a bunch, but I don't think that culture is a good personal fit for me. How could I possibly get enough information to make that decision from a picture?
Of course, the same pitfalls can happen in real life too. There's no guarantee that someone's approach will be compatible with me. So Maybe I should still try online dating?
I might just focus on doing the things I enjoy and care about in my life right now, and if dating comes up be open to it.
Thank you everyone that decides to read this.
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I would like to try to answer your questions and concerns. I'm currently using Tinder and Bumble. I like Tinder and Bumble for different reasons. The reason I like Bumble is the concept of women making the first move and initiating the dating process as well as other so-called forbidden taboos. I like the idea because it makes sexism super-obsolete and promotes egalitarian sexual romantic love relationships. Now the reason I like Tinder is because it's primarily a hook-up app but in practice some users use it to make friendships--which in my opinion is pointless and a waste of time there are other apps for specialized for just making friendships.
Correct me if I'm wrong but it seems like you're looking for an LTR? If that's the case, then you're looking for a more serious relationship. In your case, if you decide to use any dating app--you could just ask the person you're interested in what they are looking for. The self-esteem boost is a case-by-case basis each person has different motivations for dating. Yes, there are some shallow people on Tinder or Bumble just like IRL, too. On the other side though self-esteem boost can be used positively for potential matches to feel romantically desired by each other if the feelings are mutual.
I think you should still try online dating there are risks you're correct,however with online dating you know(presumably) that the other person is single unlike IRL--you don't really know if that person is single. At least on the apps they identify themselves as single and looking which is more efficient and precise if you think about it. There are other risks, which I'm sure if you think about it you will know which ones.
I encourage you to pursue sexual romantic love while enjoying your interests as well. There is no conflict with pursuing sexual romantic love while doing the things you enjoy and care about--you can do both simultaneously. Life doesn't just happen to you--you make it happen.
As far as I can tell you are definitely "datable" and not one of the shallow people. You have substance in your character. Whoever decides to date you, should judge you within context, fairly, and accurate. Judge your personality, your actions, and character. If you have any other questions, feel free to ask me. You're welcome.
Why are these 13 year Olds on dating apps?
MGTOW!!!!
I'm a male I have actually ran out of swipes before United's went through the whole lap really hard to find women who are actually willing to go on a date and not just talk forever. Like I want to hit you with hey let's go out let's play some mini-golf let's go on a dinner date let's go out and do something but no you guys want to talk for months so I end up having to date older women who are actually going to go out on dates
I signed up for a free trial on bumble and when I tried to cancel it I didn't do it the right way and got charged $50. They refuse to pay me back
Charge back
That blonde guy is just playing . They should hang out with the brunette chick.
I ran out of swipe options and I was using the age range to the max lol
Group dating?? Are you in the 7th grade? You're either serious about going on a proper date or not. Friends add another layer that gets between you and your date. It's a waste of time. Leave the group dates for date #5 and beyond.
Ok, what if your date is dangerous and you're in danger? For example: What if your tries to assault, kidnap or even worse?
Dating apps are only good for women. You gotta be stunning looking to stand a chance. Bumble is better than tinder though.
I live, literally, in the middle of Arkansas! Little Rock, AR.
Alexis Williams Sadly I live in Blytheville, but thankfully I come to LR once a month for my job 😁
Gundam 00 Understandable! I used to live in Blytheville. But you'll make it!
Alexis Williams We'll see. This place sucksssss!
Hey Alexis! That's awesome. If you'd be interested in potentially being in a dating-app related vid, email us -- hitusup@earnspendlive.com.
EarnSpendLive but what about me 😂?
tinder has limited number of swipes but bumble doesn't
Self-esteem booster😏
I don't wish to be critical of these young women, but Bumble and Tinder are just completely vacuous and, right there, we have the critical floor for all the users of these apps. Either you are sketchy or they are, and there is practically no way of telling either way.
Never been on any dating sites. I'm 72..
Back in the day women chased men.now sad people use these one sided sites.on bumble 9 clown men to every one average woman. Same on tinder. Thousands of thirsty men
They are both boring apps run by snobs and prunes.
I think these girls did a fine job at defining both.. although living in a midwest small community, i only have about 40 swipes in a 30 mile range area (on tinder)
Grindr is better
Isn't grinder only for gay couples tho?
@@xfighters3913 at least you'll have genuine matches instead of finding girls like these only looking to boost their self-esteem
@@CVerse that's true but but its only useful if your gay.
Never gonna use either ever glad Im married but if i wasn't still take my chances in the wild. Also ladies hope your getting paid well for this but if that is your life for real so very sad.
They don’t look like they like each other 😿
I've used both, Bumble is superior.
I actually chatted with a girl once on tinder ... and it was just for laughs .. we knew there wasn't going to be a date because of the distance ... it went on for a while she told me she was bored and was chatting with a bunch of guys at the same time, she was leading them on and right away the guys got vulgar saying stuff like I'd like to fck you on the counter... etc... anyway all that to say is a girl will get almost a 100% match rate wherre guys will get closer to 0%... it's a fcked up world we live in now
Now this comment is just about general ideas and my thoughts about dating apps and the users. This concept of millennials and different generations is in my opinion frustrating sometimes. There are some women that are super-cool but they are in a older generations and would probably not consider dating me and vice versa. Sexual romantic love knows no boundaries in any generation. I believe in a person can find sexual romantic love in any generation regardless of age differences legally permitting of course. I reject the concept of dating a person based on generational differences. The concept is a fallacy, and therefore I reject it. However, I do recognized that some people have preferences when it comes to dating.
Consider this concept, computers and software are perfect--most errors are user errors. Tinder like any other dating apps(excluding updates because that helps improve the app) rarely has any flaws it is only the users who have flaws and errors. Some users give these dating apps a bad reputations as you can see when Bri pointed out that there are super-creepy guys on there.
Anyways, one of the most important reasons I use dating apps is in my opinion to find sexually liberated people who want to have mutually orgasmic sex. Instead of viewing hook-ups as something potentially bad, view them as a choice. I admit a hook-up can be bad if it is one-side and not mutually satisfying but on the other point of view, a hook-up can be satisfying if the partner's involved care about pleasing each other as well not being on any mind-altering drugs. I used these apps to find instant free sex but the sex has to be based on mutual pleasure if not then--I exit the hook-up.
It's funny how Anna (the hot one) needs a self esteem boost...lol
Tastes vary. I also think Anna is more attractive. But from a general viewpoint , most would prefer the other.
Creepy dudes = hey girl what are you up to tonight?
That about sums up women
Both apps are garbage in their own way. Tinder's userbase is garbage. But, most women on Bumble still won't make the first move. Also the Bumble devs regularly talk down to their male userbase.
"To me, dating apps aren't serious, but I love to flirt, so ... " ...
paraphrasing -- " Tinder is great for my self-esteem -- I can just sit back and swipe right and get endless complements. "
Dating apps make me feel horrible about myself personally; I'm told to play the numbers game and eventually the pain will payoff though. It's a lie.
thanks for the video though; nothing personal against the hosts. It's just a bit frustrating to be a guy on these dating sites -- the experience for men is much less fun
A girl saying she never checks her phone that often hahahahah yeah right
She saying im just waiting for the compliments to come and that she is on tinder to uo her self steem wtf. Pls dont use tinder if that what you want.
Sometimes I barely understand what the left one says.
Tonsel hockey injury.
IPhone users... Accidental super like while switching apps? Cmon for real?
Not all girls are like this not all boys are like this dating apps are terrible ewwe
Instead of dating apps try Vibe R( it may help you girls in a different way ;)
I’m too ugly for both lol
Chester Fong bro u aint ugly
Daaaaaaaang
Chester Fong no bro dont say stuff like that about yourself. Seriously bro your not bad looking. Dont hold your self esteem based on an app
Man up bro , there is no such a thing that a male should be beautiful, just presentable and manly is enough on the other hand females job is to do face maintenance 24/7 😂
Y’all have too many damn rules and regulations
Do you like Prince Hamdan? He is the richest all over the world.
Im the orange 1 on th left. How would i go on tinder 😬
Wow this comment section is like an Incel reddit 😂😂😂
I was thinking of joining bumble but I prefer if the man takes the lead. I think Bumble might attract more dominant women who like to have things go there way. I prefer a man to be in more control. I think men join bumble because they like the idea of putting in less work when it comes to selecting a partner since the women messages them first BUT those type of women might not match well with their personality if they are the type of man that likes to be in control. Sometimes easier is not always better in the long run. Women also need to keep in mind that the men who gravitate towards bumble tend to be less likely to put in effort into the relationship because they don't like to pursue (traditionally men are the pursuers). It would be interesting to see the success rate from people who meet on Bumble. Tinder is a hook up app so not even considering it; Its a cock carosoul for women and at the end of the day everybody has slept with the same person at least once and a quick way to catch aids or std. Tinder is disgusting on so many levels. OKC is the best out of all of them.
pretty shitty way of thinking dont you think? you want tinder because guys have to take the lead, but then shit on guys when they download Bumble because women have to take the lead? change your perspective dude
This makes no sense and is pretty insulting.
I believe guys (like myself) have bumble because if a girl is interested in them they will say something, opposed to tinder that it does not matter if you have interest in a girl or not, most of the cases they dont say a thing, so it`s almost useless, to a guy, bumble is about interest, not letting woman take the lead or not having to work, at least that is my position
XFendi Prada Thats got to be the most extremely sexist and insulting thing ive heard
They just say hey anyways
Step one: Be hot
Bumble is not supported in my country :( , i am stuck with Tinder, hard time for the ugly old me :)
First time here girls. Thanks just subbed
*Babe! "Never run out of swipes" You should try Mogodishu Somalia haha = 0*
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