Loving Myself Based on My Love Languages

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  • Опубліковано 1 гру 2024

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  • @evahappy2980
    @evahappy2980 9 місяців тому

    Watching this 3 years later, completely randomly, and tomorrow is Valentine's Day. CHILLS!! The timing cannot be coincidence. So inspired to love and celebrate myself tomorrow, and every day in small ways. Thank you Raya!!

  • @pamacs06
    @pamacs06 3 роки тому +18

    Uuhhh wow. The moment I saw the title clicked immediately, I was like wow I've never even considered to use this on myself, then you told the same. I love how basic things are true for all people: we are just meant to be love/d! 🥰

  • @lolsaXx
    @lolsaXx 3 роки тому +3

    As a mum, I find all my love going to my kids. I need to make time for loving myself more. Thank you, I definitely found some inspiration in this video!

  • @LJadeSummers
    @LJadeSummers 3 роки тому +7

    This video made me realise that ive been saying words of affirmation to myself every day for years without even realising it 😅
    Everyday i sit at my dresser to either do my makeup/ hair/moisturise. And every morning I look myself in the mirror and say "hello you" and smile back at myself
    And i spend 5 minutes either putting on a facemask/ mascara or curl my hair
    And once i finish always looks at myself and say "beautiful" ,"fabulous" or blow a kiss to myself in the mirror 😅
    Its such a small little thing ive always done, so im now reccomending it to everyone, whenever you sit at your dresser, or check your hair in the mirror before you shoot out the door give youself a little wink or compliment ❤ it takes 2 seconds and it can instantly change the way you feel about yourself in that moment.
    Thank for for this video Raya ❤ youre vulnerability and willingness to share your journey is always so appreciated. Sending you love 😘

    • @lolsaXx
      @lolsaXx 3 роки тому +1

      This is beautiful!

  • @DexterMag-aso
    @DexterMag-aso Рік тому

    Raya, your self-love journey, guided by love languages, is truly uplifting. Big thanks to my life coach Lisa Haisha for recommending your youtube channel during her recent retreat here in Philippines, your authenticity aligns seamlessly with her teachings, creating a meaningful exploration of self-discovery.

  • @GeojerrysAdventures
    @GeojerrysAdventures 3 роки тому

    My wife and I studied that over 25 years ago and it truly helped our long-term relationship. Happily married over 25 years later. Cheers

  • @Evergreenforest33
    @Evergreenforest33 3 роки тому +17

    Love this so much I need to be more gentle with myself and I love the idea of using the love languages on myself!

    • @RayaWasHere
      @RayaWasHere  3 роки тому +3

      Yay! So glad this video can help inspire some self love ❤️

    • @abhisheknair6056
      @abhisheknair6056 3 роки тому

      Hi Raya I love how you swim 🏊 in the pool

  • @chrisphinney6430
    @chrisphinney6430 8 місяців тому

    As a single person I never thought of doing this. Thanks for creating and sharing

  • @BucketListTravellers
    @BucketListTravellers 3 роки тому +1

    Such a great idea! We often focus so much on giving our love to others but don't make the time to nurture ourselves.
    I particularly liked your idea of writing to yourself and reflecting back on that when you need to lift yourself up. A friend of mine has a jar with things she's done that she's proud of or grateful for - she adds notes to it during the year and at the end of the year she reads through it and reflects on the great things that she's accomplished over the year. I think it's important to lift ourselves up with positivity as sometimes we can be our own worst critic.

    • @RayaWasHere
      @RayaWasHere  3 роки тому

      I love that!! I often write down 3 things I’m grateful for and proud of myself in the evening and it’s life changing! ☺️❤️

  • @ashleykorthals7111
    @ashleykorthals7111 3 роки тому +1

    Really needed this for myself and for my partner and I. This was SO helpful❤️✨

    • @RayaWasHere
      @RayaWasHere  3 роки тому

      Ahh this makes me so happy to hear! ☺️✨

  • @SarahandMarek
    @SarahandMarek 3 роки тому

    Learning about love languages changes EVERYTHING for the better with relationships ❤️ thank you for sharing this ☺️ needed a reminder about this today

  • @the_om_project
    @the_om_project 2 роки тому

    Came here for the self love, leaving with that watercolor book!

  • @WhisperingJaneASMR
    @WhisperingJaneASMR 3 роки тому

    Physical touch and quality time are definitely my love languages, for sure! Thank you for this beautiful, uplifting and kind video dear Raya!

  • @mammateus
    @mammateus 3 роки тому

    So lovely video💞 It really reminded me to take time for myself, subscribed!☀️

  • @whereisangie
    @whereisangie 3 роки тому

    thank you for this video raya! i cant believe i never thought of practicing love languages with myself. its been eye opening to compare my love languages with how i treat myself😳 this is definitely an idea im going to keep reviewing and working on in my life. hope you have a beautiful day! ❤❤

  • @kalyanisingh852
    @kalyanisingh852 3 роки тому

    this made me emotional :') i have recently been struggling with aligning my love language with my partner, and as a result been feeling taken for granted and unloved. i hope to bring it up again and also emphasize the need for both of us to make space for self-care (and not feel guilty for doing so)

    • @RayaWasHere
      @RayaWasHere  3 роки тому

      Such an important conversation!! It truly saved our relationship. And yess definitely normalize taking time for self care. It will only make you both much better partners for each other!

  • @evanneofficial
    @evanneofficial 3 роки тому +1

    I love this so so much!! Such a good idea ❤😍

  • @manifestandohoy9214
    @manifestandohoy9214 2 роки тому

    Loveeee your video. Thanks and blessings.

  • @paulabaum7178
    @paulabaum7178 3 роки тому

    Love these ideas! Thanks for sharing

  • @denisauhrinova8223
    @denisauhrinova8223 3 роки тому

    Ohhhhh, thank you beautiful soul for such a great inspiration🙏🏻. When I saw the title I thought.. Sure, I knooow, I do it, don't I? ...And after watching this I know how wrong I was. We women treat others nicely so often and forget about ourselves.. I'll make a day to myself tomorrow. I can't wait. 🌹

    • @RayaWasHere
      @RayaWasHere  3 роки тому

      Ahh this makes me so happy!! Did you take the day for yourself? How was it? Sometimes we need these little reminders, it’s easy to forget to show ourselves love ❤️

  • @lolsaXx
    @lolsaXx 3 роки тому

    You are such a loving person!

  • @naimawashere
    @naimawashere 3 роки тому +1

    Loved this video! So many great ideas.

    • @RayaWasHere
      @RayaWasHere  3 роки тому +1

      Thanks Naima! (Love your name by the way) ❤️

    • @naimawashere
      @naimawashere 3 роки тому

      @@RayaWasHere Thank you, that's so kind of you. ❤️

  • @relaxingwildsounds4178
    @relaxingwildsounds4178 3 роки тому

    Great and lovely raya with beautiful flowers🌸🌺🌻🌹🌷🌼💐 very good view !!👍🏾 Thanks lots for your beautiful sharing! Wishe you much success!💞🤝

  • @martinav934
    @martinav934 3 роки тому

    This is very refreshing to watch, such a nice idea executed in some amazing ways!

  • @Muthrtung
    @Muthrtung 3 роки тому

    just LOVE this! I fully understand the imperative need to love & respect, & honour ourselves, though it's taken me an AGE to acknowledge it... I still have a hard time looking in the mirror & speaking to myself lovingly, but am getting there. I so love the "love languages" thing, & doing that for ourselves is too inspired. shed a quick tear when you wrote yourself a love letter & THEN recorded it to remind yourself... THAT is a stunning genius act of self love to me so thank you for sharing this.

  • @mariaparamsukh
    @mariaparamsukh 3 роки тому +1

    I love this! Thank you Raya, it's something that I need to try! 😊❤ much love and light to you and to whoever reads this 😊🙌💚

    • @RayaWasHere
      @RayaWasHere  3 роки тому

      Thank you Maria! Love and light right back to you 💕✨

  • @Tumulenta
    @Tumulenta 3 роки тому

    I love to watch your vídeos! Greetings from México!!

  • @paulabaum7178
    @paulabaum7178 3 роки тому

    Hey Raya, I just watched your dear younger me video from 5 years ago. It was so so great to hear and I had tears in my eyes! As an 18 year old who's about to graduate, the future seems a little overwhelming and creepy at times. But it really helped me be optimistic. You radiate so much positive energy! Thanks for existing

    • @RayaWasHere
      @RayaWasHere  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you Paula!! The biggest lesson I’ve learned in the last year especially is to have full trust. Everything always works out, even if in the moment it doesn’t feel like it will. I used to stress about it so so much and I’m so grateful I don’t anymore! Remember to trust because what is coming for you is even more beautiful than you can imagine ☺️❤️✨

    • @paulabaum7178
      @paulabaum7178 3 роки тому

      @@RayaWasHere thank you so much for your amazing reply, this made my day ;) and gave me a lot of confidence for what's to come too! ❤️

  • @veesvoyages
    @veesvoyages 3 роки тому

    Thank you for this Raya, it was so insightful! My love language is quality time and I do notice if I apply this idea and I put time aside for myself I feel much better for it!

  • @thuriaramadan7336
    @thuriaramadan7336 Рік тому

    My ❤language is massage 💆‍♀️ and gratitude 🙏 and breathing exercises

  • @RubyAliceHome
    @RubyAliceHome 3 роки тому +1

    Loved this Raya! Keep loving yourself 🥰

    • @RayaWasHere
      @RayaWasHere  3 роки тому

      Thank you!! Hoping to inspire more self love ❤️

  • @gingerbread18
    @gingerbread18 3 роки тому

    The journal thing I related to so much! I always buy them but only consistently use about two haha

  • @helenwarner6140
    @helenwarner6140 Рік тому

    I really miss your content💕 I hope your pregnancy is going well, much love from
    Ireland

  • @kellyraeparker9172
    @kellyraeparker9172 8 місяців тому

    Your videos are beautiful 💕

  • @andreas5508
    @andreas5508 3 роки тому

    I have definetely loved this video!

  • @nino9172
    @nino9172 3 роки тому

    Thank you for this video ❤️🙏

    • @RayaWasHere
      @RayaWasHere  3 роки тому +1

      You’re welcome! So glad you like it ☺️❤️

  • @whereisangie
    @whereisangie 3 роки тому +1

    ooooohhhh imagine watercolour painting the view from your treehouse in costa rica 😍😍😍😍

  • @DiscoverWithDima
    @DiscoverWithDima 3 роки тому

    Loved this video Raya!

  • @xgofishing8699
    @xgofishing8699 3 роки тому

    Good video thank for sharing

  • @andmeve
    @andmeve 3 роки тому

    This made me cry ❤️

  • @sumitvarute
    @sumitvarute 3 роки тому +2

    Happy valentines day ❤️❤️❤️

  • @grellsutcliff2974
    @grellsutcliff2974 3 роки тому

    Hi Raya, could you please keep us updated on how your watercolor painting is going? For example on instagram stories? I would LOVE to try it! Although, I have drawing/painting skills of a 8 year old, so I'm a bit worried that instead of picking up a relaxing hobby I would jest get frustrated at myself haha. Please let us know if this book is helpful at getting started

  • @piek359
    @piek359 3 роки тому +1

    Woah I was just watching you and you posted 😂😂

  • @mateeah
    @mateeah 3 роки тому

    Hey Raya! I know you and Louis are strict vegans, and I'd love a video on if y'all take any supplements :)

  • @BonsaiHomegardening
    @BonsaiHomegardening 3 роки тому

    Hi Raya nice video.

  • @misterkingofvlogvikas9866
    @misterkingofvlogvikas9866 3 роки тому

    Very beautiful raya

  • @jhoetvs7869
    @jhoetvs7869 3 роки тому

    I LOVE YOU raya

  • @sanyogitasharma780
    @sanyogitasharma780 3 роки тому

    U r gorgeous.i never get bore watching ur vlogs...only thing I wanna know that what u do professionally. Loue is lucky to hv gf lyk u...ur very loving

  • @bobfrankkg
    @bobfrankkg 3 роки тому

    Goddess ❤️❤️❤️

  • @navmoon22
    @navmoon22 3 роки тому +1

    QUEEN xox

  • @skkumarkumar4649
    @skkumarkumar4649 3 роки тому

    I don't talk about your and our but I know only about you you are so pretty Priti and I love you

  • @sumitvarute
    @sumitvarute 3 роки тому +1

    1 st comment ❤️🔥🔥🔥👍

  • @M_Ravinerakhalgot
    @M_Ravinerakhalgot 3 роки тому

    Its the opposite for me but im in usa so im most active at night now i used to watch yt vids during the day but that has changed now i watch yt vids at night so most of them are uploaded already so i can catch up at night

  • @rongaianthemz125
    @rongaianthemz125 2 роки тому

    Pls make another video of travel vlog in Kenya

  • @abhisheknair6056
    @abhisheknair6056 3 роки тому

    Hi Raya I love how you swim 🏊 in the pool 🏊

  • @robynesparza
    @robynesparza 3 роки тому

    This vid is golden!!
    I just started a yt channel and I’m super stoked
    I’d love everyone’s support💕

  • @صداماحمد-ه1و
    @صداماحمد-ه1و 3 роки тому

    You speak very fast
    But I like ideas thanks so much

  • @abdulrahmanabdullah6985
    @abdulrahmanabdullah6985 3 роки тому

    hai raya good luck

  • @Ti_ace_
    @Ti_ace_ 3 роки тому +1

    Hello Raya
    Love from India . I really like listening to you

  • @erari121
    @erari121 3 роки тому

    Like
    Im from Indonesia Papua

  • @ugenegareth9339
    @ugenegareth9339 3 роки тому

    2 Esdras 2: 30 -100

  • @rockyyalcin2581
    @rockyyalcin2581 2 роки тому

    Your are soo Fresh and beautiful ❤️🐟

  • @AdivashiVlogerRanjeetMangi
    @AdivashiVlogerRanjeetMangi 2 роки тому

    Hy

  • @skincarebymaheenzahid3754
    @skincarebymaheenzahid3754 3 роки тому +1

    *Why u stop upload vadios on UA-cam friend*

    • @alexabueno3806
      @alexabueno3806 2 роки тому

      you can watch her on the channel with her husband called raya and louis

  • @Pauripabu
    @Pauripabu 2 роки тому

    come to india