I feel like LDR brings couples more closer than a normal relationship does. Like you don't see a person for a long time and then when you do meet them again its very emotional, tight hughs ect :
I've been in ldr for 3 years, hated every part of it. Good thing that in the beginning of our relationship we already were at that point where we knew what ldr is like from previous relationships that didn't work and made our intentions clear that it's either us seriously working to closing the distance or not even starting all that. I saw him 4 times, on fifth we got married. We really did put everything into this. I couldn't survive any more goodbyes at the airports, it's the worst part of ldr. Crying for 8 hours on the plane then 2 hours in taxi and a few more weeks in bed before it all goes back to normal. Finally, no more. So happy to call him husband now and sleep next to him every night and know that there's no ticket back!
I'm in a 5 year relationship. Started LDR and still LDR now. Just tip, talk everyday. Even if you're not in the same country. Always try to talk and update. Tell your SO "hey I'm On my way to school, im going to sleep text u when i wake up" it takes like a minute to update and the other person will feel at ease knowing where you are. When you don't have that physical contact, communicate! That's the most important factor of LDR! Having time to talk to each other. Stay strong my dudes who are in the same situation xx
U know guys the awesome thing to have LDR relationship is When both of u apart .. both of u still have awesome relationship and communication Imagine if u are together .. u are one That will be strong relationship ever
I've met my boyfriend 10 years ago during a language course in England. We were 15 but we have kept contact through all these years. At the beginning of this year we decided to meet each other again and it was love at first sight. Since then we are inseparable, he is from Spain and I'm from Switzerland, I hope that the distance will end soon 😊
My wife and I were in a LDR for 3 years. At the time, I was studying in Malaysia and she was working in China. I pretty much did nothing to protect our relationship becuz I was really lazy and playing stupid vid games every day, we do phone calls every night tho(except I said I’d marry you, which we did on the 2nd year). In this relationship, she sacrificed a lot, she would come and visit me every 2 or 3 months, and stay for 1week just cook for me. Most of my friends thought she was based in Malaysia but just had a lot of business trips in China. Anyway, since then it has been 4 years, we’ve been sticky to each other every single day. Last month, our little kiddo Jesse just came to this world, he is the prettiest thing I’ve seen in my life. If it is not because of her, I guess we’ be apart long time ago. Thank you, my forever princess.
One year and three months in a long distance relationship. We're closing the distance with my Polish boyfriend in 9 days! He's coming from Ireland to Greece ,where I live, and I still can't believe that it's really happening. I'm so excited!!!
This is the most genuine and causal interview ever and it reassured me a lot. I was so worried about doing ldr (though it’s not official yet but because I was kinda worry whether it will work out or not) everything that’s being said here is so true and relatable. Trust is definitely the most important. Anyway if he/she is a cheater, they will be a cheater regardless if they are miles apart or just right next to you. Cheers to all the ldr couples. You guys are beyond amazing!
We survived LDR!! It was fun! The hard part was saying goodbye after he visit!! Now we are together for 3 years :)) I’m a filipino he’s American and we have now a beautiful baby
Long distance relationship since 4 years. He's in the US and I'm here in India, 14982 kms to be exact. We are getting married next year and can't wait to be with him. Long distance is one of the purest test of love. You will never ever take the simple things granted in life, once you're in an LDR, even the tiniest thing like having coffee with your partner, or random walks in parks - you'll start to enjoy the little things in life! Totally worth it.
Four months so far and doing great! Trust and communication really are key, as well as appreciating what you've got instead of spending all your time dwelling on the things you miss about having them near. Can't wait to close the distance next year!
Love this video. I've been in a LDR for 3 years now. There's definitely the bad days, and insecurity has to be put aside but I wouldn't change anything. Seeing them after a long time makes it all worth it
Thank you all for sharing your experiences! I've been in a LDR for almost a year now (Canada & America). Things aren't always peaches and cream between me and my man. However, I cannot imagine my life without him by my side. Lately, insecurity and trust/abandonment issues have been getting in our way. I felt my own insecurities taking over me tonight. I felt like I was going to break up with my bf because of it. I just needed a reminder of the positive things about LDRs. Thank you for giving me hope. It really stopped me from doing something I would deeply regret. I wish you all the best of luck in your relationships ❤
It's been 4month I've been in LDR and it's soo hard when you look at couples and feel the loneliness... Hope this loneliness gonna end by the end of this year .. just waiting for him to meet after lockdown... Thanks for this video i learned alot❤️🤗🇳🇵
LDR is hard but with communication and trust, we both will survive I'm lucky to have someone who understands and makes me realize that I am worthy and loved. ❤❤❤
🇵🇹 Portugal and Philipines 🇵🇭 Almost 5 months here. And still going strong. There was a time of weakness, doubt... I also thought it was easier to just break up. But then I'd imagine how my life would be without her and I realized that I just couldn't pass an opportunity like this. Who knows if I'd be able to find another one like her? I mean, we're the same. Well, not physically, of course. But we mostly like the same things, think the same way... We are basically riding in the same direction. And that's great. We even had the same shirt color at least 3 times in a row. How crazy is that? I mean, it's funny to say the least. xD I'm planning to go to her as soon as I can. ❤️ EDIT: I forgot to say but we have a 7 hour difference. There are worse cases, sure, but it's hard nonetheless. So, basically if whenever we want to talk I must make time on my lunch break or she must make time before going to bed at night (when I'm leaving work) or on the weekends. But sometimes it's not possible due to one of us having a life too and not being able to make it that weekend. Like on this weekend. I went on a trip to a more rural place that had very bad internet connection yesterday and today she's attending a christening. Life happens, but that doesn't mean you can't send a message or photos and videos. I did it. I took time in getting through but it did... eventually. hehe In sum, you have to have self-confidence, trust, loyalty and communication. These four are the key. All the rest are bonus. Oh, and you better have a goal. You better be sure you are going to her or her to you whenever you can. You might not have an exact date yet, but you have to have something. :)
I loved this! I have been in a LDR for 3 years now because of school and I thought that I was going for a long time. Some of you people are amazing. I thought it was true when they said that it is hard but it gets easier. But I think that is because I have been able to grow myself and loose a lot of my own insecurities. This video made my day!!
We know long distance too .... 2 years speaking on Skype ... me in France and my love in Uganda and finally in 2014 we were together and we have a 2 years old baby now !!!! Distance makes your love become stronger 💪
Ireland 🇮🇪 and Korea 🇰🇷 We've been together over 2 years, LDR for 6 months so far. My bf has to do his military service. It's hard to find others in a similar situation to us 😕
I also always get jealous when my boyfriend goes out, not because I don’t trust him but because I’m jealous of anyone that gets to go out with him because I don’t lol. Doesn’t matter what gender or who he’s going out with
Recommend brought me here a year later, go figure. I’m almost 3 years in and I can totally agree that the most important thing is trust. We trust each other very much and that makes a HUGE impact on how easy it is to get through LDR. The second is communication for sure, and we have talked literally every single day, except 1 day, ever since we started taking. It’s hard to leave after I see my gf but we get back into the groove quickly. I hope others can learn from this video too because they say a lot of the right things. Side note I’m from USA and my gf is from South Korea, so yeah we’re literally across the world from each other. 👌
Just came back home from germany where my boyfriend lives. I think the goodbyes get both harder and easier each time. In a way you get used to them but at the same time it still always hits you and it hits you in the same spot each time. Luckily I only have to wait 3 months to see eachother again
I'm kinda a fresh, gay newbie here - me and my girlfriend have been together for around 5 months now. I live in Poland, and she lives in the US! At the moment she's 18 and I'm 17, but we both hope that soon enough (maybe in a year or two) we'll be able to finally see each other! Can't wait
So glad these couples stuck through/still sticking through their LDRS! I was in an LDR, but things unfortunately didn't work out. It was hard, but also rewarding. Trust and communication is so fucking important, if both ends don't reciprocate, then it'll be a disaster. I wish anyone who takes on an LDR all the best!! Keep on going!!
It used to sound like thats fine its just a distance, bt now i know how hard it is to be in LDR. Every day, we have to battle with so many things and every time we communicate that tiny sparkle appears in eyes.. everyone who are in LDR, i just appreciate them for their patience and loyalty 😊
I always believe that the outcomes of a long-distance relationship would be very fruitful, as long as both of you have trust and strong commitment. At the same time, communication is the key to success in LDR. ^^ p.s. I am also in a LDR with my British bf (Malaysia - UK)
My boyfriend is in Helsinki now and he will return to Paris for his PhD study for another whole year. Things didn't go so well for us lately, he's showing some kinda of depression sysmtoms and don't wanna do anything except lying around and sleeping. When it comes to our relationship, we were on the edge of breaking up last night, but we finally agreed that we won't be talking about it right now, just live the way we used to be. I'll be here for my man as long as he needs to find the purpose of life and come back to me as the funny and handsome guy I knew since day one. I won't give up on this relationship.
Me and my girlfriend are in a long distance relationship we finally met after talking for a year in August! She’s from Thailand and I’m in Canada! We are still living apart but plan to be together forever in the future (:
I'm in a long distance relationship for almost 6 years now.. He's from Bulgaria and I am from Philippines. Going strong and Contented. Obichamte moya lyubov ..hehehe
Awww, this is so inspiring! Even though my boyfriend & I literally live in the same city, we rarely get to see each other (like, several times a month) because we go to different schools. I'm studying in a school outta town & he goes here. But he'd also go back regularly to his home town (which is so far away T_T) almost every weekend. It's hard I know. But seeing these couples separated by OCEANS & still seeing it through; makes me more grateful for what I've got. ♥♥ thanks for sharing!
Been in LDR for 2+ years(US and Vietnam), married for little over 1 year. Trust and communication is the biggest things to have in this type of relationship. Hardest part is not being able to reach out and physically touch them when you want, and only seeing through a screen. Good luck to everyone in a LDR.
Everything soo true, I am in a ldr for 10 months now and it's really hard, but ldr are the best couples. Trust is the key and the relationship can really grow in so many ways. I love him and what I use to think is this doesn't last forever. Keep strong
my past relationship & current relationship are ldr it was two years with my ex bf completely long distance & it was a messy breakup but i sorta wish i could've met him once. my current relationship is long distance as well. it's crazy to think without seeing each other everyday and only talking to each other constantly you can fall for someone. i definitely don't regret it
Nice video!! LDR is really hard, I remembered the reconnecting beeps, sleepless night because of time zone and frustration of being not together but We survived LDR lol! I met my husband on okcupid and now we are married with a beautiful daughter! Ldr tips: be patient Trust each other Communicate 24/7 😂 yup thats what we did Pray
I met my bf through gaming a few years ago. LDR is normal for us and when we hang out in person its like we had never been apart. It actually leads you to do the most important part of maintaining a healthy relationship: communication. I'm so grateful we can meet people now from far places 🤗🤗
My boyfriend and I have been in an LDR for at least 3 months, have been dating for 5 1/2 months. I'm hoping to see him in Namibia, hopefully December 27th!
In a LDR with the love of my life. It’s been nearly 10 months. She’s in the USA and I’m in England. I’ve been to see her 3 times so far and I can’t wait to close the distance! I can’t wait to not have to sleep at like 6am on a phone call every night and to sleep with her in my arms every night 💙
I used to not have faith in LDR, not even a tiny bit but here I'm, one year & a half, Malaysia|Taiwan and he's my first love. We met online, talked for 5months before we see each other in person, before we gt together. Always feeling insane whenever those memories flash☺ Cheers ldr peeps
My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and a half. He moved 1200 miles up north last year. I'm so glad I got to see him just before he left... I love seeing his smile when we video call ☺️❤️
I got to know my girlfriend this year march 27 on dating apps, after almost 5 months as online couple (we cant met each other cause of pandemic) and for the first time we finally met on 22 july xD now she has to go further leaving me to continue his studies. three years is not easy but I hope we can be together again and most importantly the feelings in me will not change. i love you so much misha, take care when arriving in the UK. thank you for leaving some wonderful memories throughout our first met even though we only met once, you are the best I have ever had.
oh man, okay so I haven't been in a LDR for years but I definitely understand the stress and the struggle. my boyfriend and I were supposed to finally meet and spend a few months together next week, but atlas the borders have been closed due to covid 19. some days it feels like all I need is a hug from him or at the very least hold his hand.
Starting today Im going to have to do a LDR with my boyfriend (FL & North Carolina), and Im only 16 and We been with each other everyday since last November and hes leaving and it hurts me so much and I am so insecure but now that I have watched this I will just trust him and be happy that we are still pushing through and knowing that we love each other ❤. Thanks so much. 🙏
One year now and going one for at least one more and it's so good to see that when reunited it's working out !! People who never have been in a LDR are stressing me out about 'what happens when you'll be together for long periods of time ??' Good things !! That's what's gonna happen !!
I’m currently in a 1 year LDR, and me and my significant other love each other so much, we plan to meet this year, our friendship was along time ago ^^ though and we started the LDR last year. I hope it works out! Please wish us luck
4 years Canada-Italy. We move together in automn and at this point it seems easier to keep the distance because oh gosh it would be scarry to live with someone for the first time
For me, only one year passed and 4 to go. but the most important thing for us is communicate as much as possible. My bf studies over 6k kilos and time difference really is suck. Even he is offline or sleeping, i leave messages like i’m here,i’m doing that now or i’m heading out, i came home etc. some people say you don’t have to explain everything you did or where were you, he is controlling you, he is bla bla bla. But i will be mad too if i don’t know where he is or with whom he is. Right? Every friends of mine tell me to quit, that i’m wasting my time, that he is cheating on me, he is going out there but you don’t know kinda things. Sometimes this words comes on my mind in the night, When I’m really confident for my self that i can save this relationship. It makes little scratches for my trust. So. If you have a friend who is in LDR, please think before you say such mean advices. Think that you are ruining their confidence. And remember, real friends helps to save a relationship not for break up. Ps: You know i cant tell this to my bf, neither my friends. So i just wrote here .
This video makes me happy knowing that all of the tips they are giving are exactly what me and my bf is experiencing. After 7 years of not dating im now in LDR with him ☺️😊
I'm from Singapore and she's from Philippines , going 6months not meeting each other but this video just inspired me to stay strong and wait for this covid 19 to be over . 😕
Loved this video. Going through it now. Learned so much and I can relate to experiences that they spoke about. Especially when they speak about communication and trust. So important!
I’ve been with my guy for 7 months right now. He lives in Canada and I live in America. It’s hard but we’re getting through it. We see each other at least every 1-2 months
Canada 🇨🇦 & Japan 🇯🇵 I’m Canadian and my boyfriend is Japanese. He was an international student at my high school in grade 11. We fell in love, he went back to Japan for grade 12, and we were long distance for 1 year and a month. We made it through that and now he attends university in Canada. We are still going strong! Long distance really makes you treasure the time that you do have together, and realize how important communication is. ❤️
I really appreciate yall sharing this! me and my future Queen is apart in different countries, we met on FB.. it's definitely been different, but I'm grateful for the heart i've been given, because just being myself and the coaching and mentorship. i've gotten, has helped her to be a better person as well. so we always encourage, empower, and love on each other, and push each other to be better, and i'm thankful for that type of relationship. I don't have much right now, but I invest in her whenever I can to make sure she's ok. Thank you so much for this though! God bless!
2 years here, we had never met until this Christmas and he turned out to be the love of my life. We'll still have to keep this up for about 4/5 years but our relationship is so strong, I know we got this ❤️
Lol I still don't know if I'm in a LDR 😂😂😂 BIGGEST CHALLENGE for me is to know how the other person feels about me 😫 That makes it harder when no one actually wanna go on that topic first ..... And of course insecurity is the HARDEST PART OF IT 😢
Finally showing LDR couples who are actually in different countries and not just different states!
10 years for me. Canada and Malaysia. Tying the knot this year! 😁
I feel like LDR brings couples more closer than a normal relationship does. Like you don't see a person for a long time and then when you do meet them again its very emotional, tight hughs ect :
I've been in ldr for 3 years, hated every part of it. Good thing that in the beginning of our relationship we already were at that point where we knew what ldr is like from previous relationships that didn't work and made our intentions clear that it's either us seriously working to closing the distance or not even starting all that. I saw him 4 times, on fifth we got married. We really did put everything into this. I couldn't survive any more goodbyes at the airports, it's the worst part of ldr. Crying for 8 hours on the plane then 2 hours in taxi and a few more weeks in bed before it all goes back to normal. Finally, no more. So happy to call him husband now and sleep next to him every night and know that there's no ticket back!
2 years here. Makes you increasingly annoyed at people who don't see each other for a week and go "I miss you so much".
4 years for us and we’ve just got engaged!! Long distance can DEFINITELY work if you both believe in it :)
My bf and I were in an LDR for 8 Years - Singapore x Vancouver. He just moved to SG a month ago :)
To survive this kind of relationship, the couple has to trust one another, have great communication skills, and are both patient as well.
they're really make me feeling better now
I'm in a 5 year relationship. Started LDR and still LDR now. Just tip, talk everyday. Even if you're not in the same country. Always try to talk and update. Tell your SO "hey I'm On my way to school, im going to sleep text u when i wake up" it takes like a minute to update and the other person will feel at ease knowing where you are. When you don't have that physical contact, communicate! That's the most important factor of LDR! Having time to talk to each other. Stay strong my dudes who are in the same situation xx
U know guys the awesome thing to have LDR relationship is
When both of u apart .. both of u still have awesome relationship and communication
Imagine if u are together .. u are one
That will be strong relationship ever
I've met my boyfriend 10 years ago during a language course in England. We were 15 but we have kept contact through all these years. At the beginning of this year we decided to meet each other again and it was love at first sight. Since then we are inseparable, he is from Spain and I'm from Switzerland, I hope that the distance will end soon 😊
My wife and I were in a LDR for 3 years. At the time, I was studying in Malaysia and she was working in China. I pretty much did nothing to protect our relationship becuz I was really lazy and playing stupid vid games every day, we do phone calls every night tho(except I said I’d marry you, which we did on the 2nd year). In this relationship, she sacrificed a lot, she would come and visit me every 2 or 3 months, and stay for 1week just cook for me. Most of my friends thought she was based in Malaysia but just had a lot of business trips in China. Anyway, since then it has been 4 years, we’ve been sticky to each other every single day. Last month, our little kiddo Jesse just came to this world, he is the prettiest thing I’ve seen in my life. If it is not because of her, I guess we’ be apart long time ago. Thank you, my forever princess.
One year and three months in a long distance relationship.
We're closing the distance with my Polish boyfriend in 9 days! He's coming from Ireland to Greece ,where I live, and I still can't believe that it's really happening. I'm so excited!!!
South Africa and South Korea. In a LDR for almost 5 months now. Breaking the distance in December. Can't wait💜
The edit video legit have to stop HAHAHA
This is the most genuine and causal interview ever and it reassured me a lot. I was so worried about doing ldr (though it’s not official yet but because I was kinda worry whether it will work out or not) everything that’s being said here is so true and relatable. Trust is definitely the most important. Anyway if he/she is a cheater, they will be a cheater regardless if they are miles apart or just right next to you. Cheers to all the ldr couples. You guys are beyond amazing!
We survived LDR!! It was fun! The hard part was saying goodbye after he visit!!
Now we are together for 3 years :)) I’m a filipino he’s American and we have now a beautiful baby
Definitely, in LDR, holding hand, kissing, hugging all are luxuries!
Anyone noticed the difference in the body language of the 3 couples
4 months, we can do it.
Cheers for everyone struggling through this, you're strong, this is worth it.
Long distance relationship since 4 years. He's in the US and I'm here in India, 14982 kms to be exact. We are getting married next year and can't wait to be with him. Long distance is one of the purest test of love. You will never ever take the simple things granted in life, once you're in an LDR, even the tiniest thing like having coffee with your partner, or random walks in parks - you'll start to enjoy the little things in life! Totally worth it.
Four months so far and doing great! Trust and communication really are key, as well as appreciating what you've got instead of spending all your time dwelling on the things you miss about having them near. Can't wait to close the distance next year!
I’m in long distance relationship right now, and we’re going to meet for the first time next month !! I am super excited
Love this video. I've been in a LDR for 3 years now. There's definitely the bad days, and insecurity has to be put aside but I wouldn't change anything. Seeing them after a long time makes it all worth it
Thank you all for sharing your experiences! I've been in a LDR for almost a year now (Canada & America). Things aren't always peaches and cream between me and my man. However, I cannot imagine my life without him by my side. Lately, insecurity and trust/abandonment issues have been getting in our way. I felt my own insecurities taking over me tonight. I felt like I was going to break up with my bf because of it. I just needed a reminder of the positive things about LDRs. Thank you for giving me hope. It really stopped me from doing something I would deeply regret. I wish you all the best of luck in your relationships ❤
5 years and counting right hereee :) Closing the distance soon
It's been 4month I've been in LDR and it's soo hard when you look at couples and feel the loneliness... Hope this loneliness gonna end by the end of this year .. just waiting for him to meet after lockdown... Thanks for this video i learned alot❤️🤗🇳🇵
This producer went crazy editing this video.
LDR is hard but with communication and trust, we both will survive
I'm lucky to have someone who understands and makes me realize that I am worthy and loved.
❤❤❤
🇵🇹 Portugal and Philipines 🇵🇭
Almost 5 months here. And still going strong.
There was a time of weakness, doubt... I also thought it was easier to just break up. But then I'd imagine how my life would be without her and I realized that I just couldn't pass an opportunity like this.
Who knows if I'd be able to find another one like her? I mean, we're the same. Well, not physically, of course. But we mostly like the same things, think the same way... We are basically riding in the same direction. And that's great.
We even had the same shirt color at least 3 times in a row. How crazy is that? I mean, it's funny to say the least. xD
I'm planning to go to her as soon as I can. ❤️
EDIT: I forgot to say but we have a 7 hour difference. There are worse cases, sure, but it's hard nonetheless. So, basically if whenever we want to talk I must make time on my lunch break or she must make time before going to bed at night (when I'm leaving work) or on the weekends. But sometimes it's not possible due to one of us having a life too and not being able to make it that weekend. Like on this weekend. I went on a trip to a more rural place that had very bad internet connection yesterday and today she's attending a christening.
Life happens, but that doesn't mean you can't send a message or photos and videos. I did it. I took time in getting through but it did... eventually. hehe
In sum, you have to have self-confidence, trust, loyalty and communication. These four are the key. All the rest are bonus. Oh, and you better have a goal. You better be sure you are going to her or her to you whenever you can. You might not have an exact date yet, but you have to have something. :)
I loved this! I have been in a LDR for 3 years now because of school and I thought that I was going for a long time. Some of you people are amazing. I thought it was true when they said that it is hard but it gets easier. But I think that is because I have been able to grow myself and loose a lot of my own insecurities. This video made my day!!
We know long distance too .... 2 years speaking on Skype ... me in France and my love in
Uganda and finally in 2014 we were together and we have a 2 years old
baby now !!!! Distance makes your love become stronger 💪
Whoever edited this video needs a cookie
Ireland 🇮🇪 and Korea 🇰🇷
We've been together over 2 years, LDR for 6 months so far. My bf has to do his military service. It's hard to find others in a similar situation to us 😕
I also always get jealous when my boyfriend goes out, not because I don’t trust him but because I’m jealous of anyone that gets to go out with him because I don’t lol. Doesn’t matter what gender or who he’s going out with
It's always supporting to see people who actually did it! Closing the distance isn't easy, but so worth it for the right person.
‘If they’re not pretty, then okay’ LMAO HSHSHSHSHSH
Recommend brought me here a year later, go figure. I’m almost 3 years in and I can totally agree that the most important thing is trust. We trust each other very much and that makes a HUGE impact on how easy it is to get through LDR. The second is communication for sure, and we have talked literally every single day, except 1 day, ever since we started taking. It’s hard to leave after I see my gf but we get back into the groove quickly. I hope others can learn from this video too because they say a lot of the right things. Side note I’m from USA and my gf is from South Korea, so yeah we’re literally across the world from each other. 👌
Just came back home from germany where my boyfriend lives. I think the goodbyes get both harder and easier each time. In a way you get used to them but at the same time it still always hits you and it hits you in the same spot each time. Luckily I only have to wait 3 months to see eachother again
I'm kinda a fresh, gay newbie here - me and my girlfriend have been together for around 5 months now. I live in Poland, and she lives in the US! At the moment she's 18 and I'm 17, but we both hope that soon enough (maybe in a year or two) we'll be able to finally see each other! Can't wait
So glad these couples stuck through/still sticking through their LDRS! I was in an LDR, but things unfortunately didn't work out. It was hard, but also rewarding. Trust and communication is so fucking important, if both ends don't reciprocate, then it'll be a disaster. I wish anyone who takes on an LDR all the best!! Keep on going!!
Ryan and Ellie are so cute! 😭 They remind me of my LDR of 1year and still counting 🙇.
It used to sound like thats fine its just a distance, bt now i know how hard it is to be in LDR. Every day, we have to battle with so many things and every time we communicate that tiny sparkle appears in eyes.. everyone who are in LDR, i just appreciate them for their patience and loyalty 😊
I always believe that the outcomes of a long-distance relationship would be very fruitful, as long as both of you have trust and strong commitment. At the same time, communication is the key to success in LDR. ^^
p.s. I am also in a LDR with my British bf (Malaysia - UK)
My boyfriend is in Helsinki now and he will return to Paris for his PhD study for another whole year. Things didn't go so well for us lately, he's showing some kinda of depression sysmtoms and don't wanna do anything except lying around and sleeping. When it comes to our relationship, we were on the edge of breaking up last night, but we finally agreed that we won't be talking about it right now, just live the way we used to be. I'll be here for my man as long as he needs to find the purpose of life and come back to me as the funny and handsome guy I knew since day one. I won't give up on this relationship.
Word of advice guys, don't fall in love with the foreign exchange student
Me and my girlfriend are in a long distance relationship we finally met after talking for a year in August! She’s from Thailand and I’m in Canada! We are still living apart but plan to be together forever in the future (:
I'm in a long distance relationship for almost 6 years now.. He's from Bulgaria and I am from Philippines. Going strong and Contented. Obichamte moya lyubov ..hehehe
Lovely done. Thanks everyone.
Awww, this is so inspiring! Even though my boyfriend & I literally live in the same city, we rarely get to see each other (like, several times a month) because we go to different schools. I'm studying in a school outta town & he goes here. But he'd also go back regularly to his home town (which is so far away T_T) almost every weekend. It's hard I know. But seeing these couples separated by OCEANS & still seeing it through; makes me more grateful for what I've got. ♥♥ thanks for sharing!
Been in LDR for 2+ years(US and Vietnam), married for little over 1 year. Trust and communication is the biggest things to have in this type of relationship. Hardest part is not being able to reach out and physically touch them when you want, and only seeing through a screen. Good luck to everyone in a LDR.
My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship and have been together 3 years now ❤️ it’s nice to see other ldr couples
Everything soo true, I am in a ldr for 10 months now and it's really hard, but ldr are the best couples. Trust is the key and the relationship can really grow in so many ways. I love him and what I use to think is this doesn't last forever. Keep strong
my past relationship & current relationship are ldr
it was two years with my ex bf completely long distance & it was a messy breakup but i sorta wish i could've met him once.
my current relationship is long distance as well.
it's crazy to think without seeing each other everyday and only talking to each other constantly you can fall for someone. i definitely don't regret it
Nice video!! LDR is really hard, I remembered the reconnecting beeps, sleepless night because of time zone and frustration of being not together but We survived LDR lol! I met my husband on okcupid and now we are married with a beautiful daughter!
Ldr tips: be patient
Trust each other
Communicate 24/7 😂 yup thats what we did
Pray
i love the comment section so much , so much positivity coming thru im so glad
I met my bf through gaming a few years ago. LDR is normal for us and when we hang out in person its like we had never been apart. It actually leads you to do the most important part of maintaining a healthy relationship: communication. I'm so grateful we can meet people now from far places 🤗🤗
My boyfriend and I have been in an LDR for at least 3 months, have been dating for 5 1/2 months. I'm hoping to see him in Namibia, hopefully December 27th!
Its so nice seeing how long y'all been together inna comments. It gives me hope
Damn this helped a lot reassurance
Philippines And Canada. Turning 5! I want to be with her everyday!!! :'(
In a LDR with the love of my life. It’s been nearly 10 months. She’s in the USA and I’m in England. I’ve been to see her 3 times so far and I can’t wait to close the distance! I can’t wait to not have to sleep at like 6am on a phone call every night and to sleep with her in my arms every night 💙
I used to not have faith in LDR, not even a tiny bit but here I'm, one year & a half, Malaysia|Taiwan and he's my first love. We met online, talked for 5months before we see each other in person, before we gt together. Always feeling insane whenever those memories flash☺ Cheers ldr peeps
My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and a half. He moved 1200 miles up north last year. I'm so glad I got to see him just before he left... I love seeing his smile when we video call ☺️❤️
I got to know my girlfriend this year march 27 on dating apps, after almost 5 months as online couple (we cant met each other cause of pandemic) and for the first time we finally met on 22 july xD now she has to go further leaving me to continue his studies. three years is not easy but I hope we can be together again and most importantly the feelings in me will not change. i love you so much misha, take care when arriving in the UK. thank you for leaving some wonderful memories throughout our first met even though we only met once, you are the best I have ever had.
oh man, okay so I haven't been in a LDR for years but I definitely understand the stress and the struggle. my boyfriend and I were supposed to finally meet and spend a few months together next week, but atlas the borders have been closed due to covid 19. some days it feels like all I need is a hug from him or at the very least hold his hand.
This video makes me feel better about my LDR. Thanks for the tips. :)
I am in a LDR since 4 years❤ and its the best feeeling ever when we get to see eachoter!
This gives me so much hope.
Starting today Im going to have to do a LDR with my boyfriend (FL & North Carolina), and Im only 16 and We been with each other everyday since last November and hes leaving and it hurts me so much and I am so insecure but now that I have watched this I will just trust him and be happy that we are still pushing through and knowing that we love each other ❤. Thanks so much. 🙏
One year now and going one for at least one more and it's so good to see that when reunited it's working out !! People who never have been in a LDR are stressing me out about 'what happens when you'll be together for long periods of time ??' Good things !! That's what's gonna happen !!
Hi, I love your editors. Bless them. Pay them good cos they make me laugh every single time with their spontaneous edits.
I survived a long distance relationship 💏 and wanted to share my experience with everyone
In LDR now for 6 years and 8 months. Closing it for good next year wohoo!
I’m currently in a 1 year LDR, and me and my significant other love each other so much, we plan to meet this year, our friendship was along time ago ^^ though and we started the LDR last year. I hope it works out! Please wish us luck
Communication and Trust is really important 😊
Coming up to a year! Closing the distance soon.
4 years Canada-Italy. We move together in automn and at this point it seems easier to keep the distance because oh gosh it would be scarry to live with someone for the first time
THANK YOU! I REALLY LOVE THE CONTENT OF THIS VIDEO! THIS IS SO HELPFUL!!!
For me, only one year passed and 4 to go. but the most important thing for us is communicate as much as possible. My bf studies over 6k kilos and time difference really is suck. Even he is offline or sleeping, i leave messages like i’m here,i’m doing that now or i’m heading out, i came home etc. some people say you don’t have to explain everything you did or where were you, he is controlling you, he is bla bla bla. But i will be mad too if i don’t know where he is or with whom he is. Right?
Every friends of mine tell me to quit, that i’m wasting my time, that he is cheating on me, he is going out there but you don’t know kinda things. Sometimes this words comes on my mind in the night, When I’m really confident for my self that i can save this relationship. It makes little scratches for my trust.
So. If you have a friend who is in LDR, please think before you say such mean advices. Think that you are ruining their confidence. And remember, real friends helps to save a relationship not for break up.
Ps: You know i cant tell this to my bf, neither my friends. So i just wrote here .
This video makes me happy knowing that all of the tips they are giving are exactly what me and my bf is experiencing. After 7 years of not dating im now in LDR with him ☺️😊
this video is comforting 😍
I'm from Singapore and she's from Philippines , going 6months not meeting each other but this video just inspired me to stay strong and wait for this covid 19 to be over . 😕
1.5 years out of 4 total! Tying the knot soon to start the immigration process and tbh we're so friggin excited!
Heyy binge watching ur shows cuz u guys pretty chill and funny
I miss my bf🥺❤️ I want him back in Korea...Sometimes I want to fly out to Sweden just to get a hug
Mei Yan and Yao r so cute
THANKYOU FOR UPLOADING FAM
Loved this video. Going through it now. Learned so much and I can relate to experiences that they spoke about. Especially when they speak about communication and trust. So important!
I’ve been with my guy for 7 months right now. He lives in Canada and I live in America. It’s hard but we’re getting through it. We see each other at least every 1-2 months
Canada 🇨🇦 & Japan 🇯🇵
I’m Canadian and my boyfriend is Japanese. He was an international student at my high school in grade 11. We fell in love, he went back to Japan for grade 12, and we were long distance for 1 year and a month. We made it through that and now he attends university in Canada. We are still going strong! Long distance really makes you treasure the time that you do have together, and realize how important communication is. ❤️
I need more for these. Unlike seeing mostly failed, It's nice to see these. Thank you 💕
Damn I'm gonna be on that SURVIVED LIST too!
Love Her so much
Gonna Do Everything to Keep it Going!
Love You My Girl~
I really appreciate yall sharing this! me and my future Queen is apart in different countries, we met on FB.. it's definitely been different, but I'm grateful for the heart i've been given, because just being myself and the coaching and mentorship. i've gotten, has helped her to be a better person as well. so we always encourage, empower, and love on each other, and push each other to be better, and i'm thankful for that type of relationship. I don't have much right now, but I invest in her whenever I can to make sure she's ok. Thank you so much for this though! God bless!
Me and my boyfriend have been together 3 years now long distance ❤ its all on trust. Couldn't want anyone else
lol wish i could send this to my ex who broke up with me because he couldnt do the LDR anymore
2 years here, we had never met until this Christmas and he turned out to be the love of my life. We'll still have to keep this up for about 4/5 years but our relationship is so strong, I know we got this ❤️
Lol I still don't know if I'm in a LDR 😂😂😂
BIGGEST CHALLENGE for me is to know how the other person feels about me 😫
That makes it harder when no one actually wanna go on that topic first ..... And of course insecurity is the HARDEST PART OF IT 😢
It's so inspiring to see LDR couples who survived and it give all of us so much FEEEELSSS