Dale Jr. Download: Dale Earnhardt's Regrets
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- Опубліковано 26 сер 2024
- David Allen, a marketing master and longtime friend of Dale Earnhardt, shared untold tales with Dale Earnhardt Jr. about his dad. David talks about the difficult decision Dale Sr. made to send Dale Jr. to military school, putting Dale Jr. in a race car and a chilling admission about what Dale Earnhardt said was his biggest regret.
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I was in one of those 2-3 hour long dealership lines in 1994. I was 10 yrs old. C Weaver Chevrolet in Utica, NY. I don't know why he did it, but I asked Dale to sign a hand drawn picture of his car I had made. He sat me down next to him and we talked for a good 10-15 minutes while he signed other people's things. He asked what I liked about racing. I told him "I watch what you guys do with the cars, on the on boards I watch how you use the wheel." He seemed a bit taken aback that a 10 yr old was paying attention to that stuff (in 1994 anyway, 4 yr olds are driving nowadays lol)
I think that's why I started writing about motorsports. I never had even a sniff of an opportunity to drive at any level and still wanted to be part of it somehow so I guess that 10-15 minutes with Dale made me think of how easy he made it to talk with him. I thought to myself, well if I talked to THAT guy at 10, then a short tracker in NY will be a breeze... It hasn't been THAT easy, but I've covered some amazing events and awesome people since. Including last year's Daytona 500.
Thats an awesome story! Just to say hello to the man would have been an honor I'd say.
Good story.you met the man of nascar,I only have pictures from afar,so be greatful...
That's pretty cool.
That's funny! When I was 18 years old I was selling cars at C Weaver.
I am finding it touching that Dale Jr is still searching for a better understanding of his father and this is another example of that. Dale Sr may not have been a perfect father but it wasn't for a lack of desire of wanting to become the kind of father he wanted to be.
Absolutely. I'm glad he got to enjoy his son's first Cup win and 2 championships in Busch before his passing. The Steve Park interview with all the Sr. stories is incredible,too.
Like you, I love seeing this side of Jr. I've been watching stock cars turn left on ovals since I was a toddler, and I always loved seeing Sr. use the chrome horn, usually on TNN or the Speed Channel. When #3 died, I shifted my loyalties to the #8.
I lost my dad two years ago in an accident that I watched happen. It's only now that I can start joking about him. Our accident was far less disastrous than Dale's Daytona wreck, but no less impactful to my family.
Dad was my best friend, but there was still a TON I didn't know about him. I could listen to people tell good stories about my dad for the next 20 years, just as Dale Jr. has.
I am 63 years old, an east Coast Canadian;, been watching Nascar since the first few Broadcast, in the 70's . I've so enjoyed the Racing, Racers, the whole of it;; It's been so much a part of my life;; This year seems so strange, that for decades something so real and close to me, has gone away. I picked up on Jeff Gordon, like so many and watched him go through the motions; I've watched, Richard Petty, David Pearson, Junior Johnson, Dale Senior, Mark Martin, Bobby and Terry Labonte , Michael and Darrell Waltrip, Jimmy Johnson, and of course you, Dale Junior.;
I continue today, over four decades later. The List of Course going on and on! I've watched these Guys race, win, retire, move on. I've been so fortunate to see kids become men, and step into racing; And exceed above and beyond; It's been like a Huge family to me. Without any political, drama; Just Guys and Families out There Loving Racing. While passing that love on to their families friends and the rest of us. Always with a Heads up for that Big Guy in the Sky;; And a Love for Family, so much lacking and so needed today;
That for sure was another reason I loved the Nascar Family; They were absolutely Real and Genuine God fearing Folk! But as God is my Witness, I've never, felt more close to the Nascar Collective than I do Now; Dale Jr. This Podcast has opened my eyes, mind and heart, to so much; You are still a Young Man, but with a Heart and Soul of a Lion; You are and amazing Man an amazing Father and Husband; and you can only continue doing all of it and this sport and World, the greatest of service; You have Everything in the right place; I wish you and your Family nothing but the Greatest Blessing and Respect; Keep up the Amazing Work;
Please do not Worry So about Your Dad's Feelings for You; I also had a Dad who was a Hard man; but fear not, Hard Men can Love Too,; There was So much weighing on your Dad's Shoulders, But that Greatest of Weights was You, Terry, Taylor and Kelly. It's These he carried more and Loved Harder. God Bless You and Your Family; Congratulation on The New Baby Girl addition; God Bless The Entire Nascar Family; Let's Stay The Course, So Once again, Nascar Will continue on Course.
Bien dit Eugene....Well said....
Man I’m not sure who I feel the most for jr or Sr what this man just told us about what Dale told him on that plane ride home put a lump in my throat. And had to have done the same to jr sitting there and listening. Sometimes it makes you sad but at the same time what a great story. The one part I miss seeing is how proud the old man would be of his son and how he has become such a great human being.
When Sr got that black car the whole game changed. The intimidator arrived an it will never be the same. And Jr proved himself in the Red Bud car as being one of the best in the world as well. They should all be very proud.
He is absolutely right i lost interest in the sport after Sr's death i loved Jr. And supported him but the sport will never be the same i don't watch anymore at all ! Love jr you should have gotten your dad's organization not the wicked witch can't help but think what could have been !!! 👍
It’s still hard for me even today. I enjoy hearing the stories. But I can’t watch interviews of him and things like that. I can watch old races. But that hole his passing left in so many of us will never be filled and is still raw with the pain of that day. RIP Dale. We still miss you #3forlife
This was one of your best episodes. You need David back for many more stories
Dale Jr. and Tony Eury Sr. going their separate ways is at the top of the list of Dale Jr. regrets.
It was pretty cool to listen this entire podcast. The stories of Sr's regrets, and then Jr talking about talking to the baby in Amy's belly, so when she's delivered and being cleaned up, she will hear a voice she recognizes. All any of us can hope for is to do better than the generations that went before us.
This is all a treat. I am a fly on the wall here. My sister died suddenly when I was 16. She was just 13 and now I'm 56. I wonder how my life would have gone? Kelly was like my MCT. I wish Thersae would of let go of the number #8, but I also think now she was just being loyal to Sr. Military school got Jr on the fast track to growing up thats for sure.
That was amazing to hear. What a great interview. I just finished reading this same story in Kelly's new book, which is amazing by the way. It is so nice to hear the different points of view from so many of you folks that lived it. Dale I really loved your passion for the history of the sport. To all the folks that put this show together Thank You.
One of the best episodes I've seen so far Dale Jr., count me as one who stopped watching when we lost your dad! Oddly enough I just read a comment under another video earlier tonight where a man was talking about how he was in touch with Robert Yates the night we lost your dad and he was asked to meet Robert somewhere at like 3AM that night and they sat talking and he was told by Robert, the sport would never be the same and would go downhill within the next 5 years! So, what David shares here is so on point! Your dad was NASCAR from the time he came into it, until the day he left us all! Only good thing that comes to mind whenever I am reminded of that fateful day is, he left this world doing exactly what he lived and loved doing, racing! I know that had to be such a huge relief for you and Kelly to both hear what David shared here about his plane ride home and yalls dad telling him how much he regretted not being there with yall growing up! Another thing is, know that he was doing it all imho to leave it to you, your brother and sisters, even though that never came to fruition the ways I'm certain he would've wanted it all to end up, as I heard you say in another podcast how all you got left was a pair of his boots! Just imagine not having him for your dad....you'd likely have never been given any of the opportunities you've had by being his son! He did it All for you and your siblings brother! Know that without one doubt! I'm also certain if your dad was still here today, Isla would be getting spoiled rotten by Sr., no doubts about that in my mind! I can see him now in my minds eye, as his way of trying to subdue his regrets for not being there while yall were growing up! I'm very grateful for all you and the crew do here on youtube and your podcasts, I'd much rather listen to the good old days and all the stories shared like these here, than to watch the NASCAR Show on tv these days! As Richard Petty told Graham Bensinger, "The only thing the same today in NASCAR is, they drop a green flag at the start and a checkered at the finish! Nothing else is the same at all compared to what NASCAR, used to be! It's not a race anymore, it's a show!" He goes on after that to try and sugar coat it some, but he said it all right there inside the first minute of that 3:25 clip! Spot on imho too, 100% correct and it all started, the day we lost your dad!
Jr, I don't know how you can keep it together man! Much love from Bristol, Tennessee brother!🤘
Loved that ACDelco car, that was a good looking car.
Easily the best episode yet. And it’s not even close.
Man, that ending.....right in the feels.
Jr loved every second of that podcast, im sure he wishes he couldve talked more
Loved to watch Dale Jr race and the interviews in victory lane and just like Jr my dad sent me to military school and I think it really helps you through life.My dad had a big auto salvage yard and got into alot of mischief.Dad finally had enough and said he was sending me to Camden Military Academy.I spent 3 yrs there and from what Ive read this helped Jr and gave him confidence through the Busch series and Cup.I hope Dale Jr will get to spend lots of time with his two girls and he can look back and say he was a part of them growing up.I really enjoy The Dirty Mo videos,thanks for sharing..
Dale since you have gave it up I don’t even watch NASCAR anymore, You and your Dad were 2 OF THE MOST EXCITING DRIVERS I HAVE EVER SEEN , GOD BLESS
Fun story's we get to hear and live through you guys! 👍 Thanks for the free entertainment in these boring times.
Dale, thanks for sharing your Dad with us. The stories each of your guests share are not only fun, but they explain his character. David makes a great point that dad was carrying the sport through the '80s-'90s. And I believe you with this show, interviews, TV commentating, IRacing etc., continue that legacy now. You have picked up the reigns whether you meant to or not. Great job, congrats on daughter #2! Girls change everything about a man. Keep it up Dale and all the people at Dirty Mo. Thanks again. Rob from Long Island
Count me as one of those that stopped watching Nascar. Dale was Nascar
ronnie cardy me too bro, me too. These podcasts have sucked me into a time warp of emotion and reliving my past as well.
I never stopped, but there was something missing. Dale was the last driver that appealed to the working man that worked his way up through the ranks the hard way and that was made harder because he was a high school dropout. He was a fisherman, a hunter and a farmer and Dale also drove fast cars for a living yet still acted like a regular guy. The guys that worked outdoors, or in a field or in warehouses loved Dale because he was like them. I liked Jeff Gordon, yet I liked Dale, too. The youth movement began with Jeff, but Dale was the link to the past and we just don't have that any longer.
I stopped watching after 2003. Dale dying took a lot of interest out as thats who i liked, but i still liked the sport. The racing was good. But the playoffs killed it. Playoffs in nascar make no sense. Didnt in 2004, even less in 2020. Nascar was the best from 1975-2003
Here's the deal. I turned off the hype machine. The racing itself is great. But you can't fill your head full of crap all week long, or even prerace BS. The sound comes on the TV when the green flag flies & I listen to the drivers after the race because they talk about the race. But I don't need anyone's opinion of it at all. It made it enjoyable again because the only reason to like any driver is how he drives the car, not a lick of what he says because I don't listen to that part.
Same bro. Tried up until early 2010s and I now try but racing ain't got that southern roots racing style it once was proud of
Yep, NASCAR has never been as good since Dale Earnhardt then when it was with him. He was the SOLE reason NASCAR got as big as it did. It will never see that again.
I have a friend that went to the same military school. I live in Greensboro and a huge dale Jr fan. He is such a nice guy on and off the track. He has made the great sport of nascar even better.
Thanks guys! Love and appreciate the show!
Step mom's ruin lives man, I had one come in at age 5. I'm 26, still a problem
Incredible to hear other side of a story from an individual who spent time with the man/legend. I hope that Dale Jr gets these other side of these stories coming for that solid closer. Dale Sr was only human, and you know he loved his children very much. Dale Jr is a great dude! He is carrying the Legendary Earnhardt name on very, very well. Love your show's Dale!
I don’t know if that made Jr cry, but it sure did me!!! 😭😭😭
Another great interview. Great insight into DES. Thanks
It’s always so interesting to hear about your early years and what influenced you to be who and what you are today. Your dad was as tough as nails yet even when he was fighting his way up, somehow I knew in my heart he was a good man with an appreciation for life and those around him. It still brings tears to my eyes reliving that day in time and the loss we all experienced. There will NEVER be another Dale Earnhardt! I know we all have a peace in our hearts, but a perpetual sadness that will never heal. Love and prayers Junior, I wish you and your family health and happiness........ 💕
I am 76 now, memory is not to good at times. Two things burned in my mind: 1. Where I was at the time I heard JFK had been killed, 2. Where I was at the time Dale died. Was a big Dale fan, NASCAR has not been the same since, only watch a few races now.
I have to admit, I never watched another race after Dale Sr. Died. It just was too heartbreaking. I always paid attention to any highlights or news about Jr. though. Glad I found these podcast. It has reminded me of how much I loved NASCAR.
We've gotta share and get Dirty Mo some more subs!
Great one .
He's right , it felt very different . But , for every hundred that said ,"that's about when I stopped watching ......" , There was a thousand true Earnhardt/Nascar fans out here that still believed in the sport that he loved .
I lost my mom three weeks after the 2001 Daytona race . I didn't stop eating my potato salad or spaghetti sauce just like she made it . I still follow the sport , and I still love it . Neither are the same , but aren't we just doing the best we can , I think Jr's dad and my mom both were .
P.S. Mom watched the races solely to see how "her man was gonna do it this week" lol
She was a fan BECAUSE of The Intimidator .
"yeah it was hard for a while... yeah,"...... indeed it sure is... still...!!..time stand still, i'm not looking back, but i want to look around me now... see more of the people and places that surround me now... time stand still.
Dale Sr was Stone Cold Steve Austin of Nascar or Austin was the Dale Sr of WWE and Nascar hasn't been able to find anyone to play that role.
Thankz fer tha content! You tha Man!
That is why I told you to look over things but I needed the help for something so I could be there!
What great stories! 🏁 🏆 Thanks for all you do!
I hope this interview gave Jr. and his sister a little more peace about their father.
I'm sure they've long since settled things in their own way within themselves, but having
someone like Mr. Allen relate the story of Sr.'s regrets about his kids must mean something
special to them both - must have been good to hear.
Dicky Earnhardt?
Too good❣️
You can't give what you never had, but you can improve with the generation you were intrusted with, as we have seen Sr did a great job with Jr. Look at him with his children and a great husband and father. It taught him responsibility and compassion for the details in every day living.
This is a great clip, handled so well by all of you. Dale Senior was THE GUY, no question, both then and now. Others have meant much to the sport (The King, for example), but no one before or since has dominated the sport, and he's missed.
Pepe Pearson was the cousin of David Pearson.
EXCELLENT !!!!!
I gave up on NASCAR when Jr left. I haven’t watched a race since
With you on that man. Play the games and wonder who the hell the people were. Nascar was a culture not just another motor sport
Great video always enjoy watching video
4:40 Can totally relate. Stepmoms man.
Plus it is F'n Theresa. Prob 100x worse
Awesome.... just awesome
Remember the thought you (jr) had last week about Sr's thoughts when you would pass him on the track. Well, David just verified it. 100% chance those thoughts did enter his mind. 😊
I don’t mean to be, THAT guy. But every time I see Matthew with his yeti, I wanna point him towards the Podcastage video because he’s using the mic wrong lol. It’s a side address mic.
Jeremy Leech Oh man am I with you there
Great video...
I was a Nascar fan for years and it was Toyota that did it for me....Losing Dale was a blow to..
its strange people who were really big into nascar before 2001 daytona 500 lost interest and thats when it grabbed my interest ... i watched many years earlier than that and id root for Earnhardt and Gordon from time to time but i was too young to understand ... ive gone back and watched a lot of the races available on youtube and what a great things its been for me ... for me i have a hard time understanding how you can walk away from the sport ... lately ive been a Larson fan for the last few years and now thats gone to the gutter. I dont know why ive been so obsessed over nascar for so long when others lose interest and others hate the sport. All in all the characters will come and go but they will always be racing. Theres been some damn good characters. I love the story of nascar but its really been a frustrating one... and it was never lower than in the evening after the 2001 daytona 500. Its still so unfair, but that is life unfortunately...
Inspection order, attention to detail, payed off later in life
That doesn't sound like military school jr!.. sounds like camp.lol
He’s a Great driver
Dale sr is the stone Cold steve austin of nascar
white eagle well said
Dick Trickle was the Iron Mike Sharpe of NASCAR
Got a 3 with a halo over it tatted on my arm. A legend of the south. Do it for Dale yall
These videos are a good listen. They are held back by the guy with bright bright teeth that plays this kind of "speed it along" role. Im sure most would rather a longer less structured one on one with Jr and whatever guest is on. Thats why we tune in. The Rogan model would work really well. Just let Jr and the guest figure it out for awhile. Like listening in to a conversation between two guys at a hauler at a track.
What's the R stand for?
It's the first initial of your name.
I'm a diehard NASCAR fan,been one for 30 plus years..The sport needs to drop the rich pretty boys and get back to good ol boys coming up the hard way..Too many candy A&8 pc drivers..Big E(He hated being called SR) is the mold of what a racer was
Hi
The sport choke itself by turning its drivers into clones
Don't they call that black mailing!
I lost interest when they went to the green white checkered overtime rule
Always wondered if "I demand finishes under caution!" was a hill someone would die on. At least now I know.
Haven't watched, OR ONLY WATCH when Jr is Driving...... IT"S NO FUN ANYMORE.....
all my drawings and design's and you get all the fame!
Figured it was Teresa
the step Mom
I stopped watching after Dale Sr crashed, tried to watch Jr but, things aren't the same
Love you guys 😎🇺🇸
NASCAR died 02/18/20 as far as I was concerned. Never been the same since that day.
02/18/01
Dale SR was foolish about safety but Dale SR was Nascar, after his death Nascar went to crappy.
They used to race for groceries
Now there spoiled
Could you please interview Kyle Larson and about his N word on air? I actually believe he needs forgiven. 👁 humans says things in the heat of the moment. We are human 🏎 and sometime we suck too 🚧 Who among us is should cast a stone 🧱🇺🇸💋
thought of you as a brother but that was a joke!
The sport has no character now............
I really enjoy the Dale Jr podcast BUT the dude in the bottom left corner is overbearing. I don’t wanna hear him talk. Just shut up!