Meet Joe Black, Scene featuring Sir Anthony Hopkins and Marcia Gay Harden
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- Опубліковано 31 лип 2014
- Meet Joe Black is a 1998 American fantasy romance film produced by Universal Studios, directed by Martin Brest and starring Brad Pitt, Anthony Hopkins and Claire Forlani, loosely based on the 1934 film Death Takes a Holiday.
"More than that, I felt loved and that's all that matters. So never mind favorites, you're allowed to have one. The point is, you've been mine." 😞😢😊
I cried during this scene
That damn scene made me cry. This gutpunch.
I always cry throughout most of this movie because this scene hit my heart so deeply...that's how I felt my entire life with my dad....I told my dad once at 31 finally, you've always been my favorite even though I know wasn't yours and he replied that's OK your A ____'s favorite(my husband's name) it broke my heart 💔 kinda for the last time but I know I was loved
I'm a grown man now in my 40s. This scene has made me cry ever since I first saw it as a teen. I understand her so much. She was perfect in this role.
This is soooo sad
I like to think she was her mother's favorite while she lived.
She was both dad a and moms favorite before her sister was born
The daughters are ten years apart. The younger looked like his wife more than the older; and being ten years younger had that dependency on Dad. That's what the older understood.
Its not really the dads outlook, that was hers. When one daughter gets married and the other is still at home its going to seem like favoritism. Moms and dass learn as they go and adjustments made.
But its still huge for the older daughter: she gets a million points for loving her dad and for being hugely mature. I love her right on attitude. I also appreciate Dads response; it was all golden.
I too thought the same
Life is 10% what happens to you, and 90% how you react to it. Alison could have become bitter and twisted, resented her father and hated her younger sister, but she was mature and wise enough not to. She still felt loved, accepted and took the love that was offered to her, even if it wasn't the sort of love she would have preferred. But she still turned out to be a fine person, not consumed by jealousy.
Very insightful...spot on mate
Do you have the names confused Susan is the favourite daughter. Allison is the one who overcomes potential jealous?
@@davidsweeney4021 Haha yes got them mixed up, edited the post, thanks :-D
I agree, but I find myself in the same situation only that instead of my dad it's my mom... and I'm Allison, except I do feel resentment and jealousy and don't know how to accept the love I receive as gracefully as Allison does...
And you are 100% BS 💩
"the point is, you've been mine".
The most moving, poignant exchange in cinematic history.
Splendid acting by both, but this might be the first time in cinematic history when Hopkins was outplayed. MGH knocked it out of the park. Absolutely incredible.
Absolutely agree 100%.
It’s always a great pleasure to watch Marcia at work. We attended NYU Tisch School of the Arts Graduste Acting Conservatory together in the late 80s.
100% ! I love her acting skills 🎥
Wow, I’ve never seen her act I guess and damn she is really good and geniune. Sometimes I feel Hopkins overacts but he’s great in this. It’s the less famous movies that are always better than the highly touted blockbusters
I’m glad how this movie touched on Allison’s character and how gracious she was when she told Bill that she knew that he has always favoured Susan over her. At the start of this movie, I thought that Allison was Bill’s secretary at first because they acted like co-workers rather than father and daughter.
We always aspire to extremes: the smartest, the prettiest, the strongest, the richest, the most powerful.... and yet there are so many people aren't going to win, but that doesn't make them losers and it doesn't mean they don't have thoughts or feelings worthy of respect. Marcia's character is constantly reaching out.... constantly trying to please.... constantly pouring out her heart to someone who only has eyes for another. It's both heartbreaking to watch and at the same time uplifting to see such pure, unconditional love. A wonderful performance.
Beautifully put
Yes!! Beautifully put!! Both she and her hubby gave natural, incredible performances!! The relationships portrayed in this movie were so beautifully written, and so masterfully played!! Anthony Hopkins couldn’t have been more perfect, and the relationship between Marcia Gay Harden and her husband was just precious!! They were all perfect, and worth watching the movie for all by themselves!!
Your reply made me cry. Well put and a exact reply.
This movie was full of iconic moments that were brilliantly acted. This scene is one of them.
Meet Joe Black is my favorite dramatic movie...
When I'm watching this movie, I always wait for this scene. It heals my soul. Yes, sometimes you can feel unloved or unappreaciated by someone, even your parents, but that doesn't have the power to steal your ability to love or care deeply for anyone. Marcia Gay Harden just shows that nobleness.
Camila Gonzalez that just gave me a better understanding of how much I love my mom I always tell her she loves my two older sisters more then me but she's mine to
Never being told by my parents I was loved but I dint ever question it . I assumed I am loved. . it something I lived wit all my life.
Gary Calderon I'm sure they love you
Yes.
And the point is, despite favoring her younger sister, dad never made her feel unloved or unappreciated!
She's such a great actress. Great scene.
Very underrated actress. In that scene she out acted so many "A Listers," some of them with Oscars and outrageous salaries.
I've always felt this was arguably the best line of dialog ever regarding how to love someone and how to... be loved by someone. Not to allow yourself to be embittered by the idea that someone might not love you on the same 'level' as you love them, but to accept the love that they can give and give yours honestly according to your feelings.
What a touching scene. It would've been so easy for Allison to give into bitterness and resentment but she was simply grateful for the love she did receive. The hug and appreciation her father gave and showed her meant the world to her. That would be a beautiful, lasting memory she would have of her father.
I’m not even a father and this scene crushes me every time I watch it. 😢
I confess: When I first watched this movie I cried for two reasons:
1. The story moved me
2. I would've like to have a father like him. That not only loves me but supports me and that I know I can trust to. A father I never had and never will but I'm happy somehow there are fathers like him in the world.
Ditto!
You're not alone, my father was a child molesting alcoholic pedophile. I cried for the same reasons, for the little girl in me that knows I'll never know a father's love,
@@jeanne1271 I am so sorry to read this Jeanne. My heart breaks for you. You deserve a father that loves you unconditionally.
@@jeanne1271Jeanne. I’m so sorry for you. If fathers only knew the damage they do by not saying 2 simple words. I know so many girls that their dad has never said I love you to and I just don’t get it. I don’t. Why the fuck or how in the fuck do you or could you not say it???? I just wanna drive to see those men and shake some sense into them
It's hard to admit, as a sibling, that you are not the favorite. The fact that love can overcome that disappointment is beautiful.
Very moving scene played by two brilliant actors. Even as an adult, her love for her dad was unconditional despite the unfair love shown to the sisters. I can feel her pain and how big her heart is. Beautiful movie.
Perfect parents, there's no such thing. Only parents who try their best. My mom and dad are not perfect, but they are MY mom and dad. I am no perfect son either, but I AM theirs. I love them with all my heart, and I KNOW I am loved.
Aden Pur Beautifully said.
I agree with Chris. Well said bro ^.^
My favorite scene of the whole movie...always makes me cry.
the most favourite scene in this movie ,I was literally crying.
Beautiful moment in this film but tbh if one of my daughters told me that about my other daughter a piece of me might die to know I made her feel that way
I had both daughters tell me the other one was my favorite - in the same day. I waited until they were together laughed and told them what the other had said. I did what I could to make both feel loved. In an argument with my oldest daughter when she had misbehaved as a teen, I asked her while I tell you off for your mistakes did you ever doubt my loyalty in loving you? She got quiet and said - no. That is all you can do - love loyally.
I think when a husband loses a wife he deeply loves too early or in an unnatural way part of you dies with her and you are not ready to accept life goes on without the one you love which is what happens to Bill's character. His favouritism for his daughter Susan is him seeing a lot of his wife in her, also he constantly wants Susan to find the kind of passionate love he had with his own wife which shows how much through Susan he wants to revive the life he had with his wife again. Allison is different she is not like his wife, also her marriage with Quince even though successful doesn't remind him of his own marriage, I think Allison understands all this that is why she doesn't resent her father because she knows he is grieving their mother's loss and only Susan can fill the void and being a daughter who loves her father deeply she doesn't begrudge him his happiness.
@@ironwolfgaming9632 Wowza. You are a VERY good Dad!
Cease Miller: I always cry this part.How so? Because she told him right.Was honest, made her point.The truth.2019.
@@maragathm Best comment on this thread, as it enunciates the source and what motivates Allison's maturity
Having 4 children, this scene reminds me I better split my love up equally. Not everyone is as forgiving as Susan!
Such a great scene!
I don't know who you are but you seem like a lovely person. May god allowed you and your children to have a happy living relationship forever ( as cheese as this seems )
Alison, bro. Her name is Alison. Susan is the favorite one.
@@Xylarxcode who?
@@mosquitopyjamas9048what?
The performances of the actors in this move are a master class.
My baby girl is 14 she gives daddy hugs but I get eye rolls lol. I know it will change but as long as she feels absolutely loved and treasured I don’t care. Watching your babies go through the teen years and finding themselves truly reminds you how hard it was. I’m so proud of both our children. I don’t know how I could have done it without the best husband/daddy in the world. Happy 18th anniversary my love!
I am a father of two daughters. They are such different characters. I love them both equally, no favourites. As a parent to exhibit favouritism is unspeakable. It breaks my heart that there are fathers out there that can be like that. It would break my heart thinking my daughters thought the other one was my favorite. Growing up myself, I felt my younger brother was favoured. Honestly, I had no relationship to speak of with my father other than extreme fear and did spend his last 4 years trying to get closer to him. It wasn't till the day before he died, he actually told me he loved me. Its one of the saddest happiest days I spent with him. Make the most of the time you have with a parent, dont over analyse it, love unconditionally.
Rob-benny-hill: I read ur comment and I’m really mad and sad about what you said about your dad and how he waited until the day before he died to say he loved you! I’m a 54 yo father and husband and I have a 7yo girl and a 5yo boy and I’ve told them I love them a combined 500 times. It makes me furious that a parent can’t say those 2 easy words to their children! I don’t get it. And, if they only knew how unbelievably destructive it is for the son or daughter to yearn for that love, that affirmation their whole life. I have a 42 yo work friend named Brigette and she’s just so great and smart and pretty and her dad was a constable and this macho type that believes in pounding yourself on the chest to get through life’s challenges and never let anyone see your exterior and I don’t think he’s ever said I love you to her. I wanna drive to his house and kick his fucking ass bc in my mind, that’s the same as leaving her outside in a winter storm for death.
I know how she feels... U just have to make peace with it not being the favorite or it will consume you. Just as long as you were loved.
I know it's sounds silly, but the virtue can be it's own reward - you learn a new kind of love, one that stretches the boundries of what self-less can be
Some parents use the favourite to torment the other siblings. It amuses them.
I'm trying to see it that way but it's very hard...
I am still constantly reminded I was Mom's favorite. It was tough growing up. But my siblings now say I am their favorite too. I try to live up to their standards and keep the peace. I think I am filling some kind of dysfunctional role. But God do I love them.
Shout out to all the middle children!
She wasn’t the middle child
@@stephenpassaggio9975 Correct. But this is how we feel. Enjoy the rest of your day!
You’re an idiot
@@JustinFincher That's a popular misconception, actually the middle children are more often favored, there is even several instances in the Bible.
I love this film, and this scene is one of my favorites. The daughters in this film show such grace, class, wisdom and restraint. Just a lovely story.
Truly wonderful father/daughter scene.
I admire Allison's maturity and warmth in this scene. Great performance by Marcia 👏 👏 👏
The scene always makes me tear up. Alison knew who she was and knew her father loved her. It was just a little different. The ultimate older sister.
One of the saddest moments in this film, the heartbreaking reality that a father favours one child over another, the fact that she is aware of it and just shrugs it off like it doesn’t matter, how sad.
The harsh reality is all parents have favorites. They all have one child they'd save from a burning house over another if they had to choose. It's just a taboo to admit it out loud.
Oh it hurts her, but in the moment he celebrated the cake, she felt loved 🥰
That’s her resolution, that she felt loved after years of knowing her sister was his favorite
@@Aivottaja I don't believe it's reprehensible but if I take my parent' exemple it is simply not always true.
Can you imagine (cuz it wasn't shown) how Allison's (Marcia) reactions were in the end when she finds out her beloved daddy is gone ??
Two brilliant actors that perform well together. Love it.
Allison was way better character than Susan.
Who's Susan?
I'd seriously cut her out of the movie if not for the way she informs Allison's relationship with Bill, and for that matter Bill's relationship with Joe. She's a symbol more than a character, oh well.
Never mind favourites...
@@jerodast Allison's relationship with Bill???? What are you talking about? Susan is the youngest, the one death falls in love with... the female protagonist. Allison is her older sister, the one talking on this video... who is clearly lovely and mature.
@@mariana1994 I'm aware of the characters, I was being sarcastic about Susan. And I mean what I said. Allison and Bill's father-daughter relationship is much more interesting than Joe's crush on a woman with no real personality.
Such a beautiful scene in a fantastic movie. I was feeling an unrequited favorite in my life and had to look this scene up and rewatch it.😢
This is probably the best scene in the entire movie.
He should have offered some further words of comfort after the generosity she expressed.
One of the (many) reasons that this film stands to be, perhaps, my favorite ever is that I'm not sure I had ever seen such a wonderful scene and sentiment before this movie and I am even less sure that I've seen one since - it resonates me in a way that, despite all the loneliness of my life, makes me feel a little less so. But more than that, I feel a tiny bit understood - unrequited love is terrible, but like all terrible things that one must endure, grace is paramount in getting through it and still being beautiful and lovable.
This whole "Unconditional love" thing, with parents and kids, when you raise good ones, it goes both ways.
Gabrielle, but when a parent is a malignant narcissist/sociopath but a very good actor...oh, the hole in the heart of the child it digs, then leaves. It does not go both ways.
@@peterd.6579 you know this to be true. So do I.
This is the kind of line that I feel like every Dad truly wants to hear. God that was so touching.
Oh this scene brought tears to my eyes. Beautiful and touching. Marcia Gay Harden.....Just Wow. She is amazing here. The delivery was perfect.
This movie has so many important lessons that everyone can learn from or maybe feel they haven’t lived up to.
MJB is one of my all-time favorite movies. If you haven't seen it, you should.
A truly brilliant and gifted actress. Her performance in the film, The Mist, is actually what made me take notice of her. And that, in turn, led me to this movie. If I were an executive producer, she would always be at or near the top of my list of potential actresses to play a dramatic role.
This is the only part in that movie I remember. It felt so real. An aching beauty. Sweet sorrow. Superbly acted by both. Thank you for this ❤
My favorite monologue in this film. 😭
This is an incredibly underrated film. Beautifully written and acted.
Emotional scene for sure, but for me, it's a bit of horror. If any of my kids/daughters ever felt I loved one of them more than the others or treated them with more respect/affection, I'd die inside and know that I failed a big part of parenting.
You seem to have missed the point of this scene: in spite of all that (or maybe BECAUSE of it) she was able to develop a good character that involved true understanding and acceptance. I have the impression that she is much deeper and meaningful character than her beautiful sister.
@@jzwalz51robin45 I agree with everything except the last bit. she isn't any much deeper or meaningful in terms of character development compared to her sister. If you take away the glamour and theatrics, they are both along withe every other character as deep as you want to explore as they are art imitating life. Funny thing is your comment along with many others on this thread about choosing Allison as a better character over Susan just bring humor to this scene as it justifies the motif of the scene in y'all choosing a favorite character haha.
I know where my position was as being a loved child.
Everytime I watch this movie, I wait for the Peanut butter scene and the Cake scene, just because Marsha does such an amazing job at showing how much she wanted love from her father -- it's something everyone can relate to, the doubt of being loved, and the want for it. Her acting + Anthony Hopkins stand our as far far superior than the rest of the cast. Perhaps because their characters are more well-rounded. But I love Marsha in this movie. She's unforgettable.
She was really great! Beautiful scene!
Great scene. One of the best if not THE best from the film. Every beat. Every acting choice. Scene partnering Editing. Timing. Brings a tear to my eye every time.
The only thing I can say when I see scenes like this with actors like this is "my god acting"
Wonderful, sincere moment for a child bringing up a very familiar and normal feeling that exists with so very many families with multiple siblings. The writers and actors handled this scene eloquently and honestly, no parent is a “bad” parent for perhaps having a favorite, it’s normal and chemical, it’s the equal love and attention that makes a great parent. Even as children we, in the deepest of our hearts often have a parent we are just naturally closer to or consider to be more of a favorite, but it’s something that is rarely brought up so delicately in a movie with such great writers and actors without drama or abuse or “over the top scenarios”. This was mellow in execution, yet poignant and “close to home” for so many families in regards to the dynamics between feelings shared between parents and their children, and children towards their parents. Well written and acted!
Perfectly put. My best bit of your comment is how you state that "even as children we have a favourite parent" which just solidifies the notion of humans always having tendencies to one over the other
This scene actually gives me some comfort. It's exactly like this with my father. Kind of interesting how you can be so sad and the other person will never know.
This is the best scene in MJB. Every time I watched this movie, I look forward to this scene! Brilliant!
This scene never fails to touch my heart. Certain people bring us joy and we bring joy to certain people in our lives. ❤️
Certain parents connect with one child more than the others. So it was with my father and my sister. Whenever she walked in the room, my Dad’s eyes lit up just as Allison describes in this scene. There was plenty of love for all of us too, and I never resented my sister one bit.
This is such a great movie filled with many beautiful scenes, like this one. It felt real because it was well written and superbly performed by great actors.
A truly memorable scene in this movie, such a great performance. It demonstrates our human frailty and strength at the same time.
indeed. one of the best scenes in one of the best movies ever
Best scene in any movie I’ve ever seen
The scenes in this movie are so powerful.
This scene connected with me when I saw this film all those years ago. Extremely powerful and the most memorable scene of this film. Marcia is a true talent.
So many great scenes in this movie. This one is up there ❤
Such a beautiful, moving scene about unconventional love. It brings tears to my eyes. I love this movie.
Simply THE Best scene in the movie!
She is a wonderful Actress, Conveys so much Emotion with her face .. Completely On point and matched with every word...
Marcia Gay Harden is a treasure!
Marcia, thanks for posting. This is my favorite scene in the movie and have watched it many times. I often use the "...Nevermind favorites. You're allowed to have one. The point is you've been mine..." a lot of times in my life.
This scene hits my soul 😢😢.No matter what I ever did for my father whether gifts or special acknowledgements, he never lite up for or smiles from his core of existence. I am not a Habitual Liar, Confusion Starter or Cut Throat as his "Precious Susan". I am not the Apple of His Eye But he could never second guess that I am his child from the marriage to my mother and God blessed me with 2 supportive uncles who were great stand in Dad's. My late Uncles Tom. And My Uncle Uncle Charlie. Rest in Peace to two Awesome men I loved and appreciated very much.🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Don't forget tho that in the original 1934 film, one of the most significant events was that for the time that "Death" took his holiday, there were NO deaths throughout the entire world.
I never knew this was based on a prior version. Wow. Thanks so much ✌🏽
Frederick March was exceptional in that role.
Thank you for posting this vid. Your character was my favorite in the movie
Beautiful script n excellently acted out.
Such wonderful actors
amazing actress
Watch this scene followed by the one where Joe talks to her husband Quince about their reliationship (or the other way around, it doesn't matter), and you realize that Allison really has it made. She has a husband who loves her so much it moves him to tears and she's managed to come to terms with the disappointing truth of her family's feelings towards her and still managed to rise above it with grace and maturity.
The thing death was looking for was right there. Not with Susan, but with Allison and Quince. They're the true love story and rock solid relationship everyone aspires to, as well as the levelheadedness and maturity to cope with the bitter disappointments of life and still take it stride to appreciate the good things they do have going.
This is one of many lessons about life in this movie. Dont favor one child over another. The character accepted it graciously, but many in real life wouldnt feel the same way, being deprived an equal measure of love by their parent.
Yeah. Our father was the same, both with my sister and I. There was no "favorite one"... we were invisible for him, from an affective point of view. He did a great job as a material provider, we can't deny that and we'll always be grateful: he was flawless and we never had economic difficulties, not even once. But sometimes... well, y'know... you need something else besides food, expensive shelter and costly doctors and schools. Sometimes you need a goddamn hug, for fuck's sake. Sorry.
Just recently, I truly realized maybe that was the only way he knew how to express love to others: making sure they were ok in terms of material security. His all-time phrase was "everything's ok? Do you need something else?" He had a difficult childhood and as far as I remember, he hardly mentioned anything related to our grandparents. "Let's talk about something else", he always said when me or my sister asked about them.
The part at 2:03 really makes me cry. I never experienced that.
@@-Vitalis-
In my culture, parents are expected to be strict and harsh. Fathers are policy maker, mothers are discipline enforcer. Parents don't express their love verbally. When children do great, they show approval, and that's it.
That's where grandparents take their part. Grandparents spoil their grandchildren rotten, love them unconditionally, generously hug and kiss, defend them in front of the parents, talk proudly about how great their grandchildren to everybody on every chance, forgive them when they screw up, etc. Obviously they try to make up for how they treated their children THROUGH their grandchildren.
And the cycle continues..
Having a son of my own made me understand. Now I feel how my parents felt. They wanted to make sure their children are tough. And now I'm witnessing my own dad and mom "sabotage" my program to shape up my son, their grandson, the way they shaped me up.
🤦🏻
No words, just sublime! One of many sublime scenes in this unique movie!
This is such a great movie on so many levels.
THis scene brings tears to my eyes every single time! I love the father-daughter moments and story in this movie
This was literally my favorite scene in the movie! I’m that daughter! I related so much to her character!
Such an amazing movie. I always felt it was underrated. And wow, what an outstanding cast. Brad Pitt and Anthony Hopkins worked together on this and Legend Of The Falls but they should have worked together more.
As a Father, to be told, what he was just told...it's everything...and all you could ask for in the winter of your life.
Those of us who have daughters can totally relate to this scene.
Her dress oozes 90s.and yeah marcia is such a sweet woman.
The whole movie is full of wonderful messages, it‘s lovely, touching deep, a big hug for our life’s. Even the sad moments are adorable in their meanings to be overcome. Feelings, emotions and love; that’s what matters in life! I wish that for everyone to experience that at least once in a lifetime 🙏🏻
It is easy to be great when you have support. Rarely do you get to see greatness without any or not much support at all. I commend those special people who do awesome things without help and praise from others. Imagine what they could have done if they had....
One of the sweetest and most real scenes in any movie. You can tell he felt a bit regretful about their relationship, but she made everything whole.
I had forgotten how incredible so was in this. What a pleasure to revisit it again.
What a daughter.
This film undoubtedly touch on a great many of life's points, relationships and bonds between family and friends. How you like to treat and respect others as you would like to be treated, unfortunately its seems to be more of a discipline rather than a natural behaviour for some. The film touched and reminded me of values and appreciation of those in my everyday. A great classic film 1998 unbelievable where did it go👍
underrated scene AF.
What an amazing scene!!!! Marcia is such a stunning actress. From Space Cowboys to Meet Joe Black...... she's always been one of my favorites!
Hopkins and Pitt, are phenomenal in this movie 🎬
OMG.. OMG.. This is soooo beautiful..
I love Marcia Gay Harden.
What a beautiful word to speak @1:50in!
Even though
Alison didn't feel flavoured.
She still favoured her father🤗
I count at least 10 scenes in this movie ( including this one ) that bring me to tears every time.
I wish my sister reacted this way. … He loved her.
I loved her too. ❤
this film ...such a work of art and love.......so profound....and noble.
One of the best scene makes me cry always
Allison and her husband may be the most important characters on this movie. Susan, Joe, Bill all have that "Magical" quality; too beautiful to seem fully human. This couple carry the pain of being human with all the fragilty of hope and grace in disappointment.