I feel the urge to clarify the “periods have tiny baby bits in it” part, just in case! Yes, there are tissue bits in period blood. That’s the uterus lining that builds up each month in preparation for a potential pregnancy. If there’s no pregnancy, out goes the old lining and those are the thicker bits and pieces one can see in period blood.
Those can also be caused by too much blood passing through the uterine wall too quickly for the body to expel, resulting in clumps and "clots", which can be indicative of problems like PCOS. If you're passing large clumps on a regular basis throughout your period and it remains very heavy, as opposed to passing small solids for the first day or two, you should see a doctor.
I thought this was because there is the egg in there as well. But since it hasn’t been fertilized, it’s not a baby, nor “baby bits”, just some unused cell
I think anyone with a brain could make the realization that without pregnancy there's no baby and when there's period there's (usually) no pregnancy... That'd be a lot of babies to go through lmak
This reminded me of one time when my cis male friend asked if he could ask me questions about periods that he had always wanted to ask but never had the courage too. I was like, "sure, go ahead!" He asked a number of questions, and then asked what was the worst part of getting your period, like, what hurt the most. I told him that each person has it differently, everyone's experiences with periods are different, but that to me, personally, the worst part is the lower back pain. He then had the guts to reply with, "I disagree. I think the worst part must be the cramps". And I was like "EXCUSE ME? You 'DISAGREE'??" I stg the audacity! I took a deep breath and explained to him that he was mansplaining something that he couldn't possibly know anything about and all that. I tried to be patient, but I swear I wanted to punch him in the face that very moment.
@@MrShyghost I love how frequently trolls like you are wandering in the comments of videos like that, contradicting everybody with their certitudes, just for fun.
But the thing is, it wasn’t just is opinion, he straight up invalidated her opinion and told her she was wrong about an experience he’d never experienced! Please tell me you see the difference there.
@@aryantiwari4241 Well a woman was saying that women do not pee out of their vagina, and a man thought appropriate to respond that "yes they do" because apparently we only have "two holes" (meaning vagina and butthole) and since women don't pee out of their butthole, it HAS to come out of the vagina. Hence the "unless there is a 3rd hole somewhere for the pee to come out of" ... wich IS the case ! Women pee out of the URETHRA, wich is NOT located in the vagina, it's just above :)
@@aryantiwari4241 it’s more basic anatomy than sex education, but i’m sorry the education system has failed you so much. i’m american and the education here is also awful.
@@skinnyhomo3136 yeah I know like if my friends were not scoundrels, I would have not known about sex too and I learnt about a lot of things with the help of my phone, we don't have anything ad sex education, we are not not about periods in science, on the good part we got a safety workbook this year, which helped me understand things like period etc.
That "Specimen: Woman" thing was probably the worst thing I've ever heard/seen as one of those "funny posters" or whatever. That's literally disgusting in every single way. How could anyone ever come up with that and think they're HILARIOUS for doing so? The delusion of some people.
And there are tons of people who will be like, "it's just a joke, you're so sensitive." A joke that shows exactly how people think of my entire gender. Neat.
That’s... fascinating. Imagine thinking you’re funny and completely missing that you bit by bit show to people what a sexist, misogynistic asshole you are. I can’t believe that there are actually people out there, that don’t think it’s offensive and vile to even think stuff like that...
I remember when a guy I was dating showed me that along side edgy gross miscarriage memes. How many red flags does that count for? Cuz he's trying to come back.
Yall are literally amazing i love you so much you've helped my friend a lot (he's a trans guy with bigoted parents) and he came onto ur page and it just makes him happy thank you
One of my greatest fears is a colleague/boss noticing that about me >< Of course it _shouldn't_ be a big deal for people to know when someone's period is, but... that's not necessarily how society is right now, and I wouldn't want to be perceived as gross or giving TMI at work >
Reminds me of that one time when my brother was talking about pain killers and how he didn't want to take them, then commented on how I take them "like ten times per year or something!" and I just looked at him like.... Oh gee it's almost like there's a pattern there huh? Like it's a regular occurrence that one might map to a calendar? For the record I live in a place with good sex ed and also had very educational parents so it's not like he didn't know about periods, he just did not think about it
@@KreeZafi Like how one of my ci guy friends once remarked that he found it super weird so many stain removers specifically mention that they work on blood - how many people are getting hurt out there, do the manufacturers think we're all serial killers or something? I just said, "Periods," and it was the most embarrassed I've ever seen him. Also, boo on your brother for implying you take OTC pain meds too often just because he doesn't like to.
Can men stop saying they like "natural" women when referring to women who don't wear makeup or wear very little makeup and then get super grossed out by body hair on women? Everyone has body hair. If you're not mature enough to handle that, I don't think you're mature enough to be dating anyone.
Dude like, I almost cried when I didn't shave my legs for ages and my boyfriend still went "your legs are so soft, its nice" because I got made fun of for my hairy legs so much in high school
There is such a national bias in the "leg and armpit hair on women is gross" ideology, too. In many countries around the world, women do NOT shave these areas of their bodies. And a historical bias as well since the idea of a woman having to shave armpits and legs is a fairly recent one.
Why are you talking about men? Women started the trend of shaving their bodies ? Women started wearing make up? You just blamed men for a trend you started? This is the most woman thing ever.
"I found out that girls have sensitive parts of their bodies" - this guy has no feeling in his legs and needs medical attention but he doesn't know others have sense of touch in their legs 😱
To be fair that drawing was a fashion plate from the victorian era. It's an idealised (and highly exagerated) image the same way today fashion advertisement is idealised... Nobody actually expected women to look like that.
@@dontbefatuousjeffrey2494 nope, a few years earlier. Those leg o mutton sleeves were the height of fashion in the mid 1890s. Given the size of the sleeves, that fashion plate is from no later than 1896. The Gibson Girl was being illustrated a couple of years later and boomed right around the turn of the century. It’s more Edwardian (1901-1910).
But oh, did some people try. A Little House book had Laura's mother tut-tutting her for her erratic corset usage. "Your Pa could span my waist with both hands when he married me." Of course, Laura rightfully snarked, "He can't anymore, but he still seems to like you."
Okay, so I can explain that drawing. Firstly, it’s just a drawing, so the proportions generally aren’t accurate. Think of our modern fashion drawings- they aren’t accurate proportions either. This is from 1894-1896, at the very height of the poof when it comes to sleeves. As for the teeny tiny waist- when women would wear these fashions, it was mostly an illusion. Tight lacing if corsets was pretty rare, generally only done by the Kardashian types of the day, abs even then only for events. Also, if you see a photograph and think “how is that even possible to have a waist that small?” Well, it’s not. They did alter photographs back then. See Bernadette Banner’s latest video for info on that. But the illusion comes from having padded busts, massive sleeves and padded hips. You don’t need to tight lace a corset if everything else is already making your waist look a lot smaller in comparison. And women back then were not shy about adding a bit of padding to make their bods look the way they wanted. At the time, it was more about shape than size- and that shape was actually accessible to a lot more women than what current beauty standards are. So don’t be too bothered by the drawing. It is already a little exaggerated (as all fashion drawings were and still are), but even then, it’s still mostly illusion.
I'm starting hrt in less than 2 weeks and i cant wait for the butt hair and acne :)) No but really, I'm very excited about the changes and super happy it's finally happening
I just wrote a reply to someone else about this, so: How much body hair you get and how fast your facial hair grows is totally down to genetics, partly inherited, partly luck of the draw. And it changes slowly over time. I'm cis and I didn't have to shave daily until my 40s. In my 20s it was only once a week. My chest hair isn't all that thick. And that's totally normal. Some guys turn into gorillas within 5 years of hitting puberty, others take a good 10 years to grow all of their body hair. So if you ever have moments when you wonder if T is even doing anything, reread my comment and remember that it takes time even for us cis guys. And congrats!
@@John_Weiss Yes, many people forget that T just causes a second puberty, so the amount of time can vary a lot and it will inevitably not cause immediately visible or audible changes. After all, puberty takes years.
Love it when Shaaba joins you in a video - such a delightful human. The "woman" trading card (whatever it was) was so grim, but totally could see that as an element to a hen/stag party game, as Shaaba suggested. It'd actually be interesting to see you pick apart some hen/stag party stuff... Because it's usually cringingly misogynist (and naturally very hetero normative).
1:57 the arms, chest and hips are padded out so that the waist seems smaler people didn´t think that this is how women look. also on a drawing proportions can be exagerated
Bum rolls, mutton sleeves and petticoats! Her cinched waist was likely no smaller than 25-28” with 35-38” hips but they make it look like a spine in a skirt.
I'm so happy that you made a second one of these, Jamie! I find them so funny and I love hearing your voice, especially how gentle and funny you are when laughing at ignorance. Thank you for breathing, my wonderful man.
I really hope it was a joke but this is by far not the first time I hear about this weird idea that women pee out of their vagina, and every time I hear it I always wonder... What do these people believe how pregnancies work? Where's the uterus? Do they think the baby grows in the mother's bladder, just floating around in pee? And if the mom doesn't drink enough and the bladder gets to empty, does the baby just dry out, like a giant raisin?☠️
@@maryasenlin5916 well, it DOES work. For example, in ferrets (and probably a number of other mammal species too), the urethra ends in the vagina, but very close to the opening. So technically, they pee out of their vagina. Just for an extremely short distance though and the vagina itself isn't connected to the bladder ofc.
@Lady Seashell Bikini I kinda understand the initial confusion of men because they don't have a third hole. Sperm also exits through the urethra. It's still stupid or at least shameful for the education system when adult men (or even women for that matter) don't know better.
We all have/have had, those "I wonder why..." moments. In the past, before google, we used to ask grand-parents, parents, older siblings or friends. If no-one could give us the answer, we used to go to libraries, do research and become informed/educated. Now, the proverb 'ignorance is bliss' doesn't apply to lots of people. They're arrogantly angry in their ignorance.
About the drawing of the Victorian outfit with the Violetest Chachkiest waist. I want to say that women in fashion plates and all were portrayed with tiny waists, but I think they knew it was not realistically humanly possible. As long as they had the good waist/hip ratio, it was fashionable. Also, plus size women were never in fashion plates, but they could achieve the fashionable silhouette thanks to padding. It was all about the shape, not the size.
Jammidodger, your videos always bring to mind the kids who had to leave the classroom before sex ed presentations because their parents had refused to sign the permission slip out of fear the info would "give them ideas" or make them promiscuous.
I'm not far off 60, and stopped regular shaving/waxing/plucking quite a few years ago, although I will shave my pits if it's warm weather. But I've found that as I've gotten older, my body hair has greatly reduced; at least there's one plus in the quagmire that is the menopause!
In my families culture, a women who is menopausal is so much more powerful, because all of her energy that goes into making life is now her own to keep. Those aren’t night sweats, it is all that power heating you up.
Not a content related but.... damn Jamie look how hairy your chest is, I hope it is bringing you much happiness ♡♡♡♡ I have a little fluff and it's super light coz I am blonde but one day I will have a hairy chest like yours ♡ I've been on t 6 years and it's basically invisible to anyone except me lol Sorry for the random body hair appreciation comment ♡
Don't sweat it, dude. I'm a cis-male, and wasn't hairy until my mid-20s. Even now, at 52, my chest isn't very hairy. I also didn't need to shave daily until my 40s. In my 20s it was only one a week. In my 30s my facial hair was growing faster, but still slow enough that I only needed to shave every 2-3 days. So don't think there's something wrong with you if your body hair and/or facial hair isn't growing like crazy. How hairy a guy is fine down to genetics, partly inherited, partly luck of the draw.
@@John_Weiss I'm not sweating it don't worry ♡ I can grow a f off big beard which I love , I don't mind to much at the moment about my chest as I'll need to shave it all off when surgery happens haha. But one day I'd like to be hairier haha. just showing my appreciation for Jamie's fluff ♡
I am a white cis woman and I love your videos. I suffer so much because of men who do not know even minimum about womans anatomy, like number of holes women have or they believe that every woman dreams about having sex without a condom because with condom she can not feel anything... It can be a long list. Just thank you for talking about this bullshit aloud.
Related to accidentally touching someone else's leg: We were playing volleyball in 8th or 9th grade in PE class. I went to pick up the ball behind my classmate and jammed my finger in knee part of her prosthetic leg. Ouch.
I could literally listen to these guys react to this stuff all day, whether it's bad anatomy, trans memes, bi erasure etc. all these kinds of tweets/redit posts. I just love their reactions, their corrections, the inclusive language and their cute/cheesy moments.
The drawing near the beginning is fairly typical for the time period. The artist likely exaggerated the tiny waist, however, corsetry then padded out the hips and bust (more than cinching/ reducing the waist) in order to create the illusion of a tiny waist, when it likely wasn't reduced all that much. Women also used things like bustle pads to make the waist look smaller in comparison.
The drawing from the 19th century is very similar to modern day equivalents. The waists are always accentuated. It’s not a photo. And even in old photos, people “photoshopped” the negatives to have smaller waists than they actually had.. Bernadette Banner recently did a video of that..
I am a sophomore in college and I am currently in nursing and Pre-Med anatomy and psychology. We had a boy ask the professor if sexual activity with women gets messy with poop everywhere because he believed that woman only had one hole for everything. The same boy also believed that women had to take abortion pills each month to start their periods and that birth control was the pre-abortion pills and he explained that woman are pregnant every other part of the month until they take their abortion pills.
For those who have horrible heavy clot filled periods that last over seven days I cannot recommend a Mirena enough. I’m 51 and in the last 4 years it’s been invaluable. I wish it was around when I was younger.
Also, for needing a saying - the oldest I'm familiar with, which still works for pretty much any topic: _si tacuisses, philosophus mansisses_ (literally, if you had remained silent, you would have remained a philosopher - or more modern, _Better to Remain Silent and Be Thought a Fool than to Speak and Remove All Doubt)_
I was proud on my 12yo niece yesterday for her inclusivity. I made a comment about something being more comfortable for girls and she said "why did you say girls? Why didnt you just say "us"" and I said "you're right it's just more comfortable for us" later we were sitting on the doc had our feet in the water and she said "my legs are hairy" and I responded "mine are too dont worry about it. I'm probably the hairiest woman that you know" and she shook her head no and so I asked who was hairier "a girl at my school who's trans gender", she hesitated and said but idk if that counts? " and I said it deffinatly counts haha". And then I mentioned how much I've been liking your channel recently. She hugged me and said "why do some people have to judge others" and I told her it's probably because they're unhappy with themselves and dont know how to deal with that. Being LGBT+ doesnt confuse children... judging people for no good reason is what confuses children.
"how sensitive is the back of your leg" "well that depends, if you pull the lever..." shaaba how does it feel being the funniest person on the fucking planet
I can't decide if my boyfriend's best period-related comment is "why is there a kit kat in the cupboard" when a tampon fell out of the bathroom cabinet or "have you been on your period all month" when he saw the cotton rounds I used to take my red lipstick off in the trash 😂
"Schools used to separate" My elementary did. Interestingly, the boys came out of their first day of it looking pale and sickly. Turns out they spent the whole class on menstruation!🤣 They learned about it in much more detail than we did at the time, incredibly. As for the girls, we were taught by our confident, butch science teacher. She was a mix of very pro-girl and very... weird... about it. For example, rather than really explaining menstruation adequately, she spent an entire class having us sit through an incredibly lengthy and detailed projected film of two snakes seducing each other and then copulating. She was very odd and kind of creepy about presenting it. We sat in the dark in silence. It was very strange. ( I got called down to the office midway through, and asked my friend afterwards, what did I miss? Nothing, she said, the snakes thing went on and on forever! When it was done we just walked back to class, she didn't say Anything) And though we had to learn the whole anatomy diagrams, she taught us very little about the mechanics of the male reproductive system. We did not cover erections, and neither had my family really, so based on my experience of seeing my little baby cousins clearly very squishy penises while I helped with diaper changes, I came away with the impression that the man probably had to fold his flaccid member up and awkwardly tuck and squish it into wherever he needed it to go that day, lol, which seemed awkward and possibly embarrassing. I was both confused AND amused by this idea. But our teacher would repeatedly tell us how lucky we were to be girls, how much better it was in every possible way. She would put up the diagrams side by side and say things like, "look how beautiful and streamlined your body is, everything in its place... And look at them! Tubes and bags hanging out everywhere!" 🙁 Unfortunately, just a few years later, this teacher was transfered to the middle school, and then arrested for seducing a 12 year old girl in one of her classes there. My first Sex Ed teacher was literally a sexist child molester! 😬
Cis dude here. Can't speak for anybody else's anatomy, but... The back of my legs are definitely a sensitive area. Not "sensitive" like easily injured/bruised, but definitely a heightened awareness of anything touching that area, especially other people. And especially the back of my thighs. It's just not somewhere that typically get touched or even has things brush against so it's immediately noticeable when it does.
Okay, what part of the human body would you call the lamb or lambs? Interesting question. I'm thinking the vulva and/or its male equivalent, with its rounded shape and pretty tuft of wool. What is that structure called on a man?
No no no, the guy who is confused about not having to use pads/tampons after a while thinks that women eventually learn and train themselves to hold it all in. You missed the bad part of the post lmao
Well, to be frank, as I child I also thought it's similar to peeing and you can analogicaly learn to hold it in until you're in a bathroom. But I was 6 years old, so my stupidity was kinda justified.
@@alam5055 Actually, that's nice of you to know period exists at 6. As afab and not particularly perceptive, I learned that period exists when I was like in 5th grade (11 years old), when the first students in my class began their periods...
@@shawqin992 I wouldn't have known if my older sister didn't tell me XD I didn't believe her at first, cause the idea of women bleeding each month for a couple of days seemed too bizarre, but I asked my mom and she confirmed XD
I saw one where it was like "why don't females donate their period blood to blood banks???" I've already commented this but it's still incredibly uncomfortable to imagine
I think that's a sweet and completely respectable question...if you're 12! We have to bleed, so can we save lives with it? Great to want to help people, but yeah, once you've reached adulthood and understand proper sanitation it shouldn't even be a question anymore.
@@krystlepoulin6382 it's not just an issue of sanitation, as I recall from health class, period "blood" isn't actually blood. People just call it that because it's red and comes out of the body. Maybe it contains some blood but that's likely not a substantial amount for donation and you'd have to extract the blood from the substance. Sorry if I'm intruding on things, I'm amab so I don't have personal experience, I'm just saying what I learned in school
@@raynegallaher7661 Exactly, it's not just 100% pure blood. Like, it's partly blood, but it's really mostly tissue, plus it's often coagulated already. So yeah, no way of donating it.
@@raynegallaher7661 Yeah! If I remember correctly - please correct me if I'm wrong - theres only like about one or two tablespoons of 'actual blood' coming out of you
"If you can not improve upon the silence, don't say anything." Is a useful, gender neutral phrase. That's pretty much bad women's anatomy, not how girls work, and men writing women to name a few lol
English is not my first language and I didn't know that "calf" could also mean a body part (not only a baby cow) so, needless to say, I was very confused. yes, baby cow is a sensitive part of the body.
The internal organs would be displaced into the chest area and squish everything. Why do you think women would swoon or faint all the time? Their lungs were being squished by the stomach, etc that was being displaced by the use of a corset.
The ‘element poster’ was on the wall of my chemistry class in high school FOR YEARS. It wasn’t until a group of girls complained about it that it got taken down.
That's _disgusting._ Completely _disgusting._ Whoever put that up in a classroom should be thrown out of the building so hard they leave skidmarks all the way to the main road.
One that I read on this subreddit that I’ve brought up in real life only to find a SHOCKING amount of cis men who also thought this: periods are just like pee and you should be able to hold them in until you go to the toilet. The irl men didn’t believe the “should” part just thought it was possible.
i've seen so many stories of cis men who thought women wore pads & tampons because they were "too lazy" to hold it. like huh??? if periods weren't painful and blood just like pee that we could hold nobody would talk about it, yet some men are rly out here thinking it is🤦🏼♀️ but thinking about it now, i guess it makes sense if they also think we pee out of our vaginas, cause in that case we WOULD have the muscles to "hold in" the blood like pee. dang
@@whytho8856 yeah the “women pee out their vagina” one really made me understand how they came to this conclusion lol. But also.... this was in sex Ed where I am from. Like they learned about vaginas. Weird to not know that....
I've encountered an adult cis man irl who didn't know afab people have 3 holes. So I'm guessing "peeing out of the vagina" is a very common misconception as well >
All of a sudden I am very happy to be married to a man who I can have this conversation with: “Anything more I should get at the store?” “I do need more pads, but I guess you can’t get that, I don’t know what you should buy.” “Eh, I’ll just call you when I’m there.” “No! That would be sooo awkward. Just buy something with medium protection and wings...” And he came home with exactly that. Best husband ever. (But I’m still embarrassed that he was going to call me from our small corner store and explain what kinds of pds they had over the phone so I could choose... 😂🙈 That’s being even more comfortable about it than I can handle.)
The one about our periods containing fetal material got me. I would have thought in the 21st century it would be common knowledge that you get your period because you’re not pregnant so how can it contain fetal material 🤔
The only reason I can explain this to myself is that our teacher said that sometimes an egg gets fertalized but you don't get pregnant (I don't know the right words in English bit I hope you know what I mean), so then the next time you have your period there also is the fertalized egg. But does that count as baby bits? I don't think so, I mean it's so small you wouldn't even see it.
Oh these were scary. I sent a few screenshots to my husband. Especially poignant today as I started my period. My 4 sons and my husband are very well versed in the facts surrounding periods. Mine is excruciating so I was able to see the value in teaching them to understand the facts and to be sympathetic.
I did this with my children as well. My son's wife was so surprised at how well he understood what she was going through when they were first dating and she was cramping.
@@mklaebel right, my oldest is 22 and he told me he wasn’t coming to his grandpa’s party because his girlfriend had bad cramps and he was staying home to help take care of her. My 18 year old son is a conundrum I’m a lot of ways, he’s my most selfish and my most generous all in one, but he will make me tea, fill up my hot water bottle, run my bath etc… when it’s that rime of the month (literally an hour ago he ran me a bath).
@@missnaomi613 oh I have, I am doing my pre op soon, I’m scheduled for a full hysterectomy. I have endometriosis, ovarian cysts, and uterine fibroids. Thankfully I blessed enough to have 4 kids so I’m done with those parts and ready to not be in excruciating pain every 3 weeks or so.
I feel the urge to clarify the “periods have tiny baby bits in it” part, just in case! Yes, there are tissue bits in period blood. That’s the uterus lining that builds up each month in preparation for a potential pregnancy. If there’s no pregnancy, out goes the old lining and those are the thicker bits and pieces one can see in period blood.
Those can also be caused by too much blood passing through the uterine wall too quickly for the body to expel, resulting in clumps and "clots", which can be indicative of problems like PCOS. If you're passing large clumps on a regular basis throughout your period and it remains very heavy, as opposed to passing small solids for the first day or two, you should see a doctor.
Some people don't have any bits in their periods (me for example) and it's just only liquid or slimy.
@@itakru wait…. For real??? Guess I gotta see a doctor lmao
I thought this was because there is the egg in there as well. But since it hasn’t been fertilized, it’s not a baby, nor “baby bits”, just some unused cell
I think anyone with a brain could make the realization that without pregnancy there's no baby and when there's period there's (usually) no pregnancy... That'd be a lot of babies to go through lmak
ah yes, as a woman i also cry ink
Thats how I discovered I was trans. I cried and the ink ruined my sheets.
@@Repti-verse i love this comment
I wish ,I wouldn't have to worry about calligraphy supplies for a while!
wait, women cry ink? so i guess that solves that part of it.
now to figure out the man part
"Awwww, you guys made me ink!"
As a transmasculine person, I can confirm, I am against periods, and have decided to boycott them, thank you
This reminded me of one time when my cis male friend asked if he could ask me questions about periods that he had always wanted to ask but never had the courage too. I was like, "sure, go ahead!" He asked a number of questions, and then asked what was the worst part of getting your period, like, what hurt the most. I told him that each person has it differently, everyone's experiences with periods are different, but that to me, personally, the worst part is the lower back pain. He then had the guts to reply with, "I disagree. I think the worst part must be the cramps". And I was like "EXCUSE ME? You 'DISAGREE'??" I stg the audacity! I took a deep breath and explained to him that he was mansplaining something that he couldn't possibly know anything about and all that. I tried to be patient, but I swear I wanted to punch him in the face that very moment.
Did he eventually accept your experience after the explanation or continue to be a dick about it?
You have a problem if you think about punching people in the face if they say something you disagree with. Especially if they are your 'friends' .
@@MrShyghost ...Hyperbole
@@MrShyghost I love how frequently trolls like you are wandering in the comments of videos like that, contradicting everybody with their certitudes, just for fun.
But the thing is, it wasn’t just is opinion, he straight up invalidated her opinion and told her she was wrong about an experience he’d never experienced! Please tell me you see the difference there.
"If you're gonna sound like an absolute turd, don't tweet it" Shaaba handing out important life advice👌👌👌
From your lips to Donald Trumps ears! Lmao
Yeah, but, Donald can't hear you over his obnoxious comb over-
@@shawnresor5565 **through* Trump's ears; there's nothing between them to catch the words
I was just reading your comment and she said the quote in your comment
I read that as nerd instead of turd 😂😂😂
“so i told my boyfriend i was having my period and he said “Again?””
Well he is in for a ride
a long one
Hey, could I please ask what flag is in ur profile pic?? :)
@@islacruickshank353 That is the genderfluid pride flag
@@islacruickshank353 the genderfluid flag!!
I’ve found someone like me!
About being gender fluid
"Not against periods or anything"
Me on my first day with my cramps and hurting back : "I am !"
I'm on my third day :((
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Awww best of luck :((
Lol same 😭😭😭 and that overall uncomfortable feeling where everything is just irritating
I just remind myself that it means I’m capable of having a baby if I want.
I am on my first day today as well and I am VERY, VERY against it
“Unless there is a 3rd hole somewhere for the pee to come out of”
He’s technically right but he’s needs to learn
Please explain it go me, confused af, genuinely
@@aryantiwari4241 Well a woman was saying that women do not pee out of their vagina, and a man thought appropriate to respond that "yes they do" because apparently we only have "two holes" (meaning vagina and butthole) and since women don't pee out of their butthole, it HAS to come out of the vagina. Hence the "unless there is a 3rd hole somewhere for the pee to come out of" ... wich IS the case ! Women pee out of the URETHRA, wich is NOT located in the vagina, it's just above :)
Thanks, in my country we are not taught about all of these because people just shy away from talking about sex education in public, Thanks again
@@aryantiwari4241 it’s more basic anatomy than sex education, but i’m sorry the education system has failed you so much. i’m american and the education here is also awful.
@@skinnyhomo3136 yeah I know like if my friends were not scoundrels, I would have not known about sex too and I learnt about a lot of things with the help of my phone, we don't have anything ad sex education, we are not not about periods in science, on the good part we got a safety workbook this year, which helped me understand things like period etc.
That "Specimen: Woman" thing was probably the worst thing I've ever heard/seen as one of those "funny posters" or whatever. That's literally disgusting in every single way. How could anyone ever come up with that and think they're HILARIOUS for doing so? The delusion of some people.
And there are tons of people who will be like, "it's just a joke, you're so sensitive." A joke that shows exactly how people think of my entire gender. Neat.
It is disgusting.
That’s... fascinating. Imagine thinking you’re funny and completely missing that you bit by bit show to people what a sexist, misogynistic asshole you are. I can’t believe that there are actually people out there, that don’t think it’s offensive and vile to even think stuff like that...
I remember when a guy I was dating showed me that along side edgy gross miscarriage memes. How many red flags does that count for? Cuz he's trying to come back.
@@ZebraLuv No! Run! Not safe to be around that turd.
this was both terrifying and fun 😂
thanks for having me spuds! 🥰
Love you guyssss 🙄❤
Yall are literally amazing i love you so much you've helped my friend a lot (he's a trans guy with bigoted parents) and he came onto ur page and it just makes him happy thank you
Dawww you guys are so amazing love you
Hi Shaaba ily and Jamie
@@lux4129 I wish the best for uku and your friend :)
A cIs male straight friend would complain that I was "always ill" about once a month 🙄
One of my greatest fears is a colleague/boss noticing that about me ><
Of course it _shouldn't_ be a big deal for people to know when someone's period is, but... that's not necessarily how society is right now, and I wouldn't want to be perceived as gross or giving TMI at work >
Reminds me of that one time when my brother was talking about pain killers and how he didn't want to take them, then commented on how I take them "like ten times per year or something!" and I just looked at him like.... Oh gee it's almost like there's a pattern there huh? Like it's a regular occurrence that one might map to a calendar?
For the record I live in a place with good sex ed and also had very educational parents so it's not like he didn't know about periods, he just did not think about it
@@KreeZafi Like how one of my ci guy friends once remarked that he found it super weird so many stain removers specifically mention that they work on blood - how many people are getting hurt out there, do the manufacturers think we're all serial killers or something? I just said, "Periods," and it was the most embarrassed I've ever seen him.
Also, boo on your brother for implying you take OTC pain meds too often just because he doesn't like to.
My mother told me once I turn blue the day before, so apparently I'm a smurf
Even if that wasn't tied to your period that is just a mean thing to say - like being ill is something someone would do on purpose 🧐
Can men stop saying they like "natural" women when referring to women who don't wear makeup or wear very little makeup and then get super grossed out by body hair on women?
Everyone has body hair. If you're not mature enough to handle that, I don't think you're mature enough to be dating anyone.
Dude like, I almost cried when I didn't shave my legs for ages and my boyfriend still went "your legs are so soft, its nice" because I got made fun of for my hairy legs so much in high school
There is such a national bias in the "leg and armpit hair on women is gross" ideology, too. In many countries around the world, women do NOT shave these areas of their bodies. And a historical bias as well since the idea of a woman having to shave armpits and legs is a fairly recent one.
Wejjew
Why are you talking about men? Women started the trend of shaving their bodies ? Women started wearing make up? You just blamed men for a trend you started? This is the most woman thing ever.
@@MrShyghost George Washington wore makeup dude.
"I found out that girls have sensitive parts of their bodies" - this guy has no feeling in his legs and needs medical attention but he doesn't know others have sense of touch in their legs 😱
He thought the legs were an erogenous zone 😶
To be fair that drawing was a fashion plate from the victorian era. It's an idealised (and highly exagerated) image the same way today fashion advertisement is idealised... Nobody actually expected women to look like that.
Edwardian, I think? Wasn't she a classic 'Gibson Girl"?
@@dontbefatuousjeffrey2494 nope, a few years earlier. Those leg o mutton sleeves were the height of fashion in the mid 1890s. Given the size of the sleeves, that fashion plate is from no later than 1896. The Gibson Girl was being illustrated a couple of years later and boomed right around the turn of the century. It’s more Edwardian (1901-1910).
But oh, did some people try. A Little House book had Laura's mother tut-tutting her for her erratic corset usage. "Your Pa could span my waist with both hands when he married me." Of course, Laura rightfully snarked, "He can't anymore, but he still seems to like you."
@@katherinemorelle7115 very incisive - thank you :-)
@@lysanamcmillan7972 I do love those books :-)
I still get looks about my armpit hair. I stopped shaving partly because I would get rashes easily and now I just can't be bothered.
Good for you! Socially conforming is not worth rashes on the armpits... that sounds painful
This is the way.
@SAGE INFANTINO thing is, if you don't shave it doesn't get as thick and dark
I shaved for all of middle school, and now my leg/armpit hair is darker and I honestly rock with it because it gives me more gender euphoria
@@lorifiedler13 But shaving doesn't physically make it thicker or darker... It's just an illusion.
Okay, so I can explain that drawing. Firstly, it’s just a drawing, so the proportions generally aren’t accurate. Think of our modern fashion drawings- they aren’t accurate proportions either.
This is from 1894-1896, at the very height of the poof when it comes to sleeves. As for the teeny tiny waist- when women would wear these fashions, it was mostly an illusion. Tight lacing if corsets was pretty rare, generally only done by the Kardashian types of the day, abs even then only for events. Also, if you see a photograph and think “how is that even possible to have a waist that small?” Well, it’s not. They did alter photographs back then. See Bernadette Banner’s latest video for info on that.
But the illusion comes from having padded busts, massive sleeves and padded hips. You don’t need to tight lace a corset if everything else is already making your waist look a lot smaller in comparison. And women back then were not shy about adding a bit of padding to make their bods look the way they wanted. At the time, it was more about shape than size- and that shape was actually accessible to a lot more women than what current beauty standards are.
So don’t be too bothered by the drawing. It is already a little exaggerated (as all fashion drawings were and still are), but even then, it’s still mostly illusion.
OMG!!! Someone else watches Bernadette and Jamie! 🤩 (Also you are totally correct)
1:49 any historical cosplayers/dress makers are probably screaming lol (lot of misunderstanding around corsets and that sort of thing)
I'm starting hrt in less than 2 weeks and i cant wait for the butt hair and acne :))
No but really, I'm very excited about the changes and super happy it's finally happening
i thought you said "butt and hair acne" and i just accepted it😭
congrats though!
Congrats! 🍹
Yay!! Congrats!!!
I just wrote a reply to someone else about this, so:
How much body hair you get and how fast your facial hair grows is totally down to genetics, partly inherited, partly luck of the draw. And it changes slowly over time. I'm cis and I didn't have to shave daily until my 40s. In my 20s it was only once a week. My chest hair isn't all that thick.
And that's totally normal.
Some guys turn into gorillas within 5 years of hitting puberty, others take a good 10 years to grow all of their body hair. So if you ever have moments when you wonder if T is even doing anything, reread my comment and remember that it takes time even for us cis guys.
And congrats!
@@John_Weiss Yes, many people forget that T just causes a second puberty, so the amount of time can vary a lot and it will inevitably not cause immediately visible or audible changes. After all, puberty takes years.
Love it when Shaaba joins you in a video - such a delightful human. The "woman" trading card (whatever it was) was so grim, but totally could see that as an element to a hen/stag party game, as Shaaba suggested. It'd actually be interesting to see you pick apart some hen/stag party stuff... Because it's usually cringingly misogynist (and naturally very hetero normative).
10:55 i feel like im getting a talk with my parents about puberty and such xD
1:57 the arms, chest and hips are padded out so that the waist seems smaler people didn´t think that this is how women look. also on a drawing proportions can be exagerated
Bum rolls, mutton sleeves and petticoats! Her cinched waist was likely no smaller than 25-28” with 35-38” hips but they make it look like a spine in a skirt.
Hello, comments:D
Wanted to tell you guys I got my hair cut short recently :DDD
I'm just really happy about that .w.
You can move on now :)
YAY! :))
Pog and your pfp
It looks almost exactly like me--
congrats dude! i got my hair cut short a few months ago ( ◠‿◠ )
@@Vintagevamp I know :)
aww i’m so happy for you!!
Apparently I’m a squid who cries ink 🦑
Shaaba saying "you do you boo" was so wholesome I almost cried
I'm so happy that you made a second one of these, Jamie! I find them so funny and I love hearing your voice, especially how gentle and funny you are when laughing at ignorance. Thank you for breathing, my wonderful man.
Unless it was just a joke, the guy who didn't believe that pee comes from the vagina and there can't be another hole was infuriating.
I really hope it was a joke but this is by far not the first time I hear about this weird idea that women pee out of their vagina, and every time I hear it I always wonder... What do these people believe how pregnancies work? Where's the uterus? Do they think the baby grows in the mother's bladder, just floating around in pee? And if the mom doesn't drink enough and the bladder gets to empty, does the baby just dry out, like a giant raisin?☠️
If pee comes from the vagina, then pee is also stored in the balls. I see no problem there lol
@@maryasenlin5916 well, it DOES work. For example, in ferrets (and probably a number of other mammal species too), the urethra ends in the vagina, but very close to the opening. So technically, they pee out of their vagina. Just for an extremely short distance though and the vagina itself isn't connected to the bladder ofc.
@Lady Seashell Bikini I kinda understand the initial confusion of men because they don't have a third hole. Sperm also exits through the urethra. It's still stupid or at least shameful for the education system when adult men (or even women for that matter) don't know better.
We all have/have had, those "I wonder why..." moments.
In the past, before google, we used to ask grand-parents, parents, older siblings or friends. If no-one could give us the answer, we used to go to libraries, do research and become informed/educated.
Now, the proverb 'ignorance is bliss' doesn't apply to lots of people. They're arrogantly angry in their ignorance.
To be fair, I often say “Again?” When my own period starts.
0:12
Bsshjzjashbx the “I’m Shaaba” sounded like “I’m żaba” for me, which in polish means basically “I’m frog”
About the drawing of the Victorian outfit with the Violetest Chachkiest waist. I want to say that women in fashion plates and all were portrayed with tiny waists, but I think they knew it was not realistically humanly possible. As long as they had the good waist/hip ratio, it was fashionable. Also, plus size women were never in fashion plates, but they could achieve the fashionable silhouette thanks to padding. It was all about the shape, not the size.
Baby cows and sheep are both so cute, no wonder Shaaba gets them confused...
I don't like people touching my legs. Definitely something to do with the lever
I knew it
“Helena”
“EAURGH”
“Can I ask you a weird question”
“uhu”
Theydies and gentlethems I present to you Helena!!
i just love watching happy couples' videos, it shows so much when ppl are in love ^.^
Okay but like Jammi and Shaaba interacting genuinely gives me so much joy
10:20 "Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak and remove all doubt." -Abraham Lincoln (often attributed to Mark Twain)
Aww you didn't get to the best part of the Helena texting. He thought people just learn to hold it in.
Shaaba is SO cute and really made this video extra delightful!! you two are so wonderful!!
Jammidodger, your videos always bring to mind the kids who had to leave the classroom before sex ed presentations because their parents had refused to sign the permission slip out of fear the info would "give them ideas" or make them promiscuous.
My dad recently told me to pack a swimsuit to go swimming. I told him I was on my period, and he said to pack a water pad.
A water. Pad.
Dammit why did no one tell me I could cancel my subscription to monthly pain? I would have opted out years ago.
that darn monthly subscription I keep forgetting to cancel
I'm not far off 60, and stopped regular shaving/waxing/plucking quite a few years ago, although I will shave my pits if it's warm weather. But I've found that as I've gotten older, my body hair has greatly reduced; at least there's one plus in the quagmire that is the menopause!
In my families culture, a women who is menopausal is so much more powerful, because all of her energy that goes into making life is now her own to keep. Those aren’t night sweats, it is all that power heating you up.
Omg in tears at the calf/lamb confusion lol
"If you're gonna send like a turd, don't tweet it"
Can I get that on a poster please
Not a content related but....
damn Jamie look how hairy your chest is, I hope it is bringing you much happiness ♡♡♡♡
I have a little fluff and it's super light coz I am blonde but one day I will have a hairy chest like yours ♡
I've been on t 6 years and it's basically invisible to anyone except me lol
Sorry for the random body hair appreciation comment ♡
Don't sweat it, dude. I'm a cis-male, and wasn't hairy until my mid-20s. Even now, at 52, my chest isn't very hairy. I also didn't need to shave daily until my 40s. In my 20s it was only one a week. In my 30s my facial hair was growing faster, but still slow enough that I only needed to shave every 2-3 days.
So don't think there's something wrong with you if your body hair and/or facial hair isn't growing like crazy. How hairy a guy is fine down to genetics, partly inherited, partly luck of the draw.
@@John_Weiss I'm not sweating it don't worry ♡
I can grow a f off big beard which I love , I don't mind to much at the moment about my chest as I'll need to shave it all off when surgery happens haha. But one day I'd like to be hairier haha.
just showing my appreciation for Jamie's fluff ♡
I am a white cis woman and I love your videos. I suffer so much because of men who do not know even minimum about womans anatomy, like number of holes women have or they believe that every woman dreams about having sex without a condom because with condom she can not feel anything... It can be a long list. Just thank you for talking about this bullshit aloud.
“Where do the organs go??”
The sleeves. Duh.
Related to accidentally touching someone else's leg: We were playing volleyball in 8th or 9th grade in PE class. I went to pick up the ball behind my classmate and jammed my finger in knee part of her prosthetic leg. Ouch.
I could literally listen to these guys react to this stuff all day, whether it's bad anatomy, trans memes, bi erasure etc. all these kinds of tweets/redit posts. I just love their reactions, their corrections, the inclusive language and their cute/cheesy moments.
OMG!!! the heat is killing Shaaba! Y’all are funny!!
You two need to do more videos together. You're both adorable. ❤
Hey thanks for your vids, also I love when Helena shows up you guys are adorable !
Love love love Shaaba trying to hide behind her hair! 🤗
Yaayy i waited for this
The drawing near the beginning is fairly typical for the time period. The artist likely exaggerated the tiny waist, however, corsetry then padded out the hips and bust (more than cinching/ reducing the waist) in order to create the illusion of a tiny waist, when it likely wasn't reduced all that much. Women also used things like bustle pads to make the waist look smaller in comparison.
The drawing from the 19th century is very similar to modern day equivalents. The waists are always accentuated. It’s not a photo. And even in old photos, people “photoshopped” the negatives to have smaller waists than they actually had.. Bernadette Banner recently did a video of that..
I am a sophomore in college and I am currently in nursing and Pre-Med anatomy and psychology. We had a boy ask the professor if sexual activity with women gets messy with poop everywhere because he believed that woman only had one hole for everything. The same boy also believed that women had to take abortion pills each month to start their periods and that birth control was the pre-abortion pills and he explained that woman are pregnant every other part of the month until they take their abortion pills.
For those who have horrible heavy clot filled periods that last over seven days I cannot recommend a Mirena enough. I’m 51 and in the last 4 years it’s been invaluable. I wish it was around when I was younger.
Shaba is so terribly adorable x3
"well it depends; if you pull the lever..." !!!!!!
We got to see our bi aunt and uncle and it makes me happy 😊
How much you make each other laugh has had me smiling this while video to the point where my cheeks now actually hurt 🤣🤣🙂
People who think they know everything, really know nothing. That’s a good quote for these sorts of ppl
Also, for needing a saying - the oldest I'm familiar with, which still works for pretty much any topic: _si tacuisses, philosophus mansisses_ (literally, if you had remained silent, you would have remained a philosopher - or more modern, _Better to Remain Silent and Be Thought a Fool than to Speak and Remove All Doubt)_
I was proud on my 12yo niece yesterday for her inclusivity. I made a comment about something being more comfortable for girls and she said "why did you say girls? Why didnt you just say "us"" and I said "you're right it's just more comfortable for us" later we were sitting on the doc had our feet in the water and she said "my legs are hairy" and I responded "mine are too dont worry about it. I'm probably the hairiest woman that you know" and she shook her head no and so I asked who was hairier "a girl at my school who's trans gender", she hesitated and said but idk if that counts? " and I said it deffinatly counts haha". And then I mentioned how much I've been liking your channel recently. She hugged me and said "why do some people have to judge others" and I told her it's probably because they're unhappy with themselves and dont know how to deal with that. Being LGBT+ doesnt confuse children... judging people for no good reason is what confuses children.
"how sensitive is the back of your leg"
"well that depends, if you pull the lever..."
shaaba how does it feel being the funniest person on the fucking planet
I can't decide if my boyfriend's best period-related comment is "why is there a kit kat in the cupboard" when a tampon fell out of the bathroom cabinet or "have you been on your period all month" when he saw the cotton rounds I used to take my red lipstick off in the trash 😂
"Schools used to separate"
My elementary did. Interestingly, the boys came out of their first day of it looking pale and sickly. Turns out they spent the whole class on menstruation!🤣 They learned about it in much more detail than we did at the time, incredibly.
As for the girls, we were taught by our confident, butch science teacher.
She was a mix of very pro-girl and very... weird... about it.
For example, rather than really explaining menstruation adequately, she spent an entire class having us sit through an incredibly lengthy and detailed projected film of two snakes seducing each other and then copulating. She was very odd and kind of creepy about presenting it.
We sat in the dark in silence. It was very strange. ( I got called down to the office midway through, and asked my friend afterwards, what did I miss? Nothing, she said, the snakes thing went on and on forever! When it was done we just walked back to class, she didn't say Anything)
And though we had to learn the whole anatomy diagrams, she taught us very little about the mechanics of the male reproductive system. We did not cover erections, and neither had my family really, so based on my experience of seeing my little baby cousins clearly very squishy penises while I helped with diaper changes, I came away with the impression that the man probably had to fold his flaccid member up and awkwardly tuck and squish it into wherever he needed it to go that day, lol, which seemed awkward and possibly embarrassing. I was both confused AND amused by this idea.
But our teacher would repeatedly tell us how lucky we were to be girls, how much better it was in every possible way. She would put up the diagrams side by side and say things like, "look how beautiful and streamlined your body is, everything in its place...
And look at them! Tubes and bags hanging out everywhere!"
🙁
Unfortunately, just a few years later, this teacher was transfered to the middle school, and then arrested for seducing a 12 year old girl in one of her classes there.
My first Sex Ed teacher was literally a sexist child molester! 😬
Note to self, never ever listen to theses two wearing ear phones in public. 🤣🤣🤣🤣. Brilliant 🤣
1:38 they still do I remember mine it taught only “male” sex ed and barely even did that
A kid in my class said
"We're being bad little men.... or women.... or bisexuals, idk"
5:20 I love how Shaaba takes a moment to reflect on her mistake and then just goes crazy.
4:35 that was a bad time to take a drink of my water, now im scared to touch my bed because i had my electric blanket on
Shaaba’s laugh is so beautiful, oml
1:27 my dad jokes about this all the time
"Hey boy, what ya doing"
"Eating lunch"
"What, didn't you do that last week?"
Cis dude here. Can't speak for anybody else's anatomy, but... The back of my legs are definitely a sensitive area.
Not "sensitive" like easily injured/bruised, but definitely a heightened awareness of anything touching that area, especially other people. And especially the back of my thighs. It's just not somewhere that typically get touched or even has things brush against so it's immediately noticeable when it does.
"If you pull the lever?" Shaaba, i love you.
Lol my grandad sent that Chemical properties one 6:39 to the family group chat claiming it was funny :)
MY MOM BELIEVES THAT LAST ONE AND KEEPS BRINGING IT UP
Speaking as someone who has periods, I am VERY against periods XD
Same lol
Yes, I would LOVE to be able to cancel that monthly subscription
Same, honestly I think most period-havers are!
same
Sometimes birth control can stop it, mine stopped on the birth control shot but that doesn't happen for everyone.
I'm transgender, but I haven't came out to my mum yet, and quite frankly, I'm terrified. But your videos make me feel validated, so thank you :)
You are SO valid!!!!and you don’t have to come out if you’re not comfortable with itttttt
You ARE valid luv hope it goes well 🥳
I accept you!
If you don't feel comfortable, don't feel like you have to!
@@wendyjohnson4345 get your transphobia out of Jamie’s comments, please
@@wendyjohnson4345 You are one of those transphobes that are obviously transphobic because they don't know gender dysphoria exists.
My favourite is the “women explode over anything” stereotype when all of history has shown that this is absolutely not the case.
True.
like we got HORRIBLY oppressed for HUNDREDS OF YEARS and it took ages for us to actually start protesting it,but yeah,WE'RE the emotional ones
"by calf i thought you meant a baby cow"
"yes, a baby sheep is the most sensitive part of my body"
"a baby sheep?"
*has a mental breakdown*
Okay, what part of the human body would you call the lamb or lambs? Interesting question.
I'm thinking the vulva and/or its male equivalent, with its rounded shape and pretty tuft of wool.
What is that structure called on a man?
@@johnburt1172 the thing on the back of your leg above the ankle is called a calf, dingbat
@@Schnort That's not what they're saying. They know what a calf is, but they're talking about what part of the body could be considered "lamb".
@@ivilrat my apologies, I must have read it wrong. Thanks.
@@Schnort I thought I was spelt calve?
No no no, the guy who is confused about not having to use pads/tampons after a while thinks that women eventually learn and train themselves to hold it all in. You missed the bad part of the post lmao
Well, to be frank, as I child I also thought it's similar to peeing and you can analogicaly learn to hold it in until you're in a bathroom. But I was 6 years old, so my stupidity was kinda justified.
@@alam5055 Actually, that's nice of you to know period exists at 6. As afab and not particularly perceptive, I learned that period exists when I was like in 5th grade (11 years old), when the first students in my class began their periods...
@@alam5055 I never found my mom's pad drawer before that for some reason
@@shawqin992 I wouldn't have known if my older sister didn't tell me XD I didn't believe her at first, cause the idea of women bleeding each month for a couple of days seemed too bizarre, but I asked my mom and she confirmed XD
@@alam5055 Guess what I missed is an older sister haha
I saw one where it was like "why don't females donate their period blood to blood banks???"
I've already commented this but it's still incredibly uncomfortable to imagine
I think that's a sweet and completely respectable question...if you're 12! We have to bleed, so can we save lives with it? Great to want to help people, but yeah, once you've reached adulthood and understand proper sanitation it shouldn't even be a question anymore.
@@krystlepoulin6382 it's not just an issue of sanitation, as I recall from health class, period "blood" isn't actually blood. People just call it that because it's red and comes out of the body. Maybe it contains some blood but that's likely not a substantial amount for donation and you'd have to extract the blood from the substance. Sorry if I'm intruding on things, I'm amab so I don't have personal experience, I'm just saying what I learned in school
@@raynegallaher7661 Exactly, it's not just 100% pure blood. Like, it's partly blood, but it's really mostly tissue, plus it's often coagulated already. So yeah, no way of donating it.
@@raynegallaher7661 yeah its mostly made of the lining that is created to support an embryo
@@raynegallaher7661 Yeah! If I remember correctly - please correct me if I'm wrong - theres only like about one or two tablespoons of 'actual blood' coming out of you
"If you can not improve upon the silence, don't say anything." Is a useful, gender neutral phrase. That's pretty much bad women's anatomy, not how girls work, and men writing women to name a few lol
I wish I'd learned that years ago.
English is not my first language and I didn't know that "calf" could also mean a body part (not only a baby cow) so, needless to say, I was very confused.
yes, baby cow is a sensitive part of the body.
yes the calf is the back of the lower part of your leg
Thanks.
I googled it, but thanks.
BWAHAHA that is too funny. But I understand, bilingual as well 😁
I am dying "yes, baby cow is a sensitive part of the body" I agree my friend the baby cow is one of the most sensitive of body parts
I cannot get over ''yes, baby cow is a sensitive part of the body'' 😂
You two are so adorable. I think this is the definition of a healthy and happy relationship.
As a woman I am against periods, they hurt like hell and I’m sick of it like I’d rather just not
Yes we need to lay eggs
Get a hormonal IUD 🙏
I once asked a doctor about donating my well-working uterus to someone infertile, he thought I was joking. I was not.
@@ona512 sry what?
@@hunny_bon_20 you goddamn heard me.
“Where do organs go?!”
The arms, Jamie. That’s what the arms are for.
The internal organs would be displaced into the chest area and squish everything. Why do you think women would swoon or faint all the time? Their lungs were being squished by the stomach, etc that was being displaced by the use of a corset.
The way Shaaba covered her face with her hair when she was embarrassed about the sheep comment was the cutest thing 😂🙏🏼 (5:22)
The cutest 💗
The ‘element poster’ was on the wall of my chemistry class in high school FOR YEARS. It wasn’t until a group of girls complained about it that it got taken down.
That's insane! It literally made me want to gag.
That's _disgusting._ Completely _disgusting._ Whoever put that up in a classroom should be thrown out of the building so hard they leave skidmarks all the way to the main road.
That’s shocking
WHAT THE FUCK????? That disgusting poster was in your SCHOOL?? Jesus Christ
😤😤😤😤😤🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬
On our honeymoon, my ex husband literally asked me, "How many holes DO women have?" And that was probably the beginning of the end, TBH.
I mean that person was not wrong, I would also be worried if my mail came hairy by the post
That... Is indeed concerning
It also apparently has Iron in it as well.
@@sonyamiller4853 That's expected. It was iron I ordered by mail, commonly known as FeMail.
@@tayloradams3993 Thanks, I needed your help to understand the joke. Seriously 🤣
Jamie has golden retriever energy, Shaaba has husky energy, thanks for coming to my ted talk.
One that I read on this subreddit that I’ve brought up in real life only to find a SHOCKING amount of cis men who also thought this: periods are just like pee and you should be able to hold them in until you go to the toilet.
The irl men didn’t believe the “should” part just thought it was possible.
i've seen so many stories of cis men who thought women wore pads & tampons because they were "too lazy" to hold it. like huh??? if periods weren't painful and blood just like pee that we could hold nobody would talk about it, yet some men are rly out here thinking it is🤦🏼♀️
but thinking about it now, i guess it makes sense if they also think we pee out of our vaginas, cause in that case we WOULD have the muscles to "hold in" the blood like pee. dang
@@whytho8856 yeah the “women pee out their vagina” one really made me understand how they came to this conclusion lol. But also.... this was in sex Ed where I am from. Like they learned about vaginas. Weird to not know that....
I've encountered an adult cis man irl who didn't know afab people have 3 holes. So I'm guessing "peeing out of the vagina" is a very common misconception as well >
All of a sudden I am very happy to be married to a man who I can have this conversation with:
“Anything more I should get at the store?”
“I do need more pads, but I guess you can’t get that, I don’t know what you should buy.”
“Eh, I’ll just call you when I’m there.”
“No! That would be sooo awkward. Just buy something with medium protection and wings...”
And he came home with exactly that. Best husband ever.
(But I’m still embarrassed that he was going to call me from our small corner store and explain what kinds of pds they had over the phone so I could choose... 😂🙈 That’s being even more comfortable about it than I can handle.)
@@Cascadeis awww, that's actually so sweet though!
The one about our periods containing fetal material got me. I would have thought in the 21st century it would be common knowledge that you get your period because you’re not pregnant so how can it contain fetal material 🤔
The only reason I can explain this to myself is that our teacher said that sometimes an egg gets fertalized but you don't get pregnant (I don't know the right words in English bit I hope you know what I mean), so then the next time you have your period there also is the fertalized egg. But does that count as baby bits? I don't think so, I mean it's so small you wouldn't even see it.
@@we.genuinely.think2882 Yeah I know what you mean, after I posted the comment I did think about of that
I don't know if accidentally reading 'fetal' as 'fecal' made it worse or- scrach that, definitely worse💀
10:10 In Irish there's a wonderful saying: "A silent mouth makes a sweet sound" (Is binn béal ina thost)
The equivalent saying in Spanish is "flies don't enter a closed mouth" 😂
Oh these were scary. I sent a few screenshots to my husband. Especially poignant today as I started my period. My 4 sons and my husband are very well versed in the facts surrounding periods. Mine is excruciating so I was able to see the value in teaching them to understand the facts and to be sympathetic.
I did this with my children as well. My son's wife was so surprised at how well he understood what she was going through when they were first dating and she was cramping.
@@mklaebel right, my oldest is 22 and he told me he wasn’t coming to his grandpa’s party because his girlfriend had bad cramps and he was staying home to help take care of her. My 18 year old son is a conundrum I’m a lot of ways, he’s my most selfish and my most generous all in one, but he will make me tea, fill up my hot water bottle, run my bath etc… when it’s that rime of the month (literally an hour ago he ran me a bath).
If it's that bad, maybe see a doctor (if you haven't already.)
@@missnaomi613 oh I have, I am doing my pre op soon, I’m scheduled for a full hysterectomy. I have endometriosis, ovarian cysts, and uterine fibroids. Thankfully I blessed enough to have 4 kids so I’m done with those parts and ready to not be in excruciating pain every 3 weeks or so.
@@melissacoviello2886 yikes! May you have a quick and complete healing. ❤️🙏