So deep this song i but so true i had someone some time ago thought that she would love me wen it hurt but guess not im a very good man made a lot of mistakes in my life but still try to remain strong
I love this song 🎧 because it’s so good and truthful about how the pain makes you feel because the truth hurts but it’s still needed to heal and stay strong and positive with your heart ❤️,,,love and positive thoughts and love 💗 throughout everything,,,no matter about everything
Yes, Avant!! Sing dear, sing it!! This is my fiance's ringtone on my cell phone. He recently passed away and I listen to this song and cry all the time. 😢😭😘💋😇🕊
Love this song! True love is defined by how you are when things aren't so good NOT when everything is going right! If you can still love through the bad, then you'll know it's real!
Not really although you are right with most relationships hurting is not something I could relate to because it is never something I could habit because I truly love her and if I did something to make her sad or upset Ive always been able to man up and admit and. Understand when I'm and I'm able to catch it right away because if she has a issue with me over something I said or done I become loving and understanding and I don't egg it on and start bringing up past shit because I love her. it really starts to hurt me to see her hurt
Love endures, true love withstands all tests and trials. True love will survive. So when its made to be, it will be. Nothing can stop true love; distance, time, mistakes...nothing!
there is only Supreme Love between man and woman are only instinct... personally im trying to go spiritual life (meditating and praying for peace) my teacher is Sri Chinmoy (search in google) i think there is Sri Chinmoy Center in U.S.A.
Am from Kenya and this song reminds me of Kiss 100 a local radio station in our country used to play this song on a 10pm chart count down and whenever this song played it used to wake me up whenever I felt like dozing off
just because it’s painful, doesn’t mean it’s love. just because you’re suffering, doesn’t mean it’s love. just because you’re sacrificing, doesn’t mean it’s love.
Give Avant his FLOWERS! He didn't sell out, sell his soul, & deserves his credit for his contributions to R&B in the early 00s & throughout. I miss music like this so so much. I wish I would've appreciated music like this more when it was fresh. Don't get me wrong I loved these type of songs, Love by Music Soulchild (that whole movement in music) I guess I thought it would always be out like in a way that they'll continue to make hits like this. So I really didn't listen with intention it was more " whew! This is my Jam " lol without really understanding the depth of the lyrics. As a 30 year old woman these songs are so telling. So real, I'm assuming because of the experiences, life, love, family dynamics etc. As a child it just sounds so good, as an adult it HITS because of your story whatever that may be. Oh, & while I'm here revisiting this gem I've been playing the heck out of Bobby Valentino- Tell Me. Just thought I leave that here, cause I'm enjoying going down this rabbit hole of beautiful, timeless, effortless MUSIC⏳🖤🖤🖤
The more I listen to his music I fall deeper in love with him and his music just love his music he is someone I would love to meet him person he has me so memorize with his voice
he doesn't get the credit he deserves 🐐
listening to this song as an adult really makes sense now...true lyrics.
Most def... There ain't ever gonna have music like in this era again
+Timmy Hunte u so right...I just had this conversation with someone how today's R&B is nothing like it was before.
+NewBeginnings. For real. No music today is like back then, it's all gone... A few good tracks now & then but that's that
very true. you don't understand that kind of pain till you are grown and understand it
I feel what you mean sista #Truly
Avant 2024 still amazing music
Avant is criminally underrated and it's annoying as hell. This man is a legend. I love this song.
Avant was incredibly underrated. The dude had mad good tracks.
life isnt fair , we have to adapt it =))
no doubt
Swear he's in my top 5
i promise
He definitely was not underrated .. everyone loves Avant
I love his truthfulness and honest in his songs. Vulnerability does not make a guy weak.
Billy Larkin speaking like a true Man
Darrel Hicks I was preferring to Avant being honest about being a Man we all make mistake in life
👌🏽💯
Vulnerability makes you stronger.
That's real.
Anything worth having is worth fighting for .... love this song
Nomfundo Simelane
So deep this song i but so true i had someone some time ago thought that she would love me wen it hurt but guess not im a very good man made a lot of mistakes in my life but still try to remain strong
smooth
Exactly
Yessss that's my favorite part lol smh that's the truth
This song hits different in this generation. Folks don't know nun about this anymore 😮💨
Still listening in "2019"they never gave Avant the recognition he deserved!!!Amazing music he made love this song🎼🎵🎶
Very true hes got it am back here for avant
Lafara Love Agreed Sis🙌🏽💯
Agreed
2020😉
I do too🙂
Avant never got the respect he deserves as an r&b artist
so true
SlickWilly fsg
SlickWilly true
SlickWilly true!! he's way way too good!
SlickWilly I hope that doesn't discourage him! Keep on keeping on Avant!!! A fan 4/life
2024 still here🎉
*I ABSOLUTELY LOVE AVANT!!!!.😘💋💚😘 HE DOESN'T GET THE LOVE HE DESERVES PERIOD... I'LL BE HIS FAN & SUPPORTER FOR LIFE!!!🎤🎤💋💚😘*
Tieshia Jackson j
so true I am huge fan of him
Tieshia Jackson. Amen to that
Tieshia Jackson me too!!! Can't wait until he come back to the STL
Truth
Can you love me when it hurts is a song that shows all men have a softer side. Awesome song..
It hurts to someone who doesnt love u back.
I love this song 🎧 because it’s so good and truthful about how the pain makes you feel because the truth hurts but it’s still needed to heal and stay strong and positive with your heart ❤️,,,love and positive thoughts and love 💗 throughout everything,,,no matter about everything
Yes HIGHLY UNDERRATED 👏🏿 and from the 216!!! Yes my homeboy!!!! Bad boy, reppin, CLEVELAND!!!!
For the girl who pushes through the tears, and storms to continue loving me. I love you so so much. And I thank God that he has put you in my life.
UPDATE! Did you find her?
I hope so.
this was my comfort song when my ex and I broke up.....shit memories just hit me
INFINITY1664 kv. vvvbv
INFINITY1664. Jojo I love you my brother happy birthday
Same.
I can relate to this right now
Still listening to it in 2018
Love me some Avant, Donnell Jones, Carl Thomas. ....
Sam Salter also
Yeaaaah they are all cut from the same cloth.......and sprinkle a little case on there too.
Yes, Avant!!
Sing dear, sing it!! This is my fiance's ringtone on my cell phone. He recently passed away and I listen to this song and cry all the time. 😢😭😘💋😇🕊
So sorry for your loss 🙏
I'm sorry about your loss
I extend my condolences to you 🙏
So sorry my dear
❤️🩹
How many hit songs does he have !
Love this song! True love is defined by how you are when things aren't so good NOT when everything is going right! If you can still love through the bad, then you'll know it's real!
Ina Jones i wish a lot of women could see it the way u do or did great way of saying that
Pure truth!
I totally agree with you
That statement is your foundation for love
That's very true hey. When shit goes side ways they are ready to up and leave
Not really although you are right with most relationships hurting is not something I could relate to because it is never something I could habit because I truly love her and if I did something to make her sad or upset Ive always been able to man up and admit and. Understand when I'm and I'm able to catch it right away because if she has a issue with me over something I said or done I become loving and understanding and I don't egg it on and start bringing up past shit because I love her. it really starts to hurt me to see her hurt
Love endures, true love withstands all tests and trials. True love will survive. So when its made to be, it will be. Nothing can stop true love; distance, time, mistakes...nothing!
I totally agree. If u get a chance hmu on IG Mrs beautiful @iamjonmurray 😊
Fairytales don't exist little girl.
NahImStraightHomie It does for me!
Vanessa Walker I heard the hell outta that...very well said ma.amen to that frfr
Avant is a genius! I can listen to him all day!
True same here
Yup
Me too and I do lol
Anyone here in 2024?
And issss❤❤
Definitely still
Me
Yes ❤
Yes😊
when it hurts is the foundation of the relationship....
Katrina Williams ouh
Good morning How are you doing? Thank you for being a Fan and following my Page. God Bless You!!!
i love Avant he has a beautiful voice and he so damn smooth 💖💖💖
aint that the realest shit somebody has spoken. 💯💯
Avant, Music Soulchild and Jaheim were doing it for me from late 90s to early 2000s
as a man the gentle side of me love this song
awwww
this gave me a good chuckle
We can bring him back to our worlds and cities
Still playing this 2022 🔥
I just love avant. His songs never gets old😚
Hello
Good afternoon, How are you doing? Thank you for being a Fan and following my Page. God Bless You!!
uggg i miss my mom.. she use to play all the time R.I.H i love you
ow that 😢
Kay Doobie sorry for your loss, think about the happy times. It will get better she is always there with you, just talk to her.
I just love this guy's music
Avant is rated in hearts and not billboards, sounds different thhat now am an adult,,,love from Kenya
wansnt even in High School yet when this dropped.
(edit)
and now im older than he was in this video....crazy.
Wish I would find a man like Avant - he has the best songs. Are you there???
there is only Supreme Love
between man and woman are only instinct...
personally im trying to go spiritual life (meditating and praying for peace)
my teacher is Sri Chinmoy (search in google)
i think there is Sri Chinmoy Center in U.S.A.
yes ,i am here.but i am a gentleman.
Life will be back to normal when Avant drop another album.
Cause anything worth havings worth fighting for... Love me some Avant
Love from Oakhurst savannah ga
Happy Birthday Avant 🎂❤️🍾
only way this is going to work is u love me when it hurts real shit 💯💯💯💯💯💯
j. msbz nfnc r
Avant doesn't even come CLOSE to getting the recognition he deserves for his music. This guy is God when it comes to music for lovers.
Avant- needs to run his own production he is a good artist stay focus Avant most love we love you. 1:26
Am from Kenya and this song reminds me of Kiss 100 a local radio station in our country used to play this song on a 10pm chart count down and whenever this song played it used to wake me up whenever I felt like dozing off
Who’s still listening in August 2024?? ❤️🎶
🙋🏿♂️👍🏿👍🏿
Sep. 5th, 2024 10:51 pm EST
October 24th 2024 4:44 Houston TX 🤘🏾
Me
Perfect song when you mess up so bad.
Who listening in 2025🥰
Avant america loves your music
Legendary hits
just because it’s painful, doesn’t mean it’s love.
just because you’re suffering, doesn’t mean it’s love.
just because you’re sacrificing, doesn’t mean it’s love.
But without love u wouldn't go thru pain or attempt to sacrifice.
@Mr. No Weapon because they’re tired of the other partner .....
@Mr. No Weapon i don’t agree with it being that way .....
This is the first time I've seen the video. My reaction: What the hell was that? Who came up with this storyline? I still adore the song though.
Right
Hello
Give Avant his FLOWERS! He didn't sell out, sell his soul, & deserves his credit for his contributions to R&B in the early 00s & throughout. I miss music like this so so much. I wish I would've appreciated music like this more when it was fresh. Don't get me wrong I loved these type of songs, Love by Music Soulchild (that whole movement in music) I guess I thought it would always be out like in a way that they'll continue to make hits like this. So I really didn't listen with intention it was more " whew! This is my Jam " lol without really understanding the depth of the lyrics. As a 30 year old woman these songs are so telling. So real, I'm assuming because of the experiences, life, love, family dynamics etc. As a child it just sounds so good, as an adult it HITS because of your story whatever that may be. Oh, & while I'm here revisiting this gem I've been playing the heck out of Bobby Valentino- Tell Me. Just thought I leave that here, cause I'm enjoying going down this rabbit hole of beautiful, timeless, effortless MUSIC⏳🖤🖤🖤
Masterpiece 🎉❤🙏💯🤗😎🔥
Really believe this....
Thru the tears will you still be here.. I wanna change people deffination of love
I've seen him in concert and his voice is amazing. He sings with so much passion 💕💕
Hello
I think every couple needs to hear this song at least once.
What a legend
A classic. Very underrated tune.
Avant is SO underrated! So very talented!! But that is what happens when you arent willing to sell out to the industry.
Avant is so dope...This song brings back memories
2019 still listening to this n how many love when it hurts
Avant a legend.
Avant was smooth with it
Listening in 2018. 10 years later from when I first heard it! ❤️ Such a beautiful and meaningful song.
Hello
Man his music touches ur soul 😍
Is hard to blv the car broke down
YES IT DOES🥰
Avant, is one of a few present day artist whose music actually touches the soul is worth listening today...
avant is a real man no doubt about it
Reminds me of a situation... ❤
This is a true song and we are the same 2 love's when it hurts and I do love this man and you can't help who you love
These lyrics are not made anymore, this new generation has no depth such a shame. We 💕 u Avant.
Ангельский голос просто супер
The way this song is life right now man...😍😍
Deanna C. Jodevine
I like the beats and the bass in this song it is the best.Well done Avant.🎉
Music flash back
HEARTBREAKING, BABY-MAKING, AND LOVE MAKING MUSIC AT THE SAME DAMN TIME AND I'M HERE FOR IT...AVANT 2018
still listening real r&b
Good morning How are you doing? Thank you for being a Fan and following my Page. God Bless You!!!
King of R&b period. Still to this day
Love from Kenya❤❤❤
Very talented singer, nice one Avant.
I love this it's really makes me think about my man
Avant has always been one of my favorite r&b artist. His songs never get old.
we should change ppl definition of love 😍😍😍
Hello
@@avantartrst2507 hello
Good morning How are you doing? Thank you for being a Fan and following my Page. God Bless You!!!
Still a beautiful song in 2022❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
@Avant Music please find your way to South Africa one day 🇿🇦🙏🏽
Cause there's reality & fantasy which one our we living in
My fav part of the song really!!
Mine 2
I will always love this song. Still jamming the same as the first time I heard it.
Asia Jackson same here
Hello
This still a hit 💗
So true!!!!
His voice (heavenly) 2016 and still loving it
1-18-2021 🖤 still here💪🏾
This song brings back memories
Avant has a way with speaking such truths with his lyrics. And the smoothness of that voice makes the tune all the more. Amazing RnB artist! 🔥🔥❤️
I think so too,the brother sings like he's been through it.so alot of his songs so conflicted, and sincerity.i for one relate to as well as others .
I think so too,the brother sings like he's been through it.so alot of his songs so conflicted, and sincerity.i for one relate to as well as others .
The more I listen to his music I fall deeper in love with him and his music just love his music he is someone I would love to meet him person he has me so memorize with his voice
Avant dont let the music industry break you keep standing tall
A song that will never get old. Can you love me when it hurts? 😒❤️
Avant has a great voice. If you hear it will automatically brighten your day.
love this song then and still loving now. My comfort song.
One of my all time Avant favorites!
Hello
Here it is, and I'm still listening to this song.
The truth Avant music is powerful
I never stop loving this guy and his music it's so beautiful ❤️
I loved him in my teenage and now as an adult I love him more cause I get the meaning of his song more deeply💯❤❤👌👌🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪
it's still my hit up to now(december 2016