@JamiThatsMe I'm sure she didn't expect this to be released. Like I said, I don't have a side except those innocent babies. Her behavior, in front of the kids and with the kids in the vehicle, is atrocious. He's not winning any points either. If she wasn't treating her son as she should and he married her and had kids, he's as bad bc why did he think she'd do better bc they were his?!!!
@@lisaswrld y'all keep saying he's immature but how, he seems to be trying to be the best father he can dealing with an absolute lunatic. You see his daughters seem more happy around him than her. Does that matter for anything
@@ericrhighjr3423exactly ‼️‼️ id rather be corny and immature than be an abuser. Some women ignore the real issue instead of just calling it out for what it is
👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 When thinking you got it like that because you're "exotical" He chased her. She wanted him too obviously. Had his baby. Then had anotger baby by him. Erica, go away from us. Now her and Cyn Santana can compare notes.😂😂😂😂
@moniqueuu8777 two separate groups of black children have dead beat fathers. BM being so dysfunctional that they spread the misery to other people, isn't funny to me. It's sad... for them, whatever children they have, and for us. It's Safaree's mom and sister that will have to raise their trauma laden kids. Sad.
The content of her whole conversation is pure jealousy. A mature woman and a good mother does not break and enter and destroy property and hit the father in front of her kids if he’s not harming them. He clearly moved on. She should move on for the sake of the kids. She’s making it messier than it needs to be.
I am on NOBODY'S side but the kids. I watched someone's reaction video(bc I refuse to give her or Safaree's postings any attention) she's certainly NOT EXPOSING him. She's preemptively doing damage control. She tore up his house with the kids standing there and physically attacking him. She put a ladder to his gate and climbed across the fence and was knocking on his glass door. He has released his home camera footage. It's always 2 sides...his, hers and TRUTH!
He communicated that he didn’t want anymore and she saw he was struggling in the parenting department why try to hide a pregnancy thinking this was gonna save your relationship and it backed fired. Erica is hostile and no one wants to deal with you and I feel like if saferee was doing everything she wants him to do she still would find some type of issue
I don't understand? If he didn't want kids why did he have unprotected sex with her? Did she forcibly take his DNA or did they consensually have unprotected sex? Pregnancy is the likely consequence, so how didn't he want the baby? Safaree is not a real man.
@@Red1Green2Blue3shit isn’t that deep .. some family go through things like this yall act as if it never happened in your life as a child of parents fighting
@@MrAjking808so if he was hitting on her and knocked some of Erica's properly over to where it broke than he made his 2 daughters walk barefooted across the broken properly, you still would think CPS wouldn't need to get involved? You sound as delusional as Erica is
She took a ladder and climbed his gate and then demanded to see him. Then when she was let in, instead of taking the kids and leaving--- if that's what she claims she was trying to do--- she hits Safaree and destroys his property. I'm not saying Safaree is father of the year... but Erica Mean is doing the most. If it's just about the kids, then let it be just about the kids. But Erica wants attention from Safaree. Period. This has nothing to do with the kids.
I don’t rock with Erica but, I believe her. Men will chase you DOWN only to waste your time. I’ve had several men do that to me then switch up later. Thank God I figured them out before letting them stick me with a baby. Y’all stay safe out there 🥴😩
In fairness, men can never BS a woman who didn't first BS herself! Sometimes we have to take responsibility for OUR OWN choices & actions. He is WHO he is, always has been, prolly always will be. If U want a traditional marriage? U may want to first BE... and then marry someone who embodies that vibration. Jus sayin'
Him chasing her back then is irrelevant to what the main issue is her being abusive infront of her children and definitely doesn't give her the right to act the way she does.
Yep and I remember one episode she was extremely harsh to him and said she'll never mess with him. I remember saying to myself "she better keep her word because if she ever gives him a chance he's going to walk the dog on her for the sake of revenge and breaking her ego" now look.
I don't feel sorry for Erica. I just feel bad for the innocent children. Remember when Erica was someone's sidechick and she was calling the wife " cheaper to keep her"
Oh please Bow Wow left her rich dollars left her her first baby before the left. What dude doesn’t leave Erica now safari left her so talk about another dude.
Yess and she was hell after seen those videos of her putting hands on that men breaking his shit and everything in front of those babies.. damaging those babies emotionally. Seen one of the baby girl crying saying she doesn’t want to go home with her …. Ever wonder why her oldest says he hates her.. why her family trying to get support for her oldest
Yes and?!?! I would be too if my ex husband was missing birthdays and Christmases BUT bought his new girlfriend kids, that’s not even HIS, Rolexes. Yeah, I’d feel some type of way about that.
Most men chase a woman and think they are one way. Then when they get them they realize they aren't that person who they thought they were. We all know Erica is violent and angry. Who wants to be around someone who is miserable all the the time.
Those mamas & sisters love acting like these deadbeats are such amazing people. I believe what she’s saying about him. He will have to answer for that in the end so aye she just needs to keep doing what she’s doing for her kids.
By saying she needs to keep doing what she's doing for her kids are you talking about how she allows them to witness her being abusive to their father, or maybe watching her break things in his house than make them walk barefooted across sharp broken objects. Yeah mother of the year
A dead beat with a home with rooms for his kids. 50/50 custody and he still pays high child support , If that's a deadbeat, he needs an award ! Foolish women . If women had to suffer through what family courts put good men through for no reason , other than to steal their income, you would see how many of you are the real dead beats in society. You couldn't walk 5 ft in that man''s shoes furthermore any man's shoes for that matter. Yall are given handouts by the government, treated like rare endangered animals and benefit off men, then have the nerve to insult men .
Being a dead beat absent dad is not ok . But dealing with a crazy woman like this , is not ok either. My problem with safari is he is shit too, if you know about her son and the way she is , why are you not fighting to get your kids full yime , give this evidence to the court , he dead ass wrong for just leaving his kids there and doing nothing. That woman does not care about their kids mental well being , acting like that in front of her toddlers , lord. She cares about herself , that’s is .
EXACTLY! Finally, someone not blinded by misguided race loyalty and misogyny! While Erica is all the things people says she is...... so is Safaree. We knew Erica was a colorist yet Safaree still begged her for her hand in marriage. We also knew she had a unfortunate relationship with her first child, yet Safaree made her mother two more times. He even defended her when HE sent Spice to confront Erica, and Erica called that black woman a monkey. All that doesn't erase that he is an emotionally abusive narcissist.
Why do you think he's not trying to do that? You act like you don't know the system is against the man. You see how his daughters act around him, they are loved by there father. You're only saying he's a deadbeat because she says he's a deadbeat, all while seeing her behavior. I know what she's doing and because Safaree doesn't want her anymore she's trying to make it hard for him to have a naturing bond with his daughters. This woman is a lunatic and for people to not be able to see that is crazy...unless you think like her
@ericrhighjr3423 she's a lunatic and he's a deadbeat. According to their custody arrangement, he is only with them on the weekends. That's not a father, especially when he's claiming the mother is unfit. He should be filing emergency motions to get his kids.
@@keepingitkianatural that's what they both agreed to. I think you don't truly understand the definition of deadbeat. Him asking for his child support to be lowered and having his children on the weekends doesn't make him a deadbeat. That's the court order and we know the courts always side with the woman so of course they gave her more days
Baby once he's shown you who he was to them babies . let him be. That boomerang always comes back. I wouldn't be stressing out about mf who wont do what he's s'posed to do. Go heal. And hopefully the RIGHT man will come into you're life and accept & love your children as their own
As a woman, I feel for Erica. I believe Safaree has been gaming the optics since he decided to leave Erica when she was pregnant with her 3rd child. Everything he has done since then has been about rationalizing him chasing someone for years and then leaving them 3 years later with 2 kids. He's literally just a narcissist and some people are falling for his latest campaign. He said in his video he just wanted the courts to mediate the situation, yet... he never called the cops to report Erica for destroying his property and assaulting him? I'm sorry, I'm not buying it as anything other than a ploy for attention and undeserved sympathy.
I cant stand Erica nor Safaree...and wtf is going on with her face? She's unrecognizable...she was much prettier during the early love & hiphop era when she was going nuts over Rich Dollaz!
I mmmeeaaannnn you know how babies are made sooooo if u didn't want to have a second child with that man u could have had all the sex in the world but made sure u were protected....I'm not condoning safaree behavior but this part, Erica needs to take responsibility for fueling the toxicity between them
Erica, damn, leave us out of the group chat we been known he was a waste man. This I’m above it act isn’t a good look sis. We can’t hate him as much as you do.
She really mad because he put up some videos of her acting a plum front of them kids having them walk over glass and all kind of stuff because she cannot control the situation this is this girl's whole thing is she wants control she wants to be able to control him who he talks to what he does this that and the other one if he had to stop sleeping with her when you decided to leave her this probably could have been taken care of as of now!
Sounds like he needs a restraining order. I wonder why he hasn't made any moves to protect himself or his children? Even now he's telling us she's abusive but still has yet to file any motions in court to save his kids? fishy
Yeah um no. Him pursuing her, Ok cool. But nobody said you HID a pregnancy. You chose to have a second child knowing that marriage was on the rocks and he was clearly unsure of whether or not he wanted to be with you. And was NOT happy when you told him about baby. So what happened after that you have to take accountability for . Y'all gotta stop playing in Gods face man lol
@@moniqueuu8777 exactly like no! God has given Erica MANY of opportunity and she still stayed on Love and Hip Hop playing with her image lol. So this one should not have been any different. But instead you got on national television and cried because your children's "financial BURDEN" was your responsibility. I have no sympathy.
Is easy to call somebody a Deadbeat when you keep the kids away from him so you can control the situation girl if you don't let him be a father to see if he can be a father you can't call him a deadbeat you really mad about money and control let's just call it what it is
I’m confused by still having your period and being 5mos pregnant. I do know you can spot but a FULL BLOWN period 5months in???? Please don’t come for me 🫣 Some educational responses however…would be appreciated.
I think it’s about time he exposed her .. that video where she is putting her hands on him.. and jumping over that fence with that ladder.. baby this heffa is crazy and where is her first kid!!!!!! She is nuts …
They don't blame her because they ARE her or identify with her or had a mom like her. No justification for her vile behavior! Safaree always stays calm in front of the kids, as he should. He even said that's how his mom and sister are!
Yes, but why do that if Safaree can easily dispute the dates? I don’t think she’s lying at all. Unless Safaree comes out with receipts to confirm he had his children more than 16 days this year I believe Erica.
@@prtdivaHow should he prove this to you? 😂😂 People make fake positive pregnancy tests, fake house deeds, fake obituaries, but a Calender scarcely marked is impossible?
Erica is a narcissist "Dr.Jackee it was a memorable moment for both of us!"😂😂 Witch, please, that woman sees patients way more important than you!! 💯💯💯
Maybe Erica needs to take care of the home situation before starting her own show. This situationship is a show within itself. You have to understand Sadfaree's mental state, there might be some ADD. He tends to generalize; Erica is into details. So, there is no meeting of the mind.
The guy is an individual before he is a father. He has all rights to go to a concert on his time. That's really $tupid to talk about him going to a concert.
I know exactly why men leave their kids to take care someone else’s, simple bitterness. They are mad at the woman for actually having the guts to leave them and they hate it. It’s never about the kids, they don’t care about nobody kids it’s about themselves and getting these women. Women need to stop laying down with men who do not 110%+ take care of their kids.
As he pointed out he should have seen the red flags when he been with you all that time and he's probably saw your son maybe three or four times let's talk about it okay he lives with someone else he don't live with you
These men "ain't shi"! Treatibg, talking to the mother of their children like this is so cowardly and unmanly. But, I do NOT feel sorry for Erica at all, ever, never will. I can not stamd Erica, only watching this for Jami. Did Erica forget that Safaree was acting up before and during her first child and she was still sleeping with him in order to get pregnant. Waaaah! Now she want to bring God into the mix.
I’m sorry but this man has started several times why he doesn’t get his kids like that due to everytime he does, she tries to control everything or harassing him. All she’s showing is the calendar but not saying why he’s not showing up. If you’re beating on me, jumping gates of my home, and constantly harassing everything I do, I wouldn’t see my kids until RO and custody agreements as well as pick up and drop off agreements were legally put into place. My brother literally went to jail because he picked up his kids kids from their mother house, she barked nonstop trying to tell him what to do, etc… and when he stopped answering, she called the police saying he kidnapped their kids. I’ve seen women like Erica and although safari isn’t innocent, I believe what he’s saying.
How is he looking after someone else kids just because he buy them some watches??🤔 It's just a Birthday gift. 🙄 Be real!! Erica just bitter and jealous. She needs to mind her own business and move on just like he did. I'm sure he buys things for his kids too. But Erica will never say that.
These people need help. They believe money is everything and their mental health is suffering and ppl are using that as views, likes etc on their platforms. There are too many resources out there. These ppl clearly lost touch with what’s real and what’s disturbing. I recently came across Safaree’s page showing some questionable behavior from Erica however justified they both feel… the only people clearly hurting by their actions are the children. No one should be supportive of any of this from neither party. Help these ppl help themselves and in turn the children. This ish needs to STOP!…
You are delusional.. she don't care about them poor babies only the money. Have you not seen the video Safaree just uploaded of her being abusive infront of her children.
long story short!!!! KARMA!!! She’s upset because he did her they way she did cinn !!! Broke that girl heart and acted like she was nothing especially when she was with saffari !!!! Watch how u treat people it always come back karma has no address!!
I believe the Safare guy not the wild boar. She needs to shut up, get her self together and co parent with the angru ahe feels towards the guy. She needs to come into expectance to be able to be a better person. Why speak of the past, thats spilled milk. Move forward now, you cant reverse anything.
And she was absolutely right... He definitely made that UA-cam video. Showing videos of her visibly upset from the aftermath of something he's done. But of course he had to spin the narrative as if she's simply unhinged and illogical. It's giving narcissistic traits to me. 😂😂😂😂😂
You need to ask God for intelligence cause not even a 4 years old would write this rubbish after seeing those of Erica smashing glasses and her kids walking over it22
Even though she may have been chased for 3 years you still picked him when he showed you and the world who he was and you took him. So no I don’t feel sorry for you
I am not a fan of either but Erica stick to co-parenting the children. She is making this about her. The video I saw of her at his house was insane and I would stay away too without mediation to not further expose them to abuse (she was the abuser) and to stay out of jail. She is lucky CPS was not involved. She says she got nothing 4K/month is SOMETHING.
Watch his video and show Erica crashing out ! Then since you brought up Nikki look at her husband she chose! Why you not speaking on how spiteful these women are!
Has she responded to the videos though? I’m not climbing fences unless I’m getting my kids out of danger come on. Sad for the babies!! Oh yea and what about your oldest son?
So why hasn't Safaree sued her to get his kids back? If she's so unfit, why does that man not fight for shared or full custody? Rn he sees them on the weekends and not even every weekend. If it was me, Id go and plead to the court for my babies. He's not beating those deadbeat allegations any time soon.
Everyone is special and has faults, Especially on tv and seeing what happens when she is upset and on rampage vh1. And all I see sarfee do is be funny and never serious, so he will always side cancer crab step away.. he love ghost her and move on
Jami you know you're not making sense right now especially after Safaree has released video of what Erica has been up to. Are you really trying to defend what she did? We've seen her knock over ornaments on his table breaking it than making their daughters walk barefooted across the broken ornament. Also she broke something else outside and still had no regard for her daughters possibly cutting their feet. All this is after we witnessed her attack him. He also had footage of her getting a ladder and climbing over his gate. I mean i get it, you feel Safaree played with her feelings but it seems that you're overlooking her absolute vile behavior because she's hurt and that makes everything you say have no credibility.
You know I was definitely making sense!! Just because new details came out doesn’t mean I wasn’t making sense in this video! Make sure you watch my update! ua-cam.com/users/liveFdiXGsIjw1o?si=qTe_-91hlyH6aY8M
I’m so sorry, but I feel like the video has a biased opinion and you’re kind of supporting Erica while she has a history of toxic relationships and her track record isn’t perfect and the video she posted she said a whole lot of nothing no offence. I have to give it to Safari he came with a whole load of receipts Erica were waiting!! I am not defending them in any capacity, but those and those poor children and what they witness is scary I’m just confused about the comment about his mum as a mother whether her Child is perfect or not. You will support your child. We’ve seen it time and time again. I don’t understand what she’s getting dragged into was it his mother‘s business to get sent and naked picture of himself after they had just had sex? No the priority is his children and his children only all the extra stuff. They’re exposing these poor kids to is heartbreaking.
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@JamiThatsMe I'm sure she didn't expect this to be released. Like I said, I don't have a side except those innocent babies. Her behavior, in front of the kids and with the kids in the vehicle, is atrocious. He's not winning any points either. If she wasn't treating her son as she should and he married her and had kids, he's as bad bc why did he think she'd do better bc they were his?!!!
Erica is unlikeable, Safaree is an immature cornball. I ONLY feel bad for those kids!
He's def a cornball but he's more likeable than her
@@lisaswrld y'all keep saying he's immature but how, he seems to be trying to be the best father he can dealing with an absolute lunatic. You see his daughters seem more happy around him than her. Does that matter for anything
@@ericrhighjr3423exactly ‼️‼️ id rather be corny and immature than be an abuser. Some women ignore the real issue instead of just calling it out for what it is
For real, it's a whole mess
Erica, we do not gaf. She annoys me so bad. Yes he chased you, but once he caught you, you have to be accountable too.
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When thinking you got it like that because you're "exotical"
He chased her. She wanted him too obviously. Had his baby. Then had anotger baby by him. Erica, go away from us.
Now her and Cyn Santana can compare notes.😂😂😂😂
@@moniqueuu8777that part
@moniqueuu8777 Only Erica Mena would marry Safaree and have children with him
Who could have predicted this honestly
@moniqueuu8777 two separate groups of black children have dead beat fathers. BM being so dysfunctional that they spread the misery to other people, isn't funny to me. It's sad... for them, whatever children they have, and for us. It's Safaree's mom and sister that will have to raise their trauma laden kids. Sad.
The content of her whole conversation is pure jealousy. A mature woman and a good mother does not break and enter and destroy property and hit the father in front of her kids if he’s not harming them. He clearly moved on. She should move on for the sake of the kids. She’s making it messier than it needs to be.
I am on NOBODY'S side but the kids. I watched someone's reaction video(bc I refuse to give her or Safaree's postings any attention) she's certainly NOT EXPOSING him. She's preemptively doing damage control. She tore up his house with the kids standing there and physically attacking him. She put a ladder to his gate and climbed across the fence and was knocking on his glass door. He has released his home camera footage. It's always 2 sides...his, hers and TRUTH!
👀👀 omg and she sits there crying wolf. We know no one is perfect but don't act as if you are innocent if you aren't . SMH
SHE HAS BEEN EXPOSED AS A PSYCHOPATH, NO THE OTHER WAY AROUND!!!
Did her Dr. tell you she’s one?
@@MrAjking808the way she acts for the world to see proves she's one, she also definitely a narcissist
She was begging him for a second child and he was telling her why he didn’t want it to happen. I don’t care for either of them, bothersome
Protection is at every 7/11
Yes she was wrong for that. The man didn't want another child
He communicated that he didn’t want anymore and she saw he was struggling in the parenting department why try to hide a pregnancy thinking this was gonna save your relationship and it backed fired. Erica is hostile and no one wants to deal with you and I feel like if saferee was doing everything she wants him to do she still would find some type of issue
I don't understand? If he didn't want kids why did he have unprotected sex with her? Did she forcibly take his DNA or did they consensually have unprotected sex? Pregnancy is the likely consequence, so how didn't he want the baby? Safaree is not a real man.
SOMEONE NEEDS TO CALLED CPS THEM KIDS ARE SCARED OF THEIR MOTHER SHE'S UNFIT
Someone needs to b your ass for saying something s like that
@@monaj4079 Ummm have you seen the video of her being physically abusive in front of the kids and making them walk over broken pottery??!?!
Why call cps. Why they can tjust go to their father
@@Red1Green2Blue3shit isn’t that deep .. some family go through things like this yall act as if it never happened in your life as a child of parents fighting
@@MrAjking808so if he was hitting on her and knocked some of Erica's properly over to where it broke than he made his 2 daughters walk barefooted across the broken properly, you still would think CPS wouldn't need to get involved? You sound as delusional as Erica is
She took a ladder and climbed his gate and then demanded to see him. Then when she was let in, instead of taking the kids and leaving--- if that's what she claims she was trying to do--- she hits Safaree and destroys his property. I'm not saying Safaree is father of the year... but Erica Mean is doing the most. If it's just about the kids, then let it be just about the kids. But Erica wants attention from Safaree. Period. This has nothing to do with the kids.
Girl I was gagged on the ladder xD Like where did she get the ladder from? Is that Safaree's ladder? This is wild and scary honestly.
Safaree is on the show Worst Villain's as we speak. Erica Mena go lay down you got the same BM😒😑.
I don’t rock with Erica but, I believe her. Men will chase you DOWN only to waste your time. I’ve had several men do that to me then switch up later. Thank God I figured them out before letting them stick me with a baby. Y’all stay safe out there 🥴😩
And she let him get her caught up twice
In fairness, men can never BS a woman who didn't first BS herself! Sometimes we have to take responsibility for OUR OWN choices & actions. He is WHO he is, always has been, prolly always will be. If U want a traditional marriage? U may want to first BE... and then marry someone who embodies that vibration. Jus sayin'
@@k-dean7485She, like Cyn Santana, thought ahe was special because she isn't a "blue monkey"........
It doesn't matter if she's right! Bottom line he loves his kids but the relationship is over, and her behavior is dangerous.
Him chasing her back then is irrelevant to what the main issue is her being abusive infront of her children and definitely doesn't give her the right to act the way she does.
Her saying he chased her 3 year is obsolete. You could have said no
And gad not 1, but 2 babies for him. She chise to stop being chased. Jokes on her!
Yep and I remember one episode she was extremely harsh to him and said she'll never mess with him. I remember saying to myself "she better keep her word because if she ever gives him a chance he's going to walk the dog on her for the sake of revenge and breaking her ego" now look.
@@kandy6845it's a case study. He fluffed her up real good
@@come_on_barbie_123 yep the only people I feel bad for are the kids because both Erica and Safaree are the prime example of Clown meets Clown.
Idk... that's called love bombing and it's part of the narcissist's handbook. I think it says a lot about Safaree as a person and as a man.
Two things can be true at once. Erica has her toxicity, and Safaree is a full blown clown.
I don't feel sorry for Erica. I just feel bad for the innocent children. Remember when Erica was someone's sidechick and she was calling the wife " cheaper to keep her"
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Stupid cmt!!! Erica is VIOLENT AND NEED TO BE IN JAIL!!
@believegb3691 Erica is an abuser. She kicked the first baby daddy in the head, and she attacked Cyn Santana. This is domestic violence
What being a clown have to do with him wanting to be afather to his kids without dealing with her BS
oh brother 🙄 erica let us be...we don't care!
Don't let it be that safaree is giving another woman his attention, Erica will show up like clock work.
Everytime. She pops out wanting sympathy but I still have none😒😑
@@kayshawnsimmons5585 And never will.
@@moniqueuu8777 And She keeps bringing up Amara and her girls. Go lay down Erica. Amara is not your problem. And Stop talking about them🤦🏾♀️
@@kayshawnsimmons5585she's been wearing dark spray tan ever since Amara and Safaree hooked up. She needs help 😂
@@kandy6845 The most beautiful girls are the most insecure and do the most to their faces. She definitely needs therapy
She's not lying about Safaree chasing her for 3 years. Just to treat her like that smh
That's what men do
Are we supposed to feel sorry for her 👀
Not only did she get duped but she got duped twice!!😂😂😂 Ducking Fummy! She even try to turn into a Black woman for him!😂🤦🏾♀️
Oh please Bow Wow left her rich dollars left her her first baby before the left. What dude doesn’t leave Erica now safari left her so talk about another dude.
Yess and she was hell after seen those videos of her putting hands on that men breaking his shit and everything in front of those babies.. damaging those babies emotionally. Seen one of the baby girl crying saying she doesn’t want to go home with her …. Ever wonder why her oldest says he hates her.. why her family trying to get support for her oldest
She still mad about the Rolexs🙄😏
Thissss
Yes and?!?! I would be too if my ex husband was missing birthdays and Christmases BUT bought his new girlfriend kids, that’s not even HIS, Rolexes. Yeah, I’d feel some type of way about that.
Let's not forget she was in domestic dispute with the late Cliff Dixon.
Most men chase a woman and think they are one way. Then when they get them they realize they aren't that person who they thought they were. We all know Erica is violent and angry. Who wants to be around someone who is miserable all the the time.
%1000 correct! Men fall in love with what they see, women fall in love with what they hear.
Those mamas & sisters love acting like these deadbeats are such amazing people. I believe what she’s saying about him. He will have to answer for that in the end so aye she just needs to keep doing what she’s doing for her kids.
Right! coming on social media to talk about him she still hurt he left
@@kayshawnsimmons5585Of course she's hurt. The "exoticals" always think their special, better than.......
Ain’t she a dead beat too with her oldest child
By saying she needs to keep doing what she's doing for her kids are you talking about how she allows them to witness her being abusive to their father, or maybe watching her break things in his house than make them walk barefooted across sharp broken objects. Yeah mother of the year
A dead beat with a home with rooms for his kids. 50/50 custody and he still pays high child support , If that's a deadbeat, he needs an award !
Foolish women .
If women had to suffer through what family courts put good men through for no reason , other than to steal their income, you would see how many of you are the real dead beats in society.
You couldn't walk 5 ft in that man''s shoes furthermore any man's shoes for that matter.
Yall are given handouts by the government, treated like rare endangered animals and benefit off men, then have the nerve to insult men .
Being a dead beat absent dad is not ok . But dealing with a crazy woman like this , is not ok either. My problem with safari is he is shit too, if you know about her son and the way she is , why are you not fighting to get your kids full yime , give this evidence to the court , he dead ass wrong for just leaving his kids there and doing nothing. That woman does not care about their kids mental well being , acting like that in front of her toddlers , lord. She cares about herself , that’s is .
EXACTLY! Finally, someone not blinded by misguided race loyalty and misogyny! While Erica is all the things people says she is...... so is Safaree. We knew Erica was a colorist yet Safaree still begged her for her hand in marriage. We also knew she had a unfortunate relationship with her first child, yet Safaree made her mother two more times. He even defended her when HE sent Spice to confront Erica, and Erica called that black woman a monkey. All that doesn't erase that he is an emotionally abusive narcissist.
Why do you think he's not trying to do that? You act like you don't know the system is against the man. You see how his daughters act around him, they are loved by there father. You're only saying he's a deadbeat because she says he's a deadbeat, all while seeing her behavior. I know what she's doing and because Safaree doesn't want her anymore she's trying to make it hard for him to have a naturing bond with his daughters. This woman is a lunatic and for people to not be able to see that is crazy...unless you think like her
@ericrhighjr3423 she's a lunatic and he's a deadbeat. According to their custody arrangement, he is only with them on the weekends. That's not a father, especially when he's claiming the mother is unfit. He should be filing emergency motions to get his kids.
@@keepingitkianatural that's what they both agreed to. I think you don't truly understand the definition of deadbeat. Him asking for his child support to be lowered and having his children on the weekends doesn't make him a deadbeat. That's the court order and we know the courts always side with the woman so of course they gave her more days
I cant believe Amara made herself a baby mama, I will never understand it
Shes a nut job and a danger to those children- ask her grown son!! I hope dad gets custody!!!
Baby once he's shown you who he was to them babies . let him be. That boomerang always comes back. I wouldn't be stressing out about mf who wont do what he's s'posed to do. Go heal. And hopefully the RIGHT man will come into you're life and accept & love your children as their own
She didn't learn after the first child? During the first pregnancy? Oh well!!!!
How do u know he is not taking care of his kids
As a woman, I feel for Erica. I believe Safaree has been gaming the optics since he decided to leave Erica when she was pregnant with her 3rd child. Everything he has done since then has been about rationalizing him chasing someone for years and then leaving them 3 years later with 2 kids. He's literally just a narcissist and some people are falling for his latest campaign. He said in his video he just wanted the courts to mediate the situation, yet... he never called the cops to report Erica for destroying his property and assaulting him? I'm sorry, I'm not buying it as anything other than a ploy for attention and undeserved sympathy.
Your fantastically foolish, you don't pay attention do you .
I cant stand Erica nor Safaree...and wtf is going on with her face? She's unrecognizable...she was much prettier during the early love & hiphop era when she was going nuts over Rich Dollaz!
Stressed out and constantly angry
I mmmeeaaannnn you know how babies are made sooooo if u didn't want to have a second child with that man u could have had all the sex in the world but made sure u were protected....I'm not condoning safaree behavior but this part, Erica needs to take responsibility for fueling the toxicity between them
Erica, damn, leave us out of the group chat we been known he was a waste man. This I’m above it act isn’t a good look sis. We can’t hate him as much as you do.
She really mad because he put up some videos of her acting a plum front of them kids having them walk over glass and all kind of stuff because she cannot control the situation this is this girl's whole thing is she wants control she wants to be able to control him who he talks to what he does this that and the other one if he had to stop sleeping with her when you decided to leave her this probably could have been taken care of as of now!
Sounds like he needs a restraining order. I wonder why he hasn't made any moves to protect himself or his children? Even now he's telling us she's abusive but still has yet to file any motions in court to save his kids? fishy
Yeah um no. Him pursuing her, Ok cool. But nobody said you HID a pregnancy. You chose to have a second child knowing that marriage was on the rocks and he was clearly unsure of whether or not he wanted to be with you. And was NOT happy when you told him about baby. So what happened after that you have to take accountability for . Y'all gotta stop playing in Gods face man lol
I agree
Exactly
And now want to bring God into the mix.
@@moniqueuu8777 exactly like no! God has given Erica MANY of opportunity and she still stayed on Love and Hip Hop playing with her image lol. So this one should not have been any different. But instead you got on national television and cried because your children's "financial BURDEN" was your responsibility. I have no sympathy.
He accused her of hiding it
So he forced her to be with him and to get married and to have 2 babies? Ma'am stop. You had a choose in it all.
Believe her on being five months not know, I was four months not knowing and still having a cycle and one month later I was having a C-section 💪🏾
She CRAZY ASF!!!!
He just gave an omg response to Erica.
Im shocked 😲 Erica with the ladder 😅 was too much
Oh we need an update on Safaree and Erica now 😂
Chileeee it’s messsy! I got y’all in the morning
Is easy to call somebody a Deadbeat when you keep the kids away from him so you can control the situation girl if you don't let him be a father to see if he can be a father you can't call him a deadbeat you really mad about money and control let's just call it what it is
I’m confused by still having your period and being 5mos pregnant. I do know you can spot but a FULL BLOWN period 5months in???? Please don’t come for me 🫣
Some educational responses however…would be appreciated.
Some women bleed their entire pregnancy. I believe it's called breakthrough bleeding.
It happens. My mom was six months when she found out she was pregnant with me. Still getting what she thought was her period every month.
@@msjrene05Same with my mom
And my little brother and me and my son. Happens to the women in my family when they carry boys. Idk why
Possible but I don't believe her lol.
I think it’s about time he exposed her .. that video where she is putting her hands on him.. and jumping over that fence with that ladder.. baby this heffa is crazy and where is her first kid!!!!!! She is nuts …
They don't blame her because they ARE her or identify with her or had a mom like her. No justification for her vile behavior! Safaree always stays calm in front of the kids, as he should. He even said that's how his mom and sister are!
She could’ve just made that calendar up for social media. I can create that myself
Yes, but why do that if Safaree can easily dispute the dates? I don’t think she’s lying at all. Unless Safaree comes out with receipts to confirm he had his children more than 16 days this year I believe Erica.
Nothing but time on her hands to go thru all that for social. She bored af home
@@prtdivaHow should he prove this to you? 😂😂 People make fake positive pregnancy tests, fake house deeds, fake obituaries, but a Calender scarcely marked is impossible?
Erica is a narcissist "Dr.Jackee it was a memorable moment for both of us!"😂😂 Witch, please, that woman sees patients way more important than you!! 💯💯💯
Don’t care not a damn about these people.
Am here to support Jami 💅🏾 ❤!
Maybe Erica needs to take care of the home situation before starting her own show. This situationship is a show within itself.
You have to understand Sadfaree's mental state, there might be some ADD. He tends to generalize; Erica is into details. So, there is no meeting of the mind.
And I’ll be damned if he didn’t do a UA-cam video blasting TF out of Erica’s ssa
He can enjoy his life by going to wherever he wants to go
The the way she was climbing that fence 😂😂😂
🤷🏽♀️So WHAT, if Safaree went to Nicky's concert? I hope y'all stay at home with your kids all the time and don't go anywhere!!! 🙄
Committed yo not understanding
If he would stay out of her bed, this might not happen.
The guy is an individual before he is a father. He has all rights to go to a concert on his time. That's really $tupid to talk about him going to a concert.
Psa... Erica Mena don't like us and the feeling is mutual 😊
Erica is scorn to the max..she is not getting her own show..
Erica need to regroup and move on shut everything down co parent and live your life...
We all knew she was like this no surprised. He was warned.
I know exactly why men leave their kids to take care someone else’s, simple bitterness. They are mad at the woman for actually having the guts to leave them and they hate it. It’s never about the kids, they don’t care about nobody kids it’s about themselves and getting these women. Women need to stop laying down with men who do not 110%+ take care of their kids.
She doesn't even take care of her other children.
The tea ☕☕☕☕☕
As he pointed out he should have seen the red flags when he been with you all that time and he's probably saw your son maybe three or four times let's talk about it okay he lives with someone else he don't live with you
These men "ain't shi"! Treatibg, talking to the mother of their children like this is so cowardly and unmanly.
But, I do NOT feel sorry for Erica at all, ever, never will.
I can not stamd Erica, only watching this for Jami.
Did Erica forget that Safaree was acting up before and during her first child and she was still sleeping with him in order to get pregnant. Waaaah! Now she want to bring God into the mix.
I'm team Safaree. The video of her being an abusive and violent idiot in front of the children is horrible!!
It’s the ladder for me.😂
I’m sorry but this man has started several times why he doesn’t get his kids like that due to everytime he does, she tries to control everything or harassing him. All she’s showing is the calendar but not saying why he’s not showing up. If you’re beating on me, jumping gates of my home, and constantly harassing everything I do, I wouldn’t see my kids until RO and custody agreements as well as pick up and drop off agreements were legally put into place. My brother literally went to jail because he picked up his kids kids from their mother house, she barked nonstop trying to tell him what to do, etc… and when he stopped answering, she called the police saying he kidnapped their kids. I’ve seen women like Erica and although safari isn’t innocent, I believe what he’s saying.
They don't even want to be with her
How is he looking after someone else kids just because he buy them some watches??🤔 It's just a Birthday gift. 🙄 Be real!! Erica just bitter and jealous. She needs to mind her own business and move on just like he did. I'm sure he buys things for his kids too. But Erica will never say that.
48,000 dollars a year should cover everything them kids got going on. Erica made the calendar
Yea cause she make it difficult for him to see them
These people need help. They believe money is everything and their mental health is suffering and ppl are using that as views, likes etc on their platforms. There are too many resources out there. These ppl clearly lost touch with what’s real and what’s disturbing. I recently came across Safaree’s page showing some questionable behavior from Erica however justified they both feel… the only people clearly hurting by their actions are the children. No one should be supportive of any of this from neither party. Help these ppl help themselves and in turn the children. This ish needs to STOP!…
No matter what Erica is a very good mom considering all of her ups n downs, she loves n loves are children
What children raise any substitute she have with him now, her first child is never been with her
Erica is that you?
You are delusional.. she don't care about them poor babies only the money. Have you not seen the video Safaree just uploaded of her being abusive infront of her children.
Idc how mad I am at a nyga. I would never act like that in front of my kids let alone force them to walk through glass. Fk this 🐦 brain
She prob ain't know alot if us were tricked we tuck our tails or mom up on our choices ...periodt
Jami you have to watch that video of her endangering her own kids
Did! ua-cam.com/users/liveFdiXGsIjw1o?si=qTe_-91hlyH6aY8M
long story short!!!! KARMA!!! She’s upset because he did her they way she did cinn !!! Broke that girl heart and acted like she was nothing especially when she was with saffari !!!! Watch how u treat people it always come back karma has no address!!
I believe the Safare guy not the wild boar. She needs to shut up, get her self together and co parent with the angru ahe feels towards the guy. She needs to come into expectance to be able to be a better person. Why speak of the past, thats spilled milk. Move forward now, you cant reverse anything.
take us out the group chat thank you
After watching the video safari put out this video is a joke,half story did you even watch the footage????
Yep! The footage came AFTER I did this video! ua-cam.com/users/liveFdiXGsIjw1o?si=qTe_-91hlyH6aY8M
@@JamiThatsMe thanks I'm watching it now😊
Erica is soooo condescending.
And she was absolutely right... He definitely made that UA-cam video. Showing videos of her visibly upset from the aftermath of something he's done. But of course he had to spin the narrative as if she's simply unhinged and illogical. It's giving narcissistic traits to me. 😂😂😂😂😂
The kids in the video, though. Sad.
You need to ask God for intelligence cause not even a 4 years old would write this rubbish after seeing those of Erica smashing glasses and her kids walking over it22
Jami!! Did you see the video that Safaree did about Erica tearing up his house, etc?👀
Yes!! ua-cam.com/users/liveFdiXGsIjw1o?si=qTe_-91hlyH6aY8M
Now saf can get to be with his kids while she chasing money
Did she not have an issue when he enrolled them in camp?
Umm seafarer dropped a video check his page
She climbed a ladder to harness him
Even though she may have been chased for 3 years you still picked him when he showed you and the world who he was and you took him. So no I don’t feel sorry for you
If they were so in love and acting like this when they break up is ridiculous
Saf saidnh3ndidnt want to have another kid with her
I am not a fan of either but Erica stick to co-parenting the children. She is making this about her. The video I saw of her at his house was insane and I would stay away too without mediation to not further expose them to abuse (she was the abuser) and to stay out of jail. She is lucky CPS was not involved. She says she got nothing 4K/month is SOMETHING.
Watch his video and show Erica crashing out ! Then since you brought up Nikki look at her husband she chose! Why you not speaking on how spiteful these women are!
Did! ua-cam.com/users/liveFdiXGsIjw1o?si=qTe_-91hlyH6aY8M
But uhhhh GGUUUDDDDD LUHHHHH
😂🤣🤣😂
Has she responded to the videos though? I’m not climbing fences unless I’m getting my kids out of danger come on. Sad for the babies!! Oh yea and what about your oldest son?
ua-cam.com/users/liveFdiXGsIjw1o?si=qTe_-91hlyH6aY8M
How are yall believing this woman. Erica dont have custody of her forst child
So why hasn't Safaree sued her to get his kids back? If she's so unfit, why does that man not fight for shared or full custody? Rn he sees them on the weekends and not even every weekend. If it was me, Id go and plead to the court for my babies. He's not beating those deadbeat allegations any time soon.
Everyone is special and has faults,
Especially on tv and seeing what happens when she is upset and on rampage vh1.
And all I see sarfee do is be funny and never serious, so he will always side cancer crab step away.. he love ghost her and move on
Jami you know you're not making sense right now especially after Safaree has released video of what Erica has been up to. Are you really trying to defend what she did? We've seen her knock over ornaments on his table breaking it than making their daughters walk barefooted across the broken ornament. Also she broke something else outside and still had no regard for her daughters possibly cutting their feet. All this is after we witnessed her attack him. He also had footage of her getting a ladder and climbing over his gate. I mean i get it, you feel Safaree played with her feelings but it seems that you're overlooking her absolute vile behavior because she's hurt and that makes everything you say have no credibility.
You know I was definitely making sense!! Just because new details came out doesn’t mean I wasn’t making sense in this video! Make sure you watch my update! ua-cam.com/users/liveFdiXGsIjw1o?si=qTe_-91hlyH6aY8M
I’m so sorry, but I feel like the video has a biased opinion and you’re kind of supporting Erica while she has a history of toxic relationships and her track record isn’t perfect and the video she posted she said a whole lot of nothing no offence. I have to give it to Safari he came with a whole load of receipts Erica were waiting!! I am not defending them in any capacity, but those and those poor children and what they witness is scary I’m just confused about the comment about his mum as a mother whether her Child is perfect or not. You will support your child. We’ve seen it time and time again. I don’t understand what she’s getting dragged into was it his mother‘s business to get sent and naked picture of himself after they had just had sex? No the priority is his children and his children only all the extra stuff. They’re exposing these poor kids to is heartbreaking.
You bashing the man really hard tho
Because that’s how I feel about this situation and the details I’ve had at that time! ua-cam.com/users/liveFdiXGsIjw1o?si=qTe_-91hlyH6aY8M
Who cares 💯🙄
U messy without a reason
Thank you! You’re messy for watching! 😙
Bye
You’ll be back like they always do! 😉
Saf saidnh3ndidnt want to have another kid with her