olumide 11

[@franklynemmrich5522]

I came here from instagram who else did?

[@Bellajones82]

Franklyn Emmrich. what are your thoughts?

[@abdulghaniyakinremi1254]

I did.

[@oliveroyanda8470]

Franklyn Emmrich same here

[@bodeadelabu5624]

i did

[@oderamoghalu9097]

I did

[@hot2dmax]

Monogamy and fidelity are unnatural situations promulgated by religious beliefs and social pressures.

[@georgetiro7063]

Wish to watch full debate

[@JuniorKnowledge]

Im from Somalia and I can't stop watching Olumides speech.
I love this girl.

[@andresisthename]

From the USA here and I can't stop watching her either. She is amazing!

[@stevenwilliams4116]

Olumide is absolutely correct, and in response to the judge (gentleman) men have the ability to restrain themselves, however, the urge to merge is still there. And although "dogs are not men" they certainly act like one when it comes to an undisciplined life. Two thumbs up to Olumide!

[@MrRasmoon]

That judge cheats on his wife with whores i bet

[@rasthehead]

Being undisciplined doesn't mean having multiple women. Those are 2 *different* things. Thumbs down to you.

[@DiamondAbbie]

This was 10 years and it just gained recognition. Omo!

[@jaycobokpako8782]

12 years now

[@adeyemiolumide1876]

Me sef shock..m just watching the full video

[@reecesamuel2023]

He just proved her right. She's talkin about Instinct nature the animalistic side of man.

[@YoungScato]

I’m a man and I can say She’s right. Men can control it with heavy self control but naturally yes we are built for polygamy

[@menlifecoach1804]

Facts

[@robsvibes]

Emphasize on HEAVY my man

[@rasthehead]

@@robsvibes Such control is hindrance, not virtuous. Anyone can say whatever they like. Such. Control. Is. Hindrance. Not. Virtuous.

[@queenkys0122]

@@rastheheadit’s not hinderance considering sex was made for procreation. The thing your being “hindered” from (sex with multiple people) would naturally create broken families unless you are an exceptional man with exceptional capabilities. Unnaturally you would use a condom and sex’s only purpose is for constant sexual stimulation without gift of family, it’s indulgence, hedonism, selfishness. Just as it’s virtuous to be a good person and not succumb to instant gratification and cheap thrills. it’s also virtuous to not do the right thing as a chore, but because it’s naturally in your heart. you’ll never have to be worried about being virtuous.😂

[@rasthehead]

I'm not "vIRtUoS" by your standard. *Don't* try and make me seem like an unvirtious man because I don't operate by your standards of virtue. *Do not* do that. I _don't_ like it.
To manage a large amount of women, you'd deifently have to be an exceptional man with exceptional capabilities, but in modern times like this where you women think you're equal to men-- that shouldn't have to be a requirement, but it is because biology superceeds all. Women _may_ talk about equal this and equal that but they only ever pay attention to a man who fits their biological desire, which includes being a man who one, is not only wealthy, but who two, is also desired by _other_ women. When a man has one or the other of these two things, his not seen as the optimal option for procreation, defeating the woman's desire for him, or more truthfully-- _the lack thereof_.
_And who said anything about using a condom?... When did you being to "know" about _*_my_*_ sex life??..._ I'd never use a condom. Never have, never will. Just put her on the pill, and it's a done deal. Sex's main purpose is for procreation but there's nothing wrong with being pro-pleasure about it, as long as I'm not leaving women all over the place with my children and disappearing. If I'm fucking for the feel of it, that doesn't make me hedonistic, it makes me normal. It deems me as normal. That's what it does. Ears were created largely or even strictly for hearing voices and your surrounds, but it doesn't make me hedonistic for using my ears to listen to some lovely music-- _does it?..._ When using something-- pleasure second to the purpose of something doesn't make me or anyone a bad person, you're just-- broken. I don' even know what you are. You're just _odd._
As the owner of my body and being, it's _my_ choice to decide *_who_* I will sleep with and *_who_* I will have children with. I _don't_ have to have children with every girl I desire. That's like saying I should plant a seed of every fruit I enjoy eating. _No._ Just because I enjoy eating the fruit, doesn't mean I want a whole tree of it.
That's nonsense.@@queenkys0122

[@jiu-jitsulifestile2953]

This woman is 100% right , there is no arguing she wom the debate.

[@chikahilary6198]

12Yrs Aqo and this Debate is still Makinq Wave, We Re Arqueinq Too Much in this Country. The Girl Is Absolutely Correct!! & Riqht. I Love her Fact & Backups.🙌🙌 Double Tumb-UP Olumide👍👍

[@bantublood]

That man is a fool. Instinct is in-borne/Innate and not something you move away from. Can a woman "move away" from her motherly instincts? Can men move away from being providers and protectors?

[@rasthehead]

There we go. [You have] Sense.

[@ANTHONYTERRELL]

Statistics have proven that men have not moved anywhere near passed our instincts! Not sorry, we choose to control, take a look at that, choose to control! What is it we have to control, obviously there is something there we are choosing to do something about. All she is stating is that our instincts are what they are by nature. Just like women’s emotions, to which some women have better control over than others. Still in them lie those nature instilled instincts that require mastering, and in relationships, nurturing.

[@rasthehead]

You talk rubbish. Women are forever emotional and when I say 'forever', I mean that's what they operate through on a daily basis. You lie when you say: "Men _choose_ control" because no, we don't. You confirm that with your first sentence. There's no need for me to control who I am. Just because there are other places in the world that don't have water, doesn't mean I'm going to decrease the amount of water I drink or stop using it for whatever I want.

[@MichaelEBeard]

Very wise and realistic woman.

[@williamduren215]

🎯💯💯💯💯 All scientific facts, and zero opinion. If you have a problem with what she said, take it up with GOD and nature.

[@Gokuswagfly]

I feel like this a good example for me because I was with a woman that would not have sex with me because of her religion. I understood and accepted that but after months without it I have to find somebody who will please me, yes I can survive without sex but in a certain sense it’s almost like punishing yourself. Also I’ve found that a woman that follows those morals you will respect her more but your love for her will eventually and inevitably die. I’m saying this from experience not speculation and I do want to be with one woman but I believe both man and woman has different needs.

[@BLACKSTARMOVEMENTS]

It is written I. Scripture that a women should not withhold her self/body from her husband vice verse...so she’s wrong.

[@mg682]

@@BLACKSTARMOVEMENTS technically, she wasn't. Because I don't believe they were married at the time.

[@rasthehead]

@@mg682 Marriage is not a matter of a ring or a certificate.

[@IlkanAli]

The man is simping and a sister is being real it’s so sad. We’re supposed to ignore instinct?? Love the sister for being honest !

[@rasthehead]

Nah. I'm *not* ignoring my instincts, mate.

[@rasthehead]

What?...@user-zv7cs7xe1x

[@nbfproduction1585]

Do you think women don't have the instinct to cheat too?

[@b.arturom.7366]

That dude who was arguing with olumide needs to be fired.

[@MsFrageria]

🤣🤣🤣

[@ryandrakes9925]

Well said Olumide, the bible does not even support monogamy.

[@jaybanks2709]

dang that's true

[@rasthehead]

The Bible *does* support monogamy, it simply doesn't enforce it like the world does. The Bible [the Lord] gives you an option, unlike the world.

[@jtekunor6093]

Simple and straight forward timeless and sound arguments. Also, to be included are the menstrual cycle, pregnancy period, menopause (end of female fertility at about 55 years) and male lifelong fertility are all powerful biological factors beyond the control of humans that suggest that a structured and well-regulated access to multiple wives if one is so inclined would solve some of the divorce, prostitution and “cheating” problems in our society. If these facts are explained to boys and girls at appropriate age, it would help our society. God created male and female biology so in the Bible, Lamech, Abraham, Jacob, Esau, Gideon, Elkanah, Moses, David, Solomon, Rehoboam and Abijah all these men married more than one wife.

[@devontaylor4939]

That women is fine

[@mrb.2497]

Yes lawd.

[@jerome884]

I thought the man would be rushing to agree with her but he wanted to make it complicated and sound smarter than she is.

[@Jossation]

He's a BETA MAN

[@nicholaschilembo]

She's speaking facts though

[@tomiwasunday1116]

From Facebook woow!!!

[@eddutome]

Omg i love her 😍😍😍😍

[@isaacvincentedogun168]

Interesting argument! Good question! "Are you saying that men have not moved beyond instinct?"

[@SharpshooterSensei]

Moved beyond instinct does not erase instinctive behaviors. And it doesn't mean men use just their instincts only. So, every now and then morality will come in conflict with biology and instincts, a game which either one can win.

[@NYBEATZ3]

@@SharpshooterSensei exactly. The fact that you had to explain that makes me upset. People don’t think before they speak but you had the perfect answer

[@Jossation]

A man who's moved beyond instinct is called "they".

[@rasthehead]

@@SharpshooterSensei Such "morality" is based on what people think, not on what is actually moral. Men and women aren't the same.

[@SharpshooterSensei]

@rasthehead True, morality especially sexual morality is a construct as long as it's not pedophilia, incest, or bestiality.

[@Ace-fe8gc]

No one has overcome instinct. We instinctively feel jealousy, fear, etc. whether we act on it another thing but we will always feel our natural instincts.

[@roberthayes9709]

dude she's right why do you think in tribes that are not westernized have multiple wives?

[@ariannamay9201]

And most are in poverty

[@titanrhama9068]

@@ariannamay9201 poverty is only a westernized concept. Them people live off the land where poverty don't exist!

[@yassirtouissi5501]

@@ariannamay9201 and yet happier than us

[@MsFrageria]

@@yassirtouissi5501 I’ve been told the multiple wives are not necessarily happier and they can be jealous of the other wives/catty. 🐱

[@ariannamay9201]

@@yassirtouissi5501 1 out of 10 women in poly are suicidal. Men in poly relationships die younger than men in monag. (stress) and kids that grow up in this setting are most likely to have a learning disability or bullied. Not my words just some statistics

[@dubgotlocs4442]

He was on defense, I 100% agree with her

[@williwill23]

Here from Instagram. I just want to make sure I get the extra....😅😅😅

[@smartinnocent5087]

Wow! So we have being pretending all these while.

[@lovelyjo01]

🤣😂

[@proudamerican4613]

Me too. I came here from Instagram. Amazing video

[@crunchmaneslice276]

She is pretty asf tho

[@jaybanks2709]

polygamous nature abounds

[@kcbabanla5715]

I came here from kraks TV on Twitter... who else did so?

[@yourmajesty1099]

This is music to a Cheater's ears...
It's interesting most of the men here are applauding this woman as if we didn't already have a problem with too many kids having no fathers around...

[@leeannareynolds8779]

I don’t like players or f buddies and things of that nature but I did see a man disagreeing with polygamy.

[@lillivercheese9046]

Get out of your feelings for a moment and sit and think about her logic.

[@jaybanks2709]

more wives more money better life can handle more kids and build his village

[@olukenyosamuel3658]

Because it's of baby mama culture, feminist , I don't want to share my man in our culture a man can have as many wives as he can take care remember I said wives not baby mama now the woman would look out for each other children and the society at large is responsible for the child discipline nowadays even teachers can no longer discipline a child without getting a fight from the parent talk less of neighbors, and community as a whole

[@simonreel8140]

Instagram brought me here oooo

[@seyramkulewosi4611]

The old man was being ridiculous, her sayingg its basic instincts doesnt mean men use just their instincts,humans still use them buh not that alone. Unless he doesnt understand what basic instincts are. Plus data actually supportts the gal's claim, its a matter of numbers not opinion. So the average man does what the lady talk about. And just like every situation there is always an exception

[@Reign8110]

Be open then! it's the initial decite that brakes hearts and creats trust issues.... if a person was to be open about polygamy from the get get go then the person has a choice to take things further or walk .....a person will respect you more for your honesty and either be on board or not ... its not for everyone

[@oliviazawedde9830]

I came here from TikTok who else did

[@shaycoles5003]

Is there a "Where is She now" update?? Curious

[@seyiomotunde]

I came here to watch the Chinedu. part of the story

[@3a3a3n]

indeed, i just came here, and 100% agree with the woman

[@travoltafrancis7304]

Oh gorsh!,that woman pretty like money.

[@awaereck3246]

clean and clear

[@theophilussogoromo3000]

What she is saying is that it is in a man's nature to be polygynous, and monogamy has to be socialised into him.

[@kadytherealtylady]

That’s why you need to keep you legs close lady’s.. so these men don’t think they can just jump from woman to woman.. if we did that, they wouldn’t feel they can just do as they please without any commitments… she’s right, just don’t make it your reality…

[@JB-vc2wl]

Do you really think that'll change anything? If women are emotionally attached (which yall are) it'll just take longer for a man to do the exact same thing after you open your legs!

[@CastleNoble]

She’s still correct…
Any indoctrinated or conditioned behavior is merely habitually compelled by pressures and norms of society… but the nature still lives in the biological
and involuntary movements or organ functions, and mental responses to sexual stimuli…
All the natural bodily production of sperm and matured preparation remains in every man that drives him forever to his nature to procreate and continue human life by divine design.✨✨✨🏀

[@cleakavanaft1903]

He was trying to make a woman in his life or his bosses happy. Or he has those urges and he has never been able to answer them and over time he developed this Appreciation for women due to him not having an abundance of them at his whim so he now just sees life how a woman sees it cause he couldn't get love no other way. He totally lost logic once he just over looked his own biology. Being he has repressed his emotions for so long. Ya kno?

[@jaybanks2709]

yeah i do he is repressed and must be set free

[@rasthehead]

@@jaybanks2709 AMEN.

[@davidandrewburrows8535]

I love it! I wish it was legal in more countries!

[@demarsmith6138]

Instagram make me each over here eno... A can't me alone

[@awoniyiolajide7638]

I came here from Twitter. Who else did??

[@carolettewright9241]

True. But the character of a true man is the demonstrate discipline in all areas of their lives, and women must create boundaries for themselves.

[@rasthehead]

No. You're wrong. Men and women are not the same. The rules that apply to you don't apply to me and that's reality. Women will monkey branch for as long as they want to, and even if they didn't-- I'd still be me.

[@jaylucas8352]

Olu said to the judge minus social rules they would cheat. He seemed to rehash that part.

[@shalaybevel857]

Doesn’t it make it harder to protect and provide for multiple women if you have no self control. If that is all a man does to show love then while he is out roaming he is leaving his wife and children unprotected. When he impregnates the next one he leaves her and their child unprotected. If he has a multitude of women and children how can he do it all, unless he is rich and only a small number of men are or have been rich.

[@Bran416]

Men only impregnate women who allow us to. Don’t just let any man get you pregnant without knowing what responsibilities he already has. These men don’t just show up to your door ready to fornicate

[@samlah2319]

Thats just fuckboi style. Usually men will take women into their household as mistresses or second wives etc. Back in the past I mean

[@Fitnessby_jj]

That’s where logic comes in , some guys r idiots and impregnate every girl they beat

[@imasayitpodcast]

Well that part is do to with social constructing like she stated.. it's enough resources on this world for everyone we the one as humans choose to pay for land food ect our (Natural) side doesn't cater to that it's man made

[@Jcodeabstruse]

Not if she went to her momma house though.

[@lorenzopearson110]

Man has not moved past instinct

[@toluolaitan916]

We literally can’t it doesn’t make sense to say otherwise. The man is a pretentious fool

[@Jossation]

Do you consult your wife and kids whether or not to protect them when thieves break in your house? Selective instincts makes you a beta man.

[@lorenzopearson110]

@@Jossation assuming make one lower than a beta. Fighting a negative instinct is a sign of evolution. Doing whatever makes you a caveman.

[@JIX9ISLER1986]

Coach Greg Adams sent me

[@Righteous628]

That woman articulated a thesis that is the Chess equivalent of a "Checkmate"

[@ToneyMarquee]

I'm here from tik tok.

[@mr3danimation847]

Uhm I've red some of the comments about what Olumide said, and i think she's right on one side, because she explained it biologically, we have seen men's sexual domination on even other living organisms apart from human beings, but ithink it's wrong to you if you'll take what Olumide said as an inspirational. Its not okay for mens to cheat, having more than one territory its automatically slows down your performance in both physically , mentally and emotionally. And that causes poverty and Leakage in families, Mens... it's not okay to cheat. If you have a power of providing and controlling as Olamide said, please control your self from temptations and provide yourself the self understanding and determination, because the future belongs to those who listen debates and observe the facts not the ones who listen and take it as inspiration.

[@rasthehead]

"because the future belongs to those who listen debates and observe the facts not the ones who listen and take it as inspiration."
_What are you talking about??_ Debates are done for people to see the truth, not for people to hinder themselves. *Stop* telling men not to be polygynous. If you're in a relationship, don't cheat, WHICH I will mention is not the same as having multiple women [i.e being polygynous], but even _if_ a man does, it's not the same as a woman cheating on him. *Stop* teaching those lies. But considering the fact you said: "the future belongs to those who listen debates and observe the facts", the *FACT* is I am a man and part of being a man is being polygynous. You hinder yourself if you want to, but don't educate others to do the same (that is, if you're male).

[@leetemple3130]

I came from twitter oooo

[@valanci.official]

Judge Simpleton

[@cixangwagas5338]

I came here bcos of tiktok

[@JuniorKnowledge]

I like this Girl

[@BlackEgyptians]

I came here from the planet Rizq. #nuwaubu #dryork

[@starbutterfly9841]

Men and dogs same wassup 😅😅😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@blakkmagikk360]

This woman is failing to realize that polygamy is a practice, not a natural fact. If you take away the religious & social pressures of monogamy, then it’s the “practice” of polygamy that rises and also not just within men, as she so purposefully stated. What she also fails to realize is love is not the only nor necessary emotion that arises in sex. All emotions are relative whomever you’re having sex with. But that notion has been deliberately disregarded to make the extreme and absurd case that men have zero emotion in the bedroom due to men being visual and logical. WTF! 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@MrRushepoo]

excellent content as always

[@LEACHISRICH]

This Man Just needs to agree with her... And shut up...

[@markajones7670]

That's what I thought he was going to do

[@MrSivram28]

Nigerian men are hard headed and proud.

[@aabheersvlogs8832]

She just described biology of men and women... And the judge didnt get it... Poor fellow

[@samuel34319]

Me too I came here from IG

[@theprivateer5570]

If she was my woman I would not give a sh*t about anyone else. And if I’m wrong she would understand.

[@TheSonsofthePOWER]

Me too Instagram... 😂

[@mr.louisvocal9475]

Thanks to tikotoko!

[@MrSegunadedapo]

Love this

[@ariyorufusadewumi-pe3ox]

I’m looking for Olamide speech but I can’t get it

[@TheOriginalRiddim]

Man trying to please his wife, repeating man and dogs. 😂

[@jefbishop5514]

She’s right

[@josephnartey2748]

Frankly, the judge is not making any sense to me. He is denying the obvious.

[@amuzugodwin2877]

I came here because from TikTok who else did?

[@janorrismcmarion6814]

I came from Instagram

[@abykijana9803]

Where is this woman i will give her money

[@kelvinsmith5533]

She's wrong but it'll take a big mind to see through

[@maquindesign9158]

From twitter

[@jojobush6735]

Biologically Yes. However we have evolved to be better humans/animals. If we made polygamy and infidelity a norm the world would be a mess. More STDS and More birth defects due to not knowing who your relatives and siblings are.

[@colbalt95]

You take those away and women will attempt to default Society to a matriarchy

[@shakeelmiah5117]

Insta brought me here again lol

[@jut9113]

What was the name of the video just pearly things posted about this video

[@gabrielgitonga1588]

How this video is emerging now baffles me after 10+1 yrs

[@checho1281]

No. She said it's a biological instinct.

[@MrShowcase125]

Me too.

[@rasthehead]

They guy is emotional. She said: "For lack of a _better_ *analogy,"* _not:_ "Men *are* dogs." His acting like modern women. Can't understand the difference between reality, what an analogy is and why it's used to describe reality. That guy is fairly emotional and doesn't exist within reality. He'll ask: "Have men not moved beyond their instincts?", but doesn't ask why women don't see us beyond ATMs. A woman _can,_ not _will_ love love you, but it doesn't mean she doesn't want to use your money. Her money is her money while your money is "our" money. Why don't people ask women whether or not they have moved beyond their instincts??? Because *as **_far_* as I can tell, women still want to live a _lavish life,_ especially when it is provided by the man they like. It's biological because women like fun. You can keep the emotions turning, you can't provide 'er with *unique* experiences, she won't be with you. It doesn't matter what God or anyone else told 'er. If you're boring, if you're average, if you can't get 'er the things she'd like to have, she'll simply go where that can be provided and leach off of you where you _allow_ it.
This guy is an idoit.
If that show were running today, you need to get 'im *off* and get a new one because this one doesn't understand. _How can a woman be more resided in reality than _*_you?_*

[@hot2dmax]

Okay, I object there. Men are also sensitive, Nigerian culture just does not allow it.

[@kennethgbarayor2375]

hot2dmax stop crying

[@Adonce]

And you’ve just proven his point

[@mhs1983]

Men can be sensitive but most of them who are...are in their feminine

[@evangelistfrancispeprahtv1904]

As evangelist for me to practice monogamy I will rather stay unmarried

[@christiannwagbo7864]

You are not a evangelist my friend.

[@evangelistfrancispeprahtv1904]

@@christiannwagbo7864 you don't understand the scriptures

[@christiannwagbo7864]

Which scripture?

[@evangelistfrancispeprahtv1904]

@@christiannwagbo7864 never asked me any question if you don't understand the scriptures

[@tafarirex]

Where is the full clip

[@achannel.4619]

C G A BOOMAYE!

[@BabsW]

The only thing I disagree with her on is that men don't release 1 viable sperm cell at a time.

[@Jossation]

Listen to the audio again, don't just look at her.

[@Oraclegr]

Make I use this one hold body

[@kezmenflowers8691]

And this coming a woman

[@AFTWKING]

Instagram as of today 👀

[@spencerahrendts7778]

I hate the guy who she dialogues with

[@ayokunlesunmola60]

who else came from twitter

[@ememudoidua2673]

Sunmola Ayokunle 👆

[@KyrstenPourchelle]

I love what he said in response to her!

[@titanrhama9068]

You would lol

[@lillivercheese9046]

I bet you would

[@Frank2489]

Of course you would 😆

[@Oraclegr]

Abeggii

[@Jossation]

Go figure. He's a simp and a beta man, but also a smart man... he said that as a bait.