"You can't lay down enough to make a man marry you!" Mindset change is required that demonstrated you care about you; you value you; you love you. Thinking you got "good couchie" only keeps a boy and not a man! To Thy Own Self Be True!
Apparently marrying them can’t make them stop cheating on their wives as well. Many black males have side pieces all over the place & many married black women are STILL single mothers, so marrying him doesn’t make him a stay at home dad or a husband to his wife’s only pussy either. Because in the bc the fact still remains that papa is a rolling stone!
Laterras!!! Camish has to come back. This was one of the most therapeutic podcasts next to the one with Andre Notice. Please have her come back because she is the voice that a lot of us need as it relates to wisdom and womanhood. Thank you so much Camish. I needed this God bless you !!
@@pda7819 what do you mean? Are we “women” visually attracted to men? Is this what makes us first want to speak to men or want men to speak to us, first because of what we see?
OMG!!! She has preached a word!!! Knowing what a what woman brings to the table is so not about finances. It's about peace, honoring him, knowing him well enough to know when to and how to cover him, to be is place of comfort...his safe place. Know who I am as a woman will display how I move with my man and how he treats me. Loving me teaches him how to treat me. Yes!!!! Giving too much to soon will and can destroy you!!! I am no longer casting my pearls before swine!!! Now that I know I am valuable, worthy, deserving of the best, and thriving!! I am "the favor!!!"
When a man ask that question , most times they are not asking about finances . They are asking about your character and how would you add value to their life . I’m not sure why it’s wrong to ask a woman to say what she brings to the table .
@@Jamcore2008 Evening my brother. As a full grown been through some thangs black woman, I don’t know that’s it’s wrong (just my opinion-mine!). Nor would I be bothered by being asked. “I” know WHO I am , my value, my worth and WHOSE I am. So most questions don’t bother me. I’d rather be asked than one to assume.
The tears started to automatically flow at "I have laid down enough ". I am 45 and yes, it is time to let myself breathe.........I have been in situationships, marriage, just broken off an engagement that was turbulent from the beginning.......from age 14 until now, I haven't given myself time to heal from any of my relationship or childhood trauma.
When she said “I’ve laid down long enough “ made me cry !!!! And you can never lay down enough for him to marry you. Sis , you have truly blessed me. I’m tired and I’m not going to lay down anymore! Thank you sister!!!!!! I can’t even began to describe how much you have helped me this day . Thank you Ms Camish !!!! You spoke the truth ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
One of the best interviews. I absolutely agree with her when it comes to raising children. I would never put my child out because she turned 18. And I wish parents stop telling these boys they are the man of the house. She unpacked so much.
LaTerras, a high five 🖐, two snaps, 5 Hallelujah’s, 7 Glory to God’s, a whole 3 minute hug WITH thank you whispers! You did that dang thang on this podcast! I’m 55 and on it! Boi stand up and drop the mic 🎤
@Monique Dependable...I'm 51 and right here with you sis! Everything you said...I could've said it better. Out of all the guest I've watched on his show in the last year or so I've been subscribed to this channel, this one by far spoke to and gave voice to the journey and mindsets of us 50 and fabulous women out here. Thank you...Thank you...Thank you LaTerras for this one! 🙌💜🙌
‘I don’t call him the man of the house. He is my son’ THANK YOU!!! I keep telling people that and no one understands. We put so much pressure on our boys by making them a man when they are boys!! Let these kids be kids!! Thank you for saying this! Yes!!!
Laterras! This is what I’m talkin about!!! The people need wisdom and especially biblical wisdom! I love how she puts the story of Samson and Dalilah. I salute her for speaking for the women. I’m in my 30s and I had a situationship back in my early 20s. We don’t like situationship! We want companionship! But you will get yourself caught up in situationship if you don’t know your worth. Companionship is not just sex, it’s about intimacy. It’s about communication and spending quality time. Being present with one another. Enjoying each other’s company. Most men and women want intimacy, but will settle for Situationship if they don’t know who they are in Christ. Great Episode Laterras! I love Holy Spirit led conversations. Come on Holy Spirit! Praise God!
What an awesome episode. To go even further with the sons being named as the "MAN OF THE HOUSE", I would include the fact that it gives males a false sense of the role because they now believe that they only have to do the bare minimum because the woman of the house which is the mother, is the provider, protector, the cook, the caretaker and they expect the same exact things to happen in a relationship and that's NOT how it should be. We as women sometimes set our future generations up for failure by trying to fill our own voids in relationships.
Woooh!!! Hadn’t thought of that. I was just thinking of how you’re asking him to perform something that he doesn’t have a proper model of, and that’s setting them up for failure.
For all the women who are younger than 50...im sure we can sit at this woman's feet. The anointing just flowed so freely. I'm wfh home today, a cord was struck several times and here's me...hands lifted up in prayer and tears flowing down my face as I feel God presence manifest. Now back to the podcast bc im digesting this thing piece by piece. It took me three hours to complete this episode. Thank you LRW for the value of DFW, for the value of you!!! I also didn't want to loose several years ago. I fought and walked through shame and what appeared as defeat for someone who never fought for me. God revealed to me that sometimes our greatest win is losing. A caterpillar goes through several stages of losing such skin shedding and all legs breaking off. That man was my legs but God gave me wings through the process of losing. This episode was nothing short of amazing and I thank God for the speaker! What an awesome woman of God. Clothed in strength and dignity. You are my model. Thank you, thank you, thank you!!! ❤️ 💙 💜
@River Wells even women over the age of 50 can sit at her feet and learn. I'm 57 and I did just that. She spoke TO ME and she spoke ABOUT ME too!!! We should never be too old to learn and accept instructions and/or encouragement from someone even if they're younger than we are. Your heart will know when it's right....when it's for you. Jesus taught many who were much older than he was. Just like you....it took me a while to completely watch it all and I also plan on watching and listening again! I thank God on your behalf for your New Wings! Fly High baby girl.....FLY HIGH!!!!! And don't look back!!!!💜👑🦋💯⚘
@@msreeree65 Thank you so much for your kind words!!! You remind me of my auntie who gave me a word when I was about 7...she said to remain teachable always. Shes 70 and still learning!!! This message is truly for us all!! Im so glad to hear this message gave you strength and lessons too!!! A million gazillion hugs from Ohio!!!!
One more thing...if we never meet on the ground, I'll meet you in the air! Here's to both of us flying high!!! #butterflies #eagles #inthetwinkingofaneye
You had me at “God did not join us together”! When I was going through my divorce, I often said “til death do us part” also means “spiritual death”. To be walking dead is far worse than a physical death. 🙌🏽👌🏽💯
Never too old to learn, as a member of the over 55 group lots to glean from on this podcast. Thank you Camish for being honest and transparent. May God bless you daily as you continue your journey. Young girls/women need your counsel.
55 club here also! Received a lot of God confirmation and got filled at my desk. I will agree when you Know you have a relationship with God things change inside so strong u cannot not adjust to the turnaround. Getting to a point of being tired will surely do that for you!
4 months divorced and this testimony laid a new pathway towards more healing and acceptance my ex husband was never meant to stay and be a Husband. Thank you🙏🏼
This was so good. This woman had been through the fire, and I appreciate her testimony. She was bald and breastless now helping other women. All her words were such a blessing to many.
This conversation is Spot On! I just turned 60 a couple months ago. And just because people are doing things differently now, doesn't mean that God has changed His Word, Morals, Standard, Expectations of His children. If people knew what He says about them, they will be able to walk in Confidence of His great Love for them. I appreciate everything you all have said. It's the truth, and more people need to hear from the elders in their lives. This is indeed the Lord's doing, and it's Marvelous in our eyes! I Praise God for you, and pray His continued Blessings upon your lives. Thank You for allowing God to use you for His Glory! Love to you both, and I pray your territory continues to be enlarged. God bless you! I Appreciate You!
This probably is one of your BEST episodes yet! I appreciate her transparency about issues concerning her health , relationships and most of all of her relationship with Christ. Praying that God blesses her in every area of her life!
Thank you for inviting her to the show. 7 months later I finally watched the episode and it was so on time. From today forward I will tell my truth! Yes I’m 51 and single. Yes I still believe that I will be a wife!
You're already a wife, just believe your husband will find you. I'm 47 & mine will find me sooner than I think. I decree & declare we will be married to the right man that God ordains in Jesus name. 🙏🏽
Myyyyyyyyyy GOODNESS!!! Her voice alone is a ministry. So relaxing to the soul. I didn’t know what to expect by the title. The nuggets she dropped was 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥. Selah. Blessings 🙌🏾💜🙏🏾
Speaking truth. It explains why the relationships didn't last and never made it to marriage....we were not joined by God. God did use those relationships to have me see some things and grow. And I know that feeling of being with a man in his bed and going home and looking at myself and not liking what I see, not liking what I feel. This so hit me! Awesome!
This message deserves an Oscar, Academy and a Grammy! Let me begin by saying, her calm tone radiates a healing vibration that will heal anyone. Sis aren't you tired? OMG that did it for me! I can truly relate, because nearly 5 years ago, I looked at myself and declare I'm tired of playing myself short! Thanks Laterras for this podcast, you have no idea how much healing and hope it has brought in my life! Keep up the great work King!❤
Laterras!! I agree with everyone Ms. Camish made me cry but, she made me look into myself and see why I am alone and lonely. Single by default! I must hear her again...over and over. I must tell truth and just be honest at all cost! Its required!
Yes I am tired!!! I have laid down for over ten years thinking I was gonna get something different; aka...the commitment with the ring and years later I have NOTHING!! So I'm not laying down anymore to have nothing! Yes, companionship!!! A partnership!!! (I have never responded like today...she is so on target with where I've come from so I just want to touch and agree with the truth of what's being said) Yes....I am transpart about my journey. I've been in marriage that I joined together. Not one time but two times. Being a single mom, being in a situationship expecting a commitment, not knowing that I deserve to have love reciprocated. Loving the message today!!!!
Preach Sister my husband and I be saying the same thing these kids have no get up and go, when I growing up I wanted a job and car and I didn’t wait for know one I would walk and put applications in, I took my graduation money and paid for driving lessons, these kids want everything handed to them Lord she talking now👏👏👏👏👏👏
The part about Samson though!!! I didn’t know he was already hurt from a previous relationship. That past hurt will hurt your future if we don’t let it GOOOOO!!!
Every episode of this podcast is wonderful. But this episode here, I've laughed, cried and praised God all in this episode! Thank you for having Ms. Camish on this platform and helped changed the world!
I can understand why her videos went viral. Queen it is your season. Keep speaking the knowledge and wisdom. The part that stuck with me is when you said when you finish doing your thing take a look in the mirror. This is a true statement sisters take her advice you don't have to walk down this journey I'm sure it is enough sisters who can testify to you Queen. Thank you for being so honesty and transparency.
Laterras, thank you for having Camish on Dear Future Wifey!!! When Camish states, "Haven't you laid down enough?" My response is yes. I don't have to or need to lay down to be accepted or feel worthy of a man. Camish, thank you queen for your transparency and for sharing your experiences with us!!
THAT OBEDIENCE IS NO JOKE!! Obedience will display your faith-action. God honors obedience because your faith-action says, “Lord, I trust you. I’ll do it. I don’t get it, but You do.”..Okay still watching…MY GOODNESS!! 🙌🏾❤️🙌🏾😭😭
“You can not put your mouth on what God already touched” That was the one for me. That was the moment. Spoken just as I was writing my own post about how words can kill passions and dreams.
This podcast is second to my favorite with Essence being first. Nothing like God giving you a word when your in that season. Confirmation for the direction I’m going. I needed to hear Camisha. As always great great podcast. Thank you
"When you don't heal yourself from your past, you will walk in a reckless way that will cause you to lose your life in the end." Laterras, that's all I needed to hear!!! Did this woman speak a word, or what!?
I normally never comment on videos, but this one was so good, it had me jumping up and walking like I was in church. Camish, thank you so much for your honesty. You don't know what you did to women who actually understand what you were saying. I've always wanted to be a mentor to young ladies, and one of the main reason is so they can hear HONESTY to save themselves from heartaches. Thank you for allowing God to use you as a vessel to encourage others. Keep being you! Love you sis, and God bless you. 🙏🏾 Thank you Mr. L for welcoming Camish as a guest. God bless you 🙏🏾.
Wonderful episode. Definitely felt it when she said you can’t lay down enough to make a man want to marry you. Been through that several times and she is speaking nothing but facts! This is one of the best episodes. ❤️
When I tell you this was such a good podcast. I am a 50 year old women who has gone through similar circumstances and her messages resonated with me .. I am learning so much from your podcast.. im starting from the beginning .. thank you thank you thank you
Good morning Laterras, and Dear Future Wifey Family 👋 Over 50 over here 👊 Thank you Laterras for having Ms. Camish on your podcast. I'm about 25 minutes in, and I love what today's topic is. I also love Ms. Camish 's voice, it is very soothing. I appreciate her honesty. She is easy to listen to, I really love how she shares her stories. I find it easy to receive what she is sharing. She is inspiring 🙏🙌🥰
Laterras, you have 99.8k subscribers Hoo, Hoo 🙌🙏👏You are getting there 👊 The 100k subscribers is coming. I'm going to go ahead and congratulate you: CONGRATULATIONS Laterras, on 100k subscribers (I know it's coming). 🙂 Have a wonderful day!
😭Jesus! This was ohh my word breath taking. Could be the best one thus far.. 59:00 till the end was just mind blowing. This podcast is teaching me how to be humble as a women and wife.. What God is looking for in his people, relationships, unity and marriage.
This was refreshing and impactful. So unexpected. I’m usually able to listen in while working but found myself pausing to take it in. I’m 49 and appreciate her perspective and wisdom. Appreciate you Laterras, the podcast has been a blessing.
Praise God from whom all blessings flow ! Thanks to you both Mr.Laterras & to your guest Ms. Camish. I listen sporadically, but today God would not let me escape. And today I was truly blessed. Thank you so much!
Laterras, one of the things I appreciate about your interviews is how well they flow and how natural your questions and comments are. Thank you for sharing your obedience and gifts with us. Excellent interview. She's easy to listen to. Wisdom spoken. 🙌🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Laterras, I'm a married woman and this is my first podcast with you and your guest Camish. WOW was I bless! So much so that I paused the podcast to pray for God to show me how He would use all the various things I've experienced. I also shared it with my daughter, sister and aunt. Who are looking for a husband. Blessings to you both. I've subscribed but couldn't find Camish.
Camish spoke into my spirit so much that she could be my spokesperson about my life. Her wisdom, knowledge, and humbled heart regarding the pain she’s been through was so inspiring. She touched on so many things, and something that stood out to me is being in a relationship where you aren’t valued by your significant other. All of those waisted years with the wrong people was painful, especially when I knew deep down that they could care less about my feelings. Nevertheless, there are lessons learned and testimonies to share. Thank you for sharing these podcasts Laterras you are helping not only yourself, but all of us heal through your platform, may God continue to bless you always!🌷This was one of my favorite episodes.
I have been saying this for years! If you’re honest with your mate and voice your concerns your relationships would be better or you can decide to move on without any haste! Honesty is the best policy even when it hurts! You can heal and won’t need closure! 🙏🦋
Whew… this episode is Definitely in my top 5‼️🙌🏾 It’s surreal how much her story aligns with mine! It’s always refreshing to see my 50+ sisters represented. We still got it. 😉 Camish’s grace, beauty and wisdom made me proud to be a member of the fabulous fifties club. 💖
The intro definitely Blessed me!! The guilt ✨🙏🏾 I just had to add on. Now that I’ve seen the whole video. This Woman hit so many relatable points for me. It’s time for all of us to heal healthily. I don’t know about y’all, but, I’m sick and tired of going with the flow. I need to be intentional~
Sis. Shareta once you start it becomes addictive and easier. I’m proud of you already, now ask God to continue to order your steps. Be ready sis, it’s amazing
@@sheretahughes5308 Sis. With birth Gods good works has already began you are in Manifestation sis. Get ready you are about to see more change Just give thanks open your heart and be prepared to receive your blessings. God WANTS to you just have to receive. I love you and are happy for you
This was awesome, Camish spoke the things that I know I have thought, but would never say out loud. She even gave me the answer why my son keeps getting married to women that he knows is not right for him. I had just asked God to give me the answer why he just got out of one marriage and jumped into another one. She spoke the truth and did not hide behind a mask. Thanks Camish for sharing about your breasts being removed and having alopecia, you kept it 100. Thanks for sharing the detail of your life. You just set a lot of people free.
This podcast has been such a blessing to me. As someone who has NOT always made the best decisions in the dating department, but desires true love, this podcast has helped to navigate loving and choosing myself, being bold and dating with a purpose, trusting the process, and so much more. I hope you never stop doing this work. You are blessing so many, including myself.
Praise God 🙌🏾 - wisdom, grace, experience, understanding 🙏🏾.... God bless my dear Sister Queen Camish & every sister who comes across this awesome testimony. May your hearts be forever changed and your minds transformed 🙏🏾.... We are stronger because we have a better perspective 🤌🏾❤👑
She said I knew when I said “I do” “I didn’t.” Well, talk truth! This episode is truth on 🔥!!!! Thank you for being an outspoken woman of truth! Hi five Laterras, ❤️ ❤️ ❤️.
Camish is setting captive souls in broken situationships FREE INDEED, don't sleep on her message!!!🙌🏾💜 Keep walking heavy Sis and letting people know not to Ever beg anyone to be something they aren't and won't be for or to you. Choose you instead of half of OR less than a potential man or woman, just to "feel goodish but empty after". 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Keep doing this in Obedience Laterras!!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💕
This message was so on point. God is on time and he knows his children. When we are hurting lost and need to heal internally. While reading the comments ,There were two comments from Karen and Donna that was knocking at my front door. After being in a long term relationship looking for love wanting to be married Yet knowing I was going about it wrong, I continued . Through the whole courtship I would often say,”something’s wrong,Gods saying no”. He was a loving sweet and caring man ,but he only nibbled ,talked around , and dangled the carrot about marriage. I gave my best and felt if I didn’t get out I wouldn’t have anything left for the right man God has for me. With forgiveness,grace, strength and humility, I asked God to help me free myself. Now I’m sexually abstinent. My abusive past will not keep me from Gods promises.
I’m part of the 50 club and it was a pleasure seeing this woman of elegance speak and share so eloquently. It was encouraging and a tremendous blessing. Thank you God, Camish and Laterras.
This was such a great episode (Like all the episodes aren't great 😂)! She was definitely dropping gems! That letter at the end though 🥺... Ugh 😢... gets me everytime 🤧. I pray that this podcast continues to be blessed & highly favored, in Jesus name 🙏🏾.
Myyyyy Lord…GRATEFUL for all this truth and knowledge released into my hearing today! I am 50+1 and fighting back my tears on this busy work day! I am hearing, listening and making notes to apply to my life immediately! Thank You Lord for THIS EPISODE!
Wow! Camish gurl, your were throwing bombs. Am also a 52 yr old lady that doesn't look her age, healing from domestic abuse after 23yr old marriage. My mum passed 6 months ago. Am healing from that also. Camish thanks for speaking to my soul, your words are life changing and transformational. Sis, you are a blessing. Thank you and may almighty God bless you mightily ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you, God for Ms. Camish Hopkins. This is truly what I needed to hear this morning. Wonderful, wonderful episode! From the 47:00 mark onward to the end, she spoke healing into my soul. ❤️
Yes…Obedience is greater than the Sacrifice; when we are obedient to God’s word we are rewarded greatly even when we don’t understand the assignment.🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Congratulations on exceeding 100k subscribers! And wow, Camish, thank you for your wisdom sis and for allowing the Good Lord to bring His word through you. I share your convictions on guarding our hearts as women.
Wisdom! That was my thought the entire time I listened to this woman of God speak! This is a woman who understands Who her Redeemer is! This is a woman who has a deep and true relationship with God! God was all over this interview and it was powerful! I had never looked at Samson's story from that angle. I just thought he was spoiled by his parents and angry cause he didn't get the woman he wanted. But now looking at it from the angle that he was operating from a place of hurt is so much deeper. Great interview, Laterras! God truly is your publicist, and He is proving that with every episode. I was blessed and picked up lots of gems! To God be the glory! Your letter, as usual, was heart melting. ❤
“Sit in your own seat!” That line has spoke to my spirit deeply. I asked God to show me how to use my platform for his glory. I was so uncomfortable with what God was telling me to do, “tell your story, experience, and share your journey!” Laterras your podcast is always so on time and I pray one day I can say to you in person “Thank you!” For sitting in your seat. It’s a blessing.
Carnish is very mature. I actually thought she was closer to 63. She is wise beyond her years. Her calm demeanor, her sensibility and her willingness to wait on God’s direction before she moves. I can appreciate this. Also, the fact that she said God told her to STOP giving away her gifts; this was me in 2020. I was giving away everything and my daughter said to me, no more free services. When I tell you, the day I listened to my daughter and ceased ALL free movement, God began to bless me ten fold. You can’t pray to God to bless your gifts and give it away for free. This is an oxymoron. On a separate note, Carish favors the immaculately Devine Felicia Rashad. Same sweet and peaceful spirit. ❤️❤️❤️
OMG....This lady Ms.Camish she touch my heart. She has that humble spirit and honestly spoken she is beautiful. You can hear the peace within she has when she talks. Bring her back because she is very inspiring
"You can't lay down enough to make a man marry you!" Mindset change is required that demonstrated you care about you; you value you; you love you. Thinking you got "good couchie" only keeps a boy and not a man! To Thy Own Self Be True!
Apparently marrying them can’t make them stop cheating on their wives as well. Many black males have side pieces all over the place & many married black women are STILL single mothers, so marrying him doesn’t make him a stay at home dad or a husband to his wife’s only pussy either. Because in the bc the fact still remains that papa is a rolling stone!
Absolutely 💯
Laterras!!! Camish has to come back. This was one of the most therapeutic podcasts next to the one with Andre Notice. Please have her come back because she is the voice that a lot of us need as it relates to wisdom and womanhood. Thank you so much Camish. I needed this God bless you !!
Hands down.
Amen! This reactivated my Black Woman Card!
Definitely Agree!!!
Do "women" like what they see? Hmm. I wonder if we as people "men/women" like what they see.
@@pda7819 what do you mean? Are we “women” visually attracted to men? Is this what makes us first want to speak to men or want men to speak to us, first because of what we see?
Girl!!!! You just said it!!! "Have you laid down enough??????" THANK YOU QUEEN!!!
She became for my edge’s
OMG!!! She has preached a word!!! Knowing what a what woman brings to the table is so not about finances. It's about peace, honoring him, knowing him well enough to know when to and how to cover him, to be is place of comfort...his safe place.
Know who I am as a woman will display how I move with my man and how he treats me. Loving me teaches him how to treat me. Yes!!!! Giving too much to soon will and can destroy you!!! I am no longer casting my pearls before swine!!!
Now that I know I am valuable, worthy, deserving of the best, and thriving!! I am "the favor!!!"
Amen
When a man ask that question , most times they are not asking about finances . They are asking about your character and how would you add value to their life . I’m not sure why it’s wrong to ask a woman to say what she brings to the table .
@@Jamcore2008 Evening my brother. As a full grown been through some thangs black woman, I don’t know that’s it’s wrong (just my opinion-mine!). Nor would I be bothered by being asked. “I” know WHO I am , my value, my worth and WHOSE I am. So most questions don’t bother me. I’d rather be asked than one to assume.
Amen
This right here. I got tried of just
The tears started to automatically flow at "I have laid down enough ". I am 45 and yes, it is time to let myself breathe.........I have been in situationships, marriage, just broken off an engagement that was turbulent from the beginning.......from age 14 until now, I haven't given myself time to heal from any of my relationship or childhood trauma.
From 14 to now..I get that!!
I'm proud of you for taking this time finally to heal and find who you are
Laterras was speechless, he sat so quietly during this episode.. so much wisdom in one episode
When she said “I’ve laid down long enough “ made me cry !!!! And you can never lay down enough for him to marry you. Sis , you have truly blessed me. I’m tired and I’m not going to lay down anymore! Thank you sister!!!!!! I can’t even began to describe how much you have helped me this day . Thank you Ms Camish !!!! You spoke the truth ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
This here!!!
One of the best interviews. I absolutely agree with her when it comes to raising children. I would never put my child out because she turned 18. And I wish parents stop telling these boys they are the man of the house. She unpacked so much.
This woman spoke so eloquently what I have always felt.
LaTerras, a high five 🖐, two snaps, 5 Hallelujah’s, 7 Glory to God’s, a whole 3 minute hug WITH thank you whispers! You did that dang thang on this podcast! I’m 55 and on it! Boi stand up and drop the mic 🎤
Lol. Praise God
I know that’s right
I KNOW KNOW AND KNOW THATS RIGHT!
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@Monique Dependable...I'm 51 and right here with you sis! Everything you said...I could've said it better. Out of all the guest I've watched on his show in the last year or so I've been subscribed to this channel, this one by far spoke to and gave voice to the journey and mindsets of us 50 and fabulous women out here.
Thank you...Thank you...Thank you LaTerras for this one! 🙌💜🙌
‘I don’t call him the man of the house. He is my son’ THANK YOU!!! I keep telling people that and no one understands. We put so much pressure on our boys by making them a man when they are boys!! Let these kids be kids!! Thank you for saying this! Yes!!!
I could listen to Camisha talk all day, her voice is so soothing and she spoke some real facts.
Laterras! This is what I’m talkin about!!! The people need wisdom and especially biblical wisdom! I love how she puts the story of Samson and Dalilah. I salute her for speaking for the women. I’m in my 30s and I had a situationship back in my early 20s. We don’t like situationship! We want companionship! But you will get yourself caught up in situationship if you don’t know your worth. Companionship is not just sex, it’s about intimacy. It’s about communication and spending quality time. Being present with one another. Enjoying each other’s company. Most men and women want intimacy, but will settle for Situationship if they don’t know who they are in Christ. Great Episode Laterras! I love Holy Spirit led conversations. Come on Holy Spirit! Praise God!
What an awesome episode. To go even further with the sons being named as the "MAN OF THE HOUSE", I would include the fact that it gives males a false sense of the role because they now believe that they only have to do the bare minimum because the woman of the house which is the mother, is the provider, protector, the cook, the caretaker and they expect the same exact things to happen in a relationship and that's NOT how it should be. We as women sometimes set our future generations up for failure by trying to fill our own voids in relationships.
Say it, say it!!!!! Wow
Woooh!!! Hadn’t thought of that. I was just thinking of how you’re asking him to perform something that he doesn’t have a proper model of, and that’s setting them up for failure.
Well said!!!!
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Ooooweee you said that! 🙌🏾
She's definitely that aunt I'd call for advice. God bless this woman and allow her to foster her purpose. May she find the one whom her soul loves❤❤❤
This episode just grew me up so many notches as a woman!!! Whew! I could listen to her all day.
For all the women who are younger than 50...im sure we can sit at this woman's feet. The anointing just flowed so freely. I'm wfh home today, a cord was struck several times and here's me...hands lifted up in prayer and tears flowing down my face as I feel God presence manifest. Now back to the podcast bc im digesting this thing piece by piece. It took me three hours to complete this episode. Thank you LRW for the value of DFW, for the value of you!!!
I also didn't want to loose several years ago. I fought and walked through shame and what appeared as defeat for someone who never fought for me. God revealed to me that sometimes our greatest win is losing. A caterpillar goes through several stages of losing such skin shedding and all legs breaking off. That man was my legs but God gave me wings through the process of losing.
This episode was nothing short of amazing and I thank God for the speaker! What an awesome woman of God. Clothed in strength and dignity. You are my model. Thank you, thank you, thank you!!! ❤️ 💙 💜
Use your wings now Sis. It’s your turn!
@River Wells even women over the age of 50 can sit at her feet and learn. I'm 57 and I did just that. She spoke TO ME and she spoke ABOUT ME too!!! We should never be too old to learn and accept instructions and/or encouragement from someone even if they're younger than we are. Your heart will know when it's right....when it's for you. Jesus taught many who were much older than he was. Just like you....it took me a while to completely watch it all and I also plan on watching and listening again! I thank God on your behalf for your New Wings! Fly High baby girl.....FLY HIGH!!!!! And don't look back!!!!💜👑🦋💯⚘
@@msreeree65 Thank you so much for your kind words!!! You remind me of my auntie who gave me a word when I was about 7...she said to remain teachable always. Shes 70 and still learning!!! This message is truly for us all!! Im so glad to hear this message gave you strength and lessons too!!! A million gazillion hugs from Ohio!!!!
One more thing...if we never meet on the ground, I'll meet you in the air! Here's to both of us flying high!!! #butterflies #eagles #inthetwinkingofaneye
@@moniquedependable3782 Amen Sis!!! Thanking God I made it out!!! 🙏🏾
You had me at “God did not join us together”! When I was going through my divorce, I often said “til death do us part” also means “spiritual death”. To be walking dead is far worse than a physical death. 🙌🏽👌🏽💯
Never too old to learn, as a member of the over 55 group lots to glean from on this podcast. Thank you Camish for being honest and transparent. May God bless you daily as you continue your journey. Young girls/women need your counsel.
55 club here also! Received a lot of God confirmation and got filled at my desk. I will agree when you Know you have a relationship with God things change inside so strong u cannot not adjust to the turnaround. Getting to a point of being tired will surely do that for you!
👋🏾 Over 60 here! Yes, she dropped some 💎 Forever learning 📚 💙
“I no longer aim to win.
My posture is submission.”
Beautifully said Mr. Whitfield ❤️
That line almost broke me down
@@DearFutureWifey Help Lord, help.
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This needs to be a T shirt
Wow, I love this ❤
4 months divorced and this testimony laid a new pathway towards more healing and acceptance my ex husband was never meant to stay and be a Husband. Thank you🙏🏼
Very therapeutic voice. Thank you both for your obedience to the Lord. This word penetrated the heart.
This episode was so good!
The wedding ring is a symbol that you are taken!
Sis ain’t you tired of laying down!
Just too many nuggets 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
This was so good. This woman had been through the fire, and I appreciate her testimony. She was bald and breastless now helping other women. All her words were such a blessing to many.
This conversation is Spot On! I just turned 60 a couple months ago. And just because people are doing things differently now, doesn't mean that God has changed His Word, Morals, Standard, Expectations of His children. If people knew what He says about them, they will be able to walk in Confidence of His great Love for them.
I appreciate everything you all have said. It's the truth, and more people need to hear from the elders in their lives. This is indeed the Lord's doing, and it's Marvelous in our eyes! I Praise God for you, and pray His continued Blessings upon your lives. Thank You for allowing God to use you for His Glory! Love to you both, and I pray your territory continues to be enlarged. God bless you!
I Appreciate You!
I love her authenticity so MANY Gems
This probably is one of your BEST episodes yet! I appreciate her transparency about issues concerning her health , relationships and most of all of her relationship with Christ. Praying that God blesses her in every area of her life!
Sis spoke volumes on this episode...In her most cool, calm and collective voice. God continues to order this sisters steps...She spoke a word!
Thank you for inviting her to the show. 7 months later I finally watched the episode and it was so on time.
From today forward I will tell my truth! Yes I’m 51 and single. Yes I still believe that I will be a wife!
You're already a wife, just believe your husband will find you. I'm 47 & mine will find me sooner than I think. I decree & declare we will be married to the right man that God ordains in Jesus name. 🙏🏽
I’m apart of the over 50 community also. Thank you for having Camish on this episode. She is truly an encouragement!!!
ME also.
Myyyyyyyyyy GOODNESS!!! Her voice alone is a ministry. So relaxing to the soul. I didn’t know what to expect by the title. The nuggets she dropped was 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥. Selah. Blessings 🙌🏾💜🙏🏾
Very grounded and full of wisdom
Speaking truth. It explains why the relationships didn't last and never made it to marriage....we were not joined by God. God did use those relationships to have me see some things and grow. And I know that feeling of being with a man in his bed and going home and looking at myself and not liking what I see, not liking what I feel. This so hit me! Awesome!
FACTS 💯💯💯🎉🎉
Tell the truth!! Shame the devil!! Kudos to the guest for her transparency and helpfulness! You did it again King Laterras!! 🙏🏽✌🏽🙌🏽❤️
This message deserves an Oscar, Academy and a Grammy! Let me begin by saying, her calm tone radiates a healing vibration that will heal anyone. Sis aren't you tired? OMG that did it for me! I can truly relate, because nearly 5 years ago, I looked at myself and declare I'm tired of playing myself short! Thanks Laterras for this podcast, you have no idea how much healing and hope it has brought in my life! Keep up the great work King!❤
Laterras!! I agree with everyone Ms. Camish made me cry but, she made me look into myself and see why I am alone and lonely. Single by default! I must hear her again...over and over. I must tell truth and just be honest at all cost! Its required!
I'm not even 30 minutes in, and I absolutely love her spirit and maturity. Now I see why this conversation is longer than your usual. 💜
she’s said a mouth full! Thank you for that! We women as individuals need to know our values and what we worth.
From one Mississippi Queen to another, FAVOR AIN’T FAIR but when God is covering us BAYBEEE…we can do ALL THINGS🙌🏽❤️
Yes I am tired!!! I have laid down for over ten years thinking I was gonna get something different; aka...the commitment with the ring and years later I have NOTHING!! So I'm not laying down anymore to have nothing! Yes, companionship!!! A partnership!!! (I have never responded like today...she is so on target with where I've come from so I just want to touch and agree with the truth of what's being said)
Yes....I am transpart about my journey. I've been in marriage that I joined together. Not one time but two times. Being a single mom, being in a situationship expecting a commitment, not knowing that I deserve to have love reciprocated. Loving the message today!!!!
Preach Sister my husband and I be saying the same thing these kids have no get up and go, when I growing up I wanted a job and car and I didn’t wait for know one I would walk and put applications in, I took my graduation money and paid for driving lessons, these kids want everything handed to them Lord she talking now👏👏👏👏👏👏
The part about Samson though!!! I didn’t know he was already hurt from a previous relationship. That past hurt will hurt your future if we don’t let it GOOOOO!!!
Thank you for saying this. So tired of single mothers treating their sons like their husband. It’s sickening actually.
Every episode of this podcast is wonderful. But this episode here, I've laughed, cried and praised God all in this episode! Thank you for having Ms. Camish on this platform and helped changed the world!
I can understand why her videos went viral. Queen it is your season. Keep speaking the knowledge and wisdom. The part that stuck with me is when you said when you finish doing your thing take a look in the mirror. This is a true statement sisters take her advice you don't have to walk down this journey I'm sure it is enough sisters who can testify to you Queen. Thank you for being so honesty and transparency.
Laterras, thank you for having Camish on Dear Future Wifey!!! When Camish states, "Haven't you laid down enough?" My response is yes. I don't have to or need to lay down to be accepted or feel worthy of a man. Camish, thank you queen for your transparency and for sharing your experiences with us!!
THAT OBEDIENCE IS NO JOKE!! Obedience will display your faith-action. God honors obedience because your faith-action says, “Lord, I trust you. I’ll do it. I don’t get it, but You do.”..Okay still watching…MY GOODNESS!! 🙌🏾❤️🙌🏾😭😭
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“You can not put your mouth on what God already touched”
That was the one for me. That was the moment. Spoken just as I was writing my own post about how words can kill passions and dreams.
This podcast is second to my favorite with Essence being first. Nothing like God giving you a word when your in that season. Confirmation for the direction I’m going. I needed to hear Camisha. As always great great podcast. Thank you
Totally agree....the episode with Essence Atkins was deep too...this one and the one with her I'd have to say are my two favs so far as well. 👍🥰
This episode has touched me in so many ways. God is in and all through this ministry. Thanks Dear Future Wifey podcast & Camish
"When you don't heal yourself from your past, you will walk in a reckless way that will cause you to lose your life in the end." Laterras, that's all I needed to hear!!! Did this woman speak a word, or what!?
Amen to responsibilities vs chores! My son is my son, not my man! Glory That was a sermon all by itself!
I normally never comment on videos, but this one was so good, it had me jumping up and walking like I was in church.
Camish, thank you so much for your honesty. You don't know what you did to women who actually understand what you were saying. I've always wanted to be a mentor to young ladies, and one of the main reason is so they can hear HONESTY to save themselves from heartaches.
Thank you for allowing God to use you as a vessel to encourage others. Keep being you! Love you sis, and God bless you. 🙏🏾
Thank you Mr. L for welcoming Camish as a guest. God bless you 🙏🏾.
Now she is a Queen 🩷 wishing her many blessings 🙏🏽 from 🇨🇦
Wonderful episode. Definitely felt it when she said you can’t lay down enough to make a man want to marry you. Been through that several times and she is speaking nothing but facts! This is one of the best episodes. ❤️
When I tell you this was such a good podcast. I am a 50 year old women who has gone through similar circumstances and her messages resonated with me .. I am learning so much from your podcast.. im starting from the beginning .. thank you thank you thank you
Good morning Laterras, and Dear Future Wifey Family 👋 Over 50 over here 👊 Thank you Laterras for having Ms. Camish on your podcast. I'm about 25 minutes in, and I love what today's topic is. I also love Ms. Camish 's voice, it is very soothing. I appreciate her honesty. She is easy to listen to, I really love how she shares her stories. I find it easy to receive what she is sharing. She is inspiring 🙏🙌🥰
Laterras, you have 99.8k subscribers Hoo, Hoo 🙌🙏👏You are getting there 👊 The 100k subscribers is coming. I'm going to go ahead and congratulate you: CONGRATULATIONS Laterras, on 100k subscribers (I know it's coming). 🙂 Have a wonderful day!
Thank you so much my prayer is that this message feeds your soul.. Blessings💕
Well said Camish God spoke theiugh you softly, gracefuly and openly. Continue liberating others.
😭Jesus! This was ohh my word breath taking. Could be the best one thus far.. 59:00 till the end was just mind blowing. This podcast is teaching me how to be humble as a women and wife.. What God is looking for in his people, relationships, unity and marriage.
I do have to say this is one of the best podcast❤️
This was refreshing and impactful. So unexpected. I’m usually able to listen in while working but found myself pausing to take it in. I’m 49 and appreciate her perspective and wisdom. Appreciate you Laterras, the podcast has been a blessing.
Praise God from whom all blessings flow ! Thanks to you both Mr.Laterras & to your guest Ms. Camish. I listen sporadically, but today God would not let me escape. And today I was truly blessed. Thank you so much!
Laterras, one of the things I appreciate about your interviews is how well they flow and how natural your questions and comments are. Thank you for sharing your obedience and gifts with us. Excellent interview. She's easy to listen to. Wisdom spoken. 🙌🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Laterras, I'm a married woman and this is my first podcast with you and your guest Camish. WOW was I bless! So much so that I paused the podcast to pray for God to show me how He would use all the various things I've experienced. I also shared it with my daughter, sister and aunt. Who are looking for a husband. Blessings to you both. I've subscribed but couldn't find Camish.
Camish spoke into my spirit so much that she could be my spokesperson about my life. Her wisdom, knowledge, and humbled heart regarding the pain she’s been through was so inspiring. She touched on so many things, and something that stood out to me is being in a relationship where you aren’t valued by your significant other. All of those waisted years with the wrong people was painful, especially when I knew deep down that they could care less about my feelings. Nevertheless, there are lessons learned and testimonies to share. Thank you for sharing these podcasts Laterras you are helping not only yourself, but all of us heal through your platform, may God continue to bless you always!🌷This was one of my favorite episodes.
I have been saying this for years! If you’re honest with your mate and voice your concerns your relationships would be better or you can decide to move on without any haste! Honesty is the best policy even when it hurts! You can heal and won’t need closure! 🙏🦋
Whew… this episode is Definitely in my top 5‼️🙌🏾 It’s surreal how much her story aligns with mine! It’s always refreshing to see my 50+ sisters represented. We still got it. 😉
Camish’s grace, beauty and wisdom made me proud to be a member of the fabulous fifties club. 💖
Lord send her the husband that’s for her .. I declare and decree It 🙌she’s beyond priceless
She is so anointed. She and Essence are my favorite guests so far their words pierce your soul. I would love an episode with both of them.
Yes👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾she said I’m tired of laying down I felt that in the depths of my soul
The intro definitely Blessed me!! The guilt ✨🙏🏾 I just had to add on. Now that I’ve seen the whole video. This Woman hit so many relatable points for me. It’s time for all of us to heal healthily. I don’t know about y’all, but, I’m sick and tired of going with the flow. I need to be intentional~
Sis. Shareta once you start it becomes addictive and easier. I’m proud of you already, now ask God to continue to order your steps. Be ready sis, it’s amazing
@@moniquedependable3782 Thank you. I’m ready for God to do his mighty works within me. In Jesus name. Amen 🙌🏾
@@sheretahughes5308 Sis. With birth Gods good works has already began you are in Manifestation sis. Get ready you are about to see more change Just give thanks open your heart and be prepared to receive your blessings. God WANTS to you just have to receive. I love you and are happy for you
This was awesome, Camish spoke the things that I know I have thought, but would never say out loud. She even gave me the answer why my son keeps getting married to women that he knows is not right for him. I had just asked God to give me the answer why he just got out of one marriage and jumped into another one. She spoke the truth and did not hide behind a mask. Thanks Camish for sharing about your breasts being removed and having alopecia, you kept it 100. Thanks for sharing the detail of your life. You just set a lot of people free.
She has a voice and a spirit made to be seen and heard.
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This podcast has been such a blessing to me. As someone who has NOT always made the best decisions in the dating department, but desires true love, this podcast has helped to navigate loving and choosing myself, being bold and dating with a purpose, trusting the process, and so much more. I hope you never stop doing this work. You are blessing so many, including myself.
I literally laid my head back and closed my eyes while listening to her. Her voice is amazingly soothing
Praise God 🙌🏾 - wisdom, grace, experience, understanding 🙏🏾.... God bless my dear Sister Queen Camish & every sister who comes across this awesome testimony. May your hearts be forever changed and your minds transformed 🙏🏾.... We are stronger because we have a better perspective 🤌🏾❤👑
This was nothing short of amazing. When she spoke of Samson and Delilah it flashed me back to a old relationship. This was God . Keep going Laterras!
Laterras, thank you for bringing on a GROWN woman!
Thank you Camish! For your honesty and keeping it LIT!
She said I knew when I said “I do” “I didn’t.” Well, talk truth! This episode is truth on 🔥!!!! Thank you for being an outspoken woman of truth! Hi five Laterras, ❤️ ❤️ ❤️.
Camish is setting captive souls in broken situationships FREE INDEED, don't sleep on her message!!!🙌🏾💜 Keep walking heavy Sis and letting people know not to Ever beg anyone to be something they aren't and won't be for or to you. Choose you instead of half of OR less than a potential man or woman, just to "feel goodish but empty after". 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Keep doing this in Obedience Laterras!!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💕
The 48:00 mark, 🗣 words!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
This message was so on point. God is on time and he knows his children. When we are hurting lost and need to heal internally. While reading the comments ,There were two comments from Karen and Donna that was knocking at my front door. After being in a long term relationship looking for love wanting to be married Yet knowing I was going about it wrong, I continued . Through the whole courtship I would often say,”something’s wrong,Gods saying no”. He was a loving sweet and caring man ,but he only nibbled ,talked around , and dangled the carrot about marriage. I gave my best and felt if I didn’t get out I wouldn’t have anything left for the right man God has for me. With forgiveness,grace, strength and humility, I asked God to help me free myself. Now I’m sexually abstinent. My abusive past will not keep me from Gods promises.
I’m part of the 50 club and it was a pleasure seeing this woman of elegance speak and share so eloquently. It was encouraging and a tremendous blessing. Thank you God, Camish and Laterras.
This was far the best free therapy session I’ve ever had, thank you Queen it was an honor.. you spoke the hard truth and I was here for it!🙏🏽❤️
Here 4 It!!!!❤
You can't lay down enough to make a man marry you....PREACH!!!!!!!
This was such a great episode (Like all the episodes aren't great 😂)! She was definitely dropping gems! That letter at the end though 🥺... Ugh 😢... gets me everytime 🤧. I pray that this podcast continues to be blessed & highly favored, in Jesus name 🙏🏾.
OH MY GOODNESS!!! Ms. Camish doesn't know the DEPTH of what she just did and who she is to the people! My GOD!! She is a GIVER indeed.
Myyyyy Lord…GRATEFUL for all this truth and knowledge released into my hearing today! I am 50+1 and fighting back my tears on this busy work day! I am hearing, listening and making notes to apply to my life immediately! Thank You Lord for THIS EPISODE!
Wow! Camish gurl, your were throwing bombs. Am also a 52 yr old lady that doesn't look her age, healing from domestic abuse after 23yr old marriage. My mum passed 6 months ago. Am healing from that also.
Camish thanks for speaking to my soul, your words are life changing and transformational.
Sis, you are a blessing. Thank you and may almighty God bless you mightily ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you, God for Ms. Camish Hopkins. This is truly what I needed to hear this morning. Wonderful, wonderful episode! From the 47:00 mark onward to the end, she spoke healing into my soul. ❤️
Awesome 💯
Yes…Obedience is greater than the Sacrifice; when we are obedient to God’s word we are rewarded greatly even when we don’t understand the assignment.🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Congratulations on exceeding 100k subscribers! And wow, Camish, thank you for your wisdom sis and for allowing the Good Lord to bring His word through you. I share your convictions on guarding our hearts as women.
Wisdom! That was my thought the entire time I listened to this woman of God speak! This is a woman who understands Who her Redeemer is! This is a woman who has a deep and true relationship with God! God was all over this interview and it was powerful! I had never looked at Samson's story from that angle. I just thought he was spoiled by his parents and angry cause he didn't get the woman he wanted. But now looking at it from the angle that he was operating from a place of hurt is so much deeper. Great interview, Laterras! God truly is your publicist, and He is proving that with every episode. I was blessed and picked up lots of gems! To God be the glory! Your letter, as usual, was heart melting. ❤
YAAAAS!! “Too tender for the Roni”! You have created a new slogan! God is moving through you and I’m so proud of you!! Love you Gurl! 🙏🏾🙌🏾💪🏾💯👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤️💕
I've been single 29 years BAPTIZED 4 times, love God & serve the lord ,I hope I find my person , or my KINGDOM SPOUSE ❤❤🙏🙏👍
This was an awesome episode with so much wisdom!! Thank you Camish for sharing your story.
I didn’t want this episode to end. Please have Camish come back or Camish please start your own podcast. You have a lot to say that I want to hear❣️
“Sit in your own seat!” That line has spoke to my spirit deeply. I asked God to show me how to use my platform for his glory. I was so uncomfortable with what God was telling me to do, “tell your story, experience, and share your journey!”
Laterras your podcast is always so on time and I pray one day I can say to you in person “Thank you!” For sitting in your seat. It’s a blessing.
Lift Him up!
She spoke to me.... Amen
Carnish is very mature. I actually thought she was closer to 63. She is wise beyond her years. Her calm demeanor, her sensibility and her willingness to wait on God’s direction before she moves. I can appreciate this. Also, the fact that she said God told her to STOP giving away her gifts; this was me in 2020. I was giving away everything and my daughter said to me, no more free services. When I tell you, the day I listened to my daughter and ceased ALL free movement, God began to bless me ten fold. You can’t pray to God to bless your gifts and give it away for free. This is an oxymoron.
On a separate note, Carish favors the immaculately Devine Felicia Rashad. Same sweet and peaceful spirit. ❤️❤️❤️
OMG....This lady Ms.Camish she touch my heart. She has that humble spirit and honestly spoken she is beautiful. You can hear the peace within she has when she talks. Bring her back because she is very inspiring