Not all men who date you actually like you, it can be convenient, or an experiment. Don't accept less than the best. Only be with him if you are his dream girl. And yes I date out of my race too.
Same! I date out because I'm not searching high and low for a black guy I have enough in common with (it's hard). I have a few girlfriends who date out as well and I look at these guys they choose like ehhhh 🧐 He's using you, sis. He ain't right just because he's white.
“what kind of life is this? i didn’t ask to be here, you brought me here and now you’re being racist. what is going on??” killed me with that one ffs 😭😭
Yea... no I always caution people who engage in interracial dating. No matter the skin tone or gender. If they don’t have any black friends or don’t have a history of dating out or can’t get along with the same sex of another race (like non black women who date black men but hate black women and Vice versa) . it’s a no for me it’s to much of a unnecessary hassle for myself and the potential kids. You mention the mom calling the kids the n word. That’s very common especially among black ppl who allow for that non black parent to behave that way. It’s so normal on the west coast. Keep up the good work ladies love from Atlanta ❤
Hey girls! I'm Brazilian, I met you through Instagram and I'm in love with the podcast. I don't know how to speak English very well, but I can understand and laugh with you a lot. I wanted to highlight how beautiful you are and thank you for bringing joy to my day. ❤️🇧🇷
I have to be honest my ex used to adore white women . He truly wished I was white . To the point that I left him because I started feeling « inferior » to white women. All his black friends are with white women. Btw, he is BLACK . 😅
I came here because I just now seen the clip on ig of the lady who husband calling her ugly and I was in tears!!! I still ammm!!!! She said spit the corona from 2 years ago in the snacks!!! I ain’t been the same since I hear that! 😂😂😂😂
ok with the Dilemma story....that man was drunk UNTIL he realised no one laughed at his lil joke. Mr. geep geep sobered right up expeditiously!!! & sis should follow her instincts as its already telling her that she can't go pass that comment. Nothing anyone says can truly match what she actually feels inside and in her situation. Good luck to her, hope she gets a new city apartment soon 😌
leave Leave LEAVE!!!! He will eventually leave you for white woman when hes ready to settle down. Thats wild!!!! 10 months girl its still early. Now im invested. Can we get update?
He will be on his best behaviour until he thinks that she has forgotten or she is in too deep. She needs to play along until she sorts out her work situation. And then leave. Sis knows what to do she is just clutching at straws because she doesn't want to leave him.
Girl with the glasses is too pretty. Some people really don't know their worth. She sounds like she subconsciously or even consciously wants to stay with him but uses the apartment as a seemingly valid excuse. She says she there 5 days a week. She may have come from another city, but at this point she practically lives there. She says she middle class, so she could theoretically afford an appartment if she wanted to. I dont know her but I really hope ahe leaves.
I thank God, that I have not experienced these horror stories from interracial relationships. And I pray that I never will, because I can't even imagine my husband (white) ever telling me that. Babes move on, those 10months were him blocking your blessings of finding your person/partner for life; the one that truly loves you no matter what/who you are.
Listening from Oregon, USA, and gotta say Ive never been so happy to come across a podcast.. you all are relatable and hilarious & GIRL LEAVE THE "I wish you were white" MAN! For facts - internalized racism, RUN!
"I wish you were white..." 😮 lemme slide on over...I wouldn't even recommend him to one of my Caucasian friends! 😂 ALSO: I need the clip of the mother calling the babies the n word cause EH?!
I feel like he was drunk and thinking about how much he liked her and was like damn "if only she was white" as if that would've made her evennnn better.. 🤣💀 sick! I hope she left him
The problem is people need to truly learn about genetics. Mixed people are not popping out black people. We did DNA test as a family and my mixed niece was 60% Spanish, 20% something else and like 30% black.
Y'all should have a live session, where we can watch it, so I just found your page, I think on instagram, can't really remember though 😂, because I have legit gone to all your pages 😂😂, spotify , youtube, so I can't remember whether it just popped up on my feed but yeah that's it😅. I legit fell in love, and I wish am part of the conversation, this is awesome, well done ladies🎉❤. Love from jacqueline
I commented this on tiktok already but I absolutely love yall. I binge watch here on youtube while at work. My favorite part of the show is when the dilema gets juicy and Beatrice yells AYE, JESUS... LOL . Your chemistry is undeniable .. Def have a fan all the way in the U.S from chicago, IL
His underlying feelings have been exposed. He secretly despises you and you’re trying to justify staying with him. You’ll find another peen that will treat you better and actually like you. Lbs
This episode was intolerable to listen to. The screeching, wailing, screaming, talking over each other. Ladies, please listen back to this episode so you can have a moment of reflection. ❤
I wonder if that slip really was about the fact that he knew if they got more serious that really deep down it wasn’t his family’s wishes…. Like is was probably a slip into the real mindset of his family… if she was fully white it would be easier for him to accept his attraction…. She should take that slip up as a blessing and run
I’m mixed race as well and I only date men I know are attracted to mixed race girls. There should be absolutely no confusion or doubt that YOU are his dream girl and that he recognizes your worth because you are his actual type. This does not seem to be the case with this girl unfortunately ;(
I wish is such a strong word people don’t use the word I wish lightly. If she stays washed will forever be insecure let him be with his “white women”. I am tramutised by this 😂😂😂😂😂
I feel like the fact you even had to ask and have been ruminating about that comment AND trying to rationalize his behavior with prior drinking situations means deep down, you already know your answer.. nah, love - you deserve someone who respects you and encourages you to grow, not belittle you because they have a problem when substances get involved.
Marring outside your race, the reality is this happens more than you know.. I have a family memeber who was married to a white person for over 20 years with 2 children, we as a family loved this person and embraced them with open arms every function they were there and i myself became very close with this person. HOWEVER During lock down 2020 a comment was made about the GFloyd situation, and to cut a long story short they are now divorced and my family member has found their feet and living their best life... YOU NEVER REALLY KNOW SOMEONE .....
I saw Asake last weekend (9/8/23) at the Barclays in Brooklyn. I had floor seats on the 6th row, with a VIP Meet & Greet package. My total price via TicketMaster was $473.00 USD. I can honestly say it was worth every penny though. I will add that I'm a huge Asake fan and concerts are my vibe so I may have even paid more if necessary. I'm eating Ramen Noodles for the next month , but YOLO! 🤷🏾♀😂 (kidding...maybe). I'll be seeing Beyonce soon but I won't even mention those prices 😩😩😩.
Tammy is me … still stuck on the extra story “I didn’t even ask to be here and you’re being racist towards me” 😂🤣💀⚰️ … like is she serious? What did she think her kids would turn out to be? CHILEEEEEEE
Years ago, I confided in a close friend about my then-girlfriend, now my wife. I mentioned, "I wish she was Black." My friend felt that statement was racist, but I hadn't intended it that way. I knew she was the one for me, but I also realized that being with her would mean missing out on a lot Nigerian ness . It's worth noting that I spent the first half of my life in Nigeria before moving to the UK.
As a latina, i cannot tell you how many times a guy has made shitty racist ass remarks about mexicans but tlked to me because Me in particular is pretty to them…. Countless guys. The world sucks
Hearing non Americans talking about American prices is so embarrassing as an American. Not we allll are wondering why everything is this expensive smh 🤣
My BOYFRIEND wishes I was white?
Girl, this is not a dilemma. He is not even your husband for you to think so hard. Just drop him.
Fr 😂
Literally.
To the First Lady: Denial is a river in Egypt your boyfriend is racist!
Not all men who date you actually like you, it can be convenient, or an experiment. Don't accept less than the best. Only be with him if you are his dream girl. And yes I date out of my race too.
Same! I date out because I'm not searching high and low for a black guy I have enough in common with (it's hard). I have a few girlfriends who date out as well and I look at these guys they choose like ehhhh 🧐 He's using you, sis. He ain't right just because he's white.
@@shahana_styleThis!
@shahana_style So how do you choose 😮
We need more pods with just dilemmas
Yes seriously !
We have a dilemma special episode coming up soon! 👀
BTS. You are all A.mazin❤🎉🎉🎉
The dark skin girl is sooo gorgeous 😍
❤❤
frrrr
There’s no funny way to say “I wish you were white” that’s literally not a joke
Exactly!
“what kind of life is this? i didn’t ask to be here, you brought me here and now you’re being racist. what is going on??” killed me with that one ffs 😭😭
😂😂😂😂
Not “diversity hire” 😭😭😭😭😂😂😂😂
This SPUN me 😂
I love the way they react😂😂😂, please let that girl that read react, she wouldve already shouted, Heyyyy, and already walked around the studio twice😂
“Diversity hire” made me scream 😂😂😂
The thing is SHE IS WHITE but only 50% which means he only acknowledges her black side (we’ve heard this story before) LEAVE HIM
This is very true!!! Wow
Yea... no I always caution people who engage in interracial dating. No matter the skin tone or gender. If they don’t have any black friends or don’t have a history of dating out or can’t get along with the same sex of another race (like non black women who date black men but hate black women and Vice versa) . it’s a no for me it’s to much of a unnecessary hassle for myself and the potential kids. You mention the mom calling the kids the n word. That’s very common especially among black ppl who allow for that non black parent to behave that way. It’s so normal on the west coast. Keep up the good work ladies love from Atlanta ❤
Its not easy as u say
@@kwameopoku3576 it is.
Also look at how he treated his exes. Just because is known to date out does not mean they also treated those women good.
Re: white mum calling her kids Nig*gers….. it’s normal in UK too.
Im glad my white boyfriend grew up in África and has black friends
Please, please end this relationship. Absolutely not.
Hey girls! I'm Brazilian, I met you through Instagram and I'm in love with the podcast. I don't know how to speak English very well, but I can understand and laugh with you a lot. I wanted to highlight how beautiful you are and thank you for bringing joy to my day. ❤️🇧🇷
Hey Bianca! Thank youuu ❣
All I can say is Sis, "Get Out".
nobody is going to mention how much lighter you all sound in this episode ? I love it when y’all sound rested and at ease 🥹
I have to be honest my ex used to adore white women . He truly wished I was white . To the point that I left him because I started feeling « inferior » to white women. All his black friends are with white women. Btw, he is BLACK . 😅
WOWWW!!!! As girls who were raised in Essex, we can fully relate ☹️
Was your ex-Ghanaian?
The self hate is deep
@@midnitehour1no he is Senegalese but I’m Ghanaian 😅
Eeeeey😢
I’m mixed (Italian and Nigerian) and I just love ur humor omg. It’s the first time someone has the same humor as me.
Girl you need to come to the uk this is how people’s humour be
Aww grazie ❤
@@JoelyTomonnot all. But many of the British who are from the African and British cultured
This that Halle Berry. Her French husband chastised her for braiding their daughters hair and then called her the n word
Wow!!!
WHAT THE FUCKK 😨
He even straighted her hair because the curls made her look too (black/exotic)
@@chrysalism7375 sure did. There was more thst led her to divorce him but obviously this was a lot
No that Aubry her first husband...
the Kenyan in me felt is when you 'HEEEEEEEEE". My ribs are on sabitical after this 🤣🤣🤣
Coz wueeehhh 😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂wueh
I’m glad you all had a pretty solid August! Congratulations on 100k ❤
Thank you so much 😭
I came here because I just now seen the clip on ig of the lady who husband calling her ugly and I was in tears!!! I still ammm!!!! She said spit the corona from 2 years ago in the snacks!!! I ain’t been the same since I hear that! 😂😂😂😂
😊😊😊😊
5 mins in. Girl RUN!
Tammy’s laugh made my day! My new phrase: what kinda lives are people living?!!😂
u three look beautiful this episode 🥰
Diversity Hire KIIIILLLEDDDD ME
ok with the Dilemma story....that man was drunk UNTIL he realised no one laughed at his lil joke. Mr. geep geep sobered right up expeditiously!!! & sis should follow her instincts as its already telling her that she can't go pass that comment. Nothing anyone says can truly match what she actually feels inside and in her situation. Good luck to her, hope she gets a new city apartment soon 😌
leave Leave LEAVE!!!! He will eventually leave you for white woman when hes ready to settle down. Thats wild!!!! 10 months girl its still early. Now im invested. Can we get update?
He will be on his best behaviour until he thinks that she has forgotten or she is in too deep. She needs to play along until she sorts out her work situation. And then leave. Sis knows what to do she is just clutching at straws because she doesn't want to leave him.
The Eastenders style “he doesn’t mean it” had me 😂😂😂😂
I'm all the way in Texas and I love this podcast! Yall literally get me through my work day ❤️🥰❤️🥰
Alabama 🥰
the way I just sat here stunned at 3:41 and let the ad play...inconceivable
It’s your reactions to the dilemma for me 😂😂😂😂
I like how they just get straight into it, it’s so refreshing!!!!! 😭😭
Girl with the glasses is too pretty.
Some people really don't know their worth. She sounds like she subconsciously or even consciously wants to stay with him but uses the apartment as a seemingly valid excuse. She says she there 5 days a week. She may have come from another city, but at this point she practically lives there. She says she middle class, so she could theoretically afford an appartment if she wanted to. I dont know her but I really hope ahe leaves.
Thank you 🥹and yep!! You’re so right
Was looking for the middle class comment 😂 so she couldn’t go and stay in a hotel for a couple of weeks? 👀👀
I thank God, that I have not experienced these horror stories from interracial relationships. And I pray that I never will, because I can't even imagine my husband (white) ever telling me that. Babes move on, those 10months were him blocking your blessings of finding your person/partner for life; the one that truly loves you no matter what/who you are.
I love you girls sooo much!!!! i Can't Stop Laughing while driving and listening on my way to work daily....Love from Toronto Ontario Canada
Listening from Oregon, USA, and gotta say Ive never been so happy to come across a podcast.. you all are relatable and hilarious & GIRL LEAVE THE "I wish you were white" MAN! For facts - internalized racism, RUN!
Thank you! ❤
"I wish you were white..."
😮 lemme slide on over...I wouldn't even recommend him to one of my Caucasian friends! 😂
ALSO: I need the clip of the mother calling the babies the n word cause EH?!
LOOOL he’s un-recommendable 😂😂
I feel like he was drunk and thinking about how much he liked her and was like damn "if only she was white" as if that would've made her evennnn better..
🤣💀 sick! I hope she left him
I just found ya'll on ig and I'm HOOKED I'm really finna binge watch every ep!!!
New listener and I literally thought Sharon was sola patronne for a sec!! Amazing episode 🔥
I stumbled on your tiktok page 2 minutes ago and I immediately knew this is the right place to be😂
The problem is people need to truly learn about genetics. Mixed people are not popping out black people. We did DNA test as a family and my mixed niece was 60% Spanish, 20% something else and like 30% black.
60+30+20 = 110
The math isn’t mathing.
im so happy i found this podcast
GIRLS YOUR GOING PLACES FR FR THIS IS THE MOST ENTERTAINING PODCAST TO LISTEN TO AND TO WATCH KEEP IT UP ❤
Thank you so much!!
"...and call the kids the n word" them: ehhhhhh🤨🤨...this had me rolling🤣🤣🤣
Heavy on the “it don’t just come out” 😂 he been thinking about that shit for a coo min
12:50 is cracking me upppp 😭😭 the way they both went “huh???”
Y'all should have a live session, where we can watch it, so I just found your page, I think on instagram, can't really remember though 😂, because I have legit gone to all your pages 😂😂, spotify , youtube, so I can't remember whether it just popped up on my feed but yeah that's it😅.
I legit fell in love, and I wish am part of the conversation, this is awesome, well done ladies🎉❤.
Love from jacqueline
Thank you for the love!!! We will most def be going live soon 🥰
🤣🤣🤣 I was driving while listening to this part last night and I had to fight my body from going limp from dying laughing 14:21
I commented this on tiktok already but I absolutely love yall. I binge watch here on youtube while at work. My favorite part of the show is when the dilema gets juicy and Beatrice yells AYE, JESUS... LOL . Your chemistry is undeniable .. Def have a fan all the way in the U.S from chicago, IL
Thank you sooo much!!
His underlying feelings have been exposed. He secretly despises you and you’re trying to justify staying with him. You’ll find another peen that will treat you better and actually like you. Lbs
This episode was intolerable to listen to. The screeching, wailing, screaming, talking over each other. Ladies, please listen back to this episode so you can have a moment of reflection. ❤
When people drink their true thoughts come to the surface..he meant what he said!!
I wonder if that slip really was about the fact that he knew if they got more serious that really deep down it wasn’t his family’s wishes…. Like is was probably a slip into the real mindset of his family… if she was fully white it would be easier for him to accept his attraction…. She should take that slip up as a blessing and run
Hahahahahahaha it’s a good thing I looked cos I was literally gonna ask… where’s the playlist???? Hahahhaa love the podcast!!! Congrats on 100k
Thank you!! xx
I’m mixed race as well and I only date men I know are attracted to mixed race girls. There should be absolutely no confusion or doubt that YOU are his dream girl and that he recognizes your worth because you are his actual type. This does not seem to be the case with this girl unfortunately ;(
You ladies are sooo funny keep them coming congratulations on 100k🎉🎉🎉
Thank you so much for the love 🥰
I wish is such a strong word people don’t use the word I wish lightly. If she stays washed will forever be insecure let him be with his “white women”. I am tramutised by this 😂😂😂😂😂
this is fr the only podcast i tune in regularly for i love y’all
I feel like the fact you even had to ask and have been ruminating about that comment AND trying to rationalize his behavior with prior drinking situations means deep down, you already know your answer.. nah, love - you deserve someone who respects you and encourages you to grow, not belittle you because they have a problem when substances get involved.
Girl America and Canada, beyonce tickets in Canada floor seats were up to $800
i subscribed about a week ago & i’ve already watched 10+ videos. i look forward to these podcasts🩷you guys never fail to cheer me up
You’re a real one wow. Thank you so much 🥰
Tammy is so funny HAHAHAH 🤣🤣🤣
Marring outside your race, the reality is this happens more than you know..
I have a family memeber who was married to a white person for over 20 years with 2 children, we as a family loved this person and embraced them with open arms every function they were there and i myself became very close with this person.
HOWEVER
During lock down 2020 a comment was made about the GFloyd situation, and to cut a long story short they are now divorced and my family member has found their feet and living their best life...
YOU NEVER REALLY KNOW SOMEONE .....
I saw Asake last weekend (9/8/23) at the Barclays in Brooklyn. I had floor seats on the 6th row, with a VIP Meet & Greet package. My total price via TicketMaster was $473.00 USD. I can honestly say it was worth every penny though. I will add that I'm a huge Asake fan and concerts are my vibe so I may have even paid more if necessary. I'm eating Ramen Noodles for the next month , but YOLO! 🤷🏾♀😂 (kidding...maybe). I'll be seeing Beyonce soon but I won't even mention those prices 😩😩😩.
I love the energy you guys give on your podcast!
Thank you for the abundance of memes in this for my twitter😘😘
Love your guys’s podcasts! They’re hilarious ❤
Tammy is me … still stuck on the extra story “I didn’t even ask to be here and you’re being racist towards me” 😂🤣💀⚰️ … like is she serious? What did she think her kids would turn out to be? CHILEEEEEEE
Yesss I'm so happy this is growing I love your podcast ❤❤❤
Ran here after the tiktok clip
Welcome 😂
Same! I just saw their clip on Instagram :)
Years ago, I confided in a close friend about my then-girlfriend, now my wife. I mentioned, "I wish she was Black." My friend felt that statement was racist, but I hadn't intended it that way. I knew she was the one for me, but I also realized that being with her would mean missing out on a lot Nigerian ness . It's worth noting that I spent the first half of my life in Nigeria before moving to the UK.
The commentary here is top tier 👌🏾😂
Being honest, I think her only dilemna is the commute change
LOOOOOOOL facts
12:43 I TOO SAID “EH?” BECAUSE WTF
2:41 you guys are always in sync
More dilemmas please !
Love this podcast!
i don’t think i’ve laughed this much🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 that dilemma is just outrageous bcuz WOT🥴🤔
I found you guys on Instagram and now im hooked ❤
Happy i found your podcast!! ❤😂
New subie 😊
Y’all hair be so fuckin LAID 💪🏽😍
Well done girlies! 💃
Thank you so much girl 🥰
Y’all are funny as fuck!!!!! Please I need to laugh as much as y’all do when I’m pissed 😂 so much prettier to do it that way
Everyone is so so fineeee
“You don’t want anymore blacks, but you keep producing blacks!” 🤣🤣🤣
Saying hello from the US. 👋🏾
Im mixed too I can relate💯😂😂
I liked this, but it’s really difficult to enjoy everyone’s ideas when you guys talk over each other
Naaa the laugh I laughed at this ep 🤣🤣
Girl living Get out movie IRL…
As a latina, i cannot tell you how many times a guy has made shitty racist ass remarks about mexicans but tlked to me because Me in particular is pretty to them…. Countless guys. The world sucks
Drop the dude. Commute to work till you find a new place. Simple.
Hearing non Americans talking about American prices is so embarrassing as an American. Not we allll are wondering why everything is this expensive smh 🤣
No way he’s “joking” about it !
Dark chocolate 😍😍
So she just wants to stay with him bc he’s a hotel for her? It’s time to commute baby girl
My husband and is white and if he ever said this he will be on the first plane back to his mama house bc no sir lol