If he takes EITHER one, im calling the police and reporting it STOLEN! The Ferrari only holds the driver and 1(one) passenger. How many trips to and from the airport is he planning on???
Obviously the "airport friends" are just a cover story. Hobosexual men like this will live in your apartment, eat your food, sleep with you (a.k.a. getting the full wifey treatment while giving nothing in return), they will spend your money, level up by learning from you... And in the end will take all the knowledge, take your car and drive their side chick somewhere they can bang in that same car. There are countless stories of women going through this. Why I think this applies to him? Well, why is he living in her apartment after only 4 months? Why does the fact she breaks up with him mean he's left homeless and without a car? Suspicious, no? He probably made his way into her apartment one day while she was in the process of grieving her father and just didn't leave, using her vulnerable state to start leeching from her. There's usually resentment in relationships like this because the man feels he deserves to be successful more than the hard working, smart and educated woman who is keeping him from being homeless or living in his car due to the man's ego and/or narcissism. In reality this type of man is lazy, unmotivated, unproductive, immature, financially irresponsible and has no desire to learn or improve because that would mean admitting he isn't smart and perfect. Men like this also like to monkey jump from branch to branch or more like from woman to woman... They will have somebody that doesn't challenge their ego lined up using his GF's resources to court the new girl so she's ready to support him when the moment comes. The new target will think "Well, he's proven he was successful once, that means he can become successful again..." when it was all a facade. Hence the cycle continues. I know this was a deep analysis but I have seen so many woman being scammed this way both online and IRL so at this point it's a PSA what ladies should be on the lookout for. (Also, I have seen countless men on Tiktok share that they are using this strategy.) Ladies, trust your instincts and don't ignore any red flags! It's better to be single than to be financially manipulated by some dusty loser. And my personal advice? No wifey privileges until he is behaving like a husband and a father would! That's only fair.
Obviously the "airport friends" are just a cover story. Hobosexual men like this will live in your apartment, eat your food, sleep with you (a.k.a. getting the full wifey treatment while giving nothing in return), they will spend your money, level up by learning from you... And in the end will take all the knowledge, take your car and drive their side chick somewhere they can bang in that same car. There are countless stories of women going through this. Why I think this applies to him? Well, why is he living in her apartment after only 4 months? Why does the fact she breaks up with him mean he's left homeless and without a car? Suspicious, no? He probably made his way into her apartment one day while she was in the process of grieving her father and just didn't leave, using her vulnerable state to start leeching from her. There's usually resentment in relationships like this because the man feels he deserves to be successful more than the hard working, smart and educated woman who is keeping him from being homeless or living in his car due to the man's ego and/or narcissism. In reality this type of man is lazy, unmotivated, unproductive, immature, financially irresponsible and has no desire to learn or improve because that would mean admitting he isn't smart and perfect. Men like this also like to monkey jump from branch to branch or more like from woman to woman... They will have somebody that doesn't challenge their ego lined up using his GF's resources to court the new girl so she's ready to support him when the moment comes. The new target will think "Well, he's proven he was successful once, that means he can become successful again..." when it was all a facade. Hence the cycle continues. I know this was a deep analysis but I have seen so many woman being scammed this way both online and IRL so at this point it's a PSA what ladies should be on the lookout for. (Also, I have seen countless men on Tiktok share that they are using this strategy.) Ladies, trust your instincts and don't ignore any red flags! It's better to be single than to be financially manipulated by some dusty loser. And my personal advice? No wifey privileges until he is behaving like a husband and a father would! That's only fair.
@@RainizLove like hell it isn't worth the 100k rent. He purposely didn't mention which car he wanted to take. She would need enough money to fix the car because no doubt he would've let his friends drive or speed to try to impress them.
Full story: I’m a bit pissed and need to know if I’m overreacting here or if I’m justified. I’m a 31F and last week, my boyfriend 30M asked if he could use my car to go and pick up his friends from the airport. I asked him why he couldn’t use his car and he said that his is booked in for maintenance that day and mine was bigger anyway. I checked what time the flight got in, worked out the time with work and said no problem, he can take my car. This morning he gets ready and asks where the keys are. I tell him they’re on the key tray and he says, no the Ferrari keys. Background: The Ferrari is a 328 that I inherited because my Dad died less than 2 months ago. I tell him there’s no way he is driving the Ferrari and he could use the Land Rover which was what I agreed to. He says I agreed that he could drive ‘my car’ and not which car specifically. I told him there was no way he was taking my Dad’s Ferrari and even if we’d been married 10 years, I still wouldn’t let him drive it (we’ve been together 6months). He got pissed and said that his friends were expecting him to show up with a Ferrari and that they were excited about going for a drive in it. We got into a shouting match and I kicked him out of my apartment and told him he’s not taking the Land Rover either and he and his friends can work their own way of getting home. I went to work, took all of the keys with me and now I’m getting messages from him saying he can’t believe I didn’t trust him and took all the car keys and from his mum and dad telling me I need to go to therapy because I’m too attached to things and that my Dad is gone and being possessive over his belongings is not healthy. Am I the idiot for not letting my boyfriend use my car and am I being too emotional over this? Note: He went back to the apartment after I’d left for work to “talk things over”. I was so pissed about him going through my apartment, I called security and they took my spare key from him and have his picture up as a do not allow to enter. Did I go too far?
@darciemcdonald8609. A Ferrari only holds two people. So he is lying to you. He is not trying to pick up two or more friends with luggage. He most likely wants to impress another female with your car. Dump him. Tell the next guy you meet he can't drive your Ferrari. Tell him it was a gift from your father. Don't make a big deal out of it. If someone respect you. They won't ever have their mother pressure you into doing what they want. Huge red flag. Stay away from red flag. Good luck to you. You did the right thing.
Not to far. Him and his disrespectful, entitled, selfish family can fund their own Ferrari to flex to their friends. OP is grieving and protective of irreplaceable memories/ valuable items that were treasured by the deceased. They all just told OP that her feelings don't matter, only her belongings. They all showed her who they are. And she decided that she didn't want that nonsense in her life. All stances were made very clear. She doesn't need to feel bad that she ended up in the better position because everything the ex tried to claim all belonged to her. He made his lack of bed. He can cry to mommy and daddy again. Maybe they or his friends will house him until he finds new accommodation.
He told her one of the reasons why he needs to use her car is it's bigger anyway. So he implied that he wants the range rover. He wasn't asking for the Ferrari
@jacquelinemoyer5808 I'm sure he initially meant the Land Rover for logical reasons, but then mentioned the Ferrari to his friends, and they thought it was super cool that he had access to such a nice car. They probably asked if they could get a ride in it and his entitled @ss didn't consider her feelings at all. Rather, he had a knee jerk defensive reaction against her refusal and on top of that...... whined to mommy and daddy to make her let him have whatever he wants. That man and his parents are a dump truck of red flags. Good riddance.
Your dad’s been dead, two months and his mothers telling you you’re too obsessed with his vehicle because you’re not letting a boyfriend of 4 Months drive it? Girl run run from all of them. His parents are ridiculous and so is he.
Nta Apparently he also went over with his spare key to, "talk things over" at the time he knew his ex was at work. Then proceeded to search her apartment for the keys until he realized none were there. Then outed his ulterior motive by message his ex with, "I can't believe you took all the keys with you bc you didn't trust me." 😐 Yes. And you single handedly proved she was right not to. Only dating for 4 months & her father recently pased away just 2 months prior... yet he's already trying to use her recently inherited property for his own personal gains. I can't even begin to fathom being that selfish. & Doing all that just bc you want to flex on some friends. Smh. Why would you even promise them a ride or tell them they'll be able to drive it... knowing you didn't have the authority to offer without approved permission? Immature, disrespectful, & narcissistic. This lady really dodged a bullet.
@@getskibidihackedwhat about the ones that go “cops of Reddit what are the worst things you have seen ……….. (reply) ………. Yeah former McDonald’s workers here ………….
Yeah he manipulated her by saying that so she thought he meant the Range rover but in reality he wanted the ferrari that's why the deception of not naming the car
Well I had a terrible colleague who is used to show off with things he had bought,even though he couldn't afford them,all in loan. We had a fallout,he said something was going on between me and another colleague in a very demeaning and horrible way. After one year,I lost my mother and bought a house all in same month,I bought it specifically so that I can live next to my office with her. Anyways even before offering condolences,he asked me to throw a house warming party. I pointed out to him politely how people in our area,even his too,don't throw a party for at least one year when you close ones expire. He was least bothered. I am pretty sure he wanted to show off it to his in-laws or rich friends to tell how he is friends with rich people,which he does often,while all the time he thought I was broke
@@sangeethavarmaa3628 First, let me say I am sorry for your loss. Second, we all know selfish people unfortunately. Lastly, I hope you have a wonderful life from here on.
Bro it’s so true I have a Gucci hat my nan gave me and everytime my brother *older* goes out he takes it with him not even asking me and flexing it to his friends like he owns it 💀
@@sangeethavarmaa3628I’m so sorry for your loss. I hope you don’t have to with that person as much anymore and you get better coworkers. Have a lovely day 😃
Not him bragging to his friends that he has a Ferrari before even OWNING his own Ferrari 💀🤚 Besides it doesn’t matter whether OP is “overreacting” (she isn’t btw) or not, bottom line is, it’s her car so if she says he can’t drive it- then he can’t. And if he tries to drive it after she says no then she can report him for stealing her car🤷🏾♀️
Sounds like he’s using u for ur wealth. Only 4mo in and already asking to use a car belonging to a man who passed 2mo into ur brand new relationship…. It’s beyond intitled. It signifies that this is ur goal here- to use her resources. A bum
Bruh she's still grieving and it's fresh and you want to borrow something of her dead dad's??? And then had the audacity to argue and yell at her????🤯🤯🤯🤮
Block him and his family and just get on with your life, they have no right to tell you how you should feel, you’re grieving and they are bullying you, it’s despicable behaviour from them!
It wasn't 4 months, it was 6. I found the post from Reddit and I already copied and pasted it to the video. And below. AITA for telling my boyfriend he can’t use my car to pick up his friends I’m a bit pissed and need to know if I’m overreacting here or if I’m justified. I’m a 31F and last week, my boyfriend 30M asked if he could use my car to go and pick up his friends from the airport. I asked him why he couldn’t use his car and he said that his is booked in for maintenance that day and mine was bigger anyway. I checked what time the flight got in, worked out the time with work and said no problem, he can take my car. This morning he gets ready and asks where the keys are. I tell him they’re on the key tray and he says, no the Ferrari keys. Background: The Ferrari is a 328 that I inherited because my Dad died less than 2 months ago. I tell him there’s no way he is driving the Ferrari and he could use the Land Rover which was what I agreed to. He says I agreed that he could drive ‘my car’ and not which car specifically. I told him there was no way he was taking my Dad’s Ferrari and even if we’d been married 10 years, I still wouldn’t let him drive it (we’ve been together 6months). He got pissed and said that his friends were expecting him to show up with a Ferrari and that they were excited about going for a drive in it. We got into a shouting match and I kicked him out of my apartment and told him he’s not taking the Land Rover either and he and his friends can work their own way of getting home. I went to work, took all of the keys with me and now I’m getting messages from him saying he can’t believe I didn’t trust him and took all the car keys and from his mum and dad telling me I need to go to therapy because I’m too attached to things and that my Dad is gone and being possessive over his belongings is not healthy. Am I the idiot for not letting my boyfriend use my car and am I being too emotional over this? Note: He went back to the apartment after I’d left for work to “talk things over”. I was so pissed about him going through my apartment, I called security and they took my spare key from him and have his picture up as a do not allow to enter. Did I go too far?
@@heather71421 The people behind this UA-cam Channel find their content from Reddit. I've found that they'll do the following: 1) Change the title of the original post. 2) Leave out some details. And 3) Even change some details. My comment of "It wasn't 4 months, it was 6.", contains the original Reddit post
He says he didn't say which car specifically, but he said that "hers [car] was bigger anyways," implying he wanted use of the biggest car to fit his friends in. Ferrari's are not known to be very spacious cars, in fact, since they are luxury/sports cars they usually only sit 2, maybe 4, but very cramped. Meanwhile, her other car, the Land Rover, is a typically bigger and more spacious car. Therefore, he implied that he was specifically asking for the Land Rover and tried to gaslight and manipulate her into giving him flashier car.
That was a big thing in my opinion. He clearly used specific language to try and force her to let him use the car. When your bf is literally scheming it’s time to do some thinking
Good thing she's finding out what kind of person he is now. Especially with his telling to find the keys after she left for work. Like anyone actually believed he can't back to 'talk' and just happened to notice she took the keys... 🙄
Nah, I've known people like this. They will ask something like this, ans not specify what vehicle they are asking for. But put in details where any rational person would assume they mean one specific one. Then they will go. "No, I wanted this one. It's not my fault you didn't realize that. I didn't say I wanted the other one."
Hes just a bf of 4 months and he acting like her stuff is his stuff. He just a bf not husband. His family is delusional af. I remember knowing a guy, not even on dating terms thought i would let him stay with me rent free. Whew the look i gave him and the speech had him stop talking to me. People really do be that entitled
Four months together, and you’re already living with him? 🤦♀️🤦♀️sharing cars? I’ve been married for 33 years and don’t like it when my husband drives my car!!
I was with my ex for like 15ish years (not married/not even living together most of the time) and I think we only drove each other's cars like once or twice. And I never drove his dad's jaguar when he inherited it, I wouldn't have wanted that responsibility. He mightve let me had I asked, but part of why we worked is because I wouldn't ask for stuff like that
It was 6 months, not 4. The OP stated it on their Reddit Post, which I'm also sharing. AITA for telling my boyfriend he can’t use my car to pick up his friends I’m a bit pissed and need to know if I’m overreacting here or if I’m justified. I’m a 31F and last week, my boyfriend 30M asked if he could use my car to go and pick up his friends from the airport. I asked him why he couldn’t use his car and he said that his is booked in for maintenance that day and mine was bigger anyway. I checked what time the flight got in, worked out the time with work and said no problem, he can take my car. This morning he gets ready and asks where the keys are. I tell him they’re on the key tray and he says, no the Ferrari keys. Background: The Ferrari is a 328 that I inherited because my Dad died less than 2 months ago. I tell him there’s no way he is driving the Ferrari and he could use the Land Rover which was what I agreed to. He says I agreed that he could drive ‘my car’ and not which car specifically. I told him there was no way he was taking my Dad’s Ferrari and even if we’d been married 10 years, I still wouldn’t let him drive it (we’ve been together 6months). He got pissed and said that his friends were expecting him to show up with a Ferrari and that they were excited about going for a drive in it. We got into a shouting match and I kicked him out of my apartment and told him he’s not taking the Land Rover either and he and his friends can work their own way of getting home. I went to work, took all of the keys with me and now I’m getting messages from him saying he can’t believe I didn’t trust him and took all the car keys and from his mum and dad telling me I need to go to therapy because I’m too attached to things and that my Dad is gone and being possessive over his belongings is not healthy. Am I the idiot for not letting my boyfriend use my car and am I being too emotional over this? Note: He went back to the apartment after I’d left for work to “talk things over”. I was so pissed about him going through my apartment, I called security and they took my spare key from him and have his picture up as a do not allow to enter. Did I go too far?
NTA. Both he and his parents are doing everything they can to guilt trip you. Tell them all to kick rocks. You were right to dump him. He doesn't show or have any respect for you in the least little bit. He only wants the car. They are showing a great disrespect for your boundaries. Block all their numbers. In future, do not give your apartment key to anyone you have known for less than a year. You are moving too fast, GF. Fir the next boyfriend, please let him know on day 1, hell will freeze over before he will ever get behind the wheel of any car that you own.
His ass would’ve been walking to the airport with all his belongings, tell them to send you an Uber 😂😂 How dare you feel entitled to MY DECEASED FATHERS CAR
My mommom has been gone for over 10 years now. I have her lazyboy. It sits in the corner of my room with a sheet over it. NO ON... AND I MEAN NO ONE is allowed to sit in that chair under NO circumstances... PERIODT!!!
If my in-laws ever try to butt in, I don't know how I would react. Geez, he still has mommy and daddy fight his battles for him. He isn't old enough to be in a relationship.
I think it was hilarious that he complained that OP *took all the keys with her* thus revealing he had gone into her place to search it for the keys. OP was a trusting soul to even give him a key to her place at four months into their relationship. I hope she changed the locks even with a doorman in her building. Ex-bf is such a sleazy golddigger.
You did everything right there is no way in how he should drive that car especially with the value that holds in your heart to kick rocks the right thing smart girl
Honey, I don’t really let my husband drive my 2015 Nissan Altima, we’ve been married almost 6 years and have a 4 yr old son. He only drives it by himself when I CANT drive it myself. 🤷🏻♀️ I trust this man with my life, just not with my car.
Been married to my wife for 33 years, I have a triumph car my father and I restored many years ago. Even after 30+ years together my wife would NEVER assume she could take the car. in fact she has never even driven it. Just something she would never do.
The OP for the situation posted this to Reddit on the AITAH Subreddit. The OP also deleted the account that they used to post the situation. Also, I'm being "The Paragraph Person". AITA for telling my boyfriend he can’t use my car to pick up his friends I’m a bit pissed and need to know if I’m overreacting here or if I’m justified. I’m a 31F and last week, my boyfriend 30M asked if he could use my car to go and pick up his friends from the airport. I asked him why he couldn’t use his car and he said that his is booked in for maintenance that day and mine was bigger anyway. I checked what time the flight got in, worked out the time with work and said no problem, he can take my car. This morning he gets ready and asks where the keys are. I tell him they’re on the key tray and he says, no the Ferrari keys. Background: The Ferrari is a 328 that I inherited because my Dad died less than 2 months ago. I tell him there’s no way he is driving the Ferrari and he could use the Land Rover which was what I agreed to. He says I agreed that he could drive ‘my car’ and not which car specifically. I told him there was no way he was taking my Dad’s Ferrari and even if we’d been married 10 years, I still wouldn’t let him drive it (we’ve been together 6months). He got pissed and said that his friends were expecting him to show up with a Ferrari and that they were excited about going for a drive in it. We got into a shouting match and I kicked him out of my apartment and told him he’s not taking the Land Rover either and he and his friends can work their own way of getting home. I went to work, took all of the keys with me and now I’m getting messages from him saying he can’t believe I didn’t trust him and took all the car keys and from his mum and dad telling me I need to go to therapy because I’m too attached to things and that my Dad is gone and being possessive over his belongings is not healthy. Am I the idiot for not letting my boyfriend use my car and am I being too emotional over this? Note: He went back to the apartment after I’d left for work to “talk things over”. I was so pissed about him going through my apartment, I called security and they took my spare key from him and have his picture up as a do not allow to enter. Did I go too far?
Men are not nice like women when it comes to respecting valuable items. Let an ex drive my car and suddenly it became his. Literally bullying me by not giving my car keys back when I wanted them back but I am a coward woman and it took a long time to leave that relationship.
I got my husband a bike last month cost about an arm and a leg im still paying mortagage i told him. the only way people outside family even cousins riding that thing is after im dead!
How the hell is “friends” meaning plural going to fit in a Ferrari 328 when it’s a 2 seater & he’s picking up at least 2 people? Lol is he gonna make multiple trips to the airport and back to his apt? 😂
Screw that dude you just taking you for a ride for the cool shit you have I wouldn't let anyone lay a finger on a Ferrari something I inherit from a family member is it out there Dane mind they're going to touch that car He's just a golden punk
4 months is a really short time to be asking such big favors.
And living together?? Already?? Too much and too little!
Agreed... 4 months and already living together. Uuuuh... he had plans.
a year at most for something like a normal car for me
@@ruthenns7333 They don't live together. He was just over her apartment
Yes for 4 months. But 10 years after marriage still no? The girl has some issues.
He's a red flag waving a red flag.
No he is painted in all red
He's the red hulk
@@black_scorpion9781 nah he is more like blonsky from the hulk movie
He's a black flag
If he takes EITHER one, im calling the police and reporting it STOLEN! The Ferrari only holds the driver and 1(one) passenger. How many trips to and from the airport is he planning on???
Obviously the "airport friends" are just a cover story.
Hobosexual men like this will live in your apartment, eat your food, sleep with you (a.k.a. getting the full wifey treatment while giving nothing in return), they will spend your money, level up by learning from you... And in the end will take all the knowledge, take your car and drive their side chick somewhere they can bang in that same car.
There are countless stories of women going through this.
Why I think this applies to him? Well, why is he living in her apartment after only 4 months? Why does the fact she breaks up with him mean he's left homeless and without a car? Suspicious, no?
He probably made his way into her apartment one day while she was in the process of grieving her father and just didn't leave, using her vulnerable state to start leeching from her.
There's usually resentment in relationships like this because the man feels he deserves to be successful more than the hard working, smart and educated woman who is keeping him from being homeless or living in his car due to the man's ego and/or narcissism. In reality this type of man is lazy, unmotivated, unproductive, immature, financially irresponsible and has no desire to learn or improve because that would mean admitting he isn't smart and perfect.
Men like this also like to monkey jump from branch to branch or more like from woman to woman... They will have somebody that doesn't challenge their ego lined up using his GF's resources to court the new girl so she's ready to support him when the moment comes. The new target will think "Well, he's proven he was successful once, that means he can become successful again..." when it was all a facade. Hence the cycle continues.
I know this was a deep analysis but I have seen so many woman being scammed this way both online and IRL so at this point it's a PSA what ladies should be on the lookout for. (Also, I have seen countless men on Tiktok share that they are using this strategy.)
Ladies, trust your instincts and don't ignore any red flags! It's better to be single than to be financially manipulated by some dusty loser.
And my personal advice? No wifey privileges until he is behaving like a husband and a father would! That's only fair.
Obviously the "airport friends" are just a cover story.
Hobosexual men like this will live in your apartment, eat your food, sleep with you (a.k.a. getting the full wifey treatment while giving nothing in return), they will spend your money, level up by learning from you... And in the end will take all the knowledge, take your car and drive their side chick somewhere they can bang in that same car.
There are countless stories of women going through this.
Why I think this applies to him? Well, why is he living in her apartment after only 4 months? Why does the fact she breaks up with him mean he's left homeless and without a car? Suspicious, no?
He probably made his way into her apartment one day while she was in the process of grieving her father and just didn't leave, using her vulnerable state to start leeching from her.
There's usually resentment in relationships like this because the man feels he deserves to be successful more than the hard working, smart and educated woman who is keeping him from being homeless or living in his car due to the man's ego and/or narcissism. In reality this type of man is lazy, unmotivated, unproductive, immature, financially irresponsible and has no desire to learn or improve because that would mean admitting he isn't smart and perfect.
Men like this also like to monkey jump from branch to branch or more like from woman to woman... They will have somebody that doesn't challenge their ego lined up using his GF's resources to court the new girl so she's ready to support him when the moment comes. The new target will think "Well, he's proven he was successful once, that means he can become successful again..." when it was all a facade. Hence the cycle continues.
I know this was a deep analysis but I have seen so many woman being scammed this way both online and IRL so at this point it's a PSA what ladies should be on the lookout for. (Also, I have seen countless men on Tiktok share that they are using this strategy.)
Ladies, trust your instincts and don't ignore any red flags! It's better to be single than to be financially manipulated by some dusty loser.
And my personal advice? No wifey privileges until he is behaving like a husband and a father would! That's only fair.
exactly plus they gonna have bags.
His "friends" is one person female that he wants to impress.
Don't you think ONE .... person is suspicious? He could've lied to her to make impression on another beach aka cheating
Unless he has $100k cash to rent it out, then no. You did the right level of reaction.
TBF a 328 isn't crazy expensive. Like 150K~ range. A lot, but not 100K rent lot
@@RainizLove like hell it isn't worth the 100k rent. He purposely didn't mention which car he wanted to take. She would need enough money to fix the car because no doubt he would've let his friends drive or speed to try to impress them.
@@rdcdragonar4726 a rent price isn’t 2/3 the car price. That’s just silly
@@RainizLove it is when the person isn't trustworthy
@@rdcdragonar4726 then you don’t rent to them. 2/3 is a silly price, even for a deposit
Full story:
I’m a bit pissed and need to know if I’m overreacting here or if I’m justified. I’m a 31F and last week, my boyfriend 30M asked if he could use my car to go and pick up his friends from the airport. I asked him why he couldn’t use his car and he said that his is booked in for maintenance that day and mine was bigger anyway. I checked what time the flight got in, worked out the time with work and said no problem, he can take my car. This morning he gets ready and asks where the keys are. I tell him they’re on the key tray and he says, no the Ferrari keys. Background: The Ferrari is a 328 that I inherited because my Dad died less than 2 months ago. I tell him there’s no way he is driving the Ferrari and he could use the Land Rover which was what I agreed to. He says I agreed that he could drive ‘my car’ and not which car specifically. I told him there was no way he was taking my Dad’s Ferrari and even if we’d been married 10 years, I still wouldn’t let him drive it (we’ve been together 6months). He got pissed and said that his friends were expecting him to show up with a Ferrari and that they were excited about going for a drive in it. We got into a shouting match and I kicked him out of my apartment and told him he’s not taking the Land Rover either and he and his friends can work their own way of getting home. I went to work, took all of the keys with me and now I’m getting messages from him saying he can’t believe I didn’t trust him and took all the car keys and from his mum and dad telling me I need to go to therapy because I’m too attached to things and that my Dad is gone and being possessive over his belongings is not healthy. Am I the idiot for not letting my boyfriend use my car and am I being too emotional over this? Note: He went back to the apartment after I’d left for work to “talk things over”. I was so pissed about him going through my apartment, I called security and they took my spare key from him and have his picture up as a do not allow to enter. Did I go too far?
Thanks for posting
@darciemcdonald8609. A Ferrari only holds two people. So he is lying to you. He is not trying to pick up two or more friends with luggage. He most likely wants to impress another female with your car. Dump him. Tell the next guy you meet he can't drive your Ferrari. Tell him it was a gift from your father. Don't make a big deal out of it. If someone respect you. They won't ever have their mother pressure you into doing what they want. Huge red flag. Stay away from red flag. Good luck to you. You did the right thing.
Not to far. Him and his disrespectful, entitled, selfish family can fund their own Ferrari to flex to their friends. OP is grieving and protective of irreplaceable memories/ valuable items that were treasured by the deceased. They all just told OP that her feelings don't matter, only her belongings. They all showed her who they are. And she decided that she didn't want that nonsense in her life. All stances were made very clear. She doesn't need to feel bad that she ended up in the better position because everything the ex tried to claim all belonged to her. He made his lack of bed. He can cry to mommy and daddy again. Maybe they or his friends will house him until he finds new accommodation.
He told her one of the reasons why he needs to use her car is it's bigger anyway. So he implied that he wants the range rover. He wasn't asking for the Ferrari
@jacquelinemoyer5808 I'm sure he initially meant the Land Rover for logical reasons, but then mentioned the Ferrari to his friends, and they thought it was super cool that he had access to such a nice car. They probably asked if they could get a ride in it and his entitled @ss didn't consider her feelings at all. Rather, he had a knee jerk defensive reaction against her refusal and on top of that...... whined to mommy and daddy to make her let him have whatever he wants. That man and his parents are a dump truck of red flags. Good riddance.
Good for you for sticking up for yourself
Your dad’s been dead, two months and his mothers telling you you’re too obsessed with his vehicle because you’re not letting a boyfriend of 4 Months drive it?
Girl run run from all of them. His parents are ridiculous and so is he.
He doesn’t see you , he only has eyes for the cars. After 4 months and the disrespect , you’re better off without him .
Not only was an idiot for asking to drive the Ferrari. But he is a big baby for snitching to his mommy and daddy. Let him go and get a real man.
He even mentioned it being bigger then his... So clearly the Rover qualifies with that statement
Yeah he drives a smart car or a tricycle since he's a clown
Nta
Apparently he also went over with his spare key to, "talk things over" at the time he knew his ex was at work. Then proceeded to search her apartment for the keys until he realized none were there. Then outed his ulterior motive by message his ex with, "I can't believe you took all the keys with you bc you didn't trust me." 😐 Yes. And you single handedly proved she was right not to.
Only dating for 4 months & her father recently pased away just 2 months prior... yet he's already trying to use her recently inherited property for his own personal gains. I can't even begin to fathom being that selfish.
& Doing all that just bc you want to flex on some friends. Smh. Why would you even promise them a ride or tell them they'll be able to drive it... knowing you didn't have the authority to offer without approved permission? Immature, disrespectful, & narcissistic.
This lady really dodged a bullet.
A ferrari is not bigger that model only has 2 seats
exactly the problem w reddit stories, some are true and the others are either fake or clickbait
@@getskibidihackedwhat about the ones that go “cops of Reddit what are the worst things you have seen ……….. (reply) ………. Yeah former McDonald’s workers here ………….
Yeah he manipulated her by saying that so she thought he meant the Range rover but in reality he wanted the ferrari that's why the deception of not naming the car
So maybe his "friends" are not really friends and he is going to see his other gf....based on the info about the car.
He was probably going to pick up another woman😂
Glad he showed his true colors so soon into the relationship, as you've not lost much time on him. There are much MUCH better men out there, OP!
It's funny how people who don't have want to flex with your things. I bet if he God forbid wrecked he couldn't pay for the repairs.
Well I had a terrible colleague who is used to show off with things he had bought,even though he couldn't afford them,all in loan. We had a fallout,he said something was going on between me and another colleague in a very demeaning and horrible way. After one year,I lost my mother and bought a house all in same month,I bought it specifically so that I can live next to my office with her. Anyways even before offering condolences,he asked me to throw a house warming party. I pointed out to him politely how people in our area,even his too,don't throw a party for at least one year when you close ones expire. He was least bothered. I am pretty sure he wanted to show off it to his in-laws or rich friends to tell how he is friends with rich people,which he does often,while all the time he thought I was broke
@@sangeethavarmaa3628 First, let me say I am sorry for your loss. Second, we all know selfish people unfortunately. Lastly, I hope you have a wonderful life from here on.
Bro it’s so true I have a Gucci hat my nan gave me and everytime my brother *older* goes out he takes it with him not even asking me and flexing it to his friends like he owns it 💀
@@sangeethavarmaa3628I’m so sorry for your loss. I hope you don’t have to with that person as much anymore and you get better coworkers. Have a lovely day 😃
That is exactly where I was afraid this was going. Thank goodness she is smarter than he is
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Together only 4 months dude you aren’t even borrowing the honda yet😂
Hell no!!! Him and his parents need to go get a clue!
Not him bragging to his friends that he has a Ferrari before even OWNING his own Ferrari 💀🤚 Besides it doesn’t matter whether OP is “overreacting” (she isn’t btw) or not, bottom line is, it’s her car so if she says he can’t drive it- then he can’t. And if he tries to drive it after she says no then she can report him for stealing her car🤷🏾♀️
Sounds like he’s using u for ur wealth. Only 4mo in and already asking to use a car belonging to a man who passed 2mo into ur brand new relationship…. It’s beyond intitled. It signifies that this is ur goal here- to use her resources. A bum
🌟✨Yeah, he's a big huge waving red flag! Good on you for saying no, and continuing to say no!✨🌟
Glad op broke it off and stood up for themselves.
gold digger bf😢😢😢💔💔💔💔g9d for you fir kicking him out and breakng up❤❤❤❤you deserve better
Bruh she's still grieving and it's fresh and you want to borrow something of her dead dad's??? And then had the audacity to argue and yell at her????🤯🤯🤯🤮
Block him and his family and just get on with your life, they have no right to tell you how you should feel, you’re grieving and they are bullying you, it’s despicable behaviour from them!
Is this the same boyfriend who wants you to split the 400.00 your father changed him for rent? If so now can you see how he’s using you?
😂😂😂😂😂 my thoughts exactly
Only four months?! Ha, no! He can go kick rocks in sandles!
It wasn't 4 months, it was 6. I found the post from Reddit and I already copied and pasted it to the video. And below.
AITA for telling my boyfriend he can’t use my car to pick up his friends
I’m a bit pissed and need to know if I’m overreacting here or if I’m justified. I’m a 31F and last week, my boyfriend 30M asked if he could use my car to go and pick up his friends from the airport. I asked him why he couldn’t use his car and he said that his is booked in for maintenance that day and mine was bigger anyway. I checked what time the flight got in, worked out the time with work and said no problem, he can take my car. This morning he gets ready and asks where the keys are. I tell him they’re on the key tray and he says, no the Ferrari keys. Background: The Ferrari is a 328 that I inherited because my Dad died less than 2 months ago.
I tell him there’s no way he is driving the Ferrari and he could use the Land Rover which was what I agreed to. He says I agreed that he could drive ‘my car’ and not which car specifically. I told him there was no way he was taking my Dad’s Ferrari and even if we’d been married 10 years, I still wouldn’t let him drive it (we’ve been together 6months). He got pissed and said that his friends were expecting him to show up with a Ferrari and that they were excited about going for a drive in it. We got into a shouting match and I kicked him out of my apartment and told him he’s not taking the Land Rover either and he and his friends can work their own way of getting home. I went to work, took all of the keys with me and now I’m getting messages from him saying he can’t believe I didn’t trust him and took all the car keys and from his mum and dad telling me I need to go to therapy because I’m too attached to things and that my Dad is gone and being possessive over his belongings is not healthy. Am I the idiot for not letting my boyfriend use my car and am I being too emotional over this?
Note: He went back to the apartment after I’d left for work to “talk things over”. I was so pissed about him going through my apartment, I called security and they took my spare key from him and have his picture up as a do not allow to enter. Did I go too far?
@@Raffi.Sabghir8 the voice in the video said 4. If the commenter hasn't had a chance to see the original, then that's all they know
@@heather71421 The people behind this UA-cam Channel find their content from Reddit. I've found that they'll do the following: 1) Change the title of the original post. 2) Leave out some details. And 3) Even change some details.
My comment of "It wasn't 4 months, it was 6.", contains the original Reddit post
NTA. Sounds like you dumped some dead weight there. Congrats! 🎉
He says he didn't say which car specifically, but he said that "hers [car] was bigger anyways," implying he wanted use of the biggest car to fit his friends in. Ferrari's are not known to be very spacious cars, in fact, since they are luxury/sports cars they usually only sit 2, maybe 4, but very cramped. Meanwhile, her other car, the Land Rover, is a typically bigger and more spacious car. Therefore, he implied that he was specifically asking for the Land Rover and tried to gaslight and manipulate her into giving him flashier car.
That was a big thing in my opinion. He clearly used specific language to try and force her to let him use the car. When your bf is literally scheming it’s time to do some thinking
That is a fucking Ferrari, not a damn minivan. Wtf did he expect? Sounds like bf is entitled asf
The second he touched that car he's going to jail, he is getting kicked out and his family is going to be getting a lawsuit
A Land Rover is still one fuck of a car tho. I’d be stoked to drive one.
perfectly fair response.
Good, it sounds like he wants to show off the car to let his friends think that he has you wrapped around his finger
I'm sorry the fact he was mad he had to drive a range Rover doesn't sit right with me that is still a very nice and expensive car
So he said he wanted your car because it was bigger, then turned around and wanted the Ferrari? Which if I’m not mistaken is a two seater? Yea no.
Happy that po was stuborn imagine the damages that could have happend to a car full of memories that r important to op
Good thing she's finding out what kind of person he is now. Especially with his telling to find the keys after she left for work. Like anyone actually believed he can't back to 'talk' and just happened to notice she took the keys... 🙄
He would have KNOWN she was still at work did he really think that excuse would work
The story sounds like BS. A Ferrari can fit two people tops.
Or the boyfriend is lying about the purpose for using it
Nah, I've known people like this. They will ask something like this, ans not specify what vehicle they are asking for. But put in details where any rational person would assume they mean one specific one. Then they will go. "No, I wanted this one. It's not my fault you didn't realize that. I didn't say I wanted the other one."
Boyfriend wanted to show off. Definitely was going to end up in an accident trying to impress his friends with OP's car.
He wants to fit multiple people in a two seater? Yeah he's lying and just wants to steal the car.
All these reddit relationships are cringe and I'll never be tired of calling em out in the comments.
How is he picking up FRIENDSSSSS in a 2 seater?
Hes just a bf of 4 months and he acting like her stuff is his stuff. He just a bf not husband. His family is delusional af. I remember knowing a guy, not even on dating terms thought i would let him stay with me rent free. Whew the look i gave him and the speech had him stop talking to me. People really do be that entitled
Lol he wanted to show off something that doesn’t belong to him nor something he worked hard for
TWO MONTHS AFTER HE PASSED???!!!
He was going to steal and sell it, I’m positive. Ferraris can’t hold that many people.
That Ferrari is a 2 seater, are his friends gonna sit on each other’s laps?
bros straddle each other, it ain't gay as long as the kissing is down to a minimum
Four months together, and you’re already living with him? 🤦♀️🤦♀️sharing cars? I’ve been married for 33 years and don’t like it when my husband drives my car!!
I was with my ex for like 15ish years (not married/not even living together most of the time) and I think we only drove each other's cars like once or twice. And I never drove his dad's jaguar when he inherited it, I wouldn't have wanted that responsibility. He mightve let me had I asked, but part of why we worked is because I wouldn't ask for stuff like that
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You deserve a pat on the back.
His parents were involved too!!!
He's a red flag times infinity
Lmao he gonna have to take his Lamborfeeties now
The duck at the bottom is so funny
4 months?! He's still a stranger. Nah
It was 6 months, not 4. The OP stated it on their Reddit Post, which I'm also sharing.
AITA for telling my boyfriend he can’t use my car to pick up his friends
I’m a bit pissed and need to know if I’m overreacting here or if I’m justified. I’m a 31F and last week, my boyfriend 30M asked if he could use my car to go and pick up his friends from the airport. I asked him why he couldn’t use his car and he said that his is booked in for maintenance that day and mine was bigger anyway. I checked what time the flight got in, worked out the time with work and said no problem, he can take my car. This morning he gets ready and asks where the keys are. I tell him they’re on the key tray and he says, no the Ferrari keys. Background: The Ferrari is a 328 that I inherited because my Dad died less than 2 months ago.
I tell him there’s no way he is driving the Ferrari and he could use the Land Rover which was what I agreed to. He says I agreed that he could drive ‘my car’ and not which car specifically. I told him there was no way he was taking my Dad’s Ferrari and even if we’d been married 10 years, I still wouldn’t let him drive it (we’ve been together 6months). He got pissed and said that his friends were expecting him to show up with a Ferrari and that they were excited about going for a drive in it. We got into a shouting match and I kicked him out of my apartment and told him he’s not taking the Land Rover either and he and his friends can work their own way of getting home. I went to work, took all of the keys with me and now I’m getting messages from him saying he can’t believe I didn’t trust him and took all the car keys and from his mum and dad telling me I need to go to therapy because I’m too attached to things and that my Dad is gone and being possessive over his belongings is not healthy. Am I the idiot for not letting my boyfriend use my car and am I being too emotional over this?
Note: He went back to the apartment after I’d left for work to “talk things over”. I was so pissed about him going through my apartment, I called security and they took my spare key from him and have his picture up as a do not allow to enter. Did I go too far?
The dad must be looking down proud asl that his daughter picked his car over her boyfriend
Is that Ferrari bigger than his car? If not, he straight up DID specify which car.
Sounds like you have solid boundaries and dumped a punk 😊 good on you
Best way to get single. 😂 the audacity.
NTA. Both he and his parents are doing everything they can to guilt trip you. Tell them all to kick rocks. You were right to dump him. He doesn't show or have any respect for you in the least little bit. He only wants the car. They are showing a great disrespect for your boundaries. Block all their numbers. In future, do not give your apartment key to anyone you have known for less than a year. You are moving too fast, GF. Fir the next boyfriend, please let him know on day 1, hell will freeze over before he will ever get behind the wheel of any car that you own.
Pushed his luck. He's after your money
His ass would’ve been walking to the airport with all his belongings, tell them to send you an Uber 😂😂 How dare you feel entitled to MY DECEASED FATHERS CAR
The duck at the bottom😮😮😮
And he waddled away waddle waddle🦆
My mommom has been gone for over 10 years now. I have her lazyboy. It sits in the corner of my room with a sheet over it. NO ON... AND I MEAN NO ONE is allowed to sit in that chair under NO circumstances... PERIODT!!!
I thought he needed a bigger car
😮Good for you, SOME people DON'T Understand the WORD NO!!
Boyfriend said picking up friends. A Ferrari is a two-seater.
4 months is crazy
So glad she stood it up for herself. What the actual duck was going through this man’s mind?
😂 Picking up in an airport!?
Someone flying in with just a handbag now?
The parents saying she’s too possessive when she LOST HER DAD 2 MONTHS PRIOR ??? Get tf away from that familly fast girl
I'm with you on this! Hold your ground!!
If my in-laws ever try to butt in, I don't know how I would react. Geez, he still has mommy and daddy fight his battles for him. He isn't old enough to be in a relationship.
I think it was hilarious that he complained that OP *took all the keys with her* thus revealing he had gone into her place to search it for the keys. OP was a trusting soul to even give him a key to her place at four months into their relationship. I hope she changed the locks even with a doorman in her building. Ex-bf is such a sleazy golddigger.
Such
An entitlement he Felt he had.. Why do men do this?He really messed himself up
Nah not even after 10 years is wild
NTA, I won't even let my wife of 18 years drive my yacht..
Me with one brain cell watching the duck in the bottom left corner:
Stand.
Your ground he's not worth it.
You did everything right there is no way in how he should drive that car especially with the value that holds in your heart to kick rocks the right thing smart girl
Let 'em all walk! Hahahaha
Honey, I don’t really let my husband drive my 2015 Nissan Altima, we’ve been married almost 6 years and have a 4 yr old son. He only drives it by himself when I CANT drive it myself. 🤷🏻♀️ I trust this man with my life, just not with my car.
Ugh, he's trying to pull a Ferris Bueller on you. Be stronger on this than Cameron was
4 months isn't even enough time to lend him your car Let alone your deceased dad's car.
In truth, (If OP had allowed him to take it) they would probably have damaged just for a power trip, thinking OP wouldn't *dare* sue them.
Been married to my wife for 33 years, I have a triumph car my father and I restored many years ago. Even after 30+ years together my wife would NEVER assume she could take the car. in fact she has never even driven it. Just something she would never do.
Real life definition of "ingratitude" & "entitlement".
Good for you 😊 your better off with out him.
Some people feel entitled when they aren't.
Is he going to tell his friends that its his GIRLFRIEND'S car?
Of course not.
Absolutely not worth your time. Guys like him need warning labels 😂
Boy so entitled…
Borrow my Ferrari...nah bro
The OP for the situation posted this to Reddit on the AITAH Subreddit. The OP also deleted the account that they used to post the situation. Also, I'm being "The Paragraph Person".
AITA for telling my boyfriend he can’t use my car to pick up his friends
I’m a bit pissed and need to know if I’m overreacting here or if I’m justified. I’m a 31F and last week, my boyfriend 30M asked if he could use my car to go and pick up his friends from the airport. I asked him why he couldn’t use his car and he said that his is booked in for maintenance that day and mine was bigger anyway. I checked what time the flight got in, worked out the time with work and said no problem, he can take my car. This morning he gets ready and asks where the keys are. I tell him they’re on the key tray and he says, no the Ferrari keys. Background: The Ferrari is a 328 that I inherited because my Dad died less than 2 months ago.
I tell him there’s no way he is driving the Ferrari and he could use the Land Rover which was what I agreed to. He says I agreed that he could drive ‘my car’ and not which car specifically. I told him there was no way he was taking my Dad’s Ferrari and even if we’d been married 10 years, I still wouldn’t let him drive it (we’ve been together 6months). He got pissed and said that his friends were expecting him to show up with a Ferrari and that they were excited about going for a drive in it. We got into a shouting match and I kicked him out of my apartment and told him he’s not taking the Land Rover either and he and his friends can work their own way of getting home. I went to work, took all of the keys with me and now I’m getting messages from him saying he can’t believe I didn’t trust him and took all the car keys and from his mum and dad telling me I need to go to therapy because I’m too attached to things and that my Dad is gone and being possessive over his belongings is not healthy. Am I the idiot for not letting my boyfriend use my car and am I being too emotional over this?
Note: He went back to the apartment after I’d left for work to “talk things over”. I was so pissed about him going through my apartment, I called security and they took my spare key from him and have his picture up as a do not allow to enter. Did I go too far?
I took my life back after realizing you didn't f****** finish the story.
Shorts are 1 minute max
Y'all really be out here LIVING with someone you just met.
Taking a range rover is cool too, they're luxurious af
I wouldn't let anyone drive my grandma's 1982 Volkswagen Beetle, let it alone a f-ing Ferrari 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Men are not nice like women when it comes to respecting valuable items. Let an ex drive my car and suddenly it became his. Literally bullying me by not giving my car keys back when I wanted them back but I am a coward woman and it took a long time to leave that relationship.
I got my husband a bike last month cost about an arm and a leg im still paying mortagage i told him. the only way people outside family even cousins riding that thing is after im dead!
How the hell is “friends” meaning plural going to fit in a Ferrari 328 when it’s a 2 seater & he’s picking up at least 2 people? Lol is he gonna make multiple trips to the airport and back to his apt? 😂
Screw that dude you just taking you for a ride for the cool shit you have I wouldn't let anyone lay a finger on a Ferrari something I inherit from a family member is it out there Dane mind they're going to touch that car He's just a golden punk