I am non-binary and I took computer science as my first course, but found out that coding was just too hard and not for me. Especially binary coding lol....OK I'll just leave now...
@@Skeetmaster69420 I am non-binary have been for the past 14 years and im happier than ever! Your opinions don't matter and history will forget you. I do not give two shits about what you have to say beacuse I am happier than ever and some dumbasses wont change anything 😀
I’m not non-binary but Istg I have MAD respect for the guy who made ‘my shadow is purple’ bc ik that’s so helpful to some kids out there questioning their gender ❤
Me and my brother have a joke that we play, and might make people gender you correctly. When they say your dead name don’t respond, and when they finally realise they aren’t getting anywhere and say, “hey (dead name) why aren’t you talking to me?” You say, “I’m not talking to you unless you call me by my actual name” I hope this helps someone.
1:47 man I would’ve love to read that book when I was young. It represents me when I was younger and represents me in a way now. Would’ve made me feel seen and okay with my gender expression when my mom tried to force gender roles onto me.
I think forcing gender roles on kids when they don't necessarily want them is a bad thing. But I think it's a good idea to know that what they like, despite associating with a different gender, doesn't mean that they are a different gender.
I was listening to this one 3:47 in my headphones when my mom saw. She asked "is it a boy or a girl?" I said "I don't know" (because I'm closed nb and not ready to discuss it) So she was so confused: "What do u mean u don't know?" I answered "well video is in English" (there are gender marks on every verb and adjective in our language) She watched a little and walked away, still being confused 😅
Whenever I feel a bit dysphoric about my gender, I always think ‘ any guy who has a crush on me is gay for liking me lmao ‘ and It makes me feel a little better
I have thought about this so much. But I'm still scared if I actually told any guy that I'm non binary, I'd be hurt for making them feel anything but straight
I’m cis but I really hate the whole non binary = androgyny. Yes, there’s obviously non-binary individuals who prefer to dress in gender neutral clothing, but just as this complication shows, there’s plenty of non-binary individuals who prefer to look/dress masculine and/or feminine. And that’s completely fine! They are just as valid as androgynous non-binary individuals!
Yesterday a pride event happend close to were i live and i coudn’t go it was litteraly a few streets away and i could hear all of it my family is not accepting and i have to stay in the closet i hope everyone is having a happy pride month
I think most people who are ignorant to what being non-binary is honestly needs that kids rhyme at 1:00. That would help a lot of "adults" who wishing the past was back. "it was so much easier back then" no it wasn't we live in the most convenient era of human history, you have your bank card on your phone, Spotify/apple music are endless, "smart houses", and you can now live and never leave your front door. it's the easiest time to live, statistically, so if anyone says "I can't be arsed" then maybe we really do live in a society.
This is random, but a funny thing I've always experienced was wanting to be tall, like, really tall (at least 1m80) and just thinking about the fact that I won't even get to 1m70 frustrates me. I now have insight on my gender, and it's definitely because I am agender that I feel that way
Just identify as being tall, apparently that makes it fact. Also what you're saying is nonsense, there's no such thing as feeling like a certain gender or feeling like you don't have a gender. You have your own unique personality and feelings that don't relate to gender or sex.
0:38 this is so accurate- In my school they are always like "the seating order is boy girl boy girl" and i just stand there like "where tf am i supposed to go? On the ceiling?! "
i want to be both the mom/dad freind and is always part of the shenanigans but also scolding them for partaking in shenanigans. i want to be so androgynous you cannot tell what i am, or like you think you know, but then there’s this one thing that seems off….
1 it's just a silly little joke get over it, 2 bisexual and all else who fall under the umbrella exist and they're technically gay and straight at the same time, 3 I'm non-binary and that can play into relationships because if I like a girl it's in a gay way but if I like a dude it's still in a gay way
I don’t specifically know what non-binary means but my pronouns are they/them because I don’t like being specifically categorized by what I’m “supposed to be”.
@@Io_21 I am non-binary have been for the past 14 years and im happier than ever! Your opinions don't matter and history will forget you. I do not give two shits about what you have to say beacuse I am happier than ever and some dumbasses wont change anything 😀
I am non-binary and basically all the time I will look at people and they are just. So *gender* but I can’t just tell them that, especially if the main reason they are gender to me at the moment is because they look like a country boy type and I want that masculinity so bad.
Hai!! I’m a fellow non binary and I’m polysexual 😎. But I live in a not supportive home. Also my parents don’t know that I’m part of the lgbtq. I want to tell them when I’m older.
Were the same my parents don't support this while my friends parents say it just say it's a face like no it not well be this way maybe rest of our lives I think I'm still learning
7:55 yoo I died laughing at this one bc I did IT so I can understand the 1s and 0s in binary code and then I was like does that make them non(binary^2) and had a hard laugh at that too 😅
3:13 I got emotional over this. It would be very nice to develop professionally in a people-oriented field while being NB in a binary language country, videos like this person's experience with the student who reconsidered his views give me courage to be able to impact others in a positive way too. Ignorance feeds prejudice, indeed.
sorry i know i haven’t been keeping up with your videos but i’m back! i’m so happy to come back to a non-binary video since recently i have been considering being non-binary!
isn't it amazing how the recent reality allows us to pick and choose exactly what gender we want to be? It's so fun, it's like picking candy in a candy shop. And then whatever we pick we get to tell everyone else that they have to see us in that way! I really enjoy forcing people to think of me of exactly I want despite them believing otherwise. Their beliefs don't matter, we deserve the right to force our opinion of ourselves as reality, and such everyone else must comply with those terms or they must be punished.
Best ever responses to "yeah but what's in your pants??": number 1 is ur mom Number two is AYO BRO THATS GAY- Number three is why you want to get in there or sum making them uncomfortable like that cuz its honestly nobodys business but you and ur doctor. Ty for reading lol
I'm bigender, ik this is supposed to be a positive thing but just saw a video saying that all nonbinary genders aren't valid and I took it to heart bc I'm already not taken seriously by family and society but those videos make me feel worse . Some things the video said was nobinary is for attention and that we can't experience dysphoria if we have different genders and we can't identify as neither , and that we are trying to get special treatment, and that the dysphoria symptoms should go back to the old times where the definition is u feel like the opposite sex like ftm or mtf , and that the in between shouldn't count. So now I feel guilty for not identifying as a man but having dysphoria and needing hrt or hormones, but I don't even want to transition anymore bc I don't want to be attacked for chasing my happiness, while being nonbinary, bc now I feel like I'm taking away from others , idk anymore tbh , all I know is I feel like crap now and I've been crying ever since I saw the video
(So… I’m going to shoot my shot if you’re interested comment below. College kids only please) Hiiii I’m Tarin, I’m queer, my pronouns are she/they, I’m a black person, I live in New York City and I’m a theatre major at City College. I like musicals, singing, playing video games, anime, drawing, voguing, the mcu, and making food.
4:20 another fellow Puerto Rican non binary just like me that's so cool 🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩 i can see the Puerto rican flag i feel proud to be Puerto rican and Non binary 😊😊
I’m non-binary and went to pride and I could count on my hands how many trans and non-binary people attended a pride of at least 2-3k people. I felt so alone but the straights and gays bois love pride 🙃
First things first, im a ornithology nerd and i love your user name (fun fact crows can be as smart as a 6 year old) and second its sad how little representation there is for us, though if you want to find another representation in media i do know about star whos enby, cute, and neurodivergent whos absolutley awesome, bex taylor klaus
7:30 the chamelon is adorable 2:30 they should've went over there and said "Let me fix this for you." and styled the daughters outfit and made it look amazing on the daughter and really show of the "bOy CloTHes" 4:06 OH NO they're hot!
@@kiandemonteverde4121 I am non-binary have been for the past 14 years and im happier than ever! Your opinions don't matter and history will forget you. I do not give two shits about what you have to say beacuse I am happier than ever and some dumbasses wont change anything 😀
Hi, my name’s Ash. I think I might be Non-Binary! But, I don’t know what to do to tell my parents. Stepdad reaction: laugh Mom reaction: I have no freaking idea Dad reaction and stepmom reaction: mad mad mad. So, HELP
So idk if I'm nonbinary but I don't rlly want to be a girl or a boy the way I view myself is a person I haven't rlly thought about this to much but idk just thought I'd put this here
hello there :) I am enby and I really want to find some way to bind my chest. could anyone recommend to me a good website/item I could buy? I would really appreciate :) also I would love something as safe as possible
7:39 i'm not nonbinary, but i used to identify as nonbinary. i can sew, so i used to make little clip on pockets that i'd put papers with words written on it. so when somebody said "gender is what's in your pants" i would pull out a drawing saying "your mom" and follow that up with the words "Your mom is in my pants."
They said there wasn’t enough to make a video on so they will be in the LGBTQ+ comp that comes out in a bit. (Don’t think the first reply sent so I’m trying again)
I am non-binary and I took computer science as my first course, but found out that coding was just too hard and not for me. Especially binary coding lol....OK I'll just leave now...
Oh my god.
I CANT
That made my non bianary heart happy, thx :D
Im envy and I can't understand coding
Envy? You’re the very concept of jealousy?
The my shadow is purple one made me cry, because it reminded me of how I felt when I was a little kid and I still didn’t know I was non binary. ❤🏳🌈
Literally same
That 'my shadow is purple' story is ADORABLE. I would definitely read that to my kid.
bro you're only a girl or a boy.
@@Skeetmaster69420 Nope!
Me too ❤
@@Skeetmaster69420 I am non-binary have been for the past 14 years and im happier than ever! Your opinions don't matter and history will forget you. I do not give two shits about what you have to say beacuse I am happier than ever and some dumbasses wont change anything 😀
i cried at the "my shadow is purple" childrens book,i dont know what it was, i felt so seen and loved and that something healed within me
I’m not non-binary but Istg I have MAD respect for the guy who made ‘my shadow is purple’ bc ik that’s so helpful to some kids out there questioning their gender ❤
I made a non-binary vent tiktok of anyone wants to see? Its on my channel :) or dont thats fine too…
Helo, brother
He also made one about a boy with a pink shadow :)
Purples my favourite colour
Oh please let kids be kids they figure themselves out or parents should get help doesn’t mean there are damn non binary or trans
Me and my brother have a joke that we play, and might make people gender you correctly.
When they say your dead name don’t respond, and when they finally realise they aren’t getting anywhere and say, “hey (dead name) why aren’t you talking to me?” You say, “I’m not talking to you unless you call me by my actual name”
I hope this helps someone.
1:47 man I would’ve love to read that book when I was young. It represents me when I was younger and represents me in a way now. Would’ve made me feel seen and okay with my gender expression when my mom tried to force gender roles onto me.
Me too
It would have made me feel so much better, I’m glad some kids nowadays can have books like that
I think forcing gender roles on kids when they don't necessarily want them is a bad thing. But I think it's a good idea to know that what they like, despite associating with a different gender, doesn't mean that they are a different gender.
As a transexual, pansexual my mom doing the same she's saying no you are a girl wear makeup put dresses on I hate that
No gender, only swag
I live by this now. Thank you so much.
I'm (pretty sure I'm a) cis boy but hearing so much "pick one" stuff I almost want to not just pick one out of spite to increase their annoyance.
Virgo energy lol
(I am a Vigo and do this shit with pride btw, it feels so fucking good to be petty af)
Are you a girl or a boy?
No.
But what’s in your pants?
Spite.
I was listening to this one 3:47 in my headphones when my mom saw. She asked "is it a boy or a girl?"
I said "I don't know"
(because I'm closed nb and not ready to discuss it)
So she was so confused: "What do u mean u don't know?"
I answered "well video is in English"
(there are gender marks on every verb and adjective in our language)
She watched a little and walked away, still being confused 😅
Whats your language?
Thank you for this lovely video 💜 It's always amazing to see other nonbinary folks thrive, it makes me believe I can thrive too 😁
Get help.
The book I got emotional
Whenever I feel a bit dysphoric about my gender, I always think ‘ any guy who has a crush on me is gay for liking me lmao ‘ and It makes me feel a little better
I have thought about this so much. But I'm still scared if I actually told any guy that I'm non binary, I'd be hurt for making them feel anything but straight
I’m cis but I really hate the whole non binary = androgyny. Yes, there’s obviously non-binary individuals who prefer to dress in gender neutral clothing, but just as this complication shows, there’s plenty of non-binary individuals who prefer to look/dress masculine and/or feminine. And that’s completely fine! They are just as valid as androgynous non-binary individuals!
Non binary people don't owe you androgyny. They may owe you a little jig. And in some cases, they may owe money
Yesterday a pride event happend close to were i live and i coudn’t go it was litteraly a few streets away and i could hear all of it my family is not accepting and i have to stay in the closet i hope everyone is having a happy pride month
I’m so sorry love 💖. Stay strong, and when you move out, go to as many pride events as you want.
OMG ITS MY PEOPLE
I think most people who are ignorant to what being non-binary is honestly needs that kids rhyme at 1:00. That would help a lot of "adults" who wishing the past was back. "it was so much easier back then" no it wasn't we live in the most convenient era of human history, you have your bank card on your phone, Spotify/apple music are endless, "smart houses", and you can now live and never leave your front door. it's the easiest time to live, statistically, so if anyone says "I can't be arsed" then maybe we really do live in a society.
This is random, but a funny thing I've always experienced was wanting to be tall, like, really tall (at least 1m80) and just thinking about the fact that I won't even get to 1m70 frustrates me. I now have insight on my gender, and it's definitely because I am agender that I feel that way
Just identify as being tall, apparently that makes it fact.
Also what you're saying is nonsense, there's no such thing as feeling like a certain gender or feeling like you don't have a gender. You have your own unique personality and feelings that don't relate to gender or sex.
@@mikepriestey2547 the thing is no one is gonna listen to you ❤
Thank you 4 this vid. I am non-binary myself so thank you 😊 🏳️🌈✨️
0:38 this is so accurate-
In my school they are always like "the seating order is boy girl boy girl" and i just stand there like "where tf am i supposed to go? On the ceiling?! "
i want to be both the mom/dad freind and is always part of the shenanigans but also scolding them for partaking in shenanigans. i want to be so androgynous you cannot tell what i am, or like you think you know, but then there’s this one thing that seems off….
Everyones saying that if your nonbinary than everyone who dates you is gay. No everyone who dates you is both gay and straight at the same time
1 it's just a silly little joke get over it, 2 bisexual and all else who fall under the umbrella exist and they're technically gay and straight at the same time, 3 I'm non-binary and that can play into relationships because if I like a girl it's in a gay way but if I like a dude it's still in a gay way
no not bisexual. both gay and straight at the same time. also this is also a silly little joke@@bleh3.2
I don’t specifically know what non-binary means but my pronouns are they/them because I don’t like being specifically categorized by what I’m “supposed to be”.
Non-binary basically means that you don't want to be a female or male so they use they/them for pronounce.
Just got my first transphobic comment on anything I’ve ever posted, needed this
I’m sorry that happened, the gender/pronouns you choose to use are 100% valid
@@trashotaku NO THEY ARE NOT. stop making belive that random dumb pronouns are ok. Neopronouns are NOT ok and ARE NOT valid.
@@Io_21you seriously need to get over yourself yk what i mean? You keep commenting on every comment here-
@@Io_21 I am non-binary have been for the past 14 years and im happier than ever! Your opinions don't matter and history will forget you. I do not give two shits about what you have to say beacuse I am happier than ever and some dumbasses wont change anything 😀
@@BasedGrandmasKitchen and again repeating the same comment
Get help
I love your videos they always make me smile.
That's great to hear ❤❤
Yay! I was hoping you'd do some non-binary tiktoks for all of us enbies out there. Loved the tiktoks ❤
I love how that hate commenters legit looked this up just to hate on it. 💀💀💀💀
3:12 as a person who has a non binary teacher this was very touching for me😊
7:40 oh i had a friend that always introduce me as "hey this is taylor, she's a transboy" *ye sure*
I am non-binary and basically all the time I will look at people and they are just. So *gender* but I can’t just tell them that, especially if the main reason they are gender to me at the moment is because they look like a country boy type and I want that masculinity so bad.
Get help.
@@ChristianKhan-yj6sw Get a life.
When ur a non binary bisexual
Hai!! I’m a fellow non binary and I’m polysexual 😎. But I live in a not supportive home. Also my parents don’t know that I’m part of the lgbtq. I want to tell them when I’m older.
Were the same my parents don't support this while my friends parents say it just say it's a face like no it not well be this way maybe rest of our lives I think I'm still learning
7:55 yoo I died laughing at this one bc I did IT so I can understand the 1s and 0s in binary code and then I was like does that make them non(binary^2) and had a hard laugh at that too 😅
3:13 I got emotional over this. It would be very nice to develop professionally in a people-oriented field while being NB in a binary language country, videos like this person's experience with the student who reconsidered his views give me courage to be able to impact others in a positive way too. Ignorance feeds prejudice, indeed.
sorry i know i haven’t been keeping up with your videos but i’m back! i’m so happy to come back to a non-binary video since recently i have been considering being non-binary!
isn't it amazing how the recent reality allows us to pick and choose exactly what gender we want to be? It's so fun, it's like picking candy in a candy shop. And then whatever we pick we get to tell everyone else that they have to see us in that way! I really enjoy forcing people to think of me of exactly I want despite them believing otherwise. Their beliefs don't matter, we deserve the right to force our opinion of ourselves as reality, and such everyone else must comply with those terms or they must be punished.
Me figuring out my sexuality:😊🤩
Me Questioning if I'm non binary : 😑
6:24
I didn’t know the meaning of this song until now, oh my stars! I now love this song even more! 😁
OMFG SAME
@@AlexanderHamiltonTheOG Yea 😁
Best ever responses to "yeah but what's in your pants??": number 1 is ur mom
Number two is AYO BRO THATS GAY-
Number three is why you want to get in there or sum making them uncomfortable like that cuz its honestly nobodys business but you and ur doctor. Ty for reading lol
How do Samurai kill their non-binary opponents? “they - slash - them”
there were only male and female samurai... like how there are 2 genders
A dude from my camp didn't believe I was nonbinary and I look back on it sad that I didn't say anything about it
I'm bigender, ik this is supposed to be a positive thing but just saw a video saying that all nonbinary genders aren't valid and I took it to heart bc I'm already not taken seriously by family and society but those videos make me feel worse . Some things the video said was nobinary is for attention and that we can't experience dysphoria if we have different genders and we can't identify as neither , and that we are trying to get special treatment, and that the dysphoria symptoms should go back to the old times where the definition is u feel like the opposite sex like ftm or mtf , and that the in between shouldn't count. So now I feel guilty for not identifying as a man but having dysphoria and needing hrt or hormones, but I don't even want to transition anymore bc I don't want to be attacked for chasing my happiness, while being nonbinary, bc now I feel like I'm taking away from others , idk anymore tbh , all I know is I feel like crap now and I've been crying ever since I saw the video
Dont worry hun ur valid af
(So… I’m going to shoot my shot if you’re interested comment below. College kids only please) Hiiii I’m Tarin, I’m queer, my pronouns are she/they, I’m a black person, I live in New York City and I’m a theatre major at City College. I like musicals, singing, playing video games, anime, drawing, voguing, the mcu, and making food.
Aw, that sounds nice. Do you have an IG?
@@O_Ciel_Phant0mhive yeah I do
4:20 another fellow Puerto Rican non binary just like me that's so cool 🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩 i can see the Puerto rican flag i feel proud to be Puerto rican and Non binary 😊😊
I’m non-binary and went to pride and I could count on my hands how many trans and non-binary people attended a pride of at least 2-3k people. I felt so alone but the straights and gays bois love pride 🙃
First things first, im a ornithology nerd and i love your user name (fun fact crows can be as smart as a 6 year old) and second its sad how little representation there is for us, though if you want to find another representation in media i do know about star whos enby, cute, and neurodivergent whos absolutley awesome, bex taylor klaus
Get help.
All these non-binary folks look hella good and I'm over here looking like a trash panda
7:30 the chamelon is adorable
2:30 they should've went over there and said "Let me fix this for you." and styled the daughters outfit and made it look amazing on the daughter and really show of the "bOy CloTHes"
4:06 OH NO they're hot!
I just want validation
No.
Yes.
@@kiandemonteverde4121 I am non-binary have been for the past 14 years and im happier than ever! Your opinions don't matter and history will forget you. I do not give two shits about what you have to say beacuse I am happier than ever and some dumbasses wont change anything 😀
You are loved you are valid
Hi, my name’s Ash. I think I might be Non-Binary! But, I don’t know what to do to tell my parents. Stepdad reaction: laugh Mom reaction: I have no freaking idea Dad reaction and stepmom reaction: mad mad mad. So, HELP
Hey, we have the same name! I wish I could come out, but I think my experience would be similar to yours…
@@ash_and_ember217 Lol, thx for the comment tho
As a non binary person this is the best side of yt I’ve been on
Where my enbys at? 😁
I needed this today, thank you💜💛🤍🖤
I am non-binary elephant who can’t fit into the basement.
So idk if I'm nonbinary but I don't rlly want to be a girl or a boy the way I view myself is a person I haven't rlly thought about this to much but idk just thought I'd put this here
That book must be known by the whole world.
the bi panic- THE MASC AND FEM MY BI PANIC
If you made merch i would buy it
7:24 I got called out with the pixie cut 😂
Omg! 2:29 is goals!
6:35 I love that nameee!!!!!!! my nonbinary name is parker :] but its also my mom moms last name but she don't know yet so uh yea...
All the they’s are celebrating now. That’s me. I’m the they’s 🙃💯
7:23-sorry but I’m a Gender Flux person who fits that exact description I’m CALLED OUT 😭
I'm not non binary but I am A demi girl, th I have all lot of respect for these people bc they are so nice😭
7:15 anyone know where i can get a set of those for myself?
I was just checking the comments to see if anyone found them bc I want them so bad lol
I just came out as nonbinary and I have 2 names I really like but I like them equally, so I need help choosing name #1 aspen name#2 Clove
I think Aspen sounds cool but it's really up too you 😊
ily guys
start: 0:34
Can we all agree we are jealous of the larst video
you know i also like coding in python
7:19
...oh.
(that is literally me)
The "My Shadow Is Purple" book nearly made me cry (but in a really nice way) 🥲
Y’all is it bad that im a 5ft tall 90-pound white person with a pixie cut-?💧👁👄👁
4:23 ice spice is that u
6:36 where are those glasses from
What did the person that was part robot say? I didn’t here them 😅
hello there :)
I am enby and I really want to find some way to bind my chest. could anyone recommend to me a good website/item I could buy? I would really appreciate :)
also I would love something as safe as possible
7:16 those are all me 👀
Yes.
ᐋᒃᑲ.
omg that’s me at 4:03🤭
I made a non-binary vent tiktok of anyone wants to see? Its on my channel :) or dont thats fine too…
i've heard that to all of it 7:31
I don’t understand how nonbinary means both female and male when in reality, it means neither
I made a non-binary vent tiktok of anyone wants to see? Its on my channel :) or dont thats fine too…
❤
7:22 HELL YEA POC NON-BINARY PPL UNITEEE:333. I’m a brown SEA (south East Asian) and it’s always cool seeing poc have different gender identity :DD!
Nice
0:48
4:03
PANSEXUAL PANICCCCCCCCC!!!!💖💛💙
5:41 🤭
👇Proud Enby's sound off!!
2 hundred thousand years of human development adds up to this?
well humanity has been trying to cheat past darwinism so no surpise
Yall realize non binary has existed for thousands of years right? Look it up
I’m non binary but this compliation really disappoints me
How is it disappointing?
i am absoulty obsessed with non binary people is that weird please no hate 😅
6:22
!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ifeelwarmandfuzzy
7:39 i'm not nonbinary, but i used to identify as nonbinary. i can sew, so i used to make little clip on pockets that i'd put papers with words written on it. so when somebody said "gender is what's in your pants" i would pull out a drawing saying "your mom" and follow that up with the words "Your mom is in my pants."
5:56 😍❤️💋💍
What about the intergender vid you promised
What is intergender
They said there wasn’t enough to make a video on so they will be in the LGBTQ+ comp that comes out in a bit. (Don’t think the first reply sent so I’m trying again)
most likely will come out at the end or after pride month
Calling yourself Non-Binary categorizes everyone into Binary or Non-Binary, creating a binary system which makes you Binary again
Nope
@bitchtitters920 non-binary quiet literally means no binary
@@bleh3.2 you don't get it lol
wheres the amabsssss
Help pls
Gay rights? What's that?