Eldest vs Middle vs Youngest
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- Опубліковано 1 жов 2024
- Tune into this episode of the skypodcast where Kryz and Slater get real about the good, the bad, and the downright hilarious aspects of growing up as an eldest, middle, or youngest child. They chat about how these positions in the family tend to shape our personalities in ways we don't even notice. Join the conversation as they spill the tea on sibling dynamics!
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I understand Slater completely. I don't think we'll forget how we felt when we were young. Imagine being a kid and your parents telling you you're the one who's supposed to understand but you're also just a kid. I think our parents could've just explained better instead of telling us "you're the eldest, you should understand."
Slater, I feel you. :D
In terms of sharing or having some things😅 lagi na lang nagpapa ubaya kase eldest at dapat nakakaintindi, like buying some , SA KANYA NA LANG TO KASI MAS BATA SAYO... MAGPAUBAYA KA NA LANG😅 , But I don't hate them, because when I'm on my own pa naman at nag iisa pang anak ,nabibigay naman sakin lahat😅,
Me too, ramdam na ramdam ko 😂 like before ako ung pinapalo pag ayaw ng kapatid ko maligo, I don’t understand it way back then galit na galit ako sa parents ko, 7 palang ako nun eh.
Petition for Jack to be in the podcast for the middle child perspective! I need to validate this middle child's angst also!🤣🤣
Yes
ako na middle child, watching them go on and on about being the eldest and youngest... 👁👄👁 HAHAHAHAHAHAHA JK
that makes two of us lol
we need jack as middle child representation
HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHA LEFT OUT NA NAMAN NO? 😭🤣🤣🤣
Same hereeee HAHAHA 🙊
Hahaha😂
I totally get Slater (as the eldest also) lol Kryz gives off that makulit youngest child energy na papagalitan ng eldest HAHAHA these two, really 😂😂❤❤
Laptrip😂
Middle child ako, growing up i was always tasked to guard our house. Ako lagi yung nakabantay, yung hindi sinasama. Which made me become aloof and introverted. The one who rarely seeks help since they thought i got it all figured out on my own when in fact i'm barely doing things because i know they wontt be there to help. Then i became independent and didn't expected things from them. Many birthdays uncelebrated or pinaka least to zero preparations. I feel like they exert little efforts on us middle children and it was poured more on the youngest or eldest. It's sad being a middle child to be honest. So i learned to be okay with it.
But i know i am someone who they can depend on when times get rough. Hugs to us hehe ❤
🫂 this! And although it may be different with every parent, middle children are usually expected to understand that the attention won’t be towards them… or it will otherwise be shared lang before spotlight goes to either the eldest / youngest. Like what Slater said, i agree that this is how it’s designed so the angst and resentment of the middle child should be expected. But it will depend on how the parents reassure & manage the fam. I am proud of being a middle child & my fam loves me just as much. Bottomline no matter which child we all are, we love our parents. 🫶🏼
Middle child here.. we are mostly the moderators, the balancer and ahahha always in between kaya di kami pansin 😅 minsan nga di na hinahanap😂😂
Passionate bigla si slater hahahhaha as the youngest child, natatawa na lang rin ako like Kyrz 😂
As an eldest child, I'm with you Slater. Hahahaha! Lol, I have the exact same sentiment. I think the kids following the eldest child will never understand our angst.
I wish youngers child this days. Appreciate and understand the eldest brother/sister effort and sacrifices .
I have a name for your youngest son SANTINO
I'm the eldest child and I TOTALLY understand Slater... I even felt his angst about the topic and I realize that the feeling of "those" memories about us getting responsibilities as a child is still here inside (I thought wala na lol). My little sister is always the chill one but I don't want to say na she doesn't care like totally. It's just that I notice EVERYTHING first and make sure to solve everything right away then she notices things. I ran so that she could walk, ganern HAHAHAH. It's sabotable man sad. I'm just thankful na I have a lil sis who understands and listens.
As the youngest child I super feel you Kryz 😅
For me eto yung pinaka Exciting at nakakatuwa na episode ng Skypodcast. AHAHA Tingin ko eto din favorite ko. ❤😂 Kase madalas chill kayo. Eto hinde e. haha ramdam ko yung intercity, na.. ang cute lang.
Same
Grabe! Lahat ng unsaid feelings and thoughts ko as a panganay, NASABI LAHAT NI SLATER! Thank you, Slater for being the representative of the panganay pips.
As an eldest child as well, I felt relieved na mapanood mag vent out or share ng experiences and learnings niya si sir Slater haha. I mean the experience is just so universal I think majority of the eldest children out there felt the relief hahahaha.
Middle Child here. Gets ko sila pareho. Middle Child just know the feeling of being younger sibling to the oldest and an older sibling to the youngest. That is why no one understands especially the youngest and the oldest. Youngest deals being a youngest as well us the oldest deals being an oldest while we the middle deals both. so most of the time we can't be understand.
As the eldest, I totally get where Slater is coming from 😂 and also, YES. Kryz spoke like a TRUE YOUNGEST CHILD and no offense meant, but I get annoyed every time she laughs at Slater’s angst!! HAHAHAHAHA had so much fun listening to this ep while I’m on night shift duty 😂 Thank you skyfam!!!
sameeee 🤣🤣
Name of 3rd baby Steven Kyler Uy Young
I love sevi boy, always watching him in TikTok “Done Na”
I guess another point to consider is, generally, per my observation, with the youngest, the family may be in a better economic state and the youngest child gets showered with more stuff, time, attention, etc. This may have happened because parents are more mature, have climbed the corporate ladder, been in business for a longer time, or the like
In my case, baliktad… we used to be “rich” nung wala pa ako, so I did not experience the lush of life that my older siblings had. But, I am thankful cause it made me stronger and understanding about the whole situation… 🙏🏼
as the youngest, i can vouch for this (but not with the time and attention thingy 🥹) i get to experience the life that my brothers did not. but the thing is, with all these matters, minsan akala ng iba spoiled ako pero hindi naman talaga. inggit nga ako sa mga kapatid ko because my brothers experienced how to be loved and support emotionally and physically by our parents kasi when they were born, hindi pa masyadong established yung work ng parents namin so yung oras nila nakatuon lang sa mga nauna kong kapatid.
@@princess-hy9en agree. The freedom that they did not get, yun ang meron tayo. Though mas gusto ko yung emotional and physical support na na Experience nila… kanya-kanya talaga 🙏🏼
We need a speaker to represent the middle child please 😂
Yes haha
How I wish I could join their conversation to also speak up for all my fellow middle child pips! 😅
😂😂😂
Hahaha same
This podcast highlights the eldest but for suree kryz has a lot to say as a youngest pero she choose to keep it na lang AHAHAHAHA I know cz I'm the youngest too which totally get used to the thought na I'm not allowed to give opinion cz we're too young to talk hahaha
and also kryz is very me Hahahahah tawa lang ng tawa kahit triggered na yung mga kapatid ahahha
tapos sasabihin bratty yung personality ng mga youngest when in fact, wala kaming choice but manahimik na lang HAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
TRUEEEE HAHAHHAHA@@princess-hy9en
Kaway-kaway sa mga Middle Child.
We need Middle Child POV
Yeah ❤❤❤❤
Wahh legit
Saw the clips from tiktok and I was invested to finish the video. Petition for part II where the middle child explains his/her perspective.
As an eldest child I understand Slater. We have more responsibilities than any siblings. Youngest is more on easy easy life. Again I like your topic and your response about it. God bless your family.
The strict oldest and the carefree youngest HAHAHAHHA🤪
I can relate with Slater’s opinion since I am also an eldest among my siblings. Growing up, my parents has really a high expectations to me knowing that my siblings were also looking up to me to be their role model in terms of being an obedient child and understand more the younger siblings if they commit mistakes kasi nga ako ang mas nakakatandang kapatid. I should be responsible to handle certain things lalo na kapag wala sa tabi namin ung parents namin. For me, malaking pressure talaga and parang yun din ang kinamulatan ng mga magulang ko nung bata palang din sila na pinasa nalang din na parang tradition na sa pamilya. But at the end of the day, kahit iba iba man ang personalities ng eldest, middle and youngest, mahal namin ang isat isa kahit anong worst pa ang mangyari. Adjustment and being flexible to each other para ma maintain yung magandang samahan ng magkakapatid. Thank you, Slater and Kryz for sharing this kind of episode of your podcast coz I know sobrang dami tlagang relate. ❤❤❤
Im the middle child.
So ,they don't know how i feel..😂
I’m telling you Seve will surprise you all. Idgaf but will stand out.❤
Yesssss I believe in you Seven Kai Uy Young❤
Yes his my favorite hahaha
As a middle child, gusto ko makisagot sakanila! Hahahahaha! 44mins pero nabitin pako. Sobrang sayaaaa at cute panuorin!
hi skypod, an avid listener right here. Middle child rep. Well , I can say that we are always forgotten, unnoticed and unappreciated because we tend to make use of what is left. mga leftovers after mag away ng eldest and youngest because we don't want the chaos. Example sa bahay namin everytime bumili ng lechon manok, i never expect to get the drumstick or legs na part because those are default for the eldest and the youngest. so kahit gusto ko yung part na yun I am forced to get the white meat na part or the wings. but jokes on them mas healthier ang white meat ng chicken so yeah hahahha.. I love my siblings tho.
I totally understand what you feel, kahit I’m the youngest… and sometimes, I feel pity sa Dico ko who is the middle child but I understand why you act that way…. And still thankful, and I know that we are all part of the whole, and so there’s a reason why you are on that part of the family! Keep doing your thing! You are loved 🙏🏼🙌🏼
@@reverlindi23 hahahah.. yes ,I do love my siblings very very much especially now that we are all adult ( in our 20s). I always make sure na I do make an effort to tell them and let them know that I got their back all the time and I will fight their battle with them.
@@jamjamjammmy definitely 🙏🏼 God bless
Im listening from spotify but need ko pumunta here just to comment naaaa... "YESSSSS KRYZ, DEFEND Us, YOUNGEST!"
Every words that Kryz says about youngest child is exactly me and no, hindi palaging samin favorable. Sometimes pressured din bilang bunso as the elders are "kinda strict and bossy". We need to keep up rinkasi parang need namin sumunod sa kung paano sila before. "Papunta ka pa lang". There's no comparison daw, but sometimes di naman namin mapipiligan mafeel that we are being compared to out elder sibs. Pero as the youngest nga (na matigas daw ulo), WE DO IT OUR WAY! HAHAHAHAHAHA
Middle child here and I grew up adjusting to my older and younger brothers' wants and needs. It is just what it is I guess but I definitely did felt left out as a child. I felt like mas priority sila compared to me. Seeing that you are considering Sevi's feelings in the future just shows how great of a parent you are.
I feel you
First time kong makita na grabe ka passionate with angst si Slater mag explain hahàha😂
RELATE!!😂 Ang wholesome ng conversation 😂 God bless you more!🤍 #TEAMPANGANAY🥹
Hintay ko lumaki si Sevi para ikwento niya rin kung ano feeling ng isang middle child. Hahaha! I kennat with this episode because WE ALL CAN RELATE. Lol! And i love the energy of the both of you!
So basically Slater's favorite is Scottie. 😅
Obviously 😂
Middle child here. Ofc hindi sila mabibilib sakin kasi smarter si eldest lol 😅 tumanda nalang ako ng walang pake bec of this haha
Does not matter kung anong birth order natin. But lemme just say na mas funny and mas lumalabas ang personality and relationship dynamic nilang dalawa sa recent long episodes. Hahahaha. Love you, Skyfam! 🥰🫶
Middle children: "we need a middle child POV"
I mean we're the middle child remember?? We're unseen??? 😂😂😅 kidding aside.
Eldest!! 😅 was laughing the whole time. currently destressing while my 2 kids 3 and under are taking a nap. 🙂 🥰
HAHAHA!
I can sooo relate with Kryz! Hahaha!
They are both correct, it’s a separate journeys. A very nice conversation👍
As the eldest child I totally agree with Slater. But aside from all of that I think eldest tend to be more tougher than the middle and the younger. Tough in a sense that we tend to have the confidence voice out our thoughts more to our parents than our siblings.
Being an eldest can be really pressuring sometimes but it comes with an advantage also. I am an eldest but if I got the chance to be reincarnated again I would choose to be the youngest. 😂 Sending love to the both of you. Such a wholesome content you always post that a lot can gain knowledge and lessons. God bless Skyfam ❤
As an eldest child. I could totally relate to Slater. And I also have that angst 😌🥲
Kryz is so patient and understanding. It looks to me that if Kryz didnt laugh things off, it will turn into a real argument. But it's not laughing at or neglecting Slater's points. That's just my pov.
In a way, I think too that even if you try your best to make your children feel loved, personality is still a factor in how people perceive things. Our eldest doesn't have that sense of responsibility like most eldest. It's the middle child that has it. The middle child used to have that syndrome but after getting into counseling, she became so much better. As for the freedom we get, personally, I observe from my older siblings what my parents like or not. Then I learn from my sibling's mistakes so less sakit ng ulo sa parents, fostering trust and giving me more freedom.
As a middle child ito yung talagang mahirap kase sasabihin sayo ng parents mo kailangan mong sundin yung kuya mo kase panganay sya and as for the bunso nman kailangan mong syang pagbigyan kase bunso sya at mas matanda ka sa kanya, so kaming mga middle child hindi talaga namin alam kung saan kami lulugar 😪
Sana mapansin tong comment ko 😁😅
you will never understand the pain of an eldest child, we have to sacrifice our own happiness for the youngest child to be taken care of, to provide for them. I feel you slater! 😂❤
I'm a mid child but I feel you slater.. that's how our eldest felt tiil she died at 56...parang sya pa nagging mother namin because our mom is very strict...Chinese blood mom KO. 44:12 44:12
walang middle child pov kasi nakalimutan na naman 🤣
Middle child here! Hahaha i think we have this kind of attitude na “palaging may gusto patunayan” bcoz hindi kami masyadong nabibigyan ng attention hahaha so we parang need namin to always achieve something big or grand para finally mapansin naman kami hahahaha idk with other middle childs but atleast majority of the middle child i know can relate to this hahahahaha
As a middle child, i don't get to express myself as much as our eldest who's really vocal. So when our youngest arrived , by the way we're 10 years apart, I spent my teenage years looking after him and I encouraged him to voice out his opinions. so now he became on overthinker, unlike me who is pretty chill
I understand si Sir Slater sobrang hirap maging panganay. I am an only child kasi 2 beses nakunan si Mama pero di pa man din lumalabas yung babies non lagi na sinasabi sa akin na "oh pagkalabas ng baby kailangan magshare ka at magpapaubaya lagi kasi ate ka na." And after hearing those words ok naman sa akin pero at some point yun yung isa sa mga angst ko kasi bat magpapaubaya agad? Umiyak lang ako non at naisip ko na heto na nga reality ng pagiging panganay "you can't afford to break and fall" kasi ikaw ang panganay, ikaw ang mas nakaka intindi at ikaw ang role model sa nakakabata mo na kapatid. Sana Ms. Kryz wag lang yung angst ng middle child sister mo ang icoconsider mo in a way na ayaw mo maramdaman ni sevi ang ma-left out though normal naman iyon sa mga mommies na ayaw ma-left out babies nila pero sana maconsider din feelings ni Scottie as panganay in the near future. Kasi yung friend ko 3 sila magkakapatid pero yung mom nila sa kadahilanan na ayaw na ma-feel na left out yung middle child super focus sila sa middle and youngest hanggang sa naging aloof na si friend namin sa mommy nila kasi madali lang kay middle at youngest kumawala sa mga kakulitan nila. And during our reco sabi ng friend namin "bata din naman ako noon at anak din naman nila ako. Bat puro mga kapatid ko iniisip porke panganay ako dapat ba ako na mag adjust? Worst talaga mommy ko at kinamumuhian ko sila ng 2 kong kapatid" nagulat kami lahat sa sinabi niya. At isa yun sa mga naging factor bat ayaw ko ng kapatid noon kasi andami kong what ifs at same ang sentiments ng mga panganay na once magkaroon ka ng kapatid kailangan mo isabuhay ang mga salitang "Magpaubaya ka kasi Panganay ka."
The youngest child weakness is "d only child" hehehhehehe tanggal angas talaga ng mga bunso sa iisang anak. 😁
As an eldest, I can really relate to Slater
it's so funny that when my cousin (which is the first baby) says his first "papa" word, tito even put it on his ringtone "apapapapa" and right now the second baby bro we don't care anymore😂😂😂
Go Slater! Release that eldest child angst!!! Eldest Children are children too, they should not be given the burden to raise their siblings.
petition for jack to be in the next podcast!!! anw, i have the same sentiments with slater hahaha panganay feels
Petition to invite Kryz’s siblings HAHAHAHA
Nakakalimutan pa rin yung middle child hahaha Middle child here! Hahaha
I totally understand Engr. Slater! 💯💯💯
so far, out of all the episodes i've watched, this is by far, the funniest!! and can so relate to slater as the eldest. love watching your podcasts!
Kuhang kuha ni Slater yung inis ko kay Kryz sa pagiging non chalant 😂
As the youngest child, it is not all the time na carefree. I am at the point of my life that I am too cautious with everything that I do because I need to live up to their expectations and I am afraid I would fail not only my parents but my other siblings.
Commenting as middle child, no comment 😅
lol HAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHA
Part 2 pls with middle child representative!!!
As an eldest, I can relate with Slater. That is really the angst of the eldest child.
I think youngest is carefree because someone older do the things that needed to do so they do not think about it anymore. Hahaha. Anyways, middle child here
This podcast is so funny!!! 😂
As the youngest, I can totally agree to Slater the oldest. I wanna hug the oldest in the family - (slater’s patience here even if kryz is playing it to the point na nakakaannoy somehow sorry kryz lol)
*eldest lol hahahaha sorry slater
I love it so natural bangayan hahaha?I’m a middle child and I get kryz 😂 I am more annoyed on Slater this time
I understand Kryzz since my husband is the "youngest child" 😅
And I totally understand Slater because I'm the eldest among 4 siblings😉😄🥰
Magkakaiba talaga yung level of maturity and character.. what matters most is that you understand and live your siblings 😊 God bless Your family!
Make DEEDOE as your guest here please hahaha we need a middle child perspective hahahaha
nagets ko po ung point ni Sir Slater.. pero i also like the vibe of Miss Kryzzz you are so chill 🥰🥰🥰 You're a perfect match ☺️ Sna di kayo nagAway after this 😅🤪😊
One my favorite episode 😂 too funny! I hope they invite jack for some clarifications and moree kwentoo!!! 🤣
Omg!! I’m the youngest but I’m at slater’s side. I totally understand him in all angle because growing up I understand now how my parents feel about my eldest sister. Ga katawa ko ky light ra kaayo si kryz sa mga “hinanakit” ni slater hahahaha but I totally understand nga dili jud siya hinanakit but an eye opener to when we became parents of our own nga not be so harsh on the eldest because dili man responsibility bitaw sa eldest ang iyahang younger siblings. It’s the parent’s job. So kasabot jud kaayo ko where slater is coming from and where slater is going by explaining his side now nga parent na siya and with how he treats scottie and sevi which is really true. And it’s nice nga mindful si slater ana ky we never know basin magka eldest angst pud si scottie. Hahahaha! Then kryz is just laughing and taking everything light hahahaha! So cutie japun oy! 😆😆😆
Skyparents, thank you kay gipataas na ninyo inyohang duration sa podcast. Unta permi nani 😂🎉❤
I’m #5 in 7 siblings, my attitude was no complaints at all because that’s me and to each their own.✌️👍🍀❤️🇹🇼
Loved this podcast, enjoying,smiling and laughing till end
Thanks Slater and Kryz❤️🇹🇼
#3 Slaine Kyo🍀
First time listening to a podcast, saw the title and no questions asked haha the need to hear this out HAHAHAHA we're 3 in the family, I am the eldest HAHAHA
The fire is burning so much Sir Slater 😂
This latest episode had me in stitches! I'm the youngest! Super gets Kryz, lol this topic was pure fun! definitely a fave 😂 Though, I can see where Slater's coming from too bc of my elder siblings!
Ako only child feeling ko nsa akin lahat ng pressure. Daming what if pra sa parents ko. What if mgksakit sila. Wala ako kkampi. What if wala na sila ako nlng tlga. Dami kong pra sa knila.
Gusto ko mabigyan ko sila ng kung ano na maging happy sila. Bsta lahat iniisip pra sa knila.
Hahhaha u guys are entertaining xD i was a little terrified when u guys started arguing but all good and fun
Hindi man tayo makakapili ng magulang but still, lahat tayo may Nanay at Tatay pero hindi lahat merong kapatid kaya WHETHER ELDEST, MID OR YOUNGEST PA MAN, SWERTE TAYO NA MAY KAPATID TAYO
EVIL LAUGH! From the youngest child here🤣🤣🤣
2nd to the last here, 6 kami magkakapatid, pero feeling ko panganay ako hahahah lahat sa akin nila pinagagawa, even decision making ako na, mas expose kasi ako sa world.... yung utusan ka dati, need ko maging people person kasi ako inuutusan maningil sa mga paupana ni mother.... so ayun early internships....
I’m the eldest so I can relate to Slater… 😂 The way Kryz laughs, napakamapang-asar! Bunsong bunso ang datingan!! Naaalala ko kung gaano ako kapikon sa bunso HAHAHAHAHAHA lumalabas talaga ang pagiging eldest & youngest niyong dalawa. So funny 🤣 i love your family ❤
I can't say the same thing for our eldest😂. Siya yung happy go lucky when we were still young. I remember her throwing her shoes outside the window dahil ayaw niya magcreate ng noise kasi magdidisco siya kasama ng friends niya. 😂
Omg I get slater soo much🤣🤣, My husband is the youngest and Im the oldest., This is really the case, super tama talaga ., the youngest talaga is parang wala lang talaga🤣🤣🤣
Haha, sorry sobrang nakakatawa ung clash of perspective. I know nag ttry sila parehas to understand each other pero hindi eh. Lol.
Saka ung pagtawa sa middle child haha.
Next episode will be the middle child POV
Nakakainis si kryz but she totally have that youngest attitude✌🏻😅😅
Me i'm a middle child and we're 4. Pang 3rd ako though i'm the only girl so hindi ko rin siya gaano karamdam na middle child ako because my parents sheltered me since i'm the only girl.😂
All eldest will support slater on this lol hahah ung frustration na ipaintindi sa bunso how lucky they are. Then tatawanan ka lang nila like parang di nila in invalidate ung feelings ng eldest ganorn haha. Enjoy this topic. Thumbs up hahah
I think middle child kasi, akala mo lang wala syang pake pero they are more observant, mas na- iintindihan nila yung situation, kaya instead na mainggit sa elsest or youngest, they will just stay quiet.
I think middle child kasi, akala mo lang wala syang pake pero they are more observant, mas na- iintindihan nila yung situation, kaya instead na mainggit sa elsest or youngest, they will just stay quiet.
POV nman ng middle child next podcast, I want to understand them
Youngest here and yeah, BAHALA NA KAYO 😅
Middle Child na feeling panganay sa lahat ng responsibilities sa bahay.
Being the eldest child, the pressure to excel and chase success is ON. As the 'first investment' of my parents, I feel like should be successful and help them with my siblings' expenses before I could even start investing for my own and my future family's future fully.
Regardless, I still love spoiling my siblings when I have something while having the chance to gradually chase my plans and dreams and checking some of my bucket list wishes.
I'm the youngest child, yet I'm the one who always makes way for my older siblings. Everyone says the youngest gets everything, but in my case, it's always been different. 😥😢
I'm younger of two but I feel like I'm older than my older sibling. The older got the perks, travels and benefits though pinagagalitan at sobra pag alaga sa kanya. Responsibilities not dealt the way it was supposed to coz he got married early but we both love each other despite the differences, and moral & other types of support now older na kami is andun hanggat kaya but I don't as possible depend kung kaya sa older sibling ko, though may times hingi ng help lalo pag forte niya yun concern ko. Hehehehe... God is great and I love my sibling and everyone in my life, in spite everything else. ❤👆🙏#PSALM91 #TGBTG
As the eldest, and being a girl, it definitely was difficult. I would always daydream of having an older brother who’s so perfect and good at everything I’m not, who would make my parents proud and would definitely take some burden off me. 😂 And I guess in a way, going into adulthood I’ve always been attracted to older boys 🤷🏻♀️
hahaha ang fun nito😂
ako bunso, ako ang utusan at nabubully noon. pero alam ko fave ak ng parents ko 😊
Middle child rep here, this was really funny to watch hahaha. But really, the experiences will differ with each person because the dynamics can change depending on many factors such as age gap, gender, situations etc. In my own experience as middle child but the ONLY GIRL in the fam with only 3 yrs gap from my kuya and an 8 yrs gap from our youngest, I did not really feel neglected since I had 8 yrs of experience being the youngest. I cannot speak for my kuya's experiences, but I guess with the notion of girls maturing faster than boys, I kind of grew up mentally faster than him. I am what you call the overachiever type but is now a burnt out young adult. I observed how I was a lot more responsible than my kuya and was more serious in life during our earlier years than him. I do not know if it was the fact that as a girl, I was expected to have that innate maternal instincts, so I was made to look after my younger cousins and my younger brother starting at the age of 6yrs old. I guess that kind of molded my personality growing up. I already saw how boys were really stupid u know hahahaha. When our bunso came in the picture, of course there were a lot of middle child angst but my experiences were I guess a lot more tolerable haha.
I also want to speak up though for the youngest ones especially those with big age gaps from their older siblings. I always have this in the back of my head looking at how our bunso is still in highschool but me and my kuya are already working young adults, how he possibly feels left out. He does get away with a lot of things, but I feel sad knowing na when the time comes when his ate and kuya decides to move out of the house, he will be left alone.
Didn't think i'd be sharing this here on youtube but just so can get an idea of the different sibling dynamics hahaha
Youngest and makasabot ko ni Kryz kay same mi og batasan. Suggestion nako sa name para sa 3rd child Sander Kairo Uy Young. Sander means defender of the people and Kairo means the victorious one. I hope you will consider this name.
i have 3 boys too hahaha! ages 21, 11 and 6 🤭🤪 sa pangatlo super chill na tlga hahaha! 🤣😅 with the huge age difference the eldest got our parenting style and became the 3rd parent to the siblings. the middle child is the sweetest. the youngest spoiled rotten 🤭🤭🤭
all the bunso will never understand the hugot ng mga panganay. kryz is laughing kasi di nya gets si slater HAHA