@@CoachD515 word, not that cheating once and owning up to it is better, but it frames better than lying for six straight months to have sex with another dude that is not your husband.
@@hidan407 Well I haven't seen the series either, but coming from someone who has been exposed to just how mean and evil girls can be, to me it's kind of like "how could he have not seen that coming" even without watching the series, but if they haven't watched videos about how cruel girls are with cheating and whatnot, it kind of makes sense he didn't see it coming.
It’s funny how Tan Saw right through her intentions this whole scene as she was trying to convince him not to go through with his decision because he knew what had happen😆😆
As someone who went through THE SAME situation with my ex wife i could literally feel his pain. Remember - cheating is not mistake, it's a CHOICE. .Finding out that your girl/wife cheating on you is someting i wouldn't dare to wish even to my enemy. I'm glad Tan found strenght in himself and desited to move on from her .
That, and if any more infidelity was committed by her, he could only be mad at himself. The only logical decision is to end it and move on, as hard as that may be.
I actually had a woman try to come back to me 20 YEARS after leaving me for another man. She said he died and she was ready to come back to me. I laughed and told her I had LONG moved on from her. She got angry and started trashing me to my friends and family.
Love is about three things,sacrifice,honesty and just giving not exp[ecting anything in return.But at the end we accept the love we get not deserve.Bonnie doesn't have any of that ,Tan should never go back to her because she is gonna break his heart again.
Just hate this storyline for Tan I feel like he above the rest of the team needed a real love story but he's never gotten anything close this just turned into his mom who had reservations about Bonnie being able to say I told you so
No, no, no, and no. Hell no. Fuck no. Absolutely not. Once you cheat, it's done. Period. You don't go back. Ever. The trust is gone, broken, and without trust, love can't be there. You can forgive them, for the betterment of yourself and the ability to move forward with your life, but do not EVER take them back.
That’s why you don’t get in relationships until you are sure of your intentions with the person you are with and never cheat because the results of those actions are never great in the end 💯
Still scripts and dialogues needs to ve changed. Tan should ask: "How can you be shameless asking for a second chamce when he dumped you?" Do I look like a looser to you?, Am I become that cheap and little to you?, Dont you have an inch of a remorse and how do you give my respect and dignity back?, I can possibly keep you as side piece, is it okay for you? If you really loved me that much😂
Trust has already been lost, it is not life to have doubts about the rest of it, it is a living hell, it is even difficult to place trust in someone else.
Whoever wrote the script for this specific story obviously has experience of this kind of betrayal. This person has painted a realistic picture of what some women do in life, cheat and then blame the husband.
It wasn't a mistake, it was a choice. There's a difference. This is something I learned from Gibbs on NCIS. If you got a problem with your spouse, then get a damn divorce. And besides, if she loved him, she wouldn't have did what she did.
@@BarnzTT Facts bro. Unfortunately this is women community nowadays. Men try to make them happy, woman cheats as a thank you and puts herself as victim. That simple
You can't "make it up to you" with a man. Men aren't built for absorbing betrayal. We are built to provide and protect with our lives and we intend to give that commitment away to only one woman and only one time.
You finally hit a low point. You honestly think that tan is going to get back with you just because the man cheated with decided to go back to his wife.
Tam didn't make a mistake! She is the one who cheated now she calling the shot. And saying she loves him but slept with another guy but dumped her. Well he will be so stupid if he gets back on her
No, she DOESN'T love you. You do not divorce someone you love, or cheat on them. Hate the way women throw around the phrase "I love you" when they do not mean it at all!
I don't expect you to forgive me. It translate to I expect you to forgive me and why aren't we back together yet, bc it's your fault that I cheated. Lol.
For guys, the way you can tell if a woman loves you so much despite her unfaithfulness is if she sincerely apologizes to you for her trespasses with no hint of excuses, takes full accountability for her actions and asks for your forgiveness without asking you to take her back. And if you love her just as much, your intuitions will give you the confidence to see past her failure to be faithful to you as a terrible lapse of judgement. Not an indictment of her character. Nevertheless, you can either take her back or let her go. If you let her go, you bless the other man she will marry because she will give that man the greatest love he will ever know because of the pain inside her of losing you. But the price you pay for letting her go is that you will forfeit that great love for yourself. Because the love you you recieve from the mercy you give will be greater than the love that was never put to the test.
It was best mostly for Tan to divorce because she broke his trust . Even for Bonnie too. She can learn from her mistakes and move forward. Those who cheat also need to learn how to move forward. They might not deserve but it’s the truth
His better off without her cheating ex wife. And who wants to be someone who tried to go back with cause she was dump by her lover. And she didn't make a mistake she made a choice to ruined her marriage.
People there is no mistakes when a man or woman cheats or the other person. They made their choice, they choose the other person, go back to that other person. I am saying this because it happen to me 28 years ago.
Real life events regarding modern relationships/modern women into television shows...hope guys learn the lesson being taught by Tan...don't take back a cheater, especially when the only reason she is back is because her lover dumped her/it didn't work out for her. Tan was basically not good enough for Bonnie in Bonnie's eyes, and Bonnie was not good enough for her lover of six months in her lover's eyes. People don't like being taken for granted or being treated like a back-up plan.
Tbh tan shouldn't have second thoughts bc he knows that she'll do it again, she left once what's one more, that she has no place here, especially the chemistry they had is gone
I think in these situation he can pretend to start over again only just to get revenge on him by putting on conditions like you are not allowed to use any social media , not allowed to go out like party or movie without him , ... Then after sometime you can just bring your girl best friend and act like cheating in your own house ..... Then she will realise and frustrate then you should leave her ...tell me I am wrong
Wow, treating you like a spare tire? And now she's including you into the mistake? Now she's telling him that she loves him by cheating on him? Tsk tsk.
Man, this chic is a piece of work. Says I love you after cheating on him for 6 months. Then leaves him for her affair partner. Only to come back when dumped.
Not that its a good thing, but most men do not want to leave their wife for another woman. Its thrilling to have something "new" for a bit, but most men don't want to upend their lives, family or reputation.
It wasn't a mistake, it was a choice. She chose to lie and cheat.
Yea bruh 6 months is crazy and coming back only cause he left you
@@CoachD515 word, not that cheating once and owning up to it is better, but it frames better than lying for six straight months to have sex with another dude that is not your husband.
“Idk when the right time to tell u was” bruh wut
I hate it when they refer to it as a mistake
6 months of cheating isn't a mistake, that's a choice made and covered in lies. She gets dumped by the new guy and now she wants back, ew.
Yeah disgusting. And even he is thinking of taking her back. That's even ewweww
@@ripuchandrabiswal2937he didn’t
Perhaps had she ended it on her own maybe he would have taken her back
"What if we're making a mistake" this man has literally made no mistake.
The only mistake he made, was choosing her to be his wife and thinking she was going to not cheat on him.
And an Jean Luc Picard tells us, it is possible to commit no mistakes and still lose.
@@Bweygi havent watched the series, was there signs that Bonnie was a cheater throughout the seasons or was this out of the blue?
@@hidan407 Well I haven't seen the series either, but coming from someone who has been exposed to just how mean and evil girls can be, to me it's kind of like "how could he have not seen that coming" even without watching the series, but if they haven't watched videos about how cruel girls are with cheating and whatnot, it kind of makes sense he didn't see it coming.
@@Bweyg Tbh same for me. I shamefully gave her so many excuses when I saw and noticed things and kept thinking positive
I hope Tan doesn’t go back with her. He deserves someone better than her.
She is shut a dirty jezebel
Facts!
maybe Tan should be with that neighbor of his
He does . He deserves better
It’s a tv show depends what producers want lol
She didn’t deny about how she would still be with the other guy if he didn’t break up with her and she’s guilt tripping Tan
Tan did not seem surprise the other guy went back to his wife since she Remained devoted to him and was determined to save there marriage
Like if Bonnie could really guilt trip a s.w.a.t agent
@@arturovillegas1128 Pathetically tried at the most…
@@user-bx9re9tw2z Guess she now knows that guilt tripping doesn't work on a S.W.A.T Agent
@@arturovillegas1128 😂 I know right??.
It’s funny how Tan Saw right through her intentions this whole scene as she was trying to convince him not to go through with his decision because he knew what had happen😆😆
“Sorry that’s gotta suck” 🤣🤣HA!!!
😂😂😂
@@wewillnotlose do you know if he got back with her or not???
@@Mikoto332 nope
I would have laughed in her face instead of validating her feelings. She deserves no empathy or sympathy whatsoever.
@@MaximumWarp2099Damn right!!
Spoiler, He didn't take her cheating ass back.
Good! Guy's got some self-respect.
Wow that's good I hate those simps who take cheating ass back
Good! Kick her to the curb!
@@misoo2467 me too 😂
Best spoiler ever 🫶🏼
As someone who went through THE SAME situation with my ex wife i could literally feel his pain. Remember - cheating is not mistake, it's a CHOICE. .Finding out that your girl/wife cheating on you is someting i wouldn't dare to wish even to my enemy.
I'm glad Tan found strenght in himself and desited to move on from her .
Cheaters don’t deserve a second chance. The only reason Bonnie came back to Tan because she doesn’t hold her own accountable.
Bet that the affair partner just thought of her as a piece of meat and that’s why she’s trying to crawl back to him
If tan allows her back into his life, he'll give her more opportunities to hurt him more.
Deserves it every time she shits in his mouth.
That, and if any more infidelity was committed by her, he could only be mad at himself. The only logical decision is to end it and move on, as hard as that may be.
She gaslighting you bro, she did not answer your question.
She did, with that pause.
She's for da streets bro
THE HIGHWAYS!!!!!
She is for the 🌎
I actually had a woman try to come back to me 20 YEARS after leaving me for another man. She said he died and she was ready to come back to me. I laughed and told her I had LONG moved on from her. She got angry and started trashing me to my friends and family.
Love is about three things,sacrifice,honesty and just giving not exp[ecting anything in return.But at the end we accept the love we get not deserve.Bonnie doesn't have any of that ,Tan should never go back to her because she is gonna break his heart again.
Just hate this storyline for Tan I feel like he above the rest of the team needed a real love story but he's never gotten anything close this just turned into his mom who had reservations about Bonnie being able to say I told you so
How much you all wanna bet the moment Tan takes Bonnie back she gonna end up cheating on him again
You never take your exgirlfriend back, they lose respect of you if you do.
@@X_MayceDo you think will see Bonnie again in the final season?
You lose. He never took her back
@@artuovillegas9609 Good question all we can do is wait and see if she does appear in the final season
@@X_Mayceu mean ex wife
No, no, no, and no. Hell no. Fuck no. Absolutely not. Once you cheat, it's done. Period. You don't go back. Ever. The trust is gone, broken, and without trust, love can't be there. You can forgive them, for the betterment of yourself and the ability to move forward with your life, but do not EVER take them back.
When he asked her, would you be saying this to me if that married man didn’t dump you right now she didn’t know what to say
Thank god later on he says he’s not going back with her I was so happy
Don't think about it, let her goo
Do you think the actress who plays Bonnie is done with the show?
@@arturovillegas1128yea
I think the reason he pushed her away was because she only came back because her lover ended it
I just want to point out she did not answer his question.
Good catch
She pretty much did with her silence
Action speak louder than words and her silence said it all
I’m confused why didn’t she just walk out when he asked her?
That’s why you don’t get in relationships until you are sure of your intentions with the person you are with and never cheat because the results of those actions are never great in the end 💯
She knows how to manipulate glad he doesn't fall for it and hope he will never fell for it...
If so then I have this feeling that if Bonnie manipulates the wrong person, then that person will probably end up killing her
@@1223steffen Do you thing we will see Bonnie again in the final season of s.w.a.t?
@@arturovillegas1128 don’t know.
@@arturovillegas1128 wrong person like who?
@@1223steffen A violent person, a criminal, a person with anger issues those kinds of wrong people.
Gosh
Look at the way she stills want to hold things back
If i was Victor, i could not be calm like that
You could not live with your own failure. Where did that bring you? Back to me.
Ohhh that's nice one 👌😅 thanos
I like that 😅
If he is a real man, he must not let her back at any cost. He can live alone or be with other woman but not with her
I am genuinely embarrassed for her😢. Tan said it best. She threw everything away for another married man.
Still scripts and dialogues needs to ve changed.
Tan should ask: "How can you be shameless asking for a second chamce when he dumped you?" Do I look like a looser to you?, Am I become that cheap and little to you?, Dont you have an inch of a remorse and how do you give my respect and dignity back?, I can possibly keep you as side piece, is it okay for you? If you really loved me that much😂
FACTS
Trust has already been lost, it is not life to have doubts about the rest of it, it is a living hell, it is even difficult to place trust in someone else.
She try make him her side dude it's a trap!!!!
1:03 - she tried to monkey branch from him and it did not work. Now she wants to come back. Art imitates life. Women do this ALL the time.
Whoever wrote the script for this specific story obviously has experience of this kind of betrayal. This person has painted a realistic picture of what some women do in life, cheat and then blame the husband.
She is less worthy than any random stranger you find on the street. At least they haven’t broken your heart
It wasn't a mistake, it was a choice. There's a difference. This is something I learned from Gibbs on NCIS. If you got a problem with your spouse, then get a damn divorce. And besides, if she loved him, she wouldn't have did what she did.
Once is a mistake, 6 months and keeping it secret is a choice.
Would have written this line”Bonnie , I my trust is you is broken, I wish you well but i can’t trust you .
I think it’s even disgusting that Bonnie thinks about such an offer, after what she did
Modern women have no shame.
@@BarnzTT Facts bro. Unfortunately this is women community nowadays. Men try to make them happy, woman cheats as a thank you and puts herself as victim. That simple
if she cheats, she is for the streets. they think the grass is greener on the other side and when they realize it isnt, they come back.
Don't get bitten twice from the same hole, This saying matches perfectly here😊😊😊😊
"I will do whatever it takes".... meaning...."I will try my best to manipulate you into thinking you want me back". Women ☕
Don't go back to her
If he takes her back, he's an idiot. She literally came crawling back because the guy LEFT HER for his wife. Tan is the second option.
Dude’s antenna’s were up👌🏼
Hopefully he didn’t take her back…
My man knows ALL the right questions!
“Ig we rly doing this”
“Yeah well thanks to u and your stupid choices”
Being a rebound really does suck...
You can't "make it up to you" with a man. Men aren't built for absorbing betrayal. We are built to provide and protect with our lives and we intend to give that commitment away to only one woman and only one time.
You finally hit a low point. You honestly think that tan is going to get back with you just because the man cheated with decided to go back to his wife.
Why didn’t Bonnie beg her lover
Dont waste your time looking back. You're not going that way.
-Ragnar Lothbrok (Vikings)
Tam didn't make a mistake! She is the one who cheated now she calling the shot. And saying she loves him but slept with another guy but dumped her. Well he will be so stupid if he gets back on her
“I was going to tell you when the time was right”.? In other words right after I got caught !!!
Stay single men, be strong
There's never a reason to talk to a cheater. They cannot love.
1:36 Thanfully this isnt a porn scene 😂😂😂
Tan RUN RUN away as fast as you can!
Bonnie loves Bonnie no one else 😂
Course correct yourself, it was the worst choice you ever made. You have done a vile thing and hurt someone, learn from it and do not repeat it.
No, she DOESN'T love you. You do not divorce someone you love, or cheat on them. Hate the way women throw around the phrase "I love you" when they do not mean it at all!
A mistake that you continued to make for 6 months. Just stop, take this L and leave him alone...✌️😶
Damn that's like a double slap. She cheats on them then tries to blame him. Then he leaves her and the other guy leaves her
I don't expect you to forgive me. It translate to I expect you to forgive me and why aren't we back together yet, bc it's your fault that I cheated. Lol.
For guys, the way you can tell if a woman loves you so much despite her unfaithfulness is if she sincerely apologizes to you for her trespasses with no hint of excuses, takes full accountability for her actions and asks for your forgiveness without asking you to take her back.
And if you love her just as much, your intuitions will give you the confidence to see past her failure to be faithful to you as a terrible lapse of judgement. Not an indictment of her character.
Nevertheless, you can either take her back or let her go. If you let her go, you bless the other man she will marry because she will give that man the greatest love he will ever know because of the pain inside her of losing you.
But the price you pay for letting her go is that you will forfeit that great love for yourself. Because the love you you recieve from the mercy you give will be greater than the love that was never put to the test.
Are you fucking kidding me. I don’t think she will be able to give love to another man. She will also ruin him.
It was best mostly for Tan to divorce because she broke his trust . Even for Bonnie too. She can learn from her mistakes and move forward. Those who cheat also need to learn how to move forward. They might not deserve but it’s the truth
Never be the 2nd choice
Take this advice for free. Taking a woman that cheated back will be the thing you will regret the most in your life
His better off without her cheating ex wife. And who wants to be someone who tried to go back with cause she was dump by her lover. And she didn't make a mistake she made a choice to ruined her marriage.
Never ever take a cheating partner back!! It will backfire on you
If you love some one you don't cheat very simple
I’m not mad at you for LYING I’m mad bcoz i can’t TRUST u !💯👌🏽
People there is no mistakes when a man or woman cheats or the other person. They made their choice, they choose the other person, go back to that other person. I am saying this because it happen to me 28 years ago.
Never be someone’s back up plan
I would’ve stopped her right there when she said remember when we first moved in
What’s the name of the movie?
Real life events regarding modern relationships/modern women into television shows...hope guys learn the lesson being taught by Tan...don't take back a cheater, especially when the only reason she is back is because her lover dumped her/it didn't work out for her. Tan was basically not good enough for Bonnie in Bonnie's eyes, and Bonnie was not good enough for her lover of six months in her lover's eyes. People don't like being taken for granted or being treated like a back-up plan.
Nah Bihhhh we're not ! 😂
She really tried to guilt trip a SWAT agent. 😂😂 spoiler, HE DID NOT TAKE HER CHEATING ASS BACK!. 😂
thats my go-to question when an ex reappears ... did you get dumped already? lol
never take an ex back.
Cheating is never a mistake.
When respect and trust do not exist in a marriage, it can no longer work.
A big plate of cheating, smothered with some lying ass gravy and a side of deceit
I will never let someone touch me if they cheated on me.
Tbh tan shouldn't have second thoughts bc he knows that she'll do it again, she left once what's one more, that she has no place here, especially the chemistry they had is gone
Nooooooo way - that was not a mistake Felicia, it was cold lying betrayal that got found out. Ya rolled the dice and came up snake eyes.
She doesn't deserve forgiveness.
I think in these situation he can pretend to start over again only just to get revenge on him by putting on conditions like you are not allowed to use any social media , not allowed to go out like party or movie without him , ... Then after sometime you can just bring your girl best friend and act like cheating in your own house ..... Then she will realise and frustrate then you should leave her ...tell me I am wrong
Hell nah I wouldn’t give her second chance !!!!!!
Grab your passports Gents.
It's time to go...
#passportbros4lyfe
Umm . There are cheaters all over the world.. I went ti Philippines, Japan, and china.. I F...d many married women there
Wow, treating you like a spare tire? And now she's including you into the mistake? Now she's telling him that she loves him by cheating on him? Tsk tsk.
Damn. No you don't, you cheated and were left with no options after.
What session and episode was fhis please send me fhanks for ur help 🙏
Man, this chic is a piece of work. Says I love you after cheating on him for 6 months. Then leaves him for her affair partner. Only to come back when dumped.
When they want to try and make it work because they’re about to be homeless
Not that its a good thing, but most men do not want to leave their wife for another woman. Its thrilling to have something "new" for a bit, but most men don't want to upend their lives, family or reputation.
I had respect for bonnie but im with Tan she fuqed around and found out
Same here.
once a cheater always a cheater.
Thank God Brother Tan moved on with the Reporter. I thought the writers would make him a Chump and take her back.
Wonder who Bonnie moved on with
@@1223steffenShe's moving on the streets, exactly Where she belongs
THE AUDACITY
Don’t think about it…
Where can i get this movie
I love you but I cheated cuz we were growing apart , huh.