Same. This comment made me happy😄. Cause all these days I thought I was the only one who don’t have any friend. (not saying *Friends* cause I don’t even have one.) 🙂😓
guys if you play any computer games find some ppl to play with and youll notice they are your friends now, or if you dont like them find other people to play with :D
This is very true! This goes on really bad at work. The one that is easy to spill everyone’s else’s stuff and talk about someone, is the one that will talk about you as well. Those kind of people are usually miserable.
Extroverts always think we hate them even though we just think inwardly. And then they feel exploited when we ask a favor without realizing we would do pretty much anything for them except be more extroverted.
Try to slowly change your ways :) You’ll find soon enough that more people will be nice to you and/or respect you as a person. Unless you know, you are introverted, antisocial, or just don’t like being with people then ig you don’t really need to change lol. (idk)
At least better than having those fake nice friends, I had a whole gang of them and now that I moved away from there, I got real friends for life and realised how messed up the way my "friends" treated me was.
a guy called reed in my class does this, he talks nice around the more popular ones and trash-talks me, he even left me to clean a bathroom once but i was like f this s im out
Actually I have a reason to be like this in a way. One I am not rude to people who don’t have power per say but if they’re beneath me I know my place and they should know there’s(this due to them being rude to me). The only reason I do this is because I don’t have many good friends to which I always ask for assignments or homework when needed. Besides that they’re the friends you don’t talk to out of school. Gossip is quite normal, of course I talk about how disrespectful everyone is. So being fake nice and happy has become a natural reaction. Yes, if this is a recurring thing with no reasoning such as also disrespect peers, then yes that’s when you definitely should be concerned.
Gossip is NOT normal, and why do you think of people as beneath you? Wow dude, you have some self reflecting to do. I also do, but I dont think of people as "beneath me" or gossip. Thats wasting energy bro
Whether you talk or not if you have that connect never shy away asking for any help from a friend. We all are busy hustling in our lives in our own way, be there when someone needs you instead of asking why they didn't call you earlier
This is exactly what my cousin sister does(nice with people who have power and also she is always bitching about her friends and how they irritate her), and by watching ur vids I got to know that she is also jealous of me cause ahe is always nice with me in person and she always try to show me down in a grp of people and she never appreciates me about anything that I do, I just thought that she wanted me to do better and she doesn't know how to motivate me that's why her attitude is like her but no no, she don't like me 🥲 and I really trusted her well before
*they only contact you when they need something* Yeah that's my life. Sometimes I am lonely asf and sometimes I am surrounded by people when they need something
I always fear being a fake.. and so this video gave me some confidence. Because, when around people of power, I certainly act with more respect for their position than I do my close friends, but I avoid acting any different then. And I hate gossip. I avoid spreading it as much as I can.
The first 2 are understandable cause some people don't like small talk and people will always act differently around others like if they have a crush on them
Thanks! You helped me spot my fake friend! I thought he was for a while but you helped me prove it! Thanks a lot Josh. And you just earned another follower lol
One of my classmates is like that.When she is with teacher she acts really nice but when she is with a part of out classmates she is so mean and I know she talks behind all of the classes back.And she wold always text me when she needed help with the homework but when I needed she didn't help me so I blocked her.
Hey Josh, finding these people arround me is rather easy, but I really struggle to deal with them, like this one guy constantly is shitting on people behind their back, but I cant avoid convesations with him without looking like a douchbag
No.2 always get me in my mind whenever I try to contact my old friends for something. I’m bad at socializing and I don’t usually talk to friends (unless you go out with them or something is up). So when I try to contact them for something, I think myself did I do it only because I want smth? Sometimes people do behaviors not because they’re bad but because for some people, it’s usual for them. For me I’m not the type who’s so open and talk things about me online.
Ok, I will sometimes act quite differently around teachers because of how they treat you. It’s a different relationship compared to friends, unless that teacher has created a good relationship of learning and mentorship. Around my boss however, I will act different again because they are a really nice person but again, that’s a different relationship. I’ve also noticed a lot of people (incl myself sometimes) are scared they are too clingy or too annoying to their friends so they don’t contact them outside of necessity.
I hate when she provokes me and only says sorry when she wants to play genshin with me and keeps competing with me. Then she's surprised when I leave her on delivered.
Another thing, when they realize they are losing your interest they become very manipulative. I know because I've experienced it quite a few times, one being recent actually-
There are some people out there that like to people please and will adapt to other peoples energies just so it’s comfortable and not awkward. Don’t get this mistaken for them being fake 🤷🏻♀️ it’s just how they are as people.
Many of my family members are manipulative, so because of that childhood of being around my parents acting like this to their friend I had sadly become this kind of person. I would like to change, though it is very hard for me since I am used to it.
wow this perfectly describes someone i used to be friends with. over tikw i realised he was a bad person and he became vwry aggressive and exibited these including spreading false rumors about me online behind my back after i stopped submitting to him and his manipulation over others including my friends
I wish I could have been aware of this earlier. So silly of me to think people have good intentions just because I do... I had to learn this lesson on my own skin mad it hurt. Not to mention the 7 most common manipulation techniques these people use. It's like: ✔️ ✔️...✔️, not even one with ✖️ It's disappointing... People need more such tips and warning signs, so thank you very much and keep up the great work!
What % is your battery on?
55% ;)
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11%
This is the most unrelated question, but 68%
69% (:
The awkward moment when you realise he didn’t do that iconic laugh
the awkward moment when you realize laughing probably wont be the most ideal thing to put in this type of video (fake friends)
Erwin??? What are you doing here. SACRIFICE THE YOUNG!!
He doesn't do the laugh when it's inappropriate or serious
Sinzou wo Sasageyo
@@kamran_aziz_69 yes
Ah yes, let's learn this just in case if I have friends in the future
Ayo I can be you friend :')
Same. This comment made me happy😄. Cause all these days I thought I was the only one who don’t have any friend. (not saying *Friends* cause I don’t even have one.) 🙂😓
@@yashiroyugi get online friends or just chat in discord
That's me lol this comment is *SOOOOOOO* accurate!
guys if you play any computer games find some ppl to play with and youll notice they are your friends now, or if you dont like them find other people to play with :D
If people gossip with you, they'll gossip about you.
This is very true! This goes on really bad at work. The one that is easy to spill everyone’s else’s stuff and talk about someone, is the one that will talk about you as well. Those kind of people are usually miserable.
Are you ok Josh Otusanya, you haven’t laughed.
Wait that was smooth by the way???
@@gamerkiler7360 explain yourself
@@KARMlCd3bt everybody realise 1 video of josh didn't laugh
This makes the comments flooded and might make the video more recomended
@@matthebee so how did you know?
@@basilplushie2534 i follow josh otusanya mwhheehhe
I talk less with my friends but that's only because I'm an introvert and shy , or else they admit I'm a really helpful friend
Hehe, same by now you prolly got over it!
Extroverts always think we hate them even though we just think inwardly. And then they feel exploited when we ask a favor without realizing we would do pretty much anything for them except be more extroverted.
Kinda awkward when you realize you do those things
It's kinda awkward when you think you do it all the time, but you actually don't do it.
It's time to stop being fake. Have some self respect for once in your life.
@@ibrahimwesam2727 the first step to improving is to understand that it's a problem
Try to slowly change your ways :) You’ll find soon enough that more people will be nice to you and/or respect you as a person. Unless you know, you are introverted, antisocial, or just don’t like being with people then ig you don’t really need to change lol. (idk)
everyone does it to some degree
Seeing the end of the video Josh doesn't laugh:
*THIS IS UNACCEPTABLE, BY THE GODS*
I was such a doormat I wish I could slap my old self for believing everything
SAME
And for me it was my closest cousin, I love her so much it just hurts to think all those years she's always been a selfish person
It is not you. It is them
Same I never stand up for myself and when I do, I’m doing too much. I’d feel bad if I stoped being their friend tho, lol help.
"When you not around, their probably talking about you"
Guess i have to stay with them 24/7
Lol 🤣, good luck with that 😂😂😂
This is exactly my “best friend”
I’m sorry I hope you find someone better
Thank you ☺️
Fucking sameee
Same 100
same man my best friend forgets me after 2 days
Okay so my best friend that has been my friend for 10 years does this. Whole the time. Ever since I know her-
in sorry man
Same😭😭
it doesn't necessarily mean shes a fake nice person 100% but it is concerning... you shoud probably make new friends
Same here!!!!!!!!!
we all in some way do it, we’re just not aware of it until it affects us.
The funny thing is that I haven’t really gotten to talk to people in person or have friends
At least better than having those fake nice friends, I had a whole gang of them and now that I moved away from there, I got real friends for life and realised how messed up the way my "friends" treated me was.
"Ah yes the floor here is made of floor"
what?
these are not always clear
@@Aethelhadas A lot of them are
@@A_Yk. For you
a guy called reed in my class does this, he talks nice around the more popular ones and trash-talks me, he even left me to clean a bathroom once but i was like f this s im out
I know so many of these people: acting super nice around powerful people and switching it up when it comes to people who aren't as important.
I do all of these! Wow!
me too！
Actually I have a reason to be like this in a way. One I am not rude to people who don’t have power per say but if they’re beneath me I know my place and they should know there’s(this due to them being rude to me). The only reason I do this is because I don’t have many good friends to which I always ask for assignments or homework when needed. Besides that they’re the friends you don’t talk to out of school. Gossip is quite normal, of course I talk about how disrespectful everyone is. So being fake nice and happy has become a natural reaction. Yes, if this is a recurring thing with no reasoning such as also disrespect peers, then yes that’s when you definitely should be concerned.
Gossip is NOT normal, and why do you think of people as beneath you? Wow dude, you have some self reflecting to do. I also do, but I dont think of people as "beneath me" or gossip. Thats wasting energy bro
@@Dave-dh7rt wait, gossiping isnt normal? I mean talking about others is a form of socializing right
@@spacecat942 yes
These videos are an eye opener.
Whether you talk or not if you have that connect never shy away asking for any help from a friend. We all are busy hustling in our lives in our own way, be there when someone needs you instead of asking why they didn't call you earlier
Damnn i didn't know im one of them
👀👀
@@JoshuaOtusanya Oh my god you notice me ,best day of my life😭
This is exactly what my cousin sister does(nice with people who have power and also she is always bitching about her friends and how they irritate her), and by watching ur vids I got to know that she is also jealous of me cause ahe is always nice with me in person and she always try to show me down in a grp of people and she never appreciates me about anything that I do, I just thought that she wanted me to do better and she doesn't know how to motivate me that's why her attitude is like her but no no, she don't like me 🥲 and I really trusted her well before
What is a cousin sister?
@@jurassicjack3320 sister of a cousin
@@ididsomeunspeakablethingsa4899 Isn't that still just a cousin?
@@jurassicjack3320 A female cousin
These videos are always things I already know but it’s nice to hear someone else talk about it.
Some people don't even realize they're doing this. It's sad.
*they only contact you when they need something*
Yeah that's my life.
Sometimes I am lonely asf and sometimes I am surrounded by people when they need something
Thanks for telling me about my dad's family.
Oh no you didn't! You did NOT just leave out the iconic laugh.
When you realize this defines your best friend 😵💫😭
Josh will always be real
Facts!
90% of my neighbors have done this in the 6 years I've known them
Huh say less all of my relatives and neighbours and friends have done same thing to me
I always fear being a fake.. and so this video gave me some confidence. Because, when around people of power, I certainly act with more respect for their position than I do my close friends, but I avoid acting any different then.
And I hate gossip. I avoid spreading it as much as I can.
Man actually teaching me how to life
Maturity is when you realize,
*YOU DO THIS* 😑
wait so it's normal or ok to do this??
No i dont do this but if you do it not cool man
@@kntrishdekanoidze1382 I don't really do it but almost every adult around me do it
The first 2 are understandable cause some people don't like small talk and people will always act differently around others like if they have a crush on them
i do the personality witch up with my s/o cause don't i want to seem mean :')
Claim your within an hour ticket here e
Let’s gooooo 🚀🚀
He is giving definition of my friend 😂😂
Basically everyone I meet before quarantine
I literally am wearing the same chain as you are!
Niiiiice!
He perfectly described a politician.
You just described my neighbor
*when you realize you have a friend like this*
That is me, I want to be super toxic but I want to be nice at the same time
I talk shit about people quite often
When you realise everyone around you is a fake nice person....
A genuine person wouldn't be disturbed by fake people.💯
when you realize that in your whole friend circle, there's only 1 not fake person
When you childhood best friend does all of these:
Middle schoolers “u talkin about me”
I rather have a person that admit they don't like me than a fake friend
When this describes your friend perfectly
This is why I doubt myself whenever someone says I'm a "nice person"
bro just perfectly described my bsf-💀
just found out one of my really good friends is toxic so i am in a great mood
Thanks! You helped me spot my fake friend! I thought he was for a while but you helped me prove it! Thanks a lot Josh. And you just earned another follower lol
Introverts who don't wanna starts a convo....
Preach!
Kinda awkward when you realize that you do all of these
Realizing that me and my friend are fake nice person
Dang g did this
👀👀
Sounds like my old coworkers 😅
When you are the smartest person in class: NuMbEr 2 AbUsE
I do 2 and 3 but I am super nice to everyone...
I do all of these, my friends also do all of these.
One of my classmates is like that.When she is with teacher she acts really nice but when she is with a part of out classmates she is so mean and I know she talks behind all of the classes back.And she wold always text me when she needed help with the homework but when I needed she didn't help me so I blocked her.
Hey Josh, finding these people arround me is rather easy, but I really struggle to deal with them, like this one guy constantly is shitting on people behind their back, but I cant avoid convesations with him without looking like a douchbag
No.2 always get me in my mind whenever I try to contact my old friends for something. I’m bad at socializing and I don’t usually talk to friends (unless you go out with them or something is up). So when I try to contact them for something, I think myself did I do it only because I want smth? Sometimes people do behaviors not because they’re bad but because for some people, it’s usual for them. For me I’m not the type who’s so open and talk things about me online.
Ok, I will sometimes act quite differently around teachers because of how they treat you. It’s a different relationship compared to friends, unless that teacher has created a good relationship of learning and mentorship. Around my boss however, I will act different again because they are a really nice person but again, that’s a different relationship. I’ve also noticed a lot of people (incl myself sometimes) are scared they are too clingy or too annoying to their friends so they don’t contact them outside of necessity.
Ah, middle management.
You just described my aunt,uncle, grandparents, and cousins
I hate when she provokes me and only says sorry when she wants to play genshin with me and keeps competing with me. Then she's surprised when I leave her on delivered.
I needed this advice
now I’ve realized that the people that I work and talk all day are like this
The advice is so nice. 👍
You just described all the people I know in life!
Dude, my "friend" always ask me for stuff💀💀💀
This is true for most people though not just nice fake people.
This is the definition of my friend
This has help me out alot now thx
Another thing, when they realize they are losing your interest they become very manipulative. I know because I've experienced it quite a few times, one being recent actually-
Thanks for that information
That one friend at school ☠️
Not him describing most of my "friends" in my school
Talking bad about others behind their back
My whole family and friends group:
Well now I know I have like 13 fake friends in my class XD
hmm reminds me about my school mate- thanks for the advice i won’t be talking to them.
There are some people out there that like to people please and will adapt to other peoples energies just so it’s comfortable and not awkward. Don’t get this mistaken for them being fake 🤷🏻♀️ it’s just how they are as people.
When you realise all of your class is what he said
Relatable.i have literally that one friend
*me and my bsf staring at each other*
I act different around my mom and my teachers then I do with my friends lol
yeah same, I think it meant around different people of their age
Many of my family members are manipulative, so because of that childhood of being around my parents acting like this to their friend I had sadly become this kind of person. I would like to change, though it is very hard for me since I am used to it.
You just described my ex best friend
That was smooth by the way where did you get that from?
Lol 😂 that’s everyone around me after my promotion !
Hold on, so u r saying me, every person I met in my life till now is a *fake nice person* ?!
My whole class be like:
wow this perfectly describes someone i used to be friends with. over tikw i realised he was a bad person and he became vwry aggressive and exibited these including spreading false rumors about me online behind my back after i stopped submitting to him and his manipulation over others including my friends
I can actually relate first two points,A friend of mine did same things to me .
As a fake nice person I confirm that's 💯 % true
I wish I could have been aware of this earlier. So silly of me to think people have good intentions just because I do...
I had to learn this lesson on my own skin mad it hurt. Not to mention the 7 most common manipulation techniques these people use.
It's like: ✔️ ✔️...✔️, not even one with ✖️
It's disappointing...
People need more such tips and warning signs, so thank you very much and keep up the great work!
Another one :
When they "help" u only to call in favors in the future