The power of crying - 6 Minute English

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  • Do you feel better after a good cry? Do women cry more than men? Is it more acceptable nowadays for people to cry in public? Neil and Sam talk about it and help you learn vocabulary in this free English lesson ... without the tears.
    This week's question
    According to a study from 2017 conducted in the UK, on average, how many times a year do women cry? Is it:
    a) 52
    b) 72
    c) 102
    Listen to the programme to find out the answer.
    Vocabulary
    be taken seriously
    be treated as being deserving of attention or respect
    get a label
    be thought of as having a particular character or nature, often unfairly
    final straw
    further problem or difficulty, usually minor in itself, which comes after a series of other problems and makes you want to give up
    resentments
    feelings of anger because you think you have been treated unfairly or because you have been forced to accept something that you don’t like
    weeping
    crying tears
    backlog
    accumulation of uncompleted matters that you should have dealt with before and must now do
    To download the audio and a transcript, go to our website: www.bbc.co.uk/learningenglish...
    𝐌𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝟔 𝐌𝐢𝐧𝐮𝐭𝐞 𝐄𝐧𝐠𝐥𝐢𝐬𝐡 𝐞𝐩𝐢𝐬𝐨𝐝𝐞𝐬:
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    #vocabulary #crying #bbclearningenglish #6minuteenglish #tears

КОМЕНТАРІ • 327

  • @bbclearningenglish
    @bbclearningenglish  4 роки тому +102

    When did you last cry? That was the question we asked our English speakers. Learn how to talk about emotions like a native speaker! ua-cam.com/video/FXTCcPQ_1Fk/v-deo.html

    • @kingofworld750
      @kingofworld750 4 роки тому +5

      Tomorrow i was crying

    • @kingofworld750
      @kingofworld750 4 роки тому +4

      But Today I am Very Happy

    • @lenguyen1967
      @lenguyen1967 4 роки тому +1

      I last cried when I watched Vox’s video about potential female presidents of the US

    • @myphone4008
      @myphone4008 4 роки тому +1

      @@kingofworld750 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

    • @kingofworld750
      @kingofworld750 4 роки тому +2

      @@myphone4008 who are you

  • @hanhlinhnguyen7216
    @hanhlinhnguyen7216 4 роки тому +277

    1. resentment (n) a feeling of anger because you have been forced to accept something that you do not like
    2. undealt-with : these feelings can create a backlog
    3. backlog : an accumulation of issues that you should have dealt with before but didn't
    4. weeping : crying
    5. the final straw means a further problem which itself might be insignificant but which finally makes you want to give up
    6. get a label: becoming known as someone with a particular kind of personality, even though that may not be true

    • @bbclearningenglish
      @bbclearningenglish  4 роки тому +33

      Thanks for sharing this. It's really useful for learners! 👍

    • @tanjeelaislam9049
      @tanjeelaislam9049 4 роки тому +3

      Its really useful for learning vocabulary

    • @chinguyen4108
      @chinguyen4108 4 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much 😍😍

    • @SBSinEnglish
      @SBSinEnglish 2 роки тому +2

      so get a label seem to be similar to get Prejudice from someone even though he/she does not know exactly who we are, right?
      5. Does this have the same meaning as" Giọt nước tràn ly"?

    • @shehanirebecca7642
      @shehanirebecca7642 Рік тому

      I am so thankfull for you for what you are doing ❤️👍

  • @mamymimma
    @mamymimma 4 роки тому +358

    I love men who express their emotions

  • @GOALSEnglish
    @GOALSEnglish 4 роки тому +61

    This is a great topic. Often times people don't want to talk about strong emotions, but it's so important!

  • @meghasingh6121
    @meghasingh6121 4 роки тому +63

    Last night I cried 😭
    it's not because I got hurt but I got a call from one of my old friends she was concerned about me and my health as we all are aware of the current situation we r home quarantine. I really felt so good as she showed her love to me and I started crying on the call .
    So sometime it's good to have tears
    Beacuse they reveal our personality and depth of love .
    They could be understood as a words if someone feel them by heart .

    • @bbclearningenglish
      @bbclearningenglish  4 роки тому +19

      It sounds like you really appreciate your good friend! Yes, sometimes crying can help reveal our true emotions and can help us understand our hidden feelings about something. Thanks for being honest and open and sharing your story with us. 🧡

    • @mohammedzahboune824
      @mohammedzahboune824 4 роки тому +2

      Compassionate and affectionate people cry.

    • @meghasingh6121
      @meghasingh6121 4 роки тому +1

      Yes maybe I am one of those who get attached with people by heart not by name

    • @chinguyen4108
      @chinguyen4108 4 роки тому

      ❤❤❤😊

    • @SS-np2ub
      @SS-np2ub 3 роки тому

      素敵ですね💖

  • @chinguyen4108
    @chinguyen4108 4 роки тому +26

    I am the person who often cry because of very normal things. I know it is not good but I feel relaxed when I can express my emotions. 😭😍😍😍thank you so much for useful lessons.😍😍😍

  • @haredraage951
    @haredraage951 3 роки тому +23

    This lesson is very important for the foreign students.

  • @lamtuengo4851
    @lamtuengo4851 4 роки тому +313

    Neil
    Hello. This is 6 Minute English from BBC Learning English. I’m Neil.
    Sam
    And I’m Sam.
    Neil
    Do you cry easily, Sam? I mean, when was the last time you cried?
    Sam
    Let me think… Last week watching a movie, probably. I was watching a really dramatic film and in one scene, the heroine gets separated from her children. I just burst out crying. How about you Neil - when was the last time you cried?
    Neil
    Men don’t cry, Sam.
    Sam
    Come on, Neil! That’s a bit stereotypical, isn’t it? - the idea that men don’t show their emotions and women cry all the time.
    Neil
    Well, that’s an interesting point, Sam, because in today’s programme we’re discussing crying. We’ll be investigating the reasons why we cry and looking at some of the differences between men and women and between crying in public and in private. And of course, we’ll be learning some related vocabulary along the way.
    Sam
    I guess it’s kind of true that women do cry more than men. People often think crying is only about painful feelings but we also cry to show joy and when we are moved by something beautiful like music or a painting.
    Neil
    So, maybe women are just more in touch with their feelings and that’s why they cry more. Well actually, Sam, that brings me to our quiz question. According to a study from 2017 conducted in the UK, on average, how many times a year do women cry? Is it:
    a) 52
    b) 72, or
    c) 102
    Sam
    Hmm, it's a tricky question, Neil. I mean, there are so many different reasons why people cry. And what makes me cry might make someone else laugh. I think some of my female friends probably cry around once a week, so I‘ll guess the answer is a) 52.
    Neil
    OK, Sam. We’ll find out later if you were right. Now, while it may be true that men cry less often, it also seems that they feel less embarrassed about crying in public.
    Sam
    This may be because of differences in how men and women think others will view their public displays of emotion. Here’s BBC Radio 4’s Woman’s Hour speaking to therapist Joanna Cross about the issue of crying at work.
    Joanna Cross
    Let’s take the workplace. If you’ve got somebody who seems to cry regularly, I think that’s not helpful for the individual because then if they cry over something that really is important to them, they might not be taken so seriously - or they get a label. But I do think crying is often a build-up of frustration and undealt-with situations and it’s a bit of a final straw moment.
    Neil
    So people who regularly cry at work risk not being taken seriously - not being treated as deserving attention or respect.
    Sam
    And they might even get a label - become thought of as having a particular character whether that’s true or not. Here’s Joanna Cross again:
    Joanna Cross
    You build up your resentments, your lack of boundaries, not being able to say ‘no’ and then somebody says, ‘Can you go and make a cup of tea?’ and you suddenly find yourself weeping. And everybody says, ‘What’s wrong with her?’ but actually that’s often a backlog of situations.
    Neil
    So, a common reason for crying at work seems to be a build-up of resentments - feelings of anger when you think you have been treated unfairly or have been forced to accept something you don’t like.
    Sam
    When left undealt with, these feelings can create a backlog - an accumulation of issues that you should have dealt with before but didn’t.
    Neil
    Right. And then, like Joanna says, someone asks you to do something very simple and easy, like make a cup of tea, and you start weeping - another word for crying.
    Sam
    That’s a good example of a final straw moment, a term which comes from the expression, ‘The straw that broke the camel’s back’. The final straw means a further problem which itself might be insignificant but which finally makes you want to give up.
    Neil
    I hope this programme won’t be the final straw for us, Sam.
    Sam
    I doubt it, Neil. The only time I cry at work is when you used to bring in your onion sandwiches for lunch. In fact, I can feel a tear rolling down my cheek right now…
    Neil
    Ah, so that counts as one of your cries, Sam. Remember, I asked you on average how many times a year women in the UK cry - and you said?
    Sam
    I said a) 52.
    Neil
    Well, don’t cry when I tell you that you were wrong. The actual answer was c) 72 times a year.
    Sam
    Which on average is more than men, but less than parents of new-born babies, both mothers and fathers. They cry almost as much as their babies!
    Neil
    Today, we’ve been talking about crying - or weeping, as it’s sometimes called.
    Sam
    People who often cry at work risk not being taken seriously - not treated as deserving of attention or respect.
    Neil
    This means they might get a label - becoming known as someone with a particular kind of personality, even though that may not be true.
    Sam
    But crying is also a healthy way of expressing emotions. It can help deal with resentments - feelings of anger that you have been treated unfairly.
    Neil
    If we don’t deal with these feelings in some way, they can grow into a backlog - an accumulation of unresolved issues that you now need to deal with.
    Sam
    And if you don’t deal with them, you might become a ticking bomb waiting to explode. Then anything someone says to you can become the final straw - the last small problem which makes you want to give up and maybe start crying.
    Neil
    [Crying]
    Sam
    What’s the matter, Neil? Was it something I said?
    Neil
    No, Sam - I’m crying because it’s the end of the programme!
    Sam
    Ahh, don’t worry because we’ll be back soon for another edition of 6 Minute English. But bye for now.
    Neil
    Bye.

  • @5MinutePsychology
    @5MinutePsychology 3 роки тому +66

    Great topic! If we do not express our emotions, they starting eating us from the inside. Emotionally intelligent people are able to speak about their emotions in a civilised way. This makes them better and stronger and it helps them build long-lasting relationships.

  • @JPJuniorful
    @JPJuniorful 3 роки тому +16

    IT's an amazing way to learn english :)
    I study english for more then 10 years and all of your are always inviting a new word I never ever thought, read or even heard. Thank you BBC learn english to making my nights

  • @Amy-jk4vk
    @Amy-jk4vk 11 місяців тому +6

    Love how they recap the vocabulary at the end by really use them in context. Thanks for this episode!!!

  • @phyuaung530
    @phyuaung530 Рік тому +4

    When I was sad, I cry. When I was happy a lot, I cry. When I was depressed, I cry. When I was furious, I cry. When I get trouble, I cry. When I watch dramatic movie, it touched me and I cry. The regular thing that I do the most in my life is crying. Sometime it makes someone else laugh because of my unreasonable crying. And I accept the fact that crying is not someone else's weakness, it's the way to release his/her emotion. You can cry as much as you wish but what the matter is not to give up. Whenever you fall, you have to pick yourself up.

  • @linhoan2951
    @linhoan2951 4 роки тому +11

    Her accent is so beautiful 😍❤️

  • @imrankhosa2422
    @imrankhosa2422 4 роки тому +13

    Whenever I watch sad scene in a drama or film ,I start weeping

  • @moulmour
    @moulmour 4 роки тому +56

    The last time I cried, was yesterday when I was chopping onions.

    • @hassansher8955
      @hassansher8955 4 роки тому

      Hahaha

    • @princetripathi3141
      @princetripathi3141 4 роки тому

      🤣🤣

    • @newday8074
      @newday8074 3 роки тому

      Kamel do you really chop onions?

    • @moulmour
      @moulmour 3 роки тому

      @@newday8074 I think today I'm gonna cry for real because I made a car crash, that caused big damage to the car which's not mine.

    • @newday8074
      @newday8074 3 роки тому

      @@moulmour really sorry kamel to hear that, Thank God you're safe what matters most

  • @emyeman4575
    @emyeman4575 4 роки тому +6

    Hi 🙋🏼‍♀️
    Good topic as always
    My last cry was yesterday evening 😢
    While I was watching a movie I started shedding tears spontaneously

  • @azucenaborrajopalma1170
    @azucenaborrajopalma1170 Рік тому +1

    Such a great video to check vocabulary and pronunciation !!!cheers for all.

  • @lilybeth7266
    @lilybeth7266 4 роки тому +6

    There are other kinds of 'weeping' , as I see it :crying with no tears like when you cry inside yourself despite a smiley face or when you hold back crying to build strength for others, or even when crying matches with personal dissatisfaction . This strange time has taught us to cry a lot and in different forms. Don't reject it, it may point out we are simply human. Take care, 🇮🇹

  • @unzilaareej1583
    @unzilaareej1583 Рік тому +6

    Last time I cried in my university because I felt resented because of my new friends.they
    never concider my opinion and it created a backlog and one day It made me weep out at my campus.the final straw that made my cried was when my teacher started scolding me and labeled me as a irresponsible person I could say I was a ticking bomb at that time.

  • @hadeelmahmoud3306
    @hadeelmahmoud3306 3 роки тому +4

    I cried today because of the quarantine and all the conditions that surround me and I felt relaxed after crying.

  • @minhngoc7236
    @minhngoc7236 4 роки тому +1

    Thanks BBC, I learned a myriad of new lexiels in this video. Video is quite interesting and helpful. Hoping BBC will produce more video such useful.

  • @blasnavarretearaujo-pv2vu
    @blasnavarretearaujo-pv2vu Рік тому

    " Thank you " People really so lovely, grettings indeed.

  • @wingwong8670
    @wingwong8670 Рік тому +1

    nice programme. Thank you BBC

  • @-ccm7632
    @-ccm7632 9 місяців тому

    这个视频真的很有深度,涉及到了哭泣的力量,非常吸引人。我喜欢这个主题!

  • @xuanmai6294
    @xuanmai6294 4 роки тому +35

    I think I am a sensitive girl, so I can cry easily everywhere. Sometimes, I want to control my emotion to make myself not cry, but this thing is very dificult.

  • @balakrishnankamala3744
    @balakrishnankamala3744 Рік тому

    I love Neil's voice

  • @shahriarhossainemon6736
    @shahriarhossainemon6736 Рік тому +2

    A great series for newcomers.

  • @najatarabia741
    @najatarabia741 2 роки тому +3

    I hate the fact that stereotypes shape how we behave e. Men need to cry and show emotions, they are humans too and they are NOT weak .

  • @itsme-zw2vf
    @itsme-zw2vf 2 роки тому +1

    thanks BBC learning

  • @mohammedzahboune824
    @mohammedzahboune824 4 роки тому +12

    The last time I cried was a month ago. I was watching a movie with my wife. It was a scene that moved my emotions. I felt my eyes full tears. Men cry too.

    • @bbclearningenglish
      @bbclearningenglish  4 роки тому +4

      Absolutely they do! Which film was it is?

    • @mohammedzahboune824
      @mohammedzahboune824 4 роки тому +2

      @@bbclearningenglish "The light between oceans" is the movie that made me shed tears. It's a romance / drama film.

  • @tgchan
    @tgchan 4 роки тому

    Thank you.

  • @masterofnone930
    @masterofnone930 4 роки тому

    I love that program ❤️

  • @lola-tr3ss
    @lola-tr3ss 4 роки тому +1

    merci pour cette vidéo !!!

  • @user-ud8fk5lz9w
    @user-ud8fk5lz9w Рік тому

    I am always injoy it b.b.c.learning english rather good listening can hear more about version some are same and different but only have time for listening many words to learn thanks.

  • @hieunguyen5817
    @hieunguyen5817 4 роки тому

    Thanks for helpful video😍😍😍😍. I can learn new words about this

  • @left1375
    @left1375 4 роки тому

    Thankyou

  • @Aleh_yafremau
    @Aleh_yafremau 4 роки тому +14

    Interesting information. I think this is a great power - to have a possibility to cry. Not everyone can give this kind of emotion. It isn’t a weakness. Not necessarily. Moreover, sometimes everyone needs to cry. PS: take care , guys.

    • @IGOR-wz8id
      @IGOR-wz8id 4 роки тому +1

      I guess some people wanna cry but can’t. For example I can be very upset by something, but since I can’t make any tears people think that I don’t have any serious emotion. At least my wife often thinks this way

    • @Aleh_yafremau
      @Aleh_yafremau 4 роки тому

      IGOR yeah! Different people- different emotions. It’s okay )

  • @mohammedzahboune824
    @mohammedzahboune824 4 роки тому

    Fantastic standard English

  • @angelmorocho2132
    @angelmorocho2132 2 роки тому

    You make a great videos. I to greateful with you.. I hope that you keep making more videos like these, I am able to understand almost everything, what are you trying to say !!!!
    Thanks again!!!!!

  • @roxanarossini570
    @roxanarossini570 4 роки тому +1

    I cry almost once a day!! I´m very sensitive and cry seeing the news, watching a film, when I remember my father or my children write to me a letter...

  • @tuyetngannguyen2213
    @tuyetngannguyen2213 Рік тому +1

    I love this topic. It’s so useful for leaners. I’m the person who often cry because of normal things.🥹 But I feel comfortable when I can express my feelings 🥰

  • @KhanhLinh-wj5uy
    @KhanhLinh-wj5uy 4 роки тому +2

    thank you for this video and vocabulary!

  • @hilmilafci447
    @hilmilafci447 4 роки тому +2

    When i think moments far away from today i feel it makes me weep otherwise when i remember my backlog resentments i stand and stop weeping

  • @martaaparicio4207
    @martaaparicio4207 4 роки тому

    This is very well

  • @binurajendran6685
    @binurajendran6685 9 місяців тому

    In this video is very interesting for me. It help more information thanks for bbc english

  • @hoangkhanhtran1619
    @hoangkhanhtran1619 7 місяців тому

    I think it is important to show your emotion and express your thought by crying, and it nothing to be ashamed

  • @lifeofsanil566
    @lifeofsanil566 Рік тому

    Really this video helpful for me.

  • @JordanA-ui3cv
    @JordanA-ui3cv 3 роки тому +4

    CC-
    Neil-Hello, this is six-minute English from BBC Learning English. I’m Neil.
    Sam-And I’m Sam.
    Neil-Do you cry easily, Sam? I mean, when was the last time you cried?
    Sam- Let me think…. Uh last week watching a movie probably, I was watching a really dramatic film and in one scene, the Heroine gets separated from her children. I just burst out crying. How about you Neil, when was the last time you cried?
    Neil- Ohh, men don’t cry, Sam.
    Sam- Oh come on Neil that’s a bit stereotypical, isn’t it? The idea that men don’t show their emotions and women cry all the time.
    Neil- Well, that’s an interesting point Sam because in todays program we are discussing crying. Well be investigating the reasons why we cry and looking at some of the differences between men and women and between crying in public and in private. And of course we will be learning some related vocabulary along the way.
    Sam- I guess it is kind of true that women cry more then men. People often think that crying is only about painful feelings, but we also cry to show joy and when we are moved by something beautiful like music or a painting.
    Neil- So, maybe women are just more in touch with their feelings and that’s why they cry more?
    Well actually Sam, that brings me to our quiz question. According to a study from 2017 conducted in the UK, on average, how many times a year do women cry? Is it A (52)? B (72)? Or C (102)?
    Sam- hmmm, it’s a tricky question, Neil. I mean there are so many different reasons why people cry. And what makes me cry, might make someone else laugh. I think some of my female friends probably cry around once a week so, ill guess the answer is A, fifty-two.
    Neil- Ok Sam, we will find out later if you were right. Now, while it may be true that men cry less often, it also seems they feel less embarrassed about crying in public.
    Sam- this may be because of differences in how men and women think other will view there public displays of emotion. Here’s BBC’s Radio 4’s Women’s Hour speaking to therapist Joanna Cross about the issue of crying at work.
    Joanna- Let’s take the workplace. If you got somebody who seems to cry regularly, I think that’s not helpful to the individual because if they cry over something that really is important, they might not be taken as seriously or they get a label. But I do think crying is often a build-up of frustration and undealt-with situations and it’s a bit of a final straw moment.
    Neil- So, people who regularly cry at work risk not being taken seriously, not being treated as deserving attention or respect.
    Sam- And they might even get a label, being thought of as having a particular character, whether that’s true or not, here’s Joanna Cross again:
    Joanna- You build your resentment, your lack of boundaries, not being able to say no, and then somebody says, “can you go make a cup of tea?” And you suddenly find yourself weeping and everybody says, “what’s wrong with her?”, you know, but actually that’s often a backlog of um, situations.
    Neil- So, a common reason for crying at works seems to be a build-up of resentments- feeling of anger when you think you have been treated unfairly or have been forced to accept something you don’t like.
    Sam- When left undealt- with, these feelings can create a backlog- an accumulation of issues that you should have dealt-with before but didn’t.
    Neil- Right. And then, like Joanna says, someone asks you to do something very simple and easy, like make a cup of tea, and you start weeping- another word for crying.
    Sam- That’s a good example of a final straw moment- a term which comes from the expression, “the straw that broke the camel’s back”. The final straw means a further problem, which itself might be insignificant but which finally makes you want to give up.
    Neil- I hope this program won’t be the final straw for us, Sam.
    Sam- (chuckles) I doubt it, Neil. The only time I cry at work is when you used to bring in your onion sandwiches for lunch. In fact I can feel a tear rolling down my cheek right now.
    Neil- Ah, so that counts as one of your cries, Sam. Remember I asked you how many times on average how many times a-year women in the UK cry and you said:
    Sam- I said A (52).
    Neil- Well, don’t cry when I tell you that you were wrong, the actual answer was C, seventy-two times a year.
    Sam-Which is on average more than men. But less than parents of newborn babies- both mothers and fathers. They cry almost as much as their babies.
    Neil- (chuckles) Today, we’ve been talking about crying- or weeping, as its sometimes called.
    Sam- People who often cry at work risk not being taken seriously- not treated as deserving of attention or respect.
    Neil- This means they might get a label- becoming known as someone with a particular kind of personality, even though that may not be true.
    Sam- But crying is also a healthy way of expressing emotions. It can help deal with resentments- feeling of anger that you have been treated unfairly.
    Neil- If we don’t deal with these feelings in some way, they can grow into a backlog- an accumulation of unresolved issues we now need to deal with.
    Sam- And if you don’t deal with them, you might become a ticking bomb waiting to explode. Then anything someone says to you, can become a final straw- the last small problem which make you want to give up and maybe start crying.
    Neil- (imitates weeping)
    Sam- (chuckles) What’s the matter, Neil? Was it something I said?
    Neil- (imitates weeping) No Sam. I’m crying because it’s the end of the program!
    Sam- Ahh, don’t worry because we will be back soon for another edition of 6 Minute English. But, bye for now.
    Neil- Bye.
    (theme song playing)
    Narrator- 6-minute English from the BBC
    Girl talking- Hi everyone, we hoped you enjoyed that video and we have so many more just like it, so if you don’t want to miss a single one, make sure to subscribe and we will see you regularly. Hope to see you soon, bye guys!

  • @drsyedmohammadfazlullah8432
    @drsyedmohammadfazlullah8432 3 роки тому +1

    Two days back I cried and shed tears.

  • @candytwiggytwist3506
    @candytwiggytwist3506 4 роки тому

    Crying should be respected more, it's so human!

  • @user-hl6su7cr3r
    @user-hl6su7cr3r 11 місяців тому

    Very good

  • @_sherbaevna.91
    @_sherbaevna.91 11 місяців тому

    And thanks so much for video. I'm enjoying seeing this podcast.

  • @vivekvv4587
    @vivekvv4587 10 місяців тому

    Good topic

  • @whyyoutagmoi
    @whyyoutagmoi Рік тому +1

    Am blissed that God blessed me with cry superpower like these days I cry just to get a natural blush💀

  • @user-kn2dq2fb3z
    @user-kn2dq2fb3z Рік тому

    Thanks alot really I get alot benefits

  • @zabiullahnoori4151
    @zabiullahnoori4151 4 роки тому +1

    thanks from bbc learning english, it can help me to learn some new experisions and phrases... why more women cry than men? and the last time you did cry...actually last time i cried on monday evening when i saw a movie about divorce and their child was crying...

  • @abuzarkhan4071
    @abuzarkhan4071 3 роки тому

    I love BBC learning English i have learning a lot of them

  • @kiranshrestha1109
    @kiranshrestha1109 4 роки тому +2

    I'm listening

  • @mayanlogos92
    @mayanlogos92 Рік тому +1

    Backlog - accumulation of issues let unsolved
    Strawmoment - the final straw :)))

  • @hieukhong6697
    @hieukhong6697 2 роки тому +3

    Hello. This is 6 Minute English from BBC Learning English. I'm Neil. And I'm Sam. Do you cry easily, Sam? I mean, when was the last time you cried? Let me think... Last week watching a movie, probably. I was watching a really dramatic film and in one scene, the heroine gets separated from her children. I just burst out crying. How about you Neil - when was he last time you cried? Men don't cry, Sam. Come on, Neil! That's a bit stereotypical, isn't it? - the idea that men don't show their emotions and women cry all the time. Well, that's an interesting point, Sam, because in today's programme we're discussing crying. We'll be investigating the reasons why we cry and looking at some of the differences between men and women and between crying in public and in private. And of course, we'll be learning some related vocabulary along the way. I guess it's kind of true that women do cry more than men. People often think crying is only about painful feelings but we also cry to show joy and when we are moved by something beautiful like music or a painting. So, maybe women are just more in touch with their feelings and that's why they cry more. Well actually, Sam, that brings me to our quiz question. According to a study from 2017 conducted in the UK, on average, how many times a year do women cry? Is it: a) 52, b) 72, or c) 102? Hmm, it's a tricky question, Neil. I mean, there are so many different reasons why people cry. And what makes me cry might make someone else laugh. I think some of my female friends probably cry around once a week, so I'll guess the answer is a) 52. OK, Sam. We'll find out later if you were right. Now, while it may be true that men cry less often, it also seems that they feel less embarrassed about crying in public. This may be because of differences in how men and women think others will view their public displays of emotion. Here's BBC Radio 4's Woman's Hour speaking to therapist Joanna Cross about the issue of crying at work. Let's take the workplace. If you've got somebody who seems to cry regularly, I think that's not helpful for the individual because then if they cry over something that really is important to them, they might not be taken so seriously - or they get a label. But I do think crying is often a build-up of frustration and undealt-with situations and it's a bit of a final straw moment. So people who regularly cry at work risk not being taken seriously - not being treated as deserving attention or respect. And they might even get a label - become thought of as having a particular character, whether that's true or not. Here's Joanna Cross again: You build up your resentments, your lack of boundaries, not being able to say 'no' and then somebody says, 'Can you go and make a cup of tea?' and you suddenly find yourself weeping. And everybody says, 'What's wrong with her?', you know, but actually that's often a backlog of situations. So, a common reason for crying at work seems to be a build-up of resentments - feelings of anger when you think you have been treated unfairly or have been forced to accept something you don't like. When left undealt with, these feelings can create a backlog - an accumulation of issues that you should have dealt with before but didn't. Right. And then, like Joanna says, someone asks you to do something very simple and easy, like make a cup of tea, and you start weeping - another word for crying. That's a good example of a final straw moment, a term which comes from the expression, 'The straw that broke the camel's back'. The final straw means a further problem which itself might be insignificant but which finally makes you want to give up. I hope this programme won't be the final straw for us, Sam. I doubt it, Neil. The only time I cry at work is when you used to bring in your onion sandwiches for lunch. In fact, I can feel a tear rolling down my cheek right now... Ah, so that counts as one of your cries, Sam. Remember, I asked you on average how many times a year women in the UK cry - and you said? I said a) 52. Well, don't cry when I tell you that you were wrong. The actual answer was c) 72 times a year. Which on average is more than men, but less than parents of new-born babies, both mothers and fathers. They cry almost as much as their babies! Today, we've been talking about crying - or weeping, as it's sometimes called. People who often cry at work risk not being taken seriously - not treated as deserving of attention or respect. This means they might get a label - becoming known as someone with a particular kind of personality, even though that may not be true. But crying is also a healthy way of expressing emotions. It can help deal with resentments - feelings of anger that you have been treated unfairly. If we don't deal with these feelings in some way, they can grow into a backlog - an accumulation of unresolved issues that you now need to deal with. And if you don't deal with them, you might become a ticking bomb waiting to explode. Then anything someone says to you can become the final straw - the last small problem which makes you want to give up and maybe start crying. What's the matter, Neil? Was it something I said? No, Sam - I'm crying because it's the end of the programme! Ahh, don't worry because we'll be back soon for another edition of 6 Minute English. But bye for now. Bye.

    • @Nuraylys
      @Nuraylys 7 місяців тому

      Thank you🙏

  • @shafiullahshams3210
    @shafiullahshams3210 4 роки тому +2

    I dont remember my last cry but Surely weeping is a great way to Reduce anger.

  • @nale6657
    @nale6657 2 роки тому +4

    The last time I cried was three days ago. The reason is my father scold me because I can not cook well as he expects. Actually, I'm not a sensitive girl, but this time I cried. Maybe, that is the final straw. My father is very easy to anger and I hate that. Anyway, after crying, I feel better and I think we should express our emotions by this way. Don't repress.

  • @thidavuthy6578
    @thidavuthy6578 4 роки тому +1

    I love BBB learning English.

  • @kieuoanhduong2296
    @kieuoanhduong2296 4 роки тому +9

    If i remember correctly, it was last month. When i had read a book was called "The most beautiful goodbye", i was crying a lot. Well, actually i am not good in control emotions.

    • @bbclearningenglish
      @bbclearningenglish  4 роки тому +3

      It must have been a powerful book to have made you cry! Did it make you cry with happiness or with sadness?

    • @sugarforlife9313
      @sugarforlife9313 4 роки тому +1

      Đấy có phải là cuốn lời chia tay đẹp đẽ nhất của tgia người hàn quốc k bạn oi? có lần mình định đọc cuốn í mà giờ vẫn chưa đọc vì chưa được ai review cho 😀

    • @kieuoanhduong2296
      @kieuoanhduong2296 4 роки тому +1

      @@sugarforlife9313 đúng rui bạn ơi, mình đọc quyển này chưa được nửa truyện đã khóc nức nở luôn =)) mạch truyện nhẹ nhàng nhưng vẫn rất cuốn. Cộng thêm việc xoáy sâu vào tâm lý nhân vật ấy nên mình thấy cực cảm động. Đọc xong cảm thấy trân trọng gia đình esp mẹ mình cả nghìn lần.

    • @ngouctruong7656
      @ngouctruong7656 4 роки тому

      Im realize have a lot of Vietnamese in here. K biết viết thế này đúng ngữ pháp chưa nhỉ 😅

  • @laphoangkim4784
    @laphoangkim4784 3 роки тому +10

    0:27 burst out
    2:04 embarrassed about
    2:37 2:50 be taken seriously
    2:45 3:55 (final) straw moment
    3:07 build-up of resentment (a feeling of deep and bitter anger and ill)
    3:39 5:27 backlog (​a quantity of work that should have been done already, but has not yet been done)
    3:53 weeping = crying

  • @aminan1604
    @aminan1604 4 роки тому

    Iam new here...to improve my english speaking, vocabulary etc.....i really love ur progrm.....thanks a lot for this...🤗🤗

    • @bbclearningenglish
      @bbclearningenglish  4 роки тому +1

      Happy to hear that! Welcome to our page! We're glad to have you. If you have any questions, just let us know! 😃

  • @justinvogt3205
    @justinvogt3205 2 роки тому +1

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  • @josemanoel2258
    @josemanoel2258 Рік тому

    Amazing chanel to learn english thanks so much guys

  • @hassansher8955
    @hassansher8955 4 роки тому +1

    I really dnt know when i cry last time. AH 💪💪

  • @shankarverma9646
    @shankarverma9646 4 роки тому +1

    Nice video ❤

  • @muhammadshalaby1783
    @muhammadshalaby1783 4 роки тому +1

    Well done . Very helpful

  • @alexissleeps5641
    @alexissleeps5641 Рік тому +5

    The last time I cried when I realized I can't eat strawberries anymore. I have an allergy on them,it was so dramatically sad moment I've ever had.
    I was only 4 years and it makes me laugh every time my mom reminds it to me.

  • @vedanshusingh5447
    @vedanshusingh5447 4 роки тому +29

    I was crying yesterday when my mom slaps me while playing game.😭😭

  • @andreatitozubieta5310
    @andreatitozubieta5310 Рік тому +1

    😅 This topic is really interesting. 👍

  • @hossamadel6611
    @hossamadel6611 4 роки тому +5

    I cry so much that I can't select one reason..

  • @McVeromar19
    @McVeromar19 4 роки тому +1

    hi...thanks!

  • @TuDucDuy05
    @TuDucDuy05 2 роки тому +3

    " crying bc the end of the programme " 🤣🤣

  • @ana.stey.shen_05
    @ana.stey.shen_05 11 місяців тому

    I always try to express my emotions in necessary time and after crying I feel better myself

  • @mukeshojha3237
    @mukeshojha3237 4 роки тому

    I cry most often when any of my close one leaves. Leaves in the sense they go back after paying a visit to my home. The other times I cry is when my beloved is a bit angry and does not speak straight to me. He thinks that I don't understand but his change of tone cannot be borne by my heart and leaves my heart in immense pain. But everytime he comes back and provides protection to me...

  • @bhawnagoyal1771
    @bhawnagoyal1771 4 роки тому +2

    NYC hard work you do that's really appreciated thnks for making all learn new things..m ur new subscriber 😊👍

  • @NamLe-wl5nr
    @NamLe-wl5nr 4 роки тому

    great video (y)

  • @itsnothing2859
    @itsnothing2859 10 місяців тому +1

    I think crying is a good emotion... We can express our feeling, thats a good quality of us.... I love people who express their emotions. In this world, no will be there who don't cry, if it is men or women.

  • @fatmaalmutairii4366
    @fatmaalmutairii4366 3 роки тому +4

    The last time I cried was last year when I passed difficult final exam

  • @raseedapuduyaporethajuddee9872
    @raseedapuduyaporethajuddee9872 3 роки тому +1

    Last time I cried.. When I attended the telephone interview I couldn't speak fluently.. That time emotionally feel

  • @bellabelle1990
    @bellabelle1990 4 роки тому +2

    Crying is a kind of relief and tears are antibacterials .so shedding tears is beneficial

  • @mylinhnguyen4107
    @mylinhnguyen4107 4 роки тому +4

    I love Sam and Neil couple most. They are so cute and clear spearkers.

  • @ph5948
    @ph5948 4 роки тому +4

    Sometimes people also cry over a spilt milk. Once I cried with sadness after reading a book by Victor Hugo. I need to express my feelings by crying sometimes.

    • @elodielee6930
      @elodielee6930 3 роки тому +1

      ohh me too!!!I love his books!!!

  • @khushibhatti2863
    @khushibhatti2863 3 роки тому

    kindly also share the link of your website where the vocabulary of video is placed.

  • @user-dm1du2sq1i
    @user-dm1du2sq1i 4 роки тому +4

    Don’t put up with unfair or bad feelings within, solve problems in time and don’t let it burst out in form of weeping)

  • @buithichungthuy2472
    @buithichungthuy2472 4 роки тому +1

    When i saw the romantic film such as Titanic , I cried so much😊

  • @celhinnarivas1836
    @celhinnarivas1836 6 місяців тому

    The last time that i cried was innthe Teather a Christmas Concert , the music moved My emotions because the songs remember My father❤.

  • @melissareyes1636
    @melissareyes1636 3 роки тому +1

    I can believe that some people say that the last time that they cried was the last year , I almost cry all the days hahah

  • @Ayeshay13
    @Ayeshay13 3 роки тому +1

    Crying helps to end our sadness

  • @adofro3707
    @adofro3707 Рік тому

    My last cry is when a I'm listen one worship it's called Back to life . I was so emotionally

  • @user-rc6ic5kg1d
    @user-rc6ic5kg1d 4 роки тому

    Thank you for this video. I`m afraid that I have a thing to ask you. Could you upload Lingohack on this channel? Because it`s inconvenient to watch them on the website. And plus, I don`t understand why the title is 'The power of crying' regardless of the content is negative points of crying. Thank you always~

  • @Hieu-uj1cm
    @Hieu-uj1cm 10 місяців тому

    Có cần thêm joi Anh không hả Bác . Cháu phải hỏi ý kiến xem thế nào

  • @HueLe-wq4vn
    @HueLe-wq4vn 4 роки тому +2

    1.be taken seriously
    be treated as being deserving of attention or respect được để tâm/ chú ý tới, được tôn trọng
    2.get a label
    be thought of as having a particular character or nature, often unfairly
    đc coi là có tính cách/bản chất cụ thể, thường là không đúng
    final straw
    further problem or difficulty, usually minor in itself, which comes after a series of other problems and makes you want to give up
    việc làm cho mọi thứ trở nên tồi tệ , giọt nước tràn ly
    resentments
    feelings of anger because you think you have been treated unfairly or because you have been forced to accept something that you don’t like
    sự oán giận
    weeping
    =crying (a) đang khóc .........tears
    backlog
    sự ùn đống
    accumulation of uncompleted matters that you should have dealt with before and must now do

  • @FahimHasan-ym4cp
    @FahimHasan-ym4cp Рік тому

    tnq bbc learning english

  • @mohammedzahboune824
    @mohammedzahboune824 4 роки тому +3

    The best place to get accustomed with British accent.

    • @bbclearningenglish
      @bbclearningenglish  4 роки тому

      Thanks! You might also find our Tim's Pronunciation Workshop useful for finding out more about British accent: www.bbc.co.uk/learningenglish/english/features/pronunciation

  • @phungthiong4295
    @phungthiong4295 Рік тому

    resentment, frustration backlog