After closely listening to the times when he stutters.....I've gathered a few facts. 1. Barb loved going to camp at Cranfest. 2. SHE was expecting to leave that same day as the accident....after she got off work at 2:30pm 3. Todd didn't tell her he had to work at Crown on that night and every night that weekend.....FRI, SAT SUN, MON. He claims he was going to call in sick....but he was already on probation for too many sick days off. Then he claims he was going to drive Barb to Cranfest, set up the camper, and drive back to be at work at 6:30pm then drive back and forth each day. Impossible. Plus he seemed to be fired or quit his various jobs every year or two . Barb may have told todd that she was looking forward to camping alone !! Plus the same day, she discovered he still owed some large bills on the last house build. He sold it for $309,000. With a 300k bank loan, plus the 50k they owed her mom for the home they built to sell, + After realator + closing fees, was A HUGE LOSS. they may have built and sold or flipped homes for fun BUT not at 100k loss on each one !! 4. her own adult children , her own mother and MANY others BROKE barbs heart by believing Todds endless bullsh1t, no matter what the indisputable evidence proves, bcz he was NICE to them. So I believe Barb really twisted off angry .....maybe for first time.....and he lost his cool, snapped. ... PROB when they stopped at that neighbors garage. tk never mentions going to neighbors garage in thsinterview He prob heard all kinds of stories of busted windshields, in 27 years of selling windshields. .... So this was his immediate excuse /senario.
Yes yes yes except for Barb knew its no fun to camp alone. She probably would have loved the peace for the first time ever. Maybe she knew he had to work and said she'd go alone. Than would have really got him angry.
I don’t think that was his original plan. I think he was off to bury her but when she cleverly pulled the car in a ditch, it was stuck and he had to come up with another plan. I wonder what would have happened if that witness who drove by stopped to investigate. Would he have been killed too ?
Rose Selby well hot damn. She looks like she was smothered and choked violently and she had injuries all over her damn body! Not only that but no one could find this truck no one knew anything about his supposed reason for the trip... I just read a comment from one of the trial uploads from someone sure it was possible the pipe combined with pulling her out - consistent with injuries.. that’s how Casey Anthony’s get away with it!
Story may be all over the place b/c of the alprazolam, aka XANAX. I myself take Xanax on a daily basis due to my anxiety and panic disorder ...I 100% know the side effects too well.
If you've never been a severe accident you'd know it's very difficult to remember details. Doesn't mean you're making up stuff or not being truthful. You're mind just blocks out much of what happened.
@@annmarsh1227 True, but you also have to take into account when it is a Severe Incident which is as dramatic as this all the other effects that take place in the victim's mind, and what you find here that Todd doesn't display any other of these points. a strong indicator is that he will give long rambling answers to simple questions and when it comes to the 'Point' so to speak he goes back into 'Shock mode' and stutters his recall. rational guess would be that he is faking it until he starts making it. As a Narcissist and someone that would be someone to have complete control over his little world, he would believe that he could outsmart the police when he isn't smart enough to boil a fuking Egg.
Lied about calling his friend about windshield says didn’t call him for a month. Not true. He called him right after he killed her. Trying to establish a reason for why he was out there.
Another lie. He said he was going camping then all of a sudden they confront him about the fact he had to work all weekend oh I’m gonna camp after work. He lied again. That’s probably what the fight was over. He couldn’t hold down a job or get along with others.
You do not get it! It was one of those non-Newtonian pipes that can strike you in the face, then bounce down to your neck to squash your pharinx, then bend behind to hit you three times at the back of the head.... all being embedded in a windshield!
I know - creeped me out when they kept showing the sinister looking thing. I was so concerned for everyone in the courtroom, They were playing with fire just having it there. Who knows when it will show its true colours again and randomly start hitting people again? It needs to be melted down and buried deep.
So Todd is working out all the scenarios out loud just to see if they fit the injuries, then backtracking when they don’t fit. Wow, guy is all over the place.
how strange he cant ever look at them..it's not right that he never has ANY eye contact... He sounds like he is trying to act emotional . Looking down or in his hands... How can his kids believe him I just don't understand how they can not see through this act... There is no real pain in any of his words. It just sounds made up it sounds fake
Michelle the only thing he told the truth about was having 5 points against him at work! THE ONLY THING! He gets real hateful when he’s questioned about work. There is no remorse or true sadness in him about Barb, he’s more concerned about trying to lie his way out of this! I’m glad the jury saw through this pathological liar, someone had to get justice for Barb even though Todd or his family didn’t think so!
Michelle I listened again, he had only 4 points! He said he had 5! If he had called in the evening he killed Barb that would have given him 5....he even lied about that! He told the investigators he had 5 and he could prove it.....omg! So he didn’t tell the truth about ANYTHING! Never seen or heard anyone like him! Habitual liar 🤥
His kids just lost their mother and the last thing they want is to lose their father also, so the brain provides blinders to prevent psychological breakdown. But this is only temporary and eventually the excuses and benefits of doubt will fall and they will come to understand what their father has done.
Thats an odd statement "I have nothing to worry about with that pipe " that really struck me as an odd statement by him and it seemed to strike the detectives as odd also!
Until he describes the truck he cannot look at the investigators! Covers his face through the entire description of his wife,her injuries and what he did to help! F'n liar! Can't remember his lies!!!
How odd that he doesn't talk about the impact when this presumed pipe hit the windshield?! Shouldn't it be the most traumatic sound ever since it killed his wife? It would have made incredible smashing sounds, pieces of shattered glass flying everywhere! Yet not a word about it in his first round of questionning.
kathi smith airbags can deploy when there is any impact to the car. The pole allegedly struck the windshield, the car, with enough force to go through it and strike the victim.
@@randellbigr1960 "lol" " there wouldn't really have been an incredible smashing sound"? you don't think the metal pipe smashing the windshield that killed his wife "would be the most traumatic sound ever since it killed his wife?"
It boggles my mind how many people came to his defense. He is clearly a manipulator and a liar. I really appreciated the jury's verdict and the judge's comments to this effect at sentencing. He fooled a lot of unsuspecting people.
Did Todd ever ask before this interview if they had found anyone? Did he go out looking for this mysterious truck on his own? My guess in both cases is no. He would have no reason to because there was no truck. He snapped and beat his wife to death on the side of that road, the lacerations on the back of her head caused by him punching her in the face and her head hitting the ground, forcefully holding her mouth closed as the witness drove by while choking her. Todd must have had a traumatic upbringing, he must have developed a box into which he can stuff traumatic events and pretend like they didn't happen. A box so tight that he could stuff his wife's murder there and it wouldn't break loose. He then became detached from the truth and attached to an ever evolving lie. He made himself believe the story, that's why he never cracked. He leaked from every which way, but didn't crack and spill the truth.
I think he planned to tell her in the car about shift change & him having issues with a co-worker. Maybe she had finally had it & expressed that and he lost it! He's a control freak to the max!! Poor Barb had no freedom! He probably followed her to the bathroom!
P.s. that's why I think he made a 50 second call to Barb's Mom. He knew if they were discussing things Barb wouldn't be able to call her mom. Idk..still trying to work out why he called his m-i-l for 50 secs at 723a
@@tracievendetta1908 yes that is odd to call his mil and only talk for 50 seconds and I can't remember what he had called her for. But I do know whatever it was it would have taken longer that 50 seconds
He remembers it all except the pipe? most important thing ? Guilty as all hell, I do believe. No reasonable doubt anymore after this interview.He cant even look at the detectives.
Oh god this is so painfully cringe worthy...I can't even watch. He should've invoked his right to remain silent because he's talking himself right into a steel cage. I can't even...
Imagine being so blinded by negation that even after your father kills your mother you refuse to believe he's an abusive husband and still side with him. 😢😢😢😢
I cannot believe this guy is trying to make excuses for the injuries she suffered tapping on her chest, pulling on her neck, dropping her on her head when pulling her out of the car. The list goes on. Sorry excuse for a man. He should have admitted it. Took his lumps.
I found it very distasteful of the lady who dropped off things to her daughter who was helping at the Kenthammer home. She was asking the defendant questions after having taken part in the autopsy. It was so unprofessional and if she worked for our coroners office, I would have expected a reprimand. That poor family grieving in what should be the private and respected place where they shouldn’t be questioned about findings in the investigative autopsy. She should lose her job.
I completely agree with you! I was really shocked and wouldn't be surprised that she wasn't reprimanded. Even the jury asked her why she didn't excuse herself when she had ties to the victim, so at the least she shouldn't have discussed any findings with the victim's husband! Unbelievable
Absolutely! That was unprofessional and would harm the investigation bc then he would know of more injuries that didn't go with the story he said and give him opportunity to think up a reason to explain those injuries! She should have definitely lost her job for that! She def should have never spoke with him about anything that was found in the autopsy! Especially with an ongoing investigation! Maybe she was trying to help him in a way!
i tried i really did, but i got to miss this part, i feel sick listening to the stuttering and foot tapping and the most annoying squeaky voice i've ever heard.... 🤢🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮
He DID NOT STUTTER at all when talking about flipping houses, her mom, Jordan, friends, etc.....but when it comes to The F250, cranfest, Barbara + the "accident", he stutters like CRAZY.
cant answer anything specific. everything about the event is "we always do this," "i usually do that," "she never would have blah," "we would always blegh" and nothing about what ACTUALLY happened that specific day, because none of what he claims happened that specific day, actually happened
TK says they were going to get the truck to replace the windshield that afternoon then return the truck, then says they were going camping an hour after getting off work (around 3) "off at 2"..."finishing touches"..."leave at 3". Which is it? Did he expect the truck owner to be without his vehicle for at least 4 days? He lies like a $2 rug.
He claims they never argued in 25 years (ridiculous), but admits Barb was "bugging" him about the windshield in the garage, didn't like him working nights etc. I think there are slivers of truth. They were arguing about one of those things, he saw red, beat her badly and then killed her because he realised it would be found out by his family/community.
@@jadie1234a : Sounds like they lived in a house they built on her Mother's property. A mother who depended on them, grocery store, bills, house repairs, snow shovel etc. Both gone now😐
@@jadie1234a no. They wouldn’t have been fighting again f she was dead. I think he thought she was dead before they left he house. What woman would throw their bag snd phone in back of car.
He's so damned inarticulate! Refuses to look at the cops! Such BS from that weasel! And I bet he's in prison saying he has no business being in there. He should be back home in his community being his wonderful self and the credit to his community that he is. Thanks to the judge and jury for getting this one right.
@@tracievendetta1908 yes I remember that. The judge implied that if he ever wanted out he would have to tell the truth but he would lose all his supporters if he admitted it.
No. She's not on the jury and she won't make any decisions on this man's guilt or innocence. If the judge or any of the jurors were friends with the defendant they would have to recuse theirselves for sure.
szqsk8 she had no business telling him about the findings, my point is this information definitely made him look bad and telling him about it first gives him time to come up with more ridiculous excuses for what happened or how it happened. Being on the jury or not has nothing to do with this. Just my opinion.
his fake stammering is driving me insane - no one who actually stutters does it like he is .. you'll notice his stuttering comes at very convenient times...when he is asked something he has to think through... to give him time to come up with more BS ... but then, he'll have a string of words put together that have no stutter, when he thinks its something that will help his case
I know he was found guilty and do not know if he is or not. It seems he had a long marriage where they shared so many interests and were a team - I don't know how anyone could imagine how you are SUPPOSED to act at the time of a freak accident if that is what it was - or just suddenly after 25 years killed your wife..motive doesn't need to be proven...so this does leave me wondering why.
Well, first of all, you don't wait 5 min before calling for help. You don't lie about where you were going 3 times. And it wouldn't be a freak accident if it's impossible for a pipe to magically defy physics and pipes don't have a practice hit either when crashing into a window. And there was a video of them driving on that street and there was no truck so I guess it was a ghost truck... Also you don't stutter through any question about his lame story but then magically be able to speak and explain the most minut detail about everything else. You don't cry with no tears then instantly stop when the pressure dies down.
Beatrice G Ramirez I think this lady, having been at the autopsy, could say things that Mr. Kendhammer could weave into statements at a later date. Even if he wasn’t a suspect, there were others upstairs where she approached him that could be in earshot. These questions she was asking were earth shattering to grief stricken people at Barb’s home. If I were she, I would have changed my uniform into regular clothing and never remind him of what she may have witnessed at the autopsy. Dr. McGuffin could have sought answers to her questions through inquiring herself, after all she is the person in charge and I doubt she would be pleased about that lady asking Todd questions. That Dr. was so educated and was so articulate and wouldn’t have questioned him in his environmen.
I think he started on her in car or b4. I believe the car slid in to the ditch by accident, to which he then new he was screwed! So he smashed the pipe through the window to make it look like a accident! Because he new if someone stopped..they would see his wife was badly injured from him or possibly already dead. (Remember the earlier male witness said he passed car in ditch with no damage to window!) Already lied in his statement of going to get truck! Wen she was due at work! Sadly u can clearly see he has physically abused her then killed her..but going into ditch..screwed his plan up..as to why the cover up,fake accident.
I noticed that he has so much to say about everything without very much of the studders. But, the studders sure hits when talking about the accident and the other injuries causing her death.
I think their tactic is to let him talk about Nirmal everyday things to see if his demeanor changes as to when they start asking him about evidence or the accident! And his demeanor does change dramatically!
Could not EVER be an actor!!! Hearing his voice just annoys me so much! I mean it’s totally obvious from day one, that his story(any of them) made no logical sense! Been then add it all up and omg he’s a flashing red sign of guilt! How his or even her family, could ever believe this POS, I’ll never understand!!
Strange how his stutter disappears.....i don't know what happened but SOMEONE SNAPPED .....since he is alive, its him. I've lived in rural country. Yes, your friends and their friends and their friends will go above and beyond for you + yours. BUT their job is their job and at some point, all must do right for Barbara. It is SO wrong to victimize her twice.....thank goodness everyone did right. Very sad that so many in community refused to support the prosecution fighting for Barbara.
He probably would have blown up the instrument. I too wished they did one or at least asked but he is on meds which poo poos any legit test. Would have made for great entertainment considering he is shitting his shorts just under mild questioning.
If it's true they never had an argument (ha, ha) and he never laid a hand on her in 25 years then all that build up of stuff he wanted to say and do built up so high he snapped. That's the only thing that makes sense to me. The pipe flying out of a pick up, going through his windshield and striking his wife in the "back" of the head and all over her body and face is just impossible for me to believe. And all the while it stayed in the windshield when it attacked Barb. Bye, bye Toddie. RIP Barb! I'm so very sorry for the family!!!
The only car crash here is Todd's acting career. His lawyer must have begged him not to take the stand, he incriminates himself further with every word he says.
I notice how every time he is asked questions which he would really need to think about the answer not to give the incorrect information to go with the story he told. He holds his hands over his face and will not make eye contact and of course the studdering not every time with the studdering but definitely with the hands over the eyes and that Is a sign of deceit. Alot of body language to show lieing and possible guilt! Bc when someone lies we all know they lie for a reason!
Investigator reciting all of Barbara’s injuries and he’s ok, ok, ok, no emotion then, it breaks my heart to imagine the beating she must have taken and to him no tears then. Pathetic display for Charles Mansons twin
I was in a road accident that nearly killed me. I clearly remembered (and still do) everything up to the point of collision; but then I couldn't get out of my door because it was jammed shut and I couldn't slide across the car and get out the passenger door which was hanging open, because my pelvis had been shattered. I remembered some of what happened after - someone pulled the bonnet open and stopped the car alarm sounding, a woman put her hand through the window and held my hand until the police arrived, a policeman got in the back of my car and held my head from the backseat until the ambulance arrived, the fire brigade came and cut the roof off my car, they put me in a body board and took me to hospital. *But I don't remember any of the details.* I couldn't tell you what colour hair the woman had, I couldn't tell you what colour the body board was, I can't remember how long it took for the ambulance to get there, I can't remember whether they treated or tested me while they were waiting for the fire brigade, all those little details which Todd can't remember. I don't find it so easy as many people do to presume that he is lying. He's obviously terrified, but couldn't that be true of an innocent person who was afraid he was going to be blamed as much as a guilty man who knows the game is up?
@@gagagoose2878 thank you, yes, all the injuries have resolved. But it's interesting to me that I remember thinking "Oh, so this is where my life will end" as Monty car was spinning across the road after the impact, and then everything gets rather blurred in my mind.
@@BenjWarrant I’m a retired physical therapist and I’m always interested in how people recover from such devastating accidents. I’m so happy to hear that you are well and fully recovered
@@gagagoose2878 it was the physiotherapists who were largely responsible for my speedy recovery! I did all the exercises they gave me with alacrity and that was the best thing I could have done. In two months I was walking without crutches, and dancing in four!
WOW! Good for you! So many people won’t work hard because “it hurts”. Yes, it does hurt, but it’s the only way to regain strength and mobility. You made a remarkable recovery, congratulations
Sounds like she was a ball buster. She had to do lists for him. The camping trip got canceled due to him switching jobs again, bills were piling up, argument started and it went too far. He became enraged and killed her.
The fact that he said his wife was afraid of breaking the windshield in the garage, coupled with the way he said the “accident” occurred seemed like would be upsetting to him, but no emotion at all. I guess I’m projecting, but it certainly would have upset me.
The prosecution brings this up during cross examination, so I'm not some super sleuth who noticed it myself. But TK definitely brings up the topic of domestic abuse before he was even asked about it. At 50:50, he says in 28 years he's never touched her or grabbed her or raised his voice to her. He's trying to explain away a topic they haven't even mentioned yet.
And he puts his hands over his eyes again after that statement when he realizes the defective think it is an odd statement to make and also the studdering again
At least that wouldn't be tied to something he has experience with..like broken windshields. Awfully odd that such a strange thing happens to someone experienced in windshield damage.
Several times he starts to make a comment that will incriminate and then trails off ..... I'm just trying to get my my my story straight ..turns into I'm hard of hearing ???
Think he beat her at their 1st stop. Panicked, stuffed her in the car. Almost forgot her purse, hence tossed in the back seat. W Barb starts coming back around, they struggle, go off the road. He has to beat he some more at the side of the road. Does he find the pipe and dream up the story 🤷♀️
I wish as soon a trial ends the defendenant if found guilty has to tell the complete true story from start to finish...and if the defendant is found guilty but was really innocent...god comes down and sets it straight...and u win $2,000,000... This guy is guilty AF...RIP BARB
Spoiler alert, if you scroll down far enough some inconsiderate person divulges the verdict. I guess they don’t realize that many trial watchers don’t want to know in the middle of watching the trial 🤬
Ya don't want this guy with you in a crisis situation!....but either way, in this case; there's a definite Wrongful Death suit against him just in the treatment and handling of her body after the "accident".
he clearly thinks that if he taps his leg, shakes, stutters and heavy breathes, the cop will feel sorry that he is sooooooo upset nd let him go home and not ask any more questions. Im not even in the same room and can turn it off, i couldn't handle having to be in that room with him with all the fake dramatics. .
Why would the door keep shutting? If he kept himself between her and the door, why would it keep shutting. He’s lying through his teeth. He anxious because he knows his story doesn’t make sense. Trying to make excuses as to why her hyoid bone was fractured. What fd him up was her blood vessels burst in her eyes from pressure placed on the neck from strangling her. He’s gross and a liar. Kids sticking up for him shows how controlling he was.
I find it very telling that Todd never gets mad at the detectives due to their line of questioning. If I were completely innocent of something, and had detectives saying they thought I was lying, at some point, I'd be furious!
Todd kept his mouth shut for 25 years, he looked at the list of chores Barb put on the fridge and passively aggressively, didn’t get them all done. She complained about the garage one too many times and he snapped. I think he may have talked himself into believing his own story.
After closely listening to the times when he stutters.....I've gathered a few facts.
1. Barb loved going to camp at Cranfest.
2. SHE was expecting to leave that same day as the accident....after she got off work at 2:30pm
3. Todd didn't tell her he had to work at Crown on that night and every night that weekend.....FRI, SAT SUN, MON. He claims he was going to call in sick....but he was already on probation for too many sick days off.
Then he claims he was going to drive Barb to Cranfest, set up the camper, and drive back to be at work at 6:30pm then drive back and forth each day.
Impossible.
Plus he seemed to be fired or quit his various jobs every year or two .
Barb may have told todd that she was looking forward to camping alone !!
Plus the same day, she discovered he still owed some large bills on the last house build. He sold it for
$309,000.
With a 300k bank loan, plus the 50k they owed her mom for the home they built to sell, + After realator + closing fees, was A HUGE LOSS.
they may have built and sold or flipped homes for fun BUT not at 100k loss on each one !!
4. her own adult children , her own mother and MANY others BROKE barbs heart by believing Todds endless bullsh1t, no matter what the indisputable evidence proves, bcz he was NICE to them.
So I believe Barb really twisted off angry .....maybe for first time.....and he lost his cool, snapped. ... PROB when they stopped at that neighbors garage. tk never mentions going to neighbors garage in thsinterview
He prob heard all kinds of stories of busted windshields, in 27 years of selling windshields. .... So this was his immediate excuse /senario.
Really good, I agree with this! X
Its a good theory. I believe it as well
Yes yes yes except for Barb knew its no fun to camp alone. She probably would have loved the peace for the first time ever. Maybe she knew he had to work and said she'd go alone. Than would have really got him angry.
I don’t think that was his original plan. I think he was off to bury her but when she cleverly pulled the car in a ditch, it was stuck and he had to come up with another plan. I wonder what would have happened if that witness who drove by stopped to investigate. Would he have been killed too ?
@@Natalie-gb8tt yes I think he beat her at neighbors, she regained concious and there was a fight in the car. Yes on witness too, smart thinking
His story his all over the place...he is talking himself into a prison sentence I think.
Rose Selby
Yes his account of this seems fragmented.
Rose Selby well hot damn. She looks like she was smothered and choked violently and she had injuries all over her damn body! Not only that but no one could find this truck no one knew anything about his supposed reason for the trip... I just read a comment from one of the trial uploads from someone sure it was possible the pipe combined with pulling her out - consistent with injuries.. that’s how Casey Anthony’s get away with it!
I would add on an extra life sentence just for that ringtone alone
As was the state's. Most of the things the cops repeatedly state as "facts" here proved to be lies.
Story may be all over the place b/c of the alprazolam, aka XANAX. I myself take Xanax on a daily basis due to my anxiety and panic disorder ...I 100% know the side effects too well.
He talked himself into prison
He is having a severely hard time making up his story ,,,, and realizes it ! So very hard to listen to .
If you've never been a severe accident you'd know it's very difficult to remember details. Doesn't mean you're making up stuff or not being truthful. You're mind just blocks out much of what happened.
@@annmarsh1227 its understandable about the accident.....but the f250 truck, windshields, camping, work, not work....THATS ALL 95% BULLSHT.
@@annmarsh1227 True, but you also have to take into account when it is a Severe Incident which is as dramatic as this all the other effects that take place in the victim's mind, and what you find here that Todd doesn't display any other of these points.
a strong indicator is that he will give long rambling answers to simple questions and when it comes to the 'Point' so to speak he goes back into 'Shock mode' and stutters his recall.
rational guess would be that he is faking it until he starts making it.
As a Narcissist and someone that would be someone to have complete control over his little world, he would believe that he could outsmart the police when he isn't smart enough to boil a fuking Egg.
@@annmarsh1227 ,, I agree : head would be all a tangle / jumble of utter nightmare horror, and also blanks.
@@annmarsh1227no. An ex broke into my home 30 years ago. Bashed me in the head with a pipe over and over. I remember ALL of it
If the saying were true, "liar, liar pants on fire," he would go up in flames!
lol
skibee
Nothing funny about this .!!!
Lied about calling his friend about windshield says didn’t call him for a month. Not true. He called him right after he killed her. Trying to establish a reason for why he was out there.
Where was that said?? I must've totally missed it.
He sounds like he inhaled helium...
aviya muller you made me laugh! I agree
Yessssssss!!!!!
If I hear I don’t know one more time am going to scream
I love how the jury gets to ask questions. I wish this was done in all trials.
It is. Just usually not aired.
@@dazzlingextremes389 I think it’s only certain states
I think it depends on what the particular judge allows..
I think all states should allow that
This woman should be sacked. Giving out autopsy information to husband is frightfully inappropriate.
Windsor Castle I see a lot of us are still watching this. It’s like a train wreck, but I can’t look away.
patriotbella right? I started from the beginning again yesterday! Im here now! My 4th time ‘round.
Maybe she had secret mic on her? She wouldn’t have done it without the ok from the police surely
Another lie. He said he was going camping then all of a sudden they confront him about the fact he had to work all weekend oh I’m gonna camp after work. He lied again. That’s probably what the fight was over. He couldn’t hold down a job or get along with others.
He’s whining and crying cause he knows the investigators are on to him.
Or that he lost the love of his life??
And it shows once again how controlling he is by leaving the courtroom. Manipulative.
When did he leave the courtroom.
I think he pulled this because in the interview he said he didn’t start CPR right away which contradicts what he originally said
@@Natalie-gb8ttduring this interview when he says he didn’t startCPR right away. Even though he’s been telling people he did
@@Natalie-gb8tt52:32
I hate it when rogue pipes attack & beat you over & over again..
Tonya Cach 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Modern plastic pipes aren't as bad, but those old metal ones... They're the real thugs!
Wonder if swung like a bat at the back of the head if skull fractures would result 🤔
You do not get it! It was one of those non-Newtonian pipes that can strike you in the face, then bounce down to your neck to squash your pharinx, then bend behind to hit you three times at the back of the head.... all being embedded in a windshield!
I know - creeped me out when they kept showing the sinister looking thing. I was so concerned for everyone in the courtroom, They were playing with fire just having it there. Who knows when it will show its true colours again and randomly start hitting people again? It needs to be melted down and buried deep.
I cant believe his kids. They should know that was a beating not a pipe coming through the windshield of the car.
It's really hard to make up a lie and then remember the lie.
Judge Judy always says that if you tell the truth, you don't have to have a good memory. Wise woman!
So Todd is working out all the scenarios out loud just to see if they fit the injuries, then backtracking when they don’t fit. Wow, guy is all over the place.
And if they fall for it!
how strange he cant ever look at them..it's not right that he never has ANY eye contact... He sounds like he is trying to act emotional . Looking down or in his hands... How can his kids believe him I just don't understand how they can not see through this act... There is no real pain in any of his words. It just sounds made up it sounds fake
Michelle the only thing he told the truth about was having 5 points against him at work! THE ONLY THING!
He gets real hateful when he’s questioned about work. There is no remorse or true sadness in him about Barb, he’s more concerned about trying to lie his way out of this! I’m glad the jury saw through this pathological liar, someone had to get justice for Barb even though Todd or his family didn’t think so!
I agree 100% with you!!!!
Michelle I listened again, he had only 4 points! He said he had 5! If he had called in the evening he killed Barb that would have given him 5....he even lied about that!
He told the investigators he had 5 and he could prove it.....omg! So he didn’t tell the truth about ANYTHING!
Never seen or heard anyone like him! Habitual liar 🤥
Hello. May I introduce you to Luis Toledo.
His kids just lost their mother and the last thing they want is to lose their father also, so the brain provides blinders to prevent psychological breakdown. But this is only temporary and eventually the excuses and benefits of doubt will fall and they will come to understand what their father has done.
Thats an odd statement "I have nothing to worry about with that pipe " that really struck me as an odd statement by him and it seemed to strike the detectives as odd also!
His demeanor screams guilty! His body language, including his dang leg constantly shaking...give me a break! Uggghh
marie55 he has Restless Leg Syndrome, according too the Judge. My brother has it and it drives him crazy.
Sylvia Shiell according to the judge he has restless leg syndrome? The judge said this?
Until he describes the truck he cannot look at the investigators! Covers his face through the entire description of his wife,her injuries and what he did to help! F'n liar! Can't remember his lies!!!
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How odd that he doesn't talk about the impact when this presumed pipe hit the windshield?! Shouldn't it be the most traumatic sound ever since it killed his wife? It would have made incredible smashing sounds, pieces of shattered glass flying everywhere! Yet not a word about it in his first round of questionning.
Car windows don't break like normal panes of glass obviously lol so there wouldn't really have been an incredible smashing sound
Right, but I’m wondering wouldn’t the airbags have deployed? I haven’t heard anyone bring anything up about airbags yet...
nikkipizzino why would the airbags deploy? They didn’t reck.
kathi smith airbags can deploy when there is any impact to the car. The pole allegedly struck the windshield, the car, with enough force to go through it and strike the victim.
@@randellbigr1960 "lol" " there wouldn't really have been an incredible smashing sound"? you don't think the metal pipe smashing the windshield that killed his wife "would be the most traumatic sound ever since it killed his wife?"
It boggles my mind how many people came to his defense. He is clearly a manipulator and a liar. I really appreciated the jury's verdict and the judge's comments to this effect at sentencing. He fooled a lot of unsuspecting people.
Did Todd ever ask before this interview if they had found anyone? Did he go out looking for this mysterious truck on his own? My guess in both cases is no. He would have no reason to because there was no truck. He snapped and beat his wife to death on the side of that road, the lacerations on the back of her head caused by him punching her in the face and her head hitting the ground, forcefully holding her mouth closed as the witness drove by while choking her.
Todd must have had a traumatic upbringing, he must have developed a box into which he can stuff traumatic events and pretend like they didn't happen. A box so tight that he could stuff his wife's murder there and it wouldn't break loose. He then became detached from the truth and attached to an ever evolving lie. He made himself believe the story, that's why he never cracked. He leaked from every which way, but didn't crack and spill the truth.
I think he planned to tell her in the car about shift change & him having issues with a co-worker. Maybe she had finally had it & expressed that and he lost it! He's a control freak to the max!! Poor Barb had no freedom! He probably followed her to the bathroom!
P.s. that's why I think he made a 50 second call to Barb's Mom. He knew if they were discussing things Barb wouldn't be able to call her mom. Idk..still trying to work out why he called his m-i-l for 50 secs at 723a
@@tracievendetta1908 yes that is odd to call his mil and only talk for 50 seconds and I can't remember what he had called her for. But I do know whatever it was it would have taken longer that 50 seconds
@@TheRabbitHoleGoesDeep He called to let her now that the plumber was coming. I'd say that would be longer than 50 seconds
Where did the pipe come from, then?
He remembers it all except the pipe? most important thing ? Guilty as all hell, I do believe. No reasonable doubt anymore after this interview.He cant even look at the detectives.
VEGASGIRL agree
Plus he claims He pulled the pipe out of the windshield. But he isn't a tall guy.
How did he do that?
Totally agree Vegasgirl
DA and Judge were so knowledgeable. Real professionals. Both fair and calm.
Oh god this is so painfully cringe worthy...I can't even watch. He should've invoked his right to remain silent because he's talking himself right into a steel cage. I can't even...
Rachel Jayne yer funny so right
Rachael you said 2 year's ago that he's talking himself into a steel cage I can't even. CANT EVEN WHAT?
When he tells the truth about some things, he looks at the police and does`nt stutter . When he lies, he looks down, stutters and covers his eyes.
Imagine being so blinded by negation that even after your father kills your mother you refuse to believe he's an abusive husband and still side with him. 😢😢😢😢
Hopefully one day they’ll wake up. Barb was manipulated by him. Likely, so were they 😢💔❤️
I cannot believe this guy is trying to make excuses for the injuries she suffered tapping on her chest, pulling on her neck, dropping her on her head when pulling her out of the car. The list goes on. Sorry excuse for a man. He should have admitted it. Took his lumps.
I'm an EMT and if anyone got injuries like that from being moved from a car or sternum rubs, I'd lose my license!
Omg man as much as I want to watch the interview, this dude's voice is just a ear screeching horrible sound...
It’s horrible!
His constant denying and lying reminds me of Daliah Depollito.
I want to see my husband ! Mike come see meeeeeeee! Lol
“I don’t know what’s going on, please!”
That’s my favorite quote from her interrogation 😂
Another excuse to justify the injuries of her chest by tapping on her chest. Yeah ok.
Mr. Kendhammer turns into Mel Tillis in seconds.
I found it very distasteful of the lady who dropped off things to her daughter who was helping at the Kenthammer home. She was asking the defendant questions after having taken part in the autopsy. It was so unprofessional and if she worked for our coroners office, I would have expected a reprimand. That poor family grieving in what should be the private and respected place where they shouldn’t be questioned about findings in the investigative autopsy. She should lose her job.
I completely agree with you! I was really shocked and wouldn't be surprised that she wasn't reprimanded. Even the jury asked her why she didn't excuse herself when she had ties to the victim, so at the least she shouldn't have discussed any findings with the victim's husband! Unbelievable
I was shocked as well. So inappropriate
Absolutely! That was unprofessional and would harm the investigation bc then he would know of more injuries that didn't go with the story he said and give him opportunity to think up a reason to explain those injuries! She should have definitely lost her job for that! She def should have never spoke with him about anything that was found in the autopsy! Especially with an ongoing investigation! Maybe she was trying to help him in a way!
@@TheRabbitHoleGoesDeep what she said 💯
Yes! That really got to me as well. Totally unprofessional - and she seemed too thick to understand that it was not an ethical thing to do.
No TEARS FOR FEAR'S!! Stop hiding behind your hands, and hold your head up!
i tried i really did, but i got to miss this part, i feel sick listening to the stuttering and foot tapping and the most annoying squeaky voice i've ever heard.... 🤢🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮
He DID NOT STUTTER at all when talking about flipping houses, her mom, Jordan, friends, etc.....but when it comes to The F250, cranfest, Barbara + the "accident", he stutters like CRAZY.
I wonder how Barb's Mom feels being called "just a telephone operator"...
barbs mom also paid his bail and for his defense. poor Barbara never had a chance bcz he fooled many fools
@@byBeauxARTFULIVINGHe fooled everyone and still is! 😡😢
I wonder what Barb would think of her mother and brother supporting her killer...
His son should also be arrested for having the world’s most annoying ring tone
These towns where everyone knows everyone makes for conflict of interest
Amazing how little these people ‘recall’ about this beloved woman’s death!
Detective : You are not telling us the truth.
Todd: I'm not. I'm not.
Oopps, there it is.....finally the ONLY TRUTH Todd will speak.
If his phone goes off one more time! 🤬
cant answer anything specific. everything about the event is "we always do this," "i usually do that," "she never would have blah," "we would always blegh" and nothing about what ACTUALLY happened that specific day, because none of what he claims happened that specific day, actually happened
Exactly!
Every time he mentions ice cream, take a drink
Is it professional protocol to visit and discuss what you witnessed during an autopsy?!😦
Seriously!! Unreal!!
No. Absolutely not. Wisconsin folks are a little odd...
TK says they were going to get the truck to replace the windshield that afternoon then return the truck, then says they were going camping an hour after getting off work (around 3) "off at 2"..."finishing touches"..."leave at 3". Which is it? Did he expect the truck owner to be without his vehicle for at least 4 days? He lies like a $2 rug.
Painful to listen too. Omg
I've heard 5 year olds come up with more convincing, consistant lies than this...and look me dead in the eyes while telling them.
He acts like a 5 y.o.
This witness should have been dismissed from this case ,,,, as she is familiar with defendant ,,,, very bad to leave her on !!!!
He claims they never argued in 25 years (ridiculous), but admits Barb was "bugging" him about the windshield in the garage, didn't like him working nights etc. I think there are slivers of truth. They were arguing about one of those things, he saw red, beat her badly and then killed her because he realised it would be found out by his family/community.
I think she was already dead before they left the house.
I think she was already dead before he left the house. He put her in the car, and carried out his plan to cover up her death.
@@jadie1234a : Sounds like they lived in a house they built on her Mother's property. A mother who depended on them, grocery store, bills, house repairs, snow shovel etc. Both gone now😐
I agree, they couldn't show up with her looking like that to cran fest, or when her son woke up
@@jadie1234a no. They wouldn’t have been fighting again f she was dead. I think he thought she was dead before they left he house. What woman would throw their bag snd phone in back of car.
He's so damned inarticulate! Refuses to look at the cops! Such BS from that weasel! And I bet he's in prison saying he has no business being in there. He should be back home in his community being his wonderful self and the credit to his community that he is. Thanks to the judge and jury for getting this one right.
I believe he’s tried to appeal many times. Barbs mum is paying his lawyer fees.
@@Natalie-gb8tt He keeps asking for appeal delays. Because he has no grounds to appeal
@@tracievendetta1908 I don’t know what he could possibly come up with that would warrant grounds for an appeal
@@Natalie-gb8tt Exactly! Even the judge told him that before sentencing!!
@@tracievendetta1908 yes I remember that. The judge implied that if he ever wanted out he would have to tell the truth but he would lose all his supporters if he admitted it.
How can one person have such an annoying voice?!
How could a woman tolerate that voice for so long?
Wow this autopsy dr should be fired for going over to a so called friends house, and talk about the autopsy she should be fired?
VEGASGIRL yes, she was heading him off!
No. She's not on the jury and she won't make any decisions on this man's guilt or innocence. If the judge or any of the jurors were friends with the defendant they would have to recuse theirselves for sure.
szqsk8 she had no business telling him about the findings, my point is this information definitely made him look bad and telling him about it first gives him time to come up with more ridiculous excuses for what happened or how it happened. Being on the jury or not has nothing to do with this. Just my opinion.
VEGASGIRL for sure!!!!
Authentically Amanda he wouldn’t have stood a chance anywhere with a story like this. Cringeworthy. Awful story. None of what he says makes sense.
his fake stammering is driving me insane - no one who actually stutters does it like he is .. you'll notice his stuttering comes at very convenient times...when he is asked something he has to think through... to give him time to come up with more BS ... but then, he'll have a string of words put together that have no stutter, when he thinks its something that will help his case
When ever the topic isn't about the murder of his wife, he's perfectly able to speak fluently.
Notice he called the mother-in-law that morning 🤔🧐
Where was Barb.....🙄
@@citrusbloom7504 Yes, so many things don't make scense and differ from their normal rutines. I found him so creepy.
If only all interview rooms were this acoustic friendly
Little kids hide their eyes when they lie. I'm not sure he ever looked at them ONCE
I know he was found guilty and do not know if he is or not. It seems he had a long marriage where they shared so many interests and were a team - I don't know how anyone could imagine how you are SUPPOSED to act at the time of a freak accident if that is what it was - or just suddenly after 25 years killed your wife..motive doesn't need to be proven...so this does leave me wondering why.
Well, first of all, you don't wait 5 min before calling for help. You don't lie about where you were going 3 times. And it wouldn't be a freak accident if it's impossible for a pipe to magically defy physics and pipes don't have a practice hit either when crashing into a window. And there was a video of them driving on that street and there was no truck so I guess it was a ghost truck... Also you don't stutter through any question about his lame story but then magically be able to speak and explain the most minut detail about everything else. You don't cry with no tears then instantly stop when the pressure dies down.
This is just upsetting that this woman is asking questions while she’s professionally involved in this case.
Is a ME suppose to be feeding information of the case to this defendant. How unprofessional.
Beatrice G Ramirez I think this lady, having been at the autopsy, could say things that Mr. Kendhammer could weave into statements at a later date. Even if he wasn’t a suspect, there were others upstairs where she approached him that could be in earshot. These questions she was asking were earth shattering to grief stricken people at Barb’s home. If I were she, I would have changed my uniform into regular clothing and never remind him of what she may have witnessed at the autopsy. Dr. McGuffin could have sought answers to her questions through inquiring herself, after all she is the person in charge and I doubt she would be pleased about that lady asking Todd questions. That Dr. was so educated and was so articulate and wouldn’t have questioned him in his environmen.
There is nothing unprofessional or unethical to ask questions of family or give them certain information.
While being electrocuted
@@annmarsh1227What do you think was the motive for her conversation with Todd?
I think he started on her in car or b4.
I believe the car slid in to the ditch by accident, to which he then new he was screwed!
So he smashed the pipe through the window to make it look like a accident! Because he new if someone stopped..they would see his wife was badly injured from him or possibly already dead. (Remember the earlier male witness said he passed car in ditch with no damage to window!)
Already lied in his statement of going to get truck! Wen she was due at work!
Sadly u can clearly see he has physically abused her then killed her..but going into ditch..screwed his plan up..as to why the cover up,fake accident.
For as much as Todd is talking, he certainly isn’t saying much. It’s baffling to watch this transpire.
I noticed that he has so much to say about everything without very much of the studders. But, the studders sure hits when talking about the accident and the other injuries causing her death.
I think their tactic is to let him talk about Nirmal everyday things to see if his demeanor changes as to when they start asking him about evidence or the accident! And his demeanor does change dramatically!
Yes they are checking out his baseline first.
There sure is a lot that he just doesn’t remember.
He sounds like he is speaking from the buttom of a can.
When TODD is telling the detectives truthful event's his hands go down, when he "can't remember" his arms go up to his face.
I cannot believe when visiting Todd's house she had the nerve to bring up the autopsy...in her uniform. She should lose her job.
They should've had him tell his version of events backwards.
1:45:50 I would've found him guilty just for that ringtone alone.
It was rude not to put it on vibrate.
Was not his phone,it belonged to his son
Could not EVER be an actor!!! Hearing his voice just annoys me so much! I mean it’s totally obvious from day one, that his story(any of them) made no logical sense! Been then add it all up and omg he’s a flashing red sign of guilt! How his or even her family, could ever believe this POS, I’ll never understand!!
Looks like Robert Blake, who was guilty also!!!
Denial is a helluva drug. Lol
He sounds like richard Simmons
Omg he does!!! I couldn't place it until I read your comment!! 😂😂😂😂
Robert Birkenbeuel I was thinking Truman Capote. 😖
Strange how his stutter disappears.....i don't know what happened but SOMEONE SNAPPED .....since he is alive, its him.
I've lived in rural country.
Yes, your friends and their friends and their friends will go above and beyond for you + yours.
BUT their job is their job and at some point, all must do right for Barbara.
It is SO wrong to victimize her twice.....thank goodness everyone did right.
Very sad that so many in community refused to support the prosecution fighting for Barbara.
EXactly
I wonder why they didn't do a polygraph on him. He incriminates himself, but just on the side of caution. I would actually really like to see that.
He probably would have blown up the instrument. I too wished they did one or at least asked but he is on meds which poo poos any legit test. Would have made for great entertainment considering he is shitting his shorts just under mild questioning.
Maybe they can’t if someone’s taken tablets. Could be why he took them.
If it's true they never had an argument (ha, ha) and he never laid a hand on her in 25 years then all that build up of stuff he wanted to say and do built up so high he snapped. That's the only thing that makes sense to me. The pipe flying out of a pick up, going through his windshield and striking his wife in the "back" of the head and all over her body and face is just impossible for me to believe. And all the while it stayed in the windshield when it attacked Barb. Bye, bye Toddie. RIP Barb! I'm so very sorry for the family!!!
The only car crash here is Todd's acting career. His lawyer must have begged him not to take the stand, he incriminates himself further with every word he says.
I notice how every time he is asked questions which he would really need to think about the answer not to give the incorrect information to go with the story he told. He holds his hands over his face and will not make eye contact and of course the studdering not every time with the studdering but definitely with the hands over the eyes and that Is a sign of deceit. Alot of body language to show lieing and possible guilt! Bc when someone lies we all know they lie for a reason!
If the police are summoned to testify at court they should bring their notes instead of say, “Of I dint really remember much of anything...!”
Investigator reciting all of Barbara’s injuries and he’s ok, ok, ok, no emotion then, it breaks my heart to imagine the beating she must have taken and to him no tears then. Pathetic display for Charles Mansons twin
Dude said alprazolam like everyone don't know that's xanax baby......
My question is how dare you represent the medical office on a personal visit to a family grieving.
Is he going to be screeching for 2 hours 😩....this is soooo painful to listen to
I was in a road accident that nearly killed me. I clearly remembered (and still do) everything up to the point of collision; but then I couldn't get out of my door because it was jammed shut and I couldn't slide across the car and get out the passenger door which was hanging open, because my pelvis had been shattered. I remembered some of what happened after - someone pulled the bonnet open and stopped the car alarm sounding, a woman put her hand through the window and held my hand until the police arrived, a policeman got in the back of my car and held my head from the backseat until the ambulance arrived, the fire brigade came and cut the roof off my car, they put me in a body board and took me to hospital.
*But I don't remember any of the details.* I couldn't tell you what colour hair the woman had, I couldn't tell you what colour the body board was, I can't remember how long it took for the ambulance to get there, I can't remember whether they treated or tested me while they were waiting for the fire brigade, all those little details which Todd can't remember. I don't find it so easy as many people do to presume that he is lying. He's obviously terrified, but couldn't that be true of an innocent person who was afraid he was going to be blamed as much as a guilty man who knows the game is up?
Are you ok now? That was a terrible accident, I’m hoping you recovered, mentally and physically🙏🏼
@@gagagoose2878 thank you, yes, all the injuries have resolved. But it's interesting to me that I remember thinking "Oh, so this is where my life will end" as Monty car was spinning across the road after the impact, and then everything gets rather blurred in my mind.
@@BenjWarrant I’m a retired physical therapist and I’m always interested in how people recover from such devastating accidents. I’m so happy to hear that you are well and fully recovered
@@gagagoose2878 it was the physiotherapists who were largely responsible for my speedy recovery! I did all the exercises they gave me with alacrity and that was the best thing I could have done. In two months I was walking without crutches, and dancing in four!
WOW! Good for you! So many people won’t work hard because “it hurts”. Yes, it does hurt, but it’s the only way to regain strength and mobility. You made a remarkable recovery, congratulations
830 no she starts work at 800 am another lie.
You never know what goes on behind closed doors ...
The acting is bad, but to be able to half-cry, stutter and make sh*t up for that long is impressive.
Was here blood on inside of windscreen where he said he hit the glass ???
No. There was blood on the outside near the opening where he shoved the pipe through
Sounds like she was a ball buster. She had to do lists for him. The camping trip got canceled due to him switching jobs again, bills were piling up, argument started and it went too far. He became enraged and killed her.
He had no balls, LOL!
@@jadie1234a Good one. He is a freak.
His side of the story...
The fact that he said his wife was afraid of breaking the windshield in the garage, coupled with the way he said the “accident” occurred seemed like would be upsetting to him, but no emotion at all. I guess I’m projecting, but it certainly would have upset me.
The prosecution brings this up during cross examination, so I'm not some super sleuth who noticed it myself. But TK definitely brings up the topic of domestic abuse before he was even asked about it. At 50:50, he says in 28 years he's never touched her or grabbed her or raised his voice to her. He's trying to explain away a topic they haven't even mentioned yet.
And he puts his hands over his eyes again after that statement when he realizes the defective think it is an odd statement to make and also the studdering again
May as well have said a bigfoot ran out and attacked them.
You win for the best comment!
with a pipe...
That would have sound more believable! You know cause there are sightings everywhere!
At least that wouldn't be tied to something he has experience with..like broken windshields. Awfully odd that such a strange thing happens to someone experienced in windshield damage.
I’m thinking aliens . . . .
Todd should be given an additional 10 years in prison for that awful acting job!
Several times he starts to make a comment that will incriminate and then trails off ..... I'm just trying to get my my my story straight ..turns into I'm hard of hearing ???
Think he beat her at their 1st stop. Panicked, stuffed her in the car. Almost forgot her purse, hence tossed in the back seat. W Barb starts coming back around, they struggle, go off the road. He has to beat he some more at the side of the road. Does he find the pipe and dream up the story 🤷♀️
I wish as soon a trial ends the defendenant if found guilty has to tell the complete true story from start to finish...and if the defendant is found guilty but was really innocent...god comes down and sets it straight...and u win $2,000,000...
This guy is guilty AF...RIP BARB
Spoiler alert, if you scroll down far enough some inconsiderate person divulges the verdict. I guess they don’t realize that many trial watchers don’t want to know in the middle of watching the trial 🤬
Almost 4yrs later…Trial watchers are still coming back to rewatch Kendhammer’s interrogation & testimony to discuss his bizarre behavior.
OMG.....That continuous shaking of his leg is driving me crazy. How did that cop not grab it and yell STOP!!!!!!!!
Ya don't want this guy with you in a crisis situation!....but either way, in this case; there's a definite Wrongful Death suit against him just in the treatment and handling of her body after the "accident".
he clearly thinks that if he taps his leg, shakes, stutters and heavy breathes, the cop will feel sorry that he is sooooooo upset nd let him go home and not ask any more questions. Im not even in the same room and can turn it off, i couldn't handle having to be in that room with him with all the fake dramatics. .
Why would the door keep shutting? If he kept himself between her and the door, why would it keep shutting. He’s lying through his teeth. He anxious because he knows his story doesn’t make sense. Trying to make excuses as to why her hyoid bone was fractured. What fd him up was her blood vessels burst in her eyes from pressure placed on the neck from strangling her. He’s gross and a liar. Kids sticking up for him shows how controlling he was.
Another lie to cover for bruises. 😏
You are absolutely right.
That was a trick pipe to fly through the windshield and choke Barb like that then smash up TK's knuckles before jumping back out of the windshield 🧐
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I find it very telling that Todd never gets mad at the detectives due to their line of questioning. If I were completely innocent of something, and had detectives saying they thought I was lying, at some point, I'd be furious!
Right!!
Todd kept his mouth shut for 25 years, he looked at the list of chores Barb put on the fridge and passively aggressively, didn’t get them all done. She complained about the garage one too many times and he snapped. I think he may have talked himself into believing his own story.