I feel like I’m listening to a love story of nibbas and nibbis. Just because of spill bee is telling the story, I’m listening to it. 😂 trust me I don’t even know them
Rida herself is a big red flag. She ruined her friend's relationship by portraying how a relationship should be . But relationship itself has too many ups and downs. You both partner should compromise certain times. Instead of expecting only the other partner putting all the effort and how he should treat you or he should behave. She ruined her friend's relationship. I have been watching Rida's videos from past few weeks she's a big red flag not others. Never involve a third person in your relationship. She ruined her friend's happy relationship. I have seen friend's ruining happy relationships by suggesting them he is not the one, he is not treating you well something like that.
Rida isn't that bad but the attitude Rida has "I know everything" must stop. First of all Rida needs to communicate with a normal man and understand about men. It's true that no women needs a man to do things for her but a thousand times men and women complete each other she needs to learn this. It's like Rida forces her ideology on men thatswhy she constantly tells her friends about men should be this or that. But tbh I will also blame Apoorva she's the biggest redflag like being a baddie and redflag both are different. And as far spell bee defines apoorva's personality is weird as well. Most important the thing these two women are doing shaming the guy and all just shows their cheap mentality about relationship. You can't expect the guy to sit quite and listen ofcourse he will defend himself. Internet is literally a store house that has the capability to ruin anyone's future as well no matter how good you become. A big example is Sunny Leone she's a nice person but still today she is shamed for her past that she did because there wasn't any other option.
@@suruuuuuu Yes totally people like Rida are so drowned in their own ideology that they think everything a man does (except being a pet) is redflag. I'm saying this much because I've known Rida for pretty long on internet and many of my close ones are men and seeing her talk like that about every man just angers me.
I loved how you explained the relationships in today's generation and how two people can't be fit in red and green boxes, not only the video but also the message you gave was great.
Tbh we are so much being fed with impossible standards of social media couples that we have started to believe that it is real and we will have a guy without any flaws.. its sad that we expect a man of 0 flaws before even becoming like one
Wow you are such a great girl .. Its good to see that a girl is saying this that in today's generation the girls are having such an unrealistic expectations from their partner ...
5:02 I'd got some of Rida reels on my feed and based on that I'd sensed maturity and clarity from her. But after watching this video regarding Apoorva and Utsav breakup rhapsody, I highly doubt if Rida is the same person in the real life as well or she has multiple personalities on different platforms...👀😶🌫️
Actually few things rida said can be inspiring for the girls who don't get chance to study and to pursue a career but if girls are inspiring from her for the relationship advice she gives to the girls then definitely girls are choosing a wrong person as their inspiration .. Because whatever she said on relationship and what she wants from a men for most of the men this type of girl is. a red flag ...
Seriously girls are being red flags chalta phirta but they want a men who has 0 flaws compromise, efforts everything matters in a relationship obviously you don’t need to be choosy every time you can make him or her understand about your likes or dislikes uske baad you are not happy or getting the same thing than end it but don’t blame one gender each and every time girls need to understand a lot about life and love practically am also a hopeless romantic person but if I’ll find someone I can also buy flower for him and he can do the same
Tbh we are so much being fed with impossible standards of social media couples that we have started to believe that it is real and we will have a guy without any flaws.. its sad that we expect a man of 0 flaws before even becoming like one
CORRECT! And i. Don't understand ye negative rants, red flag banna why people are normalizing this stuff. Simple si baat hai sabke saath acche se behaviour karo toh samne vala bhi acche se behavior karega! But people these days are too busy to look "Cool" On social media by saying something disrespectful
Apoorva and rida tharana are big red flags and pseudo feminist, like these girls are literally bullying him Whereas uss bande ne kuch kaha bhi nahi , yeh apoorva literally usko gadha sab keh rahi apne board cast pe sab and yeh rid abhi bully karrahi hai comments main sab which is soo immature and uncalled for phir yeh log baat karte hai mental health ki wah re wah i get so negative vibes from rida and apoorva
9:02 the best advice you gave is koi bhi insan pura perfect nhi hota agar aap kahoge ki aapka partner aapke isharo pe chale ya aapki choices usse mile toh aisa nhi ho skta har rishte me jhagda hota h aur manana pdta h samne wale ko smjhne ke sath sath smjhana bhi pdta h I'm ready to compromise on myself because i really love my partner and he's also ready to sacrifice anything for me rishta dono taraf se chalta h dono ko efforts dalna hota h if you really love someone
Bhai bestfriend ka boyfriend is NEVER your friend. Especially if u didn't know him untill these 2 happened. U can enjoy with him but he is NEVER YOUR FRIEND
My mother once said to me..... A relationship between a men &women when they are seen each other for partner for future...they must know marriage is a seesaw ride.... On one hand it's you with your complete different nature and different rules.... And on the other hand it's your partner with his /her different rules of life. .......and to make this marriage seesaw work both had to compromise and both had to settle on a ground away for their ego....and after marriage or in a relationship you have to remember that the day you decide that he/she is your from that day on words each and everything is link with your partner ... If it's a praise or criticism.... And if sometime in your life you lower yourself down just to make others happy or to take a step forward to make this relationship stable and work for both of you....then you are right and because ( fruits always grows on the branches below the tree ) .... Because they know the value of fruit.....
i used to follow apoorva since she was a small creator, like barely 500 likes on each video. she used to make fashion content too back then. she seems like a genuinely nice person
Spill be your thoughts are articulate for most of the topics and i love it. You are one of the genuinely intellectual and emotionally intelligent one. Keep going 💪🕺
Bhai these influencers Just don't need a partner they need someone to afford them a lifestyle which they dream' of even if agar vo utna earn ni krta... These influencers Inka content hi yahi. H...
I always get this feeling the girls who brag about high standrd and all are the one end up being with red flag .now a days i stop follwing these influencer all they show is fake 90% of couple influencer brokeup .
I don't know why but when i was watching apoorva's thailand diaries na i was having a feeling that they are going to broke up soon , like i have seen her reels nd rida's reel too but i was just having this feeling that soon apoorva nd his bf will be broke up .
it seems like ye ladki hi red flag he cause ye khud nahi janti isse kya chahiye, kabhi bolti kisi ki jarurat ni, kabhi khud hi ladka dhund ri he😒use banda chahiye jo all time usse aage piche ghume c'mon girl ladka he kutta ni uski bhi apni life he all time princess treatment to khud ke ghr vale nahi dete, to tum apne bade se kaise kar sakte ho tumhara relationship phase badlega hi yaar kyuki tumhari life roj same nahi hogi,i know ladke pehele alag aur baad me efforts kam dalte he,but yaar socho tumhari mom agar tumhare dad se aise hi expect karti ki nayi shadi ke jaise hi bahar ghumene le chale hotel me khana khilaye to tum jo luxuries life jee rahe hi jeete unhone compromise kiye jo vakt vo khud ko dete vo vakt unhone fir tumhari dekhbaal me lagaya and i think ye vo last gen he jo ek dusre ke saath abhi nibha rahe he aur vo bhi utne hi shiddhat se varna to hum har chhotti baat me red falg green flag karke rishte khatam kar dete he
You have such a beautiful thoughts .. Even when I was reading your comment I thought I have written this because I also have same kind of ideologies in my life .. Actually the problem is we normal people give too much hype to this so called influencers .. What I feel is that we shouldn't given a single attention to them when we want relationship advice we don't need to consider them as our role model for having A happy relationship in our life .. I feel we should use our own brain to make our relationship healthy and life long lasting otherwise we will also suffer if we follow the footpath of this influencers. .. And don't worry their are many boys and girls out their like me and you who don't follow the advice of this influencers so in future also people can have successful marriages but they don't have to follow the influencers ideologies or bollywood ideologies. ..
I don't know about apoorva but i know rida tharana ..her last bf or lover was good. .. woh banda rida ke most of the expenses manage kiya karta ta .even home rent...also Jab rida bas 3k followers te un sab reel mein woh banda bhi ata ta and supportive bhi ta, ek sath happy moments bhi share karte te .. But after rida famous no idea about that guy .. (I know rida since 2017 ..same University)..
Dii please make video on some toxic fans who is giving hate, death threat and abusing Abhishek Malhan because he call Manisha his sister in an interview...they are even blackmailing him by self harming themselves and suicide
Takes two to tango...so similarly... compatible nhi hote log to problems hoti huin..problems hongi to galat decisions b hote hain..or ultimately break ups hote hain....so it's not only one person. U may be fireworks together and love each other with so much passion while have zero compatibility or understanding. And that's why it does not work
Thank god someone is speaking against Ridaa and her hypocrisy! for some reason I never liked her content. the way she made " feminist" reels by bashing men who were in her life for sometime. Her motivation always sounded so fake. as a Women myself I would NEVER agree that we don't need men in our lives. her content is always dramatised and pseudofeministic. huh. kodos spill bee!! well narrated one! 🤗
That's why some girl best friends are a total red carpet..They don't tell you to sort things out after a silly fight with your partner.. instead they tell you to break-up.. And if she is single so she will try her best to messing up things b/w u and ur partner.. So if you want to be happy in your relationship never tell your friends about silly fights with your partner...They will always tell you to breakup... And in girls jealousy is so common at every point.
Idk y people forget for a relationship to work there should be sacrifice and understanding If no one is ready to sacrifice, then how will things work ? These two girls dont want to adjust and understand at all. They just want others to adjust for them.
More often than not, people who jump to label somebody else as the bad person or red flag are the most sus. They’re being preemptive before the truth about themselves comes out.
I dont know why rida is interfering in her bsf's breakup yeah rida should comfort apoorva and that's what we all do for our bestfriend but hating on utsav doesn't make sense at all
So one day I was watching one of her Thailand reels only and I was wondering ki ye ladka isko jhelta kaise hai. Being a woman I'm saying that she's too much. Utsav ke baare mein idk ki vo insaan kaisa hai but he was being caring in almost every video so I can't say ki vo pretend karra tha. I think that there must have been some sort of a fight jaha dono ko realise hua hoga that they can't do each other and it's fine. It's important to really know what do you want from your partner. I liked a friend of mine but I was rude at times to him and then one day I got to know he came in a relationship. I was shattered that I told him my love for him and he still did this but then I realised that I was being borderline mean and that we were not each other's peace. So it's fine but I think one should know that at some place both the parties at fault.
Oh they broke up?? He’s part of her social media presence/brand like her Thailand vlogs. These are lessons for non-influencers who use social media-“all that glitters isn’t gold”. Since it’s Valentine’s week, you might be seeing a surge in lovey-dovey romantic reels/quotes & #relationshipgoals & feel single or start comparing if you’re married/committed. More often than not, romance on Instagram is monetised/sponsored. A regular person needs true love, loyalty & not these big sweeping gestures (yes, you can indulgence sometimes) that are often not even paid by the couple. They sell/commodify such a personal relationship for ₹₹₹. People who are willing to do that cannot be expected to be well-adjusted humans. Be self-assured & secure.
I don't know about anyone here in this video still I want to say that some girls talk about equality and keep bragging about girl's right and very convinently they forget about men's right also
I think uski so called best friend nehi uska breakup karwa diya. Asten ka saap 🐍 lag rahi hai wo, and listening to your info feels like this apoorva girl has Selena Gomez " Sympathy Seeker" problem 😂😂 & that utsav guy is on " Kun faya Kun " mode.
For some reason, I never vibed with Rida's content, and I felt guilty that maybe my 'feminism' hasn't reached that point yet, but now that you have explained the two-faced sides SO WELL, it makes sense. Thank you ❤
Rida's struggling story can be inspiring for many GIRLS because She left her parents house and took the loan of 3 lakhs to build her career she has worked hard to be independent and capable enough to earn by her own without having any parent support her parent's were keep on threatening her to marry her to the MEN of their choice.. So it can be a inspiring story for many GIRLS ... But but let me clear my full POV on RIDA because her struggle for the survival can be inspiring for the GIRLS but if GIRLS are inspiring from her on the RELATIONSHIP advices she is GIVING on her REELS or INSTAGRAM or on her INTERVIEWS then GIRLS you believe me or NOT but as a BOY I feel you are going to become a RED FLAG for many BOYS if you will follow her footsteps for RELATIONSHIPS ... Because she don't want to SETTLE for LESS but I don't think she is having those high values in her life which she will add on in his HUSBAND's life .. Expecting something from your PARTNER is not wrong after all everyone has some expectations in life but never forget that your partner is also going to expect something from you aab tum tab ye nhi bol sakte ki mai ye nhi karunga yaa nhi karungi because if your partner is making you happy then his/her happiness is the first priority of yours ... Kisi ne sahi kaha hai if the guy is treating you like a queen then treat him like a king ... In many of her interviews she has literally said this that for her mumma's boy is the biggest red flag I don't understand this thing how a guy who is so much deeply connected with his mother can be a red flag for a GIRL ...Their are many guys in the society who are so so so much closed to their mother's but for them their wife is not lesser then anyone may be for them their mother is little bit above then his wife but believe me that is just little bit only because MEN do need WIFE in their LIFE they have the importance for their WIFES after all a GIRL left everything for her husband and many husband respect that also they give that comfortable zone secure environment in his family to their wife ... If the GIRL who start a relationship on this condition that you shouldn't be a mumma's boy then it will be a very big heartbreaker deal breaker for a GUY he will immediately labeled you as a RED FLAG and it is a RED FLAG ... GIRLS must have that big heart to completely accept his parents as her OWN she is the complete green forest for a GUY ...
Rida isn't bad but what she and Apoorva are doing is very cheap. Shaming the guy and their relationship on social media is totally cheap. Plus Rida must understand a psychology of a man she can't just idealise a man and force that thought on anyone.
@lmao164 It is clear how they are attacking each other by some means and Rida is supporting apoorva. Incase you're a blind fan or something of apoorva then there's nothing to say.
Sooooo heres the deal ... i have many close friends who's believes in relationship/choice/lifestyle are way different if my friend wants to baddie i wont interrupt that while i will still look for the men i want
Half the people don't know she does with alot of guys for trips. She did this with the one other guy aswell in her college who actually helped her start this journey 😂 but yeah she left him after using him and then that guy left this 🌎
Me who is tired of rida’s shit can’t she ignore stuff and mind her own business. Her vibe is so preacher. Oh god i get so annoyed she is always blabbering.
I think you missed something here... on her broadcast channel she shared some videos where she was getting drunk with her male best friend named jatin (the teen travels) and that guy visited her place alone after getting drunk. Now I am not saying having male bestfriend is wrong or anything BUT GETTING DRUNK WITH HIM AND STAYING ALONE WITH HIM THAT TOO WHEN YOU HAVE A BOYFRIEND. I think no boyfriend would tolerate such thing and that CAN BE the reason for their breakup. also after some people pointed out this thing in her comments, she deleted the photos and videos that she shared on her broadcast.
Wow, 8:32 Discussion from here point onwards is so true. People are too complex to be summed up into boxes. Thank you for sharing this. 9:02 True storyyyy! 9:11 Wow! Thank you for sharing this girl. 9:09
3:39 bhai what do you mean by leader ab log inn influencers ko itna idolize kyu karte hai i mean leader, inspiration banane vala insaan thoda accha toh hona chahiye. Negative rants, kisi ko publicly bura bulana is now considered as "cool" BHAI DISRESPECT AUR COOL MAI BOHOT FARAK HOTA HAI
I think men should not get offended by the phrase "I don't need a man" because it is directed towards men as boyfriend or husband not as father, brother or all the men around us in different profession. Men can also say they don't need a woman as a partner.
Chup feminist ki chodi ayi Badi is cheez ko support karne Wali tu sali khud aesi hogi aur haan as a partner bole na kyuki sirf I don't need a man kyu bolti ho kyuki tum jaise ladkiyaan apne baap ki bhi sagi nhi hoti hai.
Oh i didn't follow them i saw her reels idk 😶 why she handling so immaturely way i think she is smart enough she take her break up as a real content...iska yeh ab 6 month chalega for her fame it's perfect opportunity to attention.
Personally I don't like when people bash each other after break up.. like you guys were doing all that lovey dovey just beforebreak up. It's fine break up happens but one should have a class and not bash each other.
Everyone is confused ...Specially women .. half of them want to be independent and baddie and all that stuff while half of them want someone to support them :D
Rida is main reason for their break up man her feed is totally about hating on man and being jelouls of other people plus how to make every situation about herself, I came across her recent reel which was about attending her friend's wedding and there also she tried to Gaslight her bring her past made things all about her self and even spread hate on men That girl seriously need therapy
No wonder why men today are afraid to get married coz they very well doubt they will end up with red flag. Getting a divorce is also an expensive task as these women will ask for a hefty alimony. India’s top divorce lawyer has also exposed the hypocrisy of many women whose main intension of marriage is getting divorced and ask for for a huge alimony and lead a comfortable life
I genuinely saw utsav as a really good guy and even today i believe so as he still respects the past relationship and don't publicly make fun of it By the way amazing work 🎉very correct thought process
when rida has 200k followers i started following her and i liked her content cuz it was relatable but from past 1 year i couldn't bear with her content cuz the hypocrisy in her content OMG!!!! RIDA IS HERSELF A RED FLAG 🚩🚩 and the toxic Feminism vibs from her is unbearable gosh!!! 😵💫
Me who don't even know apoorva 😂😂
I thought it was Divya's husband , Apurva at first lol .. par fir socha Divya ne firse kya kar dia 🤦🏻♂️😂
Same mai bhi soch rahi ki yeh hai kaun😂😂
Same, mai bas yaha Spill bee ke liye aati hu, baki mujhe ye Insta vale log bhi nhi pata😂
Same here 😅
Bingo lol
Thank god someone is calling out rida's hypocrisy💀👍
exactly
Rida herself is such a red flag 🤦♀️
She should really calm down
I thought she is good... cause she was very confident about her skin and all.😢
what did she do ?
@@anonymous20060just because she is confident doesn’t mean she is a kind hearted or empathetic person.
@@Fg45662 yeah that's a point 😮💨
someone said it 😭
Rida is gas lighting Apoorva rather than pointing out mistakes she made while being in a relationship.
truee! and she gives us gyaan about red flags and how to stay away from them lol. such an irony!
as a feminist what else you expect from her
I feel like I’m listening to a love story of nibbas and nibbis. Just because of spill bee is telling the story, I’m listening to it. 😂 trust me I don’t even know them
Same 😂
Same 🤣
😂😂same
Not only u bro same here 😂😂
Same here😂😂
Directly or indirectly rida always convinently put blames on men
truee
Also , its funny that ridha thinks someone wants to date her...lol she is a walking red flag
@@vivekshrivastava3438no she isnt . She states facts and men like u justbcry
No she makes sense. U don't think from women's POV
@@abhinavsharma2179 u being a man and saying this. Sure lol
Rida herself is a big red flag. She ruined her friend's relationship by portraying how a relationship should be . But relationship itself has too many ups and downs. You both partner should compromise certain times. Instead of expecting only the other partner putting all the effort and how he should treat you or he should behave. She ruined her friend's relationship. I have been watching Rida's videos from past few weeks she's a big red flag not others. Never involve a third person in your relationship. She ruined her friend's happy relationship. I have seen friend's ruining happy relationships by suggesting them he is not the one, he is not treating you well something like that.
Rida isn't that bad but the attitude Rida has "I know everything" must stop. First of all Rida needs to communicate with a normal man and understand about men. It's true that no women needs a man to do things for her but a thousand times men and women complete each other she needs to learn this. It's like Rida forces her ideology on men thatswhy she constantly tells her friends about men should be this or that. But tbh I will also blame Apoorva she's the biggest redflag like being a baddie and redflag both are different. And as far spell bee defines apoorva's personality is weird as well. Most important the thing these two women are doing shaming the guy and all just shows their cheap mentality about relationship. You can't expect the guy to sit quite and listen ofcourse he will defend himself. Internet is literally a store house that has the capability to ruin anyone's future as well no matter how good you become. A big example is Sunny Leone she's a nice person but still today she is shamed for her past that she did because there wasn't any other option.
@@ayushighosh7475 Yes, what you said is accurate. It's important for them both to understand that girls can also be red flags not only boys.
@@suruuuuuu Yes totally people like Rida are so drowned in their own ideology that they think everything a man does (except being a pet) is redflag. I'm saying this much because I've known Rida for pretty long on internet and many of my close ones are men and seeing her talk like that about every man just angers me.
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"Jaisa dikhta hai waisa hota nhi "
These influencers are literally masters when it comes to faking
Spillbee: Insta pe wo kafi famous hain
Meanwhile me: The only apurba I know in my life is my friend from 3rd grade.
😂😂😂😂
Exactly
Me being a person named apoorwa😂
Earlier, the relationship was monetised, now the breakup is… it’s a cycle for social media influencers 🔄
À la Avanti Nagral 😂
Exactly
lol
8:25 Exactly 💯 .. We can't judge someone is a red flag or green flag in such a small time period for his/her behavior at that moment ✅💗
I loved how you explained the relationships in today's generation and how two people can't be fit in red and green boxes, not only the video but also the message you gave was great.
rida just gives me a bad vibe bro idk how to explain it
Couldn’t agree more!!!
Yaa, same
She seems so toxic and dominant
I find her so irritating that I ended up blocking her
Tbh we are so much being fed with impossible standards of social media couples that we have started to believe that it is real and we will have a guy without any flaws.. its sad that we expect a man of 0 flaws before even becoming like one
facts
Wow you are such a great girl ..
Its good to see that a girl is saying this that in today's generation the girls are having such an unrealistic expectations from their partner ...
Rida is a prime example of how single women keep other women single.
Stay away from people who say we don't need men/girls.
5:02 I'd got some of Rida reels on my feed and based on that I'd sensed maturity and clarity from her.
But after watching this video regarding Apoorva and Utsav breakup rhapsody, I highly doubt if Rida is the same person in the real life as well or she has multiple personalities on different platforms...👀😶🌫️
Actually few things rida said can be inspiring for the girls who don't get chance to study and to pursue a career but if girls are inspiring from her for the relationship advice she gives to the girls then definitely girls are choosing a wrong person as their inspiration ..
Because whatever she said on relationship and what she wants from a men for most of the men this type of girl is. a red flag ...
I agree. We can't blindly trust one that she'll always be right🤷
Seriously girls are being red flags chalta phirta but they want a men who has 0 flaws compromise, efforts everything matters in a relationship obviously you don’t need to be choosy every time you can make him or her understand about your likes or dislikes uske baad you are not happy or getting the same thing than end it but don’t blame one gender each and every time girls need to understand a lot about life and love practically am also a hopeless romantic person but if I’ll find someone I can also buy flower for him and he can do the same
Now u are women❤❤❤❤
Tbh we are so much being fed with impossible standards of social media couples that we have started to believe that it is real and we will have a guy without any flaws.. its sad that we expect a man of 0 flaws before even becoming like one
@@vrutantidesai7270 that's absolutely crct
CORRECT! And i. Don't understand ye negative rants, red flag banna why people are normalizing this stuff. Simple si baat hai sabke saath acche se behaviour karo toh samne vala bhi acche se behavior karega! But people these days are too busy to look "Cool" On social media by saying something disrespectful
exactly
Im i living under a rock or what, i dnt even know who they are when they were in a relationship when they broke up😂
Apoorva and rida tharana are big red flags and pseudo feminist, like these girls are literally bullying him Whereas uss bande ne kuch kaha bhi nahi , yeh apoorva literally usko gadha sab keh rahi apne board cast pe sab and yeh rid abhi bully karrahi hai comments main sab which is soo immature and uncalled for phir yeh log baat karte hai mental health ki wah re wah i get so negative vibes from rida and apoorva
Mullo ko nahi bolna chahiye. Pls shutup. We know how u treat ur women .
"Immature shitt" making fusss😂
Nothing but just immature things...
9:02 the best advice you gave is koi bhi insan pura perfect nhi hota agar aap kahoge ki aapka partner aapke isharo pe chale ya aapki choices usse mile toh aisa nhi ho skta har rishte me jhagda hota h aur manana pdta h samne wale ko smjhne ke sath sath smjhana bhi pdta h I'm ready to compromise on myself because i really love my partner and he's also ready to sacrifice anything for me rishta dono taraf se chalta h dono ko efforts dalna hota h if you really love someone
Relationship is all about honesty, respect and trust. I am eagerly waiting for your videos. Thanku ❤❤
It’s always best to keep relationships private. Even “close friends” can get toxic to some point.
This girl talks with a point ❤💯
Edit: thanks for soo much likes🥰💝💖
Edit: Thank You for soo much likes 💗💖💝
Tbh Rida is the most fake insta influencer i've ever seen , i don't like her at all . Pseudo feminist, Faltu ka gyaan bs.
Bhai bestfriend ka boyfriend is NEVER your friend. Especially if u didn't know him untill these 2 happened. U can enjoy with him but he is NEVER YOUR FRIEND
Again bcoz of u I came to know about the existence of these people...😂
My mother once said to me..... A relationship between a men &women when they are seen each other for partner for future...they must know marriage is a seesaw ride.... On one hand it's you with your complete different nature and different rules.... And on the other hand it's your partner with his /her different rules of life. .......and to make this marriage seesaw work both had to compromise and both had to settle on a ground away for their ego....and after marriage or in a relationship you have to remember that the day you decide that he/she is your from that day on words each and everything is link with your partner ... If it's a praise or criticism....
And if sometime in your life you lower yourself down just to make others happy or to take a step forward to make this relationship stable and work for both of you....then you are right and because ( fruits always grows on the branches below the tree ) .... Because they know the value of fruit.....
i used to follow apoorva since she was a small creator, like barely 500 likes on each video. she used to make fashion content too back then. she seems like a genuinely nice person
yes i think she got distrcated by todays "standards"
@lmao164exactly it’s like people in India lack basic sense of humour or what
Me who doesn't use instagram and doesn't even know who she is still watching bcoz I love spill bee
BTS fan 🤩?
@@lavenderchai4612 No.
The boy in my pfp is Jun from Seventeen
I love BTS tho but I am not an ARMY
@@JunTheMooncarat 😭
@@svt.is.my.god. 🫂💎
@@svt.is.my.god. 🫂💎
Utsav is a former colleague, Morgan Stanley Investment Banker (makes enough money to be called rich)
I don't understand, kya log sirf social media mein hi rehte hai kya?? I'm sorry to say but I pity them.
You don't need to apologize ..
Because you are right ..
Spill be your thoughts are articulate for most of the topics and i love it. You are one of the genuinely intellectual and emotionally intelligent one. Keep going 💪🕺
Bhai these influencers Just don't need a partner they need someone to afford them a lifestyle which they dream' of even if agar vo utna earn ni krta... These influencers Inka content hi yahi. H...
Last part you explained very well.😊♥️
I always get this feeling the girls who brag about high standrd and all are the one end up being with red flag .now a days i stop follwing these influencer all they show is fake 90% of couple influencer brokeup .
I don't know why but when i was watching apoorva's thailand diaries na i was having a feeling that they are going to broke up soon , like i have seen her reels nd rida's reel too but i was just having this feeling that soon apoorva nd his bf will be broke up .
Why tho.. But they look so happy togethet
same here 😂
they posted too much when they went on a date
@@Mmxlakr idk 😶
irrelevant but Utsav is adorable😭🥰😼
WTF I just saw . Who takes her boyfriend and her best friend together to Thailand .
a walking red flag
it seems like ye ladki hi red flag he cause ye khud nahi janti isse kya chahiye, kabhi bolti kisi ki jarurat ni, kabhi khud hi ladka dhund ri he😒use banda chahiye jo all time usse aage piche ghume c'mon girl ladka he kutta ni uski bhi apni life he all time princess treatment to khud ke ghr vale nahi dete, to tum apne bade se kaise kar sakte ho tumhara relationship phase badlega hi yaar kyuki tumhari life roj same nahi hogi,i know ladke pehele alag aur baad me efforts kam dalte he,but yaar socho tumhari mom agar tumhare dad se aise hi expect karti ki nayi shadi ke jaise hi bahar ghumene le chale hotel me khana khilaye to tum jo luxuries life jee rahe hi jeete unhone compromise kiye jo vakt vo khud ko dete vo vakt unhone fir tumhari dekhbaal me lagaya and i think ye vo last gen he jo ek dusre ke saath abhi nibha rahe he aur vo bhi utne hi shiddhat se varna to hum har chhotti baat me red falg green flag karke rishte khatam kar dete he
You have such a beautiful thoughts ..
Even when I was reading your comment I thought I have written this because I also have same kind of ideologies in my life ..
Actually the problem is we normal people give too much hype to this so called influencers ..
What I feel is that we shouldn't given a single attention to them when we want relationship advice we don't need to consider them as our role model for having A happy relationship in our life ..
I feel we should use our own brain to make our relationship healthy and life long lasting otherwise we will also suffer if we follow the footpath of this influencers. ..
And don't worry their are many boys and girls out their like me and you who don't follow the advice of this influencers so in future also people can have successful marriages but they don't have to follow the influencers ideologies or bollywood ideologies. ..
I don't know about apoorva but i know rida tharana ..her last bf or lover was good. ..
woh banda rida ke most of the expenses manage kiya karta ta .even home rent...also
Jab rida bas 3k followers te un sab reel mein woh banda bhi ata ta and supportive bhi ta, ek sath happy moments bhi share karte te ..
But after rida famous no idea about that guy ..
(I know rida since 2017 ..same University)..
banda bewkoof tha phir ...saare expenses manage karna of someone who says" " she doesn't need men" itna bewkoofi kyu karna bhai zindagi me
Dii please make video on some toxic fans who is giving hate, death threat and abusing Abhishek Malhan because he call Manisha his sister in an interview...they are even blackmailing him by self harming themselves and suicide
I don't even know these people😂 just watching because this is spillbee video , i love your voice ❤❤❤
thankss ❤️❤️
Same 😂
I don't even know these people 😂
Takes two to tango...so similarly... compatible nhi hote log to problems hoti huin..problems hongi to galat decisions b hote hain..or ultimately break ups hote hain....so it's not only one person. U may be fireworks together and love each other with so much passion while have zero compatibility or understanding. And that's why it does not work
Thank god someone is speaking against Ridaa and her hypocrisy! for some reason I never liked her content. the way she made " feminist" reels by bashing men who were in her life for sometime. Her motivation always sounded so fake. as a Women myself I would NEVER agree that we don't need men in our lives. her content is always dramatised and pseudofeministic. huh. kodos spill bee!! well narrated one! 🤗
That's why some girl best friends are a total red carpet..They don't tell you to sort things out after a silly fight with your partner.. instead they tell you to break-up.. And if she is single so she will try her best to messing up things b/w u and ur partner..
So if you want to be happy in your relationship never tell your friends about silly fights with your partner...They will always tell you to breakup...
And in girls jealousy is so common at every point.
Idk y people forget for a relationship to work there should be sacrifice and understanding
If no one is ready to sacrifice, then how will things work ?
These two girls dont want to adjust and understand at all. They just want others to adjust for them.
Andrew tate is wrong "SOMETIMES" ?😭@@user-v5hkwim1b70
these two girls are the biggest red flags themselves.
More often than not, people who jump to label somebody else as the bad person or red flag are the most sus. They’re being preemptive before the truth about themselves comes out.
I dont know why rida is interfering in her bsf's breakup yeah rida should comfort apoorva and that's what we all do for our bestfriend but hating on utsav doesn't make sense at all
So one day I was watching one of her Thailand reels only and I was wondering ki ye ladka isko jhelta kaise hai. Being a woman I'm saying that she's too much. Utsav ke baare mein idk ki vo insaan kaisa hai but he was being caring in almost every video so I can't say ki vo pretend karra tha. I think that there must have been some sort of a fight jaha dono ko realise hua hoga that they can't do each other and it's fine. It's important to really know what do you want from your partner. I liked a friend of mine but I was rude at times to him and then one day I got to know he came in a relationship. I was shattered that I told him my love for him and he still did this but then I realised that I was being borderline mean and that we were not each other's peace. So it's fine but I think one should know that at some place both the parties at fault.
According to me talking bad about your ex is the biggest red flag 🚩
Tomorrow is my farewell..aur main speech ki prep. Na krke..😂break up stories dekh rhi hu.. but genuinely amazing content❤
😂😂
I love how when you said epic love story you added a gif of delena 🥺🥺
Oh they broke up?? He’s part of her social media presence/brand like her Thailand vlogs. These are lessons for non-influencers who use social media-“all that glitters isn’t gold”. Since it’s Valentine’s week, you might be seeing a surge in lovey-dovey romantic reels/quotes & #relationshipgoals & feel single or start comparing if you’re married/committed.
More often than not, romance on Instagram is monetised/sponsored. A regular person needs true love, loyalty & not these big sweeping gestures (yes, you can indulgence sometimes) that are often not even paid by the couple. They sell/commodify such a personal relationship for ₹₹₹. People who are willing to do that cannot be expected to be well-adjusted humans.
Be self-assured & secure.
These stupid Red flags amd green flags are stupid concept by Gen Z , i am also gen z kid but i also dont like it
I don't know about anyone here in this video still I want to say that some girls talk about equality and keep bragging about girl's right and very convinently they forget about men's right also
The best line "If he treats you like a queen, treat him like a king"❤❤❤❤
I'm still waiting for my queen❤❤❤❤❤.........
I think uski so called best friend nehi uska breakup karwa diya. Asten ka saap 🐍 lag rahi hai wo, and listening to your info feels like this apoorva girl has Selena Gomez " Sympathy Seeker" problem 😂😂 & that utsav guy is on " Kun faya Kun " mode.
For some reason, I never vibed with Rida's content, and I felt guilty that maybe my 'feminism' hasn't reached that point yet, but now that you have explained the two-faced sides SO WELL, it makes sense. Thank you ❤
It will reach that point in future.
Because FEMINISM is subjective, because women define it as per their own convenience.
Ridha is the most red flag man pity on the men she would marry
I was literally waiting for this 😪
Us
You are one of most intelligent UA-camr and I'm totally agreed with your opinions on relationships
I 101% agree with your opinion of red flag and green flag
Rida's struggling story can be inspiring for many GIRLS because She left her parents house and took the loan of 3 lakhs to build her career she has worked hard to be independent and capable enough to earn by her own without having any parent support her parent's were keep on threatening her to marry her to the MEN of their choice..
So it can be a inspiring story for many GIRLS ...
But but let me clear my full POV on RIDA because her struggle for the survival can be inspiring for the GIRLS but if GIRLS are inspiring from her on the RELATIONSHIP advices she is GIVING on her REELS or INSTAGRAM or on her INTERVIEWS then GIRLS you believe me or NOT but as a BOY I feel you are going to become a RED FLAG for many BOYS if you will follow her footsteps for RELATIONSHIPS ...
Because she don't want to SETTLE for LESS but I don't think she is having those high values in her life which she will add on in his HUSBAND's life .. Expecting something from your PARTNER is not wrong after all everyone has some expectations in life but never forget that your partner is also going to expect something from you aab tum tab ye nhi bol sakte ki mai ye nhi karunga yaa nhi karungi because if your partner is making you happy then his/her happiness is the first priority of yours ...
Kisi ne sahi kaha hai if the guy is treating you like a queen then treat him like a king ... In many of her interviews she has literally said this that for her mumma's boy is the biggest red flag I don't understand this thing how a guy who is so much deeply connected with his mother can be a red flag for a GIRL ...Their are many guys in the society who are so so so much closed to their mother's but for them their wife is not lesser then anyone may be for them their mother is little bit above then his wife but believe me that is just little bit only because MEN do need WIFE in their LIFE they have the importance for their WIFES after all a GIRL left everything for her husband and many husband respect that also they give that comfortable zone secure environment in his family to their wife ...
If the GIRL who start a relationship on this condition that you shouldn't be a mumma's boy then it will be a very big heartbreaker deal breaker for a GUY he will immediately labeled you as a RED FLAG and it is a RED FLAG ...
GIRLS must have that big heart to completely accept his parents as her OWN she is the complete green forest for a GUY ...
idk I just feel like it's Rida who brainwashed Apoorva and caused the break up...Idk I may be wrong
Me who don't know both of them 💀
Matlab khud apne ko red flag bolo,par khud ko dusre se green flag wala treatment hi chahiye 😂 sach me kya hi logic hai
Pls di talk about shattering friendship of damnfam.....like i really think manav and unnati are a problem in both the cases of mrunu and aashna
Rida isn't bad but what she and Apoorva are doing is very cheap. Shaming the guy and their relationship on social media is totally cheap. Plus Rida must understand a psychology of a man she can't just idealise a man and force that thought on anyone.
@lmao164 It is clear how they are attacking each other by some means and Rida is supporting apoorva. Incase you're a blind fan or something of apoorva then there's nothing to say.
Rida is such a red flag
You have put the point across very well in this video
Doesn't Rida has a 5yo brother?even her parents wanted a man(son) to complete their family cuz she wasn't enough :)))
Damn
Sooooo heres the deal ... i have many close friends who's believes in relationship/choice/lifestyle are way different if my friend wants to baddie i wont interrupt that while i will still look for the men i want
Half the people don't know she does with alot of guys for trips. She did this with the one other guy aswell in her college who actually helped her start this journey 😂 but yeah she left him after using him and then that guy left this 🌎
Bro whatttt can you explain pls what happen
today i got to know about these people
The last part was wow..about flags
I don't even know them still listening to the drama 😅
Me who is tired of rida’s shit can’t she ignore stuff and mind her own business. Her vibe is so preacher. Oh god i get so annoyed she is always blabbering.
I think you missed something here...
on her broadcast channel she shared some videos where she was getting drunk with her male best friend named jatin (the teen travels) and that guy visited her place alone after getting drunk.
Now I am not saying having male bestfriend is wrong or anything BUT GETTING DRUNK WITH HIM AND STAYING ALONE WITH HIM THAT TOO WHEN YOU HAVE A BOYFRIEND.
I think no boyfriend would tolerate such thing and that CAN BE the reason for their breakup.
also after some people pointed out this thing in her comments, she deleted the photos and videos that she shared on her broadcast.
Rida really needs to see this video and stop gaslighting.
@The spill bee, Lots of love💗
Wow, 8:32 Discussion from here point onwards is so true. People are too complex to be summed up into boxes. Thank you for sharing this. 9:02 True storyyyy! 9:11 Wow! Thank you for sharing this girl.
9:09
Such a amazing explanation ❤ about the childhood experiences and relationship ❤
3:39 bhai what do you mean by leader ab log inn influencers ko itna idolize kyu karte hai i mean leader, inspiration banane vala insaan thoda accha toh hona chahiye. Negative rants, kisi ko publicly bura bulana is now considered as "cool"
BHAI DISRESPECT AUR COOL MAI BOHOT FARAK HOTA HAI
I think men should not get offended by the phrase "I don't need a man" because it is directed towards men as boyfriend or husband not as father, brother or all the men around us in different profession. Men can also say they don't need a woman as a partner.
Men generally don’t care, but it’s a lil concerning that how many people are saying that phrase lately
Chup feminist ki chodi ayi Badi is cheez ko support karne Wali tu sali khud aesi hogi aur haan as a partner bole na kyuki sirf I don't need a man kyu bolti ho kyuki tum jaise ladkiyaan apne baap ki bhi sagi nhi hoti hai.
Just sreach kam trend
You will understand why men get offended.
Oh i didn't follow them i saw her reels idk 😶 why she handling so immaturely way i think she is smart enough she take her break up as a real content...iska yeh ab 6 month chalega for her fame it's perfect opportunity to attention.
Personally I don't like when people bash each other after break up.. like you guys were doing all that lovey dovey just beforebreak up. It's fine break up happens but one should have a class and not bash each other.
Everyone is confused ...Specially women .. half of them want to be independent and baddie and all that stuff while half of them want someone to support them :D
9:10 se ye bahut deep baat hai 💕🥹😊
Rida is main reason for their break up man her feed is totally about hating on man and being jelouls of other people plus how to make every situation about herself,
I came across her recent reel which was about attending her friend's wedding and there also she tried to Gaslight her bring her past made things all about her self and even spread hate on men
That girl seriously need therapy
No wonder why men today are afraid to get married coz they very well doubt they will end up with red flag. Getting a divorce is also an expensive task as these women will ask for a hefty alimony. India’s top divorce lawyer has also exposed the hypocrisy of many women whose main intension of marriage is getting divorced and ask for for a huge alimony and lead a comfortable life
6:23 she said we don't need men to be happy and not we don't need men.
Very nice presentation, waiting for more videos like this 👏👏👏
Exactly ur saying correct abut the red n green flags
I genuinely saw utsav as a really good guy and even today i believe so as he still respects the past relationship and don't publicly make fun of it
By the way amazing work 🎉very correct thought process
Didi your voice is so soothing.
when rida has 200k followers i started following her and i liked her content cuz it was relatable but from past 1 year i couldn't bear with her content cuz the hypocrisy in her content OMG!!!! RIDA IS HERSELF A RED FLAG 🚩🚩 and the toxic Feminism vibs from her is unbearable gosh!!! 😵💫
I never liked Rida..her vibe is quite ajeeb