More To The Game Podcast | S4EP1: Why Black Athletes Marry White Women
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- Опубліковано 27 сер 2024
- Despite the statistics, there is consensus that successful African American athletes tend to date and marry caucasian women at A high rate. In this video I discuss the reasons why black athletes date white women.
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I always wonder how it feels. You see white athletes married to people who look like them...Asian same. Then you see majority of black athletes married or with people who dont look like them. Of course love is love. So white love only sees white love 99% of time while black love only sees biracial and white love? Do you see where im going? I feel for the black athlete always feeling inferior, never enough.
It’s definitely a very interesting dynamic
It's weird to see like a cult but it only affects black men.
tbh exactly
GREAT POINT & EVERYONE ELSE SEES IT TOO ITS EMBARRASSING TO OUR BLAQ RACE
@@KittenJoyceBAD MAYO LOL😅 HOW ABOUT 🐕
The funny thing about this chat is most black athletes are dating or married to black women but the media only focuses on the interracial ones while the black couples never get shown spotlight.
Thank You!
They want a certain narrative, especially Hollywood (NBA, NFL is Hollywood if you didn’t know) and they want to make sure BW are viewed as undesirable
Half the nba are not married to blk women
DING DING DING DING!!!
Name 5 NFL athletes married to a black women
Living in America makes me so depressed , I go under so much pressure to fit into a certain standard, and black men just show so much hate towards black women
It’s sad that I always have to wonder if a guy likes black women , we are basically the last choice , usually
Remember the statistics show that these things only apply to a select group of people. Don’t let the choices of celebrities distort reality
I think that goes both ways
@@swampred321 but black women are affected the most
Black men has been brainwashed . It’s more psychological than anything. Ptss( post traumatic slavery syndrome) . The idea of being able to be with someone that was once untouchable or could even look at at one time. But now you can not only look at but marry and mate with them.
On a spiritual level they don’t know who the h e-l they are.
I think it's a trend. And the fact that they know the benefits of highly paid black male athletes to be allowed to have physical access to their women. Part could be based on love, some based on lust and fetish, and finally financial reciprocation.
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“Benefits of having Access to their women “ interracial marriages was legalized because of a black woman and white man, no man controls wgo has “access” to a woman. The only relationship that’s fetish is black woman / white men. You’re delusional thinking someone has to “fetush@ someone ti be attracted to them. Women of any race is natural for then time be atttacted to men who are physically fit that’s not a “fetish”
@@moretothegame
Black women aren't a prize.
There's nothing wrong with having preferences and standards.
@@KINGAMIIAMKINGYou must not be a prize as well BLACK man. Disgusting, shameless beast. How stupid you are.
You probably over thinking it. High profile rich men are just around more high profile rich white women.
As a black women I was never attracted to athletes so I was never upset when they married white. I think people chose people who chose them.
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White Women chase down (stalk) black men with money, because they know black men in general crave white skin. That's why they feel like they "made it" when they get one.
She could be broker than an Alley Rat, but if she's white, he's "made it" in his eyes. My question is, WTF is "it". The only thing I see is him MAKING HIMSELF A TARGET to be taken down by other Men who don't like it...
You black???
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Exactly?
Why this is even a subject is beyond me.
Overblown stereotypes, most black men choose black women.
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I know someone that used to play in the NFL he's black and only dates black women but he told me that black players are encouraged to marry white women because they are better at managing money I was surprised but that's what he told me
Interesting story!
Charleston white also said something similar, so then again it means these athletes dont know how to manage their own money?
Don’t tread lightly, say what you feel . I’m constantly having conversations with black people ( especially black men) about why they date out . Let me be clear , I’m not against interracial marriage I’m more so intrigued by the conversation of blackness. I think it’s interesting how a black man will have a child with a white women and say that their child is black . We oftentimes erase the biracial experience; black men will state that they created a black child but then be upset with the NBA Draft is full of biracial players that don’t “look like them”
I said It how I felt. I’m very indifferent on the topic even tho I haven’t dated interacially. My goal was to be objective and let the audience like yourself give they subjective takes. I appreciate the feedback and points your brought up fasho!
Black men don’t care about the race in the nba
Who is upset about nba draft? I’m light skin black man with two black parents. Most of them look like me.
Blaxk women cry about colorism but they beg to have babies with white men to produce the same women they complain about.
@@Kevin-pp3bp you have 2 black parents not 1 . I get what your saying but there is a difference
The thing is black men are nicer to women of other races they are more respectful to these women they got a different attitude towards non black women
It’s a case by case thing. Everyone is different and has seen and experienced different things.
look at how other women carry their self and how blaxk women carry their self. That explains why.
@@kaden1199 Bye Karen
@@connorkenway288 the fact you think I’m s careen must make you s Daren trailer park reject
Look at how black men get treated when they act "nice" to you all
They're all snow bunnied... Sick of it. Never dated outside my race...
Thank You for your perspective
I love the snow
Who cares what u did
@@everybodywannabelikemike_ stick your comment where the sun does not shine.
Black people really truly do not understand interracial dynamics in business or in love. We have so much work to do on OURSELVES. Until black men and women learn to see ourselves as “The Prize” we will remain at the bottom as support structures for EVERYONE ELSE. If we are not going to do that then we must learn to accommodate ourselves to where we are.
Thank You for your perspective!
People are people , the
*TRUTH has no color* .
Eventually enough people are going to procreate from different places around the world , and that act willl be the blender that this worlld clearly needs .
The *TRUTH HAS NO COLOR* , people are people .
Eventually enough people are going to procreate from different places around the world , and that act will be the blender that this world clearly needs .
@@moretothegame No matter what anyone says the problem with black people is that we (black men and women) seem to have an inability to resist the strong gravitational pull of moral depravity. It causes a downward spiral that engulfs our entire race in everything needed to destroy any group of people. Look at rap and hip hop culture and then look at the anti-Israel marchers you will notice the world stereotype of black people clearly MANIFEST. Let me clarify examples: All human organs have certain hungers. The stomach hungers for: FOOD
The lungs hunger for: OXYGEN
The heart hungers for OXYGEN and BLOOD
The muscles hunger for: ACTIVITY
The brain hungers for: KNOWLEDGE
Yet of all people on earth with knowledge readily available for free BLACK PEOPLE are the least interested in engorging themselves with it. To sound wise they desire AFTER EVERYTHING ELSE. The anti-Israel black marchers would have been known the world over for wisdom had they said: "After I study this situation in depth I will give my opinion, meanwhile I suggest that we all go to class and discuss this in depth in an immediate forum and submit papers. HELL NO we want a sensationalistic rush of participation in the madness of the crowd. We want to cut class. Then after we graduate, if at all, without a true well earned degree (obvious because they have NO CLUE WHY THEY ARE MARCHING OR WHAT THEY ARE MARCHING FOR) we want to go to a high paying job in a field SATURATED with JEWISH PEOPLE and expect to get hired even though intellectual and verbal skills (with hyper-excellent extemporaneous english speaking and rhetorical brilliance) must be the BARE MINIMUM and can be acquired in THE CLASSROOM and NOT reading your rallying points from your FKING cellphone. Who has been your ETERNAL ally in America, Black Child? If God does not bless any nation with a Jewish population that nation is truly accursed. Africa has yet to learn that and will remain in a tailspin. Those Black students marching know nothing about The Maghreb or the Trans-Saharan Slave Trade or today's OCCUPATION of North Africa. Indeed Israel has NEVER occupied a single colony in Africa but hey you'd have to READ that in order to know that, so that is impossible for you to know. Critical thinking requires extensive and intensive reading in order to develop logical thinking. In a class you learn to debate NOT in an unenlightened morass of a crowd of extraordinarily carnal, hedonistic, anti-intellectual, nation- destroying, walking ZOMBIES. Who bolstered the Civil Rights Movement? Who has always been a sympathetic and self-sacrificing ally in the racial struggles of Black People even to their own deaths? The very people you are marching against and now embittering with your deluded, perfidious, traitorous, and woefully ignorant marching. The very people you are advocating have NEVER EVER RESPECTED YOU for even having an intellectual capacity in their entire history even though the Jewish people took note of your POTENTIAL. Who fostered your upward mobility? Go look in North Africa and you will NOT find them.
@@moretothegame What is the difference between *ABSOLUTE TRUTH* and a perspective ? .
Choose who chooses you!
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Self hate is the main reason
Thank You for sharing your opinion
They choose white women because they hate themselves?? 🤔
Very good topic. Definitely will stay tuned for more. This has been an ongoing ordeal for our men. Acceptance is one of the factors in situations like this.
Yea it’s tricky situation that varies based on your environment and upbringing
I’m glad you enjoy the content!
Thanks for your objective approach to this subject. I went to a PWI so I understand and witnessed the temptation. As a female, however, I was committed to my 'race' and refused to become an experimental fling with a white guy who wanted to date me (aside from there being no attraction). With white women and their mother's, however, I believe they tell their daughters to 'target' those black athletes who they think might become successful. It starts in high school and they follow them to college.
No problem I’m glad you enjoyed the take! And that’s an interesting theory 🤔
Yeap
What is a race ?.
MOST BLAQ WOMEN STAY TRUE TO OUR BLAQ RACE WHAT CAN A WHYTE MAN DO FOR ME IM TO CULTURED I DONT HAVE TIME TO EXPLAIN SHYT I LOVE WHO I AM & THEIR RACE IS DIFFERENT HOW THEY LIVE WEIRD I DON'T WANT TO BE A PART OF THAT
@@WISHBONEL7BEING DIFFERENT AS PEOPLE U KNOW WHAT IT IS
TROLL WE BLAQ PEOPLE IDENTIFY YOU WHYTE PEOPLE CANT IDENTIFY WITH SHYT WHATS YOUR CULTURE U HAVE NONE
athletes can do whatever they want, mind your business!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! find a hobby, do knitting, gardening or something stop worrying about other people's success
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GENERALLY SPEAKING, I believe MOST Black men date and/or marry outside of the "race" for reasons other than "race". I believe by and large it has more to do with CULTURE than COLOR. Statistically there are MORE White/non-Black women that come from a 2-parent MARRIED household, presumably where the man is able to lead his family and household, then what the numbers are in the Black, mainly single mother led household. Men GENERALLY (non toxic, heterosexual masculine men) regardless of ethnicity, want to marry a woman and into a family with at least a solid traditional family history where the daughter has a good and healthy relationship with her father and the parents are still together married. Because that is a strong indication that the otherwise White/non-Black woman will bring those solid values into there marital covenant.
That is a great objective point! Thank You so much for sharing.
So if that's what men want, then why do so many black men abandon their families?
@@sigmasiren777 That’s an extremely loaded question that can’t responsibly or realistically be boiled down to one reason. Even though Blacks lead in this category, you should look at the stats because all across the board fatherlessness has increased. Again I’m just sharing my observation in my view. I can’t speak for every individual Blackman for why it didn’t work out or why he’s not in the lives of his children and your children’s mother. He could be a deadbeat loser. Or he could’ve made a horrible mistake of laying with a vindictive and scorn Woman who would ultimately intentionally keep the father’s children out of his life, AGAINST the father’s desire or wishes. Context is always key.
50% of American marriages end up in divorce
All of this is great, but the fact is this is 2023. Black women no longer have exclusive access to black men. And a lot of women outside of the black community are attracted to black men. And in this day and time they are free and more openly pursuing black men. Another factor is black people underestimate that black American men are some of the most desired men in the world. The fact is at least 20 percent of every ethnic group of women are open to dating and marrying black men. Now you do the math, Nlack women face stiff competitive for successful black men and many can’t compete or don’t want to.
We’ve caught so much hell in this country as a people, especially Black men that some of them once they make it, want no memories of the past. When Black men don’t heal and go back to their original creation role, they run at the moment of seeing their own shadow. Black women haven’t been taught to have that sweet fragrance they tend to smell from white or Latina women. With that said, the actual stench some say they actual smell on Black women, is actually their very own scent. Once the men are in order, the women will fall into place. Many BM want it the other way around. They keeps them from having to do the work. BW need healing as well. This was all part of the original plan to keep us divided. Take the man and you destroy the family. Interesting numerical facts on the number of BM who marry BW. The media paints a completely different picture.
Thank You for your perspective
I always say that accessibility or proximity is a big factor. This goes for any race. Dr Umar will disagree though
Of course he would 😂
all the reasons you mentioned , most of the time happen concurrently so you have a huge superstructure of reasons .
you also failed to mention Colorisim. I think this is important Because the “black” women many athletes tend to marry look a certain way
That falls under the self hate category imo
That’s a good point because a lot of the black male athletes are dating/married to biracial women. Biracial isn’t black, it’s biracial, so I’m trying to figure out how is it black love.
Black women are also considered equal when it comes to sexual gratification. We can match the passion the black man puts out. It's in our walk,moves,and syncopated dancing
Lovely!
Black women have the lowest SMV
This that dumb shit that keeps yall getting knocked up & left!
No y'all can't
YESS WE BLAQWOMEN HAVE THAT MATCHED ENERGY WITH OUR OWN KIND THATS WHY BLACK WOMEN STAY TRUE TO OUR OWN THE MOST
From my point I wouldn't really say control but rather co-operate with. With Beckey there's a higher level of co-operation compared to Trishana that has something to prove and keeps trying to down play or contradict his decisions, especially when it's a calm tempered brother. Most black women tend to take calmness for weakness and a door open to all kind of BS, while with most white women it's the complete opposite.
Interesting perspective!
😂😂😂😂😂 Sir, I doubt you've spend much time around BW or WW! Making sweeping generalizations, along with stereotyping, DOES NOT qualify as facts! After all, it was a famous WW who once described BM as being "super pred@tors!"
@@LUX_8 Oh yeah? Go ask your m...!
Thankyou so much for telling us what u think is true .i appreciate it,it takes all kinds to make a world,we are all allowed to make our own choices,bless youx
No problem! I’m glad you enjoyed the video and I hope you subscribe!!
I often wondered the same thing but, eventually came to the same conclusion regarding the schools they attend.
My high school was approximately 75% White, 15% Hispanic, 7% Black and 3% Asian.
About 97% of the Black guys I graduated with, married or were in long term relationships with White, Hispanic or mixed women after high school. The same percentage of Hispanic guys married White women and the Hispanic women married White men. The White women in my graduating class all married either White or Asian men. Only one White male (that I'm aware of) married and had children with a Black female. The others all married White, Hispanic and Asian women.
The sad fact or the matter is that Black women appear to be the odd ones out and it's not only Black pro-athletes that shun them. Travis Kelce is the poster-boy for making it ok to date and bed Black women but, marrying one is seemingly not an option.
As your podcast points out, the number of Black pro-athletes who are in long-term relationships or married to Black women, is far greater than we know but, they don't often show those couples.
They really should show them however and change the perception. They also need to stop showcasing every Black draft prospect with some sad, hard knock life story. They don't all come from those types of situations.
Your survey was based on men’s salary being $100k and up. Let do a survey for $1mil and up and I guarantee that percentage will be 85% or higher.
Thanks for watching!
It, s grossly unfair to judge people on account of their preference. They suffer enough from sneaky stares from a disapproving public.
Indeed!
My son's went to PWI'S AND they knew BETTER!! THEY UNDERSTOOD the mind game and how AMERICA vilified the same women who birthed them... How Black women are held to a higher standard.. It's just sad.
Thank You for sharing your experience
I’m going to speak for most black men here, we want submission! The large chunk of us want submission.
Black women typically see that as slavery. How can we be a leader if the Sargent doesn’t listen to the Captain?
Thank You for your perspective
Why does it have to be a “leader” and a “sargent” thing ,why do you see it like that yall both can be leaders
@@EnasHawsawi where in the world do two leaders work together in the same household.
This mostly has to do with matriarchy and patriarchy. In black communities over the last 4-5 decades there was a degradation of patriarchy and a hyper adoption of matriarchy. The woman thus is the leader in many black families. In non black communities those women grow up in an environment of patriarchy, where the man is the revered leader of the family. As a result, many men seek patriarchal status. Thus as they get access to women from those environments they date and marry in them. But keep in mind again the vast majority of black men at all income levels date and marry black women. As a society that lusts “content creation”, we love to focus on the extremes and globalize them as low standard deviations b/c it garners more emotional attention. And attention (dopamine) is more addictive than crack cocaine or heroine.
Thank You for sharing this perspective!
This is true and it all stems within of how they view the people around them and themselves most importantly. I’ve came to realization that some black men will purposefully choose to date outside of their race knowing that their partner family doesn’t like them. They believe it’s a prize that they get picked but, when it’s just their partner wanting to make their parents mad. Within the aspects of an athlete’s point of view having a ww in their arm is a status symbol but, the kicker is it’s not! WW barely hold the power of what WM have and WW are well aware that having a BW means nothing to them it holds nothing but, guess what the money that the professional black athlete does. Although personally as I strive my little brother to become the best athlete he ain’t gon be one of them lol!
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Kevin samuels would call that SIGN language. That’s how women think not men
You’re projecting, men don’t date women based off of status. That’s more of a women thing, not a man thing, nice try though.
@@Rat-go3sv agree
@@Rat-go3sv What she's saying is that the white women is a status symbol the same way a Rolex watch or Lexus is a status symbol.
I recently started getting into the nfl and nba and follow a lot of athletes and you will see alot of them are with black woman its just mass media showing you the 1% that are not the ones with black woman a lot of them are extremely private and have jobs so stay out the public eye
Couldn’t agree more!
Look up Hulk Hogan response to dating an average BM vs a millionaire, BM ATHLETE! 😳
Thank You for watching
It's the comments for me! And normally it's a combination of everything he said.
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I worked for an NFL team for three years. Trust me when I tell you that all that glitter isn't gold! A lot of the African-American football players are bi-sexual and use the White woman as a front because she's more open to that type of thing than an African-American woman would be. Secondly, you'd be surprised how many of them have Hispanic or African-American women on the side. Some (not all) White women are more willing to put up with infidelity, disrespect and abuse way more than the majority of African-American women would. Trust, most are NOT marrying for true love! Then to top it off, their White wives end up getting butt lift surgery, tans and lip injections that mirror African-American women features. Smh 🤦🏾♀️
Wow that’s a crazy experience. Would’ve never guessed
@@moretothegame Look up former NFL player Ryan O’Callaghan. He's White, but he did an interview about how many DL players are in the NFL. Obviously, like me, he saw a lot of things happening behind the scenes.
because simply they look better
You’re entitled to your opinion
@@moretothegame
its not an opinion its a fact and im not even white .. white women look way better than black women .. thats just how it is .. there are like 5 to 10 hot black celebrities women while i literally cant count how many hot white celebrities women are out there
@@moretothegame so what your preference, what race of women is your girlfriend ?
I have always been attracted to white women and always will be.
Thank You for watching
Podcaster MTTG’s math doesn’t hold up. The black AA college demographic is appx 30% male & 70% female (from 2022 accreditation committees’ enrollment data). Moreover black males are highly concentrated in playing with a ball while black females are found in almost all majors. It’s not that eligible black women aren’t around, it’s that they are apparently last choice if even wanted at all. The black male preference for non-black women is a uniquely U.S. phenomenon among countries with a sizable black population. The firm opinion overseas is black African women from English speaking places (former British colonies) make the best wives in the world, bar none. Why it’s different here is something sociologists, psychologists, and others would have to study. Subjects to examine include trophy wives, status symbols, financial security, personal attraction, family expectations, and outside influences among others. Hopefully we’ll get better understanding of why so many prominent and well heeled black men prefer non-black women, instead of the varied speculation currently being offered.
Speculation? I am a black athlete. I have firsthand experience and references. Glad you watched!
Racial date preference plays a huge role. Some BW don’t understand or ignore that people have different attractions. Many BM are sexually attractive to WW and many WW sexually attractive to BM simple as that. Self hating is not a thing, as Gen Z I could speak for my generation who are extremely proud to be black American, but of course there is cases where some ppl will wish they were something else. The reason why many WW are obsess with BM is the way the media and the music industry show the society how “strong” BM is, how “masculine” BM is, and quite frankly many women not just WW love that about men and let’s not talk about the false stereotypes that the pornography industry created about BM. Idk why ppl will he talk about this and or even try to understand, like what is there to understand, it is just a two individual who are dating or marrying. No one talks about how Asian women prefer to date a WM.
Self hate is definitely a thing but It doesn’t apply to all situations just like any of the other reasons. I respect your opinion
That’s because Asian women aren’t notorious for bashing their men. Having a preference for a race different than yours is not natural, it’s conditioned self hatred. Many Black men remind the world that they hate their female image. I believe most black men, particularly young dark skinned black men, go through a phase where they don’t like black women. Then once they realize Becky is a fetish they come back to bw with pro-black agendas…black men and white women fetishize each other, it’s more than attraction when black males will have orgies with anything blonde and most white women will end up cheating with a black man cause her family doesn’t approve or she doesn’t want black kids.
Self hate is a thing and it comes from other races too. Like indians etc. They hate their dark skin.
We need to forgive each other and Mary each other. We’ve been destroyed as a people it’s over this dude know it’s over.
It’s an unfortunate reality we live in
It would help to know the backgrounds of some of the athletes as well. How were they brought up? To be honest, it has NOTHING to do with color and everything to do with culture ( meaning hood mentality). I've dated black guys... you know, the kind that other black people call sell outs just because they act proper and not ghetto. Then again there are ghetto whites that fall into ghetto culture. Personally, I would judge any woman of any color marrying an athlete because they're probably a gold digger, unless they came from money.
Very good points!
@moretothegame I think upbringing and economic class plays a big role. Same reason why higher up whites don't date down (lower whites). To be more accurate its white collar vs blue collar. Hard to imagine a lawyer or doctor wanting to date a cashier. It's a status thing
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@@sarahMuahahahaupbringing? NBA players are not doctors or lawyers and most don’t finish college or have a college degree. they’re not “traditionally” educated. They’re just rich!!! The vast majority of them are also brought up in single family households that are scrambling to get by. So upbringing has nothing to do with it. They’re not growing up like their partners in any way and have none of the same experiences. Unless it’s the son of a wealthy former bball player for example and that’s the exception not the rule. The money is the equalizer for the “caliber” of white women, in society’s eyes, dating black men. You’re not seeing these type of white women walking with the average black man in the mall. Wrong but that’s what they’re thinking.
You're just a pawn in this game
I respect your opinion
@@moretothegame Welcome to reality
Why do they marry their oppressors children it's a disgrace.
Thank You for watching!
No one is oppressed you sound racist.
At this rate half of all football teams, baseball teams and especially basketball team will be of mixed race. You are already seen it.
Interesting assessment
Black women try to be the man in the relationship
You’re entitled to your opinion
Not even true. That doesn't apply to all black women in the world
@@Purplecolors88 there are a diffrence between African and american girls so stop puttin all the black women in one pot !
This is absolutely true! Black women try to act like a man equal. They act like lesbians.
Facts
Brothers, please don't mistake our strength for anger and bitterness. Many of us have been thru much and still we are able to love our black men unconditionally and we deserve to know why the white woman would be your preferred choice over the woman who looks like your mother. Are you hating your own mother? A conversation is needed. I recently almost vomited with such disgust because I was literally trying to understand why someone like D'Angelo Russell of the Los Angeles Lakers who comes from a poor area of Kentucky, would prefer to love and start a family with a white woman instead of a beautiful black woman. My father always said "its an ignorant black man who will share their wealth with the slave masters daughter". May my father rest in peace. Am I angry? Hell yeah because if I wasn't married, I deserve a man like D'Lo Russell so yes, I'm sad for the next young black woman who LOVES him but knows the truth and that is shes nothing to him. That to me is something I will never understand until a panel of discussion is had. THANK God for men like Denzel Washington and Magic Johnson and many more who LOVE their beautiful black queens. That gives me hope that there are still some strong black brothers who KNOW who they are.
Thank You for sharing 🙏🏾
@@moretothegame Thats all you have to say? 😆 I would love for you to initiate an open forum about this very subject. This can be healing for many people and it will also bring you many subscribers and views. I want you to open up this thing so it will go viral and I can share it with these athletes and many others who have written off the black woman just because of a senseless myth. Thats all it is. Its a myth because white women too can become a problem. Its universal.
You're a hypocrite
@@ChiChi-yh3xw You're damn right sis, I absolutely hate race mixing, hopefully brothas learn
@@juniorbeckham2928 Thank you and may you be blessed for being enlightened.
As a guy who played D1 football i can tell you that yall over think this stuff lol.
Proximity plays a part. I had teammates who know their wife since middle school or high school or they met via athletes in college ( both athletes). I have teammates who are still married 13 years later. Some played nfl and some didn't make it. Idk why this is always a topic
Thank You for your perspective
You're a millionaire and can't find any black women ? LYING
And y’all under think these topics. In order to have black wealth, it start with black families. Your great great grandparent was probably Lynched, raped or brutalized by white oppressors. It’s a slap in the face to under think these things. And here we have the majority of men who do make up the wealth dating outside their race bc again, they’re thinking with their meatstick and not how can you bring wealth back until YOUR community. But go ahead .
well, the white women I see on TV definitely aren’t the white women black men are walking next to in the mall. They certainly don’t look similar aesthetically aside from their skin color for the most part. It’s not the numbers of black men vs white women. It’s the number of “prototypically beautiful” white women you see walking at the mall with a black man. I see dimes left and right at the mall with black men or hispanic men. The dime white women are with white men however 99/100 times.
Your perspective sounds objective, but can you provide us with the sources of those statistics so that we can check for ourselves.
This was a year ago. Try googling the percentage of black men married to white women
Regardless if race, usually if your around women who are beautiful and have a lot to bring to the table you’re going to choose her, regardless of her race. Especially if you’re a black man. Most blaxk women have kids , are single moms, also many have a distain for black men. I don’t see why a black man with options and something going for them would date that , especially if he comes from a household with a father figure. This video is to obviously pander to black women
The video is to give insight on the perspectives of those who make this choice. Everyone has their own reasons
How did those women become single moms though? Where are the dads? It takes two! White women aren’t exempt either. I’m a teacher, I come across a lot of “white” single mothers, with a black man’s child/children!
@@MrsRease2011 2.5 million bw are single moms by wm. 70% of you are single moms in general. Meanwhile 40% of bm don’t have children. So colllectevily you’re the ones making yourself single moms. Stats show no one collectively is making you a single mom besides yourself. More ww are married to bw % wise than they are single mothers bg one
@@MrsRease2011 Many BM are perpetual victims and think they are perfect… they don’t consider the part that they play in dysfunction and being a repellent to those that see them for who they are. 😱
@@MrsRease2011 They became single moms because they thought it was a good idea to date a bad man.
If I didn’t go to Hampton I might be in trouble tbh 🤷🏾♂️
Facts boyyyy 🤣
@andreabrown4541 Good question. I really can’t answer what was in her mind for sure. I just know that it kind of took me by surprise due to the fact that she was getting lots of evil stares that night. But instead of shrinking in the moment, maybe she felt the need to remain confident. I don’t know baby. 🤷🏽♂️
I don't understand why there is even a though about who goes and marries, or date whom.
Yes that does show insecurity in a race.
I see black woman upset over who the black man sleeps or marry.
Stop! It's their own life.
Really it portrays jealousy and insecurity. That's very unbecoming.
peace to everyone!
Thank You for your insight!
If jobs only hire white folks you ask why and call it discrimination. If a black man only dates and marries white why wouldn't a black woman ask why and call it self hate or discrimination?
They just don't like themselves to begin with.
You think so
It's a preference quit shaming or chastising us for it.
This is a very interesting subject. I would love to host a show and just talk to black women and really get their point of view on this matter. I’ll share with you my own personal experience with dating a white woman. And mind you, I was not a professional athlete, didn’t come from a rich family, and was just pretty much an ordinary young man. Back then in my clubbing days, I was dating this blonde white girl. Well, one night we decided to go to a predominantly black club in the (DMV). Long story short, we were dancing having a good time and then found a table and decided to chill for a minute. So, I just so happen to scan the room so to speak, (look a around). And I couldn’t help but notice EVERY BLACK CHICK standing near the walls, or sitting at their tables, was starring at me with the most hateful glare! I mean if looks could kill, I would have definitely been dead! When I actually took a second to look in the face on a few of them, the look in their eyes said, how dare you date this white girl and bring her in here. Shortly after that, I then realized that my white date noticed all the stares and tension in the room as well. But much to my surprise, she didn’t shy away from it. She actually began to gloat in the moment. She began to rub the back of my neck and smile as if to say, yeah, he’s with me. I guess my question is: Why were all these black women so angry at me for dating this white woman. And you women on here know that look I’m talking about too! If looks could kill, I would have been dead that night! Sistas, please explain to me why you think all of those black women in that club that night were so angry when they saw us together. It was just constant eye rolling, evil stares all night from sistas. Someone please explain this?
I hope you receive some feedback
Listen bro, we have a thousand and one podcast of black men bashing us. Idk what it is but y’all love speaking on us in a negative way. Black women is not jealous or upset you black men love white women. We honestly think y’all suppose to be with each other. What we are mad about is how y’all always talking about us to them. There’s no need to mention how ugly we are compared to them, how we the lowest of the barrel we are, how less desirable we are. etc….. yall constantly talking about us to other women in a negative way. So the first reaction of black women might be a eye-roll or a head shake towards you becuz, we already know what type of timing y’all be on. These Latina’s and white women trust me they always brag about what y’all say to them and wat y’all say to them about us. They love telling us. there’s no reason for a non black women to feel so comfortable talking negatively about the black women in front of a black man. But we know why. But I’ll tell you this though, you won’t ever have to worry about a black women talking negatively about a black man to uplift a white man, and you won’t ever have to worry about a white man approaching you bragging about how desirable they are compared to y’all. Y’all not even thought about. Literally. White men ain’t thinking about y’all, black women ain’t thinking y’all. That’s the difference between us dating outside our race.
@@Whatsgoodson First, let me say….I’m not bashing any woman on here and that was never my intention. Secondly, I really appreciate you giving me feedback on this topic. Let me start off by saying, I can not speak for any other black man, or what they think of black women in general. I can only speak from my own personal experiences. With that being said, I can honestly tell you that I don’t care what color a woman is when it comes to dating/relationships. It just so happened that at that time I was dating a white female. And just to give you a little background on myself, I love all women especially black women. I know this may come as a shock to you, but not all black men feel that way about black women. Like I said, I really appreciate your insight and response to my question. And that’s all it was, a question. Thank you so much Dominique for being honest with me. Trust me, I’m not completely oblivious to all the negativity that black women receive. However, I will leave you with this……just like you don’t like being generalized as a certain type of black women, please don’t generalize all black men as a certain type. Thanks again and much love to you sista!
Hi, just offering a little feedback.
I'm a black woman and I don't think black men understand that we love them as brothers first. So any perceived tension is usually not just because the woman is white, but because we can sense when another woman doesn't have good intentions for the black man she's with. Another reason could be that we consider some of our afro-centric spaces sacred and enjoy moments away from the scrutiny and/or microagressions of others. If the place you brought your girlfriend to was a staple in your black community, the ladies may have been a little annoyed, feeling like they couldn't be themselves the way they can when it's just us black folk. They probably also picked up on her heavy affection as "doing way too much" lol.
Out of curiosity, what did you think of your girlfriend appearing to enjoy what she thought was jealousy? I've always wondered if black men notice this dynamic and if they consider it a red flag.
There are plenty of black men who have non-black spouses or openly date non-black women who appear to genuinely care for them (Dave Chappelle, Wayne Brady, Seal, Trevor Noah) and we love them. If they're happy, we're happy. I think there's only a problem when A) their white spouse is likey just using them for sex, money, or both or; B) their white spouse is trolling black women through them and they're knowingly allowing it, which feels like betrayal and disrespect to black women.
Dope podcast idea. Best of luck!
@@shonda155 Hello Ms. Shonda, and thank you for your feedback. In response to your curiosity question, I don’t believe my girlfriend had any preconceived ideas about anything prior to coming in the club other than just having a good time. However, I didn’t really pick up on what she was feeling until we sat down at our table to chill from dancing. Now, I’m not sure if she felt that the black women were jealous or what. I do know that she and I both were feeling some heavy tension in the room. I have to admit that I was a bit surprised when she didn’t let the hateful gazes cause her to shrink or shy away from continuing to enjoy herself. I thought about your question for a minute too. Let me ask you this: what if the rolls were reversed, and the girlfriend was black on a date with a white guy, but in a club that was predominantly white. If she (the black girl) started getting all the hateful gazes towards her, how would you expect her to feel? Also, you made some very interesting points earlier. The only one I can give an answer with assurance is, I know my girlfriend wasn’t trying to use me, or had any bad intentions towards me in general. Thanks and I look forward to your response.
Thanks for the analysis of this subject matter, and I do realize there are no absolutes, but personally I've never been in the company of any blacks that hated being black. Sadly there are those that do.
Yea it’s a touchy subject!
@@moretothegame I just found your channel and hopefully you haven't stopped creating content.
I'm sorry I just happened on this video but are you speaking from a black athletes perspective? If so, I appreciate your honesty from your eyes. I don't know how I feel about this...I'm gonna watch again and comment 😂
It’s a very controversial topic. I appreciate you watching!
You tried to play it safe with this post ... you didn't cover the real reasons that nobody wana talk about
Which are what
@@moretothegame which are they tend to be nicer, more in shape, come from two parent family structure and understand FEMININITY not trying to be “strong and independent.”
@@lmaostrnoob this is anti-Black. There are plenty of white women that don't fit what you described and plenty of Black women that do.
Yall can never just have your preferences without talking shit on Black women. Which is why we don't take this kind of Black man seriously.
@@lmaostrnoob so that mean you afraid of those attribute/reasons.
@@joey4562
What’s up with y’all and this “afraid” rubbish? Bro no one is afraid of their weird ass attitude and masculine behavior, WE DONT LIKE IT…If I don’t like pineapples does that mean I’m afraid of pineapples? No I just don’t eat it and eat what I like. Delusional
It's just a man-woman thing. There's no need to read to much into it. For many athletes going off to college is the first time they interacted with women who weren't black. All men of every race, ethnicity and religion are men before any of those other categories, if they're single men and the opportunity arises, they are going take it. For some its temporary, for others It's permanent. It is, what it is.
That’s not true. Most athletes do not come from predominantly black high schools but I understand It is what It is
@@moretothegameActually, a lot do. And I wrote "many" not "most"
No it’s not. Plenty of black athletes interact with women who are not black in high school. In fact black athletes are more likely to interact with white womrn in high school than regular black guys. Do to school recruiting abd social media. Also many black athletes live or grow up in more mixed areas. Or are able to get into prep schools.
@@42NORRIS black athletes are actually more likely to be exposed to white women in high school than other blacks.
@@kaden1199 Many black athletes(not all) come from predominantly black schools and lived in predominantly black neighborhoods. For many, (again not all) it is the first time they interacted not just non black girls but with non black people in general, not including school faculty, employers, fellow employees, etc. Especially down south and parts of the mid west.
Well im no an athlete but im datng wo ever likes me for me who respects m and accepts who i am blk white green ects
Love to hear It!
I dated ww growing up because once I was exposed to them and they were simply usually better looking, better options, and had more to offer. The women also came from high social standings, so relationship wise they were better options. I was raised seeing bw on the internet uplift, praise, and put wm on a pedestal. So the whole one sided loyalty why bm need to date ww never make sense to me.
Thank You for your insight
BW "look like" the fathers who produce them - just like the white girls. Let that marinate. I tell BW to not choose BM as fathers of their children so that they will have "better looking" daughters - this, according to BM. Your bloodline should be at end in about 3 generations. Careful what you wish for...
@Kevin And what you may not consider is the fact that all of their high society was actually achieved by ill-gotten gains. Do you know your history? Those opportunities were ripped from your people. “Better looking?” Why because that’s what they told you? That’s what they pushed in media? During slavery? Do you know what was done to your ancestors. Slavery still has its effect on BP today. And just like the stain is still there for BP, the privilege of WW still resonates today. We make statements like this when we lack knowledge.
@@DestinedLove-cu3yd all races of men prefer ww over black women. It has nothing to do with slavery. Blk women are on platforms called ghetto gaggers humiliating their self, of course men of all races are going to see you as trash and not want their kids to bring you home. That’s normal.
You’re confused , racially biased and racially whipped… and the only one putting white men on a pedestal is you & any black man who thinks like you…
If you think white women simply “look better” it’s because you value whiteness and that is all. Do not try to give excuses as to why you don’t like black women… tell the truth, say it with me
“I want to be the white man, I envy the white man, I don’t want to build my own wealth and love myself / my women… I want to live in what the white man has built for himself, I don’t want to take responsibility for my own oppression, I don’t want to take responsibility for the oppression of black women, I don’t feel powerful unless I have a white woman on my arm , I am the definition of toxic masculinity”
Why is this a talking point people can date / marry who they want …..what’s it got to do with anybody else I’m with a white woman my kids are mixed race people need to mind there own business instead of watching what other people are doing…….get a life ?
Well said
Thank You for watching
Replace control with
Ead
Ead?
Becky 😂😂
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📞 Hello Dr Umar?
😂😂😂
For me is child abuse
Interesting
Hopefully
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A a man you wanna build some muscle that's good that's real good.
Mmm ok lol
Not control they want a humble women and white women are trophy girls
Thanks for your input
Maybe the rich athletes think they're upgrading?🤔
Why drive a Fiat when you can afford a Ferrari. 😊
That’s a possible perception
You forgot one
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We know why. Pulling that ponytail…..
Funny 😂
@@moretothegame I thought so. Real talk though what I have always assumed is that high profile rich men tend to be exposed to more high profile rich white women in general. Cheerleaders, actress’s etc.
100% DISAGREE. The reason is one word : CHOICE. Next topic moving on.
That’s understood. The point of the video was to explain why they may make the choice
SYSBM. Brothers you have a choice. Use it!. Good video.
I approached a sister just to "give information", she turned around like "NEGRO"... I had to✓ her, "look home gurl, not trying to get w/u" ... That's one of the MAIN ISSUES -can't even help a heffa lol
Interesting. Thanks for sharing your experience
I'm Dominican and I'm trying to become very successful so I can find me a white girl like the baseball player julio Rodriguez did, I want a relationship like julio rodriguez and jordyn huitema, no only Dominicans want to date white girls but many afro Americans too and black people that lives in Europe
Thank You for your perspective
Ots not control. They want to LEAD their wives. In order for that to happen, she must WILLINGLY submit to him.
Thanks for your perspective!
I was asking that ??? Fm way,way bk in the 90thes all I can say most of them don't love them self ect opinion
Interesting experience
Ask Dr.Umar there submissive
Hmmm
Because its an upgrade
You’re entitled to your opinion
Which just proves in of the points in the video… y’all see it as a status symbol
🎉GO BACK TO SLEEP.
Umm
Not about control tho
You have the right to your opinion
I might be the self hate lol want my child extra white extra bright
Your life. Your live It as you choose brother 😂
Pretty sad gangy
There are a lot of black men like you. My brother in law has three baby mamas, all white!
@@MrsRease2011 Your brother must be miserable. What happen to him to hate his skin so much. Zero self esteem.
It maybe controversial but white wpmens are more beautiful!
Its truth
To each their own
@@moretothegame statistically they are more in shape and more married than BW
@@lmaostrnoob same can be said of white men. Yall never compare yourselves to other demographics of men...just Black women. THAT is feminine behavior.
@@TheOGBlite white men are not in better shape than black men lmaoo why do you think majority of athletics are dominated by black men? Why do you think when women think of masculinity they think of black men? You can delude yourself but we can date out easier then y’all can
@@TheOGBlite why would they compare themselves to other men when the topic was about black men dating white women. 😂and black men still better than most races
The presenter on this vid looks to be
all of 12 years old.
I'm sure he has a good deal of experience in these matters.
I’m 25. Most people say I look older so I take It as a compliment
@@moretothegame do you remember a LSU football running back star: Derrius Guice from a few years ago who had raped two LSU female tennis players in their apartments?
There names are Samantha Brennan; and Abby Owens; and they both said in an interview that they were star struck by his appearance when they were in a bar; he continuously bought Brennan shots of Petrone (tequila) and she was so intoxicated that he took her to her apartment and removed her clothing and proceeded to rape her then he took photos of her with one of the photos of her almost naked with a stray dog and passed the photo around the men’s locker room.
In my opinion; he missed an excellent opportunity to have a high quality alpha female LSU athletic tennis player who was successful at tennis; he blew it!
Instead of buying her constant shots of Petrone tequila shots he should have made arrangements with her to take a fishing trip to the coast and rent a boat and fish for Cajun shrimp/prawns; and on another occasion he could have taken her to a restaurant; and on another date he could have taken her to a bowling alley and go bowling knocking down the pins!
This would have been better than getting her inebriated and not having to rape her; and another LSU female tennis player:Abby Owens who was raped by him.
Tell me what you think about that?
look at the 2024 NFL draft.....my problem is why do black men not love black anything. you say it's the numbers blah no the hell it aint, if you aren't looking for black love of course you won't find it in another black person. black women go to these schools too. man my indian friends who went to the same schools i did all have indian partners now in life (grew up in NJ iykyk), spanish girls ended up with black dudes or spanish dudes, spanish dudes all ended up with spanish girls or white girls. we didn't have a lot of white students at my school but guess what? they sure as hell found a white partner lmao. the spanish people can slide because some are confused especially if they don't speak their native language and with most being just a mix of black and white thanks to slavery it can be confusing for them i guess like who to pick for a potential life partner. personally I am black and I want a black family black love black kids blackity black black black. idk why people are so obsessed with being mixed or having mixed kids, they grow up confused af or hella entitled. wont be me and mine.
You’re entitled to your opinion. Thanks for watching
How tf can a black male be “alpha” in any society on dis planet I will never know🤣
Everyone is entitled to their opinion 💯
@@moretothegame except is not an opinion blacks are at the bottom of the social/economic system, black women are ahead of black men since they actually get n education go to school get degrees etc...dis is for MOST black women while most black men are in the streets “grinding” for their next meal...Next ur points weren’t all the way solid because most black men DONT get married!!! So the stats u shown are for the very small percentage of the black community dat do wed each other...y’all niggas ain’t gon learn til is too late n I’m a whole black man myself wtf
Your perspective sounds objective, but can you provide us with the sources of those statistics so that we can check for ourselves.