@@dangdin554 that I believe is the dumbest comment I’ve heard, what does that have to do with anything? That’s completely irrelevant trying to rewind their life backwards means nothing 0 it’s sick of you to even do so, that was then, their 2 adults NOW!!!! That’s all that counts!! And not sure if you know but men prefer young ladies or in your mind young female babies🙄
Sounds like fun to me, who cares what kind of dancing, maybe we’ll learn the waltz, but you had to throw in a word tic tok that is popular with young people to justify your insanity, your trying really hard lol 😂 sounds like some 18 yr old stole your husband & your bent, & I don’t know what kind of 18 yr old you know but baby is far from it they are quite mature
"Better to be an old man's darling than a young man's slave." *Edit: This is a proverb from the 1500s by a writer named John Heywood. I posted it in response, partly, to many of the comments about the younger woman being a gold digger etc. Even if she is, they both appear very happy.
@@turbowhale6953 that comment shows how shallow your mind is, that is only a comment made by people that don’t know true love, don’t bash someone just because you can’t wrap your mind around something different then yourself, if your gonna twist something to the negative & say he’s as old as your dad, I’ll say to you maybe but he’s not my dad he’s the love of my life & im happy & that is something I’m not gonna let you nor others like you who can’t wrap their minds around love, these are two adults no law as broken but two people being happy don’t try & ruin their happiness over your jealousy
@@turbowhale6953 so? Is that your point? When you try to paint it in your mind as a horrible thing, then of course people will trip, but it’s not your dad & his age is just a number that’s it
My mom and dad had a 16 years gap. They had a loving solid marriage. He left way too soon. She widowed at 46 and never dated ever!. When I asked her 10 years after his passing why she didn’t date and got a new husband, she answered me “I have my love, I know we will meet again, then how will I explain to him that I got another man when he left?, besides I have no desire to share the rest of my life with another man”. So yeah true genuine love does exist, it doesn’t matter the age gap between a couple.
@@senorita-qh6bmabsolutely EVERYTHING!! Imagine talking to an elderly relative or friend or someone you meet.. that’s the same thing.. bigger age gaps, more experiences, more things to talk about.
Ditto.... My hubby and I met at work.. I was 26 and he 39.. We married the next year.. at 27 and 40 years of age.. We were married for 26 years wen my husband passed from a heart attack... Age is irrelevant .. Love is wot counts.. Bless u and ur husband.. Wishing u many more happy years together.... 🙂❤
@@stevenanderson3386 learn how to spell, and learn how to be kind to others. What they’re doing doesn’t effect you, and they’re happy, so why spread hate for no reason?
At her age, someone coached her to be a gold digger. It's very rare for someone her age to think like that. It is common for young girls - even younger than her - to want to be married and not have to work.
This is one of those "y'all are gonna ASSume anyway", so they're just repeating what people have constantly said about them. The age gap truly doesn't matter as long as she was an adult when they got together (and I don't mean 18, more like 21 for that many years).
My late husband was 23 years older than me! After he passed away, (about a year later) I found a basket in the top of his closet, it had every card, note, letter and scrap piece of paper, that I had ever given him in chronological order dating back to 1995. He even had scrap pieces of paper that he had written my Hotel phone numbers on, after he received the information from dispatch... depending on which City I was dispatched in with the City's name, Hotel name and room number. I can estimate a date based on the piece above and below it. That really blew my mind. I will never ever love anything more than this newfound treasure left to me. RIP Gene 7 23 2020 ❤
You married him and he died a year later? Friend, he didn’t get a chance to betray you. Of course he died the same man. Anyway, I don’t recommend women to marry anyone 10+ yrs older than her. There’s a power imbalance. Even if this story ended well, it’s very not likely to happen to the average woman.
@@crystocious6715 I was married to him for 25 years. His age was never an issue. I found the basket a year after his death while cleaning his closet. It's absolutely the best gift ever. ♥️
Years ago I bought a cargo van from a man for $300. It was beat to shit but ran like champ even with 200k miles on it. When I showed up, he was damn near in tears. He did not want to sell his van that he loved, but , as he put it, " I am 48 and got my 24 year old girlfriend pregnant, and now I gotta get a minivan" ...Never saw a man so sad in my life honestly.
@@mhxxd4to afford the baby (school itself plus the supplies, clothes, food, the bills, toys etc etc..) but can we talk about how someone at almost 50 years old made a 20 something girl pregnant? See why we call old men creepy? Like she just escaped her teenage years, her brain just finished developing and him a litterally grown up old man looked at her and went like "oh yeah wonder if she wants to be my girlfriend and have a child with me"
All the men who called this “sad and bad” are delusional about themselves. If you like young women, that comes with us being gold diggers. You’re a youth digger and we’re gold diggers it has ALWAYS been like this. so you want youthful young women for free???? You have mental issues if you think you deserve young women without providing what we want that is how it works and you must be entitled to think you deserve us without giving us what we want back. Everything is an exchange that is the law of reality down to physics itself. It annoys me that you men think you deserved the most desired of women and expect her not to want what she want from you. It’s a give and take. You’re must be dumb asf if you think I’ll let you date me at 18 when you’re not even financially stable and generous. That’s how objective reality has always work since the beginning of first humans.
@surlespasdondine hahaha... Not like "they both have a nose" or "they both have a mouth"....(you silly) I meant, the distance of their foreheads, the broad shape of their noses, their cheeks.... Keep in mind, I am NOT saying they are father and daughter, I am only saying what I commented....
He was 30. I was 45. I thought he was a great piece that I would enjoy for a few years. He thought I was a great piece that he would wear out. He didn’t. Lol. I’m now 75 and he’s holding on for dear life. !!
😂😂😂You just made my day! Women, in general, have more stamina than men!🤪I’ve been in a LDR with a man who is 12 years younger than myself. He turned 59 at the end of May and I turned 71 on August 4th. Thankfully, I look and feel much younger and he looks older. Lol We’re both widowed, but his wife was killed in a car accident in her forties about 12 years ago. He’s never been with an older woman but keeps telling me that age is just a number. It’s true, except when my body says otherwise! Lol Anyway, I’m so happy to know that there are successful relationships between an older woman and a younger man.😊The only comments I’ve been seeing are about the reverse! Anyway, we’re both old enough that our age difference doesn’t matter, plus love knows no boundaries.😍Congrats! May you enjoy another 30 years together!🤗💖
I was 22 & fell in love with a 40 yr old man & I adored him!! He showed me how a woman should be treated - I felt safe! Still love him - he passed away in 2015!
At 22 I married an older man . The 15 year gap didn't seem like an issue. We were ballin night & day. It seemed copesetic. Until I finally blossomed into A FULL GROWN ADULT. The marriage lasted 14 years. The last 10 were the hardest.
I hate to break it to you, but you're a full grown adult at 22. That bit of development your brain still has to do before you're fully bloomed is negligible. My guess is that it was more likely that 4 years into it he wanted you to start acting your age or taking responsibility in the partnership, and you decided that he was a control jerk. Also *copacetic
@@bufordhighwater9872 Modern women are infantile. What are their “girls nights out” worth, when a group of old women ~50 years old get together. Constant desire to look younger, even in the way they talk.
@@Joeblk10 that proves he’s delusional. She’s not with him because she is at all attracted to him, no he’s ugly. She’s with him because he has money. Stop indulging in this guys delusions.
I hope you have a long, happy and loving marriage. Age doesn't matter, my Dad was 16 years older than my Mom. and my Dad's brother married a woman 20 years older than him, they stayed together and loved each other until her last breath.
Sorry but I see relationships like this as the man obviously can't be stimulated by a woman who has a greater sense of identity and intellect... he's still 15 years old in his head, sadly not in the bed😂
@@L0uLaBear if you're referring to a woman being in her 40's and a man in his 60's or older? I believe that to be a relationship built on more equal levels of intellect and interests. This man is obviously 30 to 40 years her senior, he just wanted a hottie in the sack. I guarantee looking at his sloppy physique he couldn't keep up with me in the sack, hence why he chooses a young naive girl who hasn't fully come into her sexuality.
I just don't like how normalized this stuff is getting. Don't want to live in a world where people rather marinate in their illnesses than do something about it. Society is just going to shit. Doesn't matter, it's my problem, I know, I know.
Yes. There a lot of situations and circumstances that are not our business in life and in internet. Like gossiping about people’s private life’s. Now, in this case where a young adult lady exposes on internet her private life which specially calls out attention because is a topic about values. It could be our business if the first thing we are concerned when we saw this video is what impact this video will have in our immature, inexperienced young population? What young sector of the population will try to marry millionaires for money and not for love? Again, like I commented before, it can work if the couple is totally happy in this kind of relationship and at the same time, they should aware people who have access to their video that these kind of relationship doesn’t work for everybody, and advice young people not to copy them. Like a pack of cigarette that warns the user of the danger of a cigarette
@joanarc7963 I have always felt 8 to 10 years is borderline for me, but if people are happy, then I am happy for them. My wife is 50, but she looks 35, so I see how people judge.
Yes unfortunately that eventually happens when you surf youtube short videos for too long. Its weird how these stupid videos don't appear when you first start watching cos if they did It would stop me wasting time
Yeah he's a sucker like seriously you got to always protect what you came into the marriage with sign a prenup he sounds like he may have been desperate as hell.. Anyting obtained during the marriage can be equally split but if you're as old as this guy and you got a lot of shit he's a damn fool not to sign a prenup you've got to protect what's yours I'm sure this guy worked far too long and hard to let some little girl take half of what's his
@@dask1516 In the video they give what a jealous or narcissistic person would say as their answers. In other words they are not being truthful but rather just playing. Knowing that, odds are that a prenup agreement has been signed.. That man is no sucker. He seems like a guy who knows what he wants and does the right thins to get them.
If her father were alive and a decent father, I can guarantee you that he wouldn't be OK with it. He would want someone more suitable and better for his daughter.
My dad is 23 years older than my mom. They are still happily married. And now he is 91 and she is 68. He’s in good shape still & they have a good life!
@@flaky_salt yup he could totally be her dad. In fact, he was married previously and has two sons that are my mothers age. It’s all good though. It worked out in their lives but I get it’s not for everyone !
@@simonegarciatsu2854 wow 0: Did he not feel awkward? But ig his kids were above 20 But still I wonder if he ever felt awkward dating someone the same age as his kids 🤔 😅 😞 now im really curious and nosy
All those people hating on the couple and being "disgusted" by their relationship coz you think she is 18... She is 31 years old and they have three kids together! They are happy...let them be!
Think it's cos she looks 18 and he looks 65 no hate. Many large age gap couples exist but he looks older and she looks younger. They earning ps regardless 😅
@@dandaniellea2387 True ...lucky her, looks so youthful 😁. I just wish people would make the effort to find out facts before making rude comments. The first time I saw her a few years ago i also thought she was a teenager but then realised she wasnt 😁.
My wife is 11 yrs older than me, but I actually look older at 44 than she does at 55. I didn't marry her for her money. She's a stay at home mom and proud trad wife. We've been married 17 yrs. I was originally attracted to her beauty, but fell in love with her practicality and maturity. The girls I dated in my 20s were immature, high maintenance and dramatic. She was down to earth and no BS. It was refreshing. She had a career for 27 yrs with the same company, but gave it up to raise our son. She's amazing.
It's funny how no one seems to have a problem with an older woman being with a younger man these days don't give me wrong I think anything past 15 years is too much but if the younger person is over 28 they should be mature enough by then at least to make their own decisions you would hope
I think some of the comments are unfair. Imagine her marrying someone the same age as her who does not respect her and beats her .. As long as the man loves her and she loves him and they are ready to make commitments for marriage, she is happy. What prevents that? I wish some people would be logical and mind their own business .. Words are like weapons, they hurt and wound hearts❤.. My respect to everyone.
I’m 69 now. But when I was 23 I had a girlfriend who was 37. We were having sex with each other every day. In hindsight she was the most compatible woman I ever met.
Could be a long con. My grandpa married a woman in his 50s who was 20 years younger. They were together over 30 years. The day after he died she put his dog down and threw out all his stuff. No one saw it coming, but lesson learned and it’s one I’ll never forget.
Lol nothing wrong with marrying for security actually that’s a smart thing to do . She can love him and appreciate the security. He can love her beauty and still appreciate her as a person
@@EveofPyriteThat is grossly superficial. I thought the whole reason women entered the workforce and drastically cut mens wages overnight is so that you DIDNT have to marry for security. Which is it? You can't have your cake and eat it too
@@EveofPyriteif your reason for marriage is security that is indeed a problem. Security may not always be there. Security beauty, this things come and go. You better simply marry the PERSON you love and wanna spend your life with no matter what. Its sad that people would think otherwise
@@retroredo9850no just being honest. Instead of actually being a functioning member of society and working like most of us she spreads her legs to an older man for money and a comfy lifestyle.....
18 years is not that bad, especially she is already an adult when she met him. There are men at the same age or just few years older but they don’t treat you right and are abusive… vice versa. Age is not the issue, it’s respect, understanding and compromise between two people. Not everyone’s cup of tea but doesn’t make it wrong… it’s depends on individual.
Age and maturity are too different things, and psychology plays a big roll in why people get abusive...really your thoughts and what you wrote really makes no sense, or justifies any reason to marry someone with a huge age gap.....get a grip on reality
@@luisgonzalez6728nothing you are saying is making any sense. You don't even have an argument. You just keep saying no, and that you find it disturbing. OK. If you stop being attracted to Victoria Secrets models just because you are older than them, then it's you that's kinda weird. I wouldn't want to date someone that much younger, but it's not because it would be disturbing, it's because she'd be annoying and try to get me to do TikTocs
I mean when you’re honest and accepting of it, some people may not agree with it but that doesn’t matter. You do you, you’re grown and make you’re own decisions we have no say
@@angelolagrutta4679 we are all adults, we all make our own decisions. And we have to live with consequences of our decisions, it’s not our job to manage the people on the internet
@@angelolagrutta4679 no if someone is willingly being honest and understand and accept what they’re doing then we have no say. Obviously it depends on the situation but in this case she’s not really doing wrong, she’s an adult and she’s willfully in this relationship and if both parties in this relationship are ok with this then we have no say
15 year age difference between us. First time marriage for both of us. First time being a parent for both of us. BEST years of our lives and our daughter is a wonderful soul. Cheers
You were old enough and wise enough to have known what you were getting into. I've known many more young ppl (late teens, early 20's) who were preyed upon by men in their 30's, 40's, and 50's who turned out to be abusive but who could only trick an inexperienced, gullible young person into what devolves quickly into a hostage situation.
@leebliss3622 bro you should really be looked into it obviously matters there's a difference if she was 18 and he was 36 versus if she was 25 huge difference (im 22 btw before you call me old)
My husband and I have a 27 yr age gap and have been married for 15 yrs and God willing we will make it to our 50th. I love him, plain and simple. Not every age gap marriage is about money. Sometimes we go through things and are more mature than guys our own age or guys our own age have traumatized us. As ling as God is your foundation then you will survive.
My boyfriend and I are 29 years apart. I don't think marriage is right for us in particular. We just had a 4 years together dinner. I am so attracted to him and I want to take care of him forever. ❤
@@GirlLunarExplorerI can not and am not trying to tell you what to do but am going to share my beliefs with you. I understand marriage can be scary and it is a serious commitment. If you truly love eachother and want to be together forever, then God would want you to make it right in his eyes and let him bless it. At the same time vows are serious so you want to pray about it an make sure that is the person God has for you. Gods commands are in place to protect us and each other. He takes these matters serious. God is love but he can not look upon sin. Bring your heart and love to God and let him lead you and you will be protected. 1st Corinthians 13 will teach you what true love really is. Please know i am not judging you as i am no where near perfect myself an have made many mistakes along the way. God bless you.
Honestly, WHEN you marry with that much of an age gap kinda matters. If, for example, you've both been alive for longer than the age gap and are at a similar life stage, then it doesn't matter. But if you're a 38 year-old man marrying an 18-year-old before she's even finished high school, people are going to worry the younger partner is getting preyed on. Meantime a 30-year-old marrying a 50-year-old wouldn't be as weird because both would be established adults. And a 60-year-old with an 80-year-old? No one would bat an eye.
@@wordforger Unfortunately, most do not worry about the younger one being preyed on. They worry the younger one is taking advantage of the older one. I have been continuously ridiculed throughout my marriage and even by a lawyer and doctor. I say pray for everyone and even our enemies just like Jesus says. There is a healthy and happy balance that can take place in age gap marriages and one of the benefits is that the older one can support the younger one as their grounding in life becomes more solid. The younger one can take care of the older one as they go on through life. Of course there is cons to but as long as the pros outweighs the cons and it is true Godly love, then it is worth it. It is the same as a non age gap marriage in many aspects.
In case anyone needs to know, she's 33, born in 1990. He's currently 51. They married when she was about 21-23, and he was 40-42 according to her math. Yeah the age gap is kinda strange, but they are both adults, and they share 3 biological children together so. Idk why people care about a marriage that's not their own.🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
Sounds like she has him good. She can divorce him now that it's been 10 years and get loads of child support. And she's only in her 30s can still get a another guy to take care of her.
@DarkWolf-407 if they've been together this long, AND have multiple children and probably investments together, I highly doubt that. She has no reason to divorce him. He has HER good Edit:. Plus, she's a mother of THREE. Do you know how hard it is for a recently divorced single mother of 3 children to get out in the dating pool and find a decent, and quality good man for her AND her children? It takes a long time to establish that, she can't just date anyone. She would have to date someone for a time to see if they pair well before she even introduces him to her kids. Then that's a whole nother thing from there. Is he a good step parent? And what kind of guy is interested dating a woman with this kind of baggage? She's not going to leave her husband, unless he's treating her like crap.
My mom married my stepdad whos 21 yrs older but issue is that he never did anything. She did all the indoor and outdoor chores. She always said he was old and also because he literally smoked for 35 yrs he messed up his lungs so much that he didnt mow grass because its bad for his lungs. He also cheated on her multiple times while she was pregnant with my younger sister. Age is a factor but how the person decides to lead a healthy and active lifestyle is important. And she still loved him despite everything. When you marry someone, LOVE is not the sole reason you should marry them. If they take advantage of you, disrespect you, make you care for them and clean while they never do anything in return but say they pay for stuff. You will be a slave to that marriage. She wanted to leave him but doesnt because she wouldnt get much money from divorcing him. He wasnt rich and he has an awful conceited personality. People say theyre in love with spouse but if your spouse doesnt care for you when your sick its not an equal marriage. My mom is depressed, always exhausted and has bad health because of it. He doesnt care. Age matters, she has had to literally wipe his nasty butt when he crapped his pants because hes old. If you wana date someone much older and be a caregiver just know thats a possibility. And when they pass, you wont have a spouse to grow old with unless you decide to get married. Shes too jaded to want to get married, she suffered enough taking care of him for 20 so years while he acts like a pampered princess. Even my younger sister, his own daughter hates his guts for what an awful person he is to our mom
My husband left us in March 2016, and I have not introduced even 1 man to my now 17 year old daughter. My sister is always with her "best friend"/fuck buddy ever since 2014, even though her now 19 year old son does not like him. I cannot fathom why single mothers choose to not be single. The child should be number one priority, not a so-called man!
As long as they are happy, good for them. No one's business but theirs. She is a young woman and he is a mature man who will probably treat her better than anyone in her age range.
😂😂😂😂😂😂 This is my best couple from today. They just told haters to fk off without saying fk off.😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤ ur soul mate can be older or younger.wish u all the best
Yeah all the haters just because they in their own heads can’t see how an age difference works so they bash others cause of their own ignorance & it’s always oh the girl is just after his wallet or other way around oh he just wants pussy & he’s a pervert 🙄 those comments are signs of jealousy or ignorance cause they don’t understand it
The people in the comments getting mad obviously don't know what a joke is. Also, I see absolutely nothing wrong with a woman in her thirties talking about her marriage on her own account.
The same ones bitching are those who live by the idea their value increases with age based on money and accomplishments, while women's diminishes by the same factors. The same breath they use to say the woman's accomplishments don't matter, they use to call the young ones gold diggers. Not at all confused as fuck
Im 53, my husband is 42. We've been together for 21 years, married for 20. He asked me out, and we never parted. Age really is a number, the mind & heart are what matters.
@evilbron666 they have kids, their videos on UA-cam together are adorable. They seem happy & I'm betting she's older than looks, based on the ages of their kids. The point is, adults get to choose who they want to be with, it's not for us to decide.
daddy issues is scary. if you have a daughter be sure to tell her how much you love her, respect her, protect her and take care of her. else someone who doesn't will say those things to sleep with her
Vital Krishna.. Relax.. I believe she's being light-hearted in her replies.. They look happy... Good luck to them.. We neva kno where the future leads.. But hopefully their marriage and happiness last....😁❤
@@freespiritable Lies!!! 😂😂 Daddy issues don't always mean an absent dad. Even a narc dad or an emotionally unavailable dad will make you have daddy issues.
The reason is in mental growth. Usually a person in age after University graduation have nothing in common with person near 18yr age. (Of course except sex) And the gap in decades is very noticeable unless your body age and mental age are not the same. But if they happy and it's legal then just be happy :)
13 year age difference here. About to celebrate 33 years married. For a good part of our marriage, I made more money. My husband looks younger than he is, and I married him because he's wonderful.
Same here. My husband is 13 years older than me. We have been together for 14 years. I met him while he was going through bankruptcy so the money questions goes out the window. The connection is what matters not the age.
My husband and I have a 24 year age gap. 100% daddy issues (in my case) 🤷🏼♀️ My actual dad has more money than my husband, I have a career, and my ex (who I dumped) was a millionaire. People can think what they want, but never underestimate the dysfunctional power of growing up with a dad who was not nice.
My wife is 15 years younger than me, been married 17 years, so yeah, people get too hung up on ages, if your both adults, and get along, and make each other happy, THAT is the only thing that is important.
For all the people out there talking out their asses… She’s 32. She has 3 children (presumably with him). She was a model. She’s now into holistic health and works as a nutritionist. She has a whole channel devoted to sharing life in her family. This video is just the two of them making a joke and having some fun (although it is hilarious to think of a guy in his late 40’s being roped into making a TikTok video by his younger wife). They’re clearly happy together. I cannot stand the term “hater” and make a point of not using it, but this comments section is full of them. And BTW, it took me about 10 seconds to find out who she was.
99% of the hate comes from literal children lol anyone over the age of 18 with 2 brain cells to rub together knows if they're adults and they are consenting, then it is absolutley no ones business. But the internet toddlers think anything more that a 2 year age gap is a 'blasphemous cardinal sin that needs to be canceled' 😂😭
That’s I’m assuming an attempt for you to be funny which it’s not, but if your serious that’s stupid ist comment of the day & yes I spelled it that way on purpose so save your ignorant comments, that is a comment of a very jealous person & jealousy is ugly no way relationships last with you, obviously to grown adults so your comment is wrong & just shows your ignorance
My aunt married a man 15 years her senior when she was about my age (25-ish) and they’re still happily married over 20 years later. Being married to an older/younger person isn’t necessarily an issue, unless there’s grooming involved. People really need to mind they’re own business
I’m 22 years older than my wife. Did it work? We’re married 28 years with 2 wonderful kids and love each other even more today than when we married. There’s no play book for happiness folks. Things work and don’t work in all circumstances.
If you went for her in her early 20's I definitely think it could be considered predatory especially if she wasn't economically stable. We have a real problem with older men going for younger girls by using their status instead of their personality. Not saying you did that, just that we should acknowledge it.
Yep women don’t get it it’s right away oh he’s pervert 🙄 cheers to this dude just hope she is mature for her age & gets it, that’s only problem with us older men once we hit that beauty long enough it eventually comes down to how this chick handles herself handles her business in order for it to work, he’s lusting her body more than loving who the girl really is but one day that loving the girl for who she is will trump the girls body parts, that’s a promise
She is 18, do you think that she is mature enough to take such decision? Things will be much different when she turns 27 or 30 , i like them for now but the age gap is really huge and he is going to get very old by the time she is 30.
@@suzyben1984 real love doesn’t care how old you are & how old you look, I’ve seen many young girls with more maturity then elder ones & I’ve see relationships of this distance work fine, granted it was mostly Asian ladies, but some people do love for the right reasons & on the chance it doesn’t work out no one should be judging, 50% of marriages fail. Age difference shouldn’t be the reason everyone trips over, nobody asks the reason of divorce unless it’s age difference then they trip, & in the end who cares why it didn’t work it matters not in the end it just didn’t work, let them learn the lesson, there was love originally & when it works it’s beautiful . You don’t hear guys being all bent out of shape when it’s older women marrying younger guys it’s always the other way around, sounds like jealousy to me
I have no comment how things like this would happen but u know, life is mysterious sometimes.... and we do not know what is happening behind the curtains.
My boyfriend is 22 years younger and we’ve been together 17 years. Not for money although we went from broke living in a one br apt to living in out dream home with $500k worth of cars and no loans. We are more in love than we were 17 years ago. We are each others best friend and lover obviously!!
Heres a stat...just to throw it in to the mix. For couples with a 10 year age gap, they face 39% likelihood of divorce. If there is a 20 year gap in age, the likelihood jumps to 95%!
Lmfao imagine marrying someone 18 years younger and having to do tic tok dances in your 40s
What’s wrong with that? You jealous?
❤❤❤ to do 😅 haha
@@briandillow6767 when he was 22, starting his adult life, she was a new born baby..
@@dangdin554 that I believe is the dumbest comment I’ve heard, what does that have to do with anything? That’s completely irrelevant trying to rewind their life backwards means nothing 0 it’s sick of you to even do so, that was then, their 2 adults NOW!!!! That’s all that counts!! And not sure if you know but men prefer young ladies or in your mind young female babies🙄
Sounds like fun to me, who cares what kind of dancing, maybe we’ll learn the waltz, but you had to throw in a word tic tok that is popular with young people to justify your insanity, your trying really hard lol 😂 sounds like some 18 yr old stole your husband & your bent, & I don’t know what kind of 18 yr old you know but baby is far from it they are quite mature
"Dad. I'm marrying your fishin' buddy."
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😂😂😂 I almost died seeing this comment
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I mean, he's not a stranger at least. But not a fishing buddy anymore. For sure.
"Better to be an old man's darling than a young man's slave."
*Edit: This is a proverb from the 1500s by a writer named John Heywood. I posted it in response, partly, to many of the comments about the younger woman being a gold digger etc. Even if she is, they both appear very happy.
You couldn't have said it better. 🙌
I resent that lol
Exactly!
@@rongoins2105 I represent that
Beautiful couple❤
Old dude after the dance: "This won't end up on MySpace will it?"
😂😂😂😂
This ☝🏼 is the true underrated comment here 😂 😂
Is this gonna end up on one of them AOL chats?
lmfao
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Dude looked at the kids leaving kindergarten and said "damn, I'm gonna marry that girl" 💀
😆
69 likes💀
💀underrated
lmao
💀
I recently lost my husband. We had a 20 year age difference and he’s the best man I have ever known.
That’s different but congrats
He's the same age as your dad☠️
@@turbowhale6953 that comment shows how shallow your mind is, that is only a comment made by people that don’t know true love, don’t bash someone just because you can’t wrap your mind around something different then yourself, if your gonna twist something to the negative & say he’s as old as your dad, I’ll say to you maybe but he’s not my dad he’s the love of my life & im happy & that is something I’m not gonna let you nor others like you who can’t wrap their minds around love, these are two adults no law as broken but two people being happy don’t try & ruin their happiness over your jealousy
@@turbowhale6953 so? Is that your point? When you try to paint it in your mind as a horrible thing, then of course people will trip, but it’s not your dad & his age is just a number that’s it
My husband was 23 years older and he was the love of my life. He has been gone 18 yrs now but seems like yesterday.
My mom and dad had a 16 years gap. They had a loving solid marriage. He left way too soon. She widowed at 46 and never dated ever!. When I asked her 10 years after his passing why she didn’t date and got a new husband, she answered me “I have my love, I know we will meet again, then how will I explain to him that I got another man when he left?, besides I have no desire to share the rest of my life with another man”. So yeah true genuine love does exist, it doesn’t matter the age gap between a couple.
Great story.
By the way? Are you married? 😌
And that sweet bag she got helped too
i’m 16 and my parents have a 20 years age gab, that’s very true :) my dad is 81 and mom 60
Truly touching words of your wise mother ❤
@@juliasasmr1 did you get the numbers wrong? 16/60/81 ? Was your mom 54 and pregnant? I know it’s possible but it’s kind of hard to digest 😅
Does Gary even know why he’s doing this 😂😂😂
Yeah, she taught him
I wonder what they have in common to talk about they come from different times literally 😭@op surely he’ll never cheat on her being that old..right?
RIGHT lol.
I’ll teach you when you’re older son
@@senorita-qh6bmabsolutely EVERYTHING!! Imagine talking to an elderly relative or friend or someone you meet.. that’s the same thing.. bigger age gaps, more experiences, more things to talk about.
People act like this doesn't happen all around the world 🤣😂
Nooooo doubt, hell my wife and I are 25 years difference...
It’s gross all over the world
Yea, but usually in the parts of the world where this happens its forces upon the girl
Soon it will happen everywhere
Of course it does. People have been married for wealth since beginning of time. She is admitting the truth. Which shall set you free.
My hubby is 13 years older than me. We met when I was 26, and he was 39 we are still happily married for the past 28 years❤
Ditto....
My hubby and I met at work..
I was 26 and he 39..
We married the next year..
at 27 and 40 years of age..
We were married for 26 years wen my husband passed from a heart attack...
Age is irrelevant ..
Love is wot counts..
Bless u and ur husband..
Wishing u many more happy years together....
🙂❤
Whatever helps Weirdos sleep at nite
@@stevenanderson3386 learn how to spell, and learn how to be kind to others. What they’re doing doesn’t effect you, and they’re happy, so why spread hate for no reason?
Congrats
It’s different for young woman on older men than it is younger man & older woman vastly different but congrats on your marriage
People kill me. She married him for his money. Sooo, he married her cause she’s young and pretty. Time is priceless.
At her age, someone coached her to be a gold digger. It's very rare for someone her age to think like that. It is common for young girls - even younger than her - to want to be married and not have to work.
@@colleenobrien6185yeah okay...anyway
A very balanced deal and a win-win for both of them
This is one of those "y'all are gonna ASSume anyway", so they're just repeating what people have constantly said about them. The age gap truly doesn't matter as long as she was an adult when they got together (and I don't mean 18, more like 21 for that many years).
@@colleenobrien6185stinks like jealousy to me 🤣
My late husband was 23 years older than me! After he passed away, (about a year later) I found a basket in the top of his closet, it had every card, note, letter and scrap piece of paper, that I had ever given him in chronological order dating back to 1995.
He even had scrap pieces of paper that he had written my Hotel phone numbers on, after he received the information from dispatch... depending on which City I was dispatched in with the City's name, Hotel name and room number. I can estimate a date based on the piece above and below it. That really blew my mind.
I will never ever love anything more than this newfound treasure left to me.
RIP Gene 7 23 2020 ❤
It was true love. Something rarer and rarer these days.
@@GalacticTradingPost Thank you, yes it was. ♥️
You married him and he died a year later? Friend, he didn’t get a chance to betray you. Of course he died the same man. Anyway, I don’t recommend women to marry anyone 10+ yrs older than her. There’s a power imbalance. Even if this story ended well, it’s very not likely to happen to the average woman.
@@crystocious6715 I was married to him for 25 years. His age was never an issue. I found the basket a year after his death while cleaning his closet. It's absolutely the best gift ever. ♥️
@@crystocious6715I think she may have meant that she found the papers he saved a year later. That’s how I read it anyway
If you watch her other videos you'd know that she's actually 33, it helps the age gap not be as bad. It's just that she looks so young.
At 33 is age gap even a think anymore? After that age it's not uncommon to have a gap aside from maybe dating someone who's twice ya age.
Its still very young. 33 is a young blossomed woman married an old wrinkled bastard
@@dazzlingdexter5060 sounds about male. You would say different shit if that was a woman
@@dazzlingdexter5060stop making shit up
But she looks her age?
Years ago I bought a cargo van from a man for $300. It was beat to shit but ran like champ even with 200k miles on it. When I showed up, he was damn near in tears. He did not want to sell his van that he loved, but , as he put it, " I am 48 and got my 24 year old girlfriend pregnant, and now I gotta get a minivan" ...Never saw a man so sad in my life honestly.
sad from the choices he made
I would be in tears as well.....
Why did he HAVE TO get a minivan? Was he just broke?
@@mhxxd4to afford the baby (school itself plus the supplies, clothes, food, the bills, toys etc etc..) but can we talk about how someone at almost 50 years old made a 20 something girl pregnant? See why we call old men creepy? Like she just escaped her teenage years, her brain just finished developing and him a litterally grown up old man looked at her and went like "oh yeah wonder if she wants to be my girlfriend and have a child with me"
@@pan8086 shes in her prime of course he would want a baby with her
Rather be single than be forced to do dumb shit like that.
LOL! Facts!
It's stupid af ! 😒
You watched it though
@@rebeccanagawa3253 How is that in ANY way comparable? 🤣What an absolute clown you must be!
So?
At least she's honest...
Shes being sarcastic 😅
@@krystalkim1234 idk that "daddy issues" at the end had me bust out laughing im pretty sure that part is honest
@@krystalkim1234she's trying to be
She’ll eventually be his caregiver.
He’s really the smart one here lol
Who in the world would marry thinking that…. Jesus
If he has money, why wouldn't they hire someone? Seems unlikely to me that she's gonna end up his caregiver...
And he's gonna be in a nursing home while this little gold digging hoooker cleans his account 🧹🧼 and leaves him dry. watch n see😂
@@asiakymlol exactly people don’t think
there’s no pre-nup so if he gets sick she can just divorce him and take half his money 🤷♂️ messed up but possible
I was 37 and my wife was 21. After 19 years of marriage she left me for an older man. Go figure
Sorry. Its not age that really matters.
All the men who called this “sad and bad” are delusional about themselves. If you like young women, that comes with us being gold diggers. You’re a youth digger and we’re gold diggers it has ALWAYS been like this. so you want youthful young women for free???? You have mental issues if you think you deserve young women without providing what we want that is how it works and you must be entitled to think you deserve us without giving us what we want back. Everything is an exchange that is the law of reality down to physics itself. It annoys me that you men think you deserved the most desired of women and expect her not to want what she want from you. It’s a give and take. You’re must be dumb asf if you think I’ll let you date me at 18 when you’re not even financially stable and generous. That’s how objective reality has always work since the beginning of first humans.
Money talks bullshyt walks!!! Towards mo money
You mean richer man?
😂u weren't old enough
That’s enough youtube for today. Peace out ✌️
lmao
UA-cam overload after this video
Your comment made my day.
Same I'm gonna go to sleep it's 12:15 pm
Omg perfect
🤣🤣
That one bro that says "This kid got potential"💀
Young girls don’t get those type of comments though.
It’s so nice to see girls having fun with their dads
Pedophille
They do share a few facial similarities.
many couples do
@surlespasdondine hahaha... Not like "they both have a nose" or "they both have a mouth"....(you silly) I meant, the distance of their foreheads, the broad shape of their noses, their cheeks.... Keep in mind, I am NOT saying they are father and daughter, I am only saying what I commented....
😂😂😂😂😂
The best connections are when people are mentally on the same page. That's when communication and understanding happen
yea
Exactly...
And the money. Lets not beat around the bush. Or saw a tree... Grind it up and mash in thin sheets and print on it. It's the money.
@@eksteinmalan3517 that's very much to do with being in the same page...nobody is bitter around the bush...lol
Q
He was 30. I was 45. I thought he was a great piece that I would enjoy for a few years. He thought I was a great piece that he would wear out. He didn’t. Lol. I’m now 75 and he’s holding on for dear life. !!
You sound really toxic.
😂😂😂You just made my day! Women, in general, have more stamina than men!🤪I’ve been in a LDR with a man who is 12 years younger than myself. He turned 59 at the end of May and I turned 71 on August 4th. Thankfully, I look and feel much younger and he looks older. Lol We’re both widowed, but his wife was killed in a car accident in her forties about 12 years ago. He’s never been with an older woman but keeps telling me that age is just a number. It’s true, except when my body says otherwise! Lol Anyway, I’m so happy to know that there are successful relationships between an older woman and a younger man.😊The only comments I’ve been seeing are about the reverse! Anyway, we’re both old enough that our age difference doesn’t matter, plus love knows no boundaries.😍Congrats! May you enjoy another 30 years together!🤗💖
I LOVE it! Lol
HUH???
Love this!!!!😂❤😍 And now he is 60.... age doesn't seem such a big difference 60 and 75
So wholesome to see a father and his daughter having fun on the Internet together😊🌍
😊😊❤❤❤❤
Father or grandfather 🧐
Lol. Sad and pathetic.
Well he seems happy to validate her need for attention.
This comment deserves the most likes... SO ACCURATE!!!!
Money*
YUP!!!
😂😂By your comment I'm guessing you don't know this couple, Valeria and Gary??
@@xgeex7540 I do not.
I was 22 & fell in love with a 40 yr old man & I adored him!! He showed me how a woman should be treated - I felt safe! Still love him - he passed away in 2015!
That’s fantastic I don’t see the age having anything to do with it but great story
@@briandillow6767 What is your Problem, you troll?
@@DarkLightKisame what is my problem wtf ? What is a troll ? What’s wrong with you?
22 is a little to young.
SMH
"Age is just a number"
Yeah so is 911
" and Jail is just a place"
They're both adults-
@@InactiveTwig
No the guy is older then the girl they allready said so in the video-
@@ihateflaky12 ok but theyre still adults-
@@theanxiousone3061 to you
At 22 I married an older man .
The 15 year gap didn't seem like an issue.
We were ballin night & day.
It seemed copesetic.
Until I finally blossomed into
A FULL GROWN ADULT.
The marriage lasted 14 years.
The last 10 were the hardest.
I hate to break it to you, but you're a full grown adult at 22. That bit of development your brain still has to do before you're fully bloomed is negligible. My guess is that it was more likely that 4 years into it he wanted you to start acting your age or taking responsibility in the partnership, and you decided that he was a control jerk.
Also *copacetic
@@bufordhighwater9872 Modern women are infantile.
What are their “girls nights out” worth, when a group of old women ~50 years old get together.
Constant desire to look younger, even in the way they talk.
Because you came into your OWN personality and were no longer satisfied to blindly follow what the adult in the relationship told you to do?
@@bufordhighwater9872negligible?? No. It's either fully formed, or it's not.
There's also a HUGE power dynamic.
There so much more than
Ballin'- you put that so lovingly-
In a marriage
she's not delusional he's delusional
No shit
And he's also banging a hit 20 something year old. I think he wins today
@@Joeblk10 because of his money
@@metalgear6737 and only those without money care. Welcome to how it's worked for all of human history.
@@Joeblk10 that proves he’s delusional. She’s not with him because she is at all attracted to him, no he’s ugly. She’s with him because he has money. Stop indulging in this guys delusions.
I hope you have a long, happy and loving marriage. Age doesn't matter, my Dad was 16 years older than my Mom. and my Dad's brother married a woman 20 years older than him, they stayed together and loved each other until her last breath.
Ty I needed to read this! ❤
She doesn't even love him, she will be dumping him as soon as she gets what she wants 😅
Sorry but I see relationships like this as the man obviously can't be stimulated by a woman who has a greater sense of identity and intellect... he's still 15 years old in his head, sadly not in the bed😂
@Laura Lee Tannehill Even if it happens later in life?
@@L0uLaBear if you're referring to a woman being in her 40's and a man in his 60's or older? I believe that to be a relationship built on more equal levels of intellect and interests. This man is obviously 30 to 40 years her senior, he just wanted a hottie in the sack. I guarantee looking at his sloppy physique he couldn't keep up with me in the sack, hence why he chooses a young naive girl who hasn't fully come into her sexuality.
It is their problem, not ours.
Oh it will be our prob wen their on Dateline or the kids are screwed up
I just don't like how normalized this stuff is getting. Don't want to live in a world where people rather marinate in their illnesses than do something about it. Society is just going to shit. Doesn't matter, it's my problem, I know, I know.
Yes. There a lot of situations and circumstances that are not our business in life and in internet. Like gossiping about people’s private life’s. Now, in this case where a young adult lady exposes on internet her private life which specially calls out attention because is a topic about values. It could be our business if the first thing we are concerned when we saw this video is what impact this video will have in our immature, inexperienced young population? What young sector of the population will try to marry millionaires for money and not for love? Again, like I commented before, it can work if the couple is totally happy in this kind of relationship and at the same time, they should aware people who have access to their video that these kind of relationship doesn’t work for everybody, and advice young people not to copy them. Like a pack of cigarette that warns the user of the danger of a cigarette
Actually, it was posted here for us.
Well, it was their problem till she told the world. 😂
At least she is honest 💵
Nice to see a Grandpa making UA-cam videos with his grand daughter
Someone's bitter.
@@keithhinchcliffe5629yeah. He can’t afford a gf 😂
@@donnapug - 😄
@@donnapughe literally just did😂
Soooo you think 9 year olds can have kids. You're fkng sick!
My parents were 19 years apart... Started married 48.5 years and died inside of a year of each other. No one had money
That was a different generation!!!!
@@tehilagracie6466 LoL
Started?? How old were they when they got married and how long married?? Your comment doesn't make sense.
Me and my wife are 8 years apart and its perfect.
@joanarc7963 I have always felt 8 to 10 years is borderline for me, but if people are happy, then I am happy for them. My wife is 50, but she looks 35, so I see how people judge.
Should turn off my phone, enough youtube for today😂💀
Do the dance too 😂
@@armymoomoo9339 😂😂
Yea
Yes unfortunately that eventually happens when you surf youtube short videos for too long. Its weird how these stupid videos don't appear when you first start watching cos if they did It would stop me wasting time
Yes
It's sweet ❤ their children will have a dad and a granddad at the same time.
My husband was 25 years older. We had 10 good years, and 14 of a patient/nurse relationship.
Thanks for the warning
@@MissKrisLovesikr 🤭
When you was caring for him was you still looking after his shifter?
I swear you don't have to though
Gross
She seems like she knew what she wanted and he seems like he was on the market, God bless you both.
❤🙏🏻
Couldn't have said it any better myself. 💯👍
positive comments are the best comments.🌟
Yeah he's a sucker like seriously you got to always protect what you came into the marriage with sign a prenup he sounds like he may have been desperate as hell..
Anyting obtained during the marriage can be equally split but if you're as old as this guy and you got a lot of shit he's a damn fool not to sign a prenup you've got to protect what's yours I'm sure this guy worked far too long and hard to let some little girl take half of what's his
@@dask1516 In the video they give what a jealous or narcissistic person would say as their answers. In other words they are not being truthful but rather just playing. Knowing that, odds are that a prenup agreement has been signed..
That man is no sucker. He seems like a guy who knows what he wants and does the right thins to get them.
if she’s an asian, there’d be a whole lot of white people enraged
Honestly it looks like dad and his daughter just having fun…
That was my first thought too. Until I read the words...
Maybe even granddaughter
Until you see them in the bedroom I guess
@@lidiagutierrez7983 what a visual💀
Just the way they like it I guess 😐
"He's old enough to be your dad!"
As long as he is not her dad, I'm cool with it. 😂
😆😆
😂😂😂😂😂
Plot twist 😮
If her father were alive and a decent father, I can guarantee you that he wouldn't be OK with it. He would want someone more suitable and better for his daughter.
Patetic daddy issues 😂
My dad is 23 years older than my mom. They are still happily married. And now he is 91 and she is 68. He’s in good shape still & they have a good life!
Your mom could be his child 😮💨
@@flaky_salt yup he could totally be her dad. In fact, he was married previously and has two sons that are my mothers age. It’s all good though. It worked out in their lives but I get it’s not for everyone !
@@simonegarciatsu2854 wow 0:
Did he not feel awkward? But ig his kids were above 20
But still I wonder if he ever felt awkward dating someone the same age as his kids 🤔 😅
😞 now im really curious and nosy
To be honest is not that common to be in good shape after being 80 or more... They are lucky
Awesome. That’s beautiful ❤
My guy was 16 yrs senior. For one i respected him. For two i loved him. He was always good to me. He showed me the way. No one else could.❤
Yeah but that’s different then younger man older woman
@@briandillow6767 No, the Problem is you being a hypocrite.
@@DarkLightKisame wtf you talking about
@@briandillow6767 What is so hard to understand?
He show you his bank account thats why you married for money 🤑💰💰🤑💰
He gets to enjoy her youth till he dies, and she gets to enjoy his money after her youth! 😎
She gives him her youth and then he peaces out...not really a good situation.
$$$$@@$$$$
Purely transactional and soulless...love it! Get the bag gurlllll
Well said 👏 👌 😂
Welcome to the plan
It's not his age he's got to worry about now it's when he's 65 an older she will take it all.
Well he won’t need that money when he’s gone.
All those people hating on the couple and being "disgusted" by their relationship coz you think she is 18... She is 31 years old and they have three kids together! They are happy...let them be!
Think it's cos she looks 18 and he looks 65 no hate. Many large age gap couples exist but he looks older and she looks younger. They earning ps regardless 😅
@@dandaniellea2387 True ...lucky her, looks so youthful 😁. I just wish people would make the effort to find out facts before making rude comments. The first time I saw her a few years ago i also thought she was a teenager but then realised she wasnt 😁.
Its cuz she married him for his money
You are so cute!
How old is the old fart 60?
Not disgusted but jealous
Y’all know she being sarcastic right 💀
OOOOOH-
right...?🤔
Nah. I think there might be some truth to it😂😂😂😂
Yea Ok If you say so
Sure she is
My wife is 11 yrs older than me, but I actually look older at 44 than she does at 55. I didn't marry her for her money. She's a stay at home mom and proud trad wife. We've been married 17 yrs. I was originally attracted to her beauty, but fell in love with her practicality and maturity. The girls I dated in my 20s were immature, high maintenance and dramatic. She was down to earth and no BS. It was refreshing. She had a career for 27 yrs with the same company, but gave it up to raise our son. She's amazing.
Your wife sounds like an amazing woman. May the Almighty Creator bless you with his blessings and keep you together.
It's funny how no one seems to have a problem with an older woman being with a younger man these days don't give me wrong I think anything past 15 years is too much but if the younger person is over 28 they should be mature enough by then at least to make their own decisions you would hope
I think some of the comments are unfair. Imagine her marrying someone the same age as her who does not respect her and beats her .. As long as the man loves her and she loves him and they are ready to make commitments for marriage, she is happy. What prevents that?
I wish some people would be logical and mind their own business ..
Words are like weapons, they hurt and wound hearts❤..
My respect to everyone.
My dad married a woman 20 years younger. That was when he was around 48. He's now 82 and they're still happily married 😊. So all the best to you!
Rare story , you’ve got to admit 😂 it’s a unicorn. Look at marriage stats. She’s not Asian is she? 😂
I’m 69 now. But when I was 23 I had a girlfriend who was 37. We were having sex with each other every day. In hindsight she was the most compatible woman I ever met.
Oh wow his young wife is going to get the sweet life insurance and his kids are going to end up with nothing.
Could be a long con. My grandpa married a woman in his 50s who was 20 years younger. They were together over 30 years. The day after he died she put his dog down and threw out all his stuff. No one saw it coming, but lesson learned and it’s one I’ll never forget.
😊 best to them 💞 everyone’s story is unique
Love seeing dad and daughters together doing videos. That’s a cool dad
When my girlfriend and I have sex she calls me daddy .I'm not her dad though.
Lmfao 😂😂😂😂😂
Lmao😅
They are married and they have three kids, three boys. She's a model and he's rich. They look happy.
@@nataliachemeris5599it's gross though....would you let your young child date or marry someone 18 years older...that's a no no.
16 year gap between me and my ex. He was broke & i worked to support him and his two kids. What a fool i was. Unpaid nanny/bank.
Lmfao sooooo you did what men have been doing for all of time and hated it yeah? Say no more
You lived and you learned, that’s all that matters
@@datsmyshyt9714Not really no. It's unwise to brush off massive life mistakes in such a glib way.
That's time they won't get back.
@@tastypymp1287 I hear that, but in my opinion she finally realised that her situation was a lesson and not a blessing.
Lol No way
finally someone being honest 💕
When she's tryna make a video to troll the haters but actually means every single answer thinking we won't notice
Lol nothing wrong with marrying for security actually that’s a smart thing to do . She can love him and appreciate the security. He can love her beauty and still appreciate her as a person
@@EveofPyriteThat is grossly superficial. I thought the whole reason women entered the workforce and drastically cut mens wages overnight is so that you DIDNT have to marry for security. Which is it? You can't have your cake and eat it too
It’s sarcasm of what people think lol she does work. She talks about it in other videos ❤
@@EveofPyritetrue 🤷🏾♀️
@@EveofPyriteif your reason for marriage is security that is indeed a problem. Security may not always be there.
Security beauty, this things come and go. You better simply marry the PERSON you love and wanna spend your life with no matter what.
Its sad that people would think otherwise
I guess we have reached the pathetic stage in life where admitting you a gold digger gets you likes.
You all are rude!
And he is a pedophile.
@@retroredo9850na they all have problems with honesty
@@retroredo9850no just being honest. Instead of actually being a functioning member of society and working like most of us she spreads her legs to an older man for money and a comfy lifestyle.....
@@retroredo9850ah are you offended?
18 years is not that bad, especially she is already an adult when she met him. There are men at the same age or just few years older but they don’t treat you right and are abusive… vice versa. Age is not the issue, it’s respect, understanding and compromise between two people. Not everyone’s cup of tea but doesn’t make it wrong… it’s depends on individual.
Age is definitely an issue
I still find it disturbing
Age is something...just because you got abused doesn't mean you look for someone with a huge age gap than you. No, just no.
Age and maturity are too different things, and psychology plays a big roll in why people get abusive...really your thoughts and what you wrote really makes no sense, or justifies any reason to marry someone with a huge age gap.....get a grip on reality
@@luisgonzalez6728nothing you are saying is making any sense. You don't even have an argument. You just keep saying no, and that you find it disturbing. OK. If you stop being attracted to Victoria Secrets models just because you are older than them, then it's you that's kinda weird. I wouldn't want to date someone that much younger, but it's not because it would be disturbing, it's because she'd be annoying and try to get me to do TikTocs
He has to go down to her childish level😂😂
least she's being honest
or making fun of you.
Love comes and go. But everyone needs money.
@@marishka42 Absolutely Bullshit.
She’s being sarcastic and a lot of people don’t get it since they just randomly saw this video and don’t know anything about them lol
He knew. Good and well what she was after so he got what he wanted and so did she
My grandmother was 15 years older than her second husband. They lived over 55 years together.
Hello pretty
I mean when you’re honest and accepting of it, some people may not agree with it but that doesn’t matter. You do you, you’re grown and make you’re own decisions we have no say
That’ can get you into really merky waters “you do you” is cringe and overused
I don’t care as long as it’s not my daughter lol
@@angelolagrutta4679 we are all adults, we all make our own decisions. And we have to live with consequences of our decisions, it’s not our job to manage the people on the internet
@@butterpretzels8030 so if someone is doing something wrong and they don’t realize it you’re just gonna let that person continue to fall
@@angelolagrutta4679 no if someone is willingly being honest and understand and accept what they’re doing then we have no say. Obviously it depends on the situation but in this case she’s not really doing wrong, she’s an adult and she’s willfully in this relationship and if both parties in this relationship are ok with this then we have no say
I dated man who were older than me and thought it was cool but once I hit 40’s those gaps were no longer sexy or fun.
the lack of self awareness to make this comment. once you hit 40 older men werent interested anymore
15 year age difference between us. First time marriage for both of us. First time being a parent for both of us.
BEST years of our lives and our daughter is a wonderful soul. Cheers
Anyone who gives you crap is jealous and probably never had a successful relationship.
Wait till you are 60 and your wife is 45. Women peak later sexually.
15 years diff is not much. 🤷♂️
15 years difference is not an issue or a big deal. There is no comparison to the age difference to this couple.
My husband is 12 years younger than me. He was 33 and I was 45 when we met. He is my blessing and I know that I'm his blessing.
I think in todays land you’re supposed to make a tic tok about it so random people apparently know because they are supposed to apparently care. 🤷♀️😂
Not too much 12
You were old enough and wise enough to have known what you were getting into. I've known many more young ppl (late teens, early 20's) who were preyed upon by men in their 30's, 40's, and 50's who turned out to be abusive but who could only trick an inexperienced, gullible young person into what devolves quickly into a hostage situation.
@@avamasqueradeyoung men in their early 20s do the same thing all the time. The problem was never their age. The problem is they are sick bastards.
@@avamasqueradeno you just trying to defend her because shes a woman 😂
I married a man 21 years older than me, we were married for nearly 40 years before he passed away ❤
I’m
So sorry for your loss. 😢
I lost my boyfriend of 10 years, 10 years ago, he was 9 years older.
🕊️🙏
Lol
Committed to the end game plan
It the house great job guess you're in tik Tok digging more
She kisses him on the cheek like a daughter, and NOT on the lips like a wife/lLOVER‼️
It's not about the age gap . It's about how old is the youngest in the relationship THEN the age gap after that.
No it’s about the younger man older woman that is rare unique & that is amazing to pick the guys brain about
What a way to say nothing
Not really cause you can find the younger who is vastly mature & more importantly honors vows
@leebliss3622 bro you should really be looked into it obviously matters there's a difference if she was 18 and he was 36 versus if she was 25 huge difference (im 22 btw before you call me old)
My husband and I have a 27 yr age gap and have been married for 15 yrs and God willing we will make it to our 50th. I love him, plain and simple. Not every age gap marriage is about money. Sometimes we go through things and are more mature than guys our own age or guys our own age have traumatized us. As ling as God is your foundation then you will survive.
My boyfriend and I are 29 years apart. I don't think marriage is right for us in particular. We just had a 4 years together dinner. I am so attracted to him and I want to take care of him forever. ❤
@@GirlLunarExplorerI can not and am not trying to tell you what to do but am going to share my beliefs with you. I understand marriage can be scary and it is a serious commitment. If you truly love eachother and want to be together forever, then God would want you to make it right in his eyes and let him bless it. At the same time vows are serious so you want to pray about it an make sure that is the person God has for you. Gods commands are in place to protect us and each other. He takes these matters serious. God is love but he can not look upon sin. Bring your heart and love to God and let him lead you and you will be protected. 1st Corinthians 13 will teach you what true love really is. Please know i am not judging you as i am no where near perfect myself an have made many mistakes along the way. God bless you.
Lol😅😊😮😂
Honestly, WHEN you marry with that much of an age gap kinda matters. If, for example, you've both been alive for longer than the age gap and are at a similar life stage, then it doesn't matter. But if you're a 38 year-old man marrying an 18-year-old before she's even finished high school, people are going to worry the younger partner is getting preyed on. Meantime a 30-year-old marrying a 50-year-old wouldn't be as weird because both would be established adults. And a 60-year-old with an 80-year-old? No one would bat an eye.
@@wordforger Unfortunately, most do not worry about the younger one being preyed on. They worry the younger one is taking advantage of the older one. I have been continuously ridiculed throughout my marriage and even by a lawyer and doctor. I say pray for everyone and even our enemies just like Jesus says. There is a healthy and happy balance that can take place in age gap marriages and one of the benefits is that the older one can support the younger one as their grounding in life becomes more solid. The younger one can take care of the older one as they go on through life. Of course there is cons to but as long as the pros outweighs the cons and it is true Godly love, then it is worth it. It is the same as a non age gap marriage in many aspects.
In case anyone needs to know, she's 33, born in 1990. He's currently 51. They married when she was about 21-23, and he was 40-42 according to her math.
Yeah the age gap is kinda strange,
but they are both adults, and they share 3 biological children together so. Idk why people care about a marriage that's not their own.🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
Sounds like she has him good. She can divorce him now that it's been 10 years and get loads of child support. And she's only in her 30s can still get a another guy to take care of her.
I am happy for them. People are so superficial and forget these days, that relationships are much more than the physical.
@@DarkWolf-407 3 kids later probably wouldn’t be worth it lol
This would all be fine, if not the fact that he looks like he wants to shoot himself in the head right now!
@DarkWolf-407 if they've been together this long, AND have multiple children and probably investments together, I highly doubt that. She has no reason to divorce him. He has HER good
Edit:.
Plus, she's a mother of THREE. Do you know how hard it is for a recently divorced single mother of 3 children to get out in the dating pool and find a decent, and quality good man for her AND her children? It takes a long time to establish that, she can't just date anyone. She would have to date someone for a time to see if they pair well before she even introduces him to her kids. Then that's a whole nother thing from there. Is he a good step parent?
And what kind of guy is interested dating a woman with this kind of baggage? She's not going to leave her husband, unless he's treating her like crap.
I looove the way you did "obviously" and your face, so priceless 😂😂😂❤
Some of you're acting like they're gonna breakup soon when they've been together for a long time with 3 kids 😂
Right? I love both of them. Both nice, geniune people.
Good for her, more kids more child and spousal support...
🤣🤣🤣
That doesn't mean anything.
I mean thats great and all, fast forward 15-20 years and she's changing his diapers and pushing his weelchair 🤣
@@henrytenden It’s a joke! Seeing men get offended damn near mad for other men in situations they’ll never experience is hilarious 😂
I married someone 18 years older than me too - I personally do NOT recommend it.
What happened?
Please tell us!
Pray, tell us, we desire to know
Why?
Less of precious time you will have together👫
My mom married my stepdad whos 21 yrs older but issue is that he never did anything. She did all the indoor and outdoor chores. She always said he was old and also because he literally smoked for 35 yrs he messed up his lungs so much that he didnt mow grass because its bad for his lungs. He also cheated on her multiple times while she was pregnant with my younger sister. Age is a factor but how the person decides to lead a healthy and active lifestyle is important.
And she still loved him despite everything. When you marry someone, LOVE is not the sole reason you should marry them. If they take advantage of you, disrespect you, make you care for them and clean while they never do anything in return but say they pay for stuff. You will be a slave to that marriage. She wanted to leave him but doesnt because she wouldnt get much money from divorcing him.
He wasnt rich and he has an awful conceited personality.
People say theyre in love with spouse but if your spouse doesnt care for you when your sick its not an equal marriage. My mom is depressed, always exhausted and has bad health because of it. He doesnt care.
Age matters, she has had to literally wipe his nasty butt when he crapped his pants because hes old. If you wana date someone much older and be a caregiver just know thats a possibility. And when they pass, you wont have a spouse to grow old with unless you decide to get married. Shes too jaded to want to get married, she suffered enough taking care of him for 20 so years while he acts like a pampered princess. Even my younger sister, his own daughter hates his guts for what an awful person he is to our mom
This is the usual scenario in age gap relationships.
Your funny
I’m sorry….There will be some good days ahead.
sorry about your mom ..
My husband left us in March 2016, and I have not introduced even 1 man to my now 17 year old daughter.
My sister is always with her "best friend"/fuck buddy ever since 2014, even though her now 19 year old son does not like him. I cannot fathom why single mothers choose to not be single. The child should be number one priority, not a so-called man!
That man is a hero!
As long as they are happy, good for them. No one's business but theirs. She is a young woman and he is a mature man who will probably treat her better than anyone in her age range.
Not true😂 it really depends on the individual.
Also a fact!!! Boys these days, far n few between i should say, know chivalry or how to take care of a woman! 🤷♀️
Girls these days all want money.
She did say she married him for $$$
If no one's business why brag about it and making videos make it make sense and don't be delulu wise ones see right through them
😂😂😂😂😂😂 This is my best couple from today. They just told haters to fk off without saying fk off.😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤ ur soul mate can be older or younger.wish u all the best
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Yeah all the haters just because they in their own heads can’t see how an age difference works so they bash others cause of their own ignorance & it’s always oh the girl is just after his wallet or other way around oh he just wants pussy & he’s a pervert 🙄 those comments are signs of jealousy or ignorance cause they don’t understand it
ofcx old simps and young sugar babes gonna like this
@@ValeriaLipovetskyyou are groomed😂😂😂😂😂
Exactly but I wish they would just say F off!
The people in the comments getting mad obviously don't know what a joke is. Also, I see absolutely nothing wrong with a woman in her thirties talking about her marriage on her own account.
Coming from someone who’s name is Koi Fish. Obviously you’re a gold digger.
@@j.johnson8360 some people think they want their Johnson when they just want their bank account.
@@j.johnson8360 bro beileve me, you have said the most righteous thing in your life just now!
Why tf are his lips like that
The same ones bitching are those who live by the idea their value increases with age based on money and accomplishments, while women's diminishes by the same factors. The same breath they use to say the woman's accomplishments don't matter, they use to call the young ones gold diggers. Not at all confused as fuck
Sinning and admitting to it is wild
Im 53, my husband is 42. We've been together for 21 years, married for 20. He asked me out, and we never parted. Age really is a number, the mind & heart are what matters.
age is just a number ❤ when the Heart knows the Mind Follows
yeah, i agree, to a point. This girl was born while the guy was old enough to buy booze and drive a car.
@evilbron666 they have kids, their videos on UA-cam together are adorable. They seem happy & I'm betting she's older than looks, based on the ages of their kids. The point is, adults get to choose who they want to be with, it's not for us to decide.
@@KismetSarken and my point was, the guy was an adult the day she was born.
Age is a number after a certain point but i get you 😂
daddy issues is scary. if you have a daughter be sure to tell her how much you love her, respect her, protect her and take care of her. else someone who doesn't will say those things to sleep with her
Vital Krishna..
Relax..
I believe she's being light-hearted in her replies..
They look happy...
Good luck to them..
We neva kno where the future leads..
But hopefully their marriage and happiness last....😁❤
I agree.
Most with daddy issues don't have a dad at all in their childhood.
@@freespiritable Lies!!! 😂😂 Daddy issues don't always mean an absent dad. Even a narc dad or an emotionally unavailable dad will make you have daddy issues.
You are totally right
"Age is just a number"
"Sugar is just a candy"
( guys dont worry ik its a joke and she meant it sarcastic ) 💀💀
Prison is just a place
Candy daddy
They are both legal adults, therefore, it’s legal, may be creepy or weird, but it reality we can’t do shit about it
Yep, she is very creepy.
The reason is in mental growth. Usually a person in age after University graduation have nothing in common with person near 18yr age. (Of course except sex) And the gap in decades is very noticeable unless your body age and mental age are not the same. But if they happy and it's legal then just be happy :)
13 year age difference here. About to celebrate 33 years married. For a good part of our marriage, I made more money. My husband looks younger than he is, and I married him because he's wonderful.
13 year difference isn't that shocking. It's when they're old enough to be your dad or your mom that imo it gets truly weird
Same here. My husband is 13 years older than me. We have been together for 14 years. I met him while he was going through bankruptcy so the money questions goes out the window. The connection is what matters not the age.
Congrats. There is no way there is only 18 years age gap between these 2 though. She looks like early 20s and he in his 50s at least
That’s not that bad tho
@@Windycajra lot of men age really poorly. I'm female, 42, and most people still think I'm 30 or younger. A lot of men my age look 15 years older.
My husband and I have a 24 year age gap. 100% daddy issues (in my case) 🤷🏼♀️ My actual dad has more money than my husband, I have a career, and my ex (who I dumped) was a millionaire. People can think what they want, but never underestimate the dysfunctional power of growing up with a dad who was not nice.
Can I just say I dont understand the point youre trying to get across?
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Dysfunctional relationship between parents and their children can impact the romantic relationship of said children in the future
So you hate your husband? Wow. Because hes not rich? Good man but not rich
What's the point you're trying to prove?
Perfect conditional & mutual agreement as it's honesty 🤝
As he wears a balleciaga shirt! I think he likes it! ❤😂 yall are adorable!
My wife is 15 years younger than me, been married 17 years, so yeah, people get too hung up on ages, if your both adults, and get along, and make each other happy, THAT is the only thing that is important.
We're in concurrence there, but you already know that's just not enough for some people . . .and with that I hope you both last.🫠
Yeah youre a pdfile thats why
Adults" being the key word there...
she's a teenager, man. She just finished high school. that's sick
sorry. someone said she was 18.
@@inthetomorrows6528Yeah, I thought I read she MET him when she was 18. They have 3 sons.
For all the people out there talking out their asses… She’s 32. She has 3 children (presumably with him). She was a model. She’s now into holistic health and works as a nutritionist. She has a whole channel devoted to sharing life in her family.
This video is just the two of them making a joke and having some fun (although it is hilarious to think of a guy in his late 40’s being roped into making a TikTok video by his younger wife). They’re clearly happy together. I cannot stand the term “hater” and make a point of not using it, but this comments section is full of them. And BTW, it took me about 10 seconds to find out who she was.
Right, it's crazy how triggered people are because of a joke... 😂
@@SugarPlumFairy9because jealousy and ignorance makes them nasty🤦♀️ it's better for most people to judge than to actually find out the facts
99% of the hate comes from literal children lol anyone over the age of 18 with 2 brain cells to rub together knows if they're adults and they are consenting, then it is absolutley no ones business. But the internet toddlers think anything more that a 2 year age gap is a 'blasphemous cardinal sin that needs to be canceled' 😂😭
Simp
You probably watch "family channels". You don't know what cringe means.
“Sir what’s your name” “Peter file”
Lmao
Wikipedia-file
Yea hahaha Peter file YEAH RIGHT ON
That’s I’m assuming an attempt for you to be funny which it’s not, but if your serious that’s stupid ist comment of the day & yes I spelled it that way on purpose so save your ignorant comments, that is a comment of a very jealous person & jealousy is ugly no way relationships last with you, obviously to grown adults so your comment is wrong & just shows your ignorance
😂😂😂😂😂
My aunt married a man 15 years her senior when she was about my age (25-ish) and they’re still happily married over 20 years later. Being married to an older/younger person isn’t necessarily an issue, unless there’s grooming involved. People really need to mind they’re own business
I'm more concerned with a grown man making these videos.
Yeah. I would have told her "No, YOU can do that stupid crap."
Doubting he's hetero watching this.
Aye, after some good head a women could definitely sway you to do something dumb like this afterwards.
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If it brings in cash
you're concerned? bahahaaa. btw the woman is very grown too. deep in her 30s. you got serious mental problems, bro 🌝
I’m 22 years older than my wife. Did it work? We’re married 28 years with 2 wonderful kids and love each other even more today than when we married. There’s no play book for happiness folks. Things work and don’t work in all circumstances.
If you went for her in her early 20's I definitely think it could be considered predatory especially if she wasn't economically stable. We have a real problem with older men going for younger girls by using their status instead of their personality. Not saying you did that, just that we should acknowledge it.
Age gap is never a problem
22 years? I'm glad you're happy, but I don't think I could do that. Of course, I'm only 20, so who knows.
@@n1ck7hequick yeah same and I'm 21
Ask whether your wife is truly happy.
congratulations... people have hard time with sarcasm but i love the vibe you both give as a couple ❤️❤️❤️ all the best
You can’t have sarcasm on this topic, & you shouldn’t even try
Bro set an alarm for his friend's daughter's 18th birthday 💀
You go girl!!! You keep him younger and he keeps you grounded. ❤❤❤❤
Exactly.
I bet he smiles a lot more than his other married pals
Until he gets his credit card bills 😂
@@floreadsalot703 girl she is PAID 😂
Yep women don’t get it it’s right away oh he’s pervert 🙄 cheers to this dude just hope she is mature for her age & gets it, that’s only problem with us older men once we hit that beauty long enough it eventually comes down to how this chick handles herself handles her business in order for it to work, he’s lusting her body more than loving who the girl really is but one day that loving the girl for who she is will trump the girls body parts, that’s a promise
She is 18, do you think that she is mature enough to take such decision? Things will be much different when she turns 27 or 30 , i like them for now but the age gap is really huge and he is going to get very old by the time she is 30.
@@suzyben1984 real love doesn’t care how old you are & how old you look, I’ve seen many young girls with more maturity then elder ones & I’ve see relationships of this distance work fine, granted it was mostly Asian ladies, but some people do love for the right reasons & on the chance it doesn’t work out no one should be judging, 50% of marriages fail. Age difference shouldn’t be the reason everyone trips over, nobody asks the reason of divorce unless it’s age difference then they trip, & in the end who cares why it didn’t work it matters not in the end it just didn’t work, let them learn the lesson, there was love originally & when it works it’s beautiful . You don’t hear guys being all bent out of shape when it’s older women marrying younger guys it’s always the other way around, sounds like jealousy to me
😂😂That’s the way to shut down haters 😌
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With a cringe video.
@Princess Jiwy #ROADTO1K ?
@Princess Jiwy #ROADTO1K it’s the truth
@@nozzy.092 this video will add more haters then they all had
I have no comment how things like this would happen but u know, life is mysterious sometimes.... and we do not know what is happening behind the curtains.
When Ray William Johnson’s face didn’t pop up I was actually shocked.
I'm glad I'm not the only one.
Sameeeeee
Oh honey same
Lol
Same….
“Rather be an old man’s darling then a young man’s slave” comes to mind.
Yeahhhhh
Are these preconditions real definitions of relationships?
Nope! These older men think they can boss their young wife around from what I’ve heard from the very few I’ve known about.
I would rather be that bc dealing with a man baby that's the same age I am is not worth it.
@@red_edjWomen your age aren't that more mature by a long shot.
My boyfriend is 22 years younger and we’ve been together 17 years. Not for money although we went from broke living in a one br apt to living in out dream home with $500k worth of cars and no loans. We are more in love than we were 17 years ago. We are each others best friend and lover obviously!!
You secretly like high school jocks
Sending peace and love to both of you... 😊 may you grow old together and have lots of kid 😊
@@imnotgonnabescared🤣🤣
Wait if he was 20, then you were 42, that means when he's 40, you are gonna be 84 💀💀
@@MrWojas92 that would be disappointing to you because young people seem more attractive to you?
Heres a stat...just to throw it in to the mix. For couples with a 10 year age gap, they face 39% likelihood of divorce. If there is a 20 year gap in age, the likelihood jumps to 95%!