I'm glad this was in the past and you didn't stay with the person who was abusing you. An old high school friend of mine was in a relationship with a guy that was abusive towards her, I lost her friendship because that same guy convinced her I was not a good friend because I would tell her the truth about him and that she should tell the cops or her parents.
For any young girl or boy who might watch this, this is not love. This is not beautiful. This is not okay. Don’t idolize this. The show does such a good job at showing how toxic this relationship is for both Maddy and Nate. And if this relationship mirrors your own, run away.
Saying that barely works (not saying you shouldn't tho). Domestic violence statics say that most abusive relationships don't end until the abuser gets bored and wants to move on to abuse someone else, that's how hard it is to leave.
Im gonna keep saying it 100000 times if I have to ♥️ If someone reads that comment and gets a wake up call and gets away, thats all that matters. Stats are stats, im speaking to the one who will see it and be like “thats me”, and then do what they have to to leave and be safe. Its terrible :(
So glad you said it like this video is kind of sugar coating their relationship just cause Nate loves Maddie it still doesn’t make it right that he’s abusive I know younger kids would be watching this show but yeah hope they don’t fall for this
The relationship was sad but what upset me Most is the scene in the police station when they cuff her. Forcing a victim down and making them feel like the criminal will only make things worse. She’ll never ask for help now.
he purposely looks for the feminine attributes in her cause he’s afraid to be himself so he masks it with her. he wants to own/possess her and she’s too confident for him to do that. that’s where the abuse sets in, he gets mad at her for not doing as he wants her to do.
Us girls grow up thinking that if a boy annoys us or hates us that means he likes us. It carries on into adulthood and we end up in toxic relationships. ABUSE IS NOT OKAY PERIOD. if you need someone to talk to i’m here
I can’t stop watching this edit because I see myself in Maddy. Seemingly stuck in my head about the abuse that’s disguised as love. I want to move on but his imprints are stained on my skin. It’s been years and I’m still not done thinking about it.
same especially how distorted and unrealistic her idea of him is when he's literal garbage but she just loves him anyway even when she doesn't want to and when he's being a giant shit to her and others.
If anyone ever tells you you deserve better, run. That means they acknowledge they are acting shitty and are not willing to change. You deserve better.
Very wise words - even moreso when someone tells you that and you're confused because you think he treats you well. It might be for a number of reasons, but there's a chance he's saying that because he knows deep down that he's abusive and just biding his time.
I tell my boyfriend at all times that he deserves someone better, simply because I'm insecure and I have certain mental problems that make me unable to stop problematizing our relationship, I say this for fear that even though I try my best to change, I fear not being enough for what I think he deserves
Can i just stopp loving him? Just forget him for one week one day one hour one minute or one second? just not think about him? oh lord it’s sooo Aannooyyyingg hellpppp
Soleil babe go to work, or read book, or meet your friends! If you’ll break up with your bf and start to live your life, with your hobbies, friends and you’ll do what you want to do and you’ll stop to think about him - month - you’ll forget about him.
enikö sz Even if he is broken he doesn’t have a right to treat her like that, if he loved her he wouldn’t treat her like that, it’s a toxic and an abusive relationship
nate is some new type of messed up. i think it came from the shit with his dad and the tapes but still maddy deserves so much better tbh nate broke her
i think it depends on the definition of broken. i think nate just doesn't know how to love someone and doesn't know what real, healthy love is, because he's simply never seen it or more importantly experienced it himself. therefore he's unable to have a healthy relationship with maddie - he just doesn't know how. and maddie knows this, she even says it i think in one episode. but she just craves some form of love and doesn't really want to admit the harm it does to herself because she doesn't want to lose it, because to her no matter how bad it is its still more love than she's gotten from her home etc. i mean obviously we know this is wrong and that she doesnt need him but... this is from the POV of the two characters i think. so yes while maybe they both try they also both fail because they have no idea how to have a healthy relationship
Am 16.10 kann man sich die Serie, auf Sky atlantic Hd auf Deutsch, anschauen. Ich bin mir sicher, dass sie dann von diversen Seiten gestreamt wird und man sie sich anschauen kann.
i had a toxic relationship, but not exactly like this. if you’re in a relationship that doesn’t make you feel happy, or makes you feel like you’re not worth anything, please run. you deserve much better. i left, after months of emotional abuse. it was honestly one of the hardest times in my life but it helped me to grow into a more mature woman who finally knew her worth and wasn’t going to let a man determine my worth.
I’m currently in a relationship such a little similar to this but my bf does drugs that change him abusive. He still thinks he acts the same and I’ve tried leaving multiple times but he isn’t afraid to die or go to jail just to keep having me. I’m slowly trying to get away
Thank you guys 💜 it’s honestly took a toll on my mental health 😞 lately its more better sleeping than waking up next to him and coming home to him. I don’t love him as I did before but I care so much for him and no matter he did or does I will forgive him but not myself because I allow it. We’ve been together for 4 years and His threats finally took action which is very terrifying! It breaks my heart to see someone I’d die for turn into someone I’m afraid of. I just pray for his change and for him to realize that this isn’t ok and for him to finally let me go!
He's manipulating you into staying by threatening to harm himself because he knows you love me. What he does to himself is his job, you don't have to carry this weight on your shoulders constantly. Please leave the relationship if you're not happy because this is not love
this video was crazy to me. i had a similar relationship to this in 2018. and this song, this exact song was playing when he was in my arms crying, asking himself why he feels so numb, why the only time he can feel is on drugs. this was the first time he had cried since he was 12. i was crying because i just wanted him to be happy, even i couldn't make him happy. the only thing that could was drugs. and even that wasn't really happiness. i realised a year later, he didn't care about me he cared about how i made him feel. he manipulated and mentally abused me, but i loved him, and i didn't love myself. i cared about him more than myself. it was such a toxic relationship and i was so oblivious until i was out. i'll never forget about it, i'm a stronger, happier person now, but he'll stain my heart for life. so if you're watching this, please don't think this is right, don't think is healthy because it's not. i've been through it and it cost me my life. and if you've gone through this, you deserve all the love in the world. you're so strong.
I was in a maddy/nate relationship in high-school and it just continued into my 20s and part of early part of my 30s, things really progress. I love the line "gave me all the right attention at the wrong time " i finally fled my abusive relationship, pressed charges, got counseling, got clean, and now engaged to a pretty wonderful man.
It’s sad cause I think Maddy actually loved Nate but his internalized trauma cause of his dad and all he had seen prevented him from expressing what he felt for Jules. I think he went above and beyond for Maddy (all those flowers etc) to prove something to everyone. I think he cares for Maddy in the sense that she makes him feel safe. I feel kind of bad for him but that doesn’t excuse his behavior. The new season should be goooood.
Raven i dont like him being with jules, cause rules is too goddamn cute, but i hope they elaborate on the whole jules/nate story. would be really interesting
it makes me so sad that these type of things happen. if you are reading this and are going thru it right now, please know it's not real love. love is unconditional. love does not do this. this is anger, this is hatred. please know that you deserve better. leaving this person would be the best thing for you. you WILL find happiness and when u do in the future you'll tell your babies that you stood up for yourself and saved your own life. you got this. there is REAL love out there.
i love this. maddy needs to see her worth and grow as a person in season 2. nate needs to stop acting like his dad and stop tryna “protect” others when the damage is already done. abuse ain’t cute like half of y’all said you’re in something abusive leavee. this show showed me so many things i love it.
when you watch this after seeing 2 episodes of season 2, it just makes me love her character even more, and it infuriates me how her “bestfriend” could do what she did to her. phenomenal acting 🎭
The games you played were never fun You'd say you'd stay but then you'd run Giving you what you're begging for Giving you what you say I need I don't want any settled scores I just want you to set me free Giving you what you're begging for Giving you what you say I need, say I need I'm not afraid anymore What makes you sure you're all I need? Forget about it When you walk out the door and leave me torn You're teaching me to live without it Bored, I'm so bored, I'm so bored, so bored I'm home alone, you God knows where I hope you don't think that shit's fair Giving you all you want and more Giving you every piece of me But I will never can afford I just want you to love for free Can't you see that I'm getting bored? Giving you every piece of me, piece of me I'm not afraid anymore What makes you sure you're all I need? Forget about it When you walk out the door and leave me torn You're teaching me to live without it I'm so bored, I'm so bored, so bored Giving you what you're begging for Giving you what you say I need I don't want any settled scores I just want you to set me free Giving you what you're begging for Giving you what you say I need, say I need I'm not afraid anymore What makes you sure you're all I need? Forget about it And when you walk out the door and leave me torn You're teaching me to live without it
never in a million years did I think I would end up being maddy. I watched this show when it came out asking how could she stay truth is it’s not easy. we settle thinking it’s love when the entire time it was just pain on top of pain. One day I’ll take the courage and leave.
exactly, thank you for explaining how it is some people think it’s easy to leave toxic relationships like it’s not it’s not easy at all you just stick with the pain & let it effect you you can’t leave because there’s a side of you that believes he/she will change & love you back the way you love them. from my perspective that’s how it is to me & i wish anyone that’s in a unstoppable toxic relationship gets set free & they find the happiness they deserve ❤️
i wish that this was a stand alone music videos. i love music videos that tell a whole story without any dialogue and you can only hear the song. It gives the direction of the video so much more power.
Toxic relationships are mentally deteriorating. It’s not something you’d want to put yourself through. Arguing, fighting, and they’re the one who suffocate you, but when you’re apart you feel like you’re actually dying. That’s not love, that’s false hope. I remember first getting out a toxic relationship and realizing how peaceful everything was, and it scared me. It’s like I subconsciously craved for an argument or two. Because I missed him. That’s NOT love. I’d rather be bored, and lonely out of my mind. Than have someone who would break me, put me back together, but leave a few pieces behind. Love is having someone mold you and take on the weight of your struggles, and you do the same vice versa. Being able to sometimes be 50/50, 60/40, or 80/20. It’s understanding, realizing you’re an individual alone, and individualized happiness or love comes first before being happy or in love together. It’s sacrifice, and a few real tears. That’s what it is, and much more than I’ve figured out.
The second the person your with disrespects you - you put them in their place and set boundaries that you will not tolerate being disrespected. The right kind of man will listen to what you have said and not do it again, the wrong kind of man will ignore it because he has too much pride to except he’s in the wrong - and in that case you leave because those kind of men ain’t worth your time - trust their are better men out there for you❤️❤️
as a person who was in a relationship like this in highschool for almost 1 year , i can say that this shit is mentally fucking draining. but the thing is that at some point you don’t even want to end it because there’s always this one person who cares about you and i don’t care what anyone says - it IS love - just not the healthiest one. i don’t regret anything , i experienced what it’s like to be loved by someone so deep that it hurt and even the thought of him still makes me feel things i can’t even describe
I don't know why I felt so compelled to write this, as I've never been in such a relationship as this, but I want to. I want to because I want anyone reading this comment to know that someone who truly loves you will only want to uplift you and do so by being patient and sincere with you as a person. This relationship between Maddy and Nate is NOT love. They both are just in love with their idealizations of each other. Everyone on this show is. It's why it's called euphoria in the first place. I'm 19 and met my husband after almost being on the brink of not being on this planet anymore because of how much I didn't want to anymore. We met while I was 18, he 20. It'll be a year together in a month from now. This man truly loves me for me. And I know that within my soul. With how much pain I've harbored I still am amazed as to how I am here everyday. Yet not. I've come to realize on my own that all my decisions brought me to where I am today and I am continually doing what is best for myself by wanting better for my life. My future. My past. My present. With all the troubles I've had, he has ALWAYS, and i mean ALWAYS, been PATIENT. UNDERSTANDING. SINCERE. he has NEVER disrespected me. People say it's rare to find such a good man as many know the person he is, but I tell you, we both would not be together if it wasn't also me having to play MY part as a person. not in his story, or "our" story, but in MY OWN STORY! People don't talk about it but you have to fucking better your own life for nobody but you if you want to be truly happy! My husband has helpt me through so much, yet I've learnt that not even my beautiful husband whom I love with beyond of the beyonds can make me who I am not. When I am sad, it is up to me to make myself happy as I am the one writing my own story. I've learnt that and continue to learn so much. Work FOR yourself everybody. I met him doing one simple thing. Trying to make myself happy. Move forward with every step you carry yourself through in this world with that one destination in mind. Happiness. True happiness for your soul, the long term happiness that makes you feel genuinely healthy inside for having. Don't settle for the short term euphoria that you know you can't have forever. Work for that happiness that you know one can have for life. For yourself.
I’m not saying this type of behavior is ok, but I understand why she doesn’t leave :/ when you’re not fighting and crying over him, he makes you the happiest girl ever. You fall for his words every time. Yea sure, he promises to change, he promises he won’t do it again, and you give him another chance hoping he’ll change 🥺 and neither I nor anyone else can tell you to “leave him” it’s not easy as “just leave him” I wish ppl could understand it’s not that easy. Maybe it’s the fact that you been together for a long time or you think you won’t find love again, but I promise you will ❤️ and his name is Jesus...
You know it takes a women 7 tries to leave an abusive relationship and sometimes even longer because you either think that will be the last and they will change, or you think you don’t deserve better or you think you deserve the abuse. They literally make you feel like they are the best you can get. It’s not black and white.
I came into comments thinking that I would see comments romanticizing this kind of relationship, but I'm glad how Euphoria present them to understand that's not OK.
That's the thing adout abusive relationships the person either wants to leave or loves them to much to leave. And most people including myself cant even imagine what someone in a toxic and abusive relationship is going through, but I think maddy deserves so much more
I think she loves the idea of the father figure type boyfriend that he is despite the abuse, seeing as despite her dad being there physically he was never really there for her which is shown in the show when she is arguing with her mom. As for him, he just needs someone who will be there for him whenever he needs because he always had to be the stereotypical high school jock and he built up a lot of anger due to the issues he has with his dad. It makes him confused and he feels wrong for it making him even more unhappy. Overall creating the ,ironically perfect, toxic relationship. They need one to fill in the other despite the negatives and the red flags. It only makes them want to prove it to the other more.
People glamorize toxic relationships and say " it's okay for this to happen, I know he or she loves me " & that's what makes us stay. youre so blinded of what you want them to be and the ideas of them you created in you're head than rather who they really are.
this scares me that people go through these thing, and yes i'm saying people because men can also experience abuse, but the fact that this scares me into even thinking about being in a relationship with a boy is because you never actually know what he is capable of doing to you. and that kills me to think of.
Their relationship is exactly like the one I just got out of. A year and a half of this. The only difference is that my bf at the time wasn’t bi lmao. But god I’m glad that I’m out of it. It’s still affecting me, but I learned from it. People will only change if they want to, some people will always be manipulative abusive assholes.
To all the younger girls/boys: dont fall for guys like nate. Just dont. I know people romanticize abusive relationships but dont. If someone loves you they try their best not to hurt you .DONT FALL FOR GUYS LIKE NATE. if you're in an abusive relationship just quit. I know it sounds scary but i quit a 3 years old relationship and then i met the love of my life. Dont stay or start relationship with abusive people
Jacob elordi is such a great actor. I mean i hate nate with all the blood running through my veins, jacob potrays nate perfectly, in such a disgusting, broken, human garbage way. I think ive never hated a character as much as i hate nate which means the actor is really good at what he does
The emotion and physical abuse in their relationship was crazy....she just wanted him to love her the same way because she would do anything for him no matter what he did to her.
This clearly shows us how a parent can affect the whole life of their child their mistakes and their habits can traumatize the children. Love you children, be a nice person teach them good things... don't have kids if you don't know how to raise them
I had a relationship really similar to this in high school and it affected me for years. Abuse is never ok.
No, it's not. Hope u ok
I'm glad this was in the past and you didn't stay with the person who was abusing you. An old high school friend of mine was in a relationship with a guy that was abusive towards her, I lost her friendship because that same guy convinced her I was not a good friend because I would tell her the truth about him and that she should tell the cops or her parents.
Thank you both, I’m doing well now! I went to a lot of therapy and have learned how to cope properly.
Same.... but I’m used to being in abusive relationships...
Vanessa Night thats not something to get used to try and get help
For any young girl or boy who might watch this, this is not love. This is not beautiful. This is not okay. Don’t idolize this. The show does such a good job at showing how toxic this relationship is for both Maddy and Nate. And if this relationship mirrors your own, run away.
Saying that barely works (not saying you shouldn't tho). Domestic violence statics say that most abusive relationships don't end until the abuser gets bored and wants to move on to abuse someone else, that's how hard it is to leave.
Im gonna keep saying it 100000 times if I have to ♥️ If someone reads that comment and gets a wake up call and gets away, thats all that matters. Stats are stats, im speaking to the one who will see it and be like “thats me”, and then do what they have to to leave and be safe. Its terrible :(
So glad you said it like this video is kind of sugar coating their relationship just cause Nate loves Maddie it still doesn’t make it right that he’s abusive I know younger kids would be watching this show but yeah hope they don’t fall for this
father marx factz boo
This is a VERY GOOD comment...
The relationship was sad but what upset me
Most is the scene in the police station when they cuff her. Forcing a victim down and making them feel like the criminal will only make things worse. She’ll never ask for help now.
Agreed.
They just like cuffed her by all her limbs that's makes one feel vulnerable and powerless
I thought it was a metaphor that everything Jacob does to maddy causes her to cuff herself (or get attached) to him further.
Shiori Stapleton i didn’t see it like that but that could be possible
its just a show. they are characters.
I frickin love this especially maddy
Yess ✨💞
Ari Vin is this a tv show ?
Chelsea Logan
it’s called euphoria
Are y a toxic person to someone?
Girl yes
he doesn’t love her, he is obsessed with the idea of her
"You don't love me topper"
Raeghan Love “ you love the idea of me topper, you love being seen with me ”
yes indeed
@@ysl.barbiee "but you dont love me!"
he purposely looks for the feminine attributes in her cause he’s afraid to be himself so he masks it with her. he wants to own/possess her and she’s too confident for him to do that. that’s where the abuse sets in, he gets mad at her for not doing as he wants her to do.
Us girls grow up thinking that if a boy annoys us or hates us that means he likes us. It carries on into adulthood and we end up in toxic relationships.
ABUSE IS NOT OKAY PERIOD. if you need someone to talk to i’m here
also being forced to deal with abuse in our childhoods from adults makes us more tolerant of it as adults
You are a beautiful person
very true it’s so sad how we just accept abuse as love so quickly 😢
Aneeqa that’s what I’ve been saying
@@phuck8627 I agree
I never had a toxic relationship but this made me cry
good 🙂 , you dont really want one :/ .
I did, probably that's why I hate this Maddy character, because I'm looking in a mirror I guess
it suckz lol
it's horrible
That's exactly why you cried. You can feel it but can't at the same time haha! Cuz it never happened to you
💔
damn i hope she leaves him and grows as a person in season 2. this just breaks my heart
I T S C O C O when’s season 2 out?
@Piper Noble
i think it comes out some time this year or next year
i hope he comes out of the closet
Cameron Seymour *stfu he alr did that*
She’s so cute she deserves better
The saddest part is.. he knew that he was abusive..
Really?
@@justwannawatchyoutube6911 yeah, in the last episode when Maddy calls him psychopathic and abusive he says "I know"
he knew what he was doing was wrong, he knew he was messed up, he just didn't know if he'd ever be able to change
yh
Ooooooh so sad buuuu huuu
literally hate Nate so much and I hate how people always say stuff like “he could choke/abuse me like that and I wouldn’t tell” like that’s not okay.
Yes their normalizing abuse 😭it’s not okay
What’s the movie called
iisnaxck it’s a show called euphoria
i love jacob elordi but hate nates character. they’re completely different people when it comes to personalities
iisnaxck euphoria !!warning very rated r!!
Okay but ngl it pisses me off that this isn’t on Netflix lol
Kali Hardy Hardy same ffs
Kali Hardy Hardy Hbo and Netflix are rivals so never 😵
I just bought it on UA-cam
Sameeeeee
MISS THANG how?
The only thing cute about this relationship is the height differences
Fr
Agreed bro
I would kill for it lol
Tabi Tábita too soon
Daeja Byrd FACTS
two broken pieces trying to make themselves whole within each other... it’s toxic
Teenagers
adults do it too honey
Trinity Whitfield guess those ones forgot about individual therapy and couples counseling...what are ya gonna do ya know 🤷♀️
Seajay G lmao you’re ignorant af
It’s not always toxic sometimes it works out
I can’t stop watching this edit because I see myself in Maddy. Seemingly stuck in my head about the abuse that’s disguised as love. I want to move on but his imprints are stained on my skin. It’s been years and I’m still not done thinking about it.
Honey, is not easy, but don't be afraid to seek help 💔 be safe please
I hope your okay ❤️
same especially how distorted and unrealistic her idea of him is when he's literal garbage but she just loves him anyway even when she doesn't want to and when he's being a giant shit to her and others.
I really felt this
Me siento tan igual a ti... ojalá pueda salir
If anyone ever tells you you deserve better, run. That means they acknowledge they are acting shitty and are not willing to change. You deserve better.
Very wise words - even moreso when someone tells you that and you're confused because you think he treats you well. It might be for a number of reasons, but there's a chance he's saying that because he knows deep down that he's abusive and just biding his time.
@@OhNoBob Exactly.
I tell my boyfriend at all times that he deserves someone better, simply because I'm insecure and I have certain mental problems that make me unable to stop problematizing our relationship, I say this for fear that even though I try my best to change, I fear not being enough for what I think he deserves
Nobody deserves anything!
Can i just stopp loving him? Just forget him for one week one day one hour one minute or one second? just not think about him? oh lord it’s sooo Aannooyyyingg hellpppp
Soleil babe go to work, or read book, or meet your friends! If you’ll break up with your bf and start to live your life, with your hobbies, friends and you’ll do what you want to do and you’ll stop to think about him - month - you’ll forget about him.
Suzy Suzy Thank youu i‘ll try❤️❤️
Soleil you can but it’s gonna take some time :)
Mėł ❤️
Soleil I know it’s been a while but I just wanted to check and see how you’re doing
Honestly euphoria is the one of the best shows I’ve ever watched
Love, you, ❤❤
i think they both are broken but still try to love each other...
enikö sz Even if he is broken he doesn’t have a right to treat her like that, if he loved her he wouldn’t treat her like that, it’s a toxic and an abusive relationship
nate is some new type of messed up. i think it came from the shit with his dad and the tapes but still maddy deserves so much better tbh nate broke her
@@hudaalsulami5480 I don't think it's that simple
i think it depends on the definition of broken. i think nate just doesn't know how to love someone and doesn't know what real, healthy love is, because he's simply never seen it or more importantly experienced it himself. therefore he's unable to have a healthy relationship with maddie - he just doesn't know how. and maddie knows this, she even says it i think in one episode. but she just craves some form of love and doesn't really want to admit the harm it does to herself because she doesn't want to lose it, because to her no matter how bad it is its still more love than she's gotten from her home etc. i mean obviously we know this is wrong and that she doesnt need him but... this is from the POV of the two characters i think. so yes while maybe they both try they also both fail because they have no idea how to have a healthy relationship
maybe but its not real love
This fits so well
i love how the song just goes with the edit perfectly
This was pure perfection. Great job 😚😚
Kisses from Germany
i'm glad u liked it, ty!! 💕
Weißt du wo man die Serie in Deutschland ansehen kann?
@@theresag3969 Netflix oder burning series
Linda Konima Neee hab die bei Netflix nicht gefunden
Am 16.10 kann man sich die Serie, auf Sky atlantic Hd auf Deutsch, anschauen. Ich bin mir sicher, dass sie dann von diversen Seiten gestreamt wird und man sie sich anschauen kann.
i had a toxic relationship, but not exactly like this. if you’re in a relationship that doesn’t make you feel happy, or makes you feel like you’re not worth anything, please run. you deserve much better. i left, after months of emotional abuse. it was honestly one of the hardest times in my life but it helped me to grow into a more mature woman who finally knew her worth and wasn’t going to let a man determine my worth.
ugh i wish
I’m currently in a relationship such a little similar to this but my bf does drugs that change him abusive. He still thinks he acts the same and I’ve tried leaving multiple times but he isn’t afraid to die or go to jail just to keep having me. I’m slowly trying to get away
Karen Figueroa I hope you can get out of that horrible situation safely ❤️ no matter what you deserve much more that that. Stay safe please 🙏🏼
That's shitty, you don't deserve it at all. Hope u can get out of that, ask for help 💔
Thank you guys 💜 it’s honestly took a toll on my mental health 😞 lately its more better sleeping than waking up next to him and coming home to him. I don’t love him as I did before but I care so much for him and no matter he did or does I will forgive him but not myself because I allow it. We’ve been together for 4 years and His threats finally took action which is very terrifying! It breaks my heart to see someone I’d die for turn into someone I’m afraid of. I just pray for his change and for him to realize that this isn’t ok and for him to finally let me go!
@@ThePinker13 please please please seek out help! it is sooo hard to get out of a situation like that on your own
He's manipulating you into staying by threatening to harm himself because he knows you love me. What he does to himself is his job, you don't have to carry this weight on your shoulders constantly. Please leave the relationship if you're not happy because this is not love
this video was crazy to me. i had a similar relationship to this in 2018. and this song, this exact song was playing when he was in my arms crying, asking himself why he feels so numb, why the only time he can feel is on drugs. this was the first time he had cried since he was 12. i was crying because i just wanted him to be happy, even i couldn't make him happy. the only thing that could was drugs. and even that wasn't really happiness. i realised a year later, he didn't care about me he cared about how i made him feel. he manipulated and mentally abused me, but i loved him, and i didn't love myself. i cared about him more than myself. it was such a toxic relationship and i was so oblivious until i was out. i'll never forget about it, i'm a stronger, happier person now, but he'll stain my heart for life. so if you're watching this, please don't think this is right, don't think is healthy because it's not. i've been through it and it cost me my life. and if you've gone through this, you deserve all the love in the world. you're so strong.
I was in a maddy/nate relationship in high-school and it just continued into my 20s and part of early part of my 30s, things really progress. I love the line "gave me all the right attention at the wrong time " i finally fled my abusive relationship, pressed charges, got counseling, got clean, and now engaged to a pretty wonderful man.
I'm glad you got out ❤️😊
You know when your abusive hits so hard, that you don’t feel the pain anymore. You just feel lost.
sadly relatable :/
Tf
Tasha Phillips get help
Icthing and burning mind your business
Me rn
Toxic love.. This is usually the most beautiful relationship we've ever had but it's also the one we suffer the most exhausting
It’s sad cause I think Maddy actually loved Nate but his internalized trauma cause of his dad and all he had seen prevented him from expressing what he felt for Jules. I think he went above and beyond for Maddy (all those flowers etc) to prove something to everyone. I think he cares for Maddy in the sense that she makes him feel safe. I feel kind of bad for him but that doesn’t excuse his behavior. The new season should be goooood.
Raven i dont like him being with jules, cause rules is too goddamn cute, but i hope they elaborate on the whole jules/nate story. would be really interesting
This is one epic edit...love the way how it blends in well❤
Aw ty!! ❤
it makes me so sad that these type of things happen. if you are reading this and are going thru it right now, please know it's not real love. love is unconditional. love does not do this. this is anger, this is hatred. please know that you deserve better. leaving this person would be the best thing for you. you WILL find happiness and when u do in the future you'll tell your babies that you stood up for yourself and saved your own life. you got this. there is REAL love out there.
Oh my god I was just thinking of making an edit with this song. It's so perfect!!
💞
i love this. maddy needs to see her worth and grow as a person in season 2. nate needs to stop acting like his dad and stop tryna “protect” others when the damage is already done. abuse ain’t cute like half of y’all said you’re in something abusive leavee. this show showed me so many things i love it.
God Jacobs acting is on point
when you watch this after seeing 2 episodes of season 2, it just makes me love her character even more, and it infuriates me how her “bestfriend” could do what she did to her. phenomenal acting 🎭
this came out so good omg
they don’t love themselves and don’t know who they are so they look for it in someone else
This fits so well. They should have used this song in the show for them.
the way these actors have portrayed their characters is amazing 😳😳😳👏👏
The games you played were never fun
You'd say you'd stay but then you'd run
Giving you what you're begging for
Giving you what you say I need
I don't want any settled scores
I just want you to set me free
Giving you what you're begging for
Giving you what you say I need, say I need
I'm not afraid anymore
What makes you sure you're all I need?
Forget about it
When you walk out the door and leave me torn
You're teaching me to live without it
Bored, I'm so bored, I'm so bored, so bored
I'm home alone, you God knows where
I hope you don't think that shit's fair
Giving you all you want and more
Giving you every piece of me
But I will never can afford
I just want you to love for free
Can't you see that I'm getting bored?
Giving you every piece of me, piece of me
I'm not afraid anymore
What makes you sure you're all I need?
Forget about it
When you walk out the door and leave me torn
You're teaching me to live without it
I'm so bored, I'm so bored, so bored
Giving you what you're begging for
Giving you what you say I need
I don't want any settled scores
I just want you to set me free
Giving you what you're begging for
Giving you what you say I need, say I need
I'm not afraid anymore
What makes you sure you're all I need?
Forget about it
And when you walk out the door and leave me torn
You're teaching me to live without it
This song goes so well with the context of their relationship
Girls, Abuse is not ok
Ed:and boys
not just girls lol
and boys.
Noise Masterz bruh stfu
@@bri5607 Wtf, how about you stfu. He didnt say anything wrong.
@@noisemasterz2633 Boys abusive is like not even real.
This was so beautiful and relatable 🥺
never in a million years did I think I would end up being maddy. I watched this show when it came out asking how could she stay truth is it’s not easy. we settle thinking it’s love when the entire time it was just pain on top of pain. One day I’ll take the courage and leave.
exactly, thank you for explaining how it is some people think it’s easy to leave toxic relationships like it’s not it’s not easy at all you just stick with the pain & let it effect you you can’t leave because there’s a side of you that believes he/she will change & love you back the way you love them. from my perspective that’s how it is to me & i wish anyone that’s in a unstoppable toxic relationship gets set free & they find the happiness they deserve ❤️
i wish that this was a stand alone music videos. i love music videos that tell a whole story without any dialogue and you can only hear the song. It gives the direction of the video so much more power.
Toxic relationships are mentally deteriorating. It’s not something you’d want to put yourself through. Arguing, fighting, and they’re the one who suffocate you, but when you’re apart you feel like you’re actually dying.
That’s not love, that’s false hope. I remember first getting out a toxic relationship and realizing how peaceful everything was, and it scared me. It’s like I subconsciously craved for an argument or two. Because I missed him. That’s NOT love.
I’d rather be bored, and lonely out of my mind. Than have someone who would break me, put me back together, but leave a few pieces behind. Love is having someone mold you and take on the weight of your struggles, and you do the same vice versa. Being able to sometimes be 50/50, 60/40, or 80/20. It’s understanding, realizing you’re an individual alone, and individualized happiness or love comes first before being happy or in love together. It’s sacrifice, and a few real tears.
That’s what it is, and much more than I’ve figured out.
I’m not afraid anymore.
You’re teaching me to live without it.
They’re the only people who haven’t given up on each other despite seeing the worst of each other
The second the person your with disrespects you - you put them in their place and set boundaries that you will not tolerate being disrespected. The right kind of man will listen to what you have said and not do it again, the wrong kind of man will ignore it because he has too much pride to except he’s in the wrong - and in that case you leave because those kind of men ain’t worth your time - trust their are better men out there for you❤️❤️
as a person who was in a relationship like this in highschool for almost 1 year , i can say that this shit is mentally fucking draining. but the thing is that at some point you don’t even want to end it because there’s always this one person who cares about you and i don’t care what anyone says - it IS love - just not the healthiest one. i don’t regret anything , i experienced what it’s like to be loved by someone so deep that it hurt and even the thought of him still makes me feel things i can’t even describe
I don't know why I felt so compelled to write this, as I've never been in such a relationship as this, but I want to. I want to because I want anyone reading this comment to know that someone who truly loves you will only want to uplift you and do so by being patient and sincere with you as a person. This relationship between Maddy and Nate is NOT love. They both are just in love with their idealizations of each other. Everyone on this show is. It's why it's called euphoria in the first place.
I'm 19 and met my husband after almost being on the brink of not being on this planet anymore because of how much I didn't want to anymore. We met while I was 18, he 20. It'll be a year together in a month from now. This man truly loves me for me. And I know that within my soul. With how much pain I've harbored I still am amazed as to how I am here everyday. Yet not. I've come to realize on my own that all my decisions brought me to where I am today and I am continually doing what is best for myself by wanting better for my life. My future. My past. My present.
With all the troubles I've had, he has ALWAYS, and i mean ALWAYS, been PATIENT. UNDERSTANDING. SINCERE. he has NEVER disrespected me. People say it's rare to find such a good man as many know the person he is, but I tell you, we both would not be together if it wasn't also me having to play MY part as a person. not in his story, or "our" story, but in MY OWN STORY! People don't talk about it but you have to fucking better your own life for nobody but you if you want to be truly happy! My husband has helpt me through so much, yet I've learnt that not even my beautiful husband whom I love with beyond of the beyonds can make me who I am not. When I am sad, it is up to me to make myself happy as I am the one writing my own story. I've learnt that and continue to learn so much. Work FOR yourself everybody.
I met him doing one simple thing. Trying to make myself happy. Move forward with every step you carry yourself through in this world with that one destination in mind. Happiness. True happiness for your soul, the long term happiness that makes you feel genuinely healthy inside for having.
Don't settle for the short term euphoria that you know you can't have forever. Work for that happiness that you know one can have for life.
For yourself.
I’m not saying this type of behavior is ok, but I understand why she doesn’t leave :/ when you’re not fighting and crying over him, he makes you the happiest girl ever. You fall for his words every time. Yea sure, he promises to change, he promises he won’t do it again, and you give him another chance hoping he’ll change 🥺 and neither I nor anyone else can tell you to “leave him” it’s not easy as “just leave him” I wish ppl could understand it’s not that easy. Maybe it’s the fact that you been together for a long time or you think you won’t find love again, but I promise you will ❤️ and his name is Jesus...
U had me up until that last part 😭🤣
Vianey Pizana u had me until jesus
Karen Marie sounds like dependency
Just love yourself:v if you don’t love yourself, you can’t love anyone else, or so you’ll a selfish with him and yourself, and the toxic might be u
You know it takes a women 7 tries to leave an abusive relationship and sometimes even longer because you either think that will be the last and they will change, or you think you don’t deserve better or you think you deserve the abuse. They literally make you feel like they are the best you can get. It’s not black and white.
I came into comments thinking that I would see comments romanticizing this kind of relationship, but I'm glad how Euphoria present them to understand that's not OK.
That's the thing adout abusive relationships the person either wants to leave or loves them to much to leave. And most people including myself cant even imagine what someone in a toxic and abusive relationship is going through, but I think maddy deserves so much more
I think she loves the idea of the father figure type boyfriend that he is despite the abuse, seeing as despite her dad being there physically he was never really there for her which is shown in the show when she is arguing with her mom. As for him, he just needs someone who will be there for him whenever he needs because he always had to be the stereotypical high school jock and he built up a lot of anger due to the issues he has with his dad. It makes him confused and he feels wrong for it making him even more unhappy. Overall creating the ,ironically perfect, toxic relationship. They need one to fill in the other despite the negatives and the red flags. It only makes them want to prove it to the other more.
the sad thing is, most teenagers from this generation including myself don’t know how to leave relationships like this because it’s so normalized .
He likes jule right ? He likes maddy too ? I have not watch this series
Which série is that
Maddy needs someone who make her feel like the queen who she is
This video makes me so grateful that I got out of that kinda relationship
I hope you’re doing ok!❤️
This really showed the reality and pain of what some relationships go thru
All Billie Eilish songs suit perfectly Euphoria
this edit is amazing
Maddy deserved better 🥺💞
you did an incredible job! love it
things nate likes about maddy:
her body
her “loyalty” unlike other girls
his overprotectiveness of her
I’m obsessed.
good job!!😻😻😖
People glamorize toxic relationships and say " it's okay for this to happen, I know he or she loves me " & that's what makes us stay. youre so blinded of what you want them to be and the ideas of them you created in you're head than rather who they really are.
this scares me that people go through these thing, and yes i'm saying people because men can also experience abuse, but the fact that this scares me into even thinking about being in a relationship with a boy is because you never actually know what he is capable of doing to you. and that kills me to think of.
Their relationship is exactly like the one I just got out of. A year and a half of this. The only difference is that my bf at the time wasn’t bi lmao. But god I’m glad that I’m out of it. It’s still affecting me, but I learned from it. People will only change if they want to, some people will always be manipulative abusive assholes.
Preach!
dude this show in general triggered me in ways that i can't even explain
He really loved her💕
I’m not even scared to admit it but I cry every time I see Jacob elordi-
This brings back memories of me & my ex. I miss him so much but I know ending it with him was the best for the both of us
To all the younger girls/boys: dont fall for guys like nate. Just dont. I know people romanticize abusive relationships but dont. If someone loves you they try their best not to hurt you .DONT FALL FOR GUYS LIKE NATE. if you're in an abusive relationship just quit. I know it sounds scary but i quit a 3 years old relationship and then i met the love of my life. Dont stay or start relationship with abusive people
No matter what, i love this relationship ❤️🩹
when it said “she hated herself because she couldn’t stop loving him” IT HURTT😭😭
“ your all I need” that hit
I like your edit ♡
Thank u 💞
this edit is sooo good love it xxx
Billie Eilish really went from making little songs in her room on SoundCloud to having Grammy winning work ending up on various films and TV shows...
Ok, but can we talk abt the AMAZING editing skilsssssdd💘💘💘💘💘💘💘
The fact I'm looking at this and Billie Eilish won 5 Grammy's last night.
seriously i love this amv great job
i know toxic relationships are never okay but i truely think that nate loves maddy its just he knows how to protect her from everyone but himself.
Ma girl sent me this ✊🏻❤️ best vibes yet
Jacob elordi is such a great actor. I mean i hate nate with all the blood running through my veins, jacob potrays nate perfectly, in such a disgusting, broken, human garbage way. I think ive never hated a character as much as i hate nate which means the actor is really good at what he does
can't stop watching this
I'm so glad Alexa Demie got a big break in euphoria. She's amazing and portrayed maddy so well.
this made me cry so much.
Amazing😍. Kisses from Russia)
I cried with this vid and i'm not even in a relationship.
She craves to be loved. we all do.
This clip really fits to the song Easier by Shaker.... chills 🥶
what maddy and nate have reminds me of what harley quinn and the joker had.
This actually I haven’t cried in so long 😢
The emotion and physical abuse in their relationship was crazy....she just wanted him to love her the same way because she would do anything for him no matter what he did to her.
Two lovely heart that met in the dark but can’t love
i think there relationship is filled with love and along with toxicity at the same time and neither of them realize it
Bruh the song goes so well with this
This clearly shows us how a parent can affect the whole life of their child their mistakes and their habits can traumatize the children. Love you children, be a nice person teach them good things... don't have kids if you don't know how to raise them
this hit different. like hard.